My mother chose her Nigerian lover over me, my baby died before my birthday | Becky | Summer Family
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- Опубліковано 17 сер 2022
- At only 20, Becky has faced rejection from her own mother, lived with a man she barely knew for two years, had a miscarriage and dreamt of the day her mother would extend the slightest amount of love and kindness her way.
However, she may have to deal with the painful truth of knowing her mother may never love her and the bond she dreams of may never be a reality.
So, how did she get here? Why did her mother choose a stranger over her, why did she not bother when Becky lost her child and why exactly does her mother hate the only man who has been there for her
Here is Lynn Ngugi with Becky's side of the story.
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Good morning team LNN.
What message do you have for Becky?
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The faith that this lady have is on another level,,believe me you're going far no matter the situation,,you real have a gold heart I love from Lebanon ❤💖.Your tears will never in vain .
Take heart,you are great, your destiny is not in the hands of your mum,God knows it.plan your life trust God and you will be surprised,they will one day come looking for you .I can relate coz I went through the same but God ni Nani,he is full of Love and justice
Noted Lynn
But which kind of mother is this one? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄🙄Some times i listen to these stories and feel like passing through this phone 😭😭😭😭😭to go look for those monsters and strangle them just😩😩😩😩😩
Your destiny is great. Never loose hope. You are going far Becky.
My mum also treated me like nothing and favoured my brothers since i am the only girl, i dont know why she mistreated me and always called me names and made me wash my brothers clothes and everything. After form 4 i was employed as a housegirl and i thank God the lady i was working for took me to school and now im the one who helps my mum despite everything she made me go through .Tell Becky there is God in heaven who has our destiny... From a hopeless house girl to a medical doctor.
What a testimony?? They is a God in heaven. Congratulations. And your boss is a heaven sent
This is amazing serah, reach out and encourage this two young ones and let them know despite everything there's hope .
If i were you i can never assist her.
Sarah we need you on the show and tell us your testimony
@@bujake956 why?
Hungry not only for bread but hungry for love.
Naked not only for clothing but naked of human dignity & respect.
Homeless not only for want of a home of bricks but homeless because of rejection. Mother Theresa
Dear Becky i applaud you for coming out to share your story with us🙏you are a beautiful brilliant young woman.
May God continue healing your heart & it's not wrong cutting people off if all they bring you is tears & heartaches.
She has really reduce Aki amekonda may the lord remember them.
Yes...cut off people who are toxic ata kama ni family
I was brought up by a step dad he came in our lives when I was five and listening to Becky makes me thank God for us being lucky because my step dad was the best we never felt any void he loved us and he would die for us,av still not recovered from his death though it's been 13yrs since his demise..He was my best friend I was his favorite not that he didn't love my other siblings he did but the bond we had was something else not once did he ever raise a hand on us he always believed in dialogue he never allowed my mom beat or quarrel us we were spoiled but we grew up with discipline because he taught us how to be good kids and even in my next life I'd still choose him over and over,he always believed that girls are the most important people in the society am sorry for the pain you went through Becky you are strong you are brilliant keep forging don't ever give up you are strong more than you think 😍
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Me too
Me too am eagerly and thirsting for a husband and adad who can be like the stepdad I have never found one
Lynn is doing more to heal generations than church. she is talking about topics that have been taboo; speaking about the ill a parent is doing to their child in a culture that holds mothers right next to God. This is so so refreshing to see. this is really 'setting the captives free'. sometimes we need therapy and healing than we need sermons. this lady will go on to have a beautiful life but only if she gets daily positive affirmations and eventually therapy. If she could get an opportunity to change her environment to have a fresh start away from her mum and things that reminds her of struggle emotionally she will go on to be well and live a happy life.
Lynn, thank you for sharing this very emotional story.
I am a mother of girls, a survivor of a broken marriage relationship, and a servant of God. It nit only breaks my heart but has most importantly motivates me to take a certain stand!:
1. As a mother, i bring, in behalf of mothers, repentance to Becky and such girls has suffered in the hands of the most protective entity there should be on earth for children. I apologize to Becky as a mother.(can a mother forget the child who has nursed in her breast?)
2. I stand as a servant of God, to denounce every curse, every hatred, every ridicule, manipulation, torture, torment, and every evil word that has been pronounced over Becky and Summer.
3. I stand in the gap between these kids and the mess that has been following them. I push down and dismantle the wall of hostility that has been erected against them by the power of the name of Jesus Christ!
4. I rebuke the spirit of control and intimidation. I arrest every demonic operation that has been established in their lives. I render powerless every of their strategies in Jesus's name.
5. I speak blessings upon them. I cover every area of their estate with the blood of Jesus. I provoke the speakings of the blood of Jesus over every area of lives.
I cancel death, rebuke the destroyer and turn off every demonic fire kindled against their lives.
Power must change hands in their favor.
I speak a turn of events. Let God arise for them, every enemy be scattered.
Nahum 1:11.
Thank you Woman of God!
Thank you❤️❤️
Amen....
Amen ....this is needed to break them free....
