Ep. 345: Dating is Truly the Ghetto ft. Sahar | Whoreible Decisions w/ Mandii B & Weezy
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
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I think often Mandi listens to Weezy to respond and not understand what she actually saying. I agree with Weezy, when Mandi fell in love she softened as a person on this show. She seemed nicer, more understanding of women in love, more sensitive to love issues, etc. I think the experience of having those feelings made her understand others and ultimately made her more likable and relatable.
Facts Facts Facts. I feel like she talks so big but she didn't even want anyone else with a dude offering her the bare minimum.
Imagine a man actually doesn't let her down, re assures her, shows her love the right way, passionately loves on her body the way she wants and needs...she would jave a different energy. I actually think she needs a break. It doesn't reflect well on the pod when she is angry like this. If you been through heartbreak....you're scared and hate everyone and everything. You just need to heal. She needs to just heal.
I swear!!!! She needs more therapy
Her energy would change completely if she had a child to. She's just one of those people. She talks super confident but she's so obviously insecure. But we all got shit....more power too her on her journey
Take responsibility when you go from victim to volunteer 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 felt that.
Whew a word ‼️‼️
Jaw dropping!
I love that quote. It stuck out to me too.
Absolutely, because we're not victims, but participate at times.
This‼️‼️
34:52 Weezy alwaysss gives GREAT pushback to certain topics that are brought up.
Lord knows that someone has to.
You're allowed to be WRONG!!!! I love this lady!!!
I understand the sentiment, but i really don't like the saying. Being wrong in almost any context is bad. Try not to do it. Let's not encourage it.
I like when Mandi doesn’t drink on the pod 😬 She’s more alert, doesn’t interrupt and offers more clear substantial thoughts :)
Is that what it is! I kept thinking to myself that she's listening really well and giving such clear and coherent input
This episode was dope y’all need her on the podcast again.🔥
Sahar was an amazing guest!
I agree with Mandi. The man didn’t turn her into a relationship person. The work she did on herself allowed her to open her self to a relationship and the guy just happened to be the right connection at the right time. Mandi was on point with this!
Well why is she like fuck these n's because of that man?...if he doesn't have the ability to affect her?
It sucks to see that Mandii's ex has hurt her so much that she can't even fathom what Weezy was saying. I think this goes hand in hand with dealing with men who can meet you financially or are better off than you. It seems that Mandii knows she settled for her ex and thought he would never do her like he did. It's like giving a bum a chance, and he run off with the next bum bitch. I think down the line, if she meets the right one both spiritually and financially she'll settle down and want marriage eventually.
Mandi just always wants the last word and doesn’t like to be wrong.
For the past couple of months Weezy has been trying in the most nonconfrontational way, certain things about her and Mandii is sooooo defensive or insistant that whatever Weezy said is not the case. Everybody knows that that man was the reason for certain behavior..and covid just provided a good landscape. Mandii along with everybody knows that Mandii really wants marriage. She just is scared it wont happen or will be as bad as the marraiges she sees. If Mandii's therapist told her the exact same thing that weezy said here..she would accept it. She can admit she's hurt, and gives him credit for that, but not for anything good.
This was such a good episode. Such a real ass woman conversation. Thank you guys!
Dating on your level is extremely important. Everyone is different
Loved this episode! Weezy is always so insightful and puts shit into perspective and esp being where they are now when the majority of us are not and it’s relatable.. the dating experiences, self reflections ALL just so relatable! Never heard of or seen this lady on the show before but she was on point! Def goin to look her up. And Mandi B AKA! I’ll prob forever watch you literally bc you’re you. You’re changing for the better and it’s AWESOME to see. Loved this episode for sure! Invite her back!
Watching this once a month for my mental health😂
Seriously! I need this ❤
I absolutely loved this episode. Please bring her back!!!!!
