Unfortunately that's the truth Nicole Ackerman.....she was the best wife for him.....and she was totally loyal.....Brenda let her so called friends convince her to betray him.....and like Lois told both of them, once it not LMB business it wasn't theirs....Brenda should of listened.
Not true! L**L** was never put in a position for us to see if she was a good Mob wife. She never face getting shot at on vacation, shot at in the shower, kidnapped, goons busting in on her and Sonny. So how did she know how to be a Mob wife? Please she didn't grow up with her father. She was sent away at 13 for having a baby. This chick was clueless!
@@MyDymin she wasn't that clueless hun....and even though she was sent away as you said, that didn't mean that she didn't know the ins and out of her father's business....she knew to hide the book when the cops came to search.....and most importantly.....she knew how to keep her mouth shut....unlike brenda who kept everyone elses secrets except Sonny's.
@@sandrajohnson4778 Hiding a book and keeping her mouth shut makes her a good Mob wife, ok 🤣🤣🤣. What secrets of Sonny did Brenda tell? Everyone on PC knew he was a Mobster or assumed anyway.
@@MyDymin Brenda was to pushy....the only reason they shot behind them in Puerto Rico was because she couldn't mind her own business and followed sonny and got caught.....does that make her a good mob wife?....she had a job to do with the concert but she couldn't help follow sonny to see what he was up to.
Actually re-watching all this many years later I blame Sonny for 90% of it.. Yes Lily is delusional about Sonny and her future with him, but Sonny married Lilly to save his own butt from prison. His crimes caught up with him and this was his only way out.. He never did any of this to spare Brenda which was the line he tried to spin to her down the road..
Can’t stand Froggy Face lily. But she did make a better wife for sonny only becaz she was born into the Mob. Brenda should have excepted sonny being affiliated with the Mob and decided to be with him or not. But should have never warn the Wire!!! It was a Betrayal to Sonny. He even defended her to Lily until that moment. But Sonny was always Abusive. Idk what any women sees in him? Yes he’s hot but look what he did to j Karen she was only 26 when he got her hooked on drugs and stripping!!! What kind of a man does that? And he was always yelling @her and man handling her in front Froggy face Lily. Brenda should have known better . She saw him tell @karen too
When you look back this was a very abusive relationship. At no point did Sonny ever deserve to be with Brenda. He got together with her when she was very young and vulnerable. And unfortunately he taught her some very bad lessons about love and commitment. That basically love was supposed to hurt and be painful. That loyalty above all meant everything despite the other partner being a complete screwup and hurting their partner.. This caused Brenda to constantly try and prove her loyalty. It was incredibly unhealthy.
Yeah, I don’t think Brenda and Sonny are the super couple because neither one truly accepts to the other. Instead Carly and Sonny accept one another and Brenda and Jax accept one another.
@@BLTKellys Pretty much.. She was around 18 when they met and Sonny was around 30.. She had some flings but never been in a serious committment before.. Sonny was experienced but deeply damaged from his childhood and unable to love Brenda in a healthy way..
@@itwillbeokay5475 Same I think he was better with Carly because they are both terrible people that it works. Brenda was better with Jax. My opinion on them might be because I did not watch when it originally aired but years later.
Man I loved the Brenda v. Lily fights...ugh GH messed up when they ended this drama!!! I hated Lily's dumb ass!!!! I wanted to see more of Brenda beating her down. Ught would have been EPIC.
I liked them, too, when I was watching as a kid, but looking at it from a grown woman's perspective they were both childish. I actually liked Lily, just not with Sonny. I preferred her with Garcia, who seemed to care for her (he was crushed when she was killed) and could have definitely given her a better life since she wanted to be a teacher. Brenda and Sonny were so dysfunctional, but they are End Game for me, no matter how stupid the writers have their characters behave (Sonny choosing power over Brenda? Please.).
