Bless you, Hawkeye - MASH

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  • @nocalsteve
    @nocalsteve 5 років тому +1135

    It's hard to believe that Sidney was only in twelve episodes of M*A*S*H. His presence was so powerful that he felt like a regular character.

    • @scottknode898
      @scottknode898 4 роки тому +57

      It was the actor himself Alan Arbus who played Sidney who decided against being cast as a regular and was only wanting to have a recurring role.

    • @plapin3538
      @plapin3538 4 роки тому +56

      Scott Knode - it just made his presence more profound. No need to dilute a great noble character that acted as the unit’s guardian angel.

    • @scottknode898
      @scottknode898 4 роки тому +4

      Renegade Juice I was not diluting his presence as a character or as an actor. It was the actor himself who chose to come on as a recurring role rather then a main cast member

    • @plapin3538
      @plapin3538 4 роки тому +24

      Scott Knode - Yeah that’s what I mean. Arbus made the right call... when he appears in an episode; you’re in for a real treat.
      Talking about the taboo subject of mental health, especially in the days of Korea, contrasted well with the surgeon’s ability to heal the tangible, but not with healing the cognition of the complex human mind.

    • @furioussherman7265
      @furioussherman7265 4 роки тому +23

      Only 12 episodes? You're right, it felt like so much more.

  • @ufafgd
    @ufafgd 3 роки тому +56

    Odor is the most powerful scent humans have connected with memory. ie: a smell or odor you have not smelled in 40 years and suddenly smelled again will inherently bring back a flood of memories from that time. Interesting it was brought up on this episode. Shows the intelligence of writers.

  • @claudelemire2451
    @claudelemire2451 2 роки тому +30

    The most profound and brilliant example of how a psychiatrist can unlock our traumatized mind. I love MASH for the growth. From satire to dramatic comedy to sitcom great show.

  • @anomalyp8584
    @anomalyp8584 6 років тому +683

    It's the little battlefields that can leave the worst scars...one of the best lines and truths said on film

    • @michealpowell1299
      @michealpowell1299 5 років тому +14

      anomaly P Amen to that! One of the most profound lines in television history. AND! One of my two favorite "Sidney Friedman Quotes"! The other being: "Ladies and Gentlemen, take my advice...
      Pull down your pants and slide on the ice"!

    • @k1productions87
      @k1productions87 5 років тому +14

      And yet, since the turn of the millennium, the whole conversation has shifted to where if you are experiencing grief or trauma over small things or things in the past, you're a snowflake or an SJW or something thereabouts.

    • @lolomgmetobavi
      @lolomgmetobavi 5 років тому +13

      @@k1productions87 There is a big difference between experiencing grief or small things or things in the past and being a snowflake or a SJW though. I guess most of us have some traumas or some "berserk buttons" but bitching about every little thing that "offends" me is something completely different.

    • @k1productions87
      @k1productions87 5 років тому +3

      @@lolomgmetobavi There is also a difference between being a snowflake and being an SJW. A snowflake bitches about everything, but an SJW tries to shame and/or attack others for it. One can be overly sensitive without being an SJW. Quite frankly, the term "SJW" is thrown around too much. Just like "racist", "SJW" is so watered down now that the real trouble makers get lost in the shuffle

    • @jamiegarrity6439
      @jamiegarrity6439 5 років тому +2

      lolomgmetobavi absolutely right!

  • @TheCoolProfessor
    @TheCoolProfessor 5 років тому +367

    Alan Alda is such a gifted actor. Not many could do a scene like this.

  • @jamesdrynan
    @jamesdrynan 4 роки тому +193

    Allan Arbus tells an amusing story. He had been portraying Dr. Freedman on MASH for several years. He didn't realize how good his characterization was until he was at a hospital. His daughter had undergone some minor surgery and he was in the waiting room. The attending surgeon came in to tell him everything had gone well and started to speak to Arbus as if he was a real doctor! The surgeon was using terminology that Arbus didn't understand and he had to remind the fellow he was an actor, not a certified doctor!

    • @kleetus92
      @kleetus92 3 роки тому +12

      A credit to the writers no doubt, but Alan delivered the lines convincingly.

    • @cameron3753
      @cameron3753 2 роки тому +1

      thats hilarious

    • @jllucci
      @jllucci 2 роки тому +3

      Added data point he played a psychiatrist so well the even Alan Alda would tell him his troubles.

    • @craigpellini268
      @craigpellini268 Рік тому +4

      I just saw an interview where Alda said he would talk to Arbus between takes and he realized Arbus was looking at him funny because he was talking to him like he was his therapist.

  • @jasonkoch3182
    @jasonkoch3182 4 роки тому +136

    I can't remember a single bad scene involving Sidney Freeman. Some were quite funny, others quite serious but all of them were straight up excellent.

    • @ufafgd
      @ufafgd 3 роки тому +2

      One of the funniest things Sidney Freedmen said was" Pull down your pants and slide on the ice ". Hilarious !

    • @alexs5744
      @alexs5744 3 роки тому +3

      My favorite is the air raid prank.

    • @cardinalbob1
      @cardinalbob1 2 роки тому +4

      “Not without a bulletproof couch!” was my favorite line of his when asked to go out and try to talk down a shooter.

    • @LS-ki9ft
      @LS-ki9ft 29 днів тому

      I can still hear Sidney saying, "sometimes you just have to pull down your pants and slide on the ice. Good advice indeed.

