I often permanently time out people. If you're a negative influence in my life and aren't bringing anything positive in the friendship, then TIME OUT. I realized, like Tamar said, many people are undercover haters, and I do not need them in my life, no sir.
Mageeelovesfrank Yes Exactly. If you surround yourself with negative people than you will become negative, but if you surround yourself with positive people than you will be positive. Keep doing what you do girl. Sometimes we just have to permanently time out those negative people.
I agree with Jeannie. People who "announce" their time outs are akin to people who "announce" they're leaving Facebook. They're the kind of people that WANT drama, so they have to announce the "I'm not talking to you" in order to get the drama started. Either to make you feel sorry for them or to make them feel bad about themselves.
OneLoveRSR i hate those people on facebook!!! either they are closing their account or 'cleaning' their friendlist BUT LIKE WHY U GOTTA ANNOUNCE IT THO???? as if we should be running to them to stay friends! smh
I liked Kendra on the panel. Besides that I had to time out a friend once. We were close friends. I always listened to her stories, and tried my best to understand her feelings. However whenever I had something to tell her about, wether it was positive or negative, she never seemed to care. I just felt fed up, and when I called a time out everyone at school thought it was my fault we weren't friends. And when I tried to tell her why I called a time out, she never responded me back. She just became friends with my other friends, and they basically choose sides by being her friend, over me. I'm glad that happened since I got to see the reality of the friendship.
Stoney, are you coming at Tamera rn? A pregnant woman who has to take care of herself to take care of her child? Mouna, you deserved better friends bro.
***** BITCH!!!! Who on the panel, u putting that out there for;??? cant be Tamera who's bout 7 months PREGNANT and NEEDS to call time off work. And where exactly do you feel that Kendra lady going????? not on this panel honey, LIES! GET YOUR LIFE! HAVE SEVERAL SEATS! WHATCHU MEAN!!!!?????
***** Tamera is pregnant so she has an good excuse for not coming to work. Plus she needed call off work. Tamera is literally 7 months pregnant i think
I have many "friends" that make excuses all the time and never want to go out when I ask but get mad when I am actually busy and can't make it to see them........ This is why I am the way I am. Sometimes you have to let people go, even if you have years of memories behind you. Just go, free yourself ♥
muzikisl0v3 I had a friend do something I could never forgive her for and I had to let go. I believed we were bestes but I was only hurting myself. I literally have like 70 friends on facebook and I am okay with that. Sometimes you just have too.
I need alone time every day, because I'm an introvert and I get exhausted when I'm around other people without big breaks. Also, sometimes you're just going through different stuff compared to your friends, so your schedules just don't blend well.
I hear you ladies. After 15 years of friendship, I had to time out my friend. I noticed that I was forever counselling, encouraging, counselling, encouraging on the same matter. Every time I hang out with her, I feel bad, she drains me and I dont enjoy her company. It's sad but when you come to the conclusion that this person brings out the worse in you, you definitely need a Time out!
I have a horrible habit of doing this.. a time out from people often and then literally every 2 years i have a permanent time out from my friends and make new ones. I actually dislike this about myself. I dunno... i just can't find women to genuinely be a friend to me without catty-ness and i get on with men better but now that i am a woman, you just can't be friends with men. ugh sigh...
This is why a lot of girls have gay friends, you get to have "girl chat" without worrying about Catty-ness, and someone coming on to you down the line.
I think u just havent found ur "person" yet. Someone u can call ur bestfriend. Nothing wrong with changing friends. I did that until i was 24. And when u'll find ur "person" and u two get a time out, u'll see that its suuuuper hard on u coz u know it was hella hard to find that friend.
It's always comical revisiting the same topic over and over again with certain friends especially AFTER I've given what the felt would be the best solution but nope, they never do it and I'm hearing about it alllll over again. -_-
Houston Scott Don't you just hate that! It drives me insane when my friends want to go over the same thing for WEEKS after I thought we resolved the issue. It's gotten to the point where after I give my advice, if my friends even bring up a problem again I tune them out or hang up the phone. I'm not going over the same things multiple times.
