What Would You Do If Your Partner's No Longer Attracted To You? | TEA-G-I-F

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  • @jankam2418
    @jankam2418 23 дні тому +70

    If Funky was here he would ask if Al was attracted to Star!

    • @cyleaseabrook8211
      @cyleaseabrook8211 23 дні тому +15

      LMAO! He damn sure would have 😂😂😂

    • @talishak100
      @talishak100 23 дні тому +9

      Definitely would😂😂

    • @Moneystayswithme
      @Moneystayswithme 23 дні тому +12

      He would've been like "Al, were you attracted to that lady Al?" & Al would be in stitches from laughter😄 I miss their dynamics & Al's laughter.

    • @2309desertrose
      @2309desertrose 23 дні тому +1

      Yup😂

    • @marieprice6669
      @marieprice6669 22 дні тому

      😂😂😂😂 YUP 😂😂😂😂

  • @masamordior
    @masamordior 24 дні тому +64

    He should of kept that to himself.

  • @greeksun369
    @greeksun369 24 дні тому +63

    "Show me a pretty face, and I will show you someone who is tired of seeing that face." I would take amazing qualities over looks any day.

  • @rondas7772
    @rondas7772 23 дні тому +66

    People always tell women, if he's a good man, date or marry him, doesn't matter if you're attracted to him, people don't tell men that

  • @illuminatedbestchoice1042
    @illuminatedbestchoice1042 23 дні тому +27

    I agree with Armon, if you're not attracted to someone, don't be with that person.

  • @Blackgirl19743
    @Blackgirl19743 23 дні тому +39

    I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't attracted to me. That's a no go!

  • @brahmabkitty03
    @brahmabkitty03 24 дні тому +53

    She should shut him down and tell him he’s no Brad Pitt

  • @fuzzykyrra
    @fuzzykyrra 23 дні тому +32

    What I wanna know is what was his intentions behind telling his wife this information.

    • @nolovelost4020
      @nolovelost4020 22 дні тому +6

      He's a scumbag! He said it to hurt her and to make her insecure so that she never leaves him!

  • @talishak100
    @talishak100 23 дні тому +17

    He should have kept that shiii to himself. Armons explanation makes sense 😂

  • @CKB-vi8nw
    @CKB-vi8nw 23 дні тому +17

    Women just be settling. We have to do better and learn to love ourselves and be alone UNTIL the RIGHT person comes along. Tell me you’re not attracted to me. I’m not sticking around you just told me you thought I was ugly. 🤨😬

  • @WynterSantiaga
    @WynterSantiaga 23 дні тому +17

    Girl move on. Thats abusive and leaves room for cheating and to be used.

  • @Moneystayswithme
    @Moneystayswithme 24 дні тому +34

    The look Claudia gave at 2:41. Her look was screaming what I was saying in my mind. Al would know indeed😄

    • @JustMe-dn9fh
      @JustMe-dn9fh 23 дні тому +11

      Yup, Ms.Jones was unfortunately the one Al was not attracted to when they got married. It was only to hide his lifestyle and a come up for Al.

    • @LaynaSe
      @LaynaSe 23 дні тому +2

      😂😂

    • @tylerwhite4329
      @tylerwhite4329 23 дні тому +2

      LOL

    • @dollysclub
      @dollysclub 3 дні тому +1

      I was screaming too then I saw this comment and FELL OUT all over again 🤣🤣🤣

  • @harrymiller8538
    @harrymiller8538 24 дні тому +26

    I dated someone once that I liked. We were friends but couldnt see a future with marriage & kids. We broke up. Could have married but glad I didnt. Big difference in having love for someone and being in love with them. Money isnt everything when you look over at them & cringe!

