10 Signs You Lack Class: Classless Behaviors Women MUST Avoid!
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- Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
- Are you making classless moves without even realizing it? In this video, we'll reveal the top 10 telltale signs that you're lacking class - and show you exactly how to fix them! Whether you're hoping to level up your elegance or just want to seem more put-together, these tips are perfect for any woman looking to boost her sophistication."
We're spilling all the tea on those cringe-worthy, tacky habits that screeeam 'unrefined!' From rude table manners to embarrassing fashion faux pas, we're breaking down the biggest no-nos that instantly kill your classy vibe. But don't worry, we've also got you covered with simple, practical advice to help you ditch those classless behaviors for good. Want to ooze more poise and polish in any situation? This video is packaged with game-changing tips to transform you into a modern-day lady with true grace and refinement. We're talking seated posture, conversational etiquette, elegant styling tricks, and more! Hit play to uplevel your class from drab to fab.
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“My bad” is a classless answer. A simple “ I am sorry” is enough to cover over bad manners
Or the new one these days . Rather then saying your welcome to a thank you . I'm hearing more and more these days .
No worries .
I can't stand that . I think right away, well, I wasn't worried !
I am waiting for a no problem , your welcome or my pleasure.
I can't stand, no worries . And they say it constantly
Especially waders and waitresses. More for the new generation. But some older people are saying no worries now
Or “excuse me” is also acceptable😃
You’re welcome
non! non! non! No “sorry”!
“My mistake” ✔️.
no that is just modern vernacular. it means the same thing. You are exhibiting classless elitism and racism.
1. Bad hygiene
2. Bad manners
3. Loud & obnoxious in public
4. Inappropriate language & profanity
5. Poor table manners
6. Being "flakey", irresponsible
7. Gossip & spreading rumors
8. Disrespecting personal space
9. Lack of punctuality
10. Lack of emotional intelligence
Having tattoos and/or piercings beyond earrings.
Showing an unnecessary amount of skin. Dressing in a way that would be appropriate in a house of ill repute.
Thank you for summarizing it. The video is not concise enough. Too much explaining and not getting to the point.
Wearing those god-awful leggings, especially if one is older, overweight, and/or if one has lumps and ripples.
Driving a loud car. Disrupting the peace in neighborhoods.
A word about gossip: Be very cautious with someone who attempts to drag you into a gossipy conversation. They are doing a few things: 1) gathering intel on your responses to see if you can be influenced against others 2) assessing your character. If you shut it down or excuse yourself politely, they will not try this again with you. 3) using your gossip against you in the future.
Best rule of thumb is to refuse to engage in it.
Girl, 1000%. Family is especially a do not tread. My SIL said I “never say anything” and I seriously did my best just because I’m not like that, and she drug a comment out of one of my best friends, since we were literally teenagers, that seriously wasn’t even a FRIEND of hers until YEARS later. Didn’t matter. It wasn’t even that bad. It was just two friends talking. Wasn’t even just about her! Boy. Friend let it spill. Idiot. Now, I lost my friend. I stayed friend with her, she realized what she had done, the the damage had happened. Now, we don’t talk, because she’s friend with SIL. I actually ran into her just recently. We hugged, a d we do miss each other. But she made her choice🤷♀️. I cannot POSSIBLY be in touch with her. But I’ll always be her friend if she finally sees how evil my SIL is. PS. She’s lost contact with her own cousin, her kids, her nieces and brother all because of this evil woman.
Interrupting is on my list as well as those that say "me too", then proceed to take over the conversation.
'my bad?' Not classy. Learning to speak well is part of being classy.
This morning a TV talking head said, "At the end of the day, there is the bottom line." Really!
This is spot on! Being disrespectful is definitely classless. The way people treat others reveals a lot of themselves. Great content. Thank you ❤
My mother was an extremely classy woman. She taught me well. Being classy has opened many doors for me. Thank you mom🩷.
Being concerned with class is in itself classless, however your advice is wonderful.