ThePopGoddess I'm just like, I'm not gonna comment on this again or I'll say you said this last time. I'm not trying to hear it again. If i see actual effort then I'd be fine with hearing about the progression in the given situation but if I'm hearing about you being in the EXACT same situation pretty much and you look to me, I'm not gonna chime in. Lmao
Houston Scott That really is the only way. It's like, if I've given you the SAME advice more than once and you never took it then that's on you. I'm done with the problems don't call me with the SAME problems after I gave you advice you refuse to use.Like you said I'm all for hearing your problems if you actually took my advice and are working through them. But I've come to the conclusion most people don't want your advice, they just want to complain and I'm not here for that lmao
***** lol same here. I actually liked that people could come to me when I was younger and get advice from me. Now I'm fine with it and all for helping solve problems but if the problem isn't being resolved and there's absolutely no change then they better go to the next friend because Houston is done. Lmao venting is different though. I can actually stomach that more.
Tamar is dead on about those undercover haters! People who are either waiting to see you fail or I bet her friend just wanted to ride her coattails so she could go to parties and meet celebrities. Those people are NOT your friends! #ByeFelicia
I do time outs aaaaall the time. I used to make my friends problems my problem and then one day i was just like "WHAT AM I DOING? THIS IS NOT MY ISSUE". So now I concern myself WITH MYSELF! I give advice that one good time and then after that, my name is Bennett and Im not in it. My name is Paul, thats between yall.
I'm like Adrienne I put people on time outs every now and then ..but I have recently put my best friend on a permanent time out, naah it was waay too much bs to deal with especially when you've done so much for that particular person...The thing is no matter how close ya'll are with someone you shouldn't expect anything from them cuz that's what ruins it all. The only people you should have high expectations for is your parents and maybe some family members to avoid disappointment.The sad thing is how egocentric that person is that they can't even see what they've done to you.
I love all of the panelists, but I do think Kendra would be a great addition as well! That would really bring diversity to the show! I think if Kendra was on there a lot more, and really got to know her co-hosts on a deeper level, she would GO IN on girl chat and be just as loud and animated as Tamar and Adrienne!
***** I respect what you said and agree that it is nice to have a cast with women from different races. I just think that if they were to add another person, Kendra would be a good fir due to her animated personality and her background in Playboy.
I swear Adrienne is my spirit animal. I'm the same. It's nothing personal...I'm an Aquarius. I recently went on time out with my best friend for some weeks, and we just reunited yesterday . And it was all love.
I actually cut off my best friend 10 months ago. I felt like she was being fake and whenever I would confront her about it I never got a straight answer so I decided to let that friendship go. I feel like I made the right decision. Maybe its just a time out and we can sit down in the future and fix our relationship.
I am going through this right now! My best friend can't stop talking all the damn time about what she is going through and when your going through something too and you wanna say what's going on with you she totally ignores what your saying and starts to talk about her problems once again!!! #Too much!!
I remember when I first learned this lesson in freshmen year. I'd had this friend in middle school, we were fairly close. But I just started to realize that she made me a worse person. She was hardcore in that "I'm pretending I don't care about anyone to excuse treating them rudely" and it rubbed off on me. She was also the type who would just freak out over things and make you feel bad and like you had to apologize even though you weren't sure what had happened. Just drama. So I just...stopped talking to her. One day, she screams across the band room at me, and I'm just looking at her like...are you serious? From all appearances on FB, she's still essentially the same person.
Does anyone else believe Loni's stories? Starting to feel bad for her knowing that she is just trying to make us laugh rather than share a real experience -.-
I agree about undercover haters. I'm almost 9 months pregnant and would post a pic of myself and my baby bump and had a "friend" (mind you she's pregnant too) call me fat. I knew it was a projection of her insecurities because she was smaller than me and looked more pregnant, and I didn't start showing until I was 7 months, if I didn't bring up my pregnancy, no one would have known. Some people are just haters based of jealousy!
I time out people so quickly. It is honestly a flaw of mine. I don't give them a heads up, I just stop acknowledging them completley. I enjoy being alone and I find the smallest thing to justify me removing them from my life. I have a SMALL bunch of friends who I can tolerate.
I take plenty of time outs. But I take time outs on my family but not friend. I only have one best friend. I mainly be having time outs from family. Because they know how to push your buttons.
