Divorce First, Divide Assets Later
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- Опубліковано 8 гру 2022
- The plaintiff has been married to the defendant for 10 years, but then he cheated on her with one of her best friends. She wants a divorce, and she’s suing her estranged husband for stolen property. The defendant says the plaintiff is just angry he doesn’t want her, and while he admits to cheating, he insists the plaintiff cheated too.
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When a man leaves the home and doesn't say a word. He is done with the relationship.
I agree men don't need closure to a relationship
@@donyemonroe4577 A Trillion Likes!!!! IT IS OVER!!!!!
Not done just no if he do or don’t she’s still going to complain
Sometimes you have to learn the type of person you're dealing with. Some will create endless chaos and relationship drama, making promises without really intending to keep them in that _"what you don't know won't hurt you"_ kind of way. Whereas they may sporadically and unpredictably disappear randomly and at will, they always return to home base, essentially doing their own thing without having any intention of actually leaving the relationship for good. These are the ones that will actually need a little *_push_* to get going as they're not actually going to leave on their own - or you could stay as some choose to do.
I totally agree
Girl just get the divorce
She really doesn't want a divorce. She wants him to pull his weight.
She wants attention!
@@daimonmarioperez9501 u don't know nothing about this woman. She probably the same or worst
@@HNiCDuke Neither do you. I do know what she said after the case was over . There's nothing stopping him from leaving. 🤔
I can't even watch the rest of this. Smh
Don’t let no one tell you more than once that they don’t want you or whatever Judge Lynn said…
Best judge for me. Lynn Toler ❤️
This Comment 🥴💯
Don’t let a man tell you he don’t love you twice
@edwardabbey5840 open your mind wiiiide like a prairie!!
@@QueenStizzle lmao what that was the quote🤣
She can combat all that frustration by getting that divorce & moving on. She's not over him though.
At all.
Sounds like the desire to have dad at home still runs strong in her...can't blame her...too bad dude can't get it together and be present and working hard for his kids and their mom...
Exactly
or.maybe.she.could.step.up.as.a.mom?Working.twelve.hours.a.day.six.days.a.week.not.to.mention.driving.a.hour.there.and.har.hour.back.That's.16.hr.days.right.there.When.he.comes.home,everything.at..home.should.be.taken.care.of.If.she.don't.like.it.then.divorce.him.already.@@jbkprod07
I’ll never understand how someone cheats with their significant others best friend. I really can’t wrap my head around that like how does that even get started.
"Harmless Flirting"
No regard 4 other's Feelings. Hence No respect...etc.
Her friend probably looks good af🤷🏾♂️
I’ll tell you how; People underestimate the power of sexual energy. Energy IS NEVER DESTROYED IT JUST TRANSFERS. Bottom line don’t have anyone around your spouse, don’t tell anyone about your relationship and ONLY resolve issues between each other.
@@iwishyouwould9985 Well said
@@michaelallen4766 🤬🙏BULL💩! YOU JUST (DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION WHERE YOU ARE 'ALONE' WITH YOUR PEOPLES!👌💯🙏💣 (THERE ARE 'RULES' IN LIFE! A LINE THAT YOU JUST 'DON'T EVER' CROSS!)!!!!!👌💣💣💣💯👋"
He does not care. It’s obvious he has checked out of this marriage.
It’s not a crime to not care it’s moving on she needs to learn how to
@@Orlandoloc83why won't HE file for divorce??
@@tatianadaniel3569cus apparently she makes all the money ahaha
the defendant is very much giving major payne vibes😂😂😂
😂
That’s who it is! I couldn’t pinpoint it lol
He Looks Like A Fine Ass Keenan Waynes 😊
I was so disappointed when he didn't have gold teeth. 🤣
@@goodne3608 I scrolled down just to see if anybody else stated what I was thinking.
Did anyone else notice that after she started that fake he said don't fall for that she stopped and said she only cheated because he cheated and then continued on with her case normally?😆
Straightened up quick😂
It was emotional for her because she wants to keep him around. She doesn’t want to feel like a failure. I’ve been there. Very emotional because I wanted to move on, but didn’t want to stay & remain unhappy. Stuck in a hard place of “what will my children think” “Scared to not have the little to no support that I was getting that I made fit our equation” It’s a lot. Then he let her know that he really doesn’t care by saying don’t fall for that and now she has to man up. I completely understand the tears and emotions.
