How to be a CONFIDENT GIRL

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  • @autumnhuddleston7626
    @autumnhuddleston7626 7 років тому +1076

    "Confident people do not become that way by sitting alone at home."
    Me: sitting alone in the couch eating food and watching this

  • @miyarashid8528
    @miyarashid8528 7 років тому +1391

    Hey random person scrolling through the comments -Smile 😊 u r beautiful

    • @eshajain7915
      @eshajain7915 7 років тому +21

      Miatarz Rashid Thanks for this. This random comment just made me smile.

    • @catgamer3623
      @catgamer3623 6 років тому +3

      Hi hi hi hi :-):-):-):-):-):-);-)

    • @katytovey6972
      @katytovey6972 6 років тому +3

      im crying hah

    • @exaudmakyao5785
      @exaudmakyao5785 6 років тому +3

      Miya Rashid wow thanks

    • @justcallmeMariahhh
      @justcallmeMariahhh 6 років тому +3

      Miya Rashid this actually made me smile 😊 thx 💞

  • @ohnana21
    @ohnana21 8 років тому +1779

    it's hard when you have anxiety.. social anxiety to be precise. ugh

    • @ryleewoller9232
      @ryleewoller9232 8 років тому +44

      I'm with ya sister. 😞

    • @ohnana21
      @ohnana21 8 років тому +45

      R Woller​ hang in there .. we'll get through it some day . 💜

    • @jamilazujasonjj1545
      @jamilazujasonjj1545 8 років тому +3

      +That Virgo Soul lol

    • @victoriahayes1364
      @victoriahayes1364 8 років тому +41

      That Virgo Soul I have social anxiety too and I have panic attacks when I'm around too many people so I feel you

    • @jermainecoronado4827
      @jermainecoronado4827 8 років тому +4

      That Virgo Soul lol

  • @lenschowbooks
    @lenschowbooks 8 років тому +1503

    Top 5 I hang out with:
    Me
    My phone
    Mum
    Dad
    Brother

  • @makaylafaye2163
    @makaylafaye2163 8 років тому +1456

    For me the only way for me to feel confident is to listen to music

  • @l0l869
    @l0l869 8 років тому +388

    I'm already confident *looks in mirror then cries*

    • @theresafloresca1509
      @theresafloresca1509 7 років тому +10

      thats so wrong let people tell you who you are cause some people think you are beautiful , dont let yourself down you. People will find you pretty someday. 😊😬✌️😚

    • @theresafloresca1509
      @theresafloresca1509 7 років тому +3

      Bareera Sami yes dear everyone deserve to be happy. 🙂

  • @fymbra360
    @fymbra360 8 років тому +1735

    so easy when you're pretty

    • @camaa2888
      @camaa2888 8 років тому +14

      tru dat...

    • @hxkouu
      @hxkouu 8 років тому +38

      oh,yeah..i forgot about that 😣😭😂😖

    • @jennw.6508
      @jennw.6508 8 років тому +56

      even if your not pretty being confident is a great thing.

    • @olivial6393
      @olivial6393 8 років тому +12

      But you are so beautiful

    • @tessr6229
      @tessr6229 8 років тому +58

      Being confident makes u pretty ☺️

  • @sophiamarie1017
    @sophiamarie1017 8 років тому +311

    I wish their was a dating website but for friends because my friends are negative

    • @natalieesme2556
      @natalieesme2556 8 років тому +2

      I feel the same way :(

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +8

      If your friends are negative then get new friends or spread positivity to them. Your mood will change and you will be happier. SPREAD POSITIVE VIBES!!!!!

    • @sophiamarie1017
      @sophiamarie1017 8 років тому +18

      +Nagito Komaeda I wish it was that way. I've had a best friend since I was born, and she still is, but she puts me down to make herself feel better. The problem is she is lying to herself and saying "oh I'm just joking." And she is so dependent, she says "I can't imagine what the world would be like if we weren't best friends." Which is SO CREEPY and I'm very independent. I don't want her doing EVERYTHING I do and following me around. But the problem is, our parents hang out, and we go to the same school, and we are in the same home room and we have a lot of classes together. So I can't because she will always be there. But when I go to high school I can, bc we will go to different schools. If you are down here at the bottom of this long message, thanks, means a lot

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +4

      +Melody Smith I understand how you feel I'm very happy that you are going to stop being her friend in high school what grade are you in? I'm in high school?

    • @phoebewestmore2651
      @phoebewestmore2651 8 років тому +5

      I had the same problems with a friend but I left the friendship and I'm so much happier

  • @nellylundstrom
    @nellylundstrom 8 років тому +247

    The problem is that there are legit NO positive girls in my class :/

    • @marialiformoso8582
      @marialiformoso8582 8 років тому +11

      sameee, but i will try to stay positive and maybe smile at them and be kind. we don't know what are they going through

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +6

      +Mariali Formoso I LOVE your attitude stay positive

    • @marialiformoso8582
      @marialiformoso8582 8 років тому +3

      +Nagito Komaeda Thank you so much! 😊

    • @katou-kun9086
      @katou-kun9086 8 років тому +11

      Then find a positive guy to have as a friend. Guys are human too and can enjoy a girl's company just as much as he would another guy.

