Dean Wayne I think you’re absolutely right and the stigma of addiction probably makes it harder for folk to get clean properly and with their health being the paramount objective, not just getting off the stuff ASAP. I wonder , did you read that there was no drug paraphernalia whatsoever in her home when she was found ?
@@MsFifi11c I didn't know that about Peaches. Was their an inquest into her death? There's suspicious circumstances surrounding Michael's death too. Bob was fueled by hatred back then. He couldn't accept Paula leaving him. I'm not saying he murdered him, Michael and Bob had exchanged words shortly before Michael died and 'Saint' Bob wielded a lot of power at the time, probably still does.
Ellie Aquitaine as far as I know just the usual inquest when someone is found dead unexpectedly, not a criminal investigation as such , I couldn’t agree with you more about the circumstances surrounding Michaels death
@@MsFifi11c That must have seemed odd at the time if there were no signs of drug use. I've seen other people say Bob was somehow involved but I didn't understand why. They also say he was involved in Paula's death too. We'll never know the truth about Michael. He's still deeply missed and loved in Australia. People come up with all kinds of theories. The strangest thing I recently discovered was that it was Paula who postponed the court hearing, not Bob. I never took to her, it's hard to explain but if she did that she was playing mind games with him.
I thought the end of that sentence was going to be negative, I was about to say I don't believe you!!! He seems like such a lovely man and obviously deeply compassionate. I'm glad he's also that way in person! So tragic what's happened to him
@pam blankenship because of his connection to the ( now dead ) Queen of England 👁 She’s the Queen of Baby eating #pedogate #pizzagate #FollowTheWhiteRabbit ✨✨✨
Loves the sound off his own voice...funny hes from dublin like bono and there disliked and dispised by most people in dublin.its the sheer arrogance off this puppet for bankers and millionaires..have a look at his efforts to save africa closely. And u wont believe the corruption and stupidity..hes a pawn.just like bono..
@duncan stirling yeah please enlighten us. She was a married woman with two children, not a child. So you are basically insinuating that if someone takes drugs it is the parents fault. I had a brother who died from heroin at 33 many years ago. He went to grammar school, handsome, wife and 2 children. Some people are self destructive and make their own decisions. Doesn't matter how much they are loved and to be honest they are selfish. How dare you blame this man for it, you disgust me.
We all fail as parents in some way or another. Bob Geldof's guilt is what any parent would feel and my heart aches for him. I am so so sorry for his and his family's loss.
I wish that sentiment would echo for both fathers and mothers if it had happened to a mother and the father was the one who was dead the mother would be shamed and dragged the world is a lot more cruel to mothers people would have nit picked the mother to death even though she was grieving and is already torturing herself with the what if questions. I just wish it was more equal if the roles were reversed is all that I am saying. The mom community is brutal.
Wow. He has been through the hardest things life has to offer and still keeps moving forward. What an inspiration. I don't want to imagine the death of a child but I am scared to death for my 19 year old daughter. And you know what? I think what hurt her the most is her family and home coming apart when she was seven. Divorce is much harder than people think. I'm so sorry for your losses Mr. Geldof. Thank you for continuing to show up -you are amazing!
Well divorce is ok when parents keep their cool and don't go at war with each other.... Also having parents struggling with mental health and drug addiction doesn't help.
Don't make a difference whos and who's not to blame.. A beautiful girl, wife, mother and daughter had died so let's respect that for her family's sake at least.
Sir Bob Geldoff is man who had the congitive ability and enhanced empathy to mobilize millions of people around the world to help thousands of people who were litterally starving to death. Love him or loath him, this is a very special and hugely significant person. The trauma he has gone though in the last 20 years is unimaginable. He lost his wife to another man made worse by the media frenzy that ensued. Then, within 5 years of their fated realationship, both were dead. He took on their child that Paula and Michael had together, again, displaying unique empathy for that that little girl. Then, he looses his beloved daughter. I'm sure we all feel empathy for this man aswell as admiration and respect. Bob Geldoff, in my humble opinion, is a very decent and special human being.
Did he really??? For i remember stories of rotten food and food collected not getting to the people, maybe we were in different realities. i remember many dying in Darfur in a genocide.
@Eel Yes I deleted it as I posted it to the wrong comment. It's still there. And please shut up. We all know you're a troll that knows nothing about anyone so why you're trying so hard to be relevant and act as if you have personal knowledge of any celebrity is just pathetic.