Those are crocodile tears. Women have perfected it. Lol. I once saw a woman cry really hard at the DMV. She cried like she was hurt or in a real bad pain. They were closing the line and told her to come back the very next day. But, she kept insisting they let her stay in the line. After crying for few minutes they eventually gave up let her go through. All the crying and tears quickly stopped like it never happened. It was an instant thing.
😁😁🤭🤭🤨😏🙄😮💨
😂😂😂😂
I know his type. He knows she presents as emotional, so if he’s quiet long enough, and says the right things, he comes off as reasonable and she’ll look crazy. JM missed the whole point of him being hardworking and providing YEARS AGO. As of right now, she’s holding it down and he pops in and takes advantage when he feels like it. Girl, stop letting him back in!
You are absolutely right. But in the end she would've still lost the case since it was marital property. But you are absolutely right.
She thinks everything is hers.. she clearly doesn’t understand marriage.. Me me me me
Judge ain't miss nothin'. She hasn't divorced him yet.
@Derrick johnson Of course this would be your opinion 🙄
@@Bih1stOfAllHe's not wrong she is about me me me but once he cheated it should have done
She's playing the victim but still trying to hold on🙄
Who wouldn't though. Divorcing someone is confusing as hell. You loved this person enough to marry this whole person. But then selfishness sets in and it becomes confusing,. Do I let them go when I love them and want this for my children. Divorce is not easy, and what to do is even harder. Only years later do you learn if you did the right thing or not!!!
You called it!!!
Pathetic. plus making EXCUSES for him because she wants to keep that unfruitful marriage due to the kids
She must not be praying but arguing with him. Let him keep the items taken. Doesn't he know that the children seeing all this mess and conflict and at the end they are the ones to suffer and have trauma and all sorts of setbacks because their parents couldn't get their acts together for healing and forgiveness for peacefulness
@@KINGDOMDAUGHTER and alot of ppl don't pray at all very true of what you said.
Some people just can't move on. If she did he may have seen her differently.
The judge dismissed that man’s infidelity
What’s there to talk about, they were both cheating.
He picks and chooses what he wants to speak on
Yep he did after the Judah’s though that she had him doing housework after her 12 hR shift. Even if he did, those are his kids too and mothers don’t get a break. Not saying he should be doing it all the time if she doesn’t work outside the home, but they are his responsibility as well.
At the end of the day he does not want to be with her a man who loves his wife will not cheat and cheating it's not a crime when someone shows you that they are sleeping around you should move on in the marriage and move forward
He always excuses men’s infidelity by saying he understands they feel the need to stray time to time. And to “give them another chance”. I hate when he does that
He had enough energy to slip out after 12 hr shifts, but not enough to spend time w/ his wife 🤔. Sounds like an excuse. My husband is dead tired after pulling CQ, so he's not running out to anyone's streets...He's running to bed to get some rest after I feed him. This dude is so bellligerent towards her like she was smashing his best friend & not the other way around...
She shouldn't have been so forgiving; look how ungrateful he is. He repays her kindness with evil & resentment, & Mathis has no discernment to pick up that he ran game on him, b/c he identifies w/ ANY bm that walks in there & wants so badly to see only the good in them ignoring all the glaring signs 🙄...
Hopefully she really gets her divorce, b/c any asset she acquires during the legal marriage is considered joint property. When she's finally done w/ him is when the shift will turn in her favor; God is ready to vindicate her when she's ready... Time to pivot sis. Gotta leave the wrong husband to receive the right one 🤷🏾♀️.
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Nah anybody that works 12hrs cares for the kids and STILL want to leave out … DONT WANT YOU she’s delusional
@@cyyrious You CLEARLY weren't listening to all the details of the case & foolishly only listened to his lies. You are male-identified, or a male posing as a female w/ that avatar pic, b/c you dismissed EVERYTHING she said clarifying that he ONLY worked the 1st 5 yrs & he did NOT help w/ the kids; the last 5 years he did NOT work, so SHE paid for everything (he didn't deny when she said this).
Do you REALLY think he'd have the time or energy to work 12 hrs/day, 6 days/wk, come home to cook, care for the children, & still run out the house on the 2 hrs left after he did all that?🤣...So homie didn't sleep AT ALL for 5 yrs? Come on, please find some common sense & use it before you talk to me...
