Home Care and Incontinence

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  • Опубліковано 2 лис 2024

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  • @tonyferrari3754
    @tonyferrari3754 6 років тому +607

    You are doing a grand job looking after you mum, this world needs more caring people like you, all the best to you and your mum, take care both of you :)

  • @granny491961
    @granny491961 5 років тому +152

    I would go in the other room and cry then afterward go back in and help clean him up. I love my husband and miss him so much.

    • @marinelanntaberdo4094
      @marinelanntaberdo4094 5 років тому +24

      you did a wonderful job taking care of your husband! i hope you are doing great now. please stay strong :)

    • @granny491961
      @granny491961 5 років тому +9

      @@marinelanntaberdo4094 Thank you sugar.

    • @iat3nuggets124
      @iat3nuggets124 5 років тому +4

      connie white yes just try your best to be happy and realize that you really are an amazing person for helping him ❤️

    • @feliciano8887
      @feliciano8887 5 років тому +2

      connie white wait but why did you go in the other room and cry?

    • @toyoscio
      @toyoscio 5 років тому +2

      @@feliciano8887 Probably sad to see him that way

  • @granny491961
    @granny491961 5 років тому +160

    I'm 57 I lost my husband 2 yrs ago he was a quadriplegic. I took care of him for 20 yrs. I wasn't easy!

    • @sunrise-qz7vh
      @sunrise-qz7vh 5 років тому +12

      connie white wow.first,i’m really sorry for your husband :( and second,you are an amazing women.just wow!you took care of him for 20 years!!thats amazing

    • @buster8607
      @buster8607 5 років тому +11

      connie white thats great! Its amazing that you never gave up. The things people do for love

    • @likakekelidze4919
      @likakekelidze4919 5 років тому +3

      connie white sorry about your husband

    • @elliegoldie6140
      @elliegoldie6140 4 роки тому

      It couldnt be easy I helped look after my stepmom and it's a strain although you love that person.you must have loved him very much but I dont think you get enoff money yet you save goverment thousands by you looking after spouse ect.god bless you..x

    • @kartelmtapeli9288
      @kartelmtapeli9288 4 роки тому

      respect ma am

  • @perpetuallybodean4522
    @perpetuallybodean4522 5 років тому +308

    I was recommended to your asmr channel and then saw you had this one. Much respect to you for helping your mother. I too take care of my mother ahead of everything else in my life. I think it's the right thing to do. Good luck on getting monetized. You deserve it. Best wishes to your Mom as well.

  • @jenniecarrillo2929
    @jenniecarrillo2929 5 років тому +69

    I’m so happy your taking care of her instead of putting her in a nursing home for the rest of her life

  • @Mikayla0027
    @Mikayla0027 5 років тому +184

    I found you through your ASMR channel and absolutely love this. I am a certified nursing aid and just have a tip for you so things might be easier and more comfortable for your mom. Try to have her wheelchair with the pad ready (and anything else) before you hoyer her up because those slings and hanging there can be very uncomfortable. I had to experience what it was like before I took my exam and it wasn’t comfortable. If you have any questions I would be more than happy to answer! You are doing a wonderful job and you are an amazing person for doing this for your mom. Not a lot of people would do that. God bless

    • @bekahrogers4568
      @bekahrogers4568 5 років тому +8

      I do not know if he saw this before his mother passed, but you helped me. My mother has to take care of her mother and we did what you said and now we have an organized routine. Thank you!

  • @LauraScottBell
    @LauraScottBell 5 років тому +100

    You are a wonderful son!! I always tell my parents I will take care of them and not put them in a nursing home when they are older. This gives me even more hope! I’m looking forward to showing them videos like these, showing that it can be done! Bravo! 👌🙏

    • @pastelgalaxy4079
      @pastelgalaxy4079 4 роки тому +1

      When i was 4 i told my dad "i'm gonna take care of you when you get small!" Still trying to figure out what it means. 😂

  • @jonimarie2067
    @jonimarie2067 6 років тому +86

    Good luck from the south shore on building your subscribers for this channel. I had the pleasure of being caregiver to both parents and there's no better care than that from a loved one. ⚘

  • @DianaB01
    @DianaB01 5 років тому +67

    May God bless you, you are amazing

  • @RainsFloodGate
    @RainsFloodGate 5 років тому +45

    I'm a RN in a hospital. I always wondered how family manages at home. Looks like you are doing a great job! Found this video after I watched a couple of your other ASMR videos on your other channel. Good content.

