HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNTIONAL BACKGROUND 3

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  • HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNTIONAL BACKGROUND 3

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  • @Gods_seeds
    @Gods_seeds 6 місяців тому +35

    I've cried from the first episode to this, you are just opening wounds I thought I buried abs never healed... Thank you for understanding our pain. I came from a dysfunctional home and I have never experienced what family is but thank God for who God is to us. Thank you for this series.

  • @omotolaniabolade5093
    @omotolaniabolade5093 7 місяців тому +18

    Who is this Mannnnnnn? Practical, Reality and Spiritual....Let love Ruleeee❤

  • @oshowoledamilola2141
    @oshowoledamilola2141 6 місяців тому +17

    I cried, God please help me, I need you to heal me, for, I am só wounded. I need your guidance, I need you more than ever Abba🥺😭. God bless you and your family so much Amen.

  • @msk7458
    @msk7458 5 місяців тому +9

    Pastor Femi….Your anointing will never run dry. 🙏🏾

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 8 місяців тому +34

    Your ministry is a direct mirror of my Life... I never thought I'll find someone who truly understand me. Your messages has proven otherwise

    • @godsblessingamaefule5329
      @godsblessingamaefule5329 6 місяців тому +3

      Likeee...I literally see myself in every of his messages and it's sooo easy for me to understand. This is God telling me that he can see me and has planned my healing cos I've always asked God if I was ever going to heal from all the heartbreaking experiences that I had. So this is the answer that I needed, to know that I'll heal from all life injuries and that is a reason why I had to go through those experiences. Thank you so much Daddy,more of God's Grace sir

  • @feuolaofficial
    @feuolaofficial 6 місяців тому +18

    Thank you, man of God. I am viewing your content for the very first time, all the way in Trinidad and Tobago, 2 months later. I testify that I am free and delivered, and I give God all the glory 🙏🏾

  • @mayowaogunnaike9118
    @mayowaogunnaike9118 6 місяців тому +9

    One thing i like about Pastor Lazarus is, in the midst of many young pastors in our generation, he is one of the ones who are very balanced in doctrinal matters.

  • @bekienwela2613
    @bekienwela2613 7 місяців тому +44

    This teaching is a rare gemstone. This is loaded with spirituality and reality. This is a cure of dysfunctional background for real❤❤❤❤

  • @endoweddominic3858
    @endoweddominic3858 6 місяців тому +15

    It’s funny how some persons are even victims of all the 10 forms of dysfunctional backgrounds. Indeed only GOD can help.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS SIR. This is not just a teaching, but a therapy and yes, we will heal by GOD’S grace.🙏🏾
    MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS, KEEP AND INCREASE YOUR GRACE SIR. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sonitayufenyuy4128
      @sonitayufenyuy4128 5 місяців тому +1

      Im atleast 8 of these 😊. Thank God for deliverance

  • @anjolawinnifred2589
    @anjolawinnifred2589 7 місяців тому +12

    It’s always the shoutout to the online viewers for me. This is a really interesting and relatable series.

  • @odekunleayobami3186
    @odekunleayobami3186 7 місяців тому +8

    I'm not a slave to validation....amen

  • @funshykay
    @funshykay 4 місяці тому +2

    Very real, practical and well-rounded teaching. Majority of us are victims and hearing this can only serve as a source of therapy. I pray for healing of your children oh God.
    How can I love Apostle’s teaching 100 times? He doesn’t mince words, he says it as it is regardless of whose ox is gored. Everyone must collect as he must shake the table reach everyone’s side.
    God bless you sir, may the anointing of God over your life and ministry never run dry🙏

  • @driphie811
    @driphie811 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you sir.
    "Harvest requires way more hardwork than sowing" mathew 9:37/38
    Following up on converts with love of Christ, until they mature into the fullness that God intends requires more!
    May God help us.

  • @ejiededawe_diamon
    @ejiededawe_diamon 7 місяців тому +8

    I really don't know how I got hold of your messages, but since listening to "Black Tax", i've been actively following.

  • @Nuella_Paedics
    @Nuella_Paedics 7 місяців тому +5

    God bless you man of God. Your message is rare and this generation needs to hear and understand why sometimes we behave the way we do.There is indeed a place for everyone in God's plan.

  • @godsblessingamaefule5329
    @godsblessingamaefule5329 6 місяців тому +4

    That part where you mentioned a chaotic home,where peace is barely experienced in one week is purely my life experience sir...kaiiiii you're truly God's sent to me in this season cos i really need to heal

  • @anie6283
    @anie6283 6 місяців тому +4

    Therapy and deliverance is the side effect of watching and listening to these 3 part series. God bless you Sir❤

    • @angelamaryeli5796
      @angelamaryeli5796 6 місяців тому

      There is a fourth part. Please look for that also if you haven't seen it yet.