Weezy's 90 day fiance impressions are top tier!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
this was a really great episode.
also Nigerians do that "send suitors to eligible son/daughters" thing too. My mom been sending suitors to me and my siblings since we turned 18 🙃
I absolutely loved this episode, gorgeous women, gorgeous dynamics I've been laughing and taking notes for the entire episode! Thank you ladies! Love you
@50:00 the synchronized "no" was so hilarious 😂😂😂
This was a great episode.
This was an amazing episode. Great chemistry and vibes from all the ladies!!
I'm on day 2 of a binge of this show and this is by far my fav episode 🙌I love this conversation and I love the dynamic between you three in particular...BRING SAHAR BACK!!!😩🫶
Men seem to have forgotten that they can achieve greatness and success without needing women as a catalyst.
Women seem to have forgotten the power of femininity and all the great things it can equally accomplish.
She's right in that we swung so hard in the other direction, that we have forgotten what the great aspects of our ancestors were that helped them live in happiness.
pleaseeee bring her back this wasn’t long enough
34 mins in. Maybe my fav ep to date (I’ve listened to every single one 🫶🏽)
Dating truly is the ghetto. I got called dumb today bc I said I wouldn't go to jail for this guy. He probably called me more stuff but I blocked him.
Bonnie and Clyde both ended up shot up and dead. El Chapo’s wife went to prison. Nicky Barnes’ wife went to prison too. Nothing is wrong for choosing yourself, or what’s best for u. That guy from earlier was a complete idiot, you’re right to block him.
I love everyone’s outfits, per usual 🫶🏽☺️🩷
This is literally one of my favorite episodes, I go back and back to listen to it.
This was a really good guest. Great episode
I hope y’all give us at least another year or two of this pod.. then one last tour! 😢
I feel so bad that some people never meet a decent person. At some point you do need to look inwards.
True... Very True
I’m half way thru , I really like this convo
Now at the end I’m pissed cuz I got a man but I want more money 😂
😭😭
Ha!! Ok, I LIVE SAHAR, This is my first time seeing her and she is real and funny!!! And she said her grandma is black and she wanted some dark meat!!! I love it!! Mandi, you did so well letter her talk, and for real, you HAIR LOOKS AMAZING!! Wheezy, I love the questions you ask!!
I felt like I was at church watching this episode
Bring Sahar back
as a persian I really enjoyed this episode... the fear of Persian dads if you do wrong is real LOL
Really enjoyed this episode ❤❤❤❤❤
I love when you have talks about. Cultures with your guest! It’s like a fav
For me, I think being straight forward with your intentions is the best way to go. It can be very misleading to say you want kids, but then later change your mind. I don't want kids or marriage and I'm looking for someone who has a similar mindset. I'm looking for partnership, that's not legally binding. If they say no, well and good. Neither of us wasted our time. And dating is very difficult yes, but marriage is what? A walk in the park? Even if you find someone you're supet compatible with, there will always be something. Maintaining a good and healthy relationship with your significant other for years possibly till death, is something very few of us will get to achieve
Love the content! But where is her information? Dont see anything in the comments or description.
Mandii you look suuuper cute 👌
48:00-53:00 might be some of the most important things ever said on this podcast. The only i disagree with is that it's not some extinctual thing about men that creates that resentment toward their partner in that situation. It is the failure of that mans upbring and personal beliefs. He has not been able to break free from the toxic masculinity that has been taught to him since he was baby. Our culture creates that resentment.
Which is why the dynamic I had with my ex was rare. She made way more than me but we always had a good dynamic and I never tried to fill whole of myself outside of the relationship because I didn’t make as much. I gave her what she needed non financially but I also wasn’t broke
@theeggreat4 exactly. I'm glad you have learned that your worth as a man is not determined by your job or income. It's determined by your own values and what you define success to be. A lot guys haven't figured that out yet.
I was just Literally bout to call Dublin Springs Mental hospital and Saw a New EPISODE!