AMEEEEN🙏🙏🙏
I am here from Facebook... The fact that Thee Summer family came through for Koko when she was lonely and mourning her loss.They offered her comfort despite them having their own pain that they were hidding from the public,, am certain that God will come through for her.. LNN family,, let's support this young brother n sister to us.. Becky will join university and be able to pursue her dreams in Jesus name. It is well🙏
good idea
That was awesome I really loved them for what they did for Koko.
My daughter listen to what your heart tells you. It's so sad b but remember there is someone who has gone through a lot. Move on with your life turn to Jesus who never fails one.
Na koko amenyamaza
@@faridashisia9409 the last I saw she had gotten herself a new boyfriend
Most of us have grown up in a toxic environment 🥺 listening to this lady, i felt like its me telling my story🥺....may God heal us.
Amen
Let me first start by applauding you for having the courage to speak of your experience with your mom ,so many of us have gone through a lot just trying to hide in the shadows of the society which tends to tell us it's wrong to talk I'll of our parents without even putting into consideration that children are also human beings being shaped to be tomorrow's mothers and fathers but I have learnt to call it as it is ,you cannot praise a mom or a parent that has been toxic to you . I also went through a lot with my mom and am glad I got to choose me and live for me ..that courage ,that voice you got there is what makes you and I am proud of you for not living under those shackles .. sending you love and hugs and some healing energy your way ❤️
I've been waiting for this interview for long. Her story is a reminder that having a supportive parent is a blessings from God. Parents are supposed to be our second God and I thank God I get that from my mum. If you have never had that from your parents always remember you have a God in heaven, He is the greatest parent you'd ever have, reach out to him as you would reach out to your parent. I'm praying for you Becky and Summer, hugs ❤ Thank you Lynn for being the best at what you do Mama, God bless you 🙏
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Having supportive parents is a must. Please let us stop accepting bare minimum from our elders. If you bring children into this world, they are entitled to your provision, love and protection
am also a victim of the same situation,it is not easy
😢 that's exactly my mom behaviour. Toxic mum and this behaviour affect me to date. Hadi nachukia kupata watoto thenk God I have 1bt I really try alot not to be toxic to him . God will heal our hearts. Hugs gal
@@luckyaisha997 🙏
Becky you are a strong lady and as Lynn told you, this is the beginning of your rise as the winter goes, Summer is here💯 Thank you for sharing this Lynn abd God bless LNN
So true
True bro 🙏🙏🙏
Congratulations 🎊 🥳 🥳 🥳 Comme for supporting youngings
@commentator thank you for making us know what this guys have been going through
Becky, your mum has no excuse for abusing you. This Nigerian need to be arrested . Kenyans you need to keep guard of your country against foreign criminals, the government doesn't do it.
Thank God Becky fell in good hands, young girls have ended in abusive marriage while running away from abuse or poverty.
I am encouraging girls to speak out as soon as things happen no matter the threats.
Dear Lynn, thank you so much for bringing and sharing these stories. Sometimes we forget to thank God for what he has given us. I grew up in a family of 10, wonderful loving parents to all of us. The older I grow the more I learn about families, the more I know how blessed we were. My parents are long gone but we continue to feel their love for us and we are trying to instill this love and care for family in our children.
One important thing I have to point out is that my parents taught us to pray and believe in God. Learning to pray to God without going to some pastor (because many today are crooks). Thank you Lord for loving, giving, wonderful parents.
Lulu I relate
We were 11
Our parents are now gone and we still feel their love and are also trying to instill the same in our children
However they are of a totally new generation
May God help us all
To the Summers I wish you all the love and baraka tele
These kids have gone through alot, I can't imagine how they still had the energy to give us good videos with all this, I so much loved and still love their channel, may God open a great door for them, even with all this pain they helped someone like Koko after losing her husband, sending you love and hugs Becky, you are not a failure, you're a beautiful girl with great mind and you will soar high
Please remember to watch the adds to the end so that we can support them atleast UA-cam iwalipe
This sounds like my mother she picked my step dad over me, got kids with him and dumped me at my grandmother's place who was disabled, everytime I asked for pocket money in highschool ama for her to attend an event she would lash out that I'm stressing her and that I'm stupid for not understanding her house situation, there's a time ckuvisitiwa time ya visiting day and when I confronted her about my suffering at school psychologically, financially and emotionally, she Abused me told me I won't go far in life, juu najaribu kushindana na yeye she even told me she made a mistake having me that I was s baggage etc etc when I cried she cried saying I'm making my parent cry lol, there was also a time nikiwa form 2 I was touched inappropriately by my stepdad (it wasn't the first time btw) when I told her she shut me down told me I'm disrupting the peace in the house, that I embarrass her Infront of people for talking about it, akaninyima food hiyo cku, walifunga mlango ya kitchen wakaenda out my step dad akanirushia ile chuma ya gas the next day for speaking up he had anger issues, I have bruises for that day I was 15 it was so much I called my grandma who sent me fare to go ushago that weekend, my mother would say I'm embarassing her for telling the story and that's why no one likes me that's why I'm not allowed in her house in Nairobi, that's why I will never have the privilege my step siblings had, you go through so much you become emotionally detached you have no hope for your family you know you'll never be accepted or loved by your mother you feel cursed , now at 25 I decided to let things I can't change be! instead of being depressed or suicidal I should focus on healing and my future
Hugs mum🥰🥰
Courage
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 hugs dear
Hugs darling, you have our father in heaven
All shall be well. Iknow the pain.