Spot on !
You've eighter got it.
Or not...
I'd amend that comment by recognizing that being "concerned" (because you don't want to offend) is not as bad as being "obsessed."
@@SMHH.... I couldn't care less about being offensive. I am not responsible for others offense, they are. (So no amending) My point is that any thoughts about class and one's place in the socio-economic system is a type of social comparison that only causes sadness When you are aspiring to raise your class you are wanting to be among a group of people to whom you do not belong. I know this is offensive too many people but is simply self delusion to think that money and monied people in the highest echelon of class are different who are say...middle class. Good and kind and respectful behavior will always raise your social worth but it will rarely raise your actual class or socio-economic status.
I really like the saying: In the head there is knowledge, on the outside there is confidence.
I hear women shouting profanities every day. They seem to think it's cool. I find it seriously offensive and uncalled for.
I hate hearing anyone cursing in public, especially maddening when within earshot of kids!!
Same applies to men spewing F-bombs. Equally uncool.
@@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64 f-bombs are never classy.
It dismays me when I hear up and coming commentators on their own YT videos or podcasts, commenting on current events, start to use language like f-ing this or f-ing that because it's popular and they think it will ride well with the younger crowd. But what it really does is drop their overall awareness level and credibility. A few years ago I started following two young astute YT commentators. One kept on being above board and classy. The other started using derisive and crude language to emphasize his points. Recently i noticed the first is being invited to appear as a guest on political shows on national networks. The second is losing viewers and heard from less and less.
@@G.G.8GG What is the nature or agenda of these political shows to which the 1st commentator was invited? See, I'm more interested in the content than the language framing it. An f-bomb is never classy but a politely dressed lie is dangerous.
My sister is a master at all of these classless behaviors.
Tattling on someone is also a classless Behavior
@@iamwell5654 Maybe you can help your sister by leading by example. She might catch on and become a habit.
@@3653cdwHarsh truth of being the leader; no matter how examplary we are, most people will not able to to follow it.
Watch how people treat waiting staff,shop assistants etc…in fact anyone they feel is socially inferior…It will give you a mine of information about their level of real class…or lack of it…
Did you actually say ‘my bad’? That nullifies your whole video, you aren’t following your own advice
It's nice to see I have manners, even in the face of those who blatantly don't I'm just SO TIRED of seeing lack of it in others. To the point it's almost competition to be the most crass person alive. People can just be reactionary without stopping to think. Maybe the tip about having boundaries can be useful for me
When i was younger i used to get peoples vibes. I used to interpret silence very well. That requires intuition.
Using the word “classy” signifies a glaring lack of class
lol
Exactly! Real class people never refer to anyone or anything as classy. It’s usually those who aim for that mindset and are far from it
@@BeautifulDreamerK it’s pretty pretentious
🙄 what word is she supposed to use then???
@@alleycat616 it’s like , is she “classist” , supporting class division ? lol Class is ambiguous these days, a lot of variables go into it ….
You can't please everyone, everybody has their own set of standards you don't need to be classy yet fake.
Just natural and decent
Absolutely. Wearing enough clothing for the setting too isn't being fake.
Wish all children were taught these growing up
How about a video for classless men
exactly since they're the ones who burp, fart, shove food in their faces, drink until falling over and drive like maniacs half the time, plus beating people up rather than having conversations.
A much older classy lady gave me advice on class she said never wear anything with a print or pattern she said soild colors matching shoes and handbags shorter nails American manicure rather than colors spraying perfume out infront of you then walking through it so to not over power your fragrance highlights of blonde rather than peroxide blonde having designer outfits you can mix and match to extend your wardrobe. To always find something to compliment a woman on upon first meeting always leaving at the height of a party causing people to crave your company and gets you invited to other gatherings to never get intoxicated at parties keeping your senses and never get drawn into arguments ever
When i was in middle school i wouldn’t change Clothes in front of others because it made me inconfortable.