  • @gerardlafferti4485
    @gerardlafferti4485 8 місяців тому +3

    He was an amazing talker, he had a clever response for everything.

  • @southerngent716
    @southerngent716 4 роки тому +305

    This scene and the one where Hawkeye recalled about the mother smothering her baby on the bus in the last episode always gets me.

    • @briane173
      @briane173 3 роки тому +15

      That was difficult as well; that final performance Hawkeye never really got over, and I suppose he wasn't meant to. Just drove home the senselessness of war and the lives it devastates sometimes forever. Unfortunately that performance came so soon after this one it almost seemed like too much -- just sort of lacked integrity if not sincerity. And it turned the character Hawkeye Pierce into someone else entirely by the time the show was over.

    • @Isheian
      @Isheian 3 роки тому +11

      It hurts to watch and is terrifying to realize how easy it can happen in real life. Real great show I rewatch on occasion..

    • @dave929
      @dave929 3 роки тому +15

      @@briane173 his character always seemed to be somewhat mentally unstable and towards the end of the show it came out more and more.

    • @briane173
      @briane173 3 роки тому +11

      @@dave929 I can see that. During the entire run it seemed Hawkeye coped with what he had to see and do in the operating room everyday by drinking, making wisecracks, and thumbing his nose at the military. Ironic when Sidney Freedman was frequently a reliable presence at the MASH unit.

    • @mousepariah3884
      @mousepariah3884 2 роки тому +6

      @@dave929 It's sad/insightful when you watch the show enough times that you can see all the moments Hawkeye 'cracks', just the little chips in his armor. Most notibly any time he goes on a 'repetative spiel'
      "I will not carry a gun" (season 3) is one I remember in particular, at first viewing it just comes off as just another of his little comedic commentaries but when you rewatch you notice the almost manic way he says it all.
      His speech in Yankee Doodle Doctor (season 1O) is a more serious example, again lots of repetition.

  • @TheRetro64
    @TheRetro64 5 років тому +286

    Hawkeye crying in this episode was one of the most moving scenes in this series. Even more powerful than when he cried in "Goodbye, Farewell, and Amen."

    • @michealpowell1299
      @michealpowell1299 5 років тому +32

      TheRetro64
      Agreed! Most actors would be far too macho to show that much vulnerability! Maybe that's why Alan Alda still has so many female fans! To this day!
      For me though, THE single most moving scene in the entire history of prime time television was in (I believe it was called) "Goodbye Henry".... When Radar walked into the O.R., without a mask, and read the telegram..."Lieutenant Colonel Henry Blake's plane was shot down over the Sea of Japan...It spun in...There were no survivors"

    • @alking7655
      @alking7655 5 років тому +15

      @@michealpowell1299 Yes, because it was purposely kept out of everyone else's script I believe, so that, for the first take of shooting at least, the rest of the cast would have a profound reaction, for that is the reality of war - the innocents can be taken tragically.

    • @fever_spike
      @fever_spike 3 роки тому +1

      Micheal Powell Close-it’s ‘Abyssinia, Henry’...an’ yes, it’s absolutely devastating.

    • @LilCraftyNook
      @LilCraftyNook 3 роки тому

      I still cry at that myself!?

    • @LilCraftyNook
      @LilCraftyNook 3 роки тому

      Definitely Miami Vice McLean and Gary were great friends off screen as well. Heavens, everyone was!

  • @sunnchilde
    @sunnchilde 6 років тому +369

    I always loved it when Dr. Freidman would come by. He was always wise and insightful. Kind of like in Kung Fu when Caine would speak with Master Po.

    • @watchgoose
      @watchgoose 4 роки тому +5

      Freedman, with two "e's" as Hawkeye once told someone.

    • @aneilp7631
      @aneilp7631 3 роки тому +2

      @@watchgoose Yes, he told Colonel Flagg in Season 4's "Quo Vadis Captain Chandler" that "there were two E's" in Sydney's name, "as in freedom."

    • @JaySports644
      @JaySports644 3 роки тому +2

      He also didn't mind helping in surgery when the doctors were short handed.

  • @colin6768
    @colin6768 5 років тому +321

    Talk about great acting. I always thought Alan Arbus did an excellent job playing Sidney Freedman - so good in fact I could actually see him being a shrink in real life - very compassionate, warmhearted, level headed, and sharp as a tack. I can't rate this show highly enough.

    • @kwdrm1
      @kwdrm1 5 років тому +15

      One of THE best supporting guest characters in the history of the show.

    • @jamesedwards2237
      @jamesedwards2237 5 років тому +13

      @@kwdrm1 Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice, pull down your pants and slide on the ice.

    • @kwdrm1
      @kwdrm1 5 років тому +4

      Gotcha! @@jamesedwards2237

    • @kimiisungstartedthekoreanw2771
      @kimiisungstartedthekoreanw2771 4 роки тому

      colin6768 How hard is it to like that? Argus was really an actor of very limited range. See my channel on how radical and bad Mash was.

    • @ronromeo5364
      @ronromeo5364 4 роки тому +7

      He actually played a psychologist in a scene in the Odd Couple several years earlier.

  • @ldcraig2006
    @ldcraig2006 3 роки тому +40

    Prime example of gaslighting. Hawkeye's buddy pushed him into the pond, then pulled him out to be the hero and told Hawkeye, "You're so clumsy. You'd be dead if not for me." And though Hawkeye KNEW the truth, he didn't want to believe his best friend would do that to him, so he created a reasonable, acceptable alternative to help him cope with repressing his true feelings.