Better yet, just don't talk to me. I don't receive dusty pick-me energy; it wasn't until I realized my value that I met a man like my husband, & now I only converse/ associate w/ like-minded respectable women who have self-respect in healthy unions too...Pick-mes always project their low self-esteem & lack of self-respect onto other women trying to drag us down w/ them being an embarrassment, & almost always are long-term girlfriends/ baby mamas to dusty broke males instead of wives in healthy marriages I can relate to, so please don't reach out to me for my attention & conversation 🤷🏾♀️...We can't relate to each other.
Not God man alot of things that happen is a man and she is doing all that crying she admitted he was a hard worker and now she lost the case he isn't get out of here and black need to stop going on these shows making black look bad keep the stuff to your self for goodness sake
@@dsanders799 Omg...Can anyone translate this to English please? Not one run-on sentence was constructed properly in the English language, so I'm not sure what you're trying to say other than you write like an uneducated racist from an undeveloped 3rd world country perhaps trying to bash Blk people in general based on the ones you choose to watch on TV...🤦🏾♀️. If you're from a country where English is the primary language, then shame on everyone responsible for your education and upbringing (no pun; they really did fail).
Don't complain about Trump supporters then who want to be rid of uneducated people unless they're wht, & who certainly want to remove foreigners & their anchor babies who offend them by not knowing how to speak, read, or write the English languish fluently like you demonstrated 🙄...
Hilarious when he don’t fall for those tears they sure did dry up fast 😂
Marriage is not a competition, and true love is about giving and not taking. These two obviously didn't get the memo smh.
A lot of females have that mindset of entitlement that’s the issue
When one is giving and the other one is taking advantage and only do the minimum, then yes it is a competition and toxic relationship
U are right it to stay on the same team reel talk
More than anything, she seems to have a problem with being *too* tolerant. I understand he held a special place being her "first" who she then married plus she wanted her children to grow up with a man/father in the home but he was providing a poor example of stability. In contrast, he seems to have problems with *_consistently contributing, and being forthright and principled._*
He worked his tail off 5 years. She probably was in school getting a degree to get better job. When she made more money she wanted out!
This is a mess. They need to get divorced for the sake of the kids wow 😂
She won't divorce him because she loves him and she wants her family to be whole. That's not a difficult thing to ascertain. Why won't he divorce her if he's bold enough to sleep with her best friend and leave and be that disrespectful on a consistent basis? Why do we not acknowledge the deep pain that is caused by the betrayal of infidelity and a family ending?
I have a friend they are still married both cheated but no one will get a divorce I don’t get it they even sleep in separate rooms 🤷🏽♀️
he clearly wants the divorce she didn't just like you assumed i assume she know she isn't going to find a man on his level could be a fair way to see it.
Hello there nice to meet you here I was thinking if we can keep in touch
@@knorris9765 his level? The level of dumpster juice?
She's fighting it and if 1 party is fighting it (especially women ) it will get dragged out there a married couple getting a DNA test because she was cheating they were married 20 years but not living together more than half of it he wants a divorce she won't give it to him claiming they are married for live and it's what god wanted even though she broke the vows.
When will people learn that its hard to sue and collect from a spouse?
NO' Actually it's NOT
@@ANGELAKCLAY yes it actually is.
@@Ianisatool ACTUALLY' It's NOT!
@@ANGELAKCLAY yes
@@Ianisatool no, it’s hard for men to get palimony. Not the other way around
Girl he doesn't need a key to YOUR apartment to be a part of the children's lives. He coming in there and doing whatever he wants to do in the name of being a good dad, then going to his own place and being free. Nope! Boundaries sis Boundaries. Your children see this dynamic and it's messing them up. Get visitation times in place which have nothing to do with him coming into your house. Eliminate that immediately!
That part!
BLACK WOMEN YOU CANNOT MOW OVER CHEATING AND BAD TREATMENT FROM YOUR MAN.. ESPECIALLY A BLACK MAN.. HE ALREADY DON'T RESPECT YOU, AND HE WON'T GAIN RESPECT FOR YOU FOR FORGIVING HIM.. THEY'LL ONLY MAKE A BIGGER FOOL OUT OF YOU.
Bet you didn’t know this “black woman”you so highly speak of, is in prison at this moment for a reverse mortgage scam. She scammed a 66 year old woman out her home valued at 1.7 million and sold it with her new boyfriend for $991,000. She was arrested after appearing on deal or no deal, and winning 400 grand. Don’t believe me? Just goggle “Tonika Miller deal or no deal..😂😂😂 We know “some brothers” ain’t crap………on the other hand, some of the “sisters” ain’t worth a damn as well….So should Tonika be the standard for ALL black women?