    • @natashak4794
      @natashak4794 7 років тому

      Nelly Lundström ....same here🤕

  • @georgianasimina930
    @georgianasimina930 7 років тому +338

    Wouldn't I look weird if I'd just sit on a bench and smile on my own?

  • @nuhvaa4280
    @nuhvaa4280 8 років тому +1881

    lol most of the confident people are actually beautiful though

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +89

      I bet your gorgeous be confident and your looks won't matter. Be more POSITIVE and people will love you!

    • @nuhvaa4280
      @nuhvaa4280 8 років тому +17

      +Nagito Komaeda
      Thank you very much :)

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +16

      +Smiles :/\ No problem be your self😊

    • @locologos1323
      @locologos1323 8 років тому +26

      Smiles :/\ because when you feel beautiful the beautiful comes out

    • @shinapi6959
      @shinapi6959 8 років тому +23

      Smiles :/\ they are beautiful because they are confident about how they look like. Their confidence gives them their beauty

  • @yeah6281
    @yeah6281 8 років тому +230

    I can't do the tip number 5, I'm afraid to accept compliment. I have a mind set that when someone compliment me, it is sarcastic.

    • @procrastinationandlove9576
      @procrastinationandlove9576 7 років тому +6

      Gray Leprechaun NUU STOP THINKING THAT FAM

    • @j3891
      @j3891 7 років тому +6

      Gray Leprechaun whenever someone compliments you, just smile and say thanks. Whether you think it's sarcastic or not, just try to accept it and look at yourself in a positive way. :)

    • @ladyfoxwf1075
      @ladyfoxwf1075 7 років тому

      Gray Leprechaun people contradict themselves

    • @midnightthelonewolf7171
      @midnightthelonewolf7171 7 років тому +6

      Gray Leprechaun same and like they are just trying to make me feel better and being pity

    • @bestobilliex4674
      @bestobilliex4674 7 років тому +1

      Your amazing, keep smiling you look amazing and I hope you have the best day/night 😉

  • @AyshaHarun
    @AyshaHarun 8 років тому +183

    Such great advice Kimberly, Loved this video!

    • @lilabarks4371
      @lilabarks4371 6 років тому

      Aysha Abdul I love youuuu 💓🤧

    • @nashi1824
      @nashi1824 6 років тому

      AYSHA!! HIII ILYSM

  • @sdhollems
    @sdhollems 4 роки тому +14

    I have actually started using some of these tips (two years after I watched this video) because I got really, really tired of feeling the way that I did about myself. And I seriously haven't felt this happy in a long time. I smile wherever I go and just started not talking so negatively about myself and people always smile at me now and I've even had strangers tell me how much they love my smile, which is wonderful because I've always been really insecure about my smile and no person has ever said they like my smile. Thank you for this video because it's actually helped me so much.

  • @bekahsasha
    @bekahsasha 8 років тому +546

    I just told the guy I like that I like him.

    • @8250m
      @8250m 8 років тому +59

      Good! Hopefully he likes you back

    • @beatriceolivier8438
      @beatriceolivier8438 8 років тому +5

      +Clorox Bleach bleach 😂😂😂

    • @tofunny3897
      @tofunny3897 8 років тому +14

      +Clorox Bleach I always see you in the Sweatshirt comments

    • @maryetc.1504
      @maryetc.1504 8 років тому +22

      sooo.. Does he like you back? I hope he does😊

    • @bekahsasha
      @bekahsasha 8 років тому +40

      No :(

  • @silvermist2266
    @silvermist2266 7 років тому +319

    go girls...get a degree....study hard....do job...buy car...house...make ur parents happy....and see...u willl feel confident

    • @gargidas1880
      @gargidas1880 7 років тому +8

      yep! I totally agree with u!

    • @77moonwalker77
      @77moonwalker77 7 років тому +11

      silver mist i gonna live my life how i want it to be not to make my parents happy

    • @silvermist2266
      @silvermist2266 7 років тому +5

      7moonwalker7..... selfish people r just like u...😲 damm...😲 ur parents lived for u...now its ur turn.... how cn u even say such thing abut ur parents..... shame on u

    • @midnightthelonewolf7171
      @midnightthelonewolf7171 7 років тому +1

      silver mist hey, you don't know if she's selfish 😐

    • @silvermist2266
      @silvermist2266 7 років тому

      Midnight The Lonewolf do u know???