I thank God for my mother who sacrifices herself so much for us. My father died when my mother was 29 years old and with three children by then, the oldest was 6years. She never got married again. She was saying she didn't have the urge to marry because she didn't want to see us suffering in the hands of another man. And because of that she worked hard for us and we are now all grown up and educated. May God bless all mothers who loves their children.
My mom also loves us alot.I thank God for that
I also thank God for my Mum ❤️ Lynn episode ya kushukuru single mum's ikifika niite please 🙏🙏
God bless her...if I would give you my mother for 2days you will run mad😓😭😭
Your mum is a hero
That's a unique one. A No. Dont give a damn
😭😭 becky is a version of me ,I just cried thru out watching the same video.my mum did the same to me I ended up having my kid at 19 after her kunifukuza n I said to my self I won't kill my baby to make her happy.so she decides to relocate to ushago n left me in nairobi alone n so I had to get married in oder to have a shelter for me n my baby i never joined collage nor university up to date because i have a kid thats already going to school n been raising him alone thou i believe I'll one day do my dream course its 6 yrs now but i know its never too late. Right now what I would tell becky is to always make God her 1st priority ,be positive n optimistic because one day she'll be mentoring young girls going thru what she's Been thru. May God see you thru lil sissy 💕 n don't give up on summer. Life is all about ups n downs dear
It’s 05:53 here in the UK, I have watched the first episode of Summer and now Becky’s story,have never wept like this in my whole entire life,it’s almost as if, I am mourning someone’s death.These kids have been through the most and they don’t deserve such pain.May they find peace 🙏🏽🥲
Any job vacancies there?
This is so painful😰😰Dear single mothers let always prioritize on our children they go a lot of traumas with the step dads and mothers.
OMG... this child is sooo broken... I cried yesterday for summer, I am crying now for becky..Becky... and I am not even kenyan, never step my foot there... I wish I can take them in and give them love. These kids are soooo 😍
Please 🙏 help them
Help them please
Honestly, no girl should be living with a young boy at 18! Becky was made to live a life no girl should be subjected to by any sane parent. Surprisingly, despite the pain, abuse and rejection, Becky and Summer do not speak with bitterness. This has really struck me about them. Their character amidst their agony and turmoil is sobber, mature and they sre so resilient. I pray they will continue to find solace in each other and probably God.
Becky's mum must be a very wounded woman and as you know, wounded people wound others. Nigerian men are not necessarily bad, the one in question was just a rotten apple in the bag. May your destiny (Becky and Summer) be changed like that of Jabez. Lots of love and hugs.
This is seriously sad
I can share my mum with you...she's just lovely has many daughters and sons ❤ praying for your peace and healing 🙏
Lynn you the Oprah of Kenya 🇰🇪
Just Heaven sent
Much Love from Uganda 🇺🇬 ❤ 💕 💛 💗 💙 🇺🇬 ❤
1000% I have watched most of her shows.
Nkugambye
A daughter without her mother is a woman broken. It is a loss that turn to arthritis & settles deep into her bones😢
My dear, my mom left when I was barely 2years and it broke. In fact, I’m still broken.. I don’t even know how long it’ll go.
I have not spoken to mine for 5yrs know and she is not even apologetic....I have peace without them
@@gracedavid2650 same wassup group lols and thy nothing for their wickedness.....best thing hukua just to peacefulli stay away and keep distance as much as possible for the sake of peace of mind
Her mum is possessed she is going through pain being a single mum
@@wanjakiiru6975 but i rili dont think being a single mother is rili an excuse to make mothers treat their kid/s animals
The whole story of Becky and Summer is really sentimental..They're so young and they don't deserve to go through this much pain.I pray to God to give them peace that surpasses human understanding and i would really love them to grow old together and to succeed in each step of their lives.Thanks Lynn for giving your hosts a shoulder to learn on.May God Bless you abundantly.Sending lots of love to you and The Summer Family💖❤💞
Lynn thanks for giving this young ones “The summer family” shoulder to lean on . May God bless you big. James/Becker you are still have a bright future,the word of God says you are the top and not the tail,what the locust has eaten may he restore it in abundance . Both of you have special connection and I speak as a son. The system in our Kenya though I don’t live there is broken. For us parents let’s stop calling our children names,let’s bless them .
A mother can never give you what she doesn't have. She doesn't have love in her heart so she has nothing to give. What remains unresolved with our mother's will always affect our lives and even our ability to love others. Guys please read a book titled_ *It Didn't start with you* especially if you struggle having a relationship with your mum. If a background research is done, there are chances that Becky's mother never had a good relationship with her mother. My prayer is that Becky, will heal that wound that has been caused by her mother or else the cycle will perpetuate in the generations to come.
