How to Reinvent Yourself 💫 Transform Your Life in 2025

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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Місяць тому +47

    hi loves 💗 here’s the link to the free Notion template! lavendaire.com/transformyourlife
    watch the next video in this series: ua-cam.com/video/DWSAFz_NJmo/v-deo.htmlsi=bLXDT8ibq23EySvt
    I’ll continue updating the template as the series continues ✨ can’t wait to transform our lives together!!

    • @CharliniAlmeida
      @CharliniAlmeida Місяць тому +2

      Lovely video Aileen!! Started my UA-camr journey and you have been an inspiration! Sending blessings from Ireland ☘

    • @happycucumber4822
      @happycucumber4822 Місяць тому

      The notion template doesn't work for me😢

    • @happycucumber4822
      @happycucumber4822 Місяць тому

      It says that it is on it's way ti mu inbox but I can't find it anywhere 🥲

    • @mewmewmewmewmewmewmewmewme8739
      @mewmewmewmewmewmewmewmewme8739 Місяць тому +1

      ​@happycucumber4822 same here, subscribed/got the confirmation email but nothing else

  • @Lavender.3713
    @Lavender.3713 Місяць тому +198

    She's working so hard...shes gonna upload a video every Wednesday..thats such a great a great initiative she is taking for us to have a better 2025!!❤❤ I'll continue to support her!!

  • @TheMagicCrafter
    @TheMagicCrafter Місяць тому +35

    "If you're not changing it, you're choosing it." I guess that applies to many situations, as you said. But for those of us with chronic illnesses or unresolvable health issues, definitely not... but I wish 😅🖤

  • @angelagrimes8237
    @angelagrimes8237 Місяць тому +66

    Evolving at 68years is probably very far from anyone’s mind here. I can only share that using this process and taking that deep dive to find your core and raise it up to live vividly requires us to find a balance between lessons learned in our past, and planning for a future without throwing away today. Be flexible in your expectations. A writ in stone set of goals will be harder to flow with the future and any serendipitous shifts that will come along. But always listen to your heart. Cheers

    • @edeletwin
      @edeletwin Місяць тому +5

      There are always unexpected things coming up, so flexibility is important!
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

    • @shelllombardi9124
      @shelllombardi9124 Місяць тому +3

      That is excellent advice! Life throws us curveballs and we need to continually adapt.

  • @ninahoward6066
    @ninahoward6066 18 днів тому +7

    I cannot THANK YOU enough for this finding me at the right time. I've been feeling so stuck and ashamed for the progress I haven't been making on dreams I've planned for years. But you've broken it down to outline exactly what we should address. And when I'm not sure what to do with "#4 Address Your Obstacles" (mine are distraction & inertia... setting alerts and reminders hasn't been enough), YOU ALREADY HAVE A VIDEO ADDRESSING THAT. {"How to exit your lazy girl era" ~10 months ago}. And thanks to "#3 Setting Your Intention", my chagrin has changed to this mantra, "I am CAPABLE. I am Accomplished. I am Motivated. I am Equipped." You are a light helping others remember how to shine, and I am grateful for your guidance.

  • @trixjoyce
    @trixjoyce Місяць тому +59

    My ideal self would be more energised and not so exhausted. I have tons of creative projects I want to do, but I’m burned out and in trauma therapy so I always feel too exhausted to do what I want to do. I have all the time in the world right now, but not enough energy physically. In 2025 I hope that changes somehow ❤

    • @zhanaefay8794
      @zhanaefay8794 Місяць тому +4

      Heyyy I promise it gets better once you let your body recover it will slowly get back more energized and fueled it’s literally cyclical so don’t worry it’s not gonna last forever ! You’ll find time to do the things you love ❤

    • @trixjoyce
      @trixjoyce Місяць тому

      @@zhanaefay8794 Thank you and I'm sooo hoping you're right!

