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Social media ruined our lives in every way possible especially in the dateing game
Social media has also ruined our children’s mental health their outlook and their ability to think for themselves!
What about these podcast that you comment on.
Maxim of Law: He who suffers a damage by his own fault, has no right to complain.
The U.S. is a non-stop consuming Society. If anything blame yourselves for letting it happen. 😂
@@bobsagthat's victim blaming
Yes and culture and pop/rap music plays a big part too
I love how pearl never lets them cut her off she just plows through🤣
Yes she spouts it out so fast because was trying to minimize the taste of the bullshite she's spewing out of her mouth
She’s getting way better at that.
Mike control
and no man has wifed up pearl lol
She got that dawg in her
Men should not leave relationships they should never get in them
I as a man, have also ruined potential relationships
At least you can admit it...shows you have room to improve & you have good character
I think you have missed the point
@@bummpyhead1647 nope you missed the point
😂 You gotta be a bot or a homosexual
@@MikeSmith-do5gu yeahhh:)
Last generation: "I love you"
This generation "How much are you worth?"
*this generation of women
@@codywarhawk7099 Mem are just as guilty
@@cinknamloh1145oh yeah. Men treat women pass 20 like seniors
@@codywarhawk7099 this generation of Misogynists
It has to be six figures
Loyalty is for people who treat you with respect
the average man treats his woman with respects lol, its usually the other way around.
@@OnoffUSA Having to be continually reminded to do or not do things is the opposite of respect
There are plenty of men that have to be reminded to take out the trash when they can clearly see it, among other messes
@ddee5573 also alot of women who have to be reminded that their single friends are single for a reason and not to listen to them
@@therealzodster686 I don't think their single friends are talking to them about garbage disposal.
@@lizicadumitru9683 judging by your comments you love being a pain in the ass contrarian for team phagina. You just inspired me to buy stocks in cat food and dildos.
I fell in love with a beautiful smart women who was 27 when I was 24. She had 4 children which I accepted and I'm still with her today and I'm now 46. She gave me stability in my life and saved me from who I was. I love her and still see in her what I fell in love with and she's 50 this year. Her ex was the one that ruined their relationship by cheating and got caught. I love the fact that she's strong minded and tells me when to shut up if I'm wrong.
thats good but thats basicly a unicorn. a 1 in 5000
Could be you are the last choice, most likely she saw the wall and didn't want to handle her issues by herself the rest of her life. (Choices)
@@darrellrussell789it was probably bc he’s likely a good man and not a weird Cheeto fingered incel who spends too much time online watching rage bait like this lol
Beta...
@@brychristian3395S.I.G.N....no serious childless single man takes up with a woman with 4 kids....😂 for crying out loud.
Tell this to all women raising their kids because a adult man wasn’t ready to be responsible
Or may be she just wanted the alimony and child support.. This happens more than what you are saying
Then why did she have a kid with him??
He didn't want you accept it
@@rahulkumar-he3vu"I'm going to ignore what you said and say my own thing."
Great job Einstein.
@@user-we6ls1fp2d... you're a bit slow on the uptake aren't you?
My ex wife destroyed our marriage, creating a toxic home for the kids and I. I started the divorce, 3 years ago. The kids and I are mentally and emotionally happier and healthier
Good for you !!
I feel like a lot of people have this exact same story, but really it was toxic on both ends and both people had problems.
Good for you bro.
Goat
Never speak on how KIDS feel about not having their parents everyday
A lot of men just live in quiet misery and I'm not really sure that's any better than leaving.
Agreed. And plus, if you have a child who grows up seeing you being miserable with their other parent, god save the child. The guilt kills their heart.
@@ilovmayo0238 that’s me
Fear of losing his children. Men choose quiet misery over the thought of a spiteful x wife sabotaging his relationship with his children. After having to go through a expensive and skewed court system where he will likely only get to even see his kids every second weekend. The stats on divorce and custody show a hilarious catering to females.
I completely agree! Men need to totally rethink the concept of marriage. Honestly, they have absolutely nothing to gain from it in this day and age.
My parents have been married almost 67 years
Women, leave abusers, addicts, and cheaters. Men expect women to stay through anything and we don’t have to anymore
Women also pick abusers, addicts and cheaters.
Shut up. You are who u attract
Look at the divorce rates between lesbian and gay couples. Lesbian couples are more than twice as likely to divorce than gay couples. So you blame men for women leaving, but when there are no men in the marriage the divorce rates go up, not down.
In every country where same-sex marriage is legal. Highest divorce rate: woman + woman
Lowest divorce rate: man + man.
Stop blaming men for women leaving relationships.
You're right
@@leahbrooke9767rite lmao they like people that treat em like shit and ignore the nice guy so she need to cut it out with that foolish comment😂👆🏾
Remember, this is coming from a woman who’s never been in a relationship since she came on the internet
This lmao l😂
@@MyCatsChannel841 Do you have to be in a relationship to quote statistics and make observations?
Everyone giving advice online is single not just her. People take this shit too serious like she’s omniscient 😂
@@RJ-mh3oxbro it’s called statistics and reality you don’t have to have a job phd in airplane construction to realize what Boeing is doing is BAD and not safe same thing with this you don’t have to be in 100 relationships to realize most women prefer tall guys and to state statistics and studies done using divorce rate….. your clearly doing the same thing she’s doing but you don’t have ANY evidence to back your view that she’s wrong
So you’re saying she’s in the 30% who hasn’t left the relationship…
Women really don't understand how important loyalty is to most men.
Ikr. How can they not understand this when it's equally important to them. The double standards 🙄
@@ilovmayo0238 lol you hear these women say they're fine with their men fuckong other girls along as he provides for her... you won't hear a man say she can fuck other dudes...
@@ilovmayo0238 and loyalty is not as biologically and mentally necessary for women as it is for men.
loyalty is top of my list ..both ways ...
Loyalty now aways to a man from a women's perspective. Run yourself to the ground till youbhave nothing left and me the super hero man is the one causing you to do so also do it with a smile or you have problems bc my love is the best.
So loyalty is endure my abuse with a smile or else your a shit women...
The reason men don’t leave, is because we have no incentive to leave and everything to lose, if we do. Both in custodial time with our children and financially.