  • @louisatumblez1695
    @louisatumblez1695 5 років тому +7

    I love this man so much he is so genuine and has so much love in his heart. I was so sad when I found out his mother passed away. 😭One like is a prayer for one of the worlds most caring person. My heart goes out to you ❤️

  • @formayyoutuv3598
    @formayyoutuv3598 5 років тому +43

    May God bless you and grant you the highest level of heaven!

  • @sakku-9279
    @sakku-9279 5 років тому +5

    i started crying when I remembered his mom died.
    he is a great son, and his mom is a great mother, she raised a great wonderful son.

  • @Phyllis1956
    @Phyllis1956 3 місяці тому

    Just found your channel while looking for advice on my husband’s incontinence . You’re a marvellous son. My daughter does this for her dad when I need a rest. Some children are just wonderful. ❤

  • @jessicaoconnor356
    @jessicaoconnor356 5 років тому +11

    You truly are a magnificent man, what you do for your mother is so generous and selfless. Wishing you and your mother the best 💕

  • @blanca0981
    @blanca0981 5 років тому +8

    Came over from the gardening channel and you have support from me! You are an amazing son, I hope my children care for me when I get old the way you care for your mother. Much love!

  • @tampa813thefye8
    @tampa813thefye8 5 років тому +2

    We love you so much I am so sorry for your loss she’ll be remembered forever what a beautiful son she has!!! Bless u!!

  • @kevinastokley1
    @kevinastokley1 4 роки тому +3

    I just recently discovered your ASMR channel, Tom (Morpheus), and it's a real treat. Upon checking out your other channels, I found some videos, this one in particular, that made me smile. It seems you took great pride in making sure your mom was taken well care of. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, even over a year later. I hope you're staying well and safe.

  • @unpopularflowers9121
    @unpopularflowers9121 5 років тому +2

    Bless this beautiful man here. He is so caring and lovely towards his life. He is so angelic! Your mother there might really be glad. New subscriber here!!!

  • @rrrisarrr
    @rrrisarrr 5 років тому +18

    i feel bubbly. You reminded me of my grandpa. Good luck on getting monetize 😊

  • @refinedqueen2260
    @refinedqueen2260 3 роки тому +2

    This is my life and i get satisfaction from caring for my mother. I sacrificed my life, time with my daughter, my education, my bones and muscles to care for my beautiful mother with limited help. As a person that works a full job, it’s very challenging but it’s well worth more than my mother being half cared for in a nursing home. I take care of my mother 95%, 7 days a week. I am very happy to see you have the patience and the “know how” to care for your mother. Thanks for the video. Im now a subscriber. I’m interested in knowing if you have siblings or other support?

  • @hitmanbangintroducesbts9182
    @hitmanbangintroducesbts9182 5 років тому +1

    You're an elder man and you still took care of your mother even though you could've left their in a home for the elderly. So much respect for you.

  • @eviejmkysquad5705
    @eviejmkysquad5705 5 років тому +2

    I want my son to look after me like that when I'm old keep up the good work your doing great

  • @arimikala81
    @arimikala81 5 років тому +2

    You are such an amazing man! This is so pure, you sure have a true heart of gold. Your mother is very lucky to have someone like you watching over her.

  • @wikananuzulani3526
    @wikananuzulani3526 5 років тому +6

    you're really such a good and smart man. wish all the good for you!!

  • @Persnatalie
    @Persnatalie 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much for taking the time to share, it has allowed me to be less scared and more patient as I transition to caring for my grandmother. Appreciate you

  • @joeyotto
    @joeyotto 4 роки тому +1

    I love this guy he is so sweet he’s mother is great too for raising a great son god bless you and I am so sorry that your mom passed away

  • @iridocyclitis.6118
    @iridocyclitis.6118 5 років тому +6

    Thats so sweat i wish everyone parent had son’s just like Tom❤️.

  • @lindabentsen2779
    @lindabentsen2779 3 роки тому

    Your love and devotion is admirable, God bless you both.

  • @shirleyusalways9852
    @shirleyusalways9852 5 років тому +9

    New subscriber to all your channels. You are an amazing guy. Much respect to you.you are doing a great job..! We need more people like you ... keep it up...!