    • @AnrupB
      @AnrupB Місяць тому +3

      Be kind to yourself and nurture yourself first. Health is everything ❤

    • @trixjoyce
      @trixjoyce Місяць тому

      @ thanks 🙏🏽 I agree ❤️

    • @trixjoyce
      @trixjoyce Місяць тому

      @@Moon22567 hello 😊 thank you 🙏🏽 I really want to be more consistent with my UA-cam , music, and digital art/comic art. I have ideas for new comics, new music and maybe even a digital download shop. But we’ll see. I also want to study a few courses on my own. I hope to take care of my health first though ❤️

  • @Elizabeth_kipgen
    @Elizabeth_kipgen Місяць тому +7

    I have been following this channel for about 6 years now. Thank you for continuously teaching us to evolve as better versions of ourselves. I have started meditating, journaling, reflecting, and practicing many positive things. I pray for blessings upon you and everything you plan to do.
    Things I want to do in the long term: Counselor, Scholar (Ph.D), Writer, Film Director, Serve God
    Habits I want to change: Fix my sleep schedule, be more productive, not procrastinate, work out
    All the best to everyone who is out there on their growth journey. Feel free to ask me questions if you are curious about my progress!

  • @dilanlu906
    @dilanlu906 29 днів тому +3

    She is feminine, in her sporty girl era and working towards her goals. :) Thank you so much for your video❤

  • @jenniferpiercy8305
    @jenniferpiercy8305 Місяць тому +3

    Life unfolds beautifully when we’re in sync with our breath.

  • @takota144
    @takota144 Місяць тому +10

    Thank you for bringing positive brilliant light into my life, your voice is so calming and soothing it’s really nice to listen to and feel relaxed

  • @deepathangaraj5225
    @deepathangaraj5225 13 днів тому

    MY IDEAL SELF :-
    1) Being fearless and going after my passions
    2) Accepting life and being grateful for what I have now.
    3) Prioritising my both physical and Mental health. Letting go of what doesn't serve me ❤

  • @greenteacreamfrappe
    @greenteacreamfrappe Місяць тому +16

    Three traits of my ideal self would be ... 1. She is confident 2. She is disciplined 3. She is balanced 🍃✨

  • @Dina_164
    @Dina_164 Місяць тому +8

    Please do more affirmations for evening❤🙏🏻 when you think whether you did everything right or not, maybe said something wrong, maybe somebody said something bad and effected on me, maybe i didn't do everything i wanted for the day, maybe i should try harder, what, maybe i said something and now i am afraid or embarrassed. All those thoughts just give you anxiety. Thank you for all your videos, they are helping me so mush💓💗

  • @zeny-01-h8t
    @zeny-01-h8t 5 днів тому

    Waking up today with gratitude . Thank you Lord .

  • @wylderanomalies
    @wylderanomalies 8 днів тому

    3 traits of my ideal self: confident, content, and mindful.
    I have an anxiety disorder, but I've been making a lot of progress this past year and I'm noticing a LOT of patterns of anxious thought and behaviors tied to them etc etc so I've been working on being rational and reasoning my way out of anxiety. I want to have confidence in myself, my ability to problem solve, in the idea that everything will be okay.
    I want to be content! I find myself overrun by my emotions a lot and this often means I'm feeling nostalgia when things are calm. I want to be more in the moment and stop reflecting so much.
    And finally for the mindful bit, I'm focusing on responding instead of reacting this year. Again, emotions, very reactive.

  • @icegelofficial
    @icegelofficial 13 днів тому

    My ideal self is someone who is grounded in faith, maintaining a balanced life with good health, and a strong belief in my ability to create the future I desire.

  • @tara.asteria
    @tara.asteria 18 днів тому +1

    I’m late to the party but I’m glad I started todayy!!! Hopefully I will be consistent doing this til end of January, wish me luck! Three traits of my ideal self would be grateful, productive, and loving ✨

  • @hinicetomeetyou447
    @hinicetomeetyou447 Місяць тому +8

    Three traits of my ideal self include: she is successful in her education and relationships, she looks and smells good, she feels loved and safe. 3:44

  • @Katz2832
    @Katz2832 Місяць тому +10

    You are the reason I am healing every day 🥺 Thank you so much ❤‍🩹

    • @kellehlers
      @kellehlers Місяць тому +1

      And also, you are the reason! Thank YOU for loving YOURSELF.