Yall are happy to try and hide a side chicknor two but don't want to deal with the consequences
@@Opal5674 MOST men are not attractive or players. Me on the other hand... Tall, attractive, ambitious, career driven... Not a chance I'd just have one if I make enough to support 3
@@vanderumd11 You mean there is no way you'd cin only one woman into thinking you'll support her if you can con an unlimited amount. Like How Tate brothers go to all these Eastern European countries to play off women's poverty only to leave the woman single moms.
@@vanderumd11 You mean there is no way you'd con only one woman into thinking you'll support her if you can con an unlimited amount. Like How Tate brothers go to all these Eastern European countries to play off women's poverty only to leave the woman single moms.
@@Opal5674 yes, that is a much better option than the typical outcome. If women have the nature to look for status and financial support then what the tates a
Seem to do is absolutely correct. The rules are negotiable between the adults.
Both genders can ruin a relationship
Talk in numbers.
@@Kamal_AL-HinaiDoesn't matter both are bad it's like saying all men are criminals just because men have the most crime rate.
@@Blobfishkat or “grapist” or almost all the worse shit humans do 😂.
@@Kamal_AL-Hinaitalk to humans. Almost every woman I’ve interacted with within the last 7 years has been beaten, SA’d, manipulated etc. men are definitely the bigger problem.
@@RJ-mh3ox ask who they chose to be with. Convicts and inmates.
As an older guy, the one thing I have learned is that if a relationship isn’t working 100% of the women will try and get it back on course, and will say things to their significant other many many times before she gives up on the relationship and the guy doesn’t listen and does not pay attention. When the women has finally had enough and has emotionally already moved on from the relationship is when she hopefully leave, or worse starts seeing other guys. In either case, when she leaves it is total shock to the guy since for him he had no idea whereas the women tried and has already moved on.
But you missed mentioning that she triee to change the man for a couple of stupid reasons while the man is performing perfectly in other areas. Many women have a negative didatic personality and they'll take a couple of flaws and make those the whole reason to leave a man. Haven't you heard them saying "He is a good man but.....". Everyone has flaws but women will take those two and make them a big issue.
Not true all the time
Are you for real? Women monkey branch, educate yourself old man
Not true
Absolutely wrong son I was married 14 years they do not always try to get it back on course. I was the only one that held my marriage together and she never tried to make it better. I served her with papers in 2020 best choice of my life.
The one who actually makes the move to leave is not necessarily the one who ‘ruined the relationship’
Thank you
You both miss the point ; 70%
At that rate it probably is on the woman
It shows they won't put up with failure, mediocrity etc .
No patience for them to improve, any mistake is met with divorce...
No loyalty in women most of the time
@@DAce-vu5ct “any mistake is met with divorce” is a ridiculous thing to say and you haven’t got anything to back it up. You don’t know what life was like inside those marriages, nor for how long.
The moment a man or woman cheats, they've left the relationship.
Men don’t cheat, only women do….Men add to the team…..Strong teams win championships.
@@curtisjohnson6754 no🥰
@@curtisjohnson6754 Statistically majority of men cheat more than women do.
Nope men cheat for fun, for our biological evolutionary
@@curtisjohnson6754 absolutely , a man doesn't need or care to no most of these women's names when we smash, especially if I'm in a relationship, like just give me that pssy and be gone, or u can be apart of the rotation but I only love my girl type ish.
Women get way too interested in a man she's cheating with which leads to her leaving the relationship, a man cheats to stay, bc he just needed that release and something new to make smashing his girl feel like new again. Ahhhhhhhh 😂😂
Why would you enter a contract with a party who is rewarded for breaking it ?
I can almost agree. I say almost because I heard a powerful quote I’ll never forget which is “How can you expect to have a good woman if you aren’t willing to be a good man” Now I’m not saying that it’s always the man’s fault or that there’s no good men in the world but i know of many instances where the man isn’t providing, protecting, saving, etc. and the woman is left to deal with all of the crap in their lives. Many women don’t want to be in a relationship where they are the only ones putting any effort into it, and it’s easier for them to leave them and continue doing what they’re doing without worrying about pleasing anyone else. Now, I’m no feminist and I believe in traditional values when it comes to relationships, but both people need to be putting in equal effort in their relationship and unfortunately that’s not always the case whether it’s the man or the woman, it goes both ways 🤷🏼♀️
Women can leave and stay at the same time by literally putting nothing into the relationship.
Argue over anything everything.
Emotional strike.
Sex strike.
😮
@@sherylrojas1 the whore I wasted 15 years on had a list of “you need to…” shit.
One day I asked her, “what are you doing to make this work?”
“I’m here.”
Her glorious presence was all that is required.
Yeah. I’ll be single til I die after that. Because it’s typical for American women.
omg exactly they didn't gave anything, and men are ok about it. Then they've decided to take everything, men started to felt pissed about over tolerance they were
men can too, your point is?
In west Los Angeles , married women age 40-45 leave solid guys making 200k, great husbands and dads…..because they are not happy. They never consider that happiness comes from within
Making $200k in LA is nothing to brag about.
@@tallflguy well it puts you in the top 5% of earners worldwide and provides a nice lifestyle for a family. It is a lot nicer life than those earning 50k to 100k, which is the vast majority of Los angeleans. What % of people do you think make over 200k every year? My point was….these guys made enough money so their family could live in an upper class home, private schools, maid, etc. And wifey could do yoga etc from 8-3 every day without a care in the world. From what I have seem, the people that make substantially more that 250k….they aren’t much happier than everybody else…
And sometimes the money increases the problems…..UNLESS you are a single guy…..then, life is a cocktail party.
@@mrkoolio4475
explain to me why a woman or any person should remain in relationship when they aren't happy. make that make sense
a bad environment can kill that happiness from within
I can tell Pearl has never been in an abusive relationship where the man cheats, lies, physically and mentally abused her for years. Allot of women walk away once they can't take it anymore.
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this is how goofy girls are, they stay in those relationships for YEARS smh
And some don't. 😢
Yea she’s obviously not talking to those women. Don’t hijack the conversation
@pfftwhut7638 yeah because narrsasistic men like to manipulate women into staying with them or threaten them turing their families against them, they are good liars to, make everything seem like their the victim.
That's absolutely absurd! Women don't aspire to LEAVE relationships if there's no legitimate reason to leave. Shiiiiid some women STAY and ruin their children and themselves.
lol, yea facts don’t care about your feelings. Sorry.
