HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNTIONAL BACKGROUND 3

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  • HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNTIONAL BACKGROUND 3

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  • @Gods_seeds
    @Gods_seeds Рік тому +47

    I've cried from the first episode to this, you are just opening wounds I thought I buried abs never healed... Thank you for understanding our pain. I came from a dysfunctional home and I have never experienced what family is but thank God for who God is to us. Thank you for this series.

    • @matthewirabogha7565
      @matthewirabogha7565 11 місяців тому +6

      Sending love with virtual hugs ❤❤

    • @phoebeadu-boadu8257
      @phoebeadu-boadu8257 2 місяці тому

      I cried too🥺 ...... But i loved the lesson ......It is better covered 🥰...God richly bless you Apostle

  • @bekienwela2613
    @bekienwela2613 Рік тому +56

    This teaching is a rare gemstone. This is loaded with spirituality and reality. This is a cure of dysfunctional background for real❤❤❤❤

  • @msk7458
    @msk7458 Рік тому +17

    Pastor Femi….Your anointing will never run dry. 🙏🏾

  • @oshowoledamilola2141
    @oshowoledamilola2141 Рік тому +21

    I cried, God please help me, I need you to heal me, for, I am só wounded. I need your guidance, I need you more than ever Abba🥺😭. God bless you and your family so much Amen.

  • @omotolaniabolade5093
    @omotolaniabolade5093 Рік тому +24

    Who is this Mannnnnnn? Practical, Reality and Spiritual....Let love Ruleeee❤

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 Рік тому +41

    Your ministry is a direct mirror of my Life... I never thought I'll find someone who truly understand me. Your messages has proven otherwise

    • @godsblessingamaefule5329
      @godsblessingamaefule5329 Рік тому +4

      Likeee...I literally see myself in every of his messages and it's sooo easy for me to understand. This is God telling me that he can see me and has planned my healing cos I've always asked God if I was ever going to heal from all the heartbreaking experiences that I had. So this is the answer that I needed, to know that I'll heal from all life injuries and that is a reason why I had to go through those experiences. Thank you so much Daddy,more of God's Grace sir

  • @mayowaogunnaike9118
    @mayowaogunnaike9118 Рік тому +15

    One thing i like about Pastor Lazarus is, in the midst of many young pastors in our generation, he is one of the ones who are very balanced in doctrinal matters.

  • @thefefelife
    @thefefelife Рік тому +20

    Thank you, man of God. I am viewing your content for the very first time, all the way in Trinidad and Tobago, 2 months later. I testify that I am free and delivered, and I give God all the glory 🙏🏾

  • @anj_olaoluwa
    @anj_olaoluwa Рік тому +16

    It’s always the shoutout to the online viewers for me. This is a really interesting and relatable series.

  • @SDLMINISTRY
    @SDLMINISTRY 5 місяців тому +2

    Oh my goodness, every christian must listen to this.
    This is a message for all.
    More unction sir.

  • @endoweddominic3858
    @endoweddominic3858 Рік тому +18

    It’s funny how some persons are even victims of all the 10 forms of dysfunctional backgrounds. Indeed only GOD can help.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS SIR. This is not just a teaching, but a therapy and yes, we will heal by GOD’S grace.🙏🏾
    MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS, KEEP AND INCREASE YOUR GRACE SIR. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sonitayufenyuy
      @sonitayufenyuy Рік тому +1

      Im atleast 8 of these 😊. Thank God for deliverance

  • @funshykay
    @funshykay Рік тому +3

    Very real, practical and well-rounded teaching. Majority of us are victims and hearing this can only serve as a source of therapy. I pray for healing of your children oh God.
    How can I love Apostle’s teaching 100 times? He doesn’t mince words, he says it as it is regardless of whose ox is gored. Everyone must collect as he must shake the table reach everyone’s side.
    God bless you sir, may the anointing of God over your life and ministry never run dry🙏

  • @driphie811
    @driphie811 Рік тому +2

    Thank you sir.
    "Harvest requires way more hardwork than sowing" mathew 9:37/38
    Following up on converts with love of Christ, until they mature into the fullness that God intends requires more!
    May God help us.

  • @odekunleayobami3186
    @odekunleayobami3186 Рік тому +11

    I'm not a slave to validation....amen

  • @anie6283
    @anie6283 Рік тому +7

    Therapy and deliverance is the side effect of watching and listening to these 3 part series. God bless you Sir❤

    • @angelamaryeli5796
      @angelamaryeli5796 Рік тому

      There is a fourth part. Please look for that also if you haven't seen it yet.