  • @pmack7258
    @pmack7258 2 роки тому +2

    This is a very valuable video. I'm sure I'm going to refer to it multiple times. I'm surprised the sling is not long enough to provide neck and head support. Anyway, you're doing a great job looking after your mum. Your videos will give courage to lots of other carers.

  • @jerleanli1513
    @jerleanli1513 3 роки тому

    God bless you! Your mother is so lucky to have you taking care of her. This is never easy especially if their mobility is no more . Your amazing!! And thank you this video was very helpful ♥️

  • @ehoovernyc
    @ehoovernyc 3 роки тому

    You're an angel. I'm taking care of my mother alone as an older son and I'm having a real hard time with her being disagree able and my being emotional. There's a difference when a large family that can share responsibility and being an only son as I am. Especially hard when a mother. Thanks for your video.

  • @missh0llyw00d
    @missh0llyw00d 2 роки тому

    This is the first video I’ve watched of yours. You’re so dedicated to your mother’s care. Bravo! But I feel so terrible for your mom. She looks so sad and unhappy. Bless her heart as well as yours!

  • @fizzypop1249
    @fizzypop1249 Рік тому +1

    Bless you. 🙏🏾

  • @kiwimistful
    @kiwimistful 4 роки тому

    Dude you gonna so bless for taking care of your mom..

  • @buster8607
    @buster8607 5 років тому +2

    Found out about your channel. No regrets! You are a great person i dont know why but i watch your videos and its just simply great

    • @user-ti6oz4gd7r
      @user-ti6oz4gd7r 5 років тому +2

      Buster your picture is basically how everyone watching feels

    • @buster8607
      @buster8607 5 років тому

      Jazmin Ochoa yeah it depicts perfectly

  • @angelicaaltamirano7114
    @angelicaaltamirano7114 5 років тому +11

    you’re an awesome person

  • @hori1721
    @hori1721 Рік тому

    Ya mum is a beautiful looking woman, she has that charm about her. akin to a kind woman. the look a grandmother has when looking at a grandchild..
    Thanks for sharing..

  • @lexihunter7109
    @lexihunter7109 5 років тому +7

    Beautiful love you I’m subscribed to all your channels

    • @ploryz
      @ploryz 5 років тому

      Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat

  • @katiejo1095
    @katiejo1095 2 роки тому

    You are the best person on earth.

  • @koko_7
    @koko_7 3 роки тому

    thank u so much for ur videos and helping yr beloved mom ...God will bless you for ever after in yr health and life

  • @henryl6420
    @henryl6420 5 років тому +1

    You are accumulating a lot of good karma. i learned a lot from watching this video.

  • @lelecici7980
    @lelecici7980 5 років тому

    That swings so cool. Sorry for you loss.....😔😢

  • @usmankhan502
    @usmankhan502 Рік тому

    GOD bless you... Such a cute lady you mom is.

  • @emilysummers7698
    @emilysummers7698 5 років тому

    This is the most innocent perfect thing I’ve ever watched

  • @noor1654
    @noor1654 5 років тому +11

    Ur so amazing and inspirational, all the best❤️

  • @alondraperalta6505
    @alondraperalta6505 5 років тому +1

    Your mom is beatiful!🌸🌼🌻

  • @windazulkarnaen3618
    @windazulkarnaen3618 5 років тому +1

    this simple video has inspired me a lot. thank you for sharing :)

  • @ballistic3666
    @ballistic3666 5 років тому

    Your so wonderful I hope you can continue to take care of your mother.

  • @xdnubzinoflegend7225
    @xdnubzinoflegend7225 5 років тому +2

    Inwish you get ton of. Million subscriber

  • @nad1392
    @nad1392 3 роки тому +1

    الجنه تحت اقدام الامهات سبحان الله❤

  • @ryancovington5636
    @ryancovington5636 4 роки тому

    I have to look it up. You can put PB blaster on that hydraulic point to help with the leak

  • @hasanmurtaza8339
    @hasanmurtaza8339 5 років тому +2

    Where did tou get that swing chair? This is the first i have seen

  • @gerardburns4161
    @gerardburns4161 Рік тому

    Her and SHE , this is a PERSON!!!!

