Have You Ever Felt Bad About How A Kid With Bad Parents Might Turn Out? (r/AskReddit)

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  • @earthhound
    @earthhound 4 роки тому +66

    There was this kid who always came to my local game store. He seemed nice but the kids he hung out with were not so much. I told him to find new friends since they might get him in trouble and have him take the fall for something. He told me however that his stupid mother makes him hang out with them. I haven't seen him since the game store closed due to poor management. I hope he's ok.

  • @Sparky-cj9se
    @Sparky-cj9se 4 роки тому +27

    You know the way those idiotic parents letting kids run around a hit animals? I bet that those kids or descendants will end up in jail for animal abuse.
    I work at an animal shelter and i often have to care for cats with their paws or back marked with paint or a marker. Why is this bad? Well those cats are taken to illegal areas(We have a proper name for the areas but i can't remember it rn) where bets are placed on these poor little fellas. The cats are then throw into a pit of dogs and tore apart whilst people with seats reserved for them in hell laugh and bet on what cat gets killed first. Whenever I see someone attack a animal they get pummeled. And what's better is I don't get charged for it because it's part of my job.

  • @gracespitzer9200
    @gracespitzer9200 4 роки тому +77

    ☝️Being young does NOT mean you have to fail at parenting. Having no spine and no respect for others makes you a bad parent.

    • @quantum_chezburger2279
      @quantum_chezburger2279 4 роки тому +7

      Thank you. There are plenty of young parents who are great-my friend's mother is great and had him when she was late teens/early 20s.(idk which one)

    • @jessiejeanne9717
      @jessiejeanne9717 4 роки тому +6

      Yes, thank you! I've seen young fantastic parents and older lazy parents. That and it seems like people who would be awesome parents can't conceive while piece of shit losers can pop 'em out left and right.

    • @NiennaFan1
      @NiennaFan1 4 роки тому

      Being young enough means you are emotionally unprepared for being a parent, and that’s why the mean adults don’t want you to have sex, teenagers.

    • @yondermileslimpey3892
      @yondermileslimpey3892 4 роки тому +2

      Jessica Caron Butler it happens and young parents shouldn’t be deamonized for it. And you know what yeah some young moms are way better than old ones. It’s the work you put into parenting.

    • @NiennaFan1
      @NiennaFan1 4 роки тому

      Yonder Mileslimpey I know they shouldn’t be demonized for it if it’s already happened, but all teenagers need to understand just how much of a horrible idea having a child at their age would be so they try to avoid it!!!

  • @jason77584
    @jason77584 4 роки тому +45

    The one about the kid bitting the the person was gold😂🔥👍

  • @mr.infinity1887
    @mr.infinity1887 4 роки тому +35

    I'm guilty of being one who was sheltered so much as a child I cannot function properly at the age I am now, I am improving but over all I wish I wasn't as sheltered as I was

    • @nysom3356
      @nysom3356 4 роки тому +1

      surely you cant be as bad as aaron. he hadnt seen another human being besides his parents and babysitter until he was 12

    • @smileymoe9866
      @smileymoe9866 4 роки тому +1

      @@nysom3356 dangg. Yeah I was sheltered too but ain't nobody in this UA-cam comment section can relate to that poor kid...

  • @Lizz85257
    @Lizz85257 4 роки тому +11

    Walking through town a few months ago, woman walks past with her daughter, about 8 I'd guess. Quietly asking her mum some questions, not yelling or throwing a fit or anything... mother keeps saying "Shut up, shut the fuck up, just shut up, shut up!" Every time the kid opened her mouth. Wtf

  • @Domino365
    @Domino365 4 роки тому +6

    Regarding the guy who said he was going to groom his son to hate his mother, I hope he goes to his grave regretting that.
    As for me personally, I work in a library. There was one kid who came to the library everyday. He was a troublemaker. His mother is a frequent jailbird, and we have no information on his father. After several temporary bans, which included being caught breaking into someone's car, he finally got permanently banned. I once told a coworker that I predict that this child will not live to see his twentieth birthday. If it does take a village to raise a child, then his village has failed him.