    • @bbface21
      @bbface21 3 роки тому +3

      He was too young to comprehend, and too small and enthralled to punch him in the face. There was nothing else he could have done.

    • @redsummergarden2600
      @redsummergarden2600 3 роки тому +7

      For innocent children betrayal by someone they love and trust is unthinkable . That's what Sidney meant when he said little battlefields often leave the worst scars.

  • @stevensines7026
    @stevensines7026 3 роки тому +73

    Sidney's episodes were always some of the most profound on the series. I always felt they were a great commentary on the depths of humanity short of a psych class.

  • @Yotrek
    @Yotrek 3 роки тому +37

    What I needed to hear.
    A few years ago I was struggling with two unknown health crises. An undiagnosed concussion, from a bicycle accident, and undiagnosed Aspergers/Autistic. (since confirmed with DNA sequencing). The concussion made it even harder for me to initiate social interactions. Meaning, an increased inability to self-advocate, and not asking for help.
    I went to a friend (also my brother's brother-in-law) for help. I didn't totally trust him (he was psychopathic) but I didn't think I had any other choice. A few days later, I'm homeless, for 45 days. He called me during that time. I heard him laughing on the phone when he was asking where I was sleeping.
    The anger from realizing "he pushed me" is real.
    I'm good now. My health is stabilizing. I've received 70 hyperbaric oxygen therapy sessions at 2.0 ATA to repair any damage from the concussion. Now that I know about being Autistic, I am starting to reframe past life events in their proper context. Also able to process present life events in their proper context.

  • @brandscape356
    @brandscape356 2 роки тому +12

    "You're so clumsy. If it weren't for me, you'd be dead." For some reason, that's the part of the monologue that I remember most clearly.

    • @LS-ki9ft
      @LS-ki9ft 29 днів тому

      I think all of us have had those moments in live where we have excused someone's hurtfulness with a kind gesture of appreciation in return, especially when it comes to someone we have loved or admired. I know that is how I relate to it.

  • @itaintoveryeti9444
    @itaintoveryeti9444 5 років тому +196

    hearing him wail after all these years is still hard to listen to

    • @themariusnos
      @themariusnos 5 років тому +21

      almost scary . you can see the memory come to him . haunt him suddenly .

    • @nolanboles8492
      @nolanboles8492 5 років тому +32

      What's unsettling is the hate in his eyes after he realizes Billy almost killed him. You rarely saw that with Hawkeye.

    • @themariusnos
      @themariusnos 5 років тому +20

      @@nolanboles8492 in the last episode of mash. When hawkeye tried to forget about the child and instead made himself believe it was a chicken. You could see the same hate but this time directed towards Sidney for helping him remember. It was the only time he called someone a son of a bitch . The brain has a habbit of filling in the blanks. But when ever something is to unpleasant, to shameful for us to entertain, we reject it ,we erase it from our memory . But the imprint is always there. Is it better to remember? If you repress a memory it might take you by surprise one day.

    • @russperry3261
      @russperry3261 5 років тому +2

      Why did you listen?

    • @wh4193
      @wh4193 4 роки тому +3

      When the TV showed the episode where he was having the nightmares and screamed and woke up, it horrified me.

  • @jonmt12
    @jonmt12 3 роки тому +36

    One of my favorite episodes is one where a wounded soldier gets a letter from his girlfriend saying she has married some rich guy and she wants her picture back and he is all broken up. And the Mash officers collect pictures of girlfriends and draft a letter saying " i can't really remember which one is yours. Please keep yours and mail the rest back."

    • @thekidsclub2793
      @thekidsclub2793 3 роки тому +1

      Whats the episode name?

    • @ZZMJo
      @ZZMJo 3 роки тому +5

      @@thekidsclub2793 "Identity Crisis" should be S10E3. I watched it 2 days ago. Unfortunately they skipped S9 and renamed it. But I will go on watching the whole serie once again since I don't recall all episodes.

    • @thekidsclub2793
      @thekidsclub2793 3 роки тому

      @@ZZMJo thank you friend :)

    • @ZZMJo
      @ZZMJo 3 роки тому +1

      @@thekidsclub2793 My pleasure, Happy new year!

    • @thekidsclub2793
      @thekidsclub2793 3 роки тому

      @@ZZMJo Happy new year to you too! Hope it's a good one 🎉

  • @alanchristensen5543
    @alanchristensen5543 2 роки тому +19

    I am so grateful for Allan Arbrus & Alan Alda for the acting of this scene. So many times I have watched this and it helps me face the things I have locked away. It helps me embrace my pain so I can let it go.

  • @TTony-tu6dm
    @TTony-tu6dm Рік тому +9

    Arbus was fantastic as a Freudian therapist. One would believe he was actually a doctor. The other great scene in this episode is when they run a battery of tests on Hawkeye and can’t find anything. Potter then says “Ok, we’ve looked at his body. Now it’s time to look at his mind” and calls in Sydney

  • @Auzzie015
    @Auzzie015 5 років тому +224

    Sidney was the most beautiful character, such an interesting person to watch and listen to. Such a fundamentally good person, who also happens to be wise and funny. One of my favourite moments is when Colonel Flag accuses him of being a communist or something and Sidney just responds with such contempt for the sort of man Flag is.

    • @markmiller3713
      @markmiller3713 4 роки тому +1

      What episode was that?

