Leaving both of our kids for the first time...
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Leaving both kids is really hard, but we definitely think it's worth it.
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I think it’s vital that you nurture your relationship as much as you nurture your children. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
Been watching you guys for 6 months & I've been a mom for 32 years. I am a little jealous of your away time, but it seems so good! Enjoy! One day I'll have my moment!
Great advice
@@HmRm10xx So Jack has his millionth tantrum and instead of putting him on time out, you spoil and baby him. This is why he’s turned into an awful spoiled kid. He’s a horrible kid who isn’t the least bit cute. Could use a hard smmack to his fatface.
I hope they get off the internet and learn to live a life
@@withtimecomesgrace say that to all families on UA-cam then. 🙄🙄
I think you guys have a well adjusted way of looking at your time alone from your adorable kids. I totally agree with you refreshing your bond with Jack and Sunny
by having that occasional alone time together. You know the grandparents are having fun indulging the kids, so you guys have fun, no guilt allowed!!!
Sunny's face when jack had a Tantrum 😂 such adorable children 🥰 be very proud parents ❤
It's absolutely important to have getaways and equally good for your kids to have parents who love each other and make "us" time a priority. Your marriage will be stronger as a result.
Don’t think it’s absolutely important ! Think it’s a choice thing
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Great Adventure !
Well yeah but this is a bit much ain’t it?
Rubbish
I think it's a must for parents to spend alone time to let each other know how much they love and need each other
SOOO true! We definitely feel like better partners and better parents after ❤️❤️❤️
I absolutely love cruising. And parents absolutely need time away from their kids to reflect, refresh and regroup.I’m glad you guys had a good time!
Torn meniscus is No Joke. They really hurt, cause Inflammation, Increased Pain. I’m glad you didn’t turn out to be paralyzed. Please think before you jump. All parents need time away. You are Fortunate to be able to leave your children w parents who can help you. Enjoy
Sarah looks completey recharged! Looks like the trip was a blast😊
It's wonderful that you're blessed to be able to have some together time. Life doesn't stop when you have children. You are wonderful parents. It's valuable for your children to learn that they will be OK if you are not with them every minute.
At the end of the day when the kids are grown it will be you and your spouse so time together is a MUST good for you. And kids are happy when parents are happy. Love your channel!!!!!
Your adventures like this one are a dream for many people, much love!
Cruises provide a safe place to unwind, no worrying, decompress and rejuvenate. How is that not beautiful? The kids are safe…they’ll continue to grow and reuniting will be so much fun too. ❤congratulations & hoping your adventures are all good. And you can rest up .😊
You guys would have to be the most Wholesome couples on UA-cam, everything is So Real Life and Inspirational to many young couples with babies out there, You deserve to get away and have some couples time without the children, it really makes for better parenting and you appreciate what you have waiting for you at home, not every couple with children have that sadly, they don’t have parents that will look after their children for that length of time, I’m old Lol 😂 and think you guys are doing a Great Job parenting your children, Both families, don’t ever let anyone tell you differently, you boys had a Wonderful Family raising you into the Men you both are today, I can relate to that being a #boymum myself, I’m totally enjoying both your channels and love seeing your beautiful children grow, they all have different personalities yet all are caring of one another and that’s very rare these days. Keep up the great work guys and I look forward to seeing more from your channels. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺🦘🐨❤️❤️
Aw I couldn’t leave my Children 🥲 time goes so fast and you look around they have gone ! I never needed that time away they were my bestest place in the whole world !!
You guys have an amazing life , great friends, beautiful kids. Enjoy yourselves, it’s nice to have time to yourselves.
Sometimes you need a break. Your children will be just fine. Just enjoy your time together to refresh. I'm glad you all enjoyed your getaway! 🥰❤️
You all deserve time for your relationship. And you'll be good parents for it.. because you will be de-stressed. 😊
Derik, I felt the same way when I went on my first cruise this past September. It's the perfect combo of fun and relaxation. I did another mini cruise (just 3 nights) a few weeks ago and am officially addicted. 😁
I love cruising it’s my favorite vacation ❤ I think it’s good to get away as long as you have people you can trust to care for your kids.