  • @visuallyblissful4212
    @visuallyblissful4212 8 років тому +342

    Even though that I'm really insecure about my body but I walk the halls of my school with sass. I'm tall so that gives me an edge over almost everyone else. I don't even mean too 😂😂 but when I do I feel awesome! Also the bullies from when I was 3rd grade don't bother me because I walk like I know how awesome I am and their comments mean nothing to me. I'm 12 btw

    • @alexandrafisher6289
      @alexandrafisher6289 8 років тому +11

      YOU GO GIRL!

    • @MD-dh2kx
      @MD-dh2kx 8 років тому +4

      +CloudyCupcake same. Just own it!😃

    • @leahwalker3477
      @leahwalker3477 8 років тому +4

      RELATABLE. I'm 13 and am 5'11.

    • @visuallyblissful4212
      @visuallyblissful4212 8 років тому +3

      +Lime Mountain you're like my friend. She is 12 and is 6 feet.

    • @visuallyblissful4212
      @visuallyblissful4212 8 років тому +2

      I am 5'6 so I'm taller then everyone in my grade but two girls and one boy because one is 6 feet and the other is 5'7 and the guy is 5'7. Most kids are 5'1

  • @graciiee8937
    @graciiee8937 8 років тому +899

    when no one sent you bday messages

  • @NerokoMimi
    @NerokoMimi 8 років тому +476

    I dont smile cause my teeth arent straight. I'm extremely insecure. Its easy for some to be confident. Not for me

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +51

      They say a smile is the prettiest thing on a girl. It doesn't Matter if your teeth aren't straight what matters is your personality. STAY POSITIVE!!!

    • @NerokoMimi
      @NerokoMimi 8 років тому +13

      +Nagito Komaeda I know that but when your smile isnt really pretty, a pouty face can be prettier on you.
      But thanks for your supportive comment c: You're so nice ^^

    • @KiarraJ2
      @KiarraJ2 8 років тому +27

      I feel the same. I have a gap so I don't even show my teeth in pictures. We just have to embrace it and be who we are because no matter what else anyone say or think, we are beautiful. If not to that certain person but to others❤️

    • @NerokoMimi
      @NerokoMimi 8 років тому +12

      +Dae Dae Maybe you are right. I'm trying my best to embrace who I am. But its kinda difficult when you compare yourself to the others. I know I shouldnt do that -_-''
      I'm glad you're very positive about this. ^^

    • @KiarraJ2
      @KiarraJ2 8 років тому +7

      +Lysai I compare myself to others all the time. I just know that I have to embrace it until it closes or I get braces. I just know that this one feature about us, helps us gain the confidence that we need. I'm still battling with confidence but I take it one...day...at...a...time💙

  • @chilllil5225
    @chilllil5225 6 років тому +82

    “Confident people do not become that way by sitting alone at home.”
    Me: well... I’m laying in bed, not sitting. I guess I’m okay then! 😂

  • @GiannaChristine
    @GiannaChristine 8 років тому +48

    I LOVE this! Confidence is such an important thing & I think its great that you're spreading this positivity!💜

  • @izzywings8693
    @izzywings8693 8 років тому +178

    Easier said than done when you have bad anxiety, panic attacks and major depression...

    • @eshaverma9641
      @eshaverma9641 8 років тому +16

      so fucking true but trying doesn't hurts

    • @oluwafunshosulaiman4665
      @oluwafunshosulaiman4665 7 років тому +3

      Izzy Wings did you know that your brain can't differentiate from what's real and whats not and over thinking leads to anxiety which leads to panic attacks and negative thoughts to depression just always try and think positive because whatever you think becomes your reality though the negative thoughts are always fighting hard to get into your head just try your best to keep them out and I won't lie to you some days you're gonna feel on top of the world and so happy and other times you're gonna feel so sad like nothing you do will help you but one day you're going to look back and see all the progress you've made so just keep fighting its going to hard but its worth it. your happiness is worth it.

    • @midnightthelonewolf7171
      @midnightthelonewolf7171 7 років тому

      Izzy Wings ugh I feel you girl

    • @maiyaparker7767
      @maiyaparker7767 5 років тому

      I think about food when I walk. It gives me hope

    • @PennyLane-kc1tv
      @PennyLane-kc1tv 5 років тому

      Izzy Wings same here I like her advice but not everyone is bubbly and confident like she is that’s why I said put for all personalities

  • @carolynmarchenko2150
    @carolynmarchenko2150 8 років тому +83

    This was honestly such a helpful video. My goal for the next school year is to be as confident as possible and I think this will really help.

    • @nimcoahmed3341
      @nimcoahmed3341 8 років тому +1

      That's what I'm trying to do :)

    • @abbeynelson2267
      @abbeynelson2267 8 років тому +1

      I wish you the best of luck! You can do it :)

    • @rooa2337
      @rooa2337 8 років тому

      Same here haha... Idk if I can do it and tbh I probably won't but it doesn't hurt to try soooo :)

    • @KiarraJ2
      @KiarraJ2 8 років тому

      +Roo A same

    • @SoleGirlsRun
      @SoleGirlsRun 7 років тому

      Way to go!! How did it go?