The author of the book please
@@MonyqaKirubi Mark Wolynn
Veru true.. the mother has issues....
Well said , Lisa Nichols said” Hurt people hurt people”. Becky’s mom needs help .
@@gracewairimu937 True.. I love Lisa Nichols..
Every time I tell myself that I'll not cry on this channel, God reminds me that I'm not done yet.. There are more testimonies out there ... Lynn well done.
Am a father of four children, but this one really made me sad, this the same way my former wife I call her former coz I don't see anything which can make us be together again, I left the country to travel to the USA and my former took advantage of that, to treat my children bad, he brought a young man in the house and told my children he's their father, and told them to forget about me, alisema huyuo tumemalinzana kabisa, the guy was the age of my second born, but God's great they didn't live for long they separated, I have to rent for a good place, where my children would live, and they're happy now, without there mother, wazazi achene ujinga na kupatia watoto stress hazina manaa,when I came back wil give my story to you Lynn, utacheka uanguke🤣🤣 I feel for this two young couple, for what they're going through, but trust in the lord and everything will be ok, one atawatafuta na ayeyekea, hii ni ndunia you never know what tomorrow will be, my the lord have mercy for this two, I heard lived with my former for 25yrs, down the line she got her younger lover within 1yrs after I left the country, bure kabisa, but I thank God I have achieved a lot, without her but with the help of my children 🤣🤣
Oh! This will have to be the saddest story I have had to listen to, considering I was a client of theirs(The supermarket), and I feel like it is personal to me. My tummy is literally aching. 😪😪If only I knew who I was laughing with then (the girl's family)😪 How I pray that Becky and Summer will find strength and the inner peace they need to move on. One time I was in a rough patch and someone told me, "Please stay alive for me, for whatever you are going through is not for you, but for someone else to gain strength from it in future." And 7 years down the line, I have lifted so many with my story and hoping to be a blessing to more. Becky and Summer, the sovereign beautifier will surely beautify your story🙏🙏
this should be adrressed.Childrens that have mummy issues.We should have more conversations on this!!!Thank you Lynn for this.These mummy issues are coming to really affect us especially in our adult lives having to deal child hood traumas,having had toxic moms,suffocatingmoms,overbaring moms,emotionally and physically abusive moms.
Unfortunately, we will go to therapy to heal from the toxicity of our mothers.
And here together with my siblings and mum suffering on daddy issues 😭😭 who is both our dad and pastor. One thing am sure, it will come to pass
This is so true.😭😭
Let me love her from a distance...ningejiuwa walai🙏
Thanks Lynn we are many
Lynn our big sister, thanks for giving these young ones a shoulder to lean on. Our Father in heaven will always bless you 🙏
I lost my husband at a very young age and I chose to bring up my children alone because I couldn't tolerate to see another man mistreating my children.
Mama Becky doesn't know how dangerous Nigerians men are. One day she will cry with one eye closing the other one.
I second you mama
true... just greetings from a Nigerian my day get ruined automatically.. very sycophants people
They use spells on people.
@@shepherdhermas6763 also gift of the gobb, charmers pretenders, manipulative and giving the big banana to weak women who than loose their senses. Women beware if u hv children stay away from naijas majority of the time they will never marry women with children, there is something he wants from you and after he gets it You will be left high ND dry. Your children come first.
You are a super mom as for me my mom chose her husband now I don’t even want to see her because I remember everything I went through
After watching Susan Grace's story, Becky's tale is heartbreaking.
I can imagine the atmosphere behind the scenes, how the production team felt the whole 2 hours.
Good job guys good job 👏👏👏
Heeey Becky, You are a strong lady. May peace locate you and Blessings after Blessings... You are destined for greatness !!!
Summer, thankyou - From a broh to a broh, Mahn you've done what men do. Keep shielding this lady always. She needs you most.
The pain am feeling right now is unbearable,I lost my only child 19 years old son 12 years ago,am wondering who on earth would hate their child.This mother should know that you SHOULD value your child,if only I was in Kenya I would rush to this studio and take this most beautiful well spoken girl.She is too beautiful to have those tears down those cheeks,she is too beautiful to knee down and be tortured by a useless Nigerian loser,she is too beautiful to not be in school-I love you and please know this is the beginning of your better life.You will be too successful and that woman will come crying.The best part of this story is the beauty wants to help herself,she wants to go to school.I LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL
Sorry for the loss of your kids, having even a miscarriage itself is difficult may God strengthen you and give you the comfort you need
I feel 😪 that pain 💔 😢 you will be strong woman and th Lord will never leave you
She is a reach away. You never know you can be her mum.. Be blessed
B blessed Madam Flora
I went through this...but came to realize I was born alone with a purpose and that's why even twins are never born at the same time they must have a difference even if it's a second..Becky focus on youself don't force yourself where you are not wanted be where you are celebrated..