True, I think that there are definitely people from both genders who ruin relationships, also I'm unsure about the presentiges.. 😅 Pearl (from the small clips I have seen) isn't someone to do research, so I don't really have a reason to believe those are accurate.
Going to quite my female friends, "women are always looking for something better". Apparently even if it means wreckless abandon, not all women can get themself out of toxic situations but they'll even leave if it's not toxic and move right onto the next. You could be the nicest most committed person but they'll still leave you if there's but just 1 problem that's resolvable but they just peace out without wanting to try to fix it, communication is foreign nowadays.
So glad my mom left my abusive cheating father, she left after graduating Beaty school and starting her own business. Me and my younger siblings were miserable watching him beat her, cheat on her and treat her like dirt. Peace out !! I got my masters degree, my brother and sister opened their own business. We are all killin it and in good relationships. Please talk about WHY women leave.
exactly! this woman just talks out her ass. she thinks she is saying something that makes women look bad. Like if men staying in marriage has everything to do about commitment
Good going!
Sorry that happened to you and your mother but the MAJORITY of men AREN’T ABUSIVE. You’re talking about a much smaller percentage of relationships where the women leaves because the man’s abusive , like okay that’s fine and all but she’s talking about relationships where there is no abuse/ all relationships in general that 70-90% of the time the woman is the one to leave. And the “educated” women leave more because they are so much more disagreeable, it’s impossible to have a civil conversation when you hold a different viewpoint from them. I swear man it’s like you guys have no common sense or critical thinking skills. Lotta y’all just hear things and react it’s like there’s no thought process i just don’t get it
Your mum was just as much a whore no matter how much you try to deny.
Men are not monogamous, high time everyone accept that.
@@valsankumar1657 such a insecure, loveless and shameful comment. Go work on yourself, must be sad living your life hating and being so angry with anyone
"A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands." Proverbs 14:1
yea
Very true but this doesn't speak of the other side of what makes a the home.
@@lizicadumitru9683 the wise man builds his home on a rock. The foolish man on sand.
Matthew 7:24-27
Sometimes, we choose the wrong woman, we choose the foolish woman who turns out to be sand instead of a rock.
Yes, we bear some responsibility, we chose to build a life with her.
@@buffuniballer Can we teach young adults to vet their prospective SO better as to avoid the foolish/wrong person?
And if they choose the wrong person is it wrong to leave after sufficient effort has been put into trying to reconcile?
@@lizicadumitru9683 - perhaps they can. The problem is people can fake it for a while. Or you don't see how they operate when under pressure. Life before and after kids are born can be quite different.
Regarding choosing the wrong person. Again, perhaps. I'm not against someone leaving if (and it's a big IF) an unbiased third party says they are not good together.
But on the word of your girls wine circle or your guys beer drinking gang, nope.
I'd say one thing that would help would be to reform no fault divorce.
No one should ever be forced to remain in a marriage where they are miserable. So they are always free to leave. However, it doesn't mean they take the house, the kids, half the money, etc.
Unless they can PROVE marital misconduct, or in your case, a professional stating both parties were putting in the effort, they are just too far apart to get along, the one who wants to break the vows packs a suitcase and goes. He or she gets a bill for any child support and a visitation schedule.
Giving up on your marriage and spouse without putting in the work should make being the primary custodian of the children and keeping most marital assets a difficult road for the walk-away spouse.
Always free to leave. However, not free to just take everything because you are unhappy. Gotta do the work.
Otherwise, you have to prove adultery, abandonment or abuse to keep it while unilaterally ending the marriage.
Stay single my kings. It will save you a world of pain.
That's not right everyone deserves to love and be loved
@@charlesnuel6780 that doesn't mean getting a partner is the best way to fulfill that, and many times, it's not.
Or date men, simple as 😎
@@mal_3157 Enjoy tossing that salad 🥗
Definitely don’t do that. Just find a good one. And communicate
If women ruin things....then stop hooking up, marrying, talking, stalking, dating women. Leave women alone.
Men are, 70% of all men under their 30a are single/sexless/virgins and aren't getting married and are choosing to stay single.
We are. Look at some stats regarding young male loneliness and virginity. They’re horrified
@@adyingtribunal6034we’re waving men goodbye! We won’t miss the abuse
@@HospitalForSouls.X your little gender war game has gone from protecting yourself from scumbags seeking to harm you to fear mongering that has caused an entire generation of young men and boys to accept that the only way they will ever find love is if love approaches them first which is a fantasy. Boys and men we both know for the most part are very much against the creepy and straight up shitty things women have to deal with/be cautious of. Men scared to approach first is why pretty much the only men who are attracting the high majority of women are the small minority of the most attractive guys out there, which leads these dudes to be scummy and unfaithful from all the attention they get, which leads these women to having their hearts broken and once again proclaiming all men are something horrible that only applies to a small group of men that most men also hate ourselves
@@HospitalForSouls.X your little gender war went from bringing awareness towards the shitty and unfair things women deal with to fear mongering an entire gender to the point where young men and boys are too scared to look at or speak to them out of fear of being seen as creepy or insulted by some chick who’s been gaslighted into seeing it as a power move. So many dudes have accepted their only chance to find love is if love approaches them first which is a complete fantasy that will never happen for most. It’s gotten so bad that the only men attracting the vast majority of women are the small minority of the most attractive guys out there who are either confident enough in their looks to approach first, or are approached by women first. When you have a small group of men being sought after by most women, these men are going to be scummy and unfaithful, unfortunately leading these girls to be cheated on, which leads these girls to walk out of the relationship preaching “men are liars and cheaters” based on experience that’s limited to the scumbags you girls always get yourselves involved with, making it even harder for the 85% of men like myself who are disgusted by the habits of these men and horrified by what women are forced to be cautious of on the daily. I know you won’t do this, but I highly suggest looking up the young male loneliness pandemic and reading an article about it
Leaving a relationship is not the same as ruining a relationship... People leave relationships because they have already been ruined.
Also only takes into account that the ppl who can leave relationships are women who can support themselves… most women don’t leave because they depend on the man being the breadwinner even if he’s a shitty person. Pearl has some nice points but sometimes I feel she just says things to target her audience. I REFUSE to believe ppl are this dense. Can’t even look at half the picture when talking about things.