What if a black women cheats first? She probably did cheated then that what cause him to disappear. Just because a women emotional means she’s telling the truth
Facts
@@ernestjackson6639were you watching the episode ? Both of them agree she cheated after he cheated . Context clues brother .
All that what about the women as a response to bad behavior is the problem .
When she said he was her first time/boyfriend I already knew. He is taking advantage of her. He'll never divorce her. She is a beautiful intelligent woman. Hope she sees her worth and moves on.
I thought I heard that she cheated with her first time boyfriend..
Send her a DM jmoney
She didn’t want a divorce. Girl bye.
Exactly!!
He’s full of excuses going on about his life like he wasn’t a married man let your wife no where your going it’s called a partnership 🙄🙄🙄🙄
JM defending him like he was overworked and underpaid 😭. Sounds like the life of a wife 😂. Ninjas is pitiful.
The dude didn’t make any excuses he just explained himself. Notice she said shit was all good when he waS working all then hours and still coming home and taking care of the kids. She even said that he wanted to do those things.
Exactly.
@@simonsez1787 its all good now, our queens are swirling and our kings arr marrying abroad. Chefs kiss to WS they've did a remarkable job finessing our community into self inflicted ruins.
@@censorshipagainstthemiddle6198 I guess 🥴 lol
JM will always take the side of the man as long he says he worked. Or used to work LMAO she ain't know
You right about that and I’m a man he be sounding silly. Why can’t a man come home from work and prepare kids for bed and run their baths it’s woman who have to do this on a regular basis. He claim he don’t do double standards but it’s clear he put more pressure on woman and men can do the bare minimum
Omg finally a comment I fully align with ! JM didn’t like her and zoned in on the man and actually gave him kudos for being a FATHER! As if him doing his fatherly duties was extra and yes I get that he WAS working but what about his wife never getting a break or working as well … JM at times screams toxic masculinity and patriarchy🥴
you very well may be right about that but i don’t think it has anything to do with “toxic masculinity”.. judge mathis is just old school and the culture he grew up in is completely different from today’s.
Right?!?!!! Women have jobs, cook, clean, prepare the kids for school, take the kids from place to place, pay bills, etc. They don't get a pat on the back. A man does 20% of that and everyone bows down. GTFOH. The double standards is real.
Right... I've noticed that too... They could've did a 3 month seasonal job at McDonald's back in 2010 and Mathis will give them credit like they're paying all the bills🤣... He has even lower standards for bm than the women who finally get fed up w/ them. If he's supposed to be their mentor & has no expectations of them, then no wonder the bar is in h*ll for them.
Between coddling bw & older bm making excuses for them, they won't elevate as men who can actually compete & progress like that. D*mn shame like a parent w/ NO hope for their kids, so they expect NOTHING from them🤷🏾♀️.
One thing Mathis gunna do is talk about himself during somebody's else's case 🙄😅
She is such a actress , I didn’t believe a thing she said and that fake cry 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She talking about he coming and eating up all kids foods😂 well don’t let him it’s simple some people cry about things they allow to happen sometimes you have to let your mind do the driving instead of your heart ❤️🔥
She did stop the second the defendant told the judge 'dont' fall for that'. Like immediately. And what did she say to get the helicopters and 5 squad cars on him? He could have died.
I just knew when judge Mathis said “current husband” that she wasn’t gonna win. Why didn’t anyone tell her how difficult it is to sue a spouse??
Maybe she should watch more JM he tells litigants that all the time
Stop letting him take stuff...get the divorce and determine what's rightfully yours...
Not judge applauding this man for doing wtf he’s SUPPOSED to do.
l was thinking the same thing.
What is he supposed to do?
She should move on, she is still young enough to get a better man.
He can do the same
Yea better men love single mothers 🤨
@@jamalj8660 Some of them do. Just like some good women would be with single dads.
@@minervaloves Single mother and single father are completely different as far as what the opposite is attracted to. Also most of the time the kids don't live with the man. So a better man, will be someone that has a lot going for himself. That man will have options and would rather go with someone without that drama.