MY Mean-o-pause has Magnified My Mental health issues and I ended up in the loony-bin last year on the 22nd of November for Knockin' a Bitter Black Bitch put in Krogers bread section
This is the best episode they have ever done...Wow.. I'm gonna say it backwards Wow..😊
I agree
This was a great episode. Loved it.
She gave amazing advice ! Please have her back
Married after 6 months is wild but i get it works for some ppl
DANG, Weezy that was a Graphic Cherry Burst!😂
DANG Weezy fans are some sexy muafuckas man lol! X
Your wrong you do have to continue to date if you are married
You are dating this woman the rest of your life
🎯when done well
True...Very True
Loved this episode.
This is a fire episode!
I wonder if Sahar addresses the outside baby her fiance just had on her and how her staying contradicts a lot of the rhetoric she puts out on TikTok! I'm sat
whaaaaaat? where is this tea?
Isn’t her rhetoric mainly about honing your own decisions, values, and desires in your life and not making decisions based on what society thinks your life should look like.
If this is even true (with more context), then it actually sounds on brand
@@Anacaonas_Flowers Yeah, not really. A lot of her videos are very self-righteous and condescending. Many of them telling women what to do/not to do when it comes to navigating certain circles, getting ‘the guy’, etc. Talking down on baby mamas and telling women to leave their cheating men. All the while her own relationship is in shambles? Yeah, no.
Ooooh👀
@@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely there’s a reason she deactivated her tiktok *shrugs*
Marriages are arranged according to family/class values, right? So it kinda makes sense if you think about it...
You could say, most "modern" relationships based on love alone overlook the differences of morals, values, class, etc.. and most often fail later on down the road if those differences aren't dealt with in the right way.
I mean they have a pretty good success rate too
I’d love for them to have Kimberly Foster on the show to go over the class statistics in dating. It’s actually very rare for people to successfully date outside of their class.
Most women do not date-upwards, the way it may seem on IG. And most men do not date-downwards. People may think they’re only dating for “love” but class def still plays a huge part in all of our dating dynamics, even if you’re not conscious of it.
She said $120,000 is too low . What’s wrong with these woman . Do they know what it take to get that type of job . It also depends on what you do for a living.
She said for her in her experience….everyone’s lifestyle and perspective is different which is normal and okay.
I love this podcast so much AAAHHH I’m a new subscriber so I need to know are weezy and Mandi friends (or we’re friends) or are they just business partners? 😭
I can't WAIT for your book!!!!
First time I sat through a whole.episode of whoreible decisions and this was so informative I loved ❤ the dating conversation everything they spoke about was facts dating is like a game now a days or like a box of 🍫 you never know what you going to get
I was laughing this whole episode love ya Mandi & Weezy ❤❤
Imma have to listen to this one on repeat bc Sahar was PREACHING!!
I agree with both Mandii and Wheezy pertaining to their viewpoints of past relationships and our viewpoints after. Love can change your viewpoints and desires but you can also move forward wanting different than before. There is no right or wrong and we are not Mandii, it’s okay for her to rediscover her feelings and desires but also, just lay in her emotions and grieve the relationship and herself how it seems fit. She is still in the process. We’re all human!
Favourite episode❤
Yes Sahar! Middle ground ❤
You just Fukin' Saved Me Whores!!!!
Thanks!!!!!!
This Dope-a-mine from Laffin' Out LOUD is Gonna ALOT!!!
LOVE ❤ Sahar!! Great episode was smiling and laughing the whole time. Mandii keep your ✌🏾✨ sis it looks good on you!
I love the. NEw editing style. ❤
Right, it’s such a fun touch
120k is too low? 😂 damn 😅
This was a great episode!
I freaking loveeeee Sahar! She’s soooo real
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the topic!!!! Are yall on spotify? Cuz its giving road trip
You can tell who is healed and who isn’t
40:06 this part!!!!!! Talk about it!
Now this is my type of relationship coach.
