CNA | The Family Affair S2 | E02: Being Dad and Mum

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  • @rosechai4496
    @rosechai4496 5 років тому +110

    The Indian mom should support her husband. The kid needs rules and discipline or he will become such a spoiled brat. Parenting includes saying no and correcting your child's bad behaviour. She wants him to become her kid's father but does not allow him to act like one.

    • @SiriusStarGazer
      @SiriusStarGazer 5 років тому +9

      I agree. She just wanted a husband and she got one, seeing that marying a divorced woman is taboo in most Indian culture. He seems to be in an ok financial position, and she wants security for her son and herself. I felt as though she was repremanding him ( the husband) all the time. The kid needs a firm hand and disciplining. Too much bloodly pampering. At 5 years he behaves as an adult, and that came about due to his mother and her mother's pampering! Geez, talk about dysfunctional.

    • @claretheworm
      @claretheworm 7 місяців тому

      He's already a spoilt brat

  • @tonymoly8739
    @tonymoly8739 5 років тому +40

    No wonder the Indian kid is such a demanding and spoilt brat, all thanks to his mom and Grandmother who said their lives revolve around him since the day he was born. If the adults let kids take centre stage in everything and cater to their every whim and fancy, they will grow up as selfish, obnoxious and detestable adults. When a kid misbehaves, it says a lot about his parents and their parenting skills. Children are a total reflection of the kind of parents they have. Instilling right values and good character building have to start from young and it's only possible with good parenting skills.

  • @misswinaa2514
    @misswinaa2514 4 роки тому +31

    The helper is still an outsider... YEAH!!! OUTSIDER WHO COOKS FOODS AND SERVES YOU. IF SHES NOT GOOD ACADEMICALLY THEN YOU SHOULD QUIT YOUR JOB SO YOU CAN TAKE CARE "YOUR HOME"

  • @illuminuz
    @illuminuz 5 років тому +104

    "I notice that Za Za has been spoiling her..." Eh hello, you want to be a parent while disciplining your kid? Then stay home and do it. Otherwise don't question how your helper is dealing with the little monster. Even you admit to running away from her screaming tantrums because you 'need a break'.

    • @kawaiipink6958
      @kawaiipink6958 4 роки тому

      Correct to a certain extend but Za za is your helper she : and she might not know how to : Discipline your child

    • @koithefish7053
      @koithefish7053 2 роки тому

      Exactly.she doesn’t do any better when it comes to family matters and focuses more on work.I understand work is important but she doesn’t rlly spend time with her children and even ran and passive aggressively told her daughter to keep crying. The father seems more supportive and considerate of his children than the wife.

  • @rambhaktrajputana5651
    @rambhaktrajputana5651 4 роки тому +12

    Seriously, this kid will be on track within a day if his mother understand parenting

  • @MariaCau_Soares
    @MariaCau_Soares 4 роки тому +11

    The mom complaining about the helper... The kid doesn't respect the helper, how can she be firm with the kid? She doesn't have the same authority as the parent, they didn't gave it to her, so ...
    The kid does not know the helper is actually her superior so she really treats her as a personal butler

  • @youngfadula
    @youngfadula 5 років тому +17

    the maid is me LOL she looks soooo done with the kids

  • @shoaib_zubair
    @shoaib_zubair 4 роки тому +13

    a tip for indian mom, call your husband papa in front on you kid.
    that will help a lot and he will also call him papa.

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 Рік тому

      A much better tip, just punish him every time he does not call him papa. Problem solved. Eventually he will do it.

  • @Alenakaz
    @Alenakaz 3 роки тому +6

    These Singaporean family looks down on Zaza

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 Рік тому

      Sadly yes. They should giver her the authority to discipline the children. Then they would not missbehave that much and trow that mant tantrums. Also they do not understand that the child will love the helper more than the parents because the helper has no choice but to let her do everything she wants and give her everything she wants as well.

  • @annateo5584
    @annateo5584 5 років тому +30

    Oh my lord... if my kid behaves the way Raghav did at 5:56.... boy would my kid be in so much trouble for hitting...... Raghav is so damn spoilt...

    • @kyoko6588
      @kyoko6588 5 років тому +2

      Seriously. He should spend the entire day facing the wall writing A-Z x100.

    • @kyoko6588
      @kyoko6588 5 років тому

      @Crim Sin All of them are Asians. That's the title of the documentary.

  • @kuzmenkoanna8626
    @kuzmenkoanna8626 2 роки тому +2

    I think it's obvious that when the kid is in pain she wants to be with someone she is close to- the helper!

  • @tuffybaxton6162
    @tuffybaxton6162 3 роки тому +6

    I love how the grandma was giggling and so happy that she has a boyfriend, but my concern was the indian kid. He was too spoiled, and the chinese girl, her mom seemed to have all these BIG plans for her daughter, but what does her daughter want. And very little was mentioned about the son, it was like he didn't exist.

  • @mydearginx
    @mydearginx 5 років тому +15

    Idk why whenever the Indian family part, I'll skipped it. The boy's attitude.. My goodness.): He's super rude.

  • @welcher6859
    @welcher6859 5 років тому +14

    This Silas guy is really selfish. He only wants his mum to move in with them to take care of his kids, not really for his mum's health to recuperate and have a helper to take care of her in his house. I cannot believe it!!!

    • @enoch2066
      @enoch2066 4 роки тому +1

      He only has a job because of his wife. Nepotism is truly alive and well in Singapore.

  • @dhlazeee
    @dhlazeee 5 років тому +13

    spare the rod, spoil the child 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @trzagor2769
    @trzagor2769 5 років тому +13

    Grandmothers can spoil grandchildren but dad and mom must be the bad COPS or that child will grow up to be a dangerous selfish adult!!!