Hope you guys have a GREAT week!!! Happy Birthday to Tanner!!🎉
You are so right, we need breaks from our kids it helps us to be good parents.. and truly they actually need breaks from us too. And it is such a blessing to have people in your lives whom you can trust with your children. That way when you do take time away you don’t have to worry. Good Job guys❤❤❤
How much do I love you? Biggest hugs. Such wonderful memories to live in the now, cherish in the future.
I love seeing you all together, family is so important and important for couples to have time away from our children, you need to make time for your partner, our kids grow up and leave and we need to have that relationship and friendship with our partner. I LOVE seeing what you are getting up to, thank you for sharing your time with us. Sending love from Australia 🇦🇺 🎉❤❤
Oh gosh Sunny’s too cute ❤ and Jack too adorable little buddy making hoops. Gotta love those little fits they throw, Piper still doing them she’ll be 3 next month. I was born in Dallas Texas it’s pretty hot there 🫶🏻 the cruise looks like you all had an amazing time that’s the biggest ship I’ve ever seen ❤
Totally agree! Happy parent's are a good thing for the kids!
It is great to be great parents and do wonderful quality time with your kids, BUT you have to take time to nurture your relationship with each other and your marriage. Time away is a must! ❤🎉
Spending time away from your children and reconnecting with each other is paramount to maintaining your relationship. Of course, your children are important. Long before they ever showed up, your love for one another was paramount. And it has to stay that way. So continue your getaway adventures, with one another..
My child’s father is in prison.
And unfortunately I don’t get much help with my son. I never have time to go go or do much or anything without him. Not complaining I love him and he is 4 and he is legit my best friend, but I get over stimulated a lot. So yes, I think it’s healthy to have time away. They even need time away from us from time to time.
Aww this makes me miss a cruise soo much! After 32 years of marriage, I’m a FIRM believer that Mommy and Daddy need to take a trip without the kiddos at least once a year!! It just makes everything better and stronger for the family! So glad you guys took this time for yourselves!❤
Of course it’s a good thing! All parents need a break. I was a cruise skeptic too, until we went on our Royal Caribbean Cruise for 10 days what an amazing thing! Can’t believe how relaxing and awesome cruising is, best kept secret ever! Have a beautiful time x
❤ Ahh...Poor Derick I really feel bad that you hurt yourself but I hope it's better now. I think you guys are really great parents, I just can't believe how smart your little boy is and that baby girl is so precious but the difference in your kids hair color is awesome but your little Sunny looks identical to her brother. I know you guys think you "deserve" time away from the kids and of course you totally do but I just see it as being blessed to have some time for yourselves. Until the next time y'all take care and God bless you ✝️🙏❤️
You've got to date your mate - kids will eventually leave and they thrive better when the parents are close. Great job at spending quality time with each other:)
Derok man you'd better take care of those knees and stop mad-maxing them. You're to young to already have trouble plus you take a lot of risk and torture on them.
You all are really great parents, and very much deserve to get away. I watch your video's, and you live for your kids. Sure am glad you got away and had a really great time!!
You guys are doing great!!! The kids will appreciate you more also… A Kiwi whom raised 2 Kiwi/Mexicans in Mexico… I travelled once a month…There were no tears on departure because I was an even better mother upon my return…. They are smarter than you think!!! I am now a grandmother and my son is an extremely loving, caring parent!!! Keep doing what you are doing mateys!!!
What a fun video to view. Watching all of you have so much fun brought back many memories. Can't wait till the next one. 😊😊😊😊
How exciting, I loved watching how much stuff you guys got to do and how fun it was! Im taking my teenagers on our first cruise in August out of Galveston Texas (we live in Texas) we haven’t gotten to go on a vacation since before Covid so we’re all going to be acting like little kids lol.