    • @qthelost
      @qthelost 4 роки тому +8

      @@markmiller3713 It's the episode "Quo Vadis, Captain Chandler." 1975. A brilliant episode where a patient (Captain Chandler) has been so affected by the war that he thinks he's Jesus. Col. Flagg, Frank Burns and Margaret think he's faking. One of the greatest scenes in MASH is when Sidney is bedside talking with Chandler. Sidney asks, "Is it true God answers all prayers?" Chandler replies, with a tear running down his cheek, "Yes. Sometimes the answer is No." Here's a link to a very crappy version of the episode on youtube. I think you can buy or rent a quality copy from youtube and maybe other places. But here's a link to the kind of messed up version. I hope you have access to a good version. ua-cam.com/video/yICewTydFL0/v-deo.html

    • @benbarker8154
      @benbarker8154 3 роки тому +4

      @@qthelost THAT scene where he says, "Yes,. Sometimes the answer is No." just crushed me. Even 45 years later I cry when that scene is shown. Then the show follows up with the teddy bear and "Bless you, RADAR." scene I just. . .I just lose it.

    • @LordZontar
      @LordZontar 2 роки тому +1

      "I'd like to stay and talk to you, Flagg, but with your schizophrenia I'd have to charge you double. Now if you'll excuse me I've already kept Jesus Christ waiting too long."

  • @melissacooper4282
    @melissacooper4282 3 роки тому +115

    I don't think Billy was intentionally planning to kill Hawkeye. Otherwise he wouldn't have pulled him out! It was a practical joke that went too far. I don't blame him for hating his cousin. He looked up to Billy and he felt betrayed after what he did. Also the reason that Billy blamed Hawkeye was because he didn't want to get in trouble. I think the reason that Hawkeye altered the event in his mind was because the betrayal was too much to bear. And if he tried to tell any of the adults nobody would believe him because as Hawkeye told Sidney the adults thought that Billy could do no wrong.

    • @Julia-lk8jn
      @Julia-lk8jn 2 роки тому +11

      I think the worst thing wasn't even to push him in - that's a stupid thing to do, but children at play do stupid things.
      But pretending that it never happened, and turning it into "I saved your life" - there's something very sociopathic about gaslighting somebody in their weakest moment.

    • @duanevp
      @duanevp 2 роки тому +7

      @@Julia-lk8jn No, I think it's very human. As you say, children at play do stupid things. Billy possibly had as strong a desire to alter the event and immediately bury it as Hawkeye, to not acknowledge to himself that he was responsible for such stupidity and betrayal.

    • @mnirwin5112
      @mnirwin5112 2 роки тому +7

      I think you're right. He was, what 7 at the time? And he KNEW what had happened but the first thing his cousin did after pulling him out was to gaslight him ... "YOU are clumsy; if it wasn't for me you would be dead." No wonder he buried the reality for so many years.

    • @NE-pz4ku
      @NE-pz4ku Рік тому

      A bully.

    • @IsiahTomas
      @IsiahTomas Рік тому +3

      I've been reading all the replies, and somehow, it seems like everyone is right here. Not all at once, (that itself would be twisted) but they all sound plausible. The strange thing is that that's how kids learn certain lessons because some things can be explained till you're blue in the face but it won't make sense till it directly happens to them. It's a rough way to learn and it doesn't sound right, but there you go.

  • @Morhek
    @Morhek 4 роки тому +54

    It's easy to see why even Alda was convinced Arbus had to be a real psychiatrist. It just comes so naturally, effortlessly.

  • @jinxiejae
    @jinxiejae 4 роки тому +14

    So many oscar worthy performances in this show.

  • @CheshireCat-cm1si
    @CheshireCat-cm1si 11 місяців тому +5

    There are so many little ticks here that Sidney doesn't point out that are still so good. Hawkeye almost never stutters, but here, when he's talking about the lake and the boat, he is. Plus, he cuts himself off at parts. He speaks complete sentences when describing how he sank to the bottom and almost drowned, but he cuts himself off before finishing his statement that Billy saved his life.

  • @docadams7099
    @docadams7099 4 роки тому +25

    A very insightful scene in a series chock-full of them. Alan Alda and Allan Arbus were so great together. Hawkeye was a thoroughly efficient surgeon, yet found many occasions to show his vulnerability.

  • @Avana-una-na
    @Avana-una-na 2 роки тому +8

    The moment he realizes, the moment when the truth is hitting him...absolutely brilliant acting job...

  • @phoenixtrite5068
    @phoenixtrite5068 3 роки тому +26

    The best scenes in this show aren't the funny ones. They're the ones that sink in deep.

  • @lorriesmith5086
    @lorriesmith5086 5 років тому +97

    In all of MASH, this one particular scene ALWAYS drives me to tears. The realism of Hawkeye's revelation gets me every single time.
    I searched hard for this and just showed it to my husband. I WAS wearing coal eyeshadow, but, it's pretty well gone. This is, IMHO, one of televisions greatest moments. Back when the bar was high, not like the garbage that's on now. Thank you guys for pulling real emotion with superb acting! 😍

    • @Mary-zj9jz
      @Mary-zj9jz 4 роки тому +2

      this and a few other seen get me every time Hawkeye in the final, the Christmas one, Radar sea of Japan and more. (tried not give spoilers just in new fans have seen them yet,)

    • @paulzammataro7185
      @paulzammataro7185 4 роки тому +1

      @@Mary-zj9jz Yeah, the Christmas one...🕜? 😢

    • @kelsey5776
      @kelsey5776 4 роки тому

      @@paulzammataro7185 I think they mean the episode where Hawkeye, Margaret, and BJ are trying to keep a patient alive until Christmas is over so the family won't have to remember the holiday as when their loved one died; the patient dies on Christmas anyway but Hawkeye changes the time on the clock and so he "made" it until December 26th.