Pearl just hates herself and the fact that she’s not a man herself.
@@angelake7006 hahahahaha she hates the fact that she’s a woman hahahaha
@@angelake7006hits a little too close to home for you?
Nobody, ever, faults a woman for leaving when they're abused, truly neglected, just in a bad relationship.
People blame women for leaving when things can be worked out, when they get a small sniff of a man they vainly consider 'better' when they have a good relationship and just get bored.
Also be careful when judging bad relationships, yeah some men are just horrible people but contrary to what television and people's one sided recalls will have you believe. Women, who are in control of the dating market, pick the men they're with. When they pick bad men, while it doesn't excuse the men for being bad, they choose the bed they lay on more often than not. There's always signs if you didn't see them you jumped on too fast and that's on you as well.
Why is this statistic about women leaving marriages brought up, but never the statistics about “ why” they are leaving. That would seem to be a better way to give a complete picture and to form a more informed opinion on the matter. Seems like the research just stopped at 70% of women initiate divorce. 🤷🏾♀️
Because the why is subjective and it can't be measured. Statistics based on actions and not sentiments point to a blunt and cold reality. Actions speak louder than words and it points to the problem at hand. Rising divorce rates and failing families is due to the changing reality of how women view marriage and maternity in America. Marriages were sacred at one point, safeguarded by family pressure, religion, institutions, and gender roles/expectations. In many countries, women are held accountable to their children and family. In America, women are selfish and don't prioritize their family over themselves (unless they come from multinational backgrounds). A society proliferating with woman with multiple children from multiple men or where women divorce men to financially ruin them is a broken society. The statistics back this claim.
@@joshtep6784 You mean women were taught to be submissive little house slaves and put up with whatever crap their husband threw at them no matter what. That has changed. We're not putting up with your shit anymore.
That's because she's a pick me, so details don't really matter here. There will never be a proper discussion with her.
Because they're terrible wives. They're amazing husband's. They lack qualities of a woman. Feminism has destroyed so much of your families and women will pay the price for it later down the line.
There is already plenty of research on that, bozo. Most women aren't leaving for no good reason. You just want an excuse.
That's a really upsetting thought to think that a mother who lost her husband to war or illness is considered damaged goods and undesirable now. She could have had the perfect family and is exactly wife material, but because she is single now with kids, she's low value.
I'm hoping and praying that widows are the unspoken exception to this sentiment.
that’s just a weird view. Sadly this is what society wants everyone to think or this new gen whatever it is but it’s sad the way things are viewed this day and age. We wonder why love is lost, everyone is required to be perfect in order to date someone anymore it’s insane.
Everyone’s just jumping on bandwagon to make it this way also.
Women leave, because men cheats.
Wrong. Most divorces aren't for cheating.
I'm going to say college educated women leave more than those who didn't attend college because in my opinion I'm going to say those educated women are more likely to leave because they are less likely to be financially dependent on their spouse
These red pill people talk like they’re aren’t men out here manipulating, gaslighting, cheating and beating. Women do not just wake up one day and say, “Hmm. I feel like breaking up my family.” Some men actually believe that a qualifier of “wife material” is “how much of my sh*t can this woman take without complaining or withholding?”
Women who aren’t educated may not have the financial independence to leave. So they have to stay in situations where they’re being cheated on and abused. Educated women are more financially stable without the men so they know they don’t have to tolerate abuse.
Many times it is not so much dependency as it is they feel they can do better than their current partner/spouse.
@@stevejamieson8468 If ‘better’ means no more abuse than isn’t that a good thing? But if she’s just leaving because he breathed the wrong way then that’s a bad thing 🤣
@@msdeetteelaine5893 I am not talking about physical, mental, or emotional abuse here. But that would be a legit reason for anyone to leave.
@@stevejamieson8468 we'll according to the study that pearl is quoting. The women left because they were unsatisfied and the marriage wasn't working. They felt like the husband stopped trying and what not. I think i can find the link to the study.
My first wife destroyed our family and a good part of our kid's stability and future prospects because she felt like she had "missed out on partying in her 20's" and wanted to make up for it. So she divorced me, split the home, and broke the family for her own selfishness.
Yet you married again? Do you love misery, buddy?
@@joskeyo4877 I'm a slow learner 😢
That’s so sad but I’ve heard stories like that before. I wonder if she will ever realize how selfish she was
Although selfish, If you're going to be depressed and not happy, You should leave
@@yvettegg1806 she should have tried being an adult. She was willing to ruin her own children's future.
Look...it's because women get to a point where they are emotionally neglected and MOST men do not want to put in any work to meet her needs but still want his needs met. It's why on most marriage help videos you see a lot of very depressed women in the comments wishing their husbands would put in even a fraction of their time to learning what their wife's emotional needs are instead of expecting women to be like men. Life is too short to stay in a marriage where you feel unloved, undesired, invisible, and unimportant to your partner....especially when they won't even do the work that is required for a healthy marriage for BOTH partners. I don't even like divorce and don't believe it should be done without exhausting ALL options first...but even I can understand that women in older generations had to be silent about their husband's ignorance of their needs and HAD to stay in a marriage where she wasn't seen as the woman she is but as a glorified roommate. Nowadays women have a voice...and its speaking loudly that men are still very behind on understanding what their wife needs. It isnt money, it isnt height, it isnt material items....it's affection, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy. Without these things a wife doesn't feel emotionally safety which is extremely important in a healthy marriage.
Lol, yeah ok! Woman are grimmy...period!
I stayed 17 years married to a narcissist. All because I was taught you stay married no matter what.
Why I left ? My children needed one sane parent and their father wasn't sane. I escaped for my children. We were much happier without him. I was working full time, struggling with four children to feed and clothe but we weren't being tortured everyday.
Guess what there were other men who wanted us.
dont explain, men need to say whatever it takes to boost their ego and compensate for their lack of competence
Me too. It took medication to get me to the point I could leave. He cashed out our retirement to pay off his spending without so a word. It's a community property state, so I got to pay half of the debt he racked up while we were separated and waiting for the trial, as well as give him half of my modest pension. It sucked especially as I make 1/5th of what he does, but at least the days of enduring physically threatening behavior when I try to talk him out of adding more debt are over.
My only question is why did you pick him in the first place? Didn't your dad, uncle, brothers warn you about what he is? Men know how to see throw men's lies, women can't see through their fronts.