  • @PinkAgaricus
    @PinkAgaricus 4 роки тому +17

    I give the husband in the first story for trying until the wife's insanity kicked in. He showed a hint of sanity, even if for a minute, then she kicked it out of him.
    I have to add to the response the person who responded to the comment with "and I am also going to have to teach you how to behave since it seems your parents didn't teach you how and you're perpetuating that to our kids". (the hypothetical phrase from the husband if he didn't let his spine get kicked out of him by that brat of a wife)

  • @thandaysmondays8708
    @thandaysmondays8708 4 роки тому +10

    I have these neighbors down the street. And they raise a nice boy named Harry, but they treat him horribly. He basically sleeps under the stairs and is yelled at all day. They also have another boy named Dudly, but Dudly is spoiled rotten. I haven’t seen Harry in a while, the last time I did, Vernon told me his house got flooded with letters for him...

    • @LIBqueen
      @LIBqueen 4 роки тому +2

      Uhmmm
      That Harry will probably grow to be a murderer...

    • @thandaysmondays8708
      @thandaysmondays8708 4 роки тому

      LIBqueen Well, Dudly (his brother), told me he became a wizard or something idk

    • @LIBqueen
      @LIBqueen 4 роки тому +1

      @@thandaysmondays8708 hah!! Yea right!
      I bet he walked through a wall at a train station too huhn? 😒 don't buy it...

    • @thandaysmondays8708
      @thandaysmondays8708 4 роки тому

      LIBqueen Ikr! He said that the platform was 3 1/4? Strange boy..

    • @someantisocialkidwithayout8828
      @someantisocialkidwithayout8828 4 роки тому

      What school does he go to?

  • @Laylastorm1
    @Laylastorm1 4 роки тому +21

    I worry about my neighbors kids. I’ve watched them get punched, kicked, slapped, cussed, pulled around by the neck with a rope etc and yes I called 911. Yes I had video and photos. No CPS did nothing. No they didn’t want to see my proof. Then I saw the 9 year old try to cut his own throat with a serrated knife and try to hang his 8 year old brother. Another call to the police. Nothing has ever been done. Now all I can do is cry about it. It’s sad.

    • @S6dalanna
      @S6dalanna 4 роки тому +9

      Channel your inner Karen and take this to a higher level.

    • @YouSoCute2000
      @YouSoCute2000 4 роки тому +5

      omggg yes please take this up the chain!!!!! those poor babies!!😢😢

    • @Lenjoker
      @Lenjoker 4 роки тому

      That's the 80s

    • @lesleygreen273
      @lesleygreen273 4 роки тому +4

      Threatening to send the pictures to local media if police/CPS do nothing

    • @duchesseebene1273
      @duchesseebene1273 4 роки тому +6

      As it's been said, send it to local media. If there's no response, send it to online media such as NowThis or Huffpost.

  • @formulafish1536
    @formulafish1536 4 роки тому +7

    The biting story reminds me of my own, but at my Nans.
    When my sister was maybe 2, she was a little brat (like all of us are at 2, but I was 5, and was no longer a little brat because my parents actually parent us) she decided out of nowhere to bite me. When I screamed in pain, and showed my Nan the witness mark (if you want to get away with hurting someone, don’t bite) Nan grabbed her arm and bit her back, also leaving a similar mark. Let’s just say that she has never bitten anything other than her food and the straw she drinks from ever since.
    Whilst physical punishment is not very often the answer, in this case, it clearly worked.

  • @anantasyamaila4298
    @anantasyamaila4298 4 роки тому +15

    My cousin (5 years old) was crying because her sister teased her. Her mom tried to calm her down by grabbing a knife and said, "well, I had a solution; what if I stabbed her if you so upset to her?"
    Of course, she screamed no. But her mom kept saying that until her child stopped crying. I was overhearing the entire thing from the other side of the room. I was terrified but know at the same time that my aunt would do stuff like that

    • @yondermileslimpey3892
      @yondermileslimpey3892 4 роки тому +3

      Oh my shit. She said that to a 5 year old!!!?!!! She is going to grow up thinking that if she hates someone they should die dude wtf

    • @murakumo65
      @murakumo65 4 роки тому +4

      You called CPS right?

