ASMR Mother to Child RP: Autism Comfort & Support {F4A}
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- Опубліковано 22 вер 2024
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We work through an autistic meltdown together in a way that makes you feel safe and supported.
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I used to help out at a homeless ministry that gave them food, clothes, and tried to find them jobs. One of the lady's who came had a severely Autistic daughter. It broke my heart every time I saw the little girl have a meltdown. We don't need to look down on people who have these meltdowns. We can't understand what their going through. But we don't have to in order to treat them like people. Don't judge people.
I love this! Thank you for sharing :)
@@HappyFeetAudios Of course Happy Feet!
@@HappyFeetAudios i know how this feels. I have it. And it is a pain to live with.
@@HappyFeetAudios i recently was dealing with my father almost hurting my mother, i called him and confronted him about it and he called me and my mother liars. My mother never lies, so i was pissed. His wife then got on the phone and told me to have a nice life and hung up. I shook and cried for a while. So i had to take three relaxing pills. But later that night, i got so angry with them, that i went to my bathroom, was going to punch my mirror, and overdose on my medicine. But i didnt.
@@noahbreitenfeld2226 That sounds like an awful situation. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I know it's hard, but please don't let the accusations of an idiot (your father) dictate your mood. I'm so happy you decided to stay. *Hugs*
I’m autistic and this felt so…foreign? If someone treated me like this during a meltdown as a kid, I’d probably start looking at them like they were crazy. Not because they are crazy, but because that was not how I was conditioned to expect people to respond to my distress… It’s crazy how I am not used to being treated like a person… Thank you for this video. It helped me remember that my meltdowns don’t make people treat me badly…
Interesting take on the audio. Thank you for sharing 😊
Being autistic myself, I watch this every time I have one of those meltdowns. It's a wonderful video you made and I wish others would understand us better. I sometimes feel that being autistic is a bad thing and the world looks at me like I'm a crazy person and I'm not. I sometimes can't express myself or I just can't cope with my surroundings. Thank you for making this video and showing me that Being Autistic is nothing to be ashamed about.
You are very welcome 🙂
I am autistic as well. I really wish the whole world could be as compassionate as Happy Feet, but sadly that will never be.
@@cityman2312 You are too kind ❤️
@@HappyFeetAudios: If you read my other comment, I'm basically a 5 month old girl stuck in a 35 year old boy body, *_(Gender Dysphoria as well as the Asperger Syndrome Autism and other factors beyond my control)_* and I find myself wanting a weighted blanket, sensory toys and cue cards. Because I need other ways than UA-cam videos like this to calm myself. 😨😮💨😢😭
I just had a meltdown about 40 minutes ago and I was scrolling through my recommended videos and this was here. Great timing. Listening to this helped a lot. I'm feeling much better
I'm glad this helped and that you are feeling better 😊
I’m not autistic but I think this was an inspiration to parents who have autistic children 👍🏾❤️
Thank you so much ♥️
I am autistic and I couldn’t agree more
As someone with autism myself, listening to this was great but difficult. All I can say is thank you so much.
You are very welcome.
@@HappyFeetAudios actually for me being alone in a noise free room helps me desensitize when I'm overstimulated. I have a ASD and rooms with too many people and 2 many voices hurts me.
I'm on the autism spectrum and I feel like this got to me so personally there were moments I cried, especially towards the end. I couldn't be more thankful that we have Autism Care Walks where I live. All I have left to say is thank you so much for spreading awareness.
You're are very welcome 😌
this is how i wish i was treated as a kid
not with yelling or hitting, but respect and care
being an autistic adult is so hard, but having support when i need it is so refreshing
@@elliottheblahaj I'm glad you have been able to find that 😊
I needed this, I’m autistic and experienced a ton of meltdowns growing up (and still do) and I rarely see autism comfort asmr and I can’t tell you how much I needed this! Thank you! :)
You are very welcome :)
I really needed that. It makes me think about when I was younger. I know life with autism is no cake walk as I have my days where I'm okay and I have my days where it's hard to manage. I think having a partner who also has autism really helps as we can both understand what we're going through and be able to help each other on our bad days.
I think that's a great reflection and I'm happy you have someone in your life to support you ☺️
Pumpkin need this so badly 😭💔
I'm happy you enjoyed it and are now apart of the server :)
@@HappyFeetAudios thx you 😭
@@kaivanator5604 You're very welcome 😊
Growing up people at my school saw me showing signs of autism, on August i was diagnosed with autism, and having scary moments trying to calm down, seeing how people i know and my parents love me no matter what, thank you very much. Love from Maryland
@@tenochcamacho8907 You are very welcome! Much love from Kentucky ❤️
-happy autistic adult noises -
[I learned I was autistic super late in life so audios like this really helps me ]
I'm glad this audio was helpful :)
I have high functioning autism and I’m learning to fly planes as well as chase thunderstorms and one day to catch my first tornado overall I enjoyed this
That's fantastic!