@@paulmcfeeters5554 she probably didn't i am young but I have seen so many women making bad choices blinded by love but when they get whats happening to them they leave
Exactly!
That's why education is so important. Higher education equals higher pay. No need to stay in an unhappy marriage. Women need to be self sufficient
Then they should stay single.
Let education be your man that way you can’t disturb a man’s peace
@@backatitagain20great idea more women should hear this!
I agree. I ruined my 14 year marriage and I regret it everyday.
That "ok" came so quick...it clearly shows that she didn't give a fuck what pearl is saying..she's just waiting to respond...and not to understand what's being said.
When they argue with research and statistics all while only using opinionated exaggerations and wishful thinking. DayEmmm! Accept the facts and let it sinknin already.
Listening to interrupt/or respond is the most disingenuous thing these guests do. It shows them to be incurious and utterly committed to their narratives that are refuted either by empirical facts or statistics.
Pearl: women are the problem. Women: it’s the men’s fault that we’re the problem
Haha yep, that's all they got.
Jajajaja
In some sort of way yes, it's our fault that we have empowered wamen.
the fact that MEN committee 98% of violence against women kinda points to men as the problem. so you can sit down.
@@MuthaTucker-ss1ee the fact that WOMEN initiate divorces and destroy their families 80% of the times kinda points women as the problem. So you can sit down.
I agree my ex ruined my life, I stayed home and raised our daughters and she climbed her cooperate ladder.
Pearl be tripping hard.
She clearly hasn’t experienced an abusive relationship so she can sit and run her mouth all she wants
They don't like that women leave the most stat, because then it comes to oh he was cheating, he beat on her or molested a child I'm like WTF and y'all have always been the angles in relationships
They say generic BS like toxic or mentally abusive
@@davidhorst9203 because what do you want them to say? The exact words they said or the exact tactics they used? It’s the internet. Anyone would just summarize it with the umbrella term. Look up types of abuse if you want to know what was going on.
I always bring up that women cheat at roughly the same rate.
24% vs 27%
So the “men are all cheaters” reason is B.S.
@@DB-sy6xc what were you trying to bring to the table here? What did you add? I’ll tell you; nothing of substance. Maybe next time wait to comment until you have something worthwhile.
@@TheUnplannedLove I’m talking to the David guy not op. It feels generic because it’s a umbrella of many actions.
Pearl gets excited when she knows she's about to destroy someone's pink world 😂😂 I like when she states reality as it is
pearl is a pickmeisha that hasn't been picked she's a joke.
@SuperTruthful you think? Nah she does have lots of options cause she got values unlike women these days 😌
@@SuperTruthful Pearl has a large following. What exactly do you disagree with her about?
@@label1877 all the pandering to men.
@@SuperTruthful Yes, her target audience is men. However, I feel she is fair. I have seen her put men in their place when they say outlandish things.
It's so crazy the amount of people who argue with facts😮💨
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Yeah she is right mostly this happen
Women leave because after years of begging him to understand he doesn't care and she let's go.
Well Shell, the majority of western woman goes for 20-25% of men, the men who already have a full line of women, but western women love to be side chicks, while the good men gets treated poorly. It’s 82% of divorces that are doing the divorces, not men. Everything a man worked hard for goes to a woman, the kids, house, apartment, car etc goes to a woman. The man has to start over again, let’s not forget child support.
@@justinmohansingh635 first off I think many of you all are delusional. NO WOMAN I know wants to be a damn side chick. Most women want a happy and productive marriage. There may be some that are happy being single and promiscuous but majority want a good man. Men tend to take that for granted and this usually starts the divorce process.
@@shellstewart6712 First off I’m not the 20-25% of men you went after that broke your heart because you didn’t want a good man. I have a great American woman in my life, I work hard, cook, clean, volunteer for New York City cares, take care my family, my woman, and my friends, I’m Christian, so I practice what you preach because I am traditional. Like I said there’s good and bad woman and men out there, you have to be careful of who you look for, 78% of men are good men but women friend zone them for the 20-25% of men who’s well established or have a lot of women already, so he makes the women his side chick. Majority of western women today has a high body count, very masculine, aggressive, and argumentative. Again It’s 82% of divorces by women that are doing the divorces, not men. Everything a man worked hard for goes to a woman, the kids, house, apartment, car etc goes to a woman. The man has to start over again, let’s not forget child support. I have a four questions for you, are you single, do you have kids, are you over the age of 30, and are you a traditional woman
@@justinmohansingh635 so basically you wrote a novel to tell me I am the problem bc 82% of women initiate divorces. When I specifically told you divorces happen because women aren't being heard, appreciated, loved..... now you men will tell a woman she is aggressive, masculine combative because she is telling you where you fail and that's a problem. At the end of the day, if 78% of you are good men you wouldn't have a problem finding women to get with AND stay with. We know that's a lie. You're really upset that the type of women you go after isn't interested then you call them promiscuous....but they never slept with you. Make it make sense. Anyway I married and yes I will divorce it husband refuses to get it right.
@@shellstewart6712 I already told you but you are not listening, I’m not angry at all, I’m in a happy relationship, you’re the one that’s pouring out your emotions. Everything I told you is a fact, I’m talking out of a place of logics, truth, and the whole picture. You’re talking out of your emotions, which is what you been through because you go for the 20-25% of men who already is well established, famous, or players with a lot of women. Western woman never goes for the good men, they would always choose the 20-25% of toxic men over a good man. It’s easier to find a man for a woman and it’s harder to find a man to find a woman. Plus you just proved my point, you’re getting a divorce, not him, so how is that a lie, you sound delusional as hell. Look it up and see for yourself, or Better yet, I’ll send it to you.www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men
aninjusticemag.com/5-reasons-why-women-go-dont-go-for-nice-guys-78985037c169
"Short broke guy" that hits me hard 😆🤣
Yea bcz she's like a 6 foot amazon
Short ER.
I've pulled plenty of pretty girls. Just don't be shortER. I wouldn't date a taller woman anyway so it doesn't matter.