Becky's mother is just something else - unbelievable!! All the best to Becky & summer ❤️❤️
Surely Beckie's story has made me send tears all the way to the end, it's my prayer that God will heal the hearts of these two lovebirds and lead them to a better life
A story of my Nephew he went through hell in the hands of a stepdad,he educated all his siblings except him it made us tuingililie tumtafutie his biological father it's only yesterday they united with tears of Joy
wooooow
Wooooow that so sweet
I hope his biological dad took him to school.
Let's help Becky and summer my guys,, they've been through alot
Oh my!… to whoever blessed enough to have both loving parents out there…. Please love them back, make them proud and happy and show love outside to others. There’s so many people/children suffering and craving for love from the people they love! What a pain?
Lynn get Becky a lawyer and swear affidavit ndio apate ID. It's not a must she takes using her mother's ID. And bcz the mother is not willing to help, there is another option. Sorry to the summer family. Sending them love❤️❤️❤️and hugs
Sometimes in life, strangers became Family... Becky we are here for you
Nigerians are pure red flags. I feel so bad for Becky aki
I was looking for this comment
I'm telling you.
Becky i can relate with your story and i know how hurt and rejected you feel, nothing about this is easy, however with time everything will be okay, in the mean time, gather all the strength you need and try to accept the situation , you cannot force her to love you , infact be ready and willing to cut her off especially emotionally and dont expect anything from her, it will help you cope. build your networks and from your friends you might find family. Refuse to see yourself through her eyes. you are beautiful, brilliant and brave. if she ever comes back then it will be fine, and if she doesnt then i pray you will be strong enough to be okay with that too. May you have the peace and success that you deserve.
Lynn thank you for bringing this story of Backy out for her mother to see what she's been doing to her beautiful princess because of her nonnce Nigerian man. How can a mother mistreat her daughter or choose a man over her child?as a single mother I rejected a second marriage for fear,my children comes first and others after. Beautiful Becky, remember the bible says the stone rejected by builders became the corner stone, know that you are the family star and one day they will come looking for that star in Jesus name, you will live to see this God bless you and summer
Waaah! Aki I am traumatised by Becky's experience. God still loves you and He will wrap you in His comforting love as a Good Father. I appreciate Summer for being a safe space for you despite his own troubles God make you a great healed whole man. You are blessed, your created for impact and God is within you both you will not be afraid. Remember to speak life into your lives. Bless yourselves and pray for God's help and guidance. Poleni Sana my Loves. Hugs and love to you two Remember to work on forgiving those who did you wrong. Over time you will find peace and freedom and your lives will work. Yes be friends, do things that make you smile and be happy and pursue your dreams one day at time.
I like the way the society is opening up about toxic parents especially mothers who are assumed to be saintly. It has always been a taboo but you will be surprised how many people have suffered in the hands of these 'proud mothas'. The only language a toxic parent understands is silent treatment. Usiende kwake, don't call don't send money asipokutafuta na torch mchana that is one beyond repair and you should keep off for the sake of your sanity. If you keep looking for her approval she will keep trashing your feelings. Niko hapa nyeri town kujeni na polis 👮 🤸🏼♀️
Best comment ever.
I've been down this road and how I was shamed when I talked about it years back ...hata by christians out here ........ This is a heavy topic. May Lynn continue to unpack it .
Well spoken 👏🏿 👌
@Josephine Wairimu this gal needs advice on this toxi mum there's no way you can be good to them, the will always bring you down
I hope she sees this
This interview broke my heart .I've cried so hard .so many of us have come from such toxic families or even worse 💔💔as God heals you atukumbuke pia. Much love girl ❤️❤️I also don't know where I get the strength to keep pushing but God's grace is so sufficient 💪
I feel her pain,went through rejection and abandonment from
My mum and it took long to forgive even though she had passed on already.women love your daughters they are not responsible for you sourness.May God bless you guys .I know you are young but you seem to flow well together.Stick together and leave the mama out of this.Summer,May God fill your pocket with lots of money for you to take care of your family.You gonna be super rich boy,focus!!!!
As a father to a teenage daughter, this story made me really sad. I can't imagine the situation this young girl found herself dealing with. May God bless them to realise their dreams. They are still young and the issue of love their will discover as they grow if its meant to be that.
We say parents are second God but some come from hell
The story is making me crying,I have daughter 2yrs old,we have differences with her mum though sometimes we talk but i constantly tell her that our daughter should not suffer because of our differences, Our daughter should get love from both parents even if we are not in relationship with her.The story is making me shed tears as man.So painful
Ladies our children should be a priority before anyone else🥺😰
Sure dear😭😭😭
Yeah
Sure
True
Ohh dear,I cant imagine what ths daughter of myne has bn going thro,I ve a daughter who resembles Becky and we as parents are soo overprotective of her,Ths story has had me cry,You are a Child of God,To Sumner,Big up to you for taking Becky in and showering her with love that she dealy missed and needs.God is gonna lift you up to greater heights its just the beggining.To Lynn,thanks so much for highlighting ths story our kenyan Oprah.