  • @sulovesbooks
    @sulovesbooks 18 днів тому

    First of all, Aileen, I can't help but notice that this hair and make-up look very good on you. You look stunning.
    I came up with a very long list for my ideal list but at the top of the list is that I have self-trust. My ideal self is someone who is capable of handling life's ups and downs, and trust that she can learn, adapt, and overcome obstacles even when things aren't going her way. She believes in her own skills, talents, and her capacity for growth. She is mature, calm, and collected. She inspires herself and others with her small wins, and she feels good about those. Self-trust is a recurring word whenever I think about my theme for 2025.

  • @justahooman-o9l
    @justahooman-o9l 18 днів тому

    My ideal self's 3 traits are kind-hearted, visionary, and open-minded! While I was watching your video, I was practicing crocheting chains (not taking any notes yet, I apologize), and I realized that is another tiny step towards reinventing myself by picking up a new hobby! 💜💗💜 I know by taking on more challenges I can transform my life! Oh, and I will make it an atomic habit to journal every day (ever for 5 minutes!)

  • @lisahalbert4456
    @lisahalbert4456 Місяць тому +6

    I'm so glad that I found you maybe a month ago. I use your guided meditations all the time. This Transform Your Life Launch is Spot.On. for me now! I ended a 19 yr relationship, am rebuilding my body after 4 total joint replacements (and weight gain), but also revamping both my professional and personal identities. So Thank You! However this is a weird comment, I kept getting distracted trying to listen to you.....because of the background music! I reminds me of Mr Roger's Trolley.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Місяць тому +3

      Wow! Amazing. And thanks for the feedback!

  • @romy48
    @romy48 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much! My ideal self is authentic: doing the things I want without thinking about what others might want me to be. My ideal self is kind, by helping others in need and sharing her love and light frequently. My ideal self is strong: I set firm boundaries and distance myself when people cross these in a disrespectful way, remembering that this says more about them than about me.

  • @hasaliperera
    @hasaliperera 18 днів тому +2

    1. Empowered
    2. Achiever
    3. Supportive Leader

  • @mbalizungu4330
    @mbalizungu4330 21 день тому +1

    Dear Mbali. You are Fearless, Unstoppable, Disciplined.

  • @anammirzaaaaa
    @anammirzaaaaa Місяць тому +2

    My ideal self would be confident, strong and hard working

  • @jennilynannojeda3343
    @jennilynannojeda3343 19 днів тому

    My ideal self nourishes herself, is disciplined, and enjoys her life ✨

  • @ashley_brown6106
    @ashley_brown6106 Місяць тому +14

    My ideal self lives in absolute freedom. She lives alone, just like I do, but still has a long term, exclusive partner. She doesn't have to work a mundane, typical job where her personality is controlled or suppressed. She is a writer, and she works whenever she feels like it and when inspiration hits. She has no stress. She has very few responsibilities. She is free to choose her own schedule and even that is not strictly fixed is she doesn't want to follow it one day! She is also very affluent and lives in quiet luxury. She can buy anything she fancies, no matter the price tag. Actually, she's a multi millionaire! (I know, it sounds crazy. But if you can't dream big, you'll never achieve big things. If you dream big and try hard, maybe you'll still fail, but at least you'll know you've tried and did your best.)

  • @aulias2
    @aulias2 Місяць тому +3

    I came accross another creator that's making this kind of content as well (visualizing ideal self, etc), and i did try a bit to get into it, but for some reasons yours is always special to me. I just wanna let you know that it just hits closer to home everytime a content/idea is delivered by you, Aileen. Thank you for making this video! Let's get into 2025 gracefully

    • @ladyelizabeth8735
      @ladyelizabeth8735 Місяць тому +1

      Same! ♥️ Like you said, her content his positively different! ✨

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Місяць тому +1

      Aw thank you for sharing that 💗✨ I appreciate it

  • @aizamalubag-rondera1990
    @aizamalubag-rondera1990 Місяць тому

    She's very sincere and passionate..she really loves us..i love this gurl...❤❤❤

  • @saharbaddar7255
    @saharbaddar7255 Місяць тому

    This is awesome! I'll be going through the whole series! 2025 is the year of upleveling and bringing everything to Fruition!!! Abundance, Healing, Happiness,Love, LFG!!! 😺

  • @shelllombardi9124
    @shelllombardi9124 Місяць тому +1

    These steps are practical and doable. Thank you for laying them out so clearly. Looking forward to the entire series. 💕

  • @lisab9734
    @lisab9734 Місяць тому +1

    Three traits of my ideal self - peaceful, comfortable, kind

  • @yesyes2113
    @yesyes2113 Місяць тому +3

    My ideal self is you!❤

  • @lizllombaard6693
    @lizllombaard6693 Місяць тому +1

    Kind, loving, optimistic.