  • @gracevarvera8160
    @gracevarvera8160 5 років тому +1

    You are an amazing person❤️

  • @silvaef
    @silvaef 5 років тому

    You are so kind and good person :)

  • @bhaatipatel4115
    @bhaatipatel4115 Рік тому

    God bless you

  • @donnasuniquelife4485
    @donnasuniquelife4485 Рік тому

    I know they are very expensive I have cerebral palsy can your mother not get a ceiling it will save your back is there not any grants in America I mean I am from England so it works a bit different over here I have a ceiling hoist in my bedroom that goes through to my bathroom just thought I’d suggest it I think you are an incredible person for what you do

  • @lyndahuyen1050
    @lyndahuyen1050 5 років тому +5

    You are so adorable, nice and caring its a sub from
    Me :)

  • @isabelle9914
    @isabelle9914 5 років тому

    Cool video! Best wishes to your mom and you

  • @laceypeake1370
    @laceypeake1370 5 років тому

    What a wonderful son.

  • @neelamzaka30
    @neelamzaka30 2 роки тому

    Can someone please guide where from I can get the Hydraulic Weight lifter machine? My mother in law is bed ridden is heavy weight. I need it urgent

  • @holymotivationalvibes6639
    @holymotivationalvibes6639 5 років тому

    Your the best tom

  • @ryancovington5636
    @ryancovington5636 4 роки тому

    Yiu make using the hoyer lift look so easy, I am 40 so I just lift. They have a neoprene sling which I think is easier to use

  • @luhkobi2799
    @luhkobi2799 5 років тому +3

    Our moms took care of us, at some point we gonna have to take care of them☹️

  • @Kk-li6sp
    @Kk-li6sp 5 років тому +6

    you guys are so cuteee

  • @SatisfyingASMR4u
    @SatisfyingASMR4u 5 років тому

    You are a wonderful son!

  • @cpt4168
    @cpt4168 3 роки тому

    0:52 Yes agreed; impractical. No different than at the other end of life as babies: Any mom who's used disposables vs cloth knows this already

  • @esakurnia8146
    @esakurnia8146 5 років тому

    God bless you. 💜💜💜

  • @Biillustration
    @Biillustration 5 років тому +2

    send my love to her

  • @racheaknowles6
    @racheaknowles6 Рік тому

    Where to find lift an price?

  • @karentherhea5433
    @karentherhea5433 4 роки тому

    One always has to take care of the elders because the elders are the ones that will save us from the sinister

  • @LuisFlores-ws9wi
    @LuisFlores-ws9wi 5 років тому

    Didn’t know they made pallet jacks for old people

  • @olgaachieng4672
    @olgaachieng4672 Рік тому

    Am a trained aged carerworker.I would like to volunteer and help somon please.

  • @katnew4408
    @katnew4408 11 місяців тому

    God I hope I die before my sons have to do this!! I would hate to have them have to take total care of me!! But bless your soul for loving your Mom so!

  • @wanjirukamande5292
    @wanjirukamande5292 Рік тому

    🖤

  • @finf8912
    @finf8912 5 років тому +1

  • @Gamer-gw7fz
    @Gamer-gw7fz 4 роки тому +2

    6:46 I laughed so hard

  • @esakurnia8146
    @esakurnia8146 5 років тому

    💜💜💜

  • @ommagnum3519
    @ommagnum3519 5 років тому

    May god bless you

  • @monemorelight
    @monemorelight 5 років тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ahankid
    @ahankid 3 роки тому

    💟💟💟💟

  • @thotymangooo3426
    @thotymangooo3426 5 років тому

    How old is his mom ?

    • @Rhiannon.16
      @Rhiannon.16 5 років тому

      Lauren da Lazy queen she passes away

  • @taedommd9222
    @taedommd9222 5 років тому

    May God watch soon u

  • @BeautyBySydn3y
    @BeautyBySydn3y 2 роки тому

  • @youngshoota989
    @youngshoota989 5 років тому +1

    Your mom looks kinda like u

  • @hungngoc2934
    @hungngoc2934 4 роки тому

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Justin-tp7ng
    @Justin-tp7ng 5 років тому

    She seems so sad :(

  • @jordanhunt4867
    @jordanhunt4867 4 роки тому

    This is disgusting!

  • @deboraslay9494
    @deboraslay9494 3 роки тому

    ❤️