The most emotional story I've recently watched,may God bless this young girl,mothers should be their daughter's shield
@LynnNgugi This is a spiritual issue. I noted when she said the Nigerian guy met with her mum through selling her hair wigs. This is one of the very common way of Nigerians to put spells on women. Those wigs are like the famous soaps they sell to capture people. The wigs work the same way when used reason as to why the mother has no say over her children in the presence of the guy. Remember she also mentioned that he is a young man and based on the observation he uses the spell in that wig to marry her mother and get Kenyan citizenship. I know to unbelievers this sounds weird. Prayers needed. Please Lynn invite Pastor T. Mwangi after these interviews. Apart from prayers they need counselling because of the things they've seen and passed through at a young age. Shalom
@LynnNgugi . please let Pastor T Mwangi follow up with the Summers family.
I get some sense in this
uzuri hawa ni wazazi wa dunia tu...tuko na mzazi wetu mtrue mbinguni...
Amen
True who is the King
I knew Becky and Summer through Koko...the way you took care of her and gave her a shoulder to lean on...no one would even tell that you were hurting this much...may God wipe your tears, may He expand your territories, we love you and hugs❤️❤️❤️💞 God will restore everything the locusts ate in abudance, you are not a failure...cheers to wins and happiness...you deserve the best
Mummy issues are more hurting than daddy issues. May they find healing, love and light.
Sad all around. But I'd say these two shouldn't start a family yet, when they're both broken. Parenthood does bring trauma to the fore. People don't realise it, but it has a way of bringing back one's trauma. Seek professional therapy beforehand because you're trauma bonding. All the best!
In full agreement 🤝. They need to go through therapy and take time before starting a family
well said
Actually yeah but by God's grace they ain't toxic to each other but it's not healthy they need professional therapy
@@catherinewanjiku9238 they are already displaying toxic tendencies towards each other by trying to start a family too fast.
If you're rejected ACCEPT. If you feel unloved, LET GO. If they choose someone or something over you, MOVE ON. REMEMBER THAT,in every NO from someone is a YES to someone better. And remember ' rejection is God's protection'. May God's grace and mercy be upon you and your family during this difficult time.
Amen to this ..Got this encouraging me coz am still facing a different phase and I believe all shall be well
Thank you for this encouragement ,you have spoken y me directly
Amen, this is a good way of approaching rejection from anyone who doesn't love you.Love is a very strong feeling and you cannot force someone to love you.
It's not easy to accept rejection from your own mother and siblings. The pain I carry especially when I see someone walking with their own mothers laughing and happy ,I really do feel shattered completely. I really wish to know her reasons why. The rejection and hate from my siblings don't bother me but my mom. Remember your biological mother is not just someone , you can't even compare her with your siblings
@@stargate356 i was forced to accept rejection from my own brother it feels bad but I have learnt to, first it took me 5 years to keep forgiving him but he never changed,last year I gave birth n unfortunately lost the baby, instead of calling to say his pole,he sent me please call me thank you n when I called him the first thing he told me is that he doesn't have money n won't make it to travel to Nrb for burial (we were burying her at Lang'ata cemetery)that's how he never called back to ask for any arrangement or even contribute,Weeks later a cousin of mine confronted him n asked why he behaved that way, instead of responding to that cousin he started sending me msgs laughing at me for having lost ,can u imagine am the first born n my parents died when we were very young I have really struggled with my siblings trying to b there for them in every little way I can buy afte growing up n getting a job nobody cares,the day he sent me those msgs abusing n mocking me, it came out very clear that even though we r siblings me n him shld go separate ways,I called him n told him that our relation has ended let him never call me n I will also not call him or engage with him in anyway,today I can say that was the best decision I made,it gave me peace coz I live knowing that I don't have a brother n it's so peaceful I am even wondering my God is this what I have been missing.
the summer family has always been an inspiration to me from the start... Never knew they were going through all this.. these Kids have a great destiny.... they have helped people before despite the hard moments.... May the Lord come through for you... hugs♥
Sending love to this young girl. May the Lord give you peace Becky. You are a precious gift and things will get better
If you had a supportive mother growing up please kneel down and thank God for that...
Some of us money was not the issue but vitu we went through we even envied the poor families with love and peace
The way I love my daughter ...and I want to raise her different way than the way I was raised....
👏👏am here with you dear aki the way I love my kason
Women,our children mean alot to us.Children are arrows,shoot them to their destiny.Bless them, love them.I cannot give up my adorable children for a man.God heal Becky's heart and her boyfriend too.
THE STORY OF THE SUMMER FAMILY,HAS MADE ME SHED TEARS,MAY GOD SEE THIS TWO THROUGH,IT'S SO PAINFUL AND MAY GOD BLESS THEM TO ASHAME EVERYONE WHO WAS TOXIC TO THEM,MAY THEY BE A LIVING TESTIMONY..BETTY MBECHE
I can relate everything, I have lived with a toxic mother and I also decided and walk away and go find life and support from strangers
Some people are going to reject you simply because you shine too bright for them. That’s okay, keep shining.” - Anonymous
I have watched both stories..no one deserves to go through what they have especially from those we call family...am so proud of them for standing for each other despite pains...I pray that God keep them together and bless them and may they have unlimited favour from God...to single parents please never allow a man or a woman to came between you and your child..let that child or children be your priority..don't be blinded by 'love'..and to those of us who want or have already been entangled with a single parent just make sure that you love their kids..don't came between them..support them and love them..if you can't just walk away..