    • @anantasyamaila4298
      @anantasyamaila4298 4 роки тому +1

      @@murakumo65 too bad I can't. Stuff like this are sadly normal on my aunt's household environment. Calling CPS (well, we don't call them CPS here) would be considered too much

    • @michelewalburn4376
      @michelewalburn4376 3 роки тому

      @@anantasyamaila4298 it's not too much. Please call. Those children are being traumatized by that abuse.

  • @Athlynne
    @Athlynne 4 роки тому +9

    To those OPs vowing to raise well-behaved, non-brat children - I wish you happy relationships, easy pregnancies, and healthy children. Thank you for your service in advance.

    • @michelewalburn4376
      @michelewalburn4376 3 роки тому

      Oh I was going to have perfect children. My first child was very easy-going. God tricked me. My daughter was Satan incarnate. Lol.

  • @bify1913
    @bify1913 4 роки тому +40

    I feel bad for my siblings on the way they might turn out because of my mom

    • @jessiejeanne9717
      @jessiejeanne9717 4 роки тому +7

      I'm super defensive and have anxiety/depression issues because of mine... I hope they'll be ok and please be there for them and let them know you understand. I'm an only child, so I didn't have much of a support network.

  • @Aizawa_Shino
    @Aizawa_Shino 4 роки тому +6

    The one with the lady trying to buy the bird made me so angry. As a mother of three birds and auntie of two more, just the thought that woman wanted to, was of aware of, and had at least four times in the past made such wonderful creatures suffer like that. I hope something happened and she’s legally forbidden from owning any sort of animal.

  • @Madhattergirl
    @Madhattergirl 4 роки тому +18

    I'm very concerned for how my nephew will turn out. His father, my BIL, is a very close minded person, to put it as nice as I can and my sister acts entitled as hell because she "married up". Hell, her son is less than a year old and she gives him soda! Like, wtf?!

    • @availanila
      @availanila 4 роки тому

      What's wrong with that? If it's not his only source of liquid it doesn't matter.

    • @yondermileslimpey3892
      @yondermileslimpey3892 4 роки тому +5

      Sodas not good for kids and gets them addicted. My mom is an example and all of her teeth are gross now. The father will probably tell his views to the kid which will go one of two ways make him a hate mongorer or the kid ends up being in a minority and hated by the dad. :(

    • @Domino365
      @Domino365 4 роки тому

      Giving a child soda can actually make their teeth rot before growing out.

  • @karenmathews575
    @karenmathews575 4 роки тому +17

    Crying crotch louse. 😂🤣😂🤣! I love that!😂

  • @kaiyas9464
    @kaiyas9464 4 роки тому +4

    Ok ok but consider the conversation the mother would’ve had to have with the doctor. Like “I need to get my 6 year old son tested for HIV because he bit someone with HIV at the grocery store” lmaooo

  • @thefirestorm3867
    @thefirestorm3867 4 роки тому +11

    13:23, not the first time I’ve heard this story, but damn it’s still satisfying to read, that’s just *Revenge 100* right there

  • @kimzastrow1268
    @kimzastrow1268 4 роки тому +20

    You should be concerned about your childs future cause the country we actually live in and how people actually are

  • @jennifertustin6629
    @jennifertustin6629 4 роки тому +16

    I used to work at Walmart. I’ve seen all kinds of parents.

  • @Nightwalker-zk6ce
    @Nightwalker-zk6ce 4 роки тому +4

    Idk if I can finish this video, I’m a fourth of the way through and my faith in the parenting skills of the general population and in future generations is shattered.

  • @sandrakiss8711
    @sandrakiss8711 4 роки тому +3

    my darn neighbour's granddaughter gets excused of everything too. annoys the frick out of me. when I actually try to discipline her, the grandmother comes to "defend" her and dispute whatever I said. like last time me telling her to stop pulling everything in sight because shelves and such are not hot-fixed to the walls here. the ironing board almost fell on her. ofc que buncha crying afterwards.
    or her screaming and throwing tantrums so loud I cant rest after work, next day i tell her it wasnt nice of her to throw a tantrum, i could hear that, and it did not feel nice. then grandma goes hugging her saying oh, she has been an angel, wth am i talking about?! jfc.
    when i was a kid i wouldnt even dare to throw a tantrum at HOME, let alone in a public place. and no i didnt need to get beatings to learn it, i was just raised with discipline...