People leave because they realize they need to respect themselves more than being disrespected in a dysfunctional relationship
She lost me at “women ruins relationship” women leaving a relationship does not = them ruining it. Instead of looking at one statistic let’s look at all. Who’s more likely to cheat? Who more likely to abuse ? Who more likely to be an alcoholic? Who’s more like to abuse drugs? Whos more likely to be a narcissist ? I’m not a feminist but what she said is CRAZYYYYY
There are 2 people in families and marriages no one is perfect...so we cannot blame one person for an outcome...grow up everyone
then why do women leave 70 to 90 percent of the time. Stats don't lie. Women are quitters.
@@jaimhaas5170 well that depends...are you supporting your wife are you expecting her to work and still do all the household chores? are you emotionally there for her are you in a true partnership?and vice versa for men?...I'm not negating the stats you have but they are what they are for a reason and I don't think it's one genders fault
@@kliciousone4706 of course it's one genders fault. Only if you can't understand math would that FACT escape you.
@@jaimhaas5170 No it's not... grow up
@@kliciousone4706 typical female debate tactic. Can't win on facts so try to use emotion. Fail.
A lot of woman are step up type chics . They see something better and they leave without a care even if kids are involved
Yea they hypergamous. Alot nowadays are narcissistic they'll happily ruin a dudes life to make their own better.
Yep! I’ve seen women do this ! Destroying their children so THEY can have their selfishness fulfilled!!
My wife's friend did exactly that. After the romance sizzled with the new guy, she wanted her old life back. By then, her ex had already moved on. He is happily remarried.
A woman's marriage vows are only good until the man says, "I do".
100% women always looking the BBD Bigger Better Deal... funny thing is, it almost always backfires on them!
There are reasons for a woman leaving. It's not all on the woman
That random guy in the background doing doing adlibs though.😂💀
I've become aware that it's the women's friends that are the ones to watch to get a feel of her personal preferences.
Yep your bang on there dude, when my ex wife and I separated she hung with the slimy dishonest chick's not our mutual friends
That's very true, however, that's supposed to be done before you even date them.
If she can't take their words and weigh them on "good scales" but takes them without any scrutiny...pass
She shut their Heat down like the New York Knicks!!!😂😂😂
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And of those men leaving relationships, almost all of them are the small percentage of men who can already get into relationships on a whim. A lot of men don't even get to have one in the first place.
i love how she automatically equates a woman leaving to ruining a relationship. never taking into account what made her leave in the first place 🙄
Agree. Pearl getting lots of attention repeating the same superficial information that’s she doesn’t even attempt to analyze.
@@peterruane9220 she’s ridiculous. she preaches about how women don’t take accountability but never once holds a man accountable.
It's called, "pick me" energy.
Truth is, it's never all one person's fault. She's doing this for attention, plain and simple.
Pretty sure getting paid for life for leaving isn't a noble or justified reason to leave
@@TheAchilles26 what
When your Guaranteed 50% of everything whether he earned with or without you ,why stay
I got 100 percent. He cheated for years.
@@gloriamccoygl
Interesting. Never heard of a man getting 100% if his wife cheated. Another double standard of the court system?
Yep no sense of being serious with somebody who's going to get praised for doing something wrong
@@gloriamccoygl you mean you let him cheat for years. You still show no accountability
Why bother in the first place.
She is so wrong. Women stuck to an unhappy marriage for the kids. Women don't just choose to leave the marriage if it wasn't too abusive to her. Most men are abusive by nature and sleep with other women outside marriage.
You’re assuming that 50% of women are abused and unhappy. That is roughly the divorce rate. What percentage is “unhappy” and abused? Accountability is a woman’s kryptonite.
1/3 gay couples divorce, 1/2 of straight couples divorce, and 70-80% of lesbians divorce. this is because women are categorically difficult to manage a commitment with and more things disturb them for no good reason than it is worth dealing with eg. a woman will see you get hit by a car and turned off if your body flies this way instead of that
the major challenge in modern relationships is that women blame-shift and refuse to acknowledge that they are part of an equation where both sides affect one another. instead they expect good treatment without regard for the happiness of their partners
I don't necessarily agree with Pearl, she says a lot of things that aren't backed up by research but you are doing the same. You are using a lot of generalisations about both men and women which statistically are not true.
@@franksanc no of course not all of them , there are different reasons for divorce! What she said is true and happens and what you said also is true
You are completely wrong, it is well known that domestic violence is much more prevalent in lesbian relationships than in gay relationships. Women are the ones who are controlled by their emotions not men. It is also a known fact that a child is more often abused by their biological mother than their biological father, men are protectors by nature not abusers.
We can be both men and women at the same time. No matter how hard it gets for a new experience we face, the hell with it...
This conversation sounds like women leave relationships just because. I left my first husband for a good reason. I had to. The things he was doing and saying to me made it impossible to stay.
I know a few women who hanged on for years trying to work out problems that had no ending (men cheating constantly and verbally abusing them and their kids).
From my experience some men are too cowardly to file for divorce and many of them don’t want to initiate the possibility of paying child support. I’ve known a few men who didn’t bother filing simply because they felt the child support obligation was too much.
Just because the woman files most of the time doesn’t mean they’re the home wreckers. Many times it’s a choice they make because they are living in a nightmare that needs to end.
it's not just because though. women have incentive to leave and are paid to break the contract of marriage. the minute the marriage doesn't fit what they thought why not leave? and for men there's little advantage to getting married in the first place with the current social status quo.
it does mean they are the homewreckers though when you take a vow and don't uphold it. this is also where people should be thinking about whether they should marry in the first place. divorce should only be a legal option where one side isn't upholding. it shouldn't even be offered.
this is why men have such a problem with the lack of accountability women take. women do t see marriage as a lifelong commitment for better or worse. cowardly???? cowardly is leaving the marriage you've sworn your life and expecting that somehow the person who your breaking that vow to still has to uphold their end and pay for your things as well as your child's that you can't support while in your own care. at what point should a woman take responsibility for her own choices?
I actually remember your comments on here and said you were an 8 or something but your attitude ruins it for yourself.
@@brandondrew4914 Agree with this (about 90%) It’s a cycle (on both) sides. It’s like the chicken and egg.
I met my ex and she was still in college making 15 dollars an hour. I have a bachelors, make low 100k a year and my ex has graduated her master and she started making a little over me. she broke up with me because she wanted somebody more at her level….
Trust me you didn't loose anything. Stay strong champ, you really got lucky there
What a joke lmao! Forget her then you're better off
My mom moved out when I was at school.
