Whitney and Warren on early pregnancy, trauma, love , loss and what’s next | LNN

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  • On today’s episode of LNS, Warren and Whitney walk us through their love journey, and we get to find out details they have never shared out in public.
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  • @MshauriPeter
    @MshauriPeter 3 місяці тому +264

    Our beautiful queen is in a stylish and elegant black corporate dress. I affirmed you this morning, Lynn.
    This episode is speaking directly to our genZ. Those in that category will definitely get inspired as their parents learn one or two things they can do to make this generation better. Warren and Whitney go it all the way, and God's grace is going to sustain your relationship despite the odds. The best way you can survive the rigours of this uncertain and challenging life is to ignore the voices from without. Marriage is not a walk in the park, nor is it a bed of roses, but with intention, purpose, and commitment to your cause, it is doable.
    Lynn's fans, please be empathic and considering in commending this young couple. They are a role model to our genZ that we rarely watch as a pair.
    Warren, having grown in such a humble background and a firstborn, maybe this makes it a reason for you to love this gal more. Show your siblings the way as their role model. GenZ is looking up to you, too. In as much as you are not there to please the world, it's legendry for you to do positive things that impact society. That is the essence of role modelling son. Prove to your great dad that as a firstborn, you never let him down.
    Please parents help your GenZ children with love and non-judgemental ways. Allow them the latitude and leeway to decide their destiny. GenZ is unique in their own right. Embrace them the way they are. Just guide them with parental love and appreciation.
    Warren, let me address you as your father figure. Drinking or smoking of whatever capacity is doomed from the word go. At 14 years, after witnessing my father slide down to oblivion after he suddenly started drinking busaa and changaa, I made a decision never to drink or smoke till I die. All my other siblings went dad's route and got lost. Totally disorganised hitherto. I persevered the odds, married early, and went to campus abroad out of sheer hard work, and today, in my sunset years, I am a proud father of drinkless&smokeless adult married off and in. In simple terms, Warren, I am advising you to focus on your destiny without putting so much energy into your childhood trauma. Quit drinking for good. To live a good life ahead, the two of you ought to be committed to your cause. Love and comfort are not enough, but total commitment and God's grace are.
    Lastly, one of the most celebrated young couple in content creating world separated, and one of the unfortunate comments I saw was, "kikuyu women are...... ". Warren son, we don't marry tribes or age or race but compatibility . Keep this girl with your kid to the end.
    I love you all, GenZ, as you do your things. We, the adults and your parents, often misunderstand or misconstrue you. Maybe, in marriage issues, you can take time to first understand this life better because single motherhood to living in informal settlement is unforgiving. It might have happened to Warren and Whitney but might not work for everyone. Restrain, wait, and be patient, guys.

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  3 місяці тому +15

      Thank you for your beautiful summary and the compliment. Always appreciated:)

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 3 місяці тому +9

      As a genz am writing notes 📔

    • @Sylvia_Kerubo
      @Sylvia_Kerubo 3 місяці тому +7

      Wow wow! I'm impressed with your words. Also, picking up a few lessons here and there.
      God bless.

    • @shapumbashapumba4179
      @shapumbashapumba4179 3 місяці тому +6

      May God bless Warren and Whitney, Let them not forget to seek the fave of God. Young people don't take the spiritual thing seriously 🎉❤

    • @shantellekipsetim3822
      @shantellekipsetim3822 3 місяці тому +3

      I wish we had more people like you..thankyou for this advice

  • @Ruth-hb9hf
    @Ruth-hb9hf 3 місяці тому +61

    I got married when I was 19 years and my husband was 21. This coming September will be our 20th year anniversary. People said we will not last but we are thriving. God is taking you far.

  • @TABITHAMWANGI-fn8fx
    @TABITHAMWANGI-fn8fx 3 місяці тому +47

    The guy is composed,mature he knows what he wants,,,,life has no manual ni God tu hutusaidia,,,,,all the very best to them❤

  • @stecykimari6926
    @stecykimari6926 3 місяці тому +183

    Got married at 16 gave birth at 17....12yrs later we are still together with my guy and our 3boys ..... we've really grown together literally and I thank God for him....I wouldn't want it any other way

    • @bettymuks7072
      @bettymuks7072 3 місяці тому

      Were so many 😅😅I do got married @16

    • @katelinakallyjohn4576
      @katelinakallyjohn4576 3 місяці тому +2

      My sis too,, ata hakumaliza high school,, ilibidi aolewe,, happily with her 3kidd,, first born anamaliza forth na husomea a national school still people talk juu ya kushangaa

    • @eddiebenjy8200
      @eddiebenjy8200 3 місяці тому +4

      isnt that a crime?