  • @rivuuuh
    @rivuuuh Місяць тому +9

    Awh. It's Aileen. She guided me to be my best version since 2018.

    • @aulias2
      @aulias2 Місяць тому +1

      Awww. Mine since 2021 and i'm glad she's here with us throughout the years

  • @saumyapoddar8398
    @saumyapoddar8398 18 днів тому

    Disciplined, loving, happy and contented ❤

  • @MiinaMariaKupper
    @MiinaMariaKupper Місяць тому +1

    Hello!:) The describing sentences of my ideal self are:
    1) I'm inspiring for others and help them to stay positive.
    2) I'm doing enough to feel good about my improvement and achievements and I appreciate it.
    3) I'm nice to others.
    So in summary the traits of my ideal self seem to be kindness, positivity and enthusiasm.
    I wish you luck and inspiration!❤

  • @Awaiyar-mk3no
    @Awaiyar-mk3no Місяць тому

    3 traits of my ideal self
    -productive
    -curiousity
    -confident (releasing self-doubts)

  • @dawnwar2105
    @dawnwar2105 Місяць тому

    I have found that balance is a key to life and hard to achieve..so that is my #1. Productive in working towards my goals and taking care of my physical self. I feel like if I do these things the rest will fall into place.

  • @Mathilde-p2
    @Mathilde-p2 Місяць тому

    Hello Aileen, this is such a beautiful project thank you for sharing ! 💖
    3 traits of my ideal self : being grounded, soft-spoken and contagious smile 🌞

  • @StrawberryCake689
    @StrawberryCake689 Місяць тому

    my ideal self is confident, has a positive outlook on life and lives in the moment!

  • @fatmaaljbrty
    @fatmaaljbrty 26 днів тому +1

    My ideal self is where she feels happy and relief in a country that could make to her success journey more easie, waking up without being anxious wether smth bad will happen or not, without feeling constantly lost about her next steps, living in peace, successful, abundance, loving life.

  • @snehanair806
    @snehanair806 Місяць тому +4

    I love this girl and her vibe ♥️. Love from india♥️♥️♥️

  • @dmvmeu7140
    @dmvmeu7140 Місяць тому

    i really appreciate how you take things step by step and the music, this video is just so positive i'm vibing sm

  • @vicwoo95
    @vicwoo95 28 днів тому

    My ideal self is an artist, physically strong and caring for loved ones and myself.

  • @fireflythinking1290
    @fireflythinking1290 Місяць тому

    I just took a solid two hours to follow each part and the most interesting one that came out is that I want to become more future-oriented in general. I usually don't take enough time to reflect on what I truly want in life and just lets myself float aimelessly. I want to know what I want to be doing over the next few years and insure that for myself.

  • @mylenar.1350
    @mylenar.1350 Місяць тому +1

    Love series ❤ I hold dear to my heart when you did the dream life series years ago. It was so good for me back them

  • @SisFiran
    @SisFiran Місяць тому +1

    Hi, sis. I ❤ your style!. Hair, simple make up and your cloth. Looks so minimalist but exclusive. Thank you for the video.
    Im preparing 3 physical journals for next year . Gratitude & Small win Journal, Planner & To do List Journal, and lastly is 2025 Vision Journal. 😊 Maybe next year will do the digital planning.

  • @pgdymprashantsen5921
    @pgdymprashantsen5921 16 днів тому

    really very good Vedic,i have watched and I have no words to thank you

  • @indahsusilowati3632
    @indahsusilowati3632 Місяць тому +1

    Omg, new series, thank you so much for making this series. I have been following you since dream life series. It helped me a lot. Thank you for always sharing great videos ❤❤

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Місяць тому

      Aww happy to hear that! Yes I wanted to make something like the Dream Life Series again ☺️

  • @Awaiyar-mk3no
    @Awaiyar-mk3no Місяць тому

    I love Aileen. She is glowing up so much 🥰🌸

  • @annoar9776
    @annoar9776 Місяць тому

    You look so beautiful.