I was 16, she took my sister with her who was 18.
My dad picked me up from school and we got home and found out together that she had abandoned us.
8 months later she got remarried.
It’s been 12 years, my father hasn’t even had a girlfriend since.
Not all women ruin things. Some women also know their value and know who to marry, and who to reject. It’s called knowing your God given value.
Hence the 70% of women
lol did you fail math 70 percent is not a 100 percent but those numbers no man should ever enter with those odds. Absolutely delusional you don’t give yourself value men dictate your value.
There are many nasty vindictive women out there as well as many men who have no problem looking for the younger replacement or walking away from their families as well. It's very hard to find a good life partner these days.
Exactly keep it balanced.
Agreed!
But there aren’t as many men tho. That’s the thing. Men divorce women 20% of them meaning that they stick around longer. Most breakups are initiated by women. Men are more okay with going thru rough patches in relationships.
No, it's hard finding a good woman. Good men are all over the place, just that women don't want them. They want a millionaire and a billionaire or someone who's rich atleast, that's what they are after.
@@RobinXlone Maybe men are just more stoic and are willing to deal with the difficulties then have to start all over.
A lot of men don’t understand that women with careers and degrees are just bad for business. Harvey Weinstein and Kiki Palmer’s husband taught us that much.
So basically the smarter women get the dumber they get.
Cmon! The Asian and Indian women in CA - most of them r smart n have good jobs, but there’s less divorce n less crime rate in their ethnicity. How many Asian and Indian female doctors or Tech employee women are divorced?
Bs
Honestly most of you are wagee scrubs so I don't blame the girls.
Sincerely - the guy who chicks were cheating on the bfs with.
No, not smarter. College/university is TRAINING, not Education. Semantics really, but intelligence and training are not the same. Going to college/university doesnt make one intelligent, just conditioned to a certain Field
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I love how she ignores any possible factors
Precisely my own personal experience .. she left coz i fell on hard times.
So sorry bro...yeah chicks marry nowadays for the comfort it brings,not for the responsibilities.
Thanks buddy ..
I hope blessings and prosperity rain upon your life.
@@apollo4556 do you know where she lives now adays?
Just Un-alive her
It’s not your wife it’s just your turn .
Most men don't leave because... drum roll... they understand the word women value most: commitment.
"Women leave relationships 70% of the time and it's 90% of their college education"
*This absolute dumb brainlet*: "...they understand the word women value most: commitment"
What a dummy. How do you hear that statistic and then say that nonsense.
One's mere presence in a relationship is not commitment. Which leads me to believe that men don't understand women What women value at all.
Um, no. Men don't leave because why would they ? If she'll put up with the cheating and still cook his dinner and do his laundry that's a win - win!
@leannhoward7306o Bold of you to assume I have a girlfriend/wife to cheat on I'm single and have been for 4 years and I'm not wanting a relationship and bold of you to assume IM the cheater in a relationship when I'm the one getting cheated on and mind games played on me my first serious relationship was in college all I wanted to do was see myself grow old with her she seemed to enjoy playing mind games and cheat on me I was 17 and the way it made me feel back then still sticks with me I'm nearly 40 now
most men dont leave because its cheaper to keep her no? isnt that the saying?
true my ex left and want me back naw i know my worth now
What kills me about these conversations is that for every single mom in the world there's a single dad. But single dads are glorified and single moms are looked at as used goods.
I prefer the term agreeable, rather than submissive. I think men are looking for a woman that does not fight them over every little thing. That is more agreeable. We are not necessarily looking for a doormat, the word submissive really leaves a bad taste in the mouth for both genders. Agreeable makes much more sense and it really means the same thing. Willing to work with you and support you rather than fight you get to prove she’s right.
That is b/c you have the wrong definition, of submissive, in your head. Submissiveness in a woman - man relationship is more complex & nuanced than agreeableness. Agreeable is A piece of it.
It is in the bible over 25 times that women are to be submissive.
Semantics mean nothing
@@MJ-hg1mk May I ask, in your opinion, what the other pieces of submissiveness in a married relationship is?
@@markwillhite9200 a Bible written by men and people who colonised countries. It's not surprising to find it like that
I want to highlight few things that i have realised through my own personal experience, as I was divorced after 10 years of struggling in my marrige Preventive steps should be considered as follows:
- Marraige is not the destination its a journey to live together and compromising attitude should be from both partners
- Communication is the key to hold everything together
- Councelling goes a long way, there are lots of topics or concerns one cant share with anyone so go for councelling
- Last but not the least spend quality time with your partner with or without kids
- Stay away from social media, please dont share your fights with your social circle as people are only interested in entermainment
the failure to spend time with the spouseand children I find is a big thing. finance, reliability, communication also. they're not leaving because they're happy.
How does a person "struggle" in their marriage.
@@mrjones4249 as there was no respect, mind games, he used to ill treat me in front of his friends family. He was in love with another person but he was forcefully married for the sake of society, his family etc
College educated women leave 90% of the time! Wow!
Listen to this Lady she knows her stuff
No. Some men would rather stay in the marriage and be able to keep his side fling.
Some men would prefer to be taken care of by their wife, as if she's his mother.
Some men like having the ability to have sex whenever they want, without really having to try or go out and look all the time.
There are SO many reasons people decide to leave a relationship.
Can't blame it all on one side or the other.
Yes you can and the problem is society has conditioned women to not take accountability. And when they are held accountable it's a pittance compared to what a man would get. Men have mostly stayed the same women are the ones who have changed far more.
Yes you can when it's women leaving 70-90%. That's just caled being logical. It's a foreign concept I know.
Women have been oppressed for a long time, bro.
I think they're just less willing to tolerate bullshit these days.
Well no not all, just a major majority as exactly what is being said here! Wake up. It is the reality of the world we live in.
Is why I stay single and only allow myself to be around those that are exceptions to exactly what's being said here. Hmmm I wonder why I only have maybe 2-3 women in my circle compared to double that in males. Is because exactly what is being said here. The majority of modern females these days are good only for perhaps a one night stand if that and there is birth control being used!!!! Can't wait till us men have a pill we can take. But I think they know it would stop babies being born almost altogether .
@@claing17 Then why aren’t y’all blaming the men? Do you think all these women are divorcing for no reason?
As a single father, I would tend to lean towards a single mother as she is more likely to understand that my kids come first.