Hugs Becky trust me I know how it feels being mistreated and rejected by your own mum it's soo painful 😪
This girl is so broken,,I wish she could be rescued before it's so late,,, Thank you Lynn for listening to her and giving her a shoulder to lean on 🙏🙏
She is so young and beautiful,more love and light to you Becky.....sorry for the pain uv gone through,may you find healing.
This story is soo heart breaking 💔 I can't watch it till the end 😭
The worse thing in life is to have a Narcistic Mother. May God heal u & guide ur ways for a brighter Future.🙏❤🌻
No woman in the Name of a mother can curse this girl. You have greatness in you, find your path and follow it with faith. Those people who say you cant help anyone, or be nothing in life, those who gang against you, believe you me, you are the person to help them. Best Thing is to forgive, and Focus on your path, it is not an assurance of healing but a gateway to you destiny.Only a foolish woman destroys her own home.
Am so happy that Becky accepted the paths of pain. Pain results to greatness. Nobody will accept any pain like this. I trust Lynn and her community will come through for Becky and summer. Pain also strengthens aperson if u accept it from ur heart and ask God to help u overcome it. Becky u amazing and u have abright future. Feel loved and receive my🌺🌺🌺🌺.
Weeh...I've not cried this much in a really long time. Becky, may God change your story, and may the summer family thrive till the end of days. As a single mother of one girl, I'd rather die of loneliness than be with a man that can raise a hand on my baby. Mama Becky needs serious deliverance.
Me too but if someone touched my kid Jesus help me..I don’t put my hand on my kids who the hell does this guy think he is to beat her kids and she is there
Some women are just foolish ..
@@megmurugi8056 so true, she's blind
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I don't have money but I have open Doors and windows and Open heart
This are my children I need to adopt them 😭😭I'm born 80 's
I feel for this children
God bless you
God bless you
Be blessed
@@bilhajeff9835 Amen 🙏
Be Blessed Too
@@annmwita2962 Amen Be Blessed Too
Personally I have ever slept outside with a 8 months baby....being beaten countless times when I was pregnant....after I delivered the baby I even got more beatings..... My baby used to cry alot but she couldn't understand....now she understands and she sees me being beaten and we cry together.... but we cannot move out koz ,"To where?" we don't have money to start a life....I always pray everyday that God will make a way one day tuondoke..... At the moment even my kid doesn't go to school....anyway be strong girl God will make a way one day....
All will be well mamah...hugs🥰
I thought women are supposed to protect their children to the last drop of their blood. Becky and Summer you are blessed beyond measure.
My daughter is 20. Same age. The way I shield that girl is of another level. I've cried through out. You are destined for greatness and your life will be a living testimony. You are a conqueror 💕💕
Even me my daughter is 17 year we joke like sisters I'm feeling for the girl I can't allow any man to take away the love I hv for my kids I beg.
I wish I had that😔😔😔
@@Stemyyelsha trust in the Lord always, He will never disappoint 🙏. Hugs
I feel like nimechunwa kidonda tena, children of toxic parents,will we ever heal.
Crying along because you relate so well..I thought I had healed but seems I have never😥
Very hurt to see the pain Becky and Summer have gone through🥲
Praying for you Becky always remember when one door closes God Almighty Jesus Christ opens another door! We are many here extending our arms to you as your adopted mothers ordained by God. All will be well I will reach out to you soon🙏🏿
Am a single mum of one and after my husband died I promised myself never to get married again to protect my girl.thanks to God she has finished high school and now going to campus September.this story is sooo painful can't believe a mother can do this to her own daughter.
This kinda so relatable a step dad comes in dictates the house and punishing us for nothing, I also completed form four without my mum ever coming to visit me and she was very capable
One day,just one day, maybe I will have courage to say to the world what I have experienced from my own mother, meanwhile,those who have had caring and loving mum's thank God, don't take it for granted because it doesn't come automatically,some of us have experienced the worst from our own biological mothers,The biggest gift I will offer my kids is motherly love,I will love them wholly mpaka niwaongezee yenye mum alininyima,so help me God 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Amen.. May God hear your prayers Wanja.
@@miannegoro8006 Amen dear🙏🙏🙏
Its 5 years since I left her I couldn't keep up with abuse and jealousy
@@Afolorunso Hugs dear🤗we will give our kids the best
I'm much worried about the whole situation, their story is relatable and am looking forward for impact conversation on why and how parents should communicate with their kids.
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Can't imagine the labour pain I went through giving birth to my daughter and I end up mistreating her coz of man who is just a foreigner. Never ever a man can come between me and my lovely children. Gal God loves you never ever lose hope.