@Eel Aaa You're pathetic. You don't have a decent reply because you know R is right. Please what do you have to say about your DUMBASS not knowing Bob or his daughter personally and not being there. People can easily lie online. Especially people YOU DON'T KNOW and imbeciles like you will just believe them and start forming stupid biased opinions about people YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW. YOU'RE A PATHETIC HUMAN BEING. WOW
I've lost an adult daughter and son I know how he feels don't say it was their fault they were old enough to know etc wait until you know how people feel there mental state there for the grace go I
My daughter was stillborn in August 1997, and I will blame myself forever for not keeping her safe, especially while still inside me. I don’t care how many people tell me it was just something that happened!! I failed her as her mummy, and will until I die and see her again.
I really do like this man a lot. He has been through hell. However always thinks of others first. He’s been heart broken , bereaved twice over now- as he clearly was still smitten with Paula until the day she tragically died. He took on another mans child to be with her siblings. He’s raised awareness and money for the less fortunate and I just think he is a wonderful man.
He also sold Paula's 2 homes with all the contents in it, including the photos of Tiger and her dad. (look up the story of tragic Paula's house for sale). Paula, clearly got a lot from the estate of Michael's, even making Collin Diamond - Michael's corrupt financial advisor - Tiger's godfather. She bought 2 homes, paid off millions in legal fees and debt & lived very well ..SOOOOOO what did Bob do wth Michael's estate money that he got by adopting Tiger? Tiger said she didn't get a thing and given, paula's homes were worth over a million each plus savings, that as more than enough to cover her schooling and nanny's.
His interview with 60 Minutes talking about Michael Hutchence made me sick to my stomach. He kept saying how/why could he do that and that it was in his song, was unbelievable. MH had a brain injury, drug addiction, wanted to see his child for Xmas, fought with Paula constantly, had more media in his face and vultures constantly coming at him for fame and fortune, no privacy, etc. How could anyone not understand it? But to put it in a song for Tiger Lily to have to hear from someone that’s supposed to be close to her and protect her from all the BS is beyond incomprehensible. To have such a selfish attitude over a divorce is weak and pathetic. Every relationship takes 2 and even if he could say it was 100% all Paula’s and Michael’s fault, divorce is nothing compared to what happens to millions of other people throughout their lives. Divorce happens to a lot of people so why on earth did he think he was so special that it would never happen to him being a drug addict and all he did in such an industry. He held onto that BS for a very long time long after Paula’s death. To write a song like that has to make us question if he actually was/is trying to hold a lot against Tiger Lily for his anger and hatred towards MH. I wouldn’t believe a single word he ever said. Lots of drug addiction around a lot of people in this man’s life and it’s not hard to see why.
What's this the troll page? Get over yourselves. There's no such thing as the perfect parent, come to think of it there's no such thing as the perfect anything. The man has lost a daughter (doesn't matter under what circumstances), give him a break. I'm sure he is no saint but he brought about Live Aid not to mention raised another man's child. I personally think that takes someone quite remarkable. What did you do?
very sad death.I live in the South Wales Valleys where heroin is rampant and the death toll here is crazy.2015 was a bad year I lost 6 very close friends that year but all together it must be around 40 friends I have lost to drugs or suicide (drugs caused almost every suicide) it's unreal to think back and count all the names,lost my best butty when he was just 17 and I was 18 it was big news back then.Now 20 years later around 40 of the boys have gone and around half where very close friend and the rest were friends or boys I was in school with,it's madness around here,every valley is the same.
Largesse1000 ithink your being very harsh on Bob of course he's going to talk about it on TV he's in the public eye he probably gets asked about his Daughters Death every where he goe's at least in a studio environment it's better than having the gutter press write what they like.It is very brave of him to discuss this and if he helps anyone by doing this then that can only be a good thing.In private he will be grieving in ways unimaginable and nobody will see that not even his other children I wish peace and happiness for him he's a good man and real men have emotions and are a loud to talk about there feelings.
Linda McBride yes I get it Linda it's heart breaking when you lose a child you never get over it but some how we carry on but it hurts every day it's been 9years since the loss of my son and not one day goe's by when I don't think of the ifs buts or maybes.❤'s out to you
Look, in the end,the addict he or she IS RESPONSIBLE. Sir Bob gets too much hate! What went down he had. No control. She was,indeed a adult. Poor man looks like he’s also been accused of the death of Michael Hutchence ( lies I feel,you’re looking for someone to blame!) so maybe imperfect man, but a murderer? I doubt this…..think of his WIFE! Listen she actually had said to Michael that you marry me or I’ll commit suicide then you’ll never see Tigerlily again! End quote. Still Paula Yates fandom? Wicked game “ Yes I’m quite aware she’s died poor Peaches . Like I said you refuse help Or refuse to help yourself. What the F do you think will happen? Is it any wonder Bob seeked refuge in a small island far far away from everyone & everything? HELL! I’d have done the same HE still seems to be feeling such tragically bad. Press on his arse. Leave him be Bc of him Tigerlily grew up normally no drugs that I heard anyways ) Yes now she’s looking much like Michael. But, Bob deserves credit For stepping it When they Couldn’t care for her then Worst of all, She lost them. ❤
Sir Bob has had a difficult time between Paula's divorce from him and the custody thing and then her death by overdose. Then Peaches. The people left behind, who loved this person, are the ones who suffer.