I took a time-out from my friends because it had always been a rocky friendship with them (2 girls) so when I took a time out, it was a real one that we've never had as friends before, we'd argued and not spent a couple days with each other but then after a couple weeks it was just so messy and we decided to no longer be friends and that was that we haven't spoken since and it's been the best thing that's happened for me I know that it's also good for them sometimes it's awkward as we go to the same school but I now am so comfortable and have much more fun with my REAL friends!!
Lmao Tamar is so extra but I love her loll! Time outs honestly are good for mental stability with some friends. Some people will drive you through the roof for real when you hang out with them too much
I love Tamara and I never want her to leave. However, if Tamara goes on a break for a while because she just gave birth, Kendra should replace her TEMPORARILY because she was absolutely the perfect fit. If it was your first time and they didn't announce Kendra as a guest Co-host, you would've believe she's been there all along. Good job Kendra.
I know about that person who's always in the same situation... it's like they never learn or just stubborn so I just leave them be. Whenever they bring up the topic, I just move on to something else immediately. Or I'll be like not today. If they continue I just walk away or put them on that time out.
Yes all the time it feels so go to take a time out to get some peace of mind. I hate it when your cool down then the same person who you had a disagreement has found something else to fuss about.
First time I agree with Jeannie here. I alwaysssss just make my space and take my own time out lol.. when I'm back, I'm back and there's no drama or tension.
Problem for who? She has been saying Lies since the begining of the show. Its nothing new. I mean y'all should atleast gotten used to it, Accepted it & Moved on. You can't change her personality. Its just something you have to accept with the hosts: Loni's jokes are sometimes inappropriate, Jeannie is a bit Extra @ times etc.
I'm with Adrianne I love being alone but friends automatically started thinking my bf don't want me hanging with them and started talking their smack and timed them out
I don't think its a bad thing to call a time out with your friends. The reason I do my time outs is because I need time for myself and when I do so I time all my friends out not just certain ones.
My parents say time out all the time , probably like 5 times a day but it doesn't help because they just continue to fight. It's been that way since before I was born so my life is pretty stressful.
Time out? More like time away, I get mad and I tend to say things I regret so I just walk away or keep my filter. And I'm so happy that Kendra is on, I used to have the biggest girl crush on her. o;
I think you don't owe everybody you time out an explanation. Especially in Jeannie's case where the friend just had issues and she isn't taking on board any of your solutions. Girl, bye.
wendy del Real that's a nice thought, but the point of this show is that it doesn't have a white host because the other ten million shows already got that covered. R u trying to tell us u can't watch one damn show without a single white person. Can u imagine how other ethnic groups feel?
Jeannie I feel you on this one! One of my close friends, which btw I love so much. Is always talking about her damn BOYFRIEND and their problems. Like yes i'm here for her whenever she needs to talk but damn I don't wanna hear about your boyfriend all the time. Girl, no.
I have a friend that is sorta on time out right now for the same reason Jeanie said. Like, we tired of hearing about your same issues after I done gave you a great solution. I don't wanna talk about his anymore! LOL.
***** I knowwww..I mean who the hell disses somebody and call them plus size? Hell if I'm going in on you imma call you fat and be done with it. Loni need to just shut up sometimes.
I must admit I can take time outs or cut people off in a second with ease if i catch a funky vibe or we just not gellin how we use to, not sure if its a good or bad thing but it works just fine for me
Ok, so I have this friend who I've been friends with since the start of high school, since freshman year we've always hung out together, just the two of us, now its junior year and I feel like I need a break from her, some of the stuff she says is really annoying me. we always do everything together, and when I talk to my other friends she also needs to butt into the conversation. She's really smart and good at explaining stuff, so for example if someone asked me to how to do something, i'd be explaining but then she'd butt in and I find that really annoying. She's really quiet and is not that fun to hang out with (she's not too open-minded). we are 'best friend' I guess, but its just because we're always together but we're really not that close, like I honestly wouldn't miss her that much after highschool. I really want to make new friends and want to be included in a group rather than just have one friend. I don't know what to do cuz everyone has their own friends, and if I do find a new friend, she would have to come too and that's going to be a bit awkward.. Right now I'm feeling really bored with our friendship cuz we already know everything about each other and I feel like we say the same things all the time.. I really need a break from her but I don't really have other close friends to hang out with!! PLEASE HELP if anyone has good advice!! :)
I had a LONG time out with who I thought was a friend..and was so happy when we reconnected... but when she let yet again a man control her life and abuse (physically and mentally) her kids i had enough..i realized she was not the best friend I once had and she never would again so we are no longer friends..