There was always this girl insulting me for doing so .
Still wondering Why she pressured me so much 😅
jealousy
@@nancyinthegarden3160 yeah she was definitively because she did other stuff but i don’t know Why it brother es her that i would change privately
Because EVERYONE was making themselves vulnerable, while you were not. It is an odd situation like using public restrooms, side by side, requires a kind of mutually agreed upon ignorance. By not baring yourself, it reminds everyone that THEY are naked themselves.
@@kristinedoty7876
Not you saying she had the right to insult me because i wasn’t changing in front of her
Also most of the girls already had their pe clothes on and weren’t changing 😂
@@Snowball910 I'm not justifying or condoning what these girls said or did. I am simply trying to present one of the possible psychological processes that results in this kind of behavior. The phenomenon of unspoken mutual ignorance of an otherwise private behavior is very context specific. Public toilets, communal showers, fitting rooms, even restaurant dining rooms all constitute places where usually private behaviors, out of necessity, are performed in a communal space. In effect, they remain private by pretending they still are. The fact that you feel uncomfortable, which is completely validated, signifies that you have not been able to find that private space within yourself that allows others to not feel the vulnerability and judgement they would normally feel when exposed in this manner. Basically, you've broken the illusion and declared the Emperor has no clothes!
Class is English. The English speak of “Class,” all the time. You are speaking of normal cleanliness and politeness.
Men of substances always, and I mean always prefer women of class.
Of course !
You are clearly very young because saying, "my Bad" is a completely stupid thing to say and not something a sophistocated, educated person would say. "My apologies" is more appropriate.
"My bad" is a british English expression.
You'd use it to excuse a slight mistake.
I couldn't agree with you more! I also cannot stand the dolts who reply to a "thank you" with, "no problem", instead of saying, "my pleasure" or "you're welcome". One time I replied to that idiotic response with "I didn't ask you if it's a problem, I said thank you". I'm sad to say this person was still completely clueless. 🫠🙃🤦♀️
I swing classy to classless in 30 seconds... While cursing in French to English to my local language...
Saying Bon appétit in France is not considered a show of good manners.
Only if you're a french hostess...
Yes it is.
This video hit home on so many levels…
The tips applies to both genders.
Yes, especially not interrupting. That is more often a male thing. In fact, in a professional setting that is male dominated, women can’t always wait their turn to speak or they will never be heard.
"level up" and "slay" are the least classy words to be in circulation.
Absolutely correct information details how to be an Elegant Lady ❤
How to be a decent person in general. Very good tips here❤
None of these people live rural clearly
I can add many more to your list. When coming to interruptions, I live in a big city where people join conversations and just interrupt. I find it very disturbing. Honestly, even if we have class, sometimes we are late and sometimes we interrupt during our conversations. We are only human beings. People are not perfect and I see that a lot of educated and financially well off people have some terrible ways. They are endless. Here are some examples. When last did a gentleman give you a seat on the bus or train? How many times have people, who were walking in front of you, held the door for you in the subway? When last did a guy open the car door for you? When last did somebody say Good Morning as you walked past them on the street? When last did the gentlemen stand up when you joined the dinner table or the group? The list is endless. I guess we do our best on certain occasions. Those classy days don't seem to exist in big cities anymore. Anyway, we can still try our best to do what is right. I think what bothers me the most is the lack of etiquette at the dinner table.
Unless you have the ability to put class on the back burner to bring out the grit,
you nothing but a empty shell
11. Saying ‘my bad’ is hardly ‘classy’
JLo and Prince Harry's wife lack class.
They are both Leo’s tooo lol. Leo’s can be the most classless
Wearing makeup in some public places is called low class. Seems to me that anyone who makes a remark in public about how someone there should not be wearing makeup or saying to them they should be wearing makeup there is very bad manners. So is touching your private part area very bad manners too. People should already know that however some people don't seem to know that while they are constant checking their fly to see if it is down or as if they are hinting to someone else that their fly is down. Another thing. Changing the subject abruptlly to an altogether different subject which has nothing at all to do with the set of goals everyone there has agreed on ahead of time is another grossly display of bad manners too.