@@DarlingNikki2 Funny as I've grown older the more I see Lily as a complete psychopath lol. I think she's psychotic especially the way she "Single White Female'd" Brenda's life all jealous going after her boyfriend. She's crazy! Her and Sonny's only connection is Lily's mob ties other than that they don't have any chemistry. I wanted Lily to live and her lose her baby which would trigger her to show her true face and for Sonny to question everything he thought he knew about her. I do think her and Garcia should have been paired but ultimately I think they should have had her flip out and show her true psycho nature, cuz she's crazy as a loon lol. Her own dad pointed out her hypocrisy, asking him to help her marry the kind of mobster she always said she hated...which led me to realize Lily loves power just as much as Sonny and her dad and her character would have never lasted with Garcia. Plus the actress Lily Melgar plays a much better villain (I've seen her in other stuff). I also wanted it to be Lily who went after Sonny and Brenda after Sonny kills her dad instead of Harry in the catacombs. I did want her to hook up with Garcia, but ultimately I don't think Lily was a "good girl" and would have wanted her daddy's power. I would have had her run off to head her dad's organization to later come back for Sonny the way Alcalzar did. ...and Sonny needed to see that women aren't one dimensional, either purely good or purely bad. Lily was an archetype for Sonny's mother who Sonny had major issues with and dealing with her as a not so good woman would have been a good point of character growth for Sonny. I don't see Sonny and Brenda as dysfunctional honestly, just two people dealing with each other and growing together. By 97 they were on a really good trajectory but unfortunately the actors decided to move on...Plus drama is necessary for TV. Without drama there would be no point of watching...
@@sageadvice157 Very well put and you're right I know someone in actual life who got their father to convince a guy to marry her because she was offering to help pay for his schooling and she turned out to be a malignant narcissist and continues to hold over his head that she helped him - now she trapped him with kids and gets to sit at home and not work or ever finished school which was suppose to be the plan but really it was just to sit at home and pop out kids because narcs are lazy! She continually abuses and manipulates everyone in her orbit. he is regretting it but hides it as best he can. never let someone give you anything with that kind of ticket price - you very well might regret it! evil and disgusting and so I get triggered watching lily. you're right, it would have been interesting to see her be the villain she is underneath! Garcia is too good for her!
@@MsLuvmusic81 What sane person sets up a deal to marry someone by force? Why didn't Lily just allow Sonny to be grateful and then choose her on his own (he wouldn't have but still). What I really find weird is that people called Brenda desperate when Lily is the most desperate woman in GH history. She didn't even build a connection with Sonny, she just went straight to her dad because she saw him reconnecting with Brenda and then gave a desperate assed speech about how she didn't need to be loved back. That was way more desperate than Brenda getting lost in that snowstorm and Sonny chasing her to save her. Women hated Lily because she's trash and the type of woman most women don't respect or like so the visceral hatred toward the character is not surprising. What I can say is the arranged marriage for power consolidation or protection is classic mob stuff so I liked the storyline, just wished they didn't deify her character cuz she was cray.
@@sageadvice157 exactly! she was njo saint - she was a snake in the grass! brenda and sonny loved each other and they both did things because of their love for each other - what is lily's excuse? She wanted what Brenda had - end of story
Brenda was the pop-up QUEEN! She was at them folks house on the regular with the ISH!!! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 yep! She probably got a key
Carly is her karma
@@MychaelJohnson-yf4ue C**** definitely not important enough to be anybody karna.
Lmao 😂
Brenda would pop up singing, " Surprise, Surprise.... SURPRISE SURPRISE!" 🎉😂
Excellent scene. General Hospital was an excellent show.
Lily: don’t raise your voice! It isn’t necessary!
How polite and cute ❤
Haha petty Brenda, leaving the door open on the way out
That aggravated Sonny even more 😂
Lilly told Brenda the truth about Sonny's options. Lisen to the mean, disrespectful way he talks to her in front of Lilly..
The background music was 🔥 back then
Never understand how Lily could marry him given all of this
I know this is unpopular but Lily was the best wife for Sonny because she knew how to be a mob wife.
Unfortunately that's the truth Nicole Ackerman.....she was the best wife for him.....and she was totally loyal.....Brenda let her so called friends convince her to betray him.....and like Lois told both of them, once it not LMB business it wasn't theirs....Brenda should of listened.
Not true! L**L** was never put in a position for us to see if she was a good Mob wife. She never face getting shot at on vacation, shot at in the shower, kidnapped, goons busting in on her and Sonny. So how did she know how to be a Mob wife? Please she didn't grow up with her father. She was sent away at 13 for having a baby. This chick was clueless!