u know it's funny cuz ive been that friend that always talking about the same problem lol. But to my fam, they got so tired of me talking about it soon as I start they like omg & get frustrated. I guess I didn't realize how much I talked about it. Thank God that problem is over & Im in the next chapter of my life🙆 Now I can talk about the finer things in life & not that non existing problem :-)
Time out??? I call it blocked from my life until further notice. I got one friend that's on the list right now and I don't plan on taking her off the list.
I often permanently time out people. If you're a negative influence in my life and aren't bringing anything positive in the friendship, then TIME OUT. I realized, like Tamar said, many people are undercover haters, and I do not need them in my life, no sir.
Mageeelovesfrank Yes Exactly. If you surround yourself with negative people than you will become negative, but if you surround yourself with positive people than you will be positive. Keep doing what you do girl. Sometimes we just have to permanently time out those negative people.
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I agree with Jeannie. People who "announce" their time outs are akin to people who "announce" they're leaving Facebook. They're the kind of people that WANT drama, so they have to announce the "I'm not talking to you" in order to get the drama started. Either to make you feel sorry for them or to make them feel bad about themselves.
OneLoveRSR i hate those people on facebook!!! either they are closing their account or 'cleaning' their friendlist BUT LIKE WHY U GOTTA ANNOUNCE IT THO???? as if we should be running to them to stay friends! smh
Mary-Mintoshia Seraphin It's annoying as hell and usually only done because they're seeking the attention of a specific person or persons.
OneLoveRSR I know plenty of people like that. They should just delete their Facebook and shut up about it. Ugh
I think I take time outs every single day lol
sassqueen11 Every other hour for me!
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Great points Jeannie. As always.
***** me too. I wanted to know why the other friend was on time-out
Liberti Belle yeah I wanted to know too! :/
Kendra was really good on panel. She's very open.
All of the girls are beautiful, but Tamar and Adrienne look especially fabulous, from the hair to the makeup.
So this is what you did before gossip site that I love
I liked Kendra on the panel. Besides that I had to time out a friend once. We were close friends. I always listened to her stories, and tried my best to understand her feelings. However whenever I had something to tell her about, wether it was positive or negative, she never seemed to care. I just felt fed up, and when I called a time out everyone at school thought it was my fault we weren't friends. And when I tried to tell her why I called a time out, she never responded me back. She just became friends with my other friends, and they basically choose sides by being her friend, over me. I'm glad that happened since I got to see the reality of the friendship.
Stoney, are you coming at Tamera rn? A pregnant woman who has to take care of herself to take care of her child?
Mouna, you deserved better friends bro.
***** That is wrong shade Tamera like that.
***** BITCH!!!! Who on the panel, u putting that out there for;??? cant be Tamera who's bout 7 months PREGNANT and NEEDS to call time off work. And where exactly do you feel that Kendra lady going????? not on this panel honey, LIES! GET YOUR LIFE! HAVE SEVERAL SEATS! WHATCHU MEAN!!!!?????
***** Tamera is pregnant so she has an good excuse for not coming to work. Plus she needed call off work. Tamera is literally 7 months pregnant i think
Tasha Harris 8months preggers
Tamar is looking extra fine today. Adrienne looks flawless as usual :)
Adrianne: I'm driving you Ms Daisy!!
Me: Guuurrrlll!!! Let me write this down...
+Naceli Rosario lmfao
I have many "friends" that make excuses all the time and never want to go out when I ask but get mad when I am actually busy and can't make it to see them........ This is why I am the way I am. Sometimes you have to let people go, even if you have years of memories behind you. Just go, free yourself ♥
Lashaun Gordon "CAW CAW" *HANDS FLY FREE MOTION*hahahaha xD
Lol I see you everywhere in the comment section
LIL same here. i always see her in the comment section.