Thank you , i really needed a nice shot of your family.❤️ to all
It is a good thing g. We all need a time out.❤
These moments with kids should be private. Would this channel survive without the kids!?
Woot! 1/2 marathon ....probable (obvious) marathon in the future ...I will enjoy the watching the whole journey.
Absolutely agree with you guys having some fun. Parenting is exhausting and you need some me or us time. Thx for showing us the cruise, I never been on one.
First! Love your channel!
Thanks for sharing your blessings with us! We were just in Honduras in November and it was gorgeous! Have a blessed week y'all 💜🙏✌️🌞💐🎶
I love you guys! 🥰❤️🙏 Just have fun!
I WAS ON THAT CRUISE TOO! I saw y’all but I got scared to say hi. It was really fun, and I saw the ice game show too!
Thanks for sharing this. I loved seeing events of your trip!
how do you afford to travel and go on so many vacations????
You are wise beyond your years. It took me too long to figure out that it’s important to invest time in yourself and your spousal relationship as well as spending time with your kids. It’s important for the kids to see that they can rely on people other than their parents and it’s important for you to take time to pamper yourself and your spouse. Glad you did it and I’m looking forward to doing the same next month!
Theres a tome and place for everything under the sun in moderation...being wonderful amazing parents means U take care of urselves 1st to be in "the moment" w ur kids❤ur doing justhat!
Both mine and my husbands parents understand how important quality couple time is without the kiddos. While of course not everyone is lucky to have someone else take your kiddos, it’s important that you get away and reset when you can. A happy marriage will result in happy parents which results in happy healthy kids. They NEED you to stay in love and be a good example of the love they will seek one day. Good for you! 🤍 plus, that time away from you is important time for your kids to bond with grandparents or other family members. They need one another too.
Love when The Beeston Fam post a new video.
Always take time for the two of you. Even if it is just a walk around the block when your parents have the kids. Those stolen moments may become the most valuable memory’s in time. Never miss an opportunity to spend time together it doesn’t have to be those big vacations.
❤️❤️❤️ I miss ya'll, and I hope you have fun!!! Hug those babies for me!!!
Just because you're parents doesn't mean you can't have " Alone time". Rest your knee. The marathon might aggravate it more. God bless!
It has been proven parents need to be parents, not friends with their children. It is best for children to have a loving parent child relationship with their mom and dad.
I applaud you both for getting time for the two of you. Because you have such a beautiful family bond, your children have very loving grandparents to care for them while you are able to spend time alone. More parents should follow your lead when possible.
Our grandson coined the best answer to “how much do I love you.” He said: Big Much! We still use it. ❤
That cruise looked awesome.. Derek your always hurting yourself... Lol.. Just be careful.. In my eyes you have to have your time or you just get worn out.. You guys are awesome parents.. ❤❤
Never feel guilty about remembering why you two got together in the first place. Having children as much as you love every moment we tend to get caught up in the grind and forget about our significant other. 37 years together and we always find time to remember why we are together.
Kids learn, adapt.😅
Would you leave your infant for a week? I couldn't imagine abandoning my baby to film content.
@@Prism_ism They are both with their children 24/7 so I can see it would be healthy for everyone to take a break now and again.
@Carol Barranco A day or two, absolutely. But a week? Sunny is severely underweight and Jack has emotional regulation issues. I wouldn't be going anywhere if both of my kids needed me like that but then, my income doesn't depend on posting content on SM and I wasn't just trashed by the Dad Challenge Podcast for exploiting my babies for bank.
@@Prism_ism oh I think you just revealed your hate and jealousy of this beautiful family. Hope your life gets better.
I know this echo chamber is going to cut me to shreds so if you really don't want people who love and support you to be honest just say and I will shut up.
