I absolutely agree with the gentleman. You cannot have your mother that close and have a healthy relationship. When the mother is like she is, she's gonna be like he said. They're all the time in their business now. If you have a mother or a mother-in-law that can live next door to you and let you live are alive. That's one thing. I absolutely agree with him and that mother. Was wrong. That was childish. He's better off if he find someone else because he will not be able to just have the lady his girlfriend. You can have a good relationship with your parents. Bet it's time for her to break ties and still have her mother. The heat comes first😊
NO HE IS NOT! He was disrespectful to the Mom who Lives by the moral code! iF he wants to move in with her and have sex then why not just get married? He said he loves the daughter so what’s stippling him from marriage first?
@@joannmetz4413I think both could have reacted better, but it’s an excuse to be clingy and throw a drink at her boyfriend. I’d be mortified in his shoes 😢
It’s what happens when you are stuck between 2 worlds unfortunately. It’s a terrible thing having your family carve out a life for you, when you want to have your own.
He’s got every right to be angry! No way. Run dude! It’s never gonna change, she’ll never give you any space especially not next door. Sunne seems super nice but so much so that she’s a doormat for her mom. It’s wonderful to have a close relationship with your mom or dad but those relationships are completely different and separate than your love relationship with your partner. That relationship needs its own space and memories without interference from the outside. That mom is smothering and will emotionally manipulate her daughter forever. You can already see it. She needs to apologize to Scott. Make things right THEN talk to her mom. Her mom will always be her mom. You can see she’s not gonna go anywhere because she’s too codependent. She’ll come around. Live life on your own and on your own terms but continue to foster good habits and relationships with others. She’ll never be happy unless she just takes a leap of faith.
I think the daughter is an adult and fully capable of making her own decisions ... therefore the mother does not have a voice unless the daughter asks for it ... and I do think that if she lived next door that she would be over at their apartment continuously ... essentially there would be zero boundaries ... and 'only' because of this I believe he should have been consulted .... because 'now' he is going to be living with her mother ... as an adult he does have rights in regards to who he lives with ... and let me be clear if the gender roles were reversed, I would be saying the exact same thing .... as a couple, you consult with one another ...... a mother or father is not a part of the 'dynamics of a healthy relationship; between 2 consenting adults .... if there are extentuating circumstances such as abuse or physical and ./ or mental health challenges perhaps .... 3rd party relationships are not healthy ... boundaries, healthy ones, are required to have a healthy relationship ... I wish you both a healthy and successful relationship - and it seems that this one requires some hard 'emotion-filled' decisions ... Many Blessings ...
This is your fault. Your mom had a life, made decisions that she wanted to make. Nothing wrong with including your parents in certain processes…but allowing them to take ownership of your process is toxic. Don’t know many modern partners that would be ok with that.
It’s tough because there are some cultural tensions here too, which needs to dealt with properly. Some sacrifices will take place. It’s so hard to see this, because there are clear violations of boundaries. I feel so bad for the guy because it is not his duty to deal with it, as it’s not his world, and the daughter needs to know what she can have and what she can’t. It’s painful btw, navigating this type of life- I’m just ranting now lol
Everyone wants to believe their children are virgins. (Watch "That Girl" and you will see a virgin adult couple.) Scott did not need to be rude to the mother, and the mother did not need to throw anything in Scott's face. Sunny should have sat down and talked to both of them individually and discussion her decision and all this could have been prevented.