  • @deborahadebiyi4830
    @deborahadebiyi4830 7 місяців тому +5

    Have really been blessed with this series. This is the first time I’m listening to you. Thank you sir. More grace

  • @oyeniyitohby
    @oyeniyitohby 6 місяців тому +5

    Iv taken my time to listen to at least one message everyday after the very first one I watched (black tax) …… I have learnt soo much than I could have ever imagined, soo much it has become an habit and an everyday devotion ! Thank you … thank you 🙏

  • @IfyagwuJosh
    @IfyagwuJosh 6 місяців тому +3

    Apostle you are just shaking tables everywhere touching everything

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 6 місяців тому +6

    Remain blessed sir.
    Infact, your ministry will excel globally and prosper till eternity for the truth 🙏
    I am amazed at your teaching my mentor ❤

    • @ololademary2506
      @ololademary2506 6 місяців тому +1

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Nja4real
    @Nja4real 5 місяців тому +1

    Listening in Jan 2024 - a therapeutic series. Thank you for validating all I have in my head but cant share. Please do a series on the effect of the JAPA on the young families.

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 6 місяців тому +3

    My pastor and all round life's mentor, you are so intelligent and l call it supernatural wisdom and insight - completely uncommon.
    Love your wise and transparency in teachings, very rare and unique, 100% splendid 👌
    You get backing, no mind them, just teach on, no look face sir.
    It is a (my) real life story with a vision less, violet, lazy, hostile, immature, arrogant, unremorseful and parrotic man as husband over 14yrs....
    God really saved my life from such a toxic and abusive, fair-whether so - called marital and deceitful relationship.
    Thanks to God 🙏😥🙌
    Crystal clear and undiluted. 👍👌❤️
    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @pearlnarh7584
    @pearlnarh7584 23 дні тому +1

    Most relevant sermon series ever, and I am not saying this for pleasantries sake

  • @victoronodjacha3642
    @victoronodjacha3642 6 місяців тому +1

    These are real issues indeed, sir! And the church is not talking about them. God bless you and amplify your voice more and more in Jesus' name!

  • @rjthelit
    @rjthelit Місяць тому +1

    It’s Dysfunctional Singles That Make Dysfunctional Homes …….So True May God Help Us 😢

  • @franchescaasamoah3046
    @franchescaasamoah3046 5 місяців тому +1

    I receive my Total n Complete HEALING N THERAPY from these 3 sermons. God bless u Sir for this 🙏🏻 sermons

  • @olaGpk
    @olaGpk 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much sir for this message...it has changed my mentality about myself...
    God keep and bless you, amen

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 3 місяці тому +1

    You are quite right. The body of Christ has not come to the revelation regarding trauma, abuse and counselling for recovery . Certain messages have not been preached to help people to recover from abuse, trauma, alcohol and drug addicts .

  • @amakarhoda9147
    @amakarhoda9147 4 місяці тому +1

    😭😭😭😭😭 I'm glad I met you here sir, thank you, with time I will show you how grateful I am 😭🧡 its time for me to GO FORWARD 🔥🔥 God bless you sir

  • @Olajumoke_Adeife
    @Olajumoke_Adeife 7 місяців тому +5

    This sermon is really for me!!

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you sir. Faulty foundation also affects Pastors. You are right sir

  • @Phoebenails143
    @Phoebenails143 5 місяців тому

    This is a pure therapy. God I am healed .
    Thank you JESUS 🙏🏻

  • @okoreesther8948
    @okoreesther8948 6 місяців тому +5

    On abuse, Apostle keeps mentioning 3- sexual, verbal and emotional. What about physical abuse? Merciless bearings, rubbing pepper in private parts and sensitives eyes, etc... I thought it was an omission in the first part of this series, but this is the third part and he still hasn't included it.
    Physical abuse is the first and prime abuse children face in some homes.

    • @theeaglegirl8405
      @theeaglegirl8405 6 місяців тому

      I noticed that too but I think physical abuse is underpinned by all 3 he mentioned. However, I agree he should have mentioned it specifically.

    • @bridget3163
      @bridget3163 5 місяців тому

      Physical abuse causes an emotional toll on someone maybe he categorized it differently…

    • @Nja4real
      @Nja4real 5 місяців тому

      Physical abuse is often an expression of all the abuses he mentioned. Physical abuse should be a series on its own.