  • @yukikhoo7309
    @yukikhoo7309 4 роки тому +2

    Most of the people say that the singaporean child is very spoilt or the parents is doing a very bad job, Singaporean’s are spoilt...It depends on the parent’s teaching methods like that kid Vicky she is spoilt because the parents do no give their fullest attention to her unless she do something wrong because she is an attention seeker, and if she does not get her attention...she will get the attention by the hard way which means, whining, throwing tantrums and also disobeying...personally I think that she needs to have a fair share of attention too! If the parents keeps on being busy working...and rely on ZaZa(the helper) Vicky will take advantage because she can do whatever she wants which is like a dream to her. She can whine, throw tantrums and no get scolded because she feels like the queen when ZaZa is around so if you give a child no attention and on the other hand lots of attention it will backfire like what happened to the singaporean family and also the part when Vicky said “I DON’T WANT YOU! I DON’T WANT YOU DADDY!” She said that because she feels that the father will not give her anything she wants unlike ZaZa will and her mindset is if I yell and cry I will get what I want because that happened with ZaZa she cries and ZaZa gives out of fear that she will lose her job. My personal thoughts is that the Indian family’s child is the most spoilt or the most rude because he not only is yelling at the parents and elders when he already has a sense of logic that you should not do that to your elders he will hit someone out of stress and if you are not close with someone like your step-father just accept the fact that you actually told your mom you are ok that you mom is marrying again! You also can tell that he (Step-father)is trying his very best just to make that child closer to him which I think it is great and they should not get a child added to that family because his temper will come back again after you try your very best to let him get closer with you. And if he is sooo close with the mother, I think that the mother should spent time to go outside or even just go on a family date and bond together so the whole family can get closer! 😁😁😁 Sorry if it is too Long your you to read but please like if you made it here!

  • @bunbun4037
    @bunbun4037 3 роки тому +2

    After these kids I need to go sit in a dark quiet room with a bottle of brandy!!!..I might also need counselling 🤣😂😂😂🤣

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 Рік тому +1

      This is what a lack of discipline will do. Maybe those parents are so afraid of disciplining those children because they think their children then will not love them anymore.

  • @kimbowden3330
    @kimbowden3330 5 років тому +7

    My God, if that was my kid, he bloody well wouldn't be able to sit down for a week!!

  • @thecollazofamily2024
    @thecollazofamily2024 5 років тому +2

    Love your channel!

  • @dujardinmtl
    @dujardinmtl 4 роки тому +6

    The Indian grandmother doesn’t like her new son in law and blame her daughter for her choice and at the same time, she find the opportunity to blame the kid’s poor behaviour one the poor son in law.
    Well, he was enough in love to overlook the daughter previous marriage and the kid but looks like grandma can’t see that.

  • @zzzdong2532
    @zzzdong2532 4 роки тому +3

    "we need a family like my mom to take care of my erratic children" bruh let ur mother live!

  • @joanne7389
    @joanne7389 3 роки тому +4

    This Singaporean wife is so hypocrite as hell.

  • @wirataadidharma
    @wirataadidharma 3 роки тому +2

    Season 1 Family Affair
    Me : I want to have a child!
    Season 2 Family Affair
    Me : Um, never mind. I should've known better.

  • @user-zs8ym6tk7b
    @user-zs8ym6tk7b 4 роки тому +7

    That boy ruined the entire season.

  • @amyyee6656
    @amyyee6656 5 років тому +4

    Indian kid misses his biological dad.
    Wife and husband must have the same stance on discipline for kids whether they agree or not. They can talk later when kids are not around.

  • @amandadsilva5325
    @amandadsilva5325 4 роки тому +2

    That Indian mother is not even scolding her child.

  • @biibikiki1304
    @biibikiki1304 5 років тому +6

    OMG the indian kid is freaking spoilt

  • @beezlebub9
    @beezlebub9 3 роки тому +2

    27:45 I feel so sorry for Grandpa Yap. 😂. 29:35 it’s ironic what Lavanika says specifically when she does not regulate Raghav’s behaviour 🤦‍♀️.

  • @etloo1971
    @etloo1971 2 роки тому +1

    It's very uncommon for Indian men to marry single mother.

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ 3 роки тому +1

    Does this elder understand that her older son does not have a shut-off valve in his reproductive system? Why was she so relieved that he inherited a ready-made family? Poor Vikrant. Smh

  • @isabelgoh6477
    @isabelgoh6477 2 роки тому

    Both parent working..
    hire helper help them..
    don haf time take care..
    work long hrs

  • @123arcadia
    @123arcadia 5 років тому +2

    Does that Indian father ever leave that bed?

  • @ew0211
    @ew0211 4 роки тому +1

    Luckily i have no kids and do not want any. Kids are very spoilt waaaaaay too much

  • @MsNur1996
    @MsNur1996 5 років тому +1

    The China girl is so sweet

  • @giornatadeliziosa
    @giornatadeliziosa 5 років тому +5

    TBH that Singapore grandma doesn't have the aptitude to take care of kids.

  • @claretheworm
    @claretheworm 7 місяців тому

    If u want food, then cook your own gawd damm food and not depend on your helper. I get she's your helper, but quit complaining about food when you yourselves are more than capable. Singaporeans really need to respect helpers. And yeah I'm singaporean 😂

  • @vidananovazelandia
    @vidananovazelandia 5 років тому +2

    Zeez I hope I dont kill my kid if he/she is that annoying

  • @zzzdong2532
    @zzzdong2532 4 роки тому +3

    The indian family is not middle class at all. Believe me im an indian

  • @madeyzue
    @madeyzue 5 років тому +1

    space..space..when im visit spore..
    (spore synonim with materialism)