If you want to stand out from the rest of the women, do small gestures for the guy. If he has a beat up wallet, buy him a new wallet. That would at least make you stand out. Take the time to know what the guy needs and add that X-factor in his life. It'll better your chances
This is prob my favorite episode
This is maybe a hot take but I've always found it alarming when ppl who look back at all their past relationships and say that they weren't all shit or just consistently talk about their wrong doings or whatever. Because realistically it get to point that you have to take accountability of your bad contributions you did during the relationships or at the very least have some self awareness that you may attract a certain type of person constantly EVEN within your new seasons in your life. Like at what point to we realize that we're the lowest common demoninator in these situations.
It's wonderful to see your ladies live your best life! But your audience ain't doing most of this. I work with the poor, I make what Sahar would consider to be poverty wages, but I do have good taste and I act my wage without buying name brands, can't afford it. I do Spa days, been to wine Country, (Temecula, Healdsburg, Guerneville on a budget). I've done Paris, Puerto Vallarta, London, Chelmsford, Barcelona, and Hawaii. And plan to do more solo traveling which I prefer. My philosophy since I was age 18 was never expect a man to pay for my life, and since I was age 4 learned to enjoy my own company, so I've had the mentality of wanting a man for intimacy, emotional security and connection very early. Because I've worked with so many women who get kicked out of a man's house after a breakup and end up homeless (and if you end up with kids, homeless, guess who is ready to snatch up your kids in the foster care hustle?), I don't believe in shacking up with a man if you're unmarried, and if your married, continue to make your own money in case he leaves you, yes I agree with prenups at any wage, especially in California, no fault state, where even common law can get half your shvt.
Love this episode!!!
Great episode
Summer Fruits in the month of July why?
This guest cooking 🔥. Good episode
This may have given more understanding than anything I’ve ever watched
#yeahheaux
Here for the loose and clear vocal chords👏🏾
it’s okay to just say… you aren’t yet fully healed or ready to commit your time and effort into a relationship. that’s okay too. lol
11:45 I'm so sad that Mandy has been done so wrong by men in her life that she thinks this way. Not trynna bass her, just genuinely disappointing life has treated her that way.
When you say a man has to have a big di** for you to mess with him you're pretty likely to make some wrong choices.
❤❤❤ WEEZY
You pick people who are you. If you don't pick someone that's actually good it's you it's not them. You have to make yourself better in order to get someone better.
Ain’t saying nothing Kevin Samuels hasn’t said lol
The title of this episode is speaking to me 😅😭
I can understand holding yourself accountable for your response to a man cheating but why should I ask myself what I did wrong when a man cheats?
You did not add her info in the description! I’m trying to find the correct TikTok account.
thank you weezy!
My honeymoon phase was 5 years
What makes this woman qualified to talk about dating? I’m so confused. She referenced no facts. And her idea of advice was get your money 😒🤔
Curious, what passes as a qualification in dating advice?
I mean most relationship coaches are all peddling the same advice these days (regardless of their years of experience in the field, if they’re married/divorced, etc)
We have very few relationship coaches like Esther Perel
I like this episode! It should have came out a year and 1 month ago but I’m moving on. 😊
I like this episode
40:00 mandii………
I don’t make what y’all make but I relate to paying for everything bc I feel bad when I’m dating someone I know makes less than me 😭😭😭 I like nice things that shit not changing 😂
If women were more like the guest.. I'm marrying and loyal to her without a doubt.
My man will own a plane so we will never fight over first class 😂
Felt like they talked me out of whatever good will they gained in the first 2/3 of the show at the end. They was all about how dating's hard and rich men come with a cost, then flip roles, let them get some money and now they don't gat time for these bum-asp ninjas. Give Mandi some paper and she don't see the point in marriage no more. Lesson learned, treat em' like heauxes cause if you don't have the money they don't have the time.
But what's her instagram???
I know this podcast is not a sports podcast with holistic therapy. For the Tribes in North America is it Neutral Water that can Replenish a Revelationary in Revelation 22:2. 🙋🏾🙏🏾