  • @puregodd
    @puregodd 7 років тому +31

    When crush not around: I'm a boss
    When crush around: ........ Bye!

  • @sammyt5196
    @sammyt5196 8 років тому +9

    I always stutter when I talk to people, mispronounce words, or I stop randomly to think of a word for a really long time
    That really lowers my self-confidence

  • @ellie_run
    @ellie_run 8 років тому +28

    The problem is that I am positive while I'm with my friends but as soon as I am alone, there come the problems

  • @teresewiktil8391
    @teresewiktil8391 8 років тому +66

    I'm super weird so the only time I have confidence is when I wear outfits that hide the body parts I hate and when I play handball lmao I'm probably super weird ik

    • @samirahhart3980
      @samirahhart3980 8 років тому +5

      try finding cloths that showcase good features of your body and not the bad ones. Maybe that can help

    • @teresewiktil8391
      @teresewiktil8391 8 років тому +1

      +Samirah Hart oh thank you! I'll try that!:)

    • @teresa7258
      @teresa7258 8 років тому +1

      +The Fangirl No I do the same thing!

  • @jazzysmith1856
    @jazzysmith1856 8 років тому +48

    nobody knows my birthday on fb. only 1 person wrote me a birthday memo and it was my grandma, on the wrong date. and she though i was 1 year younger than i am. *sigh* i have no friends

    • @elisa9038
      @elisa9038 7 років тому +2

      Jazzy Smith happy late B-Day ❤ sugar is white
      heart are big and small you have a big heart just like your bDay

    • @jazzysmith1856
      @jazzysmith1856 7 років тому +1

      Elsabeth Castaneda thank you so much! This comment made my day lol

    • @explorationqueen6481
      @explorationqueen6481 7 років тому +2

      Jazzy Smith just know that having no friends is better than having fake friends who are seasonal so don't be sad the right and real ones will come into ur life at the right time...sweetie remember that good things take time so have a patience I may not know u but I'm sure ur Beautiful en unique in ur own way..Nobody can be you so that's special about you and happy birthday 🎉🎉 though late and I would loved to be your friend if possible..your diamond 💎

    • @jazzysmith1856
      @jazzysmith1856 7 років тому +2

      ifrax ADAN thank you. I really appreciate it. My bday was actually yesterday and some ppl actually commented. Your comment was so sweet tho I would love to be your friend! Do you have Google hangouts?

    • @jazzysmith1856
      @jazzysmith1856 7 років тому +1

      ifrax ADAN thanks. I deleted your comment so creepy people can't see your info

  • @danthe1830
    @danthe1830 7 років тому +35

    Kimberly: By telling yourself what u love about yourself
    Me: What do I love about myself *thinks about it* Nothing;-;

    • @judy6100
      @judy6100 7 років тому

      The_Great_And_Lovable_Peridot OMG SAME

    • @paigejuliar
      @paigejuliar 7 років тому

      you have to have something

    • @wolfeevi
      @wolfeevi 6 років тому

      allison546_
      What I love about myself would probably be my freckles

    • @alyssad5372
      @alyssad5372 5 років тому

      Well I'm grate full
      Me-trya to find something..
      Me-i have a face
      Me again-nah I'll wait for someone to say

  • @carolinechalue9029
    @carolinechalue9029 8 років тому +166

    Thank you so much for this advice ❤️❤️😊 I love you so much , new subscriber

  • @NikkaG
    @NikkaG 8 років тому +160

    Take risk : Yeah let me even try talking normally to my crush. Ill get back to u if it works😔😕

    • @babelove45
      @babelove45 8 років тому +10

      Gril you'll be fine. I'm very self conscious and I was super scared to talk to my crush, but once I did we found out a lot about each other ( well not a lot) but we like the same movies.... Lol and we had a great conversation. Just be yourself I know that sounds so cliche but I'm telling it works. Good luck!👍

    • @emilijaliepina7540
      @emilijaliepina7540 8 років тому +4

      same! im so scared to do this , i feel that he likes me but i just cant talk to him😦😦😥😥

    • @dreambig7255
      @dreambig7255 8 років тому +1

      Same, I will also the same risk ! 😨😨😨 talking to crush is verryyyy difficult

    • @jennw.6508
      @jennw.6508 8 років тому +4

      One thing I've learned is you've just gotta do it. don't hesitate. start by maybe asking for something in school or saying hi. it's not that scarry and the way he responds will give you a good idea

    • @NikkaG
      @NikkaG 8 років тому

      Jenna W. I love that.

  • @joycegreer9391
    @joycegreer9391 7 років тому

    Great advice & info for ANYONE. I'm long past HS. Wasn't great for me-shy, late bloomer, anxiety. Still learning. Love your info & enthusiasm.