It will be exciting once I catch my first tornado on film
Yeah, I have autism and In the schools I go to they had these rooms they put kids in when there having a meltdown, hearing about the seclusion areas made me cry and think back to the countless times the teachers had to drag me in there and leave me alone, it was scary, I’m just glad it feels a lot easier to express myself
I'm so sorry. I'm sure that was quite difficult for you.
@@HappyFeetAudios it really was, looking back at it now it kind of makes me upset that it felt like they didn’t try to understand what it was like for me
@@goldwinner456 I'm sure that was very frustrating. I'm happy that you are in a better place now where you can express yourself 😊 *Hugs*
I have Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) which I struggle most of the time. I just want a happy life, like somewhere safe and a deep connection with, and I want love even a hug that makes my sadness disappear…
Thank you for this video im autistic and this has happened to me an no one understood me and didn't even try to help me through it im glad someone understands me and is willing to help me through what I went through and your so right its not right to place autistic children in seclusion it only makes things worse for everyone and shines us in a bad lighting
You are very welcome.
What a wonderful mother! I wish I had had a mother like that.
3:02 Agreed. Seclusion areas are only useful if emphasized positively. If not it might as well be a padded room or jail cell
As someone who has ASD this is so comforting thank you for that
You are very welcome ❤️
Aww, yay! Another mother to child comfort! It’s amazing how you put inspiration behind these videos, and make each of them creative, but also realistic too. Keep up the amazing work as usual, ma’am! 😄
Thank you so much ♥️
Could you maybe do another one of this and make it that their meltdown gets to a point where they cannot control how they are feeling and they get all aggressive because they can’t do anything about their emotions.
Just a little idea
I Don't Know If You're Still Out There Happy Feet But As An Autistic Person Who's Been Abused This Comforts Me In More Ways Then You Can Imagine, Thank You So Much For All Your Hard Work, I Wish You Well In Everything You Do🫂
I'm still here 🥰 I'm sorry for what you have been through, but am glad this audio could provide you with some level of comfort. Remember, you are loved.
As a girl with Asperger’s, my mom wasn’t really like this when I was younger and until now... 😔
I'm glad things are better now.
@FriendliestDevil VA yeah 😅👉🏻👈🏻
This hits so close to home. My cousin has autism and is almost always in his own world. Music and especially live concerts help a lot but because of the pandemic live concerts are cancelled which doesn’t help the situation at all.
I'm sure it's been hard for him.
@@HappyFeetAudios yeah apparently it can lead to sometimes violent outbursts during the lockdown. They’re still doing okay though
@@HappyFeetAudios I should probably mention that his autism is non-verbal. So that makes it even harder for him to communicate.
As an autistic person, I want to say thank you for this audio. I don’t have meltdowns very often since I’ve learned to control myself, but this is still a nice audio regardless.
You're very welcome 😊
As a Mexican, American autistic woman, I was actually diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder or ASD for short when I was like three years old then in 2021. I was fully diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. Disorder was actually a little bit hard for me because I had a hard time communicating and also’s socializing problems. I’ve been having anxiety and I had suffered from anxiety my family supports me and gives me my needs if I need something to make me feel better.
Thank you for sharing your story 😊
It’s not often I hear autism asmr videos so thank you for that! I enjoyed it even though I’m 17 😅 The only thing I didn’t like was labelling it as ‘special’. For me it’s not special to have meltdowns where I hurt myself, having restricted independence or having a hard time making new friends.
I can understand that. Thank you for your comment and support 😊
i love the vibes of this mother
Thank you very much 😊
this was so sweet!! im not autistic but i do have adhd, i will definitely save this for one of my own meltdowns! its so comforting!
I love this soo much thanks for this. Also please thanks the authour of this as well
Omg sis 😭 😍 u queen 👸 😁 but wouldn't of been possible without Lauren
No problem 😊
Having autism and myself, I love seeing areas like this I really wish there was more
As someone with autism this is nice and relaxing to listen too
That makes me so happy ☺️
I have autism and I'm 18 and I still struggle with things like understanding my emotions
Me who is autistic and has mother issues. This audio make happy hands for me even after my meltdown ty so much
You are most welcome ❤️
I'm glad you made this I myself are autistic but not to a large extent but this is really comforting
I loke the vroom vroom and how it traveled my ear holes
I'm not autistic, but I am disabled, so this was somewhat cathartic for me. It angers me in a way that I can't fully describe that there are professionals, trained in knowledge of various types of disabilities, who lack compassion. I've had to deal with it myself
I'm sorry you have had such a negative experience.