It really went thru me when I saw this video because when Jack was just a couple months old you went on a cruise, then a few weeks later you went on a ten day vaca together to see friends then you each went on separate bestie vacations to see friends. All within 5 months after Jack was born.
I am not going to tell you how to live. I enjoy your videos so much, but frankly, I almost unsubscribed but when i saw others unsubbing I didn't feel right doing it so I gave myself a couple days.
You need to realize when people just give you opinions and you call them "haters" they won't do it again.
If you want us to only leave flowery insincere responses then just say.
I usually say nothing. But I went back almost 14 months and started counting your trips (I know a little much but I am an aspie and if I get something in my head I must follow thru)
After I counted 7 in 9 months I stopped.
Why?
I just don't need to know. And on Twitter my followers look forward to my 2 minute blurbs on you called " the angels who jumped to earth"
So that's all I have to say
What do you all do for work? You mention work but we see you all on many vacations and getaways. So just curious what your professions are which allow you so much free time…
I'm not trying to be mean but I've been married 3 years and have had no honeymoon or vacation all 3 years. I feel it's due for a family vacation to lego land this year. That being said, i personally can't imagine leaving my kids as much as they have even when it was just Jack for a vacation every few months. That seems excessive to me. Maybe it's a white people thing, idk, like i said not tryna be mean. It's not like it's business, it's a getaway. I get weekends dates where grandparents take them for a night or 2.
I’m cracking up at Tanners porn star mustache. Lol! Partly kidding
It’s bloody awful!
Terrible. Not kidding.
You're not sad about leaving your kids, you do it so much they're used to you leaving, you'll be home in a week and then leave in a month on another trip. You vacation like i go to the grocery store .Sarah you're so tan! You're going to regret it when you're 50 , your skin will be all covered in ugly spots, mine is.
He said, "remember Tanner?" to Jack. I thought him and Tanner were brothers? Why didn't he maybe say uncle Tanner? Why wouldn't Jack remember his uncle? Idk im confused now
I would like to see how your parents are doing with the kids. There is a difference between grandparenting and parenting. I bet it got interesting
Ohhhh it’s so so important to get time together alone without the kids. Not only does it remind the two of you why you fell in love, it also reminds you of how much you really miss your babies, and helps you to deal with the really hard days with the kids. Have fun and definitely do t feel guilty.
Absolutely!!!! So good to have time to really reconnect with your partner and then be better parents after! ❤️❤️❤️
One month Hawaii…
one month later Utah …
one month after that Australia …one month later cruise
Life is one. BIG HOLIDAY 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
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Yeah - great life if you can do it! Good luck to them their only young once!
No kidding. When I was that age we got 2 weeks a year. Period.
Do any of them work real jobs like for someone else, corporate or not? Or, do they live off social media income? Just curious, I think the videography is fun and interesting to watch.
@@michelemichaels6191 Me too!
They live off all the viewers that are obcessed with watching their kids. Over 2 million subscribers ! As of apr. 01 averaging 89.6 million viewers per month. With those numbers, just one revenue stream: you tube advertising averages $3 to $7. Per 1000 views.
Sunny is getting so big just a little ball of light
Sunny holding the bottle: She must really go to town with a Sunny sized bottle! 😂
UA-cam must pay good moving around like y'all do and now a cruise shoot I'm in the wrong business
Completamente irresponsable dejar a dos nenes tan chiquitos en las manos de otra persona por más que sea un familiar
It’s always a good thing to get away from everything including the kids. It makes you appreciate your life and rest up ready for next week, or year.
A dozen times in a year including 2 cruises right after their new baby is born?
I appreciate every second of my life and truly I have taken 5 cruises. They were my rewards after my kids graduated college and took their seats at the head of the table to raise their own and work in careers that make all our lives better.
I am worried about Sunny and just trusting they know what they are doing but I have been a mom for 50 years and this is unusual. Don't you think?
@@TheTalksoup jealous much?? Maybe get off their videos and spend more time with ur family, i pray they arent as miserabble as u are.