  • @mustacheforever68
    @mustacheforever68 5 років тому +3

    1. Stand tall and smile
    2. Banish negativity
    3. Push yourself and take risks
    4. Choose positive friends
    5. Learn to accept praise

  • @nurbaksh8665
    @nurbaksh8665 6 років тому +1

    At 4:38 Tip 5- Learn to accept praise
    as soon as I saw this I thought back to one time a classmate of mine was talking about me and she's not a person to compliment people but she says the truth about what she thinks of other people and she gave me the biggest compliment about my self EVER and I'm not used to hearing good or nice things to me...sooo when she said that, I started to cry because that was the most kindest thing anyone has said to me then the look of worry on her face told me she meant it and I cried at little more(not sobbing,just small tears).She thought she said something mean and asked why I was crying. I told her and she hugged me and said 'Yes. This is all true and don't ever cry over a compliment you fully well deserve' and guess what... I wept more. Thinking about it now she has a point and I think other people need to hear this as well,especially if you don't hear it at home.
    So to everyone who reads this
    You DESERVE ALL and EVERY compliment you get and love the fact some one took the time to tell YOU out of every one else that YOU look FABULOUS today and everyday!!!

  • @ryleyywright
    @ryleyywright 8 років тому +9

    just when u talked about posture and stuff i sat up straight and my cat came to me and rubbed me and nuggled me ❤️ what a strage thing ( cant fix the word strange 😅)

  • @jennybasumatary5142
    @jennybasumatary5142 7 років тому +29

    I m confident enough but.... sometimes my skin colour brings me down.. 😔

    • @pianomelo1046
      @pianomelo1046 7 років тому

      Jenny Basumatary saaaaame 😪

    • @jennybasumatary5142
      @jennybasumatary5142 7 років тому

      pretty patty 😭😭

    • @maishazarinanan5028
      @maishazarinanan5028 6 років тому +1

      Jenny Basumatary Just because you don't feel that your skin colour isn't beautiful doesn't mean that it isn't basically, basically you're skin colour is perfect

    • @mariabalabanh9530
      @mariabalabanh9530 6 років тому

      Same...i am froom GREECE and i live here...and my skin color is dark...but like it IS from the sun...i burn so much when it's summer... And everyone makes fun of me

    • @jenniferquintohtvgg4yt808
      @jenniferquintohtvgg4yt808 6 років тому

      Sssssaaaaammmmeeee i hate me myself and i

  • @VilyRose
    @VilyRose 8 років тому +9

    The editing is amazing Kimberly 👌🏻 I'm so glad I found your channel pretty much since the beginning 😉

  • @selahviramontes5422
    @selahviramontes5422 8 років тому

    I've only watched 2 of her videos and I'm in freaking love with her advice...thank you Ask KImberly

  • @beccadavis2287
    @beccadavis2287 8 років тому +6

    I feel like I struggle with telling myself that I'm beautiful and that I'm loved because I'm afraid of being or coming off as vain, even in my mind😞

    • @itsserena3947
      @itsserena3947 8 років тому

      Ikr!!!!

    • @lisacaviglia4187
      @lisacaviglia4187 8 років тому

      If you feed that fear you will never make it. Start feeling positive about yourself without thinking too much about the negative and you and people around you will see the change :D KNOW that you are beautiful and loved and it will become true!

  • @begumshamseara6729
    @begumshamseara6729 7 років тому +17

    what if I'm the worst at something I'm always bored at home and I am so shy at class that's what I have no friends it's so hard

    • @nananielsen9923
      @nananielsen9923 7 років тому +1

      The Anime Drawer Lol I feel the same way

    • @itsbrenda9944
      @itsbrenda9944 7 років тому

      The Anime Drawer Lol find someone that likes the same stuff than you and just ignore the bullies and they will get tires of you not paying attention to them and they stop. but if they don't then they are wasting their time

    • @angelinaaleman5414
      @angelinaaleman5414 7 років тому

      The Anime Drawer Lol i can honestly realate to you so much

    • @Michelle-ky8qt
      @Michelle-ky8qt 6 років тому

      #relateble
      I wish I could give you advise

  • @faith4364
    @faith4364 8 років тому +19

    No. 2 is quite hard for me since I get bullied in High School 😞😢

    • @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb
      @NagitoKomaeda-qy6mb 8 років тому +3

      I'm so sorry stay positive and don't let the bullies get to you because your awesome!!!

    • @shammyshakir5570
      @shammyshakir5570 8 років тому +3

      it'll all get better I promise!