Alright so I can see from everyone’s perspective, but in the end I’m on the boyfriends side. They are adults and should talk like adults. If the daughter want to move in with the boyfriend she should be allowed too because she’s an adult, she’s allowed to make that decision, even if you disagree you can’t tell her what to do at that point. The daughter also didn’t make the right choice with not telling the boyfriend beforehand about the mother becoming neighbors. It sounds like he knew what type of person the mother is and could predict what was going to happen because of that. As he said he wants to have a separate relationship with both of them, not the mother being apart of his relationship with his own girlfriend. it can become overwhelming and even smothering a bit which is something he doesn’t want to deal with, and he has every right to feel that way. Especially if the girlfriend is making plans behind his back with her over protective mother, this is something all three should have discussed from the start, not all of them talking about it long after the plan was made. If the boyfriend now wants to break up I wouldn’t blame him in the slightest as it may be helping him get away of what could later become a toxic relationship
Yeah it dosnt work out for everyone I lived next to my mother an we had to move to another town an that I hav distance from my mother now we get along alot better ❤🥰🥰
No one here is in the right or the wrong. IMO it’s the fact that no one seems to be willing to come to an understanding. Her mom is protective of her, and that isn’t a bad thing; parents have to keep their children safe from danger. But I feel like she’s going a bit over the bar with it. She’s not being open to listening to compromise from what I can see, and she’s being quite hostile. Her boyfriend wants to have a private life with her, and that’s not bad either; when the days come, the days come, and every person has to make their own story when it happens. Everyone’s gotta live, and sometimes people just don’t want a Nosy Nick around a lot. He’s also being a bit dismissive of times. I’m concluding that both are right on some terms and wrong on others. It demands that they come to an agreement on something. If they were communicating in a polite and respectful way, then they could have their points across and see ways to resolve it and maintain a good relationship. That’s just my thoughts. I wanna hear what you all think :)
The daughter KNOWS how her Mom feels about living together yet she springs it on her that she’s moving in with her boyfriend? Then her boyfriend is such a disrespectful brat to her mom! How does he know that the mom would be over at their apartment constantly? IF he explected the mom to accept their relationship he should have been a little bit more polite to her! That’s the trouble with younger people nowadays, they think just because it isn’t some year in the past that morals don’t matter but they do! IF they want to move in together then get married FIRST!
Her mother is smothering her. She is never gonna find a partner with her mother involved.
I absolutely agree with the gentleman. You cannot have your mother that close and have a healthy relationship. When the mother is like she is, she's gonna be like he said. They're all the time in their business now. If you have a mother or a mother-in-law that can live next door to you and let you live are alive. That's one thing. I absolutely agree with him and that mother. Was wrong. That was childish. He's better off if he find someone else because he will not be able to just have the lady his girlfriend. You can have a good relationship with your parents. Bet it's time for her to break ties and still have her mother. The heat comes first😊
He is 100000% in the right
NO HE IS NOT! He was disrespectful to the Mom who
Lives by the moral code! iF he wants to move in with her and have sex then why not just get married? He said he loves the daughter so what’s stippling him from marriage first?
hm
@@joannmetz4413how about mom disrespecting him! Respect goes both ways.
@@12freddyscoming4youagreed ❤
@@joannmetz4413I think both could have reacted better, but it’s an excuse to be clingy and throw a drink at her boyfriend. I’d be mortified in his shoes 😢
I'm on the guys side. She is never going to be able to be her own person. Ever.
And this is why we dont lie children 😂 when he said this isn't 1846 i died🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s what happens when you are stuck between 2 worlds unfortunately. It’s a terrible thing having your family carve out a life for you, when you want to have your own.
He’s got every right to be angry! No way. Run dude! It’s never gonna change, she’ll never give you any space especially not next door. Sunne seems super nice but so much so that she’s a doormat for her mom. It’s wonderful to have a close relationship with your mom or dad but those relationships are completely different and separate than your love relationship with your partner. That relationship needs its own space and memories without interference from the outside. That mom is smothering and will emotionally manipulate her daughter forever. You can already see it. She needs to apologize to Scott. Make things right THEN talk to her mom. Her mom will always be her mom. You can see she’s not gonna go anywhere because she’s too codependent. She’ll come around. Live life on your own and on your own terms but continue to foster good habits and relationships with others. She’ll never be happy unless she just takes a leap of faith.
Her mom shouldn’t have done that he is right it’s not what it used to be to be anymore.
I’d be mortified and in tears if I had a boyfriend and had this discussion with that reaction 😢 I’d have to go outside and cry
Noo, this woman needs to cut it loose a bit.... Her daughter is old enough!!!
“She’s going to be our neighbor” 🤣🤣
I think the daughter is an adult and fully capable of making her own decisions ... therefore the mother does not have a voice unless the daughter asks for it ... and I do think that if she lived next door that she would be over at their apartment continuously ... essentially there would be zero boundaries ... and 'only' because of this I believe he should have been consulted .... because 'now' he is going to be living with her mother ... as an adult he does have rights in regards to who he lives with ... and let me be clear if the gender roles were reversed, I would be saying the exact same thing .... as a couple, you consult with one another ...... a mother or father is not a part of the 'dynamics of a healthy relationship; between 2 consenting adults .... if there are extentuating circumstances such as abuse or physical and ./ or mental health challenges perhaps .... 3rd party relationships are not healthy ... boundaries, healthy ones, are required to have a healthy relationship ... I wish you both a healthy and successful relationship - and it seems that this one requires some hard 'emotion-filled' decisions ... Many Blessings ...
