18 Months of Being A Parent

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  • @Nicole-km3bd
    @Nicole-km3bd Рік тому +444

    No exaggeration…Alfie looks at Zoe in such a special way since they announced her pregnancy. In this video when she’s talking and he’s looking at her and listening…the WAY he looks at her is amazing. So happy for their little family 😊

  • @007luanamartins
    @007luanamartins Рік тому +498

    I'm literally crying at how you describe your moments with Ottie.. It's so different when a man wants to be a father

  • @journiepope
    @journiepope Рік тому +237

    Seeing a father who loves their daughter this much just makes my heart burst. Ottie is the luckiest girl in the world having two parents who openly adore her and care for her this much. Thank you so much for sharing these moments with us❤️

  • @ashlynreder1417
    @ashlynreder1417 Рік тому +212

    Why did the title and thumbnail make me emotional?? 😂 man, we’ve all really grown up together here ❤

  • @cindys1641
    @cindys1641 Рік тому +205

    The talk about her being the nice bossy cousin while directing the family play was HILARIOUS to me. Thank you both for sharing her. We love all three of you so much ❤

  • @Jen_xxii
    @Jen_xxii Рік тому +246

    love it when both zoe and alfie post a vlog at the same time😭🫶🏻

  • @laurazanzinger5849
    @laurazanzinger5849 Рік тому +135

    Currently watching with a sleepy 5 week old on my chest. I’m already freaking out about how fast time is flying by, but equally excited for all the things that are to come during that first year 🥲 can’t wait for her to learn to walk and say her first words :) Ottie is the cutest!

    • @AlfieDeyesVlogs
      @AlfieDeyesVlogs  Рік тому +67

      Soak up all the moments! You're going to blink and your little one will be running around haha

  • @michelle_mitch_p
    @michelle_mitch_p Рік тому +36

    When I saw the title I thought I’ve been a mum for 34 years. 5 kids and I can truly say I absolutely love it and now a grand parent I get to continue to love it ❤ also I agree with you about shopify , I have my business on shopify and life is so much easier xx

  • @cdh5068
    @cdh5068 Рік тому +62

    We have an 18 month old daughter too and my husband and I were just talking about how the tiredness isn’t what we anticipated. I always thought parents were tired because their kids didn’t sleep well, but we lucked out with a great sleeper and we’re still tired. It’s just always being “on”

  • @justbecauseitsbeauty
    @justbecauseitsbeauty Рік тому +16

    Ottie saying mummy and daddy just melts your heart ❤

  • @pinkbettas587
    @pinkbettas587 Рік тому +31

    Ottie now being able to speak and say full words is so cute! She’s all grown up 😢❤

  • @jlongino51823
    @jlongino51823 Рік тому +17

    I’m recovering from surgery. I’ve been a mom since 2001. I just have a son. I can’t believe he’s almost 22. I divorced his dad when he was just turning 3 and it was just us two. I can’t believe I did it by myself and he’s now a productive man with his own life. I’m proud of him.
    He’s left handed and I’m not. Teaching him about throwing and catching and all of that was easy. Tying his shoes was the biggest obstacle for me. I got a childrens book at the library and it took me 3 weeks and lots of videos to teach him because it was backwards for me.
    We did it together though.
    It goes by so fast.

  • @victoriasavory6
    @victoriasavory6 Рік тому +11

    Zoe’s comment of re-living without postpartum pain - 100%! Wish I could have done this xx

  • @007luanamartins
    @007luanamartins Рік тому +40

    I remember when Alfie used to say "I really want to be a young dad, super cool with tattoos, skating with my kid..." and guess what? You are it! Isn't is amazing when you find someone who wants to build a life with you? You made Zoe's biggest dream come true, it's magical to watch. Thank you for sharing with us 🤗

  • @megsthings
    @megsthings Рік тому +37

    I haven’t finished the video yet, but I can’t believe you’ve had Ottie for 18 months! You’re both doing great and it’s so lovely to see how well you’re getting on in life! ❤ you should be so proud of how far you’ve come! Thank you for providing an escape for all these years! X

  • @MegSays
    @MegSays Рік тому +28

    Clips of your vlogs keep coming up on my fyp on TikTok and honestly it's sooo cute to see you and Zoë as parents, you are both absolutely made for it and seem soooo calm and happy ❤