    • @getrudechanyisa4285
      @getrudechanyisa4285 3 місяці тому +5

      Whoever married you at 16was to be arrested it's a crime .yes you can be happy right now but how has been the journey 😅😅

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 3 місяці тому +1

      Did you.go back to finish school? Seems like you were underage, in Kenyan law. Maybe if it was in a village setting

  • @elizabethsimiyu
    @elizabethsimiyu 3 місяці тому +111

    This man doesn't sound like he is 24 ❤❤❤❤such a grown up ...I wish you all the best WW

  • @wanjirudaizy4497
    @wanjirudaizy4497 3 місяці тому +161

    I wish one day I can give my story of how I got married at 19 and even my relatives told me utaachwa tu 15 years down the line they are still waiting. I don't encourage it but Sasa ishafanyika wafanye. I wish this lovely couple well and may they stay together for eternity. Wengine houana na 50 na bado wanaachana

    • @TziheriAmboka
      @TziheriAmboka 3 місяці тому +6

      Kumbe tuko wengi wenye tuli rush. Glory be to God

    • @Beingme2024
      @Beingme2024 3 місяці тому +2

      Ongeza volume

    • @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes
      @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes 3 місяці тому +2

      Mimi niliget at 16yrs aki, woiiii Ngai mbere 🙏🥰am soo greatful and thankful to God we are in 🇧🇻🇧🇻. God makes a way always ❤

    • @katelinakallyjohn4576
      @katelinakallyjohn4576 3 місяці тому +1

      Same story with my sis heri yeye ako uni my siz alikua form one, and let me tell you,,17yrs down the line, people talked wakasema ata mm sitamaliza shule😅,,

    • @siatlemore6130
      @siatlemore6130 3 місяці тому +4

      Great story but should not be the norm neither does it work 💯 of the time not even 45% let children grow, study, travel and discover themselves

  • @user-tx1nx3hw2y
    @user-tx1nx3hw2y 3 місяці тому +19

    I got pregnant at 22 after graduation and my husband was 25 ,he had graduated but was yet to get a good job.The backlash and criticism he received from his dad was Soo bad.He would occasionally call just to insult him and remind him how useless he was😂 There's a time he told him'utatembea ukitafutia uyo mtoto mpaka viatu zako ziishe" ,it was Soo tough coz ilifika point ,Ile hoteli alikua anahustle ,kazi iliisha,then he had to shift to hawking in town..it was Soo bad aki.we suffered😅..not to mention the nights that we'd sleep hungry..sometimes with no soap to wash clothes aki whenever I remember this scenes I feel like crying but thankfully it's all in the past.two years later, we are still together he has a well paying job,but Mimi bado sjafanikiwa :above all God has been so faithful, So to Whitney and warren,you do you and the world will adjust,As long as your parents have your back, you're good to go ,all the best

  • @judynjerisilvanus6573
    @judynjerisilvanus6573 3 місяці тому +216

    Let them be aki,she is already pregnant so what do u want her to do,If she abort u will condemn her,imagne this two will go far they will figure life together God will guide them,let's wish them well acheni kusema wataaachana,kama ww uliachwa DNT think Whitney ataachwa nop let's talk blessings ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @missireneke.8171
      @missireneke.8171 3 місяці тому

    • @WambuiNjeri-wg6ij
      @WambuiNjeri-wg6ij 3 місяці тому

      Sure

    • @crazykids5779
      @crazykids5779 3 місяці тому

      True

    • @user-bd2yi7xv2d
      @user-bd2yi7xv2d 3 місяці тому

      Unaona ata Lynn akianza show alisema pple wanaingilia ju ya she's just 19 no one said the matter of her aborting imgn

    • @judynjerisilvanus6573
      @judynjerisilvanus6573 3 місяці тому

      @@user-bd2yi7xv2d TikTok walikuwa wanasema age abort that why am saying they could have judged her regardless

  • @Merciesweets
    @Merciesweets 3 місяці тому +16

    Nilipata my son at 16 years form 3, he has graduated from daystar and my daughter is in cooperative university 2:2 soon 3 year. My last born is junior high school. When I tell people they're my kids they deny. I wish you all the best Warren and Whitney

  • @Jojo-ql2jc
    @Jojo-ql2jc 3 місяці тому +32

    I got pregnant @19 too its hard bt its not hard for everyone, lets give them a chance n give them advise and stop condemning them...

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 3 місяці тому +101

    I think Baha and Georgina needed someone to talk to them like Lynn did to these two

    • @tabbyaustin754
      @tabbyaustin754 3 місяці тому +3

      I think so too

    • @sharonanisha8949
      @sharonanisha8949 3 місяці тому +11

      Georgina got famous and saw baha was not her level again. .now she is being misused out there...at 30 she will get her senses back bt I pray baha will be far by that time

    • @princessariana6612
      @princessariana6612 3 місяці тому +9

      Si waona,she Sat down na the summer family nasahii wako poa

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 3 місяці тому +1

      @@princessariana6612 exactly 💯 coz ye huwaambia facts za life

    • @nancysang1325
      @nancysang1325 3 місяці тому +6

      Exactly.I saw a parent in Lynn.She is so adorable and real.Thank you for doing that to them

  • @marykafietrasha4532
    @marykafietrasha4532 3 місяці тому +147

    My son is turning 24 married last year his gal 19 yrs ad they're expecting their baby june,seems am watching them cz wen they got married i wasn't in kenya ,but lemie tell you maina zile mashitaka mimi huletewa,mala bwana amekataa food,mala mrembo haniongeleshi weh,,, nishakuwa kofi Annan na mwenyewe niliachwa niko singo😂😂but am enjoying being there for them.