We were taught not to be “uncouth, or vulgar”, and not to swear. (There were limited exceptions.) Always be polite.
Class never entered the picture.
🤷♀️😉
Exactly. I am embarrassed for watching this, actually. Curiousity won out.
All of these actions are normal for some but unfortunately not for all. Good program !
Do not tell women what to do. That’s not a class act.
Thank you!
Terrific information, always useful.
Thanks again!
"My bad"? That is not only classless but also incorrect English!!
A perfect description of LA ;)
Sadly
Be discreet
No, but just reported this video for identity theft through procedures of another person.
Same
Self assessment, self improvement❤. The in culture now is openly bad and is cheered as good. I am glad there's someone who thinks of bringing back self respect as a culture.
People with proper social etiquette always hold their sparkling wine and other forms by the stem of the glass. One should never hold the glass by the bulb. The glasses have distinct forms to accentuate the unique bouquet of whichever wine one is enjoying. The stock footage displays beautiful women, probably directed, who do not display "class." Holding a glass correctly is proper etiquette. Only snifters are different. They are specially designed to be warmed to the temperature of the hand cupping them. Whiskey, brandy, Cognac, Scotch, etc.
"My bad"? Are you 5?
My cuticles stay ragged because I'm prone to hangnails. Also, I'm lucky enough not to go to something that requires multiple sized utensils.
Nicely done.
Because of my ADHD sometimes I overbooked myself, and I feel terrible when I’m late or I have to cancel last minute. No to understand that that is my reflection and they’re nicer if someone cannot understand that I do not want to do business with them now or do I want to be part of your circle?
Lack of emotional intelligence is very rarely fixable, especially fir the neuro divergent.
I disagree with number 1. Since not all can have the resources to clean themselves.
A little ingenuity required
1) This should all apply to males, too. Unkempt facial hair (a mostly male trait) that drops crumbs is just sickening. I fear being exposed to this since I'm so short.
2) Teaching the public "how to be classy" and sophisticated is the opposite of "classiness." It's very off-putting and no one's perfect? Well I wouldn't want to live in that world!
3) Vocabulary? I should have counted the "classy"; "sophistication;" etc. GOOD LUCK.
It was the multiple uses of "total" and "totally" that I couldn't get around 😅
I have no class.
😂😂😂😂 I’m sure you’re not the only person to feel like this while watching.
😂😂😂😂 I’m sure you’re not the only person to feel like this while watching.
Me too, I fart all the time !
No one 's perfect.
More than qualifying a classless; it may be they are Jobless.
Some people with money have class.
"My bad" 😮 so not classy
Emotional intelligence
Careless and be on ur own
Looks are deceitful
Class from hell ..
Sorry, but this points are all valid but they are not for Women, they are basic stuff for Men and Women. And they have nothing to do for beeing classy, they are just basics in my mind - sadly all of them get rarer by the day.
So what
Brushing teeth AND tongue too..
Furthermore, your thumbnail is misleading, I thought you were going to cover wardrobe practices that are low class but people [wrongly] think is elegant.
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Try to flip your dialog.
Im not classy
Are you proud of that? The word classy here, can be changed to having common decency
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My bad …….sorry but that’s classless 🫣
If only we could be the picture of perfection like you, my dear….🫠
Wearing makeup in some public places is called low class. Seems to me that anyone who makes a remark in public about how someone there should not be wearing makeup or saying to them they should be wearing makeup there is very bad manners. So is touching your private part area very bad manners too. People should already know that however some people don't seem to know that while they are constant checking their fly to see if it is down or as if they are hinting to someone else that their fly is down. Another thing. Changing the subject abruptlly to an altogether different subject which has nothing at all to do with the set of goals everyone there has agreed on ahead of time is another grossly display of bad manners too.