  • @phelinevonk
    @phelinevonk Рік тому +17

    Hearing Ottie counting to 10 was the absolute cutest❤️

  • @jules.sbro8
    @jules.sbro8 Рік тому +27

    Smiled so much through the summing up of Ottie's personality & add to that intelligent, counting wow, she's amazing! ❤😍🧡

  • @armiemaydiloy1548
    @armiemaydiloy1548 Рік тому +7

    Sundays are cozier when you and zoe have vlogs for us. As a long time viewer, so proud of how you’ve grown as a person and now a wonderful dad to ottie and partner to zoe ❤️

  • @SammiGhost
    @SammiGhost Рік тому +13

    You both are a great realistic example of what a partnership looks like. Im definitely inspired to be a better partner in my relationship.
    I have fears of being a parent one day, and I struggle with being present. Its lovely hearing your perspective and journey so far as parents and partners.

  • @brandispry576
    @brandispry576 Рік тому +2

    You and Zoe are wonderful parents. It has been such a joy watching y’all become parents and watching Ottie grow. Thank you so much for sharing this special time in your life with your viewers 🙏🏻 💜 Hearing Ottie say “Daddy” and “Mummy” melts my heart. She brings so much joy to all who watch her.

  • @Elizabeth.Crawford
    @Elizabeth.Crawford Рік тому +2

    I genuinely could've weeped multiple points in this video. I am just so overwhelmingly happy for you guys. Watching someone for many years you start to root for their happiness and for them to reach their goals and dreams and I feel like now I'm watching you live your happiest lives.

  • @RadhikaVanjara
    @RadhikaVanjara Рік тому +1

    When you spoke about Ottie’s personality, it was just SO sweet it made me cry! One can really see the unconditional love that you and Zoe have for your daughter - that truly only a parent can have I think. And it’s just precious. Bless you all with all my heart and hope there is nothing but happiness in your life. ❤

  • @RayBat26
    @RayBat26 Рік тому +5

    Enjoy these special years! She seems a real darling.

  • @bellak46
    @bellak46 Рік тому +3

    She looks like the perfect combo of you both! Plus that blonde hair makes her look just like her Uncle Joe. So precious

  • @DanielleEley
    @DanielleEley Рік тому +2

    This is such a wholesome video, I have absolutely loved watching how amazing you are with ottie, even the small things like hearing her count to 10 is amazing, you both are amazing parents 💕❤️

  • @iisFashion
    @iisFashion Рік тому +7

    I see all the comments about Alfie and Zoe being amazing parents, but I'm here shocked that Ottie can already count up to 10..... like WHAAAAT, I adore her so much.

  • @CoralBlueNmbrFive
    @CoralBlueNmbrFive Рік тому +13

    Currently in the newborn chest cuddle stage with my first born baby, I didn’t even think about the fact that he will grow out of it 😢🥺

  • @addisons9879
    @addisons9879 Рік тому

    I’ve been wanting to start my own business of sorts and this video was so affirmational! Super excited for the FS drop as well. I can’t believe I’ve been watching you for over half my life to see where you are now! So cool

  • @jenfehr1
    @jenfehr1 Рік тому +1

    I really enjoyed this sit down video, Alfie! I absolutely love seeing you relaxed, and just yourself!

  • @jackiecarnie4402
    @jackiecarnie4402 Рік тому +6

    She is so clever!!! Her speech is amazing! Would love a full vlog of her she is adorable!!! Well done to you and Zoe ❤xxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • @mayaoloughlin4739
    @mayaoloughlin4739 Рік тому +4

    the way Ottie was saying mummy, was very adorable 😍

  • @veritystothard1664
    @veritystothard1664 Рік тому +4

    Ottie is just the most gorgeous child, that little smile! Gets me every time 🥹

  • @katiew05
    @katiew05 Рік тому +3

    Nappy changing is never a problem or a big deal for me as I work In a toddler room (18months-3years) in a children’s nursery so i have to do like 10/15 nappies in a row 😅
    I personally don’t have children myself but honestly the way you look at Ottie and the way you talk about her is lovely, you can tell how grateful and happy you are to be a dad. You are just amazing!!!