  • @E.T87
    @E.T87 3 місяці тому +32

    It has happened hakuna vile wanaweza fanya . I feel like there needs to be a continuous honest discussion on the successes and failures of early marriage and pregnancies, mtu akiamua it's the path they will take then ni sawa.

  • @thankfulforlife
    @thankfulforlife 3 місяці тому +38

    Lynn is a HUMAN BEING❤

  • @doreenthuku5862
    @doreenthuku5862 3 місяці тому +10

    I speak a blessing to these two and their child. In a world where abortion is considered an easier option, you have proven to be the exception. I commend the sobreity you both have; getting tested, choosing each other, pursuing education, open communication. You have a healthier relationship than most older people around you. Be it unto you according to His word. According to His promises you can both stand secure.

  • @deborahongeri4743
    @deborahongeri4743 3 місяці тому +85

    This love story is beautiful, but it appears the man seeks a motherly figure while the woman yearns for a fatherly one. Their breakdown during the interview may signal unresolved past issues. Seeking professional counseling could aid them in navigating their roles as spouses and navigating life's challenges more smoothly.
    Wishing them a beautiful future together!!! ❤❤❤

    • @shikumuturi3115
      @shikumuturi3115 3 місяці тому +1

      I totally agree with you

    • @fridahkinoti18
      @fridahkinoti18 3 місяці тому +2

      True, they need a profession counsellor to unpack their past, there is alot of trauma bonding in the relationship. Wish them all the best in their relationship and the new angel.

    • @chepkoechmerciescovia3877
      @chepkoechmerciescovia3877 3 місяці тому +1

      i wish they ready this for sure it gonna help them a lot

    • @SaltandLightPodcastKE
      @SaltandLightPodcastKE 3 місяці тому +1

      Very true. I agree. May they find Godly council...there is a lot of nativity and unresolved past issues but there is nothing impossible with God if you are intentional. May God help them through this journey ❤️

  • @Beingme2024
    @Beingme2024 3 місяці тому +99

    I was pregnant when I was 19 gave birth at 20 am 52 now my daughter 32 she’s my Rock my best friend my sister as I was born the only child love it she’s a doctor now very proud mum

  • @catherinegicharu
    @catherinegicharu 3 місяці тому +40

    I got pregnant when I was 21 years old I went through every stage of life 😢 and hardship but now my kid is 5 years old and am abroad so let this couple be ❤❤❤

    • @teclawanjiru7211
      @teclawanjiru7211 3 місяці тому +2

      We are on the same road

    • @janetadhiambo912
      @janetadhiambo912 3 місяці тому +2

      My 1st born is 10 years.I got married at 21.I have 4 babies.We are doing life.

    • @catherinegicharu
      @catherinegicharu 3 місяці тому

      @@teclawanjiru7211 And we ain't giving up girl ♥️ keep your head high mamaa 🔥

    • @catherinegicharu
      @catherinegicharu 3 місяці тому

      @@janetadhiambo912 woooow that's so awesome let's take life positively everyday 💕🫂

    • @teclawanjiru7211
      @teclawanjiru7211 3 місяці тому +1

      @@janetadhiambo912 wow!! That's good

  • @doughtykola7188
    @doughtykola7188 3 місяці тому +47

    She's above 18 yrs let them be and God's blessings only

  • @sallywahito
    @sallywahito 3 місяці тому +12

    Got married when we were 18 and 24,got First born at 19. I was a class 8 dropout and him a form.4 leaver 23 years later,am a graduate and him a PHd candidate. Life happens differently for each...of importance is hpw you two vibe

    • @Enyawira7
      @Enyawira7 9 днів тому

      This comment stands out for me and congratulations Sally for working on yourself and attaining the much you have education wise..

  • @malkiamusa
    @malkiamusa 3 місяці тому +20

    all i can say is i wish them well. they made a good decision to keep the baby despite their young age.they should not try to fill each other's parental gaps,but try to be present parents to their child. watu watapiga kelele.

  • @esthermutali7270
    @esthermutali7270 3 місяці тому +5

    Dude is breaking generational curses! It’s not easy May God be with you on this journey… there’s never a right time to have a child! Children are a blessing from God. Wishing you both all the best

  • @flohMN1356
    @flohMN1356 3 місяці тому +39

    Aaaw I really wanted this interview,done professionally so we get to understand this people.. Just listening before I start making conclusions..
    Thank you Lynn for this

  • @milly2006
    @milly2006 3 місяці тому +79

    Hapo kwa fatherly love 🤔.. Thank you Lynn for telling them the truth. We wish them all the best.

  • @juliagacheru70
    @juliagacheru70 3 місяці тому +9

    I met my man when I was 18 turned 19 with him now we are five yes together with a son I had at 22 yrs..now am almost 25 this ur..couldn't be happier..people aren't the same..