Also I would add that maybe it's because parents who choose to name their children odd names are not very stable parents or they are prone to unusual ways of parenting that result in the child having issues
WE DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO LECTURE YOUNG PEOPLE TO NOT TAKE DRUGS WHEN WE CAN,T OFFER THEM ANYTHING BETTER.WE AS ADULTS HAVE TURNED THE WORLD INTO A HORRIBLE PLACE. YOUNG PEOPLE SIMPLY WANT TO ESCAPE FROM THE AWFUL REALITY WE HAVE CREATED.
Strange that he made her go to school and carry on as normal (according to her in an interview with Elle magazine in 2013) the day after her mothers death when she was 11 years old.
1 second ago He tormented Paula and made her and the kids life miserable for years after she left him for Michael. At least he’s taking some responsibility for putting his male ego before healthy co-parenting when he had the chance.
No one should judge anyone live your life & remember to loose a child no matter how old they are your life is never the same again. Rich / poor famous non famous to loose a child is the worst pain imaginable rest in peach peaches & all the other beautiful children that have died far to soon .💚
You do blame yourself . I blame myself for the loss of my daughter too who died in similar circumstances, He will never stop blaming himself and along with the blame comes the guilt which will haunt you till the day you die
Don’t blame yourself there’s nothing you could of done. Unfortunately that’s the nature of Addiction it’s a hideous illness that destroys everything and everyone close to it. I’m 7 years clean but my god it’s been a struggle and I nearly didn’t make it despite the love and best efforts of family, friends and drug workers etc, I still wouldn’t stop. Luckily for me somehow the penny dropped and I found a new way to live in recovery. Easy for me to say, but please, please don’t blame yourself.
I’m listening to Bob and I lost my brother and why didn’t I ask him this why didn’t I phone why why why your heart is shattered my parents are going through what Bob is going through it’s beyond any pain iv experienced
Clickbait. He says what any parent would say, he's not specifically saying he IS to blame but he decides to blame himself as a parent.....meanwhile equally he says she was an adult, "once they're eighteen they're on their way". It doesn't too much explaining to understand that it's a mixture of feelings rather than one.
it was best she live with her sisters. She knew them and saw the all the time b4 her mother's death & clearly looks to have had a happy childhood. Dispite her mother's takng a lot of anti-depressants during her pregnancy - which Doctors now know, is linked to severe depression later in life.
You could have NOT taken custody of your kids away from their mother out of SPITE. You could have shared custody and co parented, even though you were upset that she left you for another man. You could have saved them ALL from misery at YOUR HANDS.
The Judge decided it was the right decision. Paula was in a bad way at time and was planning to take his children half way across the world. He has been blamed for plenty of situations that certainly weren't his fault. Nobody is perfect but given circumstances he's had in his life I think he definitely did his best.
I dont know why they take drugs.but life is so much better when you dont have to take any. When you dont have to be dependent on anything. Do you know how wonderful it is to be free. Free from everything.
J. Cesar Not at all...no bad vibrations. Our children are not our spiritually. We made this contract before we chose to return . We can all learn from others and their loss and pain. He is strong and gas sm demonstrated his honesty and vulnerability. We can all learn from this. We all have different contracts so to say someone has bad vibrations around them isn't true nor is it helping to judge and be negative. The pain and loss in his life to date can't be measured. Thank goodness for the love of his wife and children he can carry on. Thank you Bob for you're vulnerability and for being open in such a public way. If you ever read this posting. God bless or whatever you believe or not believe in. Healing sent through these words and long may it continue for you and your beautiful family xxxx😇
Was there someone else that should be blamed? When a child tells you she needs help....maybe listen?no matter her age, she is still your child..... I dunno just a thought.
What's so so sad is that Bob lost every single important woman in his life, starting with his mum when he was 6. It's so much pain to shoulder. The addiction was to balme, not you Dear Bob ❤🙏❤
This is so sad.i hope he is doing much better now. I mean thee pain will probably remain forever and always but I hope he is coping. She lives on on her kids so sir Bob get putting them kids first and making them aware of the dangers of this world.
Didn’t he force Peaches and her sisters to go to school literally the day after Paula died? If true then that’s terrible. They should have been at home looked after by their father. How could they have concentrated at school? No wonder Bob has regrets.