  • @triciaunknown6757
    @triciaunknown6757 23 дні тому +7

    You shouldn't have to settle for someone that's not even attracted to you. That's crazy 😳

  • @sylviarosario6503
    @sylviarosario6503 23 дні тому +8

    I think Al was referring to his marriage with the lady he married from the View, Star Jones.🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

  • @Blackgirl19743
    @Blackgirl19743 23 дні тому +15

    I don't know what Al's logic is but wen u first meet someone it's the physical tht leads before anything. On wether they have a good personality, what they have to offer, n so forth. So yea I don't know what Al talking about

  • @tuonabatchelor7915
    @tuonabatchelor7915 23 дні тому +15

    I have dated some not so attractive dudes but I have always found things about them I was attracted to. Like, the more I liked and connected w them, the more attractive they were to me. There's beauty in everyone.

  • @peacepocket
    @peacepocket 23 дні тому +10

    I could t marry somebody I’m not attracted to. I could see if we once had attraction and it died out, but to have never had it at all and still get married sounds like desperation or a hidden agenda.

  • @jhordynsmith8339
    @jhordynsmith8339 23 дні тому +9

    I’m very attractive and my ex stopped being attracted to me 🙄 it happens

  • @EOrainbowlove1
    @EOrainbowlove1 23 дні тому +29

    I need to c what he looks like. For research purposes 😂

  • @carmeshacarrington6718
    @carmeshacarrington6718 23 дні тому +9

    I always value personality and character over looks. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @bandilemooka4867
    @bandilemooka4867 23 дні тому +5

    I rarely agree with Armon , today is one of those days.

  • @selinakyle2368
    @selinakyle2368 23 дні тому +14

    The white Reesa Teesa ?

  • @norrissam2634
    @norrissam2634 20 днів тому +2

    It was the synchronized head tilt from Claudia and Armon when Al said he could marry someone who was not attractive 💀🤣

    • @dollysclub
      @dollysclub 3 дні тому +1

      So shady. When I tell you I rushed to the comments. I FLEW 😂😂😂😂

  • @Mzldy1shari
    @Mzldy1shari 23 дні тому +4

    Why did he marry her if he wasn’t attracted?? 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Amazigh_MaeMae
    @Amazigh_MaeMae 23 дні тому +11

    Is Al talking about Star Jones hmmm....

  • @shan9453
    @shan9453 23 дні тому +6

    Didn't Al marry Star Jones⁉️wow😅😬😬

  • @kitawilson9809
    @kitawilson9809 18 днів тому +1

    Al please let Armon have an opinion without dismissing him...geesh!!

  • @owl63
    @owl63 21 день тому

    The way Arman just walked Al right into these traps! Claudia clocking it too😹

  • @musix2009
    @musix2009 18 днів тому +2

    AL that’s not what she meant in that sense..She was referring to him not being there and working in the senate/not being there as parenting…Not because she was unattracted to him…

  • @Lamb03
    @Lamb03 23 дні тому +2

    I don’t believe in being with someone who I’m not attracted to. I didn’t like my husband in the beginning. When he first asked me to get married I said no. I wanted to be in love. Now I’m not saying attractive as far as looks. The person can carry themselves in a manner. You can witness how they treat others. Their confidence in themselves; not conceited. If he or she has children and they take care of their children that can be attractive. All I’m saying is attractiveness doesn’t have to be looks but if I don’t feel it I can’t spend a number of years with that person. As soon as someone comes along who I am attracted to the urge to be with that individual will be a fight within myself.

  • @a.j.9843
    @a.j.9843 23 дні тому +3

    Al "Attraction" does not have refer to physical appearance.

  • @joyakahome1551
    @joyakahome1551 23 дні тому +3

    Claudia is saying she wasn't attracted to that guy who embarrassed her on TV??? Well, it may be true

  • @SimplyQuintessa
    @SimplyQuintessa 23 дні тому +2

    Al you should know….😆

  • @laurenwashington4791
    @laurenwashington4791 23 дні тому +4

    I'm with Armon the man is gay wanted to use her as a cover up

  • @shawnpreston1639
    @shawnpreston1639 23 дні тому +4

    The Michelle and Barack comparison isn’t a good one because they initially were attracted to each other in the beginning. Yes, people fall in and out of love/like with each other after being together for so long; but, this girl’s man said he wasn’t attracted to her at the very beginning and during their engagement AND even after they got married! That’s too much for my ego to handle. Sorry. Somethings you should take to your grave. He unburdened himself on her…now she has to carry that. Hell naw!