  • @gracewairimu937
    @gracewairimu937 3 місяці тому +26

    Childhood trauma are real , what this couple needs a therapist to walk with them . Young girls needs therapy on her daddy issues, and the young man needs to go through grieving his mom then both of them they need therapy for the coming baby . I wish the well

  • @balancedviewpoint7418
    @balancedviewpoint7418 3 місяці тому +28

    Lynn, waaaah, today you have decided to spit wisdom after wisdom to this young couple. This us the rare Lynn we know. Powerful message to this young vulnerable couple. A 19yrs old girl can't be a mother figure to a 24yrs old man whereas, a 24yrs old boy cannot be a father figure to a lady, 5yrs younger". It cannot be put any better. Lynn you killed it big time.
    The way the youth today are honest and bare without mincing words is amazing. Whitney and Warren this far the two of you have come and that far you gonna go. Be purposeful in making it a reality. I pray that your bond and love as is manifesting be forever authentic and meaningful to the end. Thank God for where He has brought you and keep holding unto him to your destiny. You chose each otherand often the consequences are felt by only you as individuals not those that troll you on social media. This life is yours and its joy and or happiness depends on the trajectory you purpose to take. Marriage has no formula on how to start it nor does age dictate its success or failure. Success in a marriage depends on your commitment to it and how far you are willing to compromise and accord forgiveness to each other when the worst happens. There is no smooth sail in any marriage out there be it in a Palace, statehouse or the garden of Eden. Acts of omission and commission occur in any relationship because each one of you had different parenting styles. Marriage cannot be run by validation from without but how the two of you choose to position it for best outcomes. At your age, you need to appreciate the fact that you are in the digital age where social media drives almost anything and everything in your lives. To avoid trolls or attacks on social media, be careful what you post or share. Try to avoid, too personal things concerning you two in social media. Secondly, avoid bedroom, living room and kitchen manenos from public gallery. You have parents who love you very much. Do not shame them by sharing unnecessary info in public. From this point onwards, detach from gossip groups, kamati ya roho chafu and anyone that is always criticising the bold decision you made.
    Lastly, I encourage you two to go process Lynn's words of wisdom, listen to the voice of positive minds from the comments and choose which ones work best for you. Whitney, may I give you words of encouragement and affirmation my daughter? You choose your path consciously and as long as you are in public space, it's hard to control what people say about you just like it's hard to be loved by everyone. When in public space you attract both haters and admirers in equal measure. The most important thing is how you process what they say. Choose to ignore for your own mental wellness. Know that we are all human and those that judge negatively even the best move you make, are more that those that affirm you. For me, Lynn and all positive minds herein, we wish you success as you look forward to that fruit of your womb soon. God's grace and mercy shall forever follow you to the very end. Its well with you two.

  • @nazandungu5700
    @nazandungu5700 3 місяці тому +14

    A real gentleman when u tell them You're pregnant they leave everything and attend to you immediately,,kudos

  • @stevenwonder777
    @stevenwonder777 3 місяці тому +43

    I dont judge people,i only say a word of blessings to them.
    May God bless you,marriage is not easy,yet may God give you courage to maneuver.

  • @Tanita_Fay
    @Tanita_Fay 3 місяці тому +13

    Thank you so much Lynn for bringing this couple on board and demystifying themselves,,, Keep up with the consistency and inspirational content road to 1000000 subs🎉❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lifewithteffie7007
    @lifewithteffie7007 3 місяці тому +11

    I've strong faith in them it will definitely work out❤. Everyone's path is different let's give them some grace. This girl needs peace of mind to deliver her baby safely

  • @jennihjose8133
    @jennihjose8133 3 місяці тому +29

    I was raised by a toxic dad and I have a loving husband and I can tell you that the gap of the father is never filled by any other man thanks Lyn for telling them the truth

  • @winniememo6343
    @winniememo6343 3 місяці тому +13

    Running straight to their channel to subscribe.

  • @Lynn_Kendi_Magiri
    @Lynn_Kendi_Magiri 3 місяці тому +22

    This amazing Lynn ❤❤❤❤they truly need your light and your platform they will make it as a couple and parents in Jesus Christ.

  • @daniellelciell9310
    @daniellelciell9310 3 місяці тому +3

    Honestly, I really liked the advice Ma'am Lynn gave. I learned a lot. It's easy to fall for someone who gets you and wants to build a future together, , why still trying to rewrite a past that is gone but as Ma'am Lynn said, we should focus on the future and let go of the past life that we thought we were suppose to have like a present father or mother, or being understood or being confident... sometimes , it is now or never . I'm proud of my peers for being open to advice. I am so glad they chose to share their story.
    To everyone older and to society: I've been judged too, but my parents' support got me through. It's great to see these kids' parents supporting them. We shouldn't judge young people for their mistakes. We all make choices based on what we know. A not so wise choice is not a life sentence, we learn and move on.
    I feel for those who don't have support. I see these young people as strong and inspiring because they are trying their best and being responsible.
    Thank you Lynn for this platform, where some of us who are on this journey can learn and be better ,

  • @lindahvusha3790
    @lindahvusha3790 3 місяці тому +15

    They're over 18, still young Yes but with proper guidances and therapies/ counseling they'll be good. Above all I hope they don't forget God He's all we got!