  • @sarahmoran1992
    @sarahmoran1992 Рік тому +4

    EIGHT years ago today I got tickets to meet you on The Pointless Book 2 tour. Cannot believe how time flies ❤

  • @jbfamily4682
    @jbfamily4682 Рік тому

    Your videos are just so good to watch! I have watched you and Zoe for years and years now and you guys inspire me so much! Hope you are all going so well 🙏

  • @alexarobertson17
    @alexarobertson17 Рік тому +5

    Hearing you say that you had realistic expectations of how parenthood would be, and therefore, it’s been better than expected has made my heart so happy! I can’t wait to become a mother! Fingers crossed it happens soon! ❤

  • @MissGlitterSparkle12
    @MissGlitterSparkle12 Рік тому

    I love how chill and relaxed this video was 😊 Lovely growing up with you and Zoe❤

  • @mollyfids
    @mollyfids Рік тому +4

    HER VOICE IM CRYING

  • @janl8683
    @janl8683 Рік тому +2

    A gorgeous video with Ottie dropping in to say Hi, she does melt your heart ❤️

  • @imogenbroadhead6056
    @imogenbroadhead6056 Рік тому +1

    Just ordered future self coffee for my mums birthday! Can’t wait for it to arrive and surprise her with it! Thankyou Alfie. ❤

  • @thaissousa6944
    @thaissousa6944 Рік тому +1

    It's so cool to hear your journey and your experience with parenting so far. Thank you for sharing so much with us! 🙌🏼
    Ngl, kinda makes me nervous to become a parent but I do want kids in the long run!

  • @tamia_xx
    @tamia_xx Рік тому +2

    You and Zoe are hands down the most amazing parents ever!

  • @demifairburn
    @demifairburn Рік тому +2

    Been watching you and Zoe for years and I can’t believe how amazing you both have grown and had a baby🥲

  • @Remy1522
    @Remy1522 Рік тому +1

    Any moment when you felt literally so scared in this 18 months with ottie?
    Love you both! What a beautiful family! Cheers from Uruguay! 💕

  • @Kerrylm1984
    @Kerrylm1984 Рік тому

    She's the cutest! Been watching you both consistently for years and now we are all blessed with little Ottilie. ❤

  • @emilysmith5515
    @emilysmith5515 Рік тому +3

    Currently watching 34 weeks pregnant. I’m full of mixed emotions feeling nervous but so excited to have my daughter here in a few weeks! This video just makes me so excited for the adventure ahead ❤

  • @nicolaturner9352
    @nicolaturner9352 Рік тому +2

    I am really excited when your Vlog came.up on a Sunday loving the family lots off love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Shane3599
    @Shane3599 Рік тому +6

    My goodness, Ottie looks like an angel in the thumbnail!

  • @ellietorres-nc8jn
    @ellietorres-nc8jn Рік тому +1

    I have been watching you and Zoe since the beginning of Covid and I felt like I have known you two forever!❤

  • @verityhumby3310
    @verityhumby3310 Рік тому +10

    Ottie is so cute and her saying daddy is cute ❤❤

  • @everhea9907
    @everhea9907 Рік тому +84

    I have to say, I was totally blown away when Ottie counted to 10! Are you sure that She's only 18 months?? 🤯

    • @emmawoolley93
      @emmawoolley93 Рік тому +2

      Helps when kids have a village around them and chilled parents
      I'm jealous if I'm honest I spend so much time worrying about money and not doing enough or providing enough that I'm not present and we're lacking a village ! She's doing amazing and it makes me sad I'm failing both of my kids 2 and 6 both struggling with speech

    • @lisaward7969
      @lisaward7969 Рік тому

      I was impressed with the counting and how lovely her speech is too

    • @ronjawahlstrom8338
      @ronjawahlstrom8338 Рік тому

      Same!!

  • @Dynamite-gal
    @Dynamite-gal Рік тому +1

    She’s an absolute picture, so much of her mother ❤.

  • @graceshackk
    @graceshackk Рік тому +2

    Little Ottie is growing up so fast🥹 love u guys so much ❤

  • @Nerone5908
    @Nerone5908 Рік тому +4

    You are in my English language book👍

  • @maxnewts
    @maxnewts Рік тому

    Thank you for inspiring me to start my own business, I’m heavily heavily considering it, and I’m really focused at the moment on looking into trying to find ways to make it happen. If and when I can, I can’t wait to start. It will be so exciting to see people’s reactions to the ideas I have, and I am so excited to share the tools included in my project with the world!! This seems like such a fun experience!!

  • @tonidoyle8100
    @tonidoyle8100 Рік тому

    why did i completely forget about PB vlogs omg as soon as you said that a whole load of nostalgia came back. Love you both!!