That's the often professional advice sadly, that children must grieve within their usual routine (it feels safer for them) . Often they have stronger support networks at school than at home. Adults at home are in trauma which can be traumatic to see (there can be uncontrollable screaming and wailing from parents which is extremely traumatic for the child) , and adults may be physically and mentally unable to provide care due to grief. They need their friends and schools have resources like counselors and therapists. Children are put under no academic pressure and each teacher knows what happened. However they are likely too ill with shock to go to school for the first few days. That's the advice anyway, for the period of time that the household is in shock. Sadly it doesn't help if a child is friendless or being bullied.
Yes , a friend of mine whose Dad died suddenly when she was a child and was sent straight back to school said that it was the best thing for her and her siblings at the time. I think the structure and security of the routine helped when everything else around them was turned upside down.
Life is very hard at times. Nothing worse than losing a child.
parents should always die first, so we hope.
Dean Wayne I think you’re absolutely right and the stigma of addiction probably makes it harder for folk to get clean properly and with their health being the paramount objective, not just getting off the stuff ASAP.
I wonder , did you read that there was no drug paraphernalia whatsoever in her home when she was found ?
@@MsFifi11c I didn't know that about Peaches. Was their an inquest into her death? There's suspicious circumstances surrounding Michael's death too.
Bob was fueled by hatred back then. He couldn't accept Paula leaving him.
I'm not saying he murdered him, Michael and Bob had exchanged words shortly before Michael died and 'Saint' Bob wielded a lot of power at the time, probably still does.
Ellie Aquitaine as far as I know just the usual inquest when someone is found dead unexpectedly, not a criminal investigation as such , I couldn’t agree with you more about the circumstances surrounding Michaels death
@@MsFifi11c That must have seemed odd at the time if there were no signs of drug use. I've seen other people say Bob was somehow involved but I didn't understand why. They also say he was involved in Paula's death too.
We'll never know the truth about Michael. He's still deeply missed and loved in Australia. People come up with all kinds of theories.
The strangest thing I recently discovered was that it was Paula who postponed the court hearing, not Bob. I never took to her, it's hard to explain but if she did that she was playing mind games with him.
Regardless of what anybody thinks of Bob Geldof, burying your child isn’t something you’d wish on anybody
He killed her. Just like he did Paula.
@@p0llenp0ny huh?!
@@p0llenp0ny Wtf?
Sadly a freemason... Not all of them of course, but a powerful high level Freemason can do things that human mind can't imagine
@@tonybigalow3236 no they can’t! That’s a load of total shite!
I know someone who has had contact with him in real life and what I’ve heard about him is that he is an extremely kind, caring and humble man.
I thought the end of that sentence was going to be negative, I was about to say I don't believe you!!! He seems like such a lovely man and obviously deeply compassionate. I'm glad he's also that way in person! So tragic what's happened to him
I met him and he was really nice and down to earth.
Baby eater 👁
@@trayballa7975 why do you say that?
@pam blankenship because of his connection to the ( now dead ) Queen of England 👁
She’s the Queen of Baby eating
#pedogate
#pizzagate
#FollowTheWhiteRabbit
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This man has been through so much pain 💔 Lots of Love to him ♥️
@duncan stirling how come? Can you enlight me please?
He is a pain and deserves every bit of it.
Loves the sound off his own voice...funny hes from dublin like bono and there disliked and dispised by most people in dublin.its the sheer arrogance off this puppet for bankers and millionaires..have a look at his efforts to save africa closely.
And u wont believe the corruption and stupidity..hes a pawn.just like bono..
@duncan stirling yeah please enlighten us. She was a married woman with two children, not a child. So you are basically insinuating that if someone takes drugs it is the parents fault. I had a brother who died from heroin at 33 many years ago. He went to grammar school, handsome, wife and 2 children. Some people are self destructive and make their own decisions. Doesn't matter how much they are loved and to be honest they are selfish. How dare you blame this man for it, you disgust me.
@@angelicasims4511 I'm sure he's distraught that he's disgusted you 😂🤣
We all fail as parents in some way or another. Bob Geldof's guilt is what any parent would feel and my heart aches for him. I am so so sorry for his and his family's loss.
I wish that sentiment would echo for both fathers and mothers if it had happened to a mother and the father was the one who was dead the mother would be shamed and dragged the world is a lot more cruel to mothers people would have nit picked the mother to death even though she was grieving and is already torturing herself with the what if questions. I just wish it was more equal if the roles were reversed is all that I am saying. The mom community is brutal.
This is sad to me. God bless this family.