  • @Ai-Sure
    @Ai-Sure 4 роки тому +2

    27:42 sounds exactly like what my mom said to me when I was 7 except she said I’d be put back in foster care since I already was in foster care almost 2 years prior although she’s always treated me like an adult basically blamed me for being molested at 10 because her married boyfriend was grooming me and then started molesting me so to this day she calls me a slut. I should put this on Reddit

  • @craigtheopabinia3957
    @craigtheopabinia3957 4 роки тому +32

    The last time I was this early, dinosaurs still walked the earth

  • @kkm9292
    @kkm9292 4 роки тому +2

    My mother would knock my ass into the next week if i ever threw a tantrum publicly or privately. I had a more or less good childhood, have grown up fine into a responsible, well employed individual. There NOTHING wrong with disciplining your children.

    • @lovelydolltime8006
      @lovelydolltime8006 4 роки тому

      That sounds like abuse, not discipline.

    • @michelewalburn4376
      @michelewalburn4376 3 роки тому

      There's also nothing wrong with tired children, confused children, stressed children. I'm not judging the way you were raised. I'm just saying adults can and are often wrong and it's ok for kids to correct adults. We're not special. We're human too

  • @pplaguerat9229
    @pplaguerat9229 4 роки тому +2

    6:15 I take the bus everyday and there's a group of 10-13 year olds who think it's okay to push eachother around and hit eachother on the bus

  • @pebblepod30
    @pebblepod30 4 роки тому +4

    Spoilt Children raising spoilt children.

  • @LazySkeptic23
    @LazySkeptic23 4 роки тому +3

    I really hope that HPV guy story is real. It's my favorite reddit story.

  • @LIBqueen
    @LIBqueen 4 роки тому +13

    The HIV story😁

  • @lizabee7791
    @lizabee7791 Рік тому

    5:26 I just had to deal with some little subway demons similar to these kids yesterday. There were two kids, a girl around 6 or 7 who was running around the train (it wasn’t full but it wasn’t empty), jumping on the seats, looking at a random people’s phone and of course swinging around the pole, not caring if she bumped into anyone, and a boy around 10 who was bulling his sister when ever she came near them(name calling, trying to hit her, etc), they were with their mother who would occasionally tell the girl to stop and sit down but said it in a way that implied she didn’t care what the girl was doing and never got up from her seat to actually control her. At one point the boy deliberately tripped his sister (I saw him stick his foot out) as she ran by and the girl responded by hitting her brother in the arm, mom then demanded the girl (and only the girl, didn’t say anything to the boy tripping her, guessing boy is her golden child) apologize for hitting her brother, girl refused and ran to the other side of the train and sat down next to a stranger (really close to him, she was actually leaning against his arm) before continuing her playtime. As they were getting off the girl ran into me, mom just yelled “WATCH IT!” To the girl, didn’t apologize to me in anyway or even look at me as they exited. I was both very annoyed at that little girl and felt very sorry for her because she had a mom who didn’t seem to care about her

  • @taylorwiseman8078
    @taylorwiseman8078 4 роки тому +1

    2:38 This reminds me of an episode of Grey's Anatomy (or maybe House) where the mom, who's dressed up all professional-like (which I only point out because it was why I was surprised), is upset the doctors are letting her 14-year-old make medical decisions and she says "You know what kind of decisions I was making at 14? Getting knocked up by my loser boyfriend". I remember thinking "well you seem to be doing okay"

  • @maebandy
    @maebandy 4 роки тому

    I had a hard time sleeping, my house wasn't 'safe'. I woke up late made my mom late and she would scream, backhand, pull my hair and slap me all the way to school EveryDay. A truly brave and wonderful(so kind and non judgmental was her gaze it was hard for me to have her look at me sometimes) teacher came out one day and jumped in the car with my mom before she could leave, she sat talking to my mom for 1hour and 45 min in the school parking lot. It didn't change my mom for long but it changed me forever, seeing anger approached differently, controlling your emotions for someone else's, good, having someone care about me so much they would willingly get in my torture box to try and save me. If you see someone hurting their child, please don't ignore it if possible, please don't yell at them, try and be the example for them even if it's only for a min, it may last longer than you think.