  • @janazam7906
    @janazam7906 16 днів тому +1

    what do you wanna be ?
    post affirmations about this
    adress the obstacles /problems :
    what are the actions and habits that support this new ideal self
    what do i need to implement into my life
    what do i repeatedly do
    build it into your routine
    reminder and notifications
    set your next goal
    prioritize the first goal

  • @she_was_here
    @she_was_here Місяць тому +23

    Aileen is looking extra gorgeous in this video ❤

  • @SamashaRanasinghe
    @SamashaRanasinghe Місяць тому +5

    I really needed this

  • @ramyasree3201
    @ramyasree3201 21 день тому

    My 3 traits of my ideal self.. to be Independent, fit and happy

  • @LittleSanch
    @LittleSanch Місяць тому +1

    I am so excited to journal on these prompts! Thank you Aileen ✨

  • @HealthierDAYBYTAY
    @HealthierDAYBYTAY Місяць тому

    I was just working on my notion and overall planning and thanks to the algorithm your video came on my feed and I love it. It came at just the right time! Thanks ❤

  • @taram.3578
    @taram.3578 Місяць тому +1

    You’re my most favorite UA-camr I like to watch your videos every day!❤

  • @HappinessHabit-q9u
    @HappinessHabit-q9u Місяць тому

    Such an inspiring video! 🌟 Reinventing ourselves is a journey, and your tips make it feel achievable and exciting. 2025 is the perfect time to start fresh and embrace the best version of ourselves. Thank you for sharing this motivation!

  • @maryam_25-m3j
    @maryam_25-m3j Місяць тому

    Really thank you Aileen, I was thinking about how to start to plan for my next 5 years this December, and It's a very good start with the video, I downloaded the template and now I am writing my answer while watching your video

  • @Journal-freak
    @Journal-freak Місяць тому

    3:40 the three traits of my ideal self are gratitude, confidence and discipline❤

  • @baconkaryn
    @baconkaryn 6 днів тому

    Thank you Lavendaire!!

  • @inahmarivin
    @inahmarivin Місяць тому

    Thanks Miss Lavendaire!❤ i am so glad I found your yt channel.

  • @yasmimlusitano3693
    @yasmimlusitano3693 Місяць тому

    lovely video! thank you! just found your channel and completely loved it 💗

  • @TulipGS98
    @TulipGS98 15 днів тому

    Three traits:
    1. Somebody who's just full of love to give
    2. Faithful to my principles and able to live and speak my truth
    3. Curious and calm to try new stuff without fear of failure or embarrasement

  • @AsiyaBegum-pd5ev
    @AsiyaBegum-pd5ev Місяць тому +1

    Thank you dear for this inspiring video❤.. I was really feeling very low but after listening to this video I am kind of feeling better now... Thank you again

  • @shonaassang1053
    @shonaassang1053 Місяць тому +1

    The three traits of my ideal self is curious, outgoing and adventurous.

  • @serendipityglory
    @serendipityglory Місяць тому +2

    Love your top Aileen and excited for this new series ❤❤

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Місяць тому

      Here’s the form to get the template! lavendaire.com/transformyourlife

  • @PersianHistorian
    @PersianHistorian 28 днів тому

    Wow 🤩 Lavendaire you are such an angel

  • @travel_with_ibukun
    @travel_with_ibukun Місяць тому

    Confident, bold, daring ❤

  • @JoyfulJourney95111
    @JoyfulJourney95111 Місяць тому

    confident, gitty, and cslm

  • @corinne6514
    @corinne6514 Місяць тому +1

    wow thank you for this! ill look forward to the next videos!