Wow. He has been through the hardest things life has to offer and still keeps moving forward. What an inspiration. I don't want to imagine the death of a child but I am scared to death for my 19 year old daughter. And you know what? I think what hurt her the most is her family and home coming apart when she was seven. Divorce is much harder than people think. I'm so sorry for your losses Mr. Geldof. Thank you for continuing to show up -you are amazing!
Well divorce is ok when parents keep their cool and don't go at war with each other....
Also having parents struggling with mental health and drug addiction doesn't help.
@@emmaphilo4049 Thank you. I am very painfully, quite aware of that.
He's lost so many people around him... Can't even imagine the sadness
Amber Agee sacrifices ALL of them 👁
@C Williams yeah because he isn't a drug addict perhaps? His mother died when he was 6 or 7. Try and spin that too as if he caused it.
I could tell when I met Sir Bob that he harbours a pain that only a parent knows after the death of his child.
Don't blame yourself Bob, she was a grown woman, her death is heartbreaking 💔 but we all make our own way in life x
Paula was lovely, should have stayed with Bob, would still be alive , peaches missed her mom,
Having a drug addicted mother who killed herself didn't help much either.
I just want to say Sir Bob Geldof, is an extraordinary, incredible human being and father, love him. I Could listen to him all day. 💙
Don't make a difference whos and who's not to blame.. A beautiful girl, wife, mother and daughter had died so let's respect that for her family's sake at least.
True words what u said
@@amyloo9716 Thank you my dear.
We all have choices
Sir Bob Geldoff is man who had the congitive ability and enhanced empathy to mobilize millions of people around the world to help thousands of people who were litterally starving to death. Love him or loath him, this is a very special and hugely significant person. The trauma he has gone though in the last 20 years is unimaginable. He lost his wife to another man made worse by the media frenzy that ensued. Then, within 5 years of their fated realationship, both were dead. He took on their child that Paula and Michael had together, again, displaying unique empathy for that that little girl. Then, he looses his beloved daughter. I'm sure we all feel empathy for this man aswell as admiration and respect. Bob Geldoff, in my humble opinion, is a very decent and special human being.
Did he really??? For i remember stories of rotten food and food collected not getting to the people, maybe we were in different realities. i remember many dying in Darfur in a genocide.
Peaches was an adult and accountable for herself no one else is or was.
He's a loving father of course he blames himself. So sad to lose a child.
@Eel
Yes I deleted it as I posted it to the wrong comment. It's still there.
And please shut up. We all know you're a troll that knows nothing about anyone so why you're trying so hard to be relevant and act as if you have personal knowledge of any celebrity is just pathetic.
@Eel Aaa You're pathetic. You don't have a decent reply because you know R is right. Please what do you have to say about your DUMBASS not knowing Bob or his daughter personally and not being there. People can easily lie online. Especially people YOU DON'T KNOW and imbeciles like you will just believe them and start forming stupid biased opinions about people YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW. YOU'RE A PATHETIC HUMAN BEING. WOW
I've lost an adult daughter and son I know how he feels don't say it was their fault they were old enough to know etc wait until you know how people feel there mental state there for the grace go I
So sorry for your loss. 😔 Always be thankful for what we do have.
My heart just breaks for Bob
Mine too❤
My daughter was stillborn in August 1997, and I will blame myself forever for not keeping her safe, especially while still inside me. I don’t care how many people tell me it was just something that happened!! I failed her as her mummy, and will until I die and see her again.
I really do like this man a lot. He has been through hell. However always thinks of others first. He’s been heart broken , bereaved twice over now- as he clearly was still smitten with Paula until the day she tragically died. He took on another mans child to be with her siblings. He’s raised awareness and money for the less fortunate and I just think he is a wonderful man.
He also sold Paula's 2 homes with all the contents in it, including the photos of Tiger and her dad. (look up the story of tragic Paula's house for sale). Paula, clearly got a lot from the estate of Michael's, even making Collin Diamond - Michael's corrupt financial advisor - Tiger's godfather. She bought 2 homes, paid off millions in legal fees and debt & lived very well ..SOOOOOO what did Bob do wth Michael's estate money that he got by adopting Tiger? Tiger said she didn't get a thing and given, paula's homes were worth over a million each plus savings, that as more than enough to cover her schooling and nanny's.
This guy has given so much to the world. He deserves personal love and peace. I hope he finds it. Love to you Mr. Geldof.