@dianne8276 I think that it's normal for them. Older generations were raised differently and we didn't take the time to spend with our partners. Maybe that's why so many people got divorced. I'm so glad that they take the time to just enjoy each other.
This is the first cruise that the took after sunny was born.
@kayon I am 70. Every bit of any extra cash went to their college fund.
And trust me if you knew them you would grateful for the investment especially the youngest, my daughter who owns the patents on her inventions that are possible for what we are doing right here, right now.
I really would like to brag more on it but right now big tech is being literally physically threatened.
@Dianne this is a toxic mentality that you have. It's totally ok and healthy to go on trips without you kids. You can live your life and enjoy your children
I always took my children with us whenever we went anywhere. The only thing my husband and I did alone was a 3 day rafting trip in Zion. I felt so guilty leaving them I couldn’t do it anymore. Especially when they were young. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it especially when they’re with grandma and grandpa. It was just very hard for me personally.
I always took my children everywhere we went. I couldn't leave them behind even though I knew they were safe with grand parents. I had the fun in having them, so I should have the right in raising them. 🧚
Well good for yall, want a reward? Sounds like alil jealousy to me!
I don’t know but my hubby and I waited longer to have kids and we would be lost on vacations without them! We want to experience everything with them and the memories we have from every trip are priceless
@@joyce51670 omg such a toxic and dated mentality. It's perfectly OK and healthy to take trips without your kids. No guilt needed
@@kristinrodgers7210
This is the selfish mentality of today.
Jack trying to show how much his dad loves him is one of the most precious things ever 🥺.
He loves him so much 🥹❤️
Having mom and dad time alone is key to a happy healthy relationship !!!
Sunny is the most beautiful little baby ever! She's special. Love her ❤
It is so important to have time away as a married couple! Even a vacation every now and then. You must keep dating and make as many good memories as possible! They will help you get through the storms ahead. We are celebrating our 40th this October and going strong (with four grown children). You've got this!
Another vacay??
Why does exhausted Sarah do All the cleaning and organizing and packing.!?!
As a mom that hasn't had a break in almost 4 years, I agree 1 million percent that it's a very good thing to be able to take a break. My husband works all day every day. I have no family around that offers to come and spend time with our children. Time away definitely would benefit our marriage and it absolutely would help our moral on life. It's so hard being home with the kids.
I love your videos. You two are real and I love that.
Don't let anyone discourage you from sharing your lives. I think it would be so incredible to look back on your channel years from now and see what life used to be like.
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Talk to your neighbors or people you meet at the library ask around about finding a mother's helper. Even if it's just time after school you will be able to have some alone time, it really helps the mental health side of things.😊
I pray that time will come to you and your husband to be able to take some alone together. Hang on there kiddo, keep up the good work in nurturing and bringing up your children. Your time together alone will come and when it does consider it a blessing. God bless ✝️🙏❤️
@@chrisb7845 p lovep
I am so glad neighbors give me a break. And my oldest kids help me when I ask. Even if for a couple hours.
Tell your husband you need a part-time nanny (3-4) hours, two or three times a week.
When I was a child a girl in our neighborhood dived into the 4 ft. pool in her backyard, which was too shallow for diving safely, broke her neck and was paralyzed from the neck down for the rest of her life. She was a kid too dumb to know better, not an adult. Be more careful, that's a choice. Don't jump of high things into 2 ft of water.
This is why God makes parents broke when their kids are young so you don't make questionable costly trips away from them when they need you.
My parents went on trips all the time when i was very young.
I remember each and every one including the fabulous gifts
I got scarlet fever when I was 4. It started as strep. I already had a heart murmur and I almost died.
Thankfully my grandma was there everyday and I don't think I would've wanted Jan and Mike (my parents) there anyhow.