    • @lindalungu1976
      @lindalungu1976 Місяць тому

      You can say it again😭😭😭

  • @rjthelit
    @rjthelit 8 місяців тому +5

    It’s Dysfunctional Singles That Make Dysfunctional Homes …….So True May God Help Us 😢

  • @rosebaaka7636
    @rosebaaka7636 Рік тому +1

    It is indeed Divine 😢me watching this movie at age 33. Thank you Jesus for giving me a message on winning the battles of the mind. Through your servant. Thanks produser for this word master piece.God bless you

  • @Nuella_Paedics
    @Nuella_Paedics Рік тому +5

    God bless you man of God. Your message is rare and this generation needs to hear and understand why sometimes we behave the way we do.There is indeed a place for everyone in God's plan.

  • @IfyagwuJosh
    @IfyagwuJosh Рік тому +3

    Apostle you are just shaking tables everywhere touching everything

  • @godsblessingamaefule5329
    @godsblessingamaefule5329 Рік тому +6

    That part where you mentioned a chaotic home,where peace is barely experienced in one week is purely my life experience sir...kaiiiii you're truly God's sent to me in this season cos i really need to heal

  • @talkswiththe_blackybones6670
    @talkswiththe_blackybones6670 Рік тому +2

    For the longest time I wondered if my Dad will seat with my Mum to bless my marriage but God re-orientated me a year ago, they are still very separated but I know they will seat together and bless my marriage as parents 😊

  • @franchescaasamoah3046
    @franchescaasamoah3046 Рік тому +1

    I receive my Total n Complete HEALING N THERAPY from these 3 sermons. God bless u Sir for this 🙏🏻 sermons

  • @pearlnarh7584
    @pearlnarh7584 8 місяців тому +1

    Most relevant sermon series ever, and I am not saying this for pleasantries sake

  • @oyeniyitohby
    @oyeniyitohby Рік тому +5

    Iv taken my time to listen to at least one message everyday after the very first one I watched (black tax) …… I have learnt soo much than I could have ever imagined, soo much it has become an habit and an everyday devotion ! Thank you … thank you 🙏

  • @Nja4real
    @Nja4real Рік тому +1

    Listening in Jan 2024 - a therapeutic series. Thank you for validating all I have in my head but cant share. Please do a series on the effect of the JAPA on the young families.

  • @ejiededawe_diamon
    @ejiededawe_diamon Рік тому +10

    I really don't know how I got hold of your messages, but since listening to "Black Tax", i've been actively following.

  • @deborahadebiyi4830
    @deborahadebiyi4830 Рік тому +5

    Have really been blessed with this series. This is the first time I’m listening to you. Thank you sir. More grace

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 11 місяців тому +4

    You are quite right. The body of Christ has not come to the revelation regarding trauma, abuse and counselling for recovery . Certain messages have not been preached to help people to recover from abuse, trauma, alcohol and drug addicts .

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 Рік тому +6

    Remain blessed sir.
    Infact, your ministry will excel globally and prosper till eternity for the truth 🙏
    I am amazed at your teaching my mentor ❤

  • @victoronodjacha3642
    @victoronodjacha3642 Рік тому +1

    These are real issues indeed, sir! And the church is not talking about them. God bless you and amplify your voice more and more in Jesus' name!

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 Рік тому +3

    My pastor and all round life's mentor, you are so intelligent and l call it supernatural wisdom and insight - completely uncommon.
    Love your wise and transparency in teachings, very rare and unique, 100% splendid 👌
    You get backing, no mind them, just teach on, no look face sir.
    It is a (my) real life story with a vision less, violet, lazy, hostile, immature, arrogant, unremorseful and parrotic man as husband over 14yrs....
    God really saved my life from such a toxic and abusive, fair-whether so - called marital and deceitful relationship.
    Thanks to God 🙏😥🙌
    Crystal clear and undiluted. 👍👌❤️
    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @Phoebenails143
    @Phoebenails143 Рік тому

    This is a pure therapy. God I am healed .
    Thank you JESUS 🙏🏻

  • @Olajumoke_Adeife
    @Olajumoke_Adeife Рік тому +5

    This sermon is really for me!!

  • @OziomaMichealonovo
    @OziomaMichealonovo 2 місяці тому

    I really love the teaching

  • @AmandazipaulSunday
    @AmandazipaulSunday 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for igniting the fire that was once quenched in my life 🔥🔥🔥🔥😭😭😭😭 i can do better now thank you Sir..