  • @poppyward6323
    @poppyward6323 Рік тому

    Listening to you talk about newborn snuggles while I was watching this I was snuggling my goregous nephew on my chest (he's 7 weeks but he was born 5 weeks early so he's only 8lbs).
    I love how excited you are talking about Ottie ❤❤

  • @emm1067
    @emm1067 Рік тому

    im so glad u film ottie in the videos thanks for sharing her with us she sooo sweet

  • @shylascalf
    @shylascalf Рік тому +4

    I love this so much. Alfie and Zoe are both ideal parents. I hope if I’m ever a parent I can be as loving, laid-back, chill and excited as they are. My parents were very different than them 😳 😂

  • @melanieshirkey5276
    @melanieshirkey5276 Рік тому

    Ottie is so smart! Talking so well!

  • @serinawhaycock
    @serinawhaycock Рік тому +7

    Replace the word bossy with leader! ❤ she’s going to be the leader.

  • @JoiJumayao
    @JoiJumayao Рік тому +1

    So wild to see you doing a Q&A and then your little Ottie pops in or humming a song in the background. It’s just so cooool! The evaluation of Alfie Deyes Vlogs 😂🫶🏽

  • @priethashre6522
    @priethashre6522 Рік тому +2

    BTW let Zoe know that I thank her; I used to be what she calls a "silent watcher" as i never really comment on any videos that I watch and I know that's not the best. But blimey, I've blasting comments left and right these days. Just makes me happy that i could share my thoughts down here😃

  • @marthasolomon7997
    @marthasolomon7997 Рік тому +3

    OTILLIE ❤ LOOKS SO ADORABLE I CANT EVEN 🥺

  • @DaniRudyyy
    @DaniRudyyy Рік тому +3

    Take it easyyyy. Love this! HI OTTIE ❤

  • @alena25072
    @alena25072 Рік тому

    Loved every second of it xx
    ☕️💕

  • @conniekirk2929
    @conniekirk2929 Рік тому

    My youngest daughter who is about to turn 2 fell asleep on my chest for the first time since she was a newborn the other day and it made me realise how much I missed those sleepy chest cuddles like you were saying 🥹
    I also agree with Zoe when she said she would want to go back in time to when Ottie was a newborn but without postpartum. I would do this with both my girls in a heart beat if I could because my recoveries were brutal and I definitely didn’t get to enjoy them being tiny newborns as much I wanted to because of the pain/recovery/PPA. Being a parent has also made me realise how fast time goes and no matter what we have to enjoy every moment, even the hard ones. Love you guys and Ottie is just so gorgeous 💗💗

  • @mychristmasemporium5927
    @mychristmasemporium5927 Рік тому +1

    I’m pregnant with my second I totally agree with your answers, I’m constantly I’ll (I do have a suppressed immune system due to having akidney transplant and I work in a school) but my daughter constantly gets colds! It does go quickly and I’ve said I’m really going to enjoy the first few months probably this time rather than worrying about it all! Great video!

  • @hannahedwards520
    @hannahedwards520 Рік тому +3

    First- thanks so much for making my Sunday so much better I’m such a big fan your videos and Zoe’s videos thanks so much for posting them both to you

  • @dlfp0219
    @dlfp0219 Рік тому +3

    I am 10 weeks pregnant now and honestly I’m just excited and really looking forward to the whole experience. And just seeing how we are all growing old together.. makes me feel very close to both you and zoe it’s crazy😂

  • @malinnsollid6884
    @malinnsollid6884 Рік тому

    Time flies man! Happy for you guys. Have a good one☺️

  • @pbf2681
    @pbf2681 Рік тому +2

    Completely agree with the nappy thing!

  • @bettinamcdonald5394
    @bettinamcdonald5394 Рік тому

    The smile on your face is so Lovely when to you look at your daughter just made me smile!💐🤗

  • @hayleyfirth6785
    @hayleyfirth6785 Рік тому +5

    Hey Alfie loving your videos lately! I was wondering if you could possibly share what ottie’s diet looks like in a day? I have a 15 month old daughter and trying to get some more meal and snack inspiration!