His interview with 60 Minutes talking about Michael Hutchence made me sick to my stomach. He kept saying how/why could he do that and that it was in his song, was unbelievable. MH had a brain injury, drug addiction, wanted to see his child for Xmas, fought with Paula constantly, had more media in his face and vultures constantly coming at him for fame and fortune, no privacy, etc. How could anyone not understand it? But to put it in a song for Tiger Lily to have to hear from someone that’s supposed to be close to her and protect her from all the BS is beyond incomprehensible. To have such a selfish attitude over a divorce is weak and pathetic. Every relationship takes 2 and even if he could say it was 100% all Paula’s and Michael’s fault, divorce is nothing compared to what happens to millions of other people throughout their lives. Divorce happens to a lot of people so why on earth did he think he was so special that it would never happen to him being a drug addict and all he did in such an industry. He held onto that BS for a very long time long after Paula’s death. To write a song like that has to make us question if he actually was/is trying to hold a lot against Tiger Lily for his anger and hatred towards MH. I wouldn’t believe a single word he ever said. Lots of drug addiction around a lot of people in this man’s life and it’s not hard to see why.
What's this the troll page? Get over yourselves. There's no such thing as the perfect parent, come to think of it there's no such thing as the perfect anything. The man has lost a daughter (doesn't matter under what circumstances), give him a break. I'm sure he is no saint but he brought about Live Aid not to mention raised another man's child. I personally think that takes someone quite remarkable. What did you do?
We didn't spend our time virtue signaling rather than loving our kids and didn't bring our kids up as a mate. Only losers who need a daddy love bob
100% agreed
Agreed with Karen Miller that he’s a great man
Karen Miller you are so right
very sad death.I live in the South Wales Valleys where heroin is rampant and the death toll here is crazy.2015 was a bad year I lost 6 very close friends that year but all together it must be around 40 friends I have lost to drugs or suicide (drugs caused almost every suicide) it's unreal to think back and count all the names,lost my best butty when he was just 17 and I was 18 it was big news back then.Now 20 years later around 40 of the boys have gone and around half where very close friend and the rest were friends or boys I was in school with,it's madness around here,every valley is the same.
Bob's right we do blame ourselves as parents and feel like we have failed our child when we lose one. God Bless💚💚🙏🙏
Finally someone who gets it
Largesse1000 ithink your being very harsh on Bob of course he's going to talk about it on TV he's in the public eye he probably gets asked about his Daughters Death every where he goe's at least in a studio environment it's better than having the gutter press write what they like.It is very brave of him to discuss this and if he helps anyone by doing this then that can only be a good thing.In private he will be grieving in ways unimaginable and nobody will see that not even his other children I wish peace and happiness for him he's a good man and real men have emotions and are a loud to talk about there feelings.
Linda McBride yes I get it Linda it's heart breaking when you lose a child you never get over it but some how we carry on but it hurts every day it's been 9years since the loss of my son and not one day goe's by when I don't think of the ifs buts or maybes.❤'s out to you
There is No Greater Pain...Unbearable Pain than to lose Your child. None😭💙🙏
She was very intelligent she figured it all out. That's why he did it! Too bright?
Not 100% sure what you're trying to say
My heart just breaks for this man, Shalom.
Wtf does shalom mean?
Goodbye
Shalom
@@suejohnlaptoppeace
My son's ashes will be let go this spring. I do not wish this kind of devastation on anyone.
@lorettawymbs6936 so sorry for your loss.💔🙏
He's a sweetheart. Been through so much. Sending hugs across the pond.
Look, in the end,the addict he or she IS RESPONSIBLE. Sir Bob gets too much hate! What went down he had. No control.
She was,indeed a adult. Poor man looks like he’s also been accused of the death of Michael Hutchence ( lies I feel,you’re looking for someone to blame!) so maybe imperfect man, but a murderer? I doubt this…..think of his WIFE! Listen she actually had said to Michael that you marry me or I’ll commit suicide then you’ll never see Tigerlily again! End quote.
Still Paula Yates fandom?
Wicked game “
Yes I’m quite aware she’s died poor Peaches .
Like I said you refuse help
Or refuse to help yourself.
What the F do you think will happen?
Is it any wonder Bob seeked refuge in a small island far far away from everyone & everything?
HELL!
I’d have done the same
HE still seems to be feeling such tragically bad.
Press on his arse.
Leave him be
Bc of him Tigerlily grew up normally no drugs that I heard anyways )
Yes now she’s looking much like Michael.
But,
Bob deserves credit
For stepping it
When they
Couldn’t care for her then
Worst of all,
She lost them.
❤
Sir Bob has had a difficult time between Paula's divorce from him and the custody thing and then her death by overdose. Then Peaches. The people left behind, who loved this person, are the ones who suffer.
Children that are given very unusual names are more prone to mental health problems
That is bizarre but I don't doubt it. I have a very unusual name also and I always had issues growing up..