    • @cathysamy9955
      @cathysamy9955 7 років тому

      Bully them back .. or just ignore them #thug_life

    • @77moonwalker77
      @77moonwalker77 7 років тому +2

      tell the teacher or the principle

    • @nacheekun7599
      @nacheekun7599 6 років тому

      Faith FIGHT BACK

  • @ellamylod8027
    @ellamylod8027 8 років тому +1

    This video helped me a lot. I am a very shy person. Unconfident. Can't do things on my own. But, this video made me think that deep down in me, there is a new Ella, an Ella that is ME. That new Ella is Confident, Not shy, and does things for herself. And that's who I wanna be and I can be who I wanna be and I wanna be confident!!!! This video helped so so so so so much I'm gonna try everything you said!!! Thanks Kimberly you're the best!!!! 😘❤️ (also it would mean the world if you replied)❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @iqramirza4963
    @iqramirza4963 6 років тому +8

    It doesn't need to watch a video and see other girls and be confident.Self confidence is from inside and it should come from inside a spirit from within.......😊All the best to those who read it.Have the best day of your life.And never forget God.

  • @shagunmohta5994
    @shagunmohta5994 5 років тому +1

    I love your song choices in the vdo.
    It's so positive 💓❤️

  • @biasvlogs5032
    @biasvlogs5032 7 років тому +12

    What if i see prettier girls than me and it pushes me down...

  • @morgangrayson329
    @morgangrayson329 6 років тому

    It's not about waiting for the storm to pass it is about learning to dance in the rain. I love this quote and live by it.

  • @soet4632
    @soet4632 7 років тому +16

    4:58 my only friend is really negative i mean she's negative about everything in live, but i don't want to stop being friends with her because then i have no one :c (i'm 14 and i know i have a whole life infront of me but i get bullied and my sister is the only one who stands up for me not even my only friend but she's going to graduate after this year i'm so scared) everyones tips are welcome

    • @justmememe8581
      @justmememe8581 7 років тому

      I know how you feel.Try standing up for yourself and acting happy around everyone that tries to make you feel sad this makes them look bad for trying to pick on you, it works for me. 😜

    • @hailstormk9417
      @hailstormk9417 6 років тому

      Sue Leupe tech her how to be happy

  • @jennichan210
    @jennichan210 8 років тому +1

    you are so beautiful and sweet and your advice literally made me cry from happiness .. haven't felt this way in a while

  • @nk2652
    @nk2652 7 років тому +80

    I think that Kimberley looks like Alisha Marie!!! 😝❤

    • @kapodia6974
      @kapodia6974 5 років тому

      No she looks more like Shakira

  • @joseybanner617
    @joseybanner617 5 років тому +1

    Thanks Kimberly, this video really helped. You look stunning as always! 💕

  • @SunitaSharma-se1ip
    @SunitaSharma-se1ip 7 років тому +9

    The only way to make me confident as to if I'm listening to music 🎶

    • @SunitaSharma-se1ip
      @SunitaSharma-se1ip 7 років тому

      I'm sad because I'm leaving my school in two years to go to howvick intermediate so can I have 2 million likes please I fell so sad 😭

  • @niamhy9942
    @niamhy9942 6 років тому

    Thank you. Thank you Kimberly I feel confident and happy and I’m now helping my depressed friend

  • @jana3859
    @jana3859 7 років тому +11

    I like the message of this video but the background music was a little too distracting.

  • @rashighanwat1551
    @rashighanwat1551 7 років тому

    the video is AWESOME! I literally felt like I am a unique lovely person while just seeing the video ... I'm 1000%sure that inculcating your tips in life will make it more merrier! thank you !

  • @zeep32696
    @zeep32696 8 років тому +102

    Who the hell thinks that much when they're walking around 😂

  • @donney6222
    @donney6222 6 років тому +1

    Tip number 2 and 3 i loved

  • @heheno4999
    @heheno4999 8 років тому +14

    I am about to say something I never thought I would say........ I am about to confess to my crush.... wish me luck! ;)

  • @danniealake2411
    @danniealake2411 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much, I'm gonna start working on myself

  • @mspotato346
    @mspotato346 7 років тому +10

    I love her advice but (no offense) it's not that easy to just start being confident in a week or so, i've been trying for 4 years and yet i still doubt myself but i guess we should take each step seriously so that i/we can meet my/our goal!!!...(to not be lonely😫😫😫)

  • @raingir988
    @raingir988 6 років тому

    Omg thank you!! I had such a negative view of life and I had a few negative friends hat also made me think life wasn't that cool but this helped birighten me to becoming a new truly more confident person!! Thank you

  • @jasminealadin694
    @jasminealadin694 8 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for this vid !!! 😇❤️

  • @katherineeberheart618
    @katherineeberheart618 6 років тому

    One way I feel confident is getting my favorite song stuck in my head, and then all day i feel beautiful and powerful and like an overall queen

  • @gracewallace3620
    @gracewallace3620 7 років тому +7

    Does saying hello and goodbye to everyone of your friends and teachers in the morning and afternoon make you more popular. Works for me.