  • @sophiegalbraith80
    @sophiegalbraith80 Рік тому

    Ottie is a genius! Her speech is amazing x

  • @hazelrogers2455
    @hazelrogers2455 Рік тому +1

    choosing your battles as a parent as somethings are just not worth arguing about when they start to push the boundaries . Being on the same page when he was a teenager was essential and in full battle mode . Ottilie is adorable

  • @darcytuddors9974
    @darcytuddors9974 Рік тому +1

    Omg n.n i follow you and Zoe for almost 11 years and this pass years have been crazy and so cute to watch ❤❤❤❤ it's just amazing,love it 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰✨✨✨✨

  • @christian_1701
    @christian_1701 Рік тому +3

    God bless you and your family 😇🙏🏻

  • @sopp92003
    @sopp92003 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this lovely video. ❤

  • @ariellegillies6692
    @ariellegillies6692 Рік тому +5

    The sweater colour tho 🔥🔥🔥

  • @tiapringle8017
    @tiapringle8017 Рік тому +4

    Adorable 🥹

  • @willowowen9343
    @willowowen9343 Рік тому +6

    you are both amazing parents and i admire you! thank you for being so consistent we love seeing your content! its made my day :)

  • @zoesmith8979
    @zoesmith8979 Рік тому

    You should look into attending coffee festivals for your new coffee range, if not done so already! There is one going on in Glasgow, Scotland on 13/14th May which is the only one I’m aware of so far in Scotland since that’s where I live but defo something worth a look at to get your coffee made known to a larger audience who may not watch your videos etc x

  • @jmj161
    @jmj161 Рік тому

    Lovely video! I'm a parent of a 4 year old and can attest the snuggles only get better. :) Also, love seeing the Shopfiy ad, I'm work for them. haha

  • @yorkshirelassdiaries4841
    @yorkshirelassdiaries4841 Рік тому

    Love that hoodie Alfie!❤

  • @lera_t6
    @lera_t6 Рік тому +3

    I love this hoodie 😍

  • @jenfehr1
    @jenfehr1 Рік тому +2

    Ps.. Zoe, I loved hearing your input!

  • @jax576s
    @jax576s Рік тому

    Maybe 6 vlogs ago, you talked about the 30 second rule you read about. If you can do it in 30 seconds, do it now. I had a similar kind of rule, but it was more like don’t be lazy, just do it. Adopting your phrasing has been so helpful- less negative on myself, more positive. I feel more accomplished getting the little things done. Thank you for that, it’s improved my life.

  • @movemountainswithus
    @movemountainswithus Рік тому

    Great now you’ve got me researching how to set up my photography print store 😅 on top of the never ending list haha on a serious note thank you for the motivation I needed!

  • @amomongan3181
    @amomongan3181 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Alfie make my day during your video I love your videos the fan of yourself and Zoe❤😂

  • @tracyeast3397
    @tracyeast3397 Рік тому +1

    My husband and I are very much on the same page with most things which is why we have been married for 42 years!

  • @chiaracacialli
    @chiaracacialli Рік тому

    Loved this ❤

  • @alicefryman3372
    @alicefryman3372 Рік тому +4

    When she’s says daddy 🥺🥺🥺

  • @kathrynb8677
    @kathrynb8677 Рік тому

    You seem like the best dad. 💕

  • @claireabellhayward2400
    @claireabellhayward2400 Рік тому

    Good to see you Alfie, I hope you are okay, I get so many chest infections, and I'm not a parent lol, sorry you been ill.
    Omg Ottie Is adorable.

  • @EloveDancing
    @EloveDancing Рік тому

    I'd really looove to have such a beautiful and strong bond with my partner, I hope it just get stronger and stronger with time. It's just the best to feel like a team, partners that can just count on each other, I loved this part of the video! And what an amazing family you make, Ottie is the cutest, really! ❤

  • @priethashre6522
    @priethashre6522 Рік тому

    Gosh Alfie.... It's been long since i started follwing your and zoe's contents and because of that to this day i perceived you as the exact same person i loved watching all those years ago. You and Zoe having Ottlie did not change that perception whatsoever and just then in the video you said "I'm gonna be biased because I'm her dad" and something about that very sentence absolutely changed the way i perceive you completely. You're a dad! A bloody great one at that though. Just thought that you saying to be her dad changed everything but also nothing; felt like it flippped a switch in my brain. if that makes sense lol. Love Ottlie and dontcha worry, you're gonna be a cool one!!

  • @roitranger20011
    @roitranger20011 Рік тому

    I never comment on videos But..I must say you have a beautiful Family ..you both are amazing parents.

  • @m011ynice03
    @m011ynice03 Рік тому

    This is such a sweet video🥰