  • @morynphoebe
    @morynphoebe 3 місяці тому +25

    Why am I crying with them aki 😢😢😢

  • @rachelwambui4459
    @rachelwambui4459 3 місяці тому +13

    This was me...only that I got married at 20 gave birth at 21 and still strong in my marriage...we were babies and now aging togeza 😂😂

  • @marygachuche7785
    @marygachuche7785 3 місяці тому +2

    This conversation was candid and just exactly how it was supposed to be. Rooting for Whitney and praying for grace upon her/them.

  • @marywanjiru8009
    @marywanjiru8009 3 місяці тому +16

    I gave birth at age of 17 and my partner was 19,i can relate

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks to this young lad for not running away from her.
    This alone is such a huge support for them i will subscribe to them surely..

  • @kingsdaughter2040
    @kingsdaughter2040 3 місяці тому +6

    The guy has fulfilled the wife of his youth wanaenda mbali the guy is full of wisdom it's written wisdom is the mother of all God bless their union keep going Warren and Whitney

  • @Myphaa
    @Myphaa 3 місяці тому +4

    I believe they will go far. May you get the guidance you need and thrive in it. Young love testimony here, Lynn God bless you❤

  • @annewangeci6725
    @annewangeci6725 3 місяці тому +21

    Woow Lynn you gave them the right advice.Warren can never fit in the shoes of Whitney's father and so does Whitney.wishing them the very best

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @verahshee9573
      @verahshee9573 3 місяці тому +1

      They didn't know, now they know..am rooting for them🎉

  • @hakunamatatashop
    @hakunamatatashop 3 місяці тому +23

    I get married when I was 17 years and got our fast born at 18 years. My husband was 22 years at that time. We are blessed family , 37 years in married still loving each other. Age doesn't matter 😅 .God bless them 🙏

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 3 місяці тому

      Wewe ulikua under 18😅😅😅

  • @Shii1990
    @Shii1990 3 місяці тому +122

    I feel Benjamin Zulu should come on the show so he can explain some social psychology things andaybe even offer some guidance moving on on what to expect in life and how to overcome the challenges. I feel its too early, their brains are yet to mature. I wish them all the best though and safe delivery mami. To the guy congratulations for not running and for being there, mature men huku nje ni maKipchoge mbaya

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 3 місяці тому +16

      I wish Lynn can consider bringing him 😊as a genz I would love to hear his insights

    • @karehat5241
      @karehat5241 3 місяці тому +24

      Benjamin Zulu atakuja na nyahunyo🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @akinyiokeyo4618
      @akinyiokeyo4618 3 місяці тому

      ​@@karehat5241ukweli....he has no chills😂😂😂😂

    • @HM-cw3qo
      @HM-cw3qo 3 місяці тому +3

      This is a brilliant idea.

    • @nq4733
      @nq4733 3 місяці тому +3

      Eh after mbaya and Georgina wakosane na pia kina redna Benjamin has a point. Lynn should also get him on board for general knowledge

  • @chepkoechmerciescovia3877
    @chepkoechmerciescovia3877 3 місяці тому +7

    i love the fact that team lynn most of them are positive and encouraging🥰🥰

  • @y.o.l.o1098
    @y.o.l.o1098 3 місяці тому +6

    W. W. I love you two for choosing YOU and doing YOU. All the best because somethings are irreversible. Warren thank you for being man enough and accepting the pregnancy and I love the advice both their parents gave them. All the best. We will always support your content.
    # LoveConquersAll.

  • @cel4lyf
    @cel4lyf 3 місяці тому +14

    People are so bitter nowadays that they feel better when they go hurting others. When someone gets a period, that's nature telling them that they're ready to reproduce. It's the society that's not ready. So at 18 you're are officially adults . Things might be hard at first but I am sure you'll figure out the way as you go. Don't listen to negativity, focus on yourselves and you'll make it.

  • @helenamaina2468
    @helenamaina2468 3 місяці тому

    Thank you lynne for considering this couple be in your show I love this whole advice .....you are just awesome

  • @_e.ll.a
    @_e.ll.a 3 місяці тому +6

    Lynn you're such a kind soul. Thank you for listening to them with empathy and giving them advice. For Warren and Whitney, I wish you all the best as you prepare to receive and raise this child. May he or she give you nothing but happiness. May he or she grow up to be a great person. This is a path not desired by many but since you were bold enough to take it, may it turn out to be a blessing. Kenyans please let's be kind to them.

  • @marybaru-vq8tk
    @marybaru-vq8tk 3 місяці тому +4

    Lynn your such a soul aki I love how you support young couples talk to them your beautiful mama I remember the summer family talk with you alafu awa pia God is taking you places🤞💯♥️

  • @naomiwaburi7198
    @naomiwaburi7198 3 місяці тому +6

    From aunt of Whitney wishes you all the best.we love you guys.