  • @1jamesodom
    @1jamesodom 3 роки тому

    When I was a kid I was a biter. The thing that got me to stop was when an adult bit me back. My parents were like, "well, that's what you get when you bite." I never did it again.

  • @kendoruslink7017
    @kendoruslink7017 4 роки тому +9

    In really don't like when people in their early twenties are having kids.

  • @michelewalburn4376
    @michelewalburn4376 3 роки тому

    Teaching your children a sense of entitlement is child abuse.

  • @TheMerryWolf
    @TheMerryWolf 4 роки тому +2

    The HIV thing was funny; it's not the only bloodborn disease out there, so I wish others were more well-known as there is still a stigma around HIV so the person in the story could have had something different to resort to. On the other hand, I'd be petty enough to start asking for health insurance information because the human mouth is nasty and who knows what those little crotch goblins could be infecting you with.

  • @josepherhardt164
    @josepherhardt164 2 роки тому

    2:11 "I told her to go to Toys R Us, then wept for the future of our world." Damn. :(

  • @livylu6287
    @livylu6287 2 роки тому

    Yeah, my niece and nephew. Their mother is a schizophrenic and my brother is bipolar with delusional thoughts.
    My parents have had custody of my niece since she was a year old and my nephew since he was born. My niece is now four. they have tried putting them back into the home and ended up having to take them right back out within a week.

  • @demoniac4821
    @demoniac4821 4 роки тому +1

    The bitter story repeats.

  • @Dizz2K7
    @Dizz2K7 4 роки тому +1

    Being sad and wanting food isn't the same as throwing a tantrum over not getting candy. It leads to entitlement, not obesity. You just hate fat people.

  • @availanila
    @availanila 4 роки тому

    I used to casually baby sit this adorable doll of a baby with the world's shittiest patents. A slutty dad and a mom that neglected her and badly abused her stepson (doll baby's half-brother) to the point he ran away and now lives across the country and wants nothing to do with them including having an order of protection against them (my country sucks, and that's why they're not in prison).
    At best she was raised line Ilse (the girl from Emily of New Moon) and at worst willfully ignored and pushed away by *all* *her* *family* (that's how I got to become her baby sitter).
    Well, her cousins and uncles started asking her what was in my house and eventually she revealed that I have a money box in my living room anyone can access. Then they started sending her over to steal the money and when I found out and told her mom she acted like I was in the wrong for trying to raise a child not mine. (How the hell was I supposed to leave a two year old by a highway miles from the neighborhood and at Twilight alone? Or leave her wonder away when I've seen her go that far off alone?) I took the box and kept it far from where she could reach and told her stealing was wrong. A month of her not being around me (I don't like thieves) and one rainy night her dad knocks at my door asking if she's around (almost midnight) only for her to be found in this creepy guy's (he lives alone btw) house with them locked up inside till everyone thought he wasn't home. That poor baby had been in there from wee before noon god knows doing what or having what done to her 😠😡 and the guy skipped town shortly after and I didn't even want to know. So when the guy returned (hated by all still) I told that baby to come and be staying over at my place till her dad or auntie came looking for her and would usually force the auntie to take her in at nine pm since the dad would leave her alone as late as that outside if I took her to him.
    One day I find her trying to get to the money box and soon after discover she'd gone back to taking notes and coins out of it. I locked it and about a week later I find her crying and trying to open it and she straight up tells me her older cousins (teenagers) will hurt her if she doesn't take money to them (never revealed how) and I give her a few coins from it that evening before taking her to her auntie.
    A month later when my mom was over she finds her leaving with some coins and a note from her purse and raises hell. I haven't seen her around but friends say she's closer to home now that she's older at around five and doesn't get lost (her parents moved to the next street when their baby's thieving way was discovered and didn't even try to help heand in fact still ignore her.
    I always worry for her, I think she'll turn into a not do nice teenager, young adult and full grown woman. Thank God she's not my problem!