    • @poppymashamaite566
      @poppymashamaite566 23 дні тому +2

      Thank you! The comparison was not fitting.

    • @Nanafia1
      @Nanafia1 23 дні тому +3

      Thank you! Even in those 10 years, she was still attracted to him physically. She was resentful because she didn’t have access to her husband and the father of her girls due to his demanding career.

  • @cxm1211
    @cxm1211 23 дні тому +3

    I can’t date you if I am not attracted to you

  • @shanamob
    @shanamob 23 дні тому +2

    Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. I think there needs to be some attractiveness but looks definitely do not carry a marriage.

  • @MusicMcRae
    @MusicMcRae 17 днів тому +1

    She might be a good mother, a good housekeeper, a good cook. All the qualities of a good nanny I think in the end he will leave her for someone that’s much more attractive sorry.

  • @jaysspot8141
    @jaysspot8141 14 днів тому

    He would just have to show me the door sh*t don’t do me no favors! 👋🏽 ✌🏽 🏃‍♀️

  • @Dangerx2o
    @Dangerx2o 23 дні тому +1

    Why is Al always telling Armon what he can and cannot say. Armon should of shut it down like this
    Al: you cannot say just because your not attracted to someone that means you shouldn’t marry them
    Armon: yes I can I’m giving MY view on this, you already spoke…. NEXTTTT

  • @Kirwina
    @Kirwina 14 днів тому

    Folks, watch Armon and Claudia's face from 2:43, they knew he was talking about Star Jones. Dam, Star Jones is trending again.

  • @Miss992vee
    @Miss992vee 23 дні тому +2

    Lol Michelle not attracted to Obama ..😂😂😂😂😂😂 damn I thought It was the other way round.🙉🙉🙉🙉 ........I'm with armon on this one .....to some degree physical attraction is important ....I value other things tooo but I can't be married to someone I can't even look at ...😂😂😂😂

  • @deeperbeauty4147
    @deeperbeauty4147 10 днів тому +1

    I don’t think anyone should marry, date etc. anyone their not attracted to.. Although attraction can grow over time.. As women we do that too often.. Guys very rarely let attraction grow..We give guys too many chances..We need to stop ✋ doing that..

  • @Cocotulip0003
    @Cocotulip0003 23 дні тому +2

    Arman😂!!

  • @kionaofoldstones4263
    @kionaofoldstones4263 19 днів тому

    Al just confessed without saying any names 😂 we know he married Star for other reasons.

  • @THEONENONLYMJO
    @THEONENONLYMJO 23 дні тому +1

    After 12 years is crazy... I could understand if she gained weight during the pregnancy. But to actually say out loud He had to pray to God to be attracted to her is wild as fk lol

  • @TheJola106
    @TheJola106 15 днів тому

    The closet makes them crazy

  • @FranBenjamin-yg7qt
    @FranBenjamin-yg7qt 21 день тому

    ex keeps reminding me of what I use to be, look like, weight, etc......forgetting that we all age differently.....we're 48 and 57 respectively.....I told him I will never be a size 1/2 again wear biking shorts with heels, have a long neck, resemble charlie baltimore again, etc...... his list of what I use to be or have (nice car, earn 80k+, etc.) was loooooooong smh....I went to his level and return roasted him.......🙅‍♀

  • @mamasharon9193
    @mamasharon9193 24 дні тому +1

    I agree totally with Al❤

    • @selinakyle2368
      @selinakyle2368 23 дні тому +3

      Yeah he was married to star jones hmm

  • @kristenlewek3594
    @kristenlewek3594 24 дні тому +2

    That's fat shaming and being disrespectful to somebody because if you felt that way you shouldn't have said it and you felt that way you shouldn't have had a marriage you felt that way you shouldn't waste your time you felt that way you shouldn't have took the house if you felt that way you shouldn't have children if you felt that way you shouldn't even wasted your time if that's how you you felt wasted her time you basically shamed her