    • @okoreesther8948
      @okoreesther8948 5 місяців тому +1

      @Nja4real
      There are verbally abusive parents who won't lay a finger on you but will destroy you with their tongue. Same with emotional abusers. I don't think physical abuse underpins all the other abuses. It should stand alone and it's usually the more prevalent abuse.

  • @rosebaaka7636
    @rosebaaka7636 5 місяців тому

    It is indeed Divine 😢me watching this movie at age 33. Thank you Jesus for giving me a message on winning the battles of the mind. Through your servant. Thanks produser for this word master piece.God bless you

  • @pennyvee100
    @pennyvee100 5 місяців тому +1

    Apostle where have you been?? God bless you sir
    Timely message

  • @oyekanvictory7275
    @oyekanvictory7275 4 місяці тому

    Everything you said is real sir, from episode 1to 3 they are happening in my life and family I wish I have been listening to your message years before

  • @Fifi-qp7in
    @Fifi-qp7in 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you sir, may God continue to bless you🙏🏾

  • @ufuomajane4642
    @ufuomajane4642 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this message,I’m from a broken home and an only child from both parents and it has really affected me alot cause the pressure from both side is outside the world,I often think how my marriage will be,if both of them will wear different clothes on that day and if both side, will be at peace with their families,God will help me sha

  • @cookieejar7710
    @cookieejar7710 Місяць тому

    You are a blessing 🙌🏾 ❤

  • @basseyemmanuel
    @basseyemmanuel 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Jesus 🙌
    Thank you apostle

  • @doobeeremita
    @doobeeremita 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this series sir

  • @solamalomo3336
    @solamalomo3336 2 місяці тому

    Boxer, DJ, teacher, tutor, real estate, pastor, apostle, counselor

  • @annamutie1799
    @annamutie1799 6 місяців тому +1

    Great teaching. God bless you.❤❤

  • @theodoraokpewho5829
    @theodoraokpewho5829 5 місяців тому +1

    God bless you so much sir for this great and true teaching

  • @bridgeteyo-honesty9838
    @bridgeteyo-honesty9838 5 місяців тому

    Thank you sir, for this series. Its liberating for me.

  • @marytakon
    @marytakon 6 місяців тому +2

    Ah! God bless you sir 🔥

  • @joandavid7216
    @joandavid7216 7 місяців тому +1

    Indeed I was blessed,enlightened and encouraged with this mess!God bless you pastor Femi

  • @abiodunlight561
    @abiodunlight561 6 місяців тому

    God bless your ministry pastor Femi

  • @Olalekan_O
    @Olalekan_O 8 місяців тому +4

    God bless you Apostle. This is life changing

  • @user-xg6ny2dh3t
    @user-xg6ny2dh3t 8 місяців тому +1

    God bless you Sir

  • @laurint.3129
    @laurint.3129 6 місяців тому

    Please🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 kindly make the recording/sound louder, i have been so much blessed by your messages

  • @olayinkamartins6479
    @olayinkamartins6479 6 місяців тому +1

    Your messages are more than super ❤

  • @27144
    @27144 7 місяців тому +1

    So true sir,God bless 🙌

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 8 місяців тому +5

    Please I'll like to know how to reach you sir face to face

  • @bimdiva1
    @bimdiva1 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank youuuuuu sir this message !!!!!

  • @julietnkechi5155
    @julietnkechi5155 3 місяці тому

    God bless you sir for this teaching.....I'm blessed.

  • @FaithKangwa-bt2gs
    @FaithKangwa-bt2gs 5 місяців тому

    Khaiii What a blessing You are Apostle Femi Lazarus 😭 Thankyou for answering God's call over your life🙌♥️

  • @FavorFavor-fd1iv
    @FavorFavor-fd1iv 6 місяців тому +2

    Am blessed sir. Thank you

  • @oliviachiemela3403
    @oliviachiemela3403 7 місяців тому +1

    I wish I can really talk to you one on one or on phone, this message describes me and my background I've been struggling to heal.

  • @olajumokeodunuga17
    @olajumokeodunuga17 7 місяців тому +1

    This is deep 🤔🤔…thank you sir.

  • @nadinen.24
    @nadinen.24 7 місяців тому +1

    What a wisdom! Thank you Sir!