  • @dergluckliche4973
    @dergluckliche4973 4 роки тому +1

    I feel bad for all kids.

  • @smileymoe9866
    @smileymoe9866 4 роки тому +1

    Dang I have a whole story that fits this question but it's too long and disturbing to say here ;_;

  • @em1osmurf
    @em1osmurf 4 роки тому +5

    10:40 the neighborhood here hired a "remover" to deal with them with shotguns. geese are pests. 160 killed in the first week.

  • @eviesaurisrex4682
    @eviesaurisrex4682 4 роки тому +1

    The text needs to be much bigger, no way I can read that

  • @heromaxone2993
    @heromaxone2993 4 роки тому +2

    Of course I know him he’s me

  • @vincentender1486
    @vincentender1486 4 роки тому +1

    I know I shouldnt have kids, so I fucking wont and even got the snip done. I had a classmate who at graduation had like.. 3 kids and another on a way. And that was 07. Of course it was Florida so....

    • @dergluckliche4973
      @dergluckliche4973 4 роки тому +1

      Comments like yours make me glad I grew up at a time when teen pregnancy was considered a shamefully trashy thing to be dealt with discreetly and with haste. Makes me almost miss the late 1990s. Then again I think Florida will always be an utter shit hole.

  • @Narutojaden
    @Narutojaden 3 роки тому

    The one where the kids fits into the kids mouth that was younger than him I know that there was a comment under underneath that was like oh that was beautiful no that’s disgusting and also completely illegal that is assault and older people should know better but the actions of this guys firend make me believe he was like 16 and a hole bag

  • @em1osmurf
    @em1osmurf 4 роки тому

    21:14 DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHH BAGS. FFS.

  • @Narutojaden
    @Narutojaden 3 роки тому

    Also to the guy that was talking about how The kids these days are so easily manipulated that when it comes time to vote they’re going to be easily manipulated if you’re votingYou have already been manipulated into thinking that it even ducking matters ... we’ve seen the videos we all know that Bernie was efed over even Republicans know that Bernie was the one that one we’re all in agreement with that but yet people still just somehow forget and go well that’s reality and then they go on to continue believing that they actually matter when their vote literally doesn’t matter because whoever they want for the last two people that is what it’s going to be and whoever has the better gang that is the best sneakiest one to get the job done to get the votes wins

  • @tyanator.
    @tyanator. 4 роки тому +3

    Not many people comment lol

  • @Т1000-м1и
    @Т1000-м1и 2 роки тому +1

    Two of da same story tho

  • @Chipswitch22
    @Chipswitch22 4 роки тому

    No. Next question

  • @artiefire5710
    @artiefire5710 4 роки тому +5

    69420

  • @sugaryskittless6731
    @sugaryskittless6731 4 роки тому +1

    h

  • @tyanator.
    @tyanator. 4 роки тому +1

    Hi

  • @mrwootenplays7227
    @mrwootenplays7227 4 роки тому +1

    Oh hey

  • @NiennaFan1
    @NiennaFan1 4 роки тому +3

    Disliking the video due to the unfair poor-hating clickbait image they posted

    • @dergluckliche4973
      @dergluckliche4973 4 роки тому +2

      Kid against a wall = uNfAiR pOoR-hAtInG cLiCkBaIt ImAgE

    • @NiennaFan1
      @NiennaFan1 4 роки тому

      Der Glückliche no not that one- the one in a separate post advertising this video

  • @plattepuss66
    @plattepuss66 4 роки тому +2

    My boys were beggars when we went to the store. Always asking for everything. They would be all over the store. My youngest would hide in the hanging clothes. Now at 21 my youngest is my shopping buddy. He helps keep me organized when I shop. My eldest son slows me down, but enjoys shopping with me because it is time with me and he is 25.

    • @michelewalburn4376
      @michelewalburn4376 3 роки тому

      Some kids are more active. That's just fact. My perfect child, lol, my son, once climbed under a round clothes rack at Walmart when his grandma has him thank God, and lunged out at people growling and barking. One lady got real offended. I'm so glad I wasn't there. I would've needed new pants for sure. He didn't physically touch anyone and he was only 3/4 at the time. He was playing puppy. Lol.