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye Рік тому +3

    Thank you sir. Faulty foundation also affects Pastors. You are right sir

  • @oyekanvictory7275
    @oyekanvictory7275 11 місяців тому

    Everything you said is real sir, from episode 1to 3 they are happening in my life and family I wish I have been listening to your message years before

  • @olaGpk
    @olaGpk Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much sir for this message...it has changed my mentality about myself...
    God keep and bless you, amen

  • @theodoraokpewho5829
    @theodoraokpewho5829 Рік тому +1

    God bless you so much sir for this great and true teaching

  • @amakarhoda9147
    @amakarhoda9147 Рік тому +1

    😭😭😭😭😭 I'm glad I met you here sir, thank you, with time I will show you how grateful I am 😭🧡 its time for me to GO FORWARD 🔥🔥 God bless you sir

  • @annamutie1799
    @annamutie1799 Рік тому +1

    Great teaching. God bless you.❤❤

  • @preciousevbokpiagharu6631
    @preciousevbokpiagharu6631 2 місяці тому

    God bless you Sir 🙏 you're so full of wisdom

  • @marytakon
    @marytakon Рік тому +2

    Ah! God bless you sir 🔥

  • @maneti1095
    @maneti1095 3 місяці тому

    Thank you sir I’m watching this at the right time

  • @Dvibejunkie
    @Dvibejunkie 3 місяці тому

    Apostle Femi. God Bless you 🙏

  • @FaithKangwa-bt2gs
    @FaithKangwa-bt2gs Рік тому

    Khaiii What a blessing You are Apostle Femi Lazarus 😭 Thankyou for answering God's call over your life🙌♥️

  • @solamalomo3336
    @solamalomo3336 9 місяців тому +1

    Boxer, DJ, teacher, tutor, real estate, pastor, apostle, counselor

  • @julietnkechi5155
    @julietnkechi5155 10 місяців тому

    God bless you sir for this teaching.....I'm blessed.

  • @Fifi-qp7in
    @Fifi-qp7in Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir, may God continue to bless you🙏🏾

  • @doobeeremita
    @doobeeremita Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this series sir

  • @laurint.3129
    @laurint.3129 Рік тому

    Please🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 kindly make the recording/sound louder, i have been so much blessed by your messages

  • @Olalekan_O
    @Olalekan_O Рік тому +4

    God bless you Apostle. This is life changing

  • @olayinkamartins6479
    @olayinkamartins6479 Рік тому +1

    Your messages are more than super ❤

  • @oliviachiemela3403
    @oliviachiemela3403 Рік тому +1

    I wish I can really talk to you one on one or on phone, this message describes me and my background I've been struggling to heal.

  • @pennyvee100
    @pennyvee100 Рік тому +1

    Apostle where have you been?? God bless you sir
    Timely message

  • @joandavid7216
    @joandavid7216 Рік тому +1

    Indeed I was blessed,enlightened and encouraged with this mess!God bless you pastor Femi

  • @bimdiva1
    @bimdiva1 Рік тому +2

    Thank youuuuuu sir this message !!!!!

  • @basseyemmanuel
    @basseyemmanuel Рік тому

    Thank you Jesus 🙌
    Thank you apostle

  • @bridgeteyo-honesty9838
    @bridgeteyo-honesty9838 Рік тому

    Thank you sir, for this series. Its liberating for me.

  • @FavorFavor-fd1iv
    @FavorFavor-fd1iv Рік тому +2

    Am blessed sir. Thank you

  • @cookieejar7710
    @cookieejar7710 8 місяців тому

    You are a blessing 🙌🏾 ❤

  • @abiodunlight561
    @abiodunlight561 Рік тому

    God bless your ministry pastor Femi

  • @ufuomajane4642
    @ufuomajane4642 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this message,I’m from a broken home and an only child from both parents and it has really affected me alot cause the pressure from both side is outside the world,I often think how my marriage will be,if both of them will wear different clothes on that day and if both side, will be at peace with their families,God will help me sha

  • @olajumokeodunuga17
    @olajumokeodunuga17 Рік тому +1

    This is deep 🤔🤔…thank you sir.

  • @27144
    @27144 Рік тому +1

    So true sir,God bless 🙌

  • @SAMUELFAKANLE
    @SAMUELFAKANLE Рік тому +1

    God bless you Sir

  • @ChisomBethel-lsJesus1stbaby
    @ChisomBethel-lsJesus1stbaby Рік тому +2

    This message is for me. Thank you Pastor.
    I need the church address in Port Harcourt.

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  Рік тому +4

      Currently we have our branches only in Abuja, Ibadan, Lagos, Ile-ife, Abeokuta and Kano.
      You can always join our service online @sphere light Church every Sunday by 8:30am and on Tuesday and Friday by 5:15pm

  • @agathaasare1045
    @agathaasare1045 Рік тому +1

    God reachly bless you i need to change😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @nadinen.24
    @nadinen.24 Рік тому +1

    What a wisdom! Thank you Sir!

  • @okoreesther8948
    @okoreesther8948 Рік тому +5

    On abuse, Apostle keeps mentioning 3- sexual, verbal and emotional. What about physical abuse? Merciless bearings, rubbing pepper in private parts and sensitives eyes, etc... I thought it was an omission in the first part of this series, but this is the third part and he still hasn't included it.
    Physical abuse is the first and prime abuse children face in some homes.