  • @lynnI130
    @lynnI130 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Lynn for chatting with this cute couple. Your counsel and guidance will help.

  • @annewandati3751
    @annewandati3751 3 місяці тому +3

    Lynn you're full of empathy today...using that gentle tone like I have got you younglings.
    I want to cry...
    Si wakuje therapy

  • @MichelleNduta-zt8dn
    @MichelleNduta-zt8dn 3 місяці тому +8

    Lynn you are such a big blessing and an inspiration to many i love you i wish one day i will come and share my story juu mimi na Whitney tuko same page na story but am 20 turning 21

  • @octopussy801
    @octopussy801 3 місяці тому +17

    Watching from Canada. Wodemaya sent me here. Beautiful interview Lynn. Let's pray for this beautiful young couple. They need love, support and encouragement not criticism and condemnation. May God bless their relationship and guide them through the journey of parenthood. Wishing for a safe delivery and a healthy baby.

  • @evalineachieng9515
    @evalineachieng9515 3 місяці тому

    I really love the way Lynn is just accommodative and she's wise on her advice I love her

  • @njerilinda
    @njerilinda 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Lynn for showing love to these young people. What you do is amazing. Lynn you've got a pure, kind heart and we as the audience feel it. The energy you release is infectious and that's why we are always glued to your channel. No one can match what you do coz you coz you do it from the heart with so much kindness. Keep going, we love you ❤

  • @busimajacqueline9606
    @busimajacqueline9606 3 місяці тому +13

    I lost my Mum at 30 something years in 2018 and I tried looking for a mother figure to fill that void and the one who started filling that void passed away last year so I understand the guy trying all ways to fill that void but nothing can unfortunately, I pray you find peace and work hard most importantly keep God at the centre of everything.

  • @user-li7ep8de5f
    @user-li7ep8de5f 3 місяці тому +23

    There's no manual to life but it's better off wishing them the very best😊 we love you Warren and Whitney

  • @irina-maria2867
    @irina-maria2867 3 місяці тому +3

    Lynn, you look fabulous, by the way, as usual. Thank you for having them. I don't know them, but I am glad you met them. I am pretty sure you will keep your eyes on both of them. Their lives stories are very touching, and I will be praying for them. As a mother, I just want to hug them and love them through this journey. We should not be quick to judge others, but that is part of being human beings. I am glad the young man has clear the air about things said about him and he was honest. I wish them all the best!

  • @glslatifahnsubuga51
    @glslatifahnsubuga51 3 місяці тому +2

    Lynn I really loved this episode so much because the way how you were communicating with them and the advices that you gave them it’s like I was listening to a big sister good 👍 job Lynn 🥰

  • @tabbymwangi8977
    @tabbymwangi8977 3 місяці тому +2

    I am proud of you Lynn Ngugi. You're sweet and good advisors. God bless you Lynn.

  • @joannemarley9925
    @joannemarley9925 3 місяці тому +44

    Lynn mm nlipata first born wngu nkiwa frm3 😢😢😢😢😢😢na bbydady aliniruka futi kumi na vle tulikua tunapendana sana, so seeing this young man supporting his girlfriend I feel so much happy 😊 ❤ ❤ akona supportive partner kudos 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 3 місяці тому +3

      At form 3 you had already broken your virginity? 😮😮 Wow! 😢

    • @cel4lyf
      @cel4lyf 3 місяці тому +10

      @@kadzo6614 yes, she had. So what.?. Please stop being so judgemental. That doesn't make you better than her.

    • @giftwema9542
      @giftwema9542 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@kadzo6614 some of us broke our virginity at class six.We all come from different families .Thank God you came from a family that helped you protect your virginity.Some of us were not lucky as you

    • @Kevin_acee
      @Kevin_acee 3 місяці тому

      ​@@giftwema9542 virgnity is not protected by family

    • @its_lucie0
      @its_lucie0 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@kadzo6614how has keeping yours helped you????too judgemental in this world find a life!

  • @judynjerisilvanus6573
    @judynjerisilvanus6573 3 місяці тому +26

    Waanze couple therapy ndio hii negativity isiwaruin nd pia wapate mtu atawashw how to handle ata fame nd money na parenting

  • @sekhitlamakole
    @sekhitlamakole 3 місяці тому +15

    Lynn to be honest I feel sorry for both of them bcos I think they are still young,having a child is not easy and also thank you Lynn for being honest with them ❤🇿🇦

  • @viqueakky9018
    @viqueakky9018 3 місяці тому +1

    Thx Lynn for encouraging this couple. I wish them the best and may God provide for them.

  • @jeanekumbo2122
    @jeanekumbo2122 3 місяці тому +5

    This lovely couple, though a little naive, is a genuine, pure and sweet couple. I really hope they can find support, people who can hold their hands and walk with them. Life is hard, but if they continue to nurture their love for one another, they'll make it. I pray all goes well with them. God bless you Lynn for being so kind to them and advising them appropriately. Many people have conceived at their age, and earlier, but made bad choices due to the stress and lack of social support.