Even if he's from Kenya, no one can come in between me and my kids. Let's love our kids moms
How can a mother put her girl in this😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 pls expose that evil women
Becky is such a beautiful girl.Why should a mum do that to her daughter?
Oh my God .
((Hugs)) Becky.I love you and summer
Lynn, I love this format 3 episodes in a row…I can never get enough of Lynn..God is blessing you….to bless us…
I feel her pain.
Nothing hurts than not getting support from your own mother.
No matter how broken you are there is someone out there who will love you enough to put you back together again.
This is so sad I have really cried I can't imagine how a parent can hate and disown their own.Becky and Summer all I want to tell you that there is a God up there who is seeing all this HE will never ever leave you.I know you are asking yourself where God has been all this time.HE has been there keeping you strong all through.All I can just do is to pray for you so that you sail through in life and most of all going back to college and doing what you really wanted.Wanao watharao wata wakujia na heshima siku moja..I encourage you to pray alot as prayers can move mountains.theres a big light at the end of the tunnel.
Becky you are a strong gal and know that God loves you more. You are close to victory, do not attempt anything negative. There is better coming. The end of pain and a beginning of another journey has just started my daughter. Through Summer, God is crafting something better for you.
1. God has better plans for you. You are not a failure but a conqueror.
2. There are destiny shapers out here, have hope.
3. Do not keep forcing yourself back to your Mom despite her being your blood mother if at all. "You are not stupid, you are not a failure.."
4. That thing about your birth certificate, let me assure you, the real birth certificate with your real father's name is out there, the one bearing the fake Nigerian boy was faked. You can still get your real birth certificate even without your mother's ID. Go to the hospital you were born they give you the notification of birth which will help you obtain the real birth certificate that shall automatically connect you with your real father.
5. It is highly possible that your mom is Bipolar or a Nascistic, or going through childhood trauma or might have been assaulted/sexually molested to born you or she hated your blood father so much that when she looks at you she sees your father in you. There must be one or several of the above reasons why she is treating you like that. Forgive her as we see how we can help you out here as Lynn's fans. This destiny connectors are ending your agony in a huff and before you know it your life is transformed beyond measure.
I pray for you my daughter and Lynn in Jesus name, Amen.
You’ve been through it all Becky. I’m sending you love and light your way. For you and summer all the way to the top.
The lesson I have learned as a parent and a relative is a lot God help me the better mom not only my children but to everyone who would need me in life
I wish my Baby daddy can watch this...Some of us give the best to our kids because we grew up with toxic parents..so whenever I'm being protective with my two baby girls it's because of what I went through
Sometimes mothers can be the worst.I have a friend whose mum is like Becky's mum.My friend has been through so much pain.Such traumatized people usually settle where they find love and that's okay.Love you guys.May you heal from your hurts.It's gonna be okay.Sending you guys hugs.
More LOVE to Becky, i wish i was there to give you a hug and a thousand Kisses. You are so strong Kiddo,you are too young to be going through this. As a single mum of i remember sacrificing every thing, my social life, just because of my daughter, as i had commented on Summers story, my daughter was also rejected and called a failure, they used to insult her and abuse her in my presence coz i had nothing and i could not fight, i encouraged my daughter and i told My daughter that they are not God, My daughter graduated last year with a 2nd upper in Journalism, she is strong and chasing her dreams, For you Becky, the Sky is the Limit, and you are destined for greatness,You have our Love and Prayers, a singer once sang and said WANAO KUDHARAU SIKU MOJA WATAKUSALIMIA KWA HESHIMA" Like Joseph they will bow down before you, hang in there Coz the good LORD is on the thrown preparing a way for you. To Summer, You are David, Blessings for Loving and taking care of Becky when you had nothing. More Blessings. To Lynn, You are GOD SENT, and May His Perfect Will be done into Your Life. More Love and Blessings.
This story is a big lesson to us parents aki.May God help me to be a good mom to my kids aki.l have learnt a lot.peace be with this young ones
Yoh Becky that was me once upon a time even the poison thing you said iish! I left and home the first chance I got and I got a lot of helping hands along my journey. When my mother saw me at the hospital which was her death bed she chased me like a thief and called security on me will my aunties and uncles, plus my brother and father watched. I left and never went there until she went into a coma and no one wanted to wash or clean her and moved into the hospital to be with her and when I walked to her bed and called her mama I am here until the end she voluntarily opened her eyes and closed them. Nursed her until she died. Everything comes to an end but at this moment cut ties completely, just love her from afar and one day God will give you a chance to tell her and she will receive. You have met our lady Lynn you will get help. The road ahead maybe long and hard but there is a future my dear Becky. Always pray, also for your mum too!!! Sending you lots of love my dear I know how it feels. You have really reminded me today yoh!!!!
Hugs hugs hugs hugs 🫂 ON BEHALF OF LYNN DIASPORA MUMS WE SEND OUR ❤ LOVE TI SUMMER FAMILY YOU BOTH ARE PRECIOUS LOVED GIFTED AND DESTINED FOR GREATNESS.Weeks down the line you are coming back to testify of GODS RESTORATION in every area of your lives.