She did move on… she is in prison for 3yrs
Those 6-6 shifts be rough
Is he paying child support? And or did you put him on child support. Stop letting him in your home to eat and to take up space to say he is spending time with the children. Let him spend time with the children at his own place and or out of the home. Draw up a 50/50 parenting plan and let him see that children care does take work [ 3.5 days with you and 3.5 days with him]; then let us see if he can travail tru to being a good daddy and not a cheater bum
Get that divorce, you are not compatible and he is showing his fruit. Do not let because you have children with this unfruitful husband will make the relationship better.
Look at how he took the items without even asking and reasoning; who does this, especially when the kids are involved and seeing such; plus witnessing the distress upon their mother. He is just a deadbeat,
Girl RUN RUN RUN RUN back to the courthouse and file that divorce, split any assets and get your name back, heal, move forward and pray that a fruitful man will love you and your kids how a Queen should be loves, valued, respected, cherish, to show the children the difference
Stop making EXCUSES for him now, tit for tat cheating is not fixing a marriage. He failed to honor his vows and the EXCUSES for such is just as is excuse
Damn. That fake cry was really a cry. She stop so fast. She a bird.
I would never use my kids as an excuse to stay in a relationship with a toxic cheating spouse. Cuz if I’m not 100% happy my kids would feel that so how is that better smh
J M always gotta tell you his story we been hearing since 1998. We got it Judge
I can’t imagine cheating on someone out of spite or anything. Just leave the relationship why stoop to that level and put yourself at risk?
This generation is like that
@@Genna295have you ever cheated?
@@tatianadaniel3569 yes
@@Genna295 So what do you mean by "this generation is like that"?
If you cheat on someone, you can't be mad if they turn around and "cheat back" (not saying it's right either way)
@@tatianadaniel3569 not getting mad, just saying thats how they are, not everyone who got cheated on, tries to get a lick back, some people just keep it pushing
She ain't ready to leave him. All he got to say is "let's work it out" and she will come running.
And I love his lie about how tired he was after working. Too tired to spend time with his family but somehow found the time and strength to chase ass.
Young Ladies stop being in such a rush to settle down unless he is OLDER AND MATURE.
Marrying another young man who is still trying to figure out life and explore as well isn't good.
The older ones ain’t too much better 😅
Can’t trust the plaintiff. As much concealer as she got on she’s gotta be hiding something 🤭
😂😂😂😂 I can’t lmao
Wow
😂😂😂😂
Her swaying into the courtroom was an audition for the next man 😇
😂
Lmaooooo😂😂😂😂😂
She acted so disgusted when Judge asked if they were getting back together but still hasn’t divorced him😂
Talking about she want her kids to have a dad in the home. Clearly the daddy don’t want to be in the home LET IT GO..
on again, off again = toxic 😂
I knew the outcome before the case even started. You need to be divorced legally before you even think about this mine or that lol
Not everyone needs to be married...legally. ppl feel like signing that document is authenticating thier relationship. However, I had to study Marraige as a contract in a law class. I think signing that contract needs to make sense to the couple in terms of thier finances and thier collective goals as a family. I see so many ppl come out of marraiges having lost so much in finances and some having to start over again. I also have a good friend who has her own law practice and her focus is Divorce...she is very wealthy...
I feel as though they should find a way to work it out...we don't want y'all!🤣🤭
You can tell he’s a manipulator. Hopefully she gets the strength to fully move on
l agree. Judge Math's fell for his B.S
Not only does he not want her but he's actually still using her and lying about who he is right now. He is having a deficit impact in her life not a neutral one.
Hello there nice to meet you here I was thinking if we can keep in touch
How quickly she stopped crying. Girl, you did your dirt too. She seems manipulative and a liar. Calling the cops and talking about "I dont know why they responded like that". Both need to leave each other.
She married a pookie
He married a Peggy Bundy
How she stop 😢lol he said don't fall for that😂😂😂
He been over her she just convince now
Yep... When he said , " I don't want Her" the Look on her face was HURT...
Wow there is no such thing as 50/50 in a marriage when you love someone and love your marriage you pour love into it it's not a competition and communication is key I feel a lot of these men marry these women but they don't actually like their spouse they do it out of obligation this is why it's very important who you decide to procreate with this beautiful Union called marriage is not for the faint of heart no one ever said it would be effortless you work at what you love!