  • @skur-6115
    @skur-6115 7 років тому

    FINALLY someone who can understand. I've learnt SO much from your vids and you've really helped me out. Thanks Kimberly xx 😍👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @ali-ee8tk
    @ali-ee8tk 7 років тому +18

    I just want to confront my classmates that make fun of me daily

    • @renjinyraphy6474
      @renjinyraphy6474 7 років тому +1

      Kaiwi the Shipper just do it.All the best.Give them a piece of your mind.I used go have peers who used to bitch about me and make fun of me.Well, they learnt their lesson the hard way finally.And I never cared about them.I just shoved my success into their face.Thats the best form of revenge.:) Be successful.

    • @hairandknits4827
      @hairandknits4827 7 років тому +5

      Kaiwi the Shipper - do studies properly n try to be at the top in your studies in the class, answer in the class a lot, den students in the class won't mess much,and stop talking to the bullies ,don't add dem in social media or anywhere,avoid dem,dey r making fun of u cuz u r better Dan dem and they want to bring you down,u concentrate on your studies and win by your performance.

  • @CarolinaRodriguez-sr8vc
    @CarolinaRodriguez-sr8vc 8 років тому

    It's so refreshing to hear things like these once in a while

  • @wendynorth6933
    @wendynorth6933 7 років тому +12

    I have had a very good and outgoing personality since forever but lately I have been starting to doubt that. What is no one actually likes me or everyone thinks I'm just that weird girl in the corner

  • @kelseykutie5860
    @kelseykutie5860 5 років тому +1

    Can you make another video like this, like how to be more positive about things that are negative or how to chose friends that will be a good influence?

  • @yeah6281
    @yeah6281 8 років тому +7

    When I did tip no. 2 my mom told me that I look like I'm flirting.

    • @saranox7319
      @saranox7319 3 роки тому

      Same, people think I‘m hitting on them.

  • @paytinjailin8403
    @paytinjailin8403 8 років тому +1

    Hello I have seen theses types of videos every were and all of them seem to say the same thing and this time when u came across your video you Didn't just say things just say them you gave reasons and facts. normally I try to do these thing as much as I can but never really thing to put effort into them in till I came across this video. I see your point of view and now I am going to start trying some of theses tips and others too. to try to be come more confident in my self and half a healthy life style cause u used to be that girl who brings her self down with all the negatively and bad parts of my life. but thanks to this video I relise that I have a great man and friends and the best family in the world thank you so much

  • @flowerblossom2924
    @flowerblossom2924 6 років тому +3

    It's not the tips that made me confident....
    It was the video💛

  • @Sspirit56
    @Sspirit56 8 років тому

    Girl I want to thank you for your videos! I just discovered your channel and I can't stop watching, you spread so much inspiration!!! You are awesome!

  • @megangreves
    @megangreves 8 років тому +4

    Kimberly is so beautiful how does one even

  • @craftygymnast5385
    @craftygymnast5385 7 років тому

    oh my goodness so insparational and her makeup on fleek

  • @zerogray594
    @zerogray594 8 років тому +161

    Oops I'm a negative piece of walking garbage

    • @teshaakanaee8370
      @teshaakanaee8370 7 років тому +8

      Zero Gray :now the opposite is ur a postive piece of walking treasure 😃😃

    • @imaperson1016
      @imaperson1016 7 років тому +2

      Zero Gray psh same

    • @teshaakanaee8370
      @teshaakanaee8370 6 років тому +1

      I’m a Person. No ur not your. Amazing and dont let anyone tell u ur not cuz their just jelly

    • @rainz3335
      @rainz3335 5 років тому +1

      Negative Nancy leave the chat please... Positive Polly come in

  • @sofiaemmawik6243
    @sofiaemmawik6243 8 років тому

    I always watch this video when I feel sad/depressed and it really makes me more confident. THANK YOU KIM

  • @Niallsprincess72210
    @Niallsprincess72210 8 років тому +10

    so I told the guy I like that I liked him, right and he was like "why" and I like told him why and he was like "oh, cool"

    • @Niallsprincess72210
      @Niallsprincess72210 8 років тому +12

      but whatever if he doesn't like me then it is his loss because I'm wonderful

    • @eaglechild4661
      @eaglechild4661 7 років тому +2

      Anna Audrey yaaasssss girl.

    • @pineapplesmoothie2253
      @pineapplesmoothie2253 7 років тому +1

      Anna Audrey I'm a little bit late but Yass girl you go. You don't need people like that in your life anyways. ❤️❤️

    • @renjinyraphy6474
      @renjinyraphy6474 6 років тому

      Anna Audrey yass go girlll

  • @miazimmer
    @miazimmer 6 років тому +1

    I only just found your channel and I'm loving it! It's so helpful and it has EVERYTHING I need to know.
    Thanks you much!!! 😍

  • @nyracalico
    @nyracalico 8 років тому +3

    I'm kinda short 1m 59 and I weigh 50kg. Problem is next year I have Fall Formal and I have no way of getting queen.
    I'm confident but people hate me.