    • @fifthbusiness1678
      @fifthbusiness1678 3 роки тому +1

      Had me until the second last sentence. TV has rarely been better than it is today. Fact.

    • @ufafgd
      @ufafgd 3 роки тому

      Lorrie, Thank you. Your "bar higher " comment could not be truer. As for some of today's TV programming; My comment, "Garbage in, Garbage out".

  • @AlienWacker
    @AlienWacker 3 роки тому +18

    Alan Alda was the heart and soul of that show...
    Don't get me wrong, the rest of the cast is incredible.... But it's hard to imagine the show without Hawkeye...

    • @TroutBoneless
      @TroutBoneless 2 роки тому +2

      as great as Donald Sutherland was as a hardcore nihilistic Hawkeye, theres no way he could sell a scene like this as well as Alda

  • @tjtinsurvivaltin3797
    @tjtinsurvivaltin3797 6 років тому +77

    I loved the Sydney Friedman character! Such insight!

  • @garingdahl
    @garingdahl 3 роки тому +15

    My favorite Sidney moment comes from the episode where Frank Burns digs a "Foxhole" next to the swamp. One morning Sydney catches BJ filling it will water. Sydney realizes in that moment that BJ is the unknown practical joker and BJ offers to let him help. "What do I do," says Sydney. BJ tells him to yell, "Air Raid!" The look on Sydney's face when it dawns on him what comes next is priceless!

  • @alanhudson2999
    @alanhudson2999 2 роки тому +6

    This episode is an excellent example of the how the mind works..Hawkeye's subconscious kept it hidden for all those years every since he was child...childhood traumas can last your entire life that's why it's important to talk about it..he held that pain in all those years..you never know what a person experiences in their life..great acting Alan Alda..good job

  • @TheCoolProfessor
    @TheCoolProfessor 4 роки тому +12

    Alan Arbus made the perfect supporting character for Hawkeye. He was almost like a mentor.

  • @jasonseiler5364
    @jasonseiler5364 6 років тому +76

    Reminds me of a lot of people I grew up around. Screwed up thing is that like Hawkeye, you do end up with repressed memory and it being convenient for others for you to just forget what they did to you. Happens more often than you think. Thing is though - sick people KNOW how to make you feel grateful when they help you after they hurt you. You don't need to feel happy for them.

  • @ashleyjustice3008
    @ashleyjustice3008 3 роки тому +12

    Man, I wish Sidney Freeman was my therapist! I enjoy his scenes!

  • @davidmcleod7757
    @davidmcleod7757 2 роки тому +3

    It's ironic how smells or dejavu can bring back sleeping memories of bad things from the past

  • @dfire351
    @dfire351 3 роки тому +9

    Yes Hawkeye suppressed and altered a lot of awful memories. Like replacing a woman killing her baby with the memory of it being a chicken.

  • @grimreaperxxx13
    @grimreaperxxx13 4 роки тому +19

    Honestly one of the best pieces of acting I’ve ever seen, from both actors. I have PTSD myself and it’s interesting how perceptions of the event change over time, how the littlest things can trigger a remembrance while the big things don’t

    • @miaburnett1740
      @miaburnett1740 Рік тому +1

      TBH I feel like everyone on here saying it was overacting hasnt had or known anyone with PTSD

  • @kilroy987
    @kilroy987 6 років тому +189

    It's really scary how he masks his memories so blatantly and they are just revealed. He's like the dad every kid is scared of snapping, but he's so human you feel for him. I remembered a repressed memory years ago - it felt like it was always there, and it really hurt to remember it. This was an interesting scene, and it made psychology seem a little bit convenient and magical, but at least it exposed me to the concept of what we do to mask painful things. Not a bad thing for a child to know - I feel sorry for children too embarrassed about a feeling to seek the needed closure at the time. I suffered the same thing as a child and repressed it. Unfortunately, this scene wasn't what broke it loose - a breakdown in my 30s did that.

    • @j.m.1535
      @j.m.1535 6 років тому +10

      kilroy987 Sincerest Greetings,kilroy.My heart goes out to you.i understand and can very much relate. You or others are welcome to write,if i can help or facilitate coping,healing,or helping..in any way-Gently.im a good listener,and confidential.You can remain confidential,of course .Just have a desire to help...as i can relate,in my own way,and everyone-, theirs.Nothing but the very best.

    • @marvinmonroe3462
      @marvinmonroe3462 3 роки тому +1

      I’m from the South Side of Chicago. Grew up here and have been here my entire life. In a neighborhood called Canaryville. You can find it on Wikipedia. I have a close friend named Ed Kilroy. He’s also from here along with his family that goes back generations. Seen the name Kilroy and it came to mind. Hope you’re doing well.

    • @Sbannmarie
      @Sbannmarie 3 роки тому +1

      God bless you Kilroy

  • @LS-ki9ft
    @LS-ki9ft 4 роки тому +14

    Family betrayals are the worst and as the scene shows, sometimes the ones that we love the most, can also hurt us the most. It takes courage to forgive and understand the flaws, limitations and yes, sometimes the hurtfulness of family members. Very powerful and beautiful scene. We all need a Sidney Friedman at some point in our life.