  • @florencemwanzia2769
    @florencemwanzia2769 3 місяці тому +17

    Nilipata my first born nikiwa 15 ata 20 yrs old nilikuwa nimemaliza kuzaa my last born ako form 2 and am not regretting kindly let them be

    • @Hannah-kamau
      @Hannah-kamau 3 місяці тому +1

      Same na my mum am the first born tukitembea tunakaa sisters na ma bro bro yake 😊

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 3 місяці тому +1

      Wueh 😮, congratulations 🎊

    • @florencemwanzia2769
      @florencemwanzia2769 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Kasweetie_254 thank you so much am grateful

    • @mwituamweene9850
      @mwituamweene9850 3 місяці тому

      That was statutory rape! Even if it was a husband, you were a minor child.

  • @neliuschege6797
    @neliuschege6797 3 місяці тому

    Lynn is so beautiful, elegant, gracious and kind with her words. Her words give life. so much love from this end❤❤❤

  • @beatricewanjiru-zu9tf
    @beatricewanjiru-zu9tf 3 місяці тому +5

    I just love the way Lynn is holding this 🥺

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you lynn for that advise .it was timely and you did itbwith soo much calmness and love.
    🇺🇬

  • @anfraciahmuya2601
    @anfraciahmuya2601 3 місяці тому +2

    Lynn is so gentle and listening carefull she's like the big Sister 🫂❤️ they actually needed that closure big up Lynn 🙏

  • @eshycmwangi
    @eshycmwangi 3 місяці тому

    Great interview/Therapy Session with the Pre25 @LNN. Wishing them all the Best!!! Hopefully the relationship doesn’t end as the other famous couple from Murang’a & Kisii …Sending them good vibes🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi4918 3 місяці тому +3

    Lynn thank you for bringing this two..I think the problem with us parents and the older generation is that we are not listening to them,we are too fast to judge,comment yet we dont know what is behind the decisons they make.

  • @giftwema9542
    @giftwema9542 3 місяці тому +18

    As a mother ti a gen z, I applaud this couple gor deciding to stick together .There are so many young girls that have been impregnated and left to be single mothers even at 15 years. As much as marriage is hard, single motherhood is also very hard.
    I believe with proper guidance from the parents this is going to be a power couple.
    I pray that God will keep them strong together. I have just loved them.

  • @Iamjay335
    @Iamjay335 3 місяці тому +5

    The guys dad,ad the girl's mom need to come together encourage this two kids zo grow together support thm ad work together for their children growth,let thm be prayerful ad believe in God ad thy will overcome every challenge.

  • @Koko_Mitei
    @Koko_Mitei 3 місяці тому +3

    Theres no manual to life, let them be. I wish to share my story with you one day Lynn.

  • @user-qi7mg7gh2q
    @user-qi7mg7gh2q 8 днів тому +1

    Some who arboted at 17 is here judging a 19 years who has decided to keep the pregnancy

  • @joelenenakova6910
    @joelenenakova6910 3 місяці тому +5

    They are a vibe together, never boring moments from both of them

  • @flourishing5168
    @flourishing5168 3 місяці тому +7

    At 19, some already mothers of two,let people talk,i wish the one who got me pregnant at that age was there for me like this young man,my siblings got pregnant at 13 and 14!!the Children are all grown now to Young adults now... leave this young couple alone, they are okay..

  • @user-ep5lp4mk4n
    @user-ep5lp4mk4n 3 місяці тому +5

    Somewhere somehow this two will make it just like Abel mutua and judy when they were getting their child people would have condemned them but look at them now so they will pull through this and have a great testimony

  • @GoldEmily-dc2fh
    @GoldEmily-dc2fh Місяць тому +1

    Wow,,,I love this whole episode and it's so touching.I just wish W en W more yrs of happiness and May pple's negativity not take you down...May God bless this union,,, everything happens for a reason and God has it all planned.Lynn,,you are so sweet to them and I feel for them the motherly talk you've had with them,,,mob love 💕

  • @faithkirsten5227
    @faithkirsten5227 3 місяці тому +20

    Am happy for them for taking responsibility and getting a child at 19 is good ,the child will be all grown before they hit30 and God will provide for them,but the guy needs to pray and break generational curses and probably go for therapy

    • @josykitua505
      @josykitua505 3 місяці тому +1

      True the curse is at work generation curses.

    • @simplywairimu4552
      @simplywairimu4552 3 місяці тому

      The comment I've been looking for. Generational curses are real.

  • @Gorgeousij
    @Gorgeousij 3 місяці тому +56

    19 years is not a child,we have seen even 12

    • @sabinakanyi9685
      @sabinakanyi9685 3 місяці тому +7

      The ones saying that she is young...I was just 15 yrs wen i gave birth to my girl..a form two student..wueh..but God is good here I am ..my baby all grown

    • @Gorgeousij
      @Gorgeousij 3 місяці тому +2

      @@sabinakanyi9685
      Kamaru sang and said a 10 year old will get pregnant. It is happening and i don't know whether it's the food or what.i also got pregnant with twins at 18

    • @teejayangel6638
      @teejayangel6638 3 місяці тому

      Just because one can give birth at 12 or 19 (note: teen) doesn't mean they're adults. The fact that you cannot comprehend that is giving pedo or pedo enanbler.