You cheat with my friend, don't come back to my home, pull up, and the kids will come to your car because I'm teaching you all about boundaries....smh
Notice how she says my kids and he says our kids. She complains about money even tho he takes care of the kids. Yeah my guy… I get it
He was walking in the door and wasnt saying Hi, he was walking out the door and wasnt saying bye 😢 so sad bc when it gets to that point, that means its def time to move on and pursue better hun... you're worth way more than you may know❤
She’s hurt but won’t leave him. I’m confused lol😂🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She's definitely going through withdrawal...He kicked her out of Cumberland. Even her friend sampled the pickle and she gave it, With the Quickest! The Dill can be a hell of a drug! 🤣🤣🤣
Hey y’all! ❤
The only thing about this case is how Judge Mathis basically said the dad was doing too much because he worked 😒. If she is a stay at mom and that’s the arrangement then fine. BUT let’s say she works how is that fair? Lol it’s crazy they are his kids too lol
Right? Even if she didn’t work, a tired father should still be engaging with the child so bathing them at night is bonding. Being the parent that just looks at your homework and that you sit up and watch tv with is not the same as being the parent serving the meals, helping with the homework, etc etc. Children form attachments based on who does the labor of caring for them. He may not have to bathe them every night after a 12, but some
Nights I would expect the father to want to provide some direct care for the kids.
Judge Mathis got this one right just give it up. We all know she was acting yes he cheated on her with her best friend supposed to be best friend and that was wrong but they wasn’t going to court for that and two years ago. The man was working 12 to 16 hour shifts six days a week and had to come home to bathe the kids when you is there to bathe the kids. And you cheated first.😂
@@dawnhawkins9699 Those kids should already be feed and showed by the time he gets their if she is home maker. Madness!
@@glennhawkins34 can you not hear he cheated first with her best friend
I went to school with the Plantiff she was on an episode of Fear Factor and went missing in Highschool after she crashed her mother car
Is this the same Tonika Miller that went to jail for real estate fraud and was also on Deal or No Deal?
Yep
Divorce first makes a lot more sense then assets later.
Not that ONE person clapping in audience for her talking about women empowerment🤣🤣
Lol clapping for single parenthood like life goals.
@@mrglass311 That's better than staying in a toxic and/or abusive relationship
@@minervaloves FO’REAL
She needs to change her locks 🔒 and file for divorce with abandoned and adultery, If he left your house. he is no longer living there and put alarm on the door and windows. If he doesn't know the pwd, the police will take him to jail. He will only come when you at home because he doesn't want to go to jail. You can receive child support until your divorce and if yall get back together, don't cancel the child support while back together.
Poor, poor man had to bathe his kids. Are you kidding me!? What was the wife doing all day, nonstop, before that? Children don't give mom an hour lunch and two 15-minute breaks during the day!
Ok, what's your point? He's working 12 hrs shift, six days a week. Any man or woman would be exhausted. Are you kidding me?!?!
That part did baffle me a little. My dad worked much longer hours outside the home, but he was always active in our care when he was home. Not because my mom was lazy ( there were 8 of us and she was an extremely involved mother), but my dad was active with us because we were his kids too.
Regardless of work my husband and I support each other in all aspects of caring for our home, children, and each other.
I can’t believe the judge scoffed at him bathing the kids 😅. Still, the plaintiff said his claims were untrue, but it she has a hard time explaining the full picture of what the household looked like.
@@trappnerd5185 my point was the woman is working all day long too! Seven days a week and more than 12 hours a day. Anyone that thinks childcare is a walk in the park either hasn’t done it or has one very well behaved child.
I'm SCREAMING at ole girl (black jacket) giving the plaintiff the creepy stare down when she (Tonika) walked in the courtroom! Umm... ma'am!!!...eyes straight ahead please!🤦🏿♀️😂😂😂
JM saying "good luck to you and your divorce" 😂
Miserable After 5 YEARS??!!
GURRRLLL
Smh at this dude! Mane, you got a good woman, drop everything else and KEEP her. Do right by her
He wont he still stuck on shit he did 5 yrs ago when they were married 10 yrs. So 5 of them yrs he didn't work at all. Just in them streets chasing hoes
Can we please say that her makeup is gorgeous 🥰
Indeed it is.
Yes! She's pretty too.
She is gorgeous
No
Call a locksmith from the next county if there aren't any in yours???
Hello there nice to meet you here I was thinking if we can keep in touch
He's was so done with her before he even left. Just move on.
Stop accepting the victim role and divorce him.
I use to wonder why my homeboy's say keep your own bank account even if you married sheesh mine mine mine.