  • @TRockett55IRISH
    @TRockett55IRISH 3 роки тому +8

    Just a brilliant scene the shrink is the best guess star in tv history such an amazing character and presence he has an actor .

  • @southerngent716
    @southerngent716 4 роки тому +10

    MASH is one of those shows that I can honestly say that I have seen every episode at least twice and most I have seen countless times. It never gets old and still watch it to this day.

  • @StephanielovesDisney
    @StephanielovesDisney 3 роки тому +7

    This is arguably one of the best scenes in all of mash ❤️

  • @stephenconway2468
    @stephenconway2468 4 роки тому +19

    Sidney was a device so brilliantly executed. You could not not disagree or hate him. So he could could pull out the thorns (to use Christian imagery) and Hawkeye a childlike adult who had suffered self realization then has self redemption.
    This was excellent writing, direction and acting.

  • @diddymuck
    @diddymuck 4 роки тому +20

    a superb story where the typically belittled and misunderstood elements of psychoanalysis are here explicitly presented in their step by step means to an end. Author/director Nicholas Myers put it best when he said of Freud "you are the greatest detective of all."

  • @vinnyvega2665
    @vinnyvega2665 3 роки тому +7

    I love this man. He's the best TV actor of all time. ALAN ALDA. TRUE TALENT AND HEART

  • @ExSkyCyclePilot
    @ExSkyCyclePilot Рік тому +3

    MASH was without a doubt the most meaningful television show of all time, especially in the later seasons, and Alda was a big reason why.

  • @v.i.kettenis8065
    @v.i.kettenis8065 4 роки тому +9

    I'm a fan of M*A*S*H since day one. A few years back Santa (my son) gave me 'the whole show on dvd'. After all these years and after watching the show several times, it is still the best show ever!!!!

  • @chris1pdx
    @chris1pdx 2 роки тому +4

    The writing on this show was absolutely amazing.

  • @toddstein5407
    @toddstein5407 6 років тому +54

    This scene helped me put some things in my past behind me, too. Especially the talk about scars

  • @davidlee9026
    @davidlee9026 4 роки тому +9

    This is my favorite episode of M.A.S.H due to this very scene. I just love emotion in films, especially when a character breaks down like this. I dunno why, but I just love it.

  • @kimberlycarder7730
    @kimberlycarder7730 4 роки тому +17

    I've wished for a long time Sydney was my doctor. He's such a damn good physchiatrist, I think my therapy would progress a lot better

  • @hoverboard1000
    @hoverboard1000 4 роки тому +6

    This has always been one of my favorite scenes...for the acting of course, but after I became a therapist myself, I really gained an appreciation for the scene with the interaction between client and mental health worker.

  • @rogerlynch5279
    @rogerlynch5279 6 років тому +49

    The figure of Sidney Freeman had been one of my favorites in M.A.S.H. Yes, he is one of the main reasons I loved the reruns and bought for my self most of the later seasons on DVD. :) Besides being a fine actor, the stories about him contain a lot of truce to think about.

    • @rogerlynch5279
      @rogerlynch5279 6 років тому

      Yes, Allan Arbus played it like a male version of Mary Poppins - suddenly turning up and solving every problem in a kind and always understanding way ( "with a snap" ::::) ). Real psychologists or schooled educators are rarly as good as him in our non-fictive world; In the earlier episodes their were several actors with similar roles but those guys had played the role much more subbern and ended up as " enemies " of Hawkeye and Trapper. Guess there were a lot of critical letters to the developers so the script writers invented this marvelous typ for the later years if filming.

    • @jamesedwards2237
      @jamesedwards2237 5 років тому

      Sydney Freedman and Colonel Flagg were both great characters!!

  • @timmorris8932
    @timmorris8932 4 роки тому +13

    This scene makes me cry every time. I can't help it. The pain is real.

  • @buzzkillington110
    @buzzkillington110  5 років тому +87

    This scene was the single most emotional moment in all of MASH. Even more so than when Radar announced the death of Henry Blake.
    I think everyone has had something like this happen to them in their life, but many dont, or choose not to face their fears and deal with the trauma of the past. To be that innocent child, to love someone with all your heart, and then to be betrayed - to have your childhood innocence be violated by someone you love is one of the most traumatic things that can happen to anyone.
    Dr. Freidman helped Hawkeye through his trauma and come out the other side stronger than he was before. Hawkeye truly is a very strong person and hes one of my favorite characters of all time. If for nothing else - because of this scene.

    • @inspiredwoodworks4131
      @inspiredwoodworks4131 5 років тому +4

      Buzz Killington , I agree, but the second most emotional scene has got to be when Hawkeye lost his friend in “Sometimes you hear the bullet”. The stress of the ER, the brief dialogue, Blake telling him to take another patient, and the conversation afterwards, that all just hits.

    • @edrenajones5960
      @edrenajones5960 4 роки тому +6

      Buzz Killington I hate when foolish cruel people say “but That was so long ago, just move on.” No matter what hurt you so deep, it’s PTSD, and it can last a lifetime. Because for some of us, That happened just a few hours ago. We cope, but sometimes we break.