    • @teejayangel6638
      @teejayangel6638 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@sabinakanyi9685you were a child, period. A child getting a child.

    • @svt3
      @svt3 3 місяці тому

      ​@@sabinakanyi9685my parents got Married when my mum was 16+ my dad was 19 that was in 1980 the had 9 children now they have grandchildren and their love wacha tu kama new couple and don't forget they have achieved a lot what we can call from grass to grace

  • @Sylvia-sd4mf
    @Sylvia-sd4mf 3 місяці тому +50

    Kenyans really love getting into each other's lives. We should encourage young people who decide to do the right thing when things go South. They are over 18 after all.

    • @paulysutsiey649
      @paulysutsiey649 3 місяці тому

      And commanding how people should live their lives.

    • @JBRMummy
      @JBRMummy 3 місяці тому

      The like to support LGBT instead of embracing these young people who decide atleast to go the God way

  • @TeacherVee
    @TeacherVee 3 місяці тому +70

    There's no manual to life, let's wish them well 😊

  • @Lillian-pt7tp
    @Lillian-pt7tp 3 місяці тому +10

    As Benjamin Zulu would say this is not the right passage, they are still young under 25. But anyway it’s their own responsibility and they shouldn’t deal with it. Life goes on and their lives will automatically change forever. Good luck with your lives.

  • @sainavictoria9431
    @sainavictoria9431 3 місяці тому +4

    W.W are a beautiful couple and the fact that they chose to settle down early is nice❤.I feel its good to choose what you want the public to know and what is to be kept private cause people won't ruin what they don't know. Sometimes oversharing is how you leak your energy.
    Wish them all the best❤️❤️

  • @jaelvuguza9013
    @jaelvuguza9013 3 місяці тому +3

    I love the advice you gave to them kudos @Lynn

  • @elsiesnaider2172
    @elsiesnaider2172 3 місяці тому +2

    ten years down the line they gonna watch this and laugh about it cause God in heaven will have blessed them and they'll be thriving with beautiful kids and a happy family 🥰🥰 wishing Whitney a safe delivery God has good plans for them

  • @adventuresofmarie
    @adventuresofmarie 3 місяці тому +2

    Lynn you were very gentle and felt like it’s a parent giving lovely guidance to the young ones, I would encourage they also get therapy

  • @marymbugua4939
    @marymbugua4939 3 місяці тому +8

    I got my son at the age of 19 too he is going to be 15 in September,and I had it rough my mum had just passed on and she was the only parent we knew since dad had died when we were very young,my relationship with my boyfriend then didn’t last, I wish them well,the guy looks and sounds very supportive.
    Looking back I know for sure I wasn’t ready and I thought I was in love and all along i was looking for healing and I was very naive ..I would say have kids when you are of age and atleast a job that you can support yourself if things don’t work out with the father of your child.
    Mtoto sio kuzaa tu your life changes forever!!

    • @sharleenmagetto5051
      @sharleenmagetto5051 3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for being honest. We need more people like you

    • @cathrinewanjiru5648
      @cathrinewanjiru5648 2 місяці тому +1

      True life changes forever..at times to me it feels like a mistake but all in all I have to keep pushing on and been there for my boy ...it's not that easy moreso when just single & having an irresponsible baby daddy..May God see us all through.

  • @Yvonnekamuye
    @Yvonnekamuye 3 місяці тому +2

    I was pregnant at 16 and gave birth at 17 in high school. It's 8yrs now I'm a proud mom to my beautiful daughter.imean I am who I am because of my daughter. Asikuambie mtu. Let them judge.stay strong be prayerful and close your ears siku Moja that child will be the reason why you can't give up in life.

  • @dianahdee3127
    @dianahdee3127 3 місяці тому +22

    Kina Summer walianza chini wakiwa wadogo trust a process

  • @princessariana6612
    @princessariana6612 3 місяці тому +3

    .am sure you guys will make it..the interview was nice cried with you guys and laughed at the same time..lots of love

  • @janewangui3984
    @janewangui3984 3 місяці тому +1

    May God bless you Lynn,you hosted the Summer family and they seem to be doing so well.
    These kids are blessed, their marriage will work.❤

  • @naommorara4357
    @naommorara4357 3 місяці тому +10

    I really love the fact this guy never chose to run away from his responsibilities how I wish that others get to learn from him I really wish them well.

  • @the254system
    @the254system 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm a mom and I'm proud of this young man. I'm also proud of this young woman. May God raise you up beyond your wildest dreams. Don't let trauma bond you to each other. I think you are very blessed to have each other and you will escape alot of pain and confusion with the path you have taken. Walk that path with boldness and fearless. Yours will be a story of victory. May the Lord Jesus protect you and keep you. Nimewapenda sana. Shine your light.