Also I would add that maybe it's because parents who choose to name their children odd names are not very stable parents or they are prone to unusual ways of parenting that result in the child having issues
For a man who has gone through so many tragedies. He seems to have coped pretty well.
My heart breaks for any parent that loses a child 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
He has been through it for sure.
What a mess. The whole damned thing.
The trauma this line carries i believe is in paula but Bobs a healer! His music is testament! Strength, peace and love to him
Addiction is crippling and heartbreaking for family members. My heart went out to him and his family years ago (and to Peaches).
So sorry 😔
His story reminded me of Job from the Old Testament... i pray he stay strong for his other real and adopted children🙏
I love bob and how he words things
She tried to get there through all those Crowley books.....and there was part of the problem!
Poor bob he has had it hard .
The hardest thing in the world.
WE DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO LECTURE YOUNG PEOPLE TO NOT TAKE DRUGS WHEN WE CAN,T OFFER THEM ANYTHING BETTER.WE AS ADULTS HAVE TURNED THE WORLD INTO A HORRIBLE PLACE.
YOUNG PEOPLE SIMPLY WANT TO ESCAPE FROM THE AWFUL REALITY WE HAVE CREATED.
Nationalism only way forward
It's comments like that, that makes the world a worse place grow up your old enough to know better
This is how l feel
@@itzdermott 👍
Can't offer "anything better"? ANYTHING is better!
Bless you Sir Bob 🙏🙏🙏
Strange that he made her go to school and carry on as normal (according to her in an interview with Elle magazine in 2013) the day after her mothers death when she was 11 years old.
she was so gorgeous, what a tragic loss.
And Michael ??
You can tell life is taking a toll on him
Yeah people keep dying around Bob🤔
Have some compassion please.
People around his ex wife keep dying, because she was a loser.
@@sonjak8265 here's hoping eh!
@@jenniwatt8246 You are evil beyond belief!
Guess no one remembers Bob n Paula's satanic wedding lol
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He tormented Paula and made her and the kids life miserable for years after she left him for Michael. At least he’s taking some responsibility for putting his male ego before healthy co-parenting when he had the chance.
What did he do to earn the title of ' Sir'!!!?? Can think of many more ordinary folks who should get that title.Life is a joke.
No one should judge anyone live your life & remember to loose a child no matter how old they are your life is never the same again. Rich / poor famous non famous to loose a child is the worst pain imaginable rest in peach peaches & all the other beautiful children that have died far to soon .💚
Bloody tragic
Nothing to do with addiction.. far deeper story than meets the eye..
Which would be...?? R u talking about the sect she was involved in?
Was she a sacrifice ?
And you know this because....?
bad parenting, same as ever
probably right.
He knew she would die
How did he know?
1st born!!!!
He had a big role in her mother’s death so it’s a pay day.
Wouldn't wish a death of a child on my worst enemy
Sad story . Prayers to Bob and their family
You do blame yourself . I blame myself for the loss of my daughter too who died in similar circumstances, He will never stop blaming himself and along with the blame comes the guilt which will haunt you till the day you die
Don’t blame yourself there’s nothing you could of done. Unfortunately that’s the nature of Addiction it’s a hideous illness that destroys everything and everyone close to it. I’m 7 years clean but my god it’s been a struggle and I nearly didn’t make it despite the love and best efforts of family, friends and drug workers etc, I still wouldn’t stop. Luckily for me somehow the penny dropped and I found a new way to live in recovery. Easy for me to say, but please, please don’t blame yourself.
Bill W Welcome back and well done.
You didn’t fail Bob, you weren’t the only influence on her life
❤❤❤they need to be told it is not their fault
Pure evil. He has a trail of blood behind him.
I’m listening to Bob and I lost my brother and why didn’t I ask him this why didn’t I phone why why why your heart is shattered my parents are going through what Bob is going through it’s beyond any pain iv experienced
Que la force soit avec vous Sir Geldof... vous qui avez dû traverser tant d épreuves...stay strong 💪🍀🙏
Clickbait. He says what any parent would say, he's not specifically saying he IS to blame but he decides to blame himself as a parent.....meanwhile equally he says she was an adult, "once they're eighteen they're on their way". It doesn't too much explaining to understand that it's a mixture of feelings rather than one.
He can’t talk w o saying “you know”
But we don’t know. That’s why we’re listening
Bob has endured too much loss and pain, yet he is always kind and caring. Much love to this great man. ❤
To go from Live Aid to this. Heartbreaking
You said it, she was an adult!
it was best she live with her sisters. She knew them and saw the all the time b4 her mother's death & clearly looks to have had a happy childhood. Dispite her mother's takng a lot of anti-depressants during her pregnancy - which Doctors now know, is linked to severe depression later in life.