Ahhh yes one of my favorite audios great work good job 10/10🙂💙
Thank you! 😄
@@HappyFeetAudios your welcome 🙂💙
Hi, Happy feet! I have autism myself and I wasn't diagnosed until age 16! I have been living without knowing about autism for far too long. I am now 21 years old.
Hi Fiona! It's so nice to meet you. I'm happy that you have been properly diagnosed as I'm sure that makes things a little less frustrating for you.
@HappyFeetAudios It does make it a little easier. I found out that I have autism after my 16 birthday. I had to miss a day of school because of an appointment to get tested for autism. You might not know or do know that autism affects males and females. For every female who has autism, four males have autism.
I wish I had this when I was younger
I'm sorry that you didn't, but I hope this audio can be of comfort now.
@@HappyFeetAudios we thank you for that
Ive been blessed- 💗💕💓💖
Awww, that's so lovely. Your comment made me smile :)
"This new Netflix series has been calling my name since it came out" *_Me when I heard they were making the Castlevania anime_*
No, but in all seriousness, I have Asperger Syndrome Autism, and because of the behavior of my "PaReNtS" & "BrOtHeR", I'm basically a scared, helpless little baby girl trapped in a grown-up body & *_Constantly_* need reassurances - Motherly or from an aunt - or I could meltdown at any random moment. 🤗😭🤗😭🤗😭🤗😭
I love it I am autistic you understand me thank you for healing me happy feet audios
You're very welcome, but all the credit goes to my fantastic writer 😊
Thanks Lauren I needed this
You're very welcome 😊
I wish I had a Mather like this I actually started crying I know I’m late but I’m still crying I didn’t know I needed this thank u
You're very welcome ❤️
i appreciate you using the infinity sign and not using the puzzle piece. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
No problem 👍 I was recently educated on the proper symbol to use :)
@@HappyFeetAudios AAAHHHH!!! this is why I love you!!!!! I have had a few meltdowns before and u’m sure my little cousin has too. We both appreciate it greatly 💕
@@hotpocketoverlord7800 Thank you ♥️ I'm so happy my audios have helped you. That means the world to me 😊
I will say as someone with minor autism I wish my mother had the same attributes and treat me better l while I was growing up. She is not abusive physically but yet she was emotionally and mentally though....She will mostly yell or scream when I don't listen or get distracted easily tell me I'm being difficult. Which makes me wanna loath myself everyday. And wish I wasn't born with autism. No one should feel like that especially from their mother.
And that doesn't help while being depressed along with what my bio dads harsh words when I was 18 But rest assured Im starting to love myself even more. And have people helping me to love myself more and more.
I want to give advice to every parent or people who know someone with autism don't belittle them and don't treat them like garbage don't see them as freaks. Their people too just like you and me is just they have different brain functions and how they interact differently.
Never the less they're still people as well so please show kindness and love towards them.
Show them LOVE
Remember class You're perfect just the Way You are don't matter if you have autism ADHD Asperger's or any form of disability you are an amazing person and you are unique
I don't have autism but I always find your videos fun and educational.
Thank you very much ♥️
how did you know lilo and stitch is my favorite movie? lol great audio thanks mom :)
You're very welcome ☺️
Yay!!! I'm glad for this!!
Thank you ❤️
1:02 oh my gosh yeah. Don’t even get me started on the ads that come right during the climax of an episode resulting in a cliffhanger. Unbelievably annoying
All I can say is *happy stems*
Hehe. I'm glad you like it 😌
😁
AHHHH MAMA HAPPY FEET I LOVE YOUUUUUUUU THANK YOU FOR THIS VID AND YOUR HARD WORK IM GETTING BETTER IN THE HOSPITAL THO
You're very welcome and I'm so happy to hear you are getting better ♥️
@@HappyFeetAudios YAYYYYYYYYY
I’m not sure I’m the kinda human this was made for, but it’s very interesting. Perspectives and such.
I’m not autistic and I have no one dear to me that is, but if I ever meet someone or I have a child that is autistic this is how I wanna treat them, like it’s totally fine and how are their feeling ❤️❤️❤️
What a beautiful thing to say 😌💕
Love that background picture😊💕💞💖
I'm glad you like it :)
Me too it's really pretty!!💜♥️🥰
Mommy ❤❤❤❤
I suffer with autism and ADHD so this helps
ADHD for me.