@@MyDymin she wasn't that clueless hun....and even though she was sent away as you said, that didn't mean that she didn't know the ins and out of her father's business....she knew to hide the book when the cops came to search.....and most importantly.....she knew how to keep her mouth shut....unlike brenda who kept everyone elses secrets except Sonny's.
@@sandrajohnson4778 Hiding a book and keeping her mouth shut makes her a good Mob wife, ok 🤣🤣🤣. What secrets of Sonny did Brenda tell? Everyone on PC knew he was a Mobster or assumed anyway.
@@MyDymin Brenda was to pushy....the only reason they shot behind them in Puerto Rico was because she couldn't mind her own business and followed sonny and got caught.....does that make her a good mob wife?....she had a job to do with the concert but she couldn't help follow sonny to see what he was up to.
Brenda was soooo mean to her.
Brenda had good reason to be mean to her
She had it coming!
@@sdub7045 Brenda’s such a bitch.
@@BLTKellys Nope
Brutally honest, Lilly truly was living in a fantasy world
Lily was so annoying
lily is putting herself through so much pain by forcing sonny to be with her
Actually re-watching all this many years later I blame Sonny for 90% of it.. Yes Lily is delusional about Sonny and her future with him, but Sonny married Lilly to save his own butt from prison. His crimes caught up with him and this was his only way out.. He never did any of this to spare Brenda which was the line he tried to spin to her down the road..
Neisha you are so good to us! Thank you!!!!
You are so welcome!
Agreed! Neisha, you are LIFE!!!
@@jasoncarly thank you for giving us these videos
Word!!! Thank you!
Looking back. Brenda was unbearable.
I like lily now that I'm older brenda is a u know what!
Classic GH❤️
If anyone comes to MY HOUSE and raise her voice at me will be thrown out by her hair!!
Can’t stand Froggy Face lily. But she did make a better wife for sonny only becaz she was born into the Mob. Brenda should have excepted sonny being affiliated with the Mob and decided to be with him or not. But should have never warn the Wire!!! It was a Betrayal to Sonny. He even defended her to Lily until that moment. But Sonny was always Abusive. Idk what any women sees in him? Yes he’s hot but look what he did to j Karen she was only 26 when he got her hooked on drugs and stripping!!! What kind of a man does that? And he was always yelling @her and man handling her in front Froggy face Lily. Brenda should have known better . She saw him tell @karen too
I don't know what you call what Sonny and Brenda has but it wasn't love. GH just couldn't let her and Jax be endgame. SMH
Who wants to be endgame with Jax anyway lol
@@GLBizzie Ooook!
J** was a POS! He only wanted Brenda to one up Sonny. He just lied and manipulated her, feeding her fantasies. Embraced her at the altar. Fk J**!
Did lily know about the deal between sonny and her father, I don't remember
Yes she asked her dad to save him
But what about the marriage part of it, did she know her father told Sonny to marry her@@tanyajackson9444
@@tanyajackson9444 But did she know about the marriage part of it, that her father told Sonny to marry her
I feel sorry for both women. Sonny did this.
Why would anyone argue over this subpar, average dude?
Brenda is absolutely beautiful
When you look back this was a very abusive relationship. At no point did Sonny ever deserve to be with Brenda. He got together with her when she was very young and vulnerable. And unfortunately he taught her some very bad lessons about love and commitment. That basically love was supposed to hurt and be painful. That loyalty above all meant everything despite the other partner being a complete screwup and hurting their partner.. This caused Brenda to constantly try and prove her loyalty. It was incredibly unhealthy.
Yeah, I don’t think Brenda and Sonny are the super couple because neither one truly accepts to the other. Instead Carly and Sonny accept one another and Brenda and Jax accept one another.
Sonny groomed her.
@@itwillbeokay5475 I'd hve to agree with you ...Brenda and Jax suit each other....they were both sickening and whiny and just blah.
@@BLTKellys
Pretty much.. She was around 18 when they met and Sonny was around 30.. She had some flings but never been in a serious committment before.. Sonny was experienced but deeply damaged from his childhood and unable to love Brenda in a healthy way..
@@itwillbeokay5475 Same I think he was better with Carly because they are both terrible people that it works. Brenda was better with Jax. My opinion on them might be because I did not watch when it originally aired but years later.
I love how Brenda walks out and leaves the door open..It was her telling Sonny that it's not to late to walk out of it!