    • @theeaglegirl8405
      @theeaglegirl8405 Рік тому

      I noticed that too but I think physical abuse is underpinned by all 3 he mentioned. However, I agree he should have mentioned it specifically.

    • @bridget3163
      @bridget3163 Рік тому

      Physical abuse causes an emotional toll on someone maybe he categorized it differently…

    • @Nja4real
      @Nja4real Рік тому

      Physical abuse is often an expression of all the abuses he mentioned. Physical abuse should be a series on its own.

    • @okoreesther8948
      @okoreesther8948 Рік тому +1

      @Nja4real
      There are verbally abusive parents who won't lay a finger on you but will destroy you with their tongue. Same with emotional abusers. I don't think physical abuse underpins all the other abuses. It should stand alone and it's usually the more prevalent abuse.

    • @Seeekeroflight
      @Seeekeroflight Місяць тому

      I noted that too. I thought he might have forgotten

  • @AyomideOlamide-w4h
    @AyomideOlamide-w4h Місяць тому

    Amen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240

    Please I'll like to know how to reach you sir face to face

  • @habibaisglobal
    @habibaisglobal Рік тому +2

    This abuse mentality is a perfect mirror of our country at the moment.

  • @sylvia-mwangi.6406
    @sylvia-mwangi.6406 Рік тому

    sir speak about single parents please.... especially about raising a son alone sir please

  • @AngelicaHutchinson1
    @AngelicaHutchinson1 7 місяців тому +1

    “Marry right so you don’t ever wish you are single.”
    “Dysfunctional singles make dysfunctional marriage.”

  • @AdaAda_
    @AdaAda_ Рік тому +2

    🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥

  • @YestoConservation
    @YestoConservation Рік тому +3

    I'm 22 but I am learning wisdom

  • @okaforozioma3126
    @okaforozioma3126 Рік тому

    Please the name of the church? I am in Abuja and location please

  • @mbendongruth6851
    @mbendongruth6851 Рік тому

    This is real healing.

  • @paulinalima1134
    @paulinalima1134 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @mightymandate4873
    @mightymandate4873 Рік тому +1

    Patiently waiting

  • @specialagent7640
    @specialagent7640 Рік тому +1

    I need to locate in Abuja asap

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  Рік тому

      This is the location for our Abuja branch
      ABUJA VENUE
      GIVERNY PARKS & GARDEN, AREA 10, PLOT 101 BACHITA CI, OPPOSITE AMALA KLASS AMAC 900211, ABUJA, FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY

  • @blessingetienodickson4949
    @blessingetienodickson4949 Рік тому +2

    I keep asking myself "Who is this man"

  • @ntangnwutsam
    @ntangnwutsam Рік тому +1

    This is fireful

  • @Thehandbaguru263
    @Thehandbaguru263 11 місяців тому

    thank you

  • @juhlyefestus2699
    @juhlyefestus2699 Рік тому

    There’s a way he quenches the youthful thirst of life and mends the bridge between Religion and reality,…

  • @oritsedamilolahephzibah6427

    More anointing sir

  • @marympesuka
    @marympesuka Рік тому +1

    I have found a father in you❤

  • @Estherogheneyhole-ht12nd
    @Estherogheneyhole-ht12nd Рік тому +1

    Please,is this church far away from University of Ibadan??

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  Рік тому +1

      Not at all. Just at Bodija, Osuntokun Avenue. Sphere of Light Church

  • @YestoConservation
    @YestoConservation Рік тому

    What if you no get house, you no come get home?

  • @adekanmidoyin2156
    @adekanmidoyin2156 Рік тому +1

    We inflict pain to cause change because of the pain you are going through

  • @chiomaesther6218
    @chiomaesther6218 Рік тому +1

    Please apostle do you offer counselling services for people that grew up in a dysfunctional family? How much for such sessions? How can one register or apply for such?

  • @ogidimichael1967
    @ogidimichael1967 Рік тому +3

    There’s still hope for me

  • @wendytamakloe2118
    @wendytamakloe2118 Рік тому

    Thank you soo muchh

  • @catekarimi1851
    @catekarimi1851 Рік тому

    Ooh God 😭😭

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 11 місяців тому

    In fairness to the Israelites, the people of Anak were giants. So yeah, one wouldn’t blame the Israel for thinking they look like ants.
    I like stew on rice, but I learnt to serve people with stew in a bowl seperately

  • @ChisomOkolie12
    @ChisomOkolie12 Рік тому +1

    Kai🔥🔥🔥

  • @Lolatrendstore
    @Lolatrendstore 6 місяців тому

    My God💔💔

  • @suimckenzie6451
    @suimckenzie6451 2 дні тому

    Youth Leader of 75 years 🤣🤣.

  • @adekanmidoyin2156
    @adekanmidoyin2156 Рік тому +1

    You will believe people see you the way you see yourself