People doing drugs, shouldn't be aloud to have children!😢
Peaches replicated what happened to her mother. That is the significant parental influence here.
He’s had some tragedies in his time for sure
You could have NOT taken custody of your kids away from their mother out of SPITE. You could have shared custody and co parented, even though you were upset that she left you for another man. You could have saved them ALL from misery at YOUR HANDS.
The Judge decided it was the right decision. Paula was in a bad way at time and was planning to take his children half way across the world. He has been blamed for plenty of situations that certainly weren't his fault. Nobody is perfect but given circumstances he's had in his life I think he definitely did his best.
@@barryflynn879 The judge decided it because Bob had the $$$
Wish I could give him a hug
I can feel the pain
May she rest in peace 🙏
How weird, calling himself “you” ?!?
You’ve done everything BUT fail Sir Bob. You are an amazing, kind, caring human. Much respect to you.
I dont know why they take drugs.but life is so much better when you dont have to take any. When you dont have to be dependent on anything. Do you know how wonderful it is to be free. Free from everything.
Gawd bless you, Bob Geldof, You get to escape Samsara and go to Nirvana. No more pain for you. This is your last time around!
Hopefully. Then it’s off to 🔥 he goes. Hopefully.
Beautiful peaches, beautiful paula both went to soon, R.I.P ♥️
And handsome Michael Hutchence , also went to soon .
No Bob you did not fail her!! She was a grown woman. She made her own decisions. She CHOSE to be a closet smackhead. It's not your fault!
I AM ABOVE THE LAW.
Still so incredibly sad for the loss of peaches 2024 RIP 🕊🌹
He is not a Sir.
Stop blaming Bob.....
There's very bad vibration about him. And so many deaths! I find him spooky to say the least
J. Cesar spot on he is a freak
Yes. Maybe it has something to do with his atheism. If he believes in nothing, where can he find inner healing if he needs it?
J. Cesar Damn that’s good!
J. Cesar Not at all...no bad vibrations.
Our children are not our spiritually. We made this contract before we chose to return .
We can all learn from others and their loss and pain.
He is strong and gas sm demonstrated his honesty and vulnerability.
We can all learn from this.
We all have different contracts so to say someone has bad vibrations around them isn't true nor is it helping to judge and be negative.
The pain and loss in his life to date can't be measured.
Thank goodness for the love of his wife and children he can carry on.
Thank you Bob for you're vulnerability and for being open in such a public way.
If you ever read this posting.
God bless or whatever you believe or not believe in.
Healing sent through these words and long may it continue for you and your beautiful family xxxx😇
J. Cesar those deaths were unintentionally self afflicted
I’d look into this guy. Very rare for two family members who were prob giving him problems died by heroine overdose. Very suspicious.
He's right
Was there someone else that should be blamed? When a child tells you she needs help....maybe listen?no matter her age, she is still your child..... I dunno just a thought.
Nothing he could have done. She was a grown woman that made a poor decision. Strange how really smart people end up on drugs. Never understood that.
I’m so sorry
What's so so sad is that Bob lost every single important woman in his life, starting with his mum when he was 6. It's so much pain to shoulder. The addiction was to balme, not you Dear Bob ❤🙏❤
Not EVERY woman, he has two other daughters & a stepdaughter.
Aw bless her.
This is so sad.i hope he is doing much better now. I mean thee pain will probably remain forever and always but I hope he is coping. She lives on on her kids so sir Bob get putting them kids first and making them aware of the dangers of this world.
I remember her saying he hadn’t seen her and her kids for over 6 months ……maybe he should have gone to check her out a little more
Bless not your fault m8 shes with Paula waiting for you x
Tigers money disappeared as well, didn’t now?
Didn’t he force Peaches and her sisters to go to school literally the day after Paula died? If true then that’s terrible. They should have been at home looked after by their father. How could they have concentrated at school? No wonder Bob has regrets.
That's the often professional advice sadly, that children must grieve within their usual routine (it feels safer for them) . Often they have stronger support networks at school than at home. Adults at home are in trauma which can be traumatic to see (there can be uncontrollable screaming and wailing from parents which is extremely traumatic for the child) , and adults may be physically and mentally unable to provide care due to grief. They need their friends and schools have resources like counselors and therapists. Children are put under no academic pressure and each teacher knows what happened. However they are likely too ill with shock to go to school for the first few days. That's the advice anyway, for the period of time that the household is in shock.
Sadly it doesn't help if a child is friendless or being bullied.
Yes , a friend of mine whose Dad died suddenly when she was a child and was sent straight back to school said that it was the best thing for her and her siblings at the time. I think the structure and security of the routine helped when everything else around them was turned upside down.