I'm sure both of those can be difficult to live with. If this audio can help, I will consider this audio a success :)
6:39 yep heard that coming😔
Yeah.... Yeah I felt That coming
But as a person with autism I should Say Not all of us Do That
Of course :) This audio is not meant to encompass everyone with autism. There are varying severities along the spectrum and everyone is going to have a different experience. Thank you for the input :) I seem to learn something new everyday :)
You should do one where the listener has past trauma/verbal abuse.
Maybe a PTSD audio?
@@HappyFeetAudios yeah sure
@@jemcruz2360 Were you thinking about another situation? I'm always happy to listen 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios I just got the idea, that’s it.
I’m pretty sure I’m on the spectrum but my parents won’t let me get tested since they think that’s stupid and I don’t have it (even though I have a lot of the signs of it) and I have meltdowns (idk if that’s what I would still call it if I don’t have it but yk what I mean hopefully) a lot but I think I’m getting better with them!! I don’t yell at people in the middle of class for no reason anymore so that’s good. But this was a really great audio, good job!! :3
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the audio 😊
When you said "you can cut yourself" my first thought was "can't doesn't mean will”
I'm literally sobbing in bed so hard rn. I've had a lot of melt downs in school and when I come home and start to hit or scratch myself my parents just always have an angry face on and proudly say "Do it lah, do it again. Do it till you're almost dead then you'll only stop" like shit bro I've had autism since birth and I've been alive for 14 years only to still be treated this way. The hard thing is I've only had sensory tools till I was 9 and then they were threw out because they weren't working properly as my ma stated but idk if it's true. So till now I don't have any sensory tools. I only close my eyes and play music on my earphones and cacoon myself in a normal blanket. 😕☝️
Update: crying even harder now when she asked "does mommy look angry?" Cuz my ma does every damn time. I get scared when she raises her voice even a bit and it caused trauma
I'm so sorry. I hope you find some tools that work well for you. I know it can be frustrating and overwhelming at times, but I know that you are still an amazing person. Remember how loved you are.
@@HappyFeetAudios thank you ^^
Hope you the best life ✨
Thank you for this I have autism
You're very welcome 😊
I Also Have Autism
Me too
can you do one of these for adhd, i’m not diagnosed but that’s really only cause when i told my mom that i think i have adhd and have done tons of research she told me “no you don’t, your just lazy and making excuses”. so it’d be nice to at least listen to some comfort
Of course 😊 I think this is a great idea 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios thank you 🥰
Are we The same Kid From The EUPD\BPD Video The Quelling The Demons One ?
It is the same writer, but you are welcome to imagine yourself as the same or a different person :)
@@HappyFeetAudios sorry I only thought because some Things Are The same Like The Plushie The Smashing of a Item The Movie They Watched Its Just Really Same THING almost
But No disrespect I Have Autism Myself It’s Just That It’s kinda almost The Same Thing
@@JustSomeRandomGuy1063 Yes, you are correct 😊 In this instance, yes it's the same person 😊
I love the story from your video
Thank you very much.
@@HappyFeetAudios your welcome.
i was wondering if you could do one for tics or tourettes
I can definitely put it on my to-do list 😊 Any particular situation you want it to address?
@@HappyFeetAudios if you can possibly a tic attack
@@victoriamills403 I'm not as familiar with tourettes. Any insight or information you could provide would be greatly appreciated 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios if it helps, people with tourettes usually have more repeated or intense tics with heighten emotions such as anxiety.
And the stereotyped "cursing tic" is less common than motor or other verbal tics. Also people with tourettes, depending on the intensity, can control it or try to hide it. (Think of like repressing a sneeze-it has to come out)
I feel like this is a perfect representation of why I hate myself
I'm sure it can be incredibly frustrating at times, but it doesn't make you any less valid or worthy of love. You just see and experience the world differently :)
Thanks, I really appreciate it
@@joshuaconnall4237 Of course. I only speak the truth 😊
This kinda reminded me of something that happened to me
I have autism!!!!!