This is your fault. Your mom had a life, made decisions that she wanted to make. Nothing wrong with including your parents in certain processes…but allowing them to take ownership of your process is toxic. Don’t know many modern partners that would be ok with that.
It’s tough because there are some cultural tensions here too, which needs to dealt with properly. Some sacrifices will take place. It’s so hard to see this, because there are clear violations of boundaries. I feel so bad for the guy because it is not his duty to deal with it, as it’s not his world, and the daughter needs to know what she can have and what she can’t. It’s painful btw, navigating this type of life- I’m just ranting now lol
Everyone wants to believe their children are virgins. (Watch "That Girl" and you will see a virgin adult couple.) Scott did not need to be rude to the mother, and the mother did not need to throw anything in Scott's face. Sunny should have sat down and talked to both of them individually and discussion her decision and all this could have been prevented.
Alright so I can see from everyone’s perspective, but in the end I’m on the boyfriends side. They are adults and should talk like adults. If the daughter want to move in with the boyfriend she should be allowed too because she’s an adult, she’s allowed to make that decision, even if you disagree you can’t tell her what to do at that point. The daughter also didn’t make the right choice with not telling the boyfriend beforehand about the mother becoming neighbors. It sounds like he knew what type of person the mother is and could predict what was going to happen because of that. As he said he wants to have a separate relationship with both of them, not the mother being apart of his relationship with his own girlfriend. it can become overwhelming and even smothering a bit which is something he doesn’t want to deal with, and he has every right to feel that way. Especially if the girlfriend is making plans behind his back with her over protective mother, this is something all three should have discussed from the start, not all of them talking about it long after the plan was made. If the boyfriend now wants to break up I wouldn’t blame him in the slightest as it may be helping him get away of what could later become a toxic relationship
Yeah it dosnt work out for everyone I lived next to my mother an we had to move to another town an that I hav distance from my mother now we get along alot better ❤🥰🥰
If you wanna marry from a different culture... YOU MUST FIRST STUDY THEIR TRADITIONS AND SEE IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT.
She needs to find a man that shows her mom more respect
Yes this! He will treat her even worse further in to the relationship.
Scott run
Aww 8:23 how embarrassing
And who's the one she went after in that moment? Tells you all you need to know
No one here is in the right or the wrong. IMO it’s the fact that no one seems to be willing to come to an understanding.
Her mom is protective of her, and that isn’t a bad thing; parents have to keep their children safe from danger. But I feel like she’s going a bit over the bar with it. She’s not being open to listening to compromise from what I can see, and she’s being quite hostile.
Her boyfriend wants to have a private life with her, and that’s not bad either; when the days come, the days come, and every person has to make their own story when it happens. Everyone’s gotta live, and sometimes people just don’t want a Nosy Nick around a lot. He’s also being a bit dismissive of times.
I’m concluding that both are right on some terms and wrong on others. It demands that they come to an agreement on something. If they were communicating in a polite and respectful way, then they could have their points across and see ways to resolve it and maintain a good relationship.
That’s just my thoughts. I wanna hear what you all think :)
😅😅😅😅 She speaks Arabic wow😊😊😊 7:30 😮
I agree with mom
What 😂😂😂😂
I call shade this is fake, she said she didn't raised her like that yet she looks like a coloring book with all her tattoos, yeah right!.
Mom always right about stuff
😮wow
He has no respect for her. And her momma might be over barring. But her momma cares. She will come around. But I agree this guy is an ass!
Good mom
The daughter KNOWS how her Mom feels about living together yet she springs it on her that she’s moving in with her boyfriend?
Then her boyfriend is such a disrespectful brat to her mom!
How does he know that the mom would be over at their apartment constantly?
IF he explected the mom to accept their relationship he should have been a little bit more polite to her!
That’s the trouble with younger people nowadays, they think just because it isn’t some year in the past that morals don’t matter but they do!
IF they want to move in together then get married FIRST!