Lashaun Gordon just Caw Caw, huh? lol
muzikisl0v3 I had a friend do something I could never forgive her for and I had to let go. I believed we were bestes but I was only hurting myself. I literally have like 70 friends on facebook and I am okay with that. Sometimes you just have too.
now y'all are on permanent time-out on Tamar's list...
Annelyce Yawingu lol😂
true🤣😭
Not all of them lol 😂
I need alone time every day, because I'm an introvert and I get exhausted when I'm around other people without big breaks. Also, sometimes you're just going through different stuff compared to your friends, so your schedules just don't blend well.
Sometimes you need distance
You know I always love seeing you're comments. You seem like such a nice person.
Shaquille Gordon thanks :)
Lol second that
Yesss
Lashaun Gordon deadass I look for ur comment then watch the vid lol
"Don't call Me no mo" Lol
I hear you ladies. After 15 years of friendship, I had to time out my friend. I noticed that I was forever counselling, encouraging, counselling, encouraging on the same matter. Every time I hang out with her, I feel bad, she drains me and I dont enjoy her company. It's sad but when you come to the conclusion that this person brings out the worse in you, you definitely need a Time out!
I agree with both Tamar and Jeannie, because it depends. Sometimes you need the natural time-out, and sometimes you need to call the time-out yourself
I have a horrible habit of doing this.. a time out from people often and then literally every 2 years i have a permanent time out from my friends and make new ones. I actually dislike this about myself. I dunno... i just can't find women to genuinely be a friend to me without catty-ness and i get on with men better but now that i am a woman, you just can't be friends with men. ugh sigh...
i am in the same boat. you can't do girl chats with men, shopping or sleepovers :/
immi's snow globe There's a girl at my school who is exactly like that, a personality I'd never experienced before, so I know what you mean.
This is why a lot of girls have gay friends, you get to have "girl chat" without worrying about Catty-ness, and someone coming on to you down the line.
I think u just havent found ur "person" yet. Someone u can call ur bestfriend. Nothing wrong with changing friends. I did that until i was 24. And when u'll find ur "person" and u two get a time out, u'll see that its suuuuper hard on u coz u know it was hella hard to find that friend.
Man Jeannie is so fucking wise. I hope I have her wisdom and can be as well-spoken as her when I'm her age haha.
i started permanently giving people timeouts after high school tbh.
It's always comical revisiting the same topic over and over again with certain friends especially AFTER I've given what the felt would be the best solution but nope, they never do it and I'm hearing about it alllll over again. -_-
Houston Scott Don't you just hate that! It drives me insane when my friends want to go over the same thing for WEEKS after I thought we resolved the issue. It's gotten to the point where after I give my advice, if my friends even bring up a problem again I tune them out or hang up the phone. I'm not going over the same things multiple times.
ThePopGoddess I'm just like, I'm not gonna comment on this again or I'll say you said this last time. I'm not trying to hear it again. If i see actual effort then I'd be fine with hearing about the progression in the given situation but if I'm hearing about you being in the EXACT same situation pretty much and you look to me, I'm not gonna chime in. Lmao
Houston Scott That really is the only way. It's like, if I've given you the SAME advice more than once and you never took it then that's on you. I'm done with the problems don't call me with the SAME problems after I gave you advice you refuse to use.Like you said I'm all for hearing your problems if you actually took my advice and are working through them. But I've come to the conclusion most people don't want your advice, they just want to complain and I'm not here for that lmao
***** lol same here. I actually liked that people could come to me when I was younger and get advice from me. Now I'm fine with it and all for helping solve problems but if the problem isn't being resolved and there's absolutely no change then they better go to the next friend because Houston is done. Lmao venting is different though. I can actually stomach that more.
***** that's very nice of you.
Tamar is dead on about those undercover haters! People who are either waiting to see you fail or I bet her friend just wanted to ride her coattails so she could go to parties and meet celebrities. Those people are NOT your friends! #ByeFelicia
I do time outs aaaaall the time. I used to make my friends problems my problem and then one day i was just like "WHAT AM I DOING? THIS IS NOT MY ISSUE". So now I concern myself WITH MYSELF! I give advice that one good time and then after that, my name is Bennett and Im not in it. My name is Paul, thats between yall.