I don't know if I have autism but I do have ADHD, and my safe stuffie is called bunniebun!ෆ╹ .̮ ╹ෆ
That's really cute :)
@@HappyFeetAudios mhm! She's a pink bunny! 🐇
Mines called Me bear he's my best friend the only one that one that was always with me
Mr bear I mean
That's adorable 😍 think I might actually start calling cheecky chops my safe stuffie never know what to say he is but he is special like yours 💙🐒
Beautiful video 😍
Thank you very much :)
That’s amazing Lauren!!!!! Guess what! Today one of my classmates asked if you and I were dating ! I don’t know how the fuck he could assume that I mean you are my favorite actress and I really want to meet you but I wouldn’t date you! Not because I think there is something wrong with you! Of course not! You are amazing but first of all I wouldn’t spoil your relationship with your boyfriend since you told us you have a boyfriend and second I am a lot younger than you!!!! Besides he didn’t even know about you so I wonder how he got that strange conclusion which is very weird I mean I did tell you that we had a great connection but that’s not what I meant what I meant is that you are very similar to me and that not only I admire you so much but sometimes I think that if we knew each other for a bit longer we would’ve been best friends if we met of course which would be a bit difficult since we live in different countries and we are stuck in our own countries because of what’s going on but still I didn’t mean it in that way! Of course I will always support you but not as your girlfriend! Maybe if you’re a fan or as your friend but of course not as your girlfriend! Besides my classmate doesn’t even know I told you that because just yesterday he was asking on our class group do your hater who Lauren was sort of course I hope that no one else had read because if you’re a hater red then maybe if your haters read that they would’ve been able to write you so I said I didn’t know anyone called Lauren fortunately who had written delete the text I just said that he heard your haters mentioning you but then strangely today in class my classmate mentioned the incident to me and asked me if you were my girlfriend but of course you are not!!
What a strange situation. Thank you for having my back :)
Loved the video I’m new to your channel
Welcome to the family! 😊 I'm glad you enjoyed it 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios Thank You very much😊
I wish my family was accepting but all I do is get yelled at because I see the world differently
I'm so sorry to hear this.
Roses are red
Videos are great
Idk wut to write
Taco Bell.
LOL! Such a random comment :P
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Hey there I just found this and I myself am on the autism spectrum I have high functioning autism and definitely like I definitely I've gone through stuff like that like few years ago honestly at Middle School like I suddenly went through a change in my normal routine of my schedule and like prior to me even coming to the Middle School we had to talk with the principal and a few of the other people that work at the school and like explained like my situation and everything and when my schedule had suddenly changed I wasn't sure what I was supposed to do because I was a normal classes at first and then I got switched to in between special ed class and my normal classes and I honestly wasn't sure was I supposed to go to that class first or do I go to breakfast then go and like I had a total meltdown over it because I didn't know what to do and at some point the principal he was very nice man very nice he found me and asked me what was going on and it took me a minute and eventually like we got the whole thing figured out honestly we got like he helped me and like I was able to get through my moment but like honestly I hate people who don't understand me or understand people like me just because I am different or we are different doesn't make us human like forgot sake respect people when they need something like I don't know how to describe how I'm feeling honestly and I don't have anything to help me describe it to begin with but still you probably have an idea of what I'm trying to say I don't know but yeah like I like I'm on the autism to some Spectrum myself and I'm 19 so I can completely understand situations and with how you described the stressful thing with the bottle hahahahahahaha well honestly I had my first job and the person who I was working for was oh my God just like oh my God (inhale and exhale) the best way I can describe how I was feeling with that bottle example you used in your audio I was trying to keep the lid on the bottle of soda for my example like I the bottle had been shaken up and I was trying to keep the lid on it while the Fizz was trying to escape with all that pressure behind it but now I'm doing good and like this was like year before last but now I have a better job and it's not stressful for me I have a lot of people that pretty much respect how I do things and I can listen to music to help cancel out all the noises that can just extend to bother me and work so yeah I love that and I love the audio that you made it honestly one of the best autistic listener audios I've listened to so yeah you did a marvelous job and I hope you have a great day.
I'm so happy things are better for you now. Thank you for sharing your story and for your kind words 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios thanks things are going so much better for me and your welcome I've always been told i was a kind person but there are times when I can't be kind I get mean but I'm more kind than I am mean.
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I've heard that I have aspergers, is it the same thing as high functioning autism? Just wanted to make sure.
@Kylie Dee Yikes, what other terms are there for it?
Could you possibly do an ADHD or tic disorder one coz me and my brother have them and there's not many asmr audios to do with them!
Definitely on my to do list 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios yay thank you
@@tzokaniku6385 You're very welcome 😊
I have autism spectrum disorder. Also first and how is your day
I'm doing very well thank you 😊
@@HappyFeetAudios i have a girlfriend audio request:
Chemotherapy comfort
@@angelmatiastorres That sounds amazing!
I have autism but I'm a punk rock and metalhead and otaku I have to ttiktok I may not get lot of likes but I have lots of views.
My mother Died years ago
I'm so sorry to hear that.