I haven’t been on a cruise, for a long time. Looked like so much fun ❤. Happy 30th birthday Tanner 🎉
Just be their parents…not their best friends…by the way, I could be your grandparent too. One day they will be your friends when they understand parenthood. Sending you love hugs prayers and kindness 🩷🩵🩷🩵
"we don't make any money off of UA-cam"
*Moves from Hawaii to Utah*
*Builds a huge new house*
*Goes on a cruise*
*Doesn't have a job*
😂 I know right? Shameful.
This is why God makes parents broke when their kids are young so you don't make questionable costly trips away from them when they need you.
My parents went on trips all the time when i was very young.
I remember each and every one including the fabulous gifts
I got scarlet fever when I was 4. It started as strep. I already had a heart murmur and I almost died.
Thankfully my grandma was there everyday and I don't think I would've wanted Jan and Mike (my parents) there anyhow.
Remember, when the only ones who went on cruises were old people?
Sunny looks so much like Jack. Same face just different coloured hair. They are so cute❤. I think every parent should take a vacation without the children. All parents need this time together alone. At least once or twice a year. ❤
Sunny is so cute 🥰
You guys are getting it right. All of you... the Bunch included 😅 Feed each other...travel, explore, fall more in love...The happier and healthier you guys are, the more your babies thrive. It's the only way ❤️
Always remember to joyfully praise the Lord for all your many gifts!❤
Absolutely!
I love the channel, the kids are adorable, The struggle is real, and you are young and now is the time...maybe...to do things..... That being said, do not try to tell people you are just a normal couple, living on a normal income, doing normal things. You move your home from Hawaii$$$, to a home being built $$$, while you went to Australia $$$$$, so you could come back to give a home tour of a $$$$ home, and now you are off on a cruise $$$$$$$____$$_may be you are just out of touch 🤷 Many Americans pick one of those things maybe 2, once every 3-4yrs. You are wealthy Americans. Own it and quit the pity party you shove off every few months and be grateful. I DO love this channel and I subscribe to UA-cam & Instagram. I. Mean no hate. Just please be real and genuine about all of this.
They fund it all by exploiting their children who are not able to consent to having videos of themselves shared in a public forum.
You two are so lucky to be able to go on several vacations. Hope you had a blast.🎉
Yep haha I'm jealous 😅
Right? They seem to travel every month. I'm hoping the grandparents are putting a little weight on Sunny because, imho, being so underweight is scary, and I hope the lack of filming calms Jack. Hitting other kids and tantruming multiple times a day is a lot to handle.
@@Prism_ismoh stop it.
@@nancyfarkas3592 No.
My nephews were like Jack with the tantrums and screaming, wildness, etc. It was a lot to handle, even as an aunt.
But they get over it. It’s dad’s fault because he told him and has been telling him go for the gusto, but never told him it’s OK if you don’t get it in on the first try.
Jack is a horrible spoiled brat
I was just sitting here thinking. What if you acted like your son? Show him a tantrum and then maybe he’ll stop it’s worth a try . Then if he asks tell him this is what you look like
Never, never let this comment section change how you are. You are the sweetest, fun loving young family on you tube. I absolutely love watching your adventures with and without the little cuties. Your family is so blessed. Love from Canada. ❤
I hope someone toilet trains Jack while his parents are away!!! After all, his parents do let him make adult decisions; such as to whether or not he wants to be filmed or if he wants to get that mop of baby hair cut... .Can't make those types of deicsions while in a diaper, can we!
They leave their kids ALOT!!! I'd laugh if they came home only to find that someone had cut Jack's hair off! LOL
I wish my now, ex-husband and I would have went on little away trips together, without the kids. But we didn’t. By the time our kids were out of school, we were almost like strangers. Our entire life had revolved around our kids. Sure we raised some incredible kids, all three successful adults with kids of their own. But we divorced after 26 years. So don’t ever feel guilty for getting away. ❤
I feel that. My kiddo has special needs, so it's almost impossible to get alone time. ☹️