"The plus sized girl" loool 😂
I'm like Adrienne I put people on time outs every now and then ..but I have recently put my best friend on a permanent time out, naah it was waay too much bs to deal with especially when you've done so much for that particular person...The thing is no matter how close ya'll are with someone you shouldn't expect anything from them cuz that's what ruins it all. The only people you should have high expectations for is your parents and maybe some family members to avoid disappointment.The sad thing is how egocentric that person is that they can't even see what they've done to you.
Tamar hair and make up looks really nice. Absolutely love it
Adrienne actually timed out Kiely and Sabrina. She just doesn't wanna mention them.
Uh Adrienne has other friends
This video proves that Loni is the friend people time out from.
I love all of the panelists, but I do think Kendra would be a great addition as well! That would really bring diversity to the show!
I think if Kendra was on there a lot more, and really got to know her co-hosts on a deeper level, she would GO IN on girl chat and be just as loud and animated as Tamar and Adrienne!
***** thank u
***** I respect what you said and agree that it is nice to have a cast with women from different races. I just think that if they were to add another person, Kendra would be a good fir due to her animated personality and her background in Playboy.
DON'T CALL ME NO 'MO
LMAOOI the way Tamar says "hater" 😂😂😂😂😂
I swear Adrienne is my spirit animal. I'm the same. It's nothing personal...I'm an Aquarius. I recently went on time out with my best friend for some weeks, and we just reunited yesterday . And it was all love.
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Children of the Most High God stay vigilant and prayerful
Follower and worshipper of Jesus Christ Amen! A beautiful reminder xx
Adrian sounds like an introvert.
What's a introvert ?
sommer wise a person who doesn't like to be around that many people. They keep to themselves
That's me you're describing lol. I've always been a loner
Ain't nothing wrong with being anti social sometimes it's for the best
introvert nothing... that girl partayz like no tomorrow... damn she's always out...
I completely agree with Tamar...sometimes a "friend" can really just be an undercover hater.
I actually cut off my best friend 10 months ago. I felt like she was being fake and whenever I would confront her about it I never got a straight answer so I decided to let that friendship go. I feel like I made the right decision. Maybe its just a time out and we can sit down in the future and fix our relationship.
I am going through this right now! My best friend can't stop talking all the damn time about what she is going through and when your going through something too and you wanna say what's going on with you she totally ignores what your saying and starts to talk about her problems once again!!! #Too much!!
I remember when I first learned this lesson in freshmen year. I'd had this friend in middle school, we were fairly close. But I just started to realize that she made me a worse person. She was hardcore in that "I'm pretending I don't care about anyone to excuse treating them rudely" and it rubbed off on me. She was also the type who would just freak out over things and make you feel bad and like you had to apologize even though you weren't sure what had happened. Just drama. So I just...stopped talking to her. One day, she screams across the band room at me, and I'm just looking at her like...are you serious?
From all appearances on FB, she's still essentially the same person.
Does anyone else believe Loni's stories? Starting to feel bad for her knowing that she is just trying to make us laugh rather than share a real experience -.-
I agree with Tamar there’s people that you gotta permantley delete from ur life and I have no problem doing that
Loved Kendra on the show, she's so honest and real
I agree about undercover haters. I'm almost 9 months pregnant and would post a pic of myself and my baby bump and had a "friend" (mind you she's pregnant too) call me fat. I knew it was a projection of her insecurities because she was smaller than me and looked more pregnant, and I didn't start showing until I was 7 months, if I didn't bring up my pregnancy, no one would have known. Some people are just haters based of jealousy!
All the ladies look beautiful today ♥♥♥♥ :)
I time out people so quickly. It is honestly a flaw of mine. I don't give them a heads up, I just stop acknowledging them completley. I enjoy being alone and I find the smallest thing to justify me removing them from my life. I have a SMALL bunch of friends who I can tolerate.
I am exactly the same way. I fall out of people's lives without notice and by the time I come back around they are moving on with their lives.