"ASK HIM", Lilly's thinking, "I can't, I know what he'll say"
He will say nothing.. Sonny always played that game. You have to beat the truth out of him, and he makes you feel guilty for expecting honesty..
2:51-2:57, all of the lies Lily had been telling herself, start coming apart on her
Yeah that rocked her when Brenda said that.
Nice acting Sonny lol
Man I loved the Brenda v. Lily fights...ugh GH messed up when they ended this drama!!! I hated Lily's dumb ass!!!! I wanted to see more of Brenda beating her down. Ught would have been EPIC.
I liked them, too, when I was watching as a kid, but looking at it from a grown woman's perspective they were both childish. I actually liked Lily, just not with Sonny. I preferred her with Garcia, who seemed to care for her (he was crushed when she was killed) and could have definitely given her a better life since she wanted to be a teacher. Brenda and Sonny were so dysfunctional, but they are End Game for me, no matter how stupid the writers have their characters behave (Sonny choosing power over Brenda? Please.).
@@DarlingNikki2 Funny as I've grown older the more I see Lily as a complete psychopath lol. I think she's psychotic especially the way she
"Single White Female'd" Brenda's life all jealous going after her boyfriend. She's crazy! Her and Sonny's only connection is Lily's mob ties other than that they don't have any chemistry. I wanted Lily to live and her lose her baby which would trigger her to show her true face and for Sonny to question everything he thought he knew about her. I do think her and Garcia should have been paired but ultimately I think they should have had her flip out and show her true psycho nature, cuz she's crazy as a loon lol. Her own dad pointed out her hypocrisy, asking him to help her marry the kind of mobster she always said she hated...which led me to realize Lily loves power just as much as Sonny and her dad and her character would have never lasted with Garcia. Plus the actress Lily Melgar plays a much better villain (I've seen her in other stuff). I also wanted it to be Lily who went after Sonny and Brenda after Sonny kills her dad instead of Harry in the catacombs. I did want her to hook up with Garcia, but ultimately I don't think Lily was a "good girl" and would have wanted her daddy's power. I would have had her run off to head her dad's organization to later come back for Sonny the way Alcalzar did. ...and Sonny needed to see that women aren't one dimensional, either purely good or purely bad. Lily was an archetype for Sonny's mother who Sonny had major issues with and dealing with her as a not so good woman would have been a good point of character growth for Sonny. I don't see Sonny and Brenda as dysfunctional honestly, just two people dealing with each other and growing together. By 97 they were on a really good trajectory but unfortunately the actors decided to move on...Plus drama is necessary for TV. Without drama there would be no point of watching...
@@sageadvice157 Very well put and you're right I know someone in actual life who got their father to convince a guy to marry her because she was offering to help pay for his schooling and she turned out to be a malignant narcissist and continues to hold over his head that she helped him - now she trapped him with kids and gets to sit at home and not work or ever finished school which was suppose to be the plan but really it was just to sit at home and pop out kids because narcs are lazy! She continually abuses and manipulates everyone in her orbit. he is regretting it but hides it as best he can. never let someone give you anything with that kind of ticket price - you very well might regret it! evil and disgusting and so I get triggered watching lily. you're right, it would have been interesting to see her be the villain she is underneath! Garcia is too good for her!
@@MsLuvmusic81 What sane person sets up a deal to marry someone by force? Why didn't Lily just allow Sonny to be grateful and then choose her on his own (he wouldn't have but still). What I really find weird is that people called Brenda desperate when Lily is the most desperate woman in GH history. She didn't even build a connection with Sonny, she just went straight to her dad because she saw him reconnecting with Brenda and then gave a desperate assed speech about how she didn't need to be loved back. That was way more desperate than Brenda getting lost in that snowstorm and Sonny chasing her to save her. Women hated Lily because she's trash and the type of woman most women don't respect or like so the visceral hatred toward the character is not surprising. What I can say is the arranged marriage for power consolidation or protection is classic mob stuff so I liked the storyline, just wished they didn't deify her character cuz she was cray.
@@sageadvice157 exactly! she was njo saint - she was a snake in the grass! brenda and sonny loved each other and they both did things because of their love for each other - what is lily's excuse? She wanted what Brenda had - end of story
Lily’s mother died trying to give birth to her giant empty head.
😂😂😂