  • @winternightsky6945
    @winternightsky6945 23 дні тому +1

    If he treated her well during the time she didn't know how he truly felt, then she just needs to keep it pushing with the marriage. He could of kept that to himself though.
    However, I'm curious why he married her if he wasn't attracted to her🤔 Majority of the ones that do that, the mate was providing financial benefit, they felt pressured by family/church, were desperate not to be single/or the relationship helped them disguise their sexuality.
    But then again, he could be at the beginning of starting to play mind games with her. This is an odd one for sure.
    But the older i get an don't have many options to pick from on a mate, so looks aren't everything but I do want someone I'm attracted to. When younger I couldn't even be a golddigger or prostitute because I couldn't imagine trying to kiss/have sex with someone I don't find attractive.

  • @SophiaGoodThings
    @SophiaGoodThings 20 днів тому

    Ok Claudia!! Al married a woman....that he wasn't attracted to. 😬🥴

  • @Kirwina
    @Kirwina 14 днів тому

    Why be with someone you are not attractive to?

  • @baebell3670
    @baebell3670 22 дні тому

    Why was he with her if he wasn’t attracted to her? I don’t get it 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Roc2love23
    @Roc2love23 21 день тому

    So marry the maid Al!

  • @emanualcarr7408
    @emanualcarr7408 24 дні тому +2

    Cheat on them! Everyone should have a contingency plan should things not work. Every man should have at least 2 side women, just in case. NO kids and NO marriage for this very reason. Money over partner all day.

    • @ukan.536
      @ukan.536 24 дні тому

      The wives need a couple side men of their own. Just in case.

    • @queenprincess4life
      @queenprincess4life 23 дні тому +1

      And according to your logic every wife should have two side dudes just in case.

    • @sagba9473
      @sagba9473 21 день тому

      @@queenprincess4lifeexactly

  • @nicoleblu5764
    @nicoleblu5764 23 дні тому

    I know people like to say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but all you just proved my point you marrying someone that could benefit you it's like a gold digger marrying a man does she not attracted to and learn to love the man later she doing with benefits her and Al u marrying who ever benfits u marry the man and love him later

  • @kaosaelee3322
    @kaosaelee3322 23 дні тому +2

    I agree with Al... Being together is not about judging people by it's cover.. homeless people have more success realitionship 😅

  • @86msmason
    @86msmason 23 дні тому +1

    He’s a narcissist

  • @bookbag6432
    @bookbag6432 23 дні тому +2

    Men and women are different. A woman can get over bad looks, men cannot. He most likely cheated on that woman and that is why you SHOULD not act like a wife, as a gf. She was probably cooking cleaning and paying half the bills, and he married her for convenience. She said on the video, she was married to someone. Not that she still is. Stay woke ladies!

  • @mz.punkin7669
    @mz.punkin7669 23 дні тому

    My mother told us always keep yourself looking as good as you did the day yall met. All my ex's had a hard time when I left them people say the still in Love with you, no matter who there with.

    • @joezoe7116
      @joezoe7116 18 днів тому +1

      That’s crazy ..I don’t know a single person in a long term relationship that would say they always look good every single day …ridiculous..if you with someone that can’t be with you at your worst that’s not a solid relationship..that wasn’t clever advice

  • @SB-tc2jr
    @SB-tc2jr 23 дні тому

    wait - what caused the confession? why did he spill those beans? I think I would have taken that to my grave.
    These multi-tasking videos (doing hair) just takes me out in a bad way. I don't like when they do that!

  • @joedavenport5293
    @joedavenport5293 24 дні тому +8

    If he had money, let him cheat in peace as long as I was taken care of. If he were broke then I would leave.

    • @ukan.536
      @ukan.536 24 дні тому +8

      You don't value yourself at all.

    • @kilortoe1060
      @kilortoe1060 24 дні тому +6

      If you think money is happiness you have a problem

    • @zeala1
      @zeala1 23 дні тому

      “Cheat in peace” is an oxymoronic statement.

  • @lookhowshegobbledthat
    @lookhowshegobbledthat 24 дні тому +18

    Break up and hit the gym.

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 24 дні тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 you just had to.