I take plenty of time outs. But I take time outs on my family but not friend. I only have one best friend. I mainly be having time outs from family. Because they know how to push your buttons.
i only call time outs with my friends when they become too possessive and i feel like i'm choking
Agreed, I can't stand when my friends are possessive, like you don't own me lol
I agree with Jeannie. The slow, silent drift apart.
I'm legit having this problem right now I love this show it's very helpful
I took a time-out from my friends because it had always been a rocky friendship with them (2 girls) so when I took a time out, it was a real one that we've never had as friends before, we'd argued and not spent a couple days with each other but then after a couple weeks it was just so messy and we decided to no longer be friends and that was that we haven't spoken since and it's been the best thing that's happened for me I know that it's also good for them sometimes it's awkward as we go to the same school but I now am so comfortable and have much more fun with my REAL friends!!
wanted to hear more from jeannie, her advice is always on point.
hahahaahah tamar.'she likes to give ppo permanent timeout" jajaj
Lmao Tamar is so extra but I love her loll! Time outs honestly are good for mental stability with some friends. Some people will drive you through the roof for real when you hang out with them too much
@tamar gave me life in this episode.
I love Tamara and I never want her to leave. However, if Tamara goes on a break for a while because she just gave birth, Kendra should replace her TEMPORARILY because she was absolutely the perfect fit. If it was your first time and they didn't announce Kendra as a guest Co-host, you would've believe she's been there all along. Good job Kendra.
Tamar nailed it here! 😂😭
LMAO rlly what did u say. "dont call me no more" lol Tamar. literally laughed out loud
Sometimes, actually quite often, i put the whole world on time out; i walk the streets with my facial expression saying "Don't talk to me!!!".
I'm really mad that they cut Jeannie off because she was about to get into some truth!
I know about that person who's always in the same situation... it's like they never learn or just stubborn so I just leave them be. Whenever they bring up the topic, I just move on to something else immediately. Or I'll be like not today. If they continue I just walk away or put them on that time out.
"Dont call me no mo"😂
Yes all the time it feels so go to take a time out to get some peace of mind. I hate it when your cool down then the same person who you had a disagreement has found something else to fuss about.
I've had to do that numerous times. To friends and family. Me you get three strikes, then you're out.
Didn't nobody say anything about you, Loni. All them tall tales you tell so well.
First time I agree with Jeannie here. I alwaysssss just make my space and take my own time out lol.. when I'm back, I'm back and there's no drama or tension.
I was Feeling tamar and thinking she looks Fabulous UNTIL that loud ass LIES 😑 Bye girl ✌🏽️ Let my girl Jeannie finish a damn sentence❗️
Yooo she does that to everyone though. It's a joke. Relax.
But when Loni did it everyone had a problem ✌🏽️ So just because its Tamar it's acceptable ?
Why y'all stay coming for tamar tho? I mean whatchu want? She always says LIES....whats the problem now?
It's always been a problem have you been reading the comments from months ago
Problem for who? She has been saying Lies since the begining of the show. Its nothing new. I mean y'all should atleast gotten used to it, Accepted it & Moved on. You can't change her personality. Its just something you have to accept with the hosts: Loni's jokes are sometimes inappropriate, Jeannie is a bit Extra @ times etc.
I need timeouts every day too ladies..people b acting fake, childish n mean ain No body got time for that
I'm with Adrianne I love being alone but friends automatically started thinking my bf don't want me hanging with them and started talking their smack and timed them out
I think distance away from people are healthy.
Lonis me “whats their names”💀😂💗
omg i relate to Adrienne so much!!! i value being alone sooo much!!!!!
Kendra-How did you know it was you?
Loni-I knew it was Her Kendra When She said the plus size girl I knew it was Her!
😆!
How Jeannie and Adrienne leaned back and then in at the same time.. cute!!!!
I don't think its a bad thing to call a time out with your friends. The reason I do my time outs is because I need time for myself and when I do so I time all my friends out not just certain ones.
My parents say time out all the time , probably like 5 times a day but it doesn't help because they just continue to fight. It's been that way since before I was born so my life is pretty stressful.