That doesn't happen and you are setting yourself up for failure. Even Abraham's wife wasn't down with the step-son situation.
Playin with fire bro....big time
Screw that, most of the time they're is a reason why she's a single mother 🤷♂️. Unless her baby dad died or was an abusive ass you can bet she's trouble.
She's actually LESS likely to understand that your kids come first, because she'll believe that you should be putting HER kids first
They always think their kids matter more than you and yours. Stay single and rock on
Pearl is there to spit facts, the other young women are there to try to make themselves look good
Women, Gambling and Alcohol = WILL destroy any mans life !
She actually thinks that the relationship was ruined when the woman finally leaves. Leaving is the final solution Pearl
You obviously have missed the point
The relationship was ruined before she left
Leaving should not be classified as a solution
@@bryancoverson1333 it’s definitely a solution in a certain aspect. Leaving is sometimes the only solution. Can we agree on that?
You obviously didnt watch the whole debate. The number 1 reason women leave men is because they want to find someone who makes more money than them.
Women are Ariel from The Little Mermaid. No matter how much they have and how good they have it, they always want more.
Damn so as a short guy out of the womb I’m already equivalent to a baby mama that chose to do that to herself
I dont want anything to do with men if i get 1 goddamn heartbreak again im so done
I’m college educated and tried to work it out with ex husband who is college educated but I will say…
Once a cheater always a cheater in any manner. Point blank why I divorced after 12 years. Now I’m in a healthy relationship. ❤❤
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Ya. I love that stat they always bring up that "women initiate divorce 70% of the time". Its amazing how they don't ask, "for what reasons?" Some attorney stats from certain firms have indicated "infidelity" is their top cause for divorce. Typically, it is the person who got cheated on who would initiate that break up because they are the victim & want justice. Also they are more likely to get something.
Men only leave when they always have another woman lined up. 😂
As a guy I ended up filing for divorce....after 4 years of separation and trying to reconcile. She never filed but she never tried to reconcile.
Women who leave relationships are not always the cause or destruction of the relationship.
Women - respect your Husbands
Men - Love your wives
-God
Lol these two terms are more complex that that. Respect comes in shapes and forms and so does love. Disrespect can be subjective and so does the word love
Nailed it. I ain't marrying no baby mom.
Well i’m glad I got a stepdad after my dad cheated on my mom over a 100 times
You'll probably end up marrying somebody with 3 kids. Love don't discriminate. Everyone has the answers till they personally are in the hotseat.
@@sarahk.466 Nah. A very big majority of men won't date single mothers, because if they break up, it's not just a break up from the mom but her kids too, and that hurts like a mfer.
@@sarahk.466 HELL NO. Don't no man wanna marry a single baby mom. TF are you talking about?
That's like me telling you that you might marry a deadbeat bum of a man that cannot provide you financial security or protect you, cuz "love does not discriminate". You see how stupid that sounds?
@Sarah K. Not really. We know about kids early on if they have any. The majority of us will choose someone else if we're looking for a family. If that means overseas, all the better.
My physician wife started seeing other people then wanted to leave me 4 years into her career… trying to upgrade
its a thing women working in hospitals are getting it on.
@@xxyyzzplants131
100%
I watch surgeons in Milwaukee, Wisconsin get divorced for having affairs with residents, then he got fired for trying to sleep with med students.
I know wives that made their surgical husbands take jobs in other states to get them to stop sleeping with all the females residents in that one hospital lol.
nurses cheat, doctors especially surgeons, are just out of control males and females...
doctors go to conferences, I don't know why they're called conferences anymore... they should be called sex parties lol
those female Dr's are wild son.
90% are divorced for a reason
Who the hell wants a single mom🤣
And many grown ups will tell you they wished their toxic parents would have parted ways!
they might think that and most of them might be really, really wrong - having two parents living togather, despite the lack of love is still better than living between two fighting for money and childrens parents, who will makes each other live a hell
I am yet to see anybody who said that, they will rather wish their parents sorted their issue and are never toxic but they never wished for a broken home.
@@alexconfidence2354 Funny, I am one of those and I dont think like that at all. If anything, I think my mom would have found her own worth if she had parted ways. But 30 years later, she has become toxic herself. And I no longer talk to my parents.
We need strong adults who can part ways amicably. Divorce is not the problem. NO ONE ever said you have to spend your lifetime with one person. What makes it bad for kids is adults not acting like adults, rather acting like kids and throwing tantrums even after separation. And wanting their kids to be part of the soap opera! Resentment and hatred takes everyone down, divorce or no divorce!
@@lifebysanasaqib and you should be trying to be what they are not, not what they are because are we right to say you are or will be a replica of them, because you not talking to your parents already seems like a red flag to any partner. And I am sure you will have zero tolerance to any challenges in marriage or relationship as you will be jumping out even before the marriage starts. Well toxicity and abuse in marriages are wrong and leaving or divorce seems to be the only coping or survival mechanism but no one first prays that a marriage or relationship doesn't work. Your parents need therapy and it's so bad adults are so selfish with their petty wants than their children's mental health. Hope you get the necessary help needed both for you and your parents. 💡 & ❤️
@@alexconfidence2354 i started my work of not being them in my teens. My patience and my emotional regulation surpasses that of my husband. I am married with 2 amazing kids, who have the autonomy to live their life with morals and ethics. All my conversations with my kids are 2 sided, with logic and respect for both views.
I didn't stop talking to my parents coz im full of resentment, but because I gave them lots of chances and I saw they wldn't mind making me a sacrificial lamb to satisfy their ego.
Yea that is exactly what that number means. Very intelligent 🧐 most people leave relationships because the relationship is already ruined, it doesn’t happen after.
Yeah, I thought someone would make this the man's fault.
Hell no that ain't my kid
Pearl knows, her father raised her right
She's revealed certain decisions about her dating life that would indicate her father was absent during her upbringing.
Is she single? Lol
@RobertRobinson - that, and I think she genuinely knows men, not from reading from books or anything like that, she must have brothers, many siblings that are male. Not a lot of women have the depths of understanding she has unless they grew up with many successful make siblings
Short, tall, big, small, attractive or scary... Loyalty is a value of man, is his word!
Pearl is one of the very few women on our side guys.
Let's Protect Her at all cost.
The way she said short broke guy with disgust was wild 😂