    • @adamschaeffer4057
      @adamschaeffer4057 4 роки тому +2

      How about when Hawk was describing the time they all had to be silent on the bus, and the mother smothered her chicken to keep it quiet. Only it wasn't a chicken it was her baby. Actually, Pierce seems to have a lot of repressed memories that really inhibit his mental stability far more than you'd want from a trauma surgeon.

    • @jonmt12
      @jonmt12 3 роки тому

      In the last episode when the musicians that Winchester was working with were killed was really powerful.

    • @kevindouglas5333
      @kevindouglas5333 2 роки тому

      No. This was just overacting personified

  • @mephisto4009
    @mephisto4009 3 роки тому +3

    This is one of my most favorite episodes. It's really deep.

  • @Lemegeton300
    @Lemegeton300 4 роки тому +13

    no other show in the history of TV made me feel the range of emotions that MASH did. the only thing that came even remotely close was Scrubs.

  • @grimgrinners
    @grimgrinners 5 років тому +5

    This was one hell of an arc for Hawkeye. Poor bastard.

  • @robincrowflies
    @robincrowflies 3 роки тому +4

    This was such a good show.

  • @ShikataGaNai100
    @ShikataGaNai100 3 роки тому +2

    Great depiction of a conversion reaction. The medical advisor for this series was a genius.

  • @sebulia1
    @sebulia1 4 роки тому +8

    This episode was so good it made me downright uncomfortable.

  • @shevetlevi2821
    @shevetlevi2821 4 роки тому +4

    In addition to being so full of humanity, he had a little bit of Groucho in him.

  • @kayequinn6726
    @kayequinn6726 2 роки тому +2

    Wish Sidney was in more episodes. He was a special part of tge MASH legacy.

  • @michaelgj23
    @michaelgj23 Рік тому +1

    Imagine having the skill set to help someone the way Dr. Freedman helps Hawkeye. I always wished I could do that.

  • @thefallenC073
    @thefallenC073 2 роки тому +1

    “It’s the little battlefields the ponds the schoolyards…” I can indeed verify, I still remember the guys fist on my face 8 years later

  • @ianmorton4136
    @ianmorton4136 2 роки тому +2

    Great acting by my favourite comedian, the great Alan Alda.

  • @jerrykinnin7941
    @jerrykinnin7941 3 роки тому +3

    My favorite characters are all of them. I think MASH is a great dichotomy of human nature.
    That's what made it so successful.
    And why my stepdad who spent 24 months in Korea. Couldn't watch a show. His words, "It's to real".

  • @walterschivo9123
    @walterschivo9123 4 роки тому +14

    This was one of the best from Hawkeye. The 2nd to me was the last episode when he lost his mind after the Korean woman had smothered her baby to death.

    • @roseprevost8081
      @roseprevost8081 3 роки тому

      The series finale, Goodbye, Farewell and Amen. That was some powerful TV.

  • @daisymz3710
    @daisymz3710 2 роки тому +1

    What an actor! I could imagine it as he was talking about it. I cried so much watching this show.❤️😲😭

  • @Miracle490d
    @Miracle490d 3 роки тому +5

    Sydney is one of those characters that you relish every time you see him. And you can’t wait to see him again. They make such a big impact, in such a short time. I felt the same way about Reverend Snow on Three's Company and Buddy on night court. I don’t know how the networks could’ve missed it. Why they didn’t bring him back more. I don’t know how the networks could’ve missed it. Why they didn’t bring them back more. But if they did, Would we have gotten bored faster?

  • @savanaschmidt8906
    @savanaschmidt8906 28 днів тому

    The acting in this show has always been phenomenal, but the look of confusion on Hawkeye’s face right before he starts crying, then the inhale when he remembers, is almost chilling to see once you notice it.

  • @shannonbrewer3280
    @shannonbrewer3280 5 років тому +5

    Both great actors... awesome scene.
    Mash had so many great actors, a great TV show.

  • @torinobob
    @torinobob 3 роки тому +9

    I find myself at a point in my life where I need a therapist. If only I could find a real life Sydney Friedman.

  • @theduke7539
    @theduke7539 3 роки тому +1

    That's some damn acting right there. The emotion. The pain. The suffering. The strain.

  • @gummygoo2
    @gummygoo2 4 роки тому +4

    Ladies and gents,
    One of the greatest actors of all time,
    Alan Alda.

  • @jroysims44
    @jroysims44 4 роки тому +2

    Classic scene from the best show ever.

  • @31xrg
    @31xrg 2 роки тому +3

    Great scene, well acted. Excellent writing!

  • @M-David-Hakoh
    @M-David-Hakoh 4 роки тому +8

    Sydney was such a powerful caracter he should've been a regular

  • @InformationIsTheEdge
    @InformationIsTheEdge 4 роки тому +4

    In 1983, the final episode of M*A*S*H aired and it was a big deal. More than a hundred million households tuned in to say goodbye. It was like saying good bye to a close friend and knowing that you would never see them again. It was perfect.

  • @Dave_B33
    @Dave_B33 2 роки тому +1

    Some powerful acting in this scene.

  • @jordyn4673
    @jordyn4673 3 роки тому +2

    Such an absolutely perfect show. Most people refer to it as a comedy, but I can’t count how many times I’ve cried, and I mean sobbed. Such a beautiful scene and a beautiful show, with such talented actors and actresses.

    • @briane173
      @briane173 3 роки тому +2

      It was always considered a dark comedy; had to be to get anything funny out of war, especially one as pointless as Korea or Vietnam. But it stayed on long enough for viewers to _know_ those characters and _connect_ with them, and it allowed them to get more serious with the reality of what those Army doctors were doing there. And it was some of the most creative writing ever done for a weekly "sitcom."