  • @evajonkers7335
    @evajonkers7335 25 днів тому

    I hope I will be more calm, creative and in balance

  • @podcastsbytk
    @podcastsbytk Місяць тому

    Thank youuuuu, Aileen!!!
    Your videos always inspired me! 🥰❤️

  • @edeletwin
    @edeletwin Місяць тому

    I hope you'll enjoy more of your wonderful house in a beautiful morning light 🌄☀️
    Although there are people literally trapped in terrible situations.. It's great for those of us (adults being able to exercise at least some of basic human rights) who can, to FOCUS on whatever FREEDOM we have and take action!
    For me going according to the Yiddish calendar, I've already been in the new year 5785 (from Oct 2024) for a month and a half 📆
    A big fight broke out on New Year's Day this year with one of my best friends, and for around the first 42 days of 5785 my heart was heavy. Just this week I found myself out of the dumps 💔
    I've learned that shoving down my true emotions to please other people was my mistake.
    Giving my emotions a voice, at least within myself, was crucial.
    I'm becoming a person Who Journals on weekdays (days when I'm religiously allowed to write or record) 💙

  • @mariya0221
    @mariya0221 Місяць тому +4

    Good vibessssss

  • @LY-gw5kv
    @LY-gw5kv Місяць тому

    Hi i would like to add on the identity . To have alter egos. You are different when work mode. At home. With your friend. Business mode. With yourself. This will organize your identities and become more focus.

  • @zerogrqvity9395
    @zerogrqvity9395 Місяць тому

    I always like watching your videos! You’re super inspiring! 🤍

  • @gloriazepeda3922
    @gloriazepeda3922 Місяць тому

    Wowwww I already have my artist of live workbook 2025 , so I am super ready , thanks for this . I really need lots of direction

  • @ThathsaraniLiyanaarachchi-y1j
    @ThathsaraniLiyanaarachchi-y1j Місяць тому +1

    I'm watching your new year planning videos for last three years

  • @Erica-dj5mo
    @Erica-dj5mo Місяць тому

    I loved this video. Excited about this process! You look amazing here. ❤

  • @annenolan6010
    @annenolan6010 Місяць тому +2

    that was brilliant, thank you :)

  • @vinuthna.m6113
    @vinuthna.m6113 Місяць тому

    Loved the video!!!!!❤❤❤ It reallyyy helpeddd❤

  • @hridayashreeboruah1928
    @hridayashreeboruah1928 16 днів тому +1

    Three traits - She's not indecisive anymore, she's level headed who isn't triggered easily by environmental stressors, she's calm and composed.

  • @FitnesswithMeg
    @FitnesswithMeg Місяць тому

    Thank you for this!! I really needed this!

  • @lorrainetrujillo986
    @lorrainetrujillo986 Місяць тому

    Thank You for this series! Totally in love 💯 and super motivated

  • @kholo-g5n
    @kholo-g5n Місяць тому

    I am disciplined, I am confident, I am kind

  • @shiningstar1ho
    @shiningstar1ho 27 днів тому

    three traits of my ideal self: discipline, energetic, healthy physically and mentally

  • @CamilleCreationWithCamilleLLC
    @CamilleCreationWithCamilleLLC Місяць тому

    My 3 traits I want to embody: Disciplined. Bold. Resourceful.

  • @profile4183
    @profile4183 Місяць тому

    Been waiting for this video!!

  • @la_elvie
    @la_elvie Місяць тому +1

    Excited for this serieeeees! 🤎🤎🤎

  • @octaviagovender6738
    @octaviagovender6738 Місяць тому

    Three traits of my most ideal self: Authenticity, Intuitive, Disciplined

  • @JENtsilyo_ph
    @JENtsilyo_ph 17 днів тому

    love this!!

  • @JoyfulJourney95111
    @JoyfulJourney95111 Місяць тому

    I found this very simplistic and refreshing.

  • @ryerise
    @ryerise Місяць тому

    Thank you for this! I do really need a guidance and direction for my 2025 as a young Adult huhuhuhu. Will Support your series! Lovelots!

  • @kellyboudreau
    @kellyboudreau Місяць тому +1

    Three traits of my ideal self are that I feel good in my body, I value health and wellness, and I am confident and eloquent.

  • @miau2451
    @miau2451 Місяць тому

    Hiii my ideal self is creative, fashionable and accomplished ❤

  • @vidushipatel
    @vidushipatel 26 днів тому

    this was sooooooo good.