That one person clapping at the end 😂 girl bye
The fake Valley girl voice lol
😆 🤣 😂 😹 Stop!
Maybe she was raised in the suburbs.
That's called an educated voice and why is that a problem or people making comments about it. You must not be used to classy educated professional articulate black women
How do you know it's fake and not her accent?
@Topher Grant doubt it she looks like a la female
She is still hurt, upset and still wants to be with him and she's deep into that victim mentality.
Now he may have cheated and probably have made bad decisions as a husband but the fact that he worked 12 hour shifts like that to hold down his family speaks to character, good character and great discipline.
Women have to also learn what turns a man off because looks is not the only thing. Being a nagging complainer, constantly dismissing a man and condemning him when he's trying hard can really manifest into a deal breaker.
That's what it looks like may have happen here.
But that was in the beginning. Judge Mathis wouldn't let her finish. That was the first five years. The last five years he's not doing that.
I thank you so much for this Queen ❤
Still… you so tired but got time to bust nuts with other women other than your wife?!?! It wipes away everything in my eyes. We would of BEEN done tho.
A man of good character doesn't sleep with your best friend. A man of good character lets his wife know when he is leaving the house & tells her where he is going. A man of good character will not continue to play with her emotions, giving her and the children false hope that their family will get back together. Don't think the kids aren't watching how he is treating their mother. You can defend the man all you want, but God has given a real man the responsibility of guiding his house. This ain't it.
FACTS! When a man comes home from work he wants peace and quiet. Not nagging and complaining. That's why he would "slip out" the house behind her back. How would she react if he said "I need to slip out the house because of your nagging and complaining"? That would start a bigger argument.
She stopped crying fast... Lol
She needs to move on. Being pathetic isn’t attractive.
When did this turn into divorce court?
I believe every word she says. I was married to one of those. JM was FOOLED
She doesn't sound like a good wife. She needs to file for divorce and move on.
His mind is probably at peace. She just yap yap yap!!!!
That young lady wasn't lying..she hurt by him
I hope everyone has a wonderful Saturday/Weekend!!! ✌️🙏
He thinks it’s too much to get the kids ready for bed? Boy please
She is irky. And u can see she is over dramatic. Ungrateful also..
I hate how the judge did her , that’s sad , he is always taking up for bums!
Yeah you can't sue your current spouse in small claims court. That was obvious from the jump.
JM can't rule on her emotions. They're still technically married and she's suing for joint property. If he doesn't care about keeping the family together then she has to do what is best for her and the children. Which is not an off and on again relationship with their dad
She needs to go to his house and take his ish. 🤷🏽♀️
He's taking shit from you because you're letting him, sis. Tighten up ❤
They were not ready for marriage. PERIOD!
That lady was not her best friend if she slept with her husband
The plaintiff seems to be mixed up and probably needs counseling
If I received a brick for every time the defendant said “you know” I could build a house 😂😂😂😂
Confused. A father isn’t supposed to share the duties of the kids? When did that become a standard??
She doesn’t understand marriage she keeps saying, my my my
Pathetic. plus making EXCUSES for him because she wants to keep that unfruitful marriage due to the kids
She must not be praying but arguing with him. Let him keep the items taken. Doesn't he know that the children seeing all this mess and conflict and at the end they are the ones to suffer and have trauma and all sorts of setbacks because their parents couldn't get their acts together for healing and forgiveness for peacefulness
Her true colors came out at the end. I saw right through her after she tried the fake crying game. She is VERY selfish. Notice how she keeps saying MY MY MY
@Lurking In Da Comments notice how she says when he was working & brought the money home it was all good. Soon as the man fell on hard times she suddenly wants a divorce & she’s tired of him ?? Men are not loved. They are tolerated because they provide. Once we can’t provide the world has no use for us
@Lurking In Da Comments no. The first thing that happens is the bi**h at home starts complaining because the bread ain’t coming. This lady didn’t have a problem with him until he stopped “working hard”. Aka didn’t have no money to give her. If you ask me he needs to Gtf away from here
@@lurkingindacomments7865 she was on deal or no deal before the plaintiff went to prison and has to pay 1.6 million on a reverse mortage scheme
Just bc you work doesn't keep you from doing stuff with your kids...Judge cut it out. It didn't stop him from leaving when he felt like it....he wasn't that tired
Don't get it twisted Judge Mathis SAHM work 12 hour shifts to and we don't have an outlet during those hours.