    • @procrastinationandlove9576
      @procrastinationandlove9576 8 років тому

      Darth Chrystal Come on, unless your atleast 5, you can't be 1 metre! atleast 4,11 or 5,2, that would be short, but that short is like a toddler., I JUST REALISED WHAT I SAID AND I TAKE IT BACK IF YOU HAVE AN ILLNESS IM SO SORRY

    • @nyracalico
      @nyracalico 8 років тому

      I.59m

    • @nyracalico
      @nyracalico 8 років тому

      Jeon Jungkook HELLO FELLOW ARMY!!!

    • @procrastinationandlove9576
      @procrastinationandlove9576 8 років тому

      Darth Chrystal YYAAASS YOUR AN A.R.M.Y

    • @nyracalico
      @nyracalico 8 років тому

      Yeah I am, I am kinda a closet ARMY cos i got bullied for not being able to attend their concerts and not showing enough support.
      I bought every album lol

  • @nguyenanh4758
    @nguyenanh4758 6 років тому

    Thanks Kimberly !! I feel so much confident

  • @VilyRose
    @VilyRose 8 років тому +5

    Don't let me down 😍

  • @jhanvipawar3503
    @jhanvipawar3503 7 років тому

    thank you... you are so great you made me feel all the positive things around me... I seriously Can't Stop thanking you... this video was the best motivation for me the last line you told in your UA-cam video was "your beautiful and the world feels that too" that make me feel like I'm the most beautiful and positive girl in the world ...I like your videos thank you so much you are a great motivator... seriously you are great thank you thank you thank you~♥~

  • @keyshlingraspaldo83
    @keyshlingraspaldo83 7 років тому +8

    im beautiful but not confident

    • @theonebreezy4657
      @theonebreezy4657 6 років тому +1

      Keyshling Raspaldo Same people assume like oh she is pretty and PROBABLY confident but inside I'm not don't judge a book by it's been very Right

  • @katycarmean5102
    @katycarmean5102 8 років тому

    I just found your channel and I love it! thanks for sharing all of this positive advice!

  • @skyler-cz6bd
    @skyler-cz6bd 6 років тому +5

    When someone compliments me this is how it usually happens
    Person: “you’re so smart/pretty/etc.”
    Me: “what............oh thanks”

  • @shelbylee2834
    @shelbylee2834 8 років тому

    i just watched this video and just found your channel and now i feel really good about my self thank you

  • @Simpal090181
    @Simpal090181 8 років тому +4

    you are so cute

  • @jackieoram409
    @jackieoram409 7 років тому

    I just found out that my crush doesn't like me (thankfully through a friend, and not the hard way), so this video really helped. I've been a subscriber since mid-2017, and this channel has given me so much more confidence. Thank you!

  • @myacook6388
    @myacook6388 8 років тому +3

    just pretend you are Chanel Oberlin

  • @anki1843
    @anki1843 7 років тому

    u r an amazing life tutor Kimberly.....😍😘just loved the way you made us feel good in just few minutes

  • @kaelynallan3308
    @kaelynallan3308 8 років тому

    Thanks so much I just saw you're Chanel last night and I thought wow I need to subscribe to you. You are such a happy persona and K love hat when I can find it.

  • @Herinsides
    @Herinsides 8 років тому

    thank you so much Kimberly I feel way more better about myself now than before I watched this video

  • @h3llok1tty05
    @h3llok1tty05 6 років тому

    My bff told me about this channel and i instantly love it everyone just spreads so much positivity u make really good videos and tysm for being a great UA-camr

  • @Moriqueen34
    @Moriqueen34 8 років тому

    Thank you so much Kimberly I've been feeling so insecure about myself and not good in general so thanks

  • @Maria-he4vw
    @Maria-he4vw 6 років тому

    Thanks so much for these tips! I want to try to be more positive and confident and I realized that I was doing half of these things I wasn't supposed to to be confident thxxx I'll try . . . 🤞❤️

  • @ricocassandra371
    @ricocassandra371 5 років тому +1

    This gonna help me so much cause I'm a very conscious and insecure and the most unconfident person..thank you for the advise💝

  • @gracepellegrino7949
    @gracepellegrino7949 8 років тому

    Your such a great person! Thank you! It's really great of you to want help young girls feel better

  • @sheniaedwards7293
    @sheniaedwards7293 6 років тому

    You're so calm and generous

  • @madiivanivna
    @madiivanivna 7 років тому

    Thank you for the awesome video, I struggle so much with accepting myself for who I am. Thank you

  • @lakshmisundar412
    @lakshmisundar412 7 років тому +2

    Exactly the tips I needed at the moment