Time out? More like time away, I get mad and I tend to say things I regret so I just walk away or keep my filter.
And I'm so happy that Kendra is on, I used to have the biggest girl crush on her. o;
I think you don't owe everybody you time out an explanation. Especially in Jeannie's case where the friend just had issues and she isn't taking on board any of your solutions. Girl, bye.
I love you ladies!!
I would love Kendra as the white girl on this show.
wendy del Real that's a nice thought,
but the point of this show is that it doesn't have a white host because the other ten million shows already got that covered.
R u trying to tell us u can't watch one damn show without a single white person.
Can u imagine how other ethnic groups feel?
Oooh so that's her name
@@jaejae5782 you're such an idiot
Jasreen Singh I guess u should know!
wendy del Real HELL NO
That's why the real had to permanently time out Tamar.
Jeannie I feel you on this one! One of my close friends, which btw I love so much. Is always talking about her damn BOYFRIEND and their problems. Like yes i'm here for her whenever she needs to talk but damn I don't wanna hear about your boyfriend all the time. Girl, no.
they are talking truth on top of truth here
I have a friend that is sorta on time out right now for the same reason Jeanie said. Like, we tired of hearing about your same issues after I done gave you a great solution. I don't wanna talk about his anymore! LOL.
Tamar looks EXACTLY like Toni in this video 😍😍😍😍
Love tamar she is so funny!
Yup, it's a few people in my life on time out!
👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽yes! I'm going through this with a couple of my "friends" Tamar is right there's are low key haters
There is no "time out" with Me, once I cut someone off its over because if I even had to get to that point with you...I don't have time for that!!!!
SOMEBODY PLEASE PUT THIS WHOLE SHOW ON NETFLIX!
she makes a great addition to the cast
I'm bored of Loni's made up stories.
***** I knowwww..I mean who the hell disses somebody and call them plus size? Hell if I'm going in on you imma call you fat and be done with it. Loni need to just shut up sometimes.
I love Jeanies eye make up ! Gorgg
The blonde lady had a ton of hair and I looooovve it
I must admit I can take time outs or cut people off in a second with ease if i catch a funky vibe or we just not gellin how we use to, not sure if its a good or bad thing but it works just fine for me
Ok, so I have this friend who I've been friends with since the start of high school, since freshman year we've always hung out together, just the two of us, now its junior year and I feel like I need a break from her, some of the stuff she says is really annoying me. we always do everything together, and when I talk to my other friends she also needs to butt into the conversation. She's really smart and good at explaining stuff, so for example if someone asked me to how to do something, i'd be explaining but then she'd butt in and I find that really annoying. She's really quiet and is not that fun to hang out with (she's not too open-minded). we are 'best friend' I guess, but its just because we're always together but we're really not that close, like I honestly wouldn't miss her that much after highschool. I really want to make new friends and want to be included in a group rather than just have one friend. I don't know what to do cuz everyone has their own friends, and if I do find a new friend, she would have to come too and that's going to be a bit awkward.. Right now I'm feeling really bored with our friendship cuz we already know everything about each other and I feel like we say the same things all the time.. I really need a break from her but I don't really have other close friends to hang out with!! PLEASE HELP if anyone has good advice!! :)
I had a LONG time out with who I thought was a friend..and was so happy when we reconnected... but when she let yet again a man control her life and abuse (physically and mentally) her kids i had enough..i realized she was not the best friend I once had and she never would again so we are no longer friends..
u know it's funny cuz ive been that friend that always talking about the same problem lol. But to my fam, they got so tired of me talking about it soon as I start they like omg & get frustrated. I guess I didn't realize how much I talked about it. Thank God that problem is over & Im in the next chapter of my life🙆 Now I can talk about the finer things in life & not that non existing problem :-)
YES Jeanie! I am going throught that right now! OMG
Loni had that beyonce hair cut 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆
I wonder if it's a scorpio thing. Like Adrienne, I definitely need my alone time from everyone on the regular.
Time out??? I call it blocked from my life until further notice. I got one friend that's on the list right now and I don't plan on taking her off the list.
Wanting alone time doesn't make you an "Introvert", sometimes it's just necessary for your sanity. EVERYONE needs alone time.