    • @jordyn4673
      @jordyn4673 3 роки тому +1

      I couldn’t have said it better myself.

    • @NorthForkFisherman
      @NorthForkFisherman 3 роки тому

      @@briane173 "pointless as Korea"
      Wow.

  • @sharkyfish3492
    @sharkyfish3492 2 роки тому +1

    this is a great scene, the writing was incredible

  • @petemcintire4339
    @petemcintire4339 3 роки тому +9

    First the boat, then the chicken. That's messed up.

  • @whiteribbonman1
    @whiteribbonman1 5 років тому +1

    Thumbs-UP, #603, Thursday evening 4 March 2019! Thank You! This scene brought back some important memories for me as well.

  • @maryhlad5277
    @maryhlad5277 4 роки тому +8

    Hawkeye’s cousin, Billy, was a real jerk. If Billy can’t own up to what did, then Hawkeye should cut him out of his life forever.

  • @Lurker1979
    @Lurker1979 10 місяців тому +1

    Everyone needs a mental health pro like Sidney

  • @LS-ki9ft
    @LS-ki9ft 29 днів тому

    Miss the days when TV shows were written with this kind of depth and intelligence.

  • @ramennoodz2155
    @ramennoodz2155 Рік тому +1

    I have never been so mad at a character who has never been seen on screen

  • @michaelsaxonson251
    @michaelsaxonson251 4 роки тому +1

    Yes, thank you so much, I've been looking for this

  • @slashdemonfire5024
    @slashdemonfire5024 3 роки тому +3

    Odours can be a powerful memory, I know that feeling

    • @tonyhodgin1158
      @tonyhodgin1158 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @melissacooper4282
      @melissacooper4282 3 роки тому +1

      The only thing I have trouble understanding is that I know that Hawkeye repressed the incident with Billy. But how can an oder of a wet burlap sack make Hawkeye sneeze uncontrollably? Did he have the same sneezing fit when he was a child?

    • @welcometogreenaquasglen1846
      @welcometogreenaquasglen1846 3 роки тому

      @@melissacooper4282 Hawkeye's patient smelled like wet burlap when he was brought in, just like Hawkeye did when Billy pushed him into the water. That smell brought the repressed memory of his cousin's betrayal back into the forefront of Hawkeye's mind which made him psychologically sick.

  • @parasol.p
    @parasol.p 4 роки тому +5

    I could gush for so long about how this show dealt with mental health. But especially nowadays, with white-washed, over dramatized shows like 13 Reasons Why being the main representation for mental illness, I appreciate it even more. The fact that they let therapy be raw, ugly, and angry, but ultimately the solution so powerful to me. I've literally never seen that anywhere else.

    • @stephenolan5539
      @stephenolan5539 3 роки тому

      I think originally Thor was going to go back to being buff at the end of End Game but it was decided to not have him instantly recovered from his depression.

  • @molly4857
    @molly4857 2 роки тому +1

    The first time I ever saw this scene where Hawkeye starts crying at first I thought he was laughing and that I was like oh wait no he's crying oh

  • @Artemis_Odyssey
    @Artemis_Odyssey 3 роки тому +3

    Everyone finds it weird cause I’m 16 and I’ve watched probably all of these. And I own all the movies I love them 💕

  • @volumeturneddown9401
    @volumeturneddown9401 4 роки тому +1

    If this were a series today, Billy would be a cold case.

  • @melodydooley3595
    @melodydooley3595 6 років тому +22

    Those are the loudest sneezes ever.

    • @harryohrt5255
      @harryohrt5255 5 років тому +2

      You haven't heard me sneeze. Used to scare people at the pharmacy I worked at.

    • @k1productions87
      @k1productions87 5 років тому +3

      Yeah, you should hear mine, they explode. Its even worse when they don't come out, and just zip back in and sting like hell

    • @harryohrt5255
      @harryohrt5255 5 років тому

      @@k1productions87 Do they sting as bad as the time I coughed up some blackened steak into the back of my nose ?

    • @k1productions87
      @k1productions87 5 років тому

      I can't speak to that point, as I have never actually done that. I liken it to sucking water up into your nose when swimming. And I don't mean just getting a little in there, I mean SUCKING it up.
      May not kill you, but you'll wish you were dead, lol

    • @rongermanjr
      @rongermanjr 5 років тому +2

      Melody Dooley ....you haven’t heard mine. when i sneeze i take them to one extreme or the other: stifled, so it makes no noise, or screaming loudly when it happens.

  • @jprz13
    @jprz13 5 років тому +3

    This episode scared the shit out of me,did not know a man or male could cry,still does

    • @plapin3538
      @plapin3538 4 роки тому

      Jaime Perez - Especially someone with Hawkeye’s demeanor. He’s the least likely I thought to have a mental breakdown in the 4077.

  • @erics423
    @erics423 3 роки тому +1

    best show on tv

  • @matthale8090
    @matthale8090 3 роки тому +2

    I read an article, about Alda asking Arbus for psychological help or sit down sessions in actual life after the show had finished. Even though Arbus wasn't an actual physician. He had left that much of an impact on Alda during the show, he wanted to continue that with problems Alda was facing after the show.

    • @bbface21
      @bbface21 3 роки тому +2

      Sometimes talking to a friend you trust is the next best thing.