  • @blessingetienodickson4949
    @blessingetienodickson4949 6 місяців тому +2

    I keep asking myself "Who is this man"

  • @talkswiththe_blackybones6670
    @talkswiththe_blackybones6670 5 місяців тому

    For the longest time I wondered if my Dad will seat with my Mum to bless my marriage but God re-orientated me a year ago, they are still very separated but I know they will seat together and bless my marriage as parents 😊

  • @YestoConservation
    @YestoConservation 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm 22 but I am learning wisdom

  • @mightymandate4873
    @mightymandate4873 8 місяців тому +1

    Patiently waiting

  • @juhlyefestus2699
    @juhlyefestus2699 5 місяців тому

    There’s a way he quenches the youthful thirst of life and mends the bridge between Religion and reality,…

  • @adekanmidoyin2156
    @adekanmidoyin2156 6 місяців тому +1

    We inflict pain to cause change because of the pain you are going through

  • @paulinalima1134
    @paulinalima1134 6 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @ChisomBethel-ls9fn
    @ChisomBethel-ls9fn 7 місяців тому +2

    This message is for me. Thank you Pastor.
    I need the church address in Port Harcourt.

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  7 місяців тому +4

      Currently we have our branches only in Abuja, Ibadan, Lagos, Ile-ife, Abeokuta and Kano.
      You can always join our service online @sphere light Church every Sunday by 8:30am and on Tuesday and Friday by 5:15pm

  • @ogidimichael1967
    @ogidimichael1967 8 місяців тому +3

    There’s still hope for me

  • @ntangnwutsam3077
    @ntangnwutsam3077 6 місяців тому +1

    This is fireful

  • @mbendongruth6851
    @mbendongruth6851 5 місяців тому

    This is real healing.

  • @marympesuka
    @marympesuka 6 місяців тому +1

    I have found a father in you❤

  • @Thehandbaguru263
    @Thehandbaguru263 4 місяці тому

    thank you

  • @sylvia-mwangi.6406
    @sylvia-mwangi.6406 5 місяців тому

    sir speak about single parents please.... especially about raising a son alone sir please

  • @agathaasare1045
    @agathaasare1045 6 місяців тому +1

    God reachly bless you i need to change😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @sharicutty
    @sharicutty 6 місяців тому

    This abuse mentality is a perfect mirror of our country at the moment.

  • @specialagent7640
    @specialagent7640 7 місяців тому +1

    I need to locate in Abuja asap

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  7 місяців тому

      This is the location for our Abuja branch
      ABUJA VENUE
      GIVERNY PARKS & GARDEN, AREA 10, PLOT 101 BACHITA CI, OPPOSITE AMALA KLASS AMAC 900211, ABUJA, FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY

  • @AdaAda_
    @AdaAda_ 6 місяців тому +2

    🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥

  • @oritsedamilolahephzibah6427
    @oritsedamilolahephzibah6427 4 місяці тому

    More anointing sir

  • @wendytamakloe2118
    @wendytamakloe2118 4 місяці тому

    Thank you soo muchh

  • @okaforozioma3126
    @okaforozioma3126 5 місяців тому

    Please the name of the church? I am in Abuja and location please

  • @adekanmidoyin2156
    @adekanmidoyin2156 6 місяців тому +1

    You will believe people see you the way you see yourself

  • @YestoConservation
    @YestoConservation 6 місяців тому

    What if you no get house, you no come get home?

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 4 місяці тому

    In fairness to the Israelites, the people of Anak were giants. So yeah, one wouldn’t blame the Israel for thinking they look like ants.
    I like stew on rice, but I learnt to serve people with stew in a bowl seperately

  • @AngelicaHutchinson1
    @AngelicaHutchinson1 15 днів тому

    “Marry right so you don’t ever wish you are single.”
    “Dysfunctional singles make dysfunctional marriage.”

  • @catekarimi1851
    @catekarimi1851 5 місяців тому

    Ooh God 😭😭

  • @Estherogheneyhole-ht12nd
    @Estherogheneyhole-ht12nd 7 місяців тому +1

    Please,is this church far away from University of Ibadan??

    • @femi_lazarus
      @femi_lazarus  7 місяців тому +1

      Not at all. Just at Bodija, Osuntokun Avenue. Sphere of Light Church

  • @chisomokolie3156
    @chisomokolie3156 7 місяців тому +1

    Kai🔥🔥🔥

  • @chiomaesther6218
    @chiomaesther6218 7 місяців тому +1

    Please apostle do you offer counselling services for people that grew up in a dysfunctional family? How much for such sessions? How can one register or apply for such?

  • @danielsaint022
    @danielsaint022 8 місяців тому

    Hmmmm..

  • @olabisidurojaiye
    @olabisidurojaiye 7 місяців тому +2

    Emotional unstable personality disorder contribute to dysfunctional family

  • @user-mi7oq2pn1c
    @user-mi7oq2pn1c 7 місяців тому +1

    This is fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Nuella_Paedics
    @Nuella_Paedics 7 місяців тому

    God bless you man of God. Your message is rare and this generation needs to hear and understand why sometimes we behave the way we do.There is indeed a place for everyone in God's plan.