Marriage, Masculinity and Lessons from the Seerah with
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- Опубліковано 1 гру 2024
- Sit down for this one! Gabriel al Romaani and Na'ima B. Robert have an open conversation about some of the most controversial issues facing Muslims in marriage, gender roles and the role of men in society.
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Brother Gabriel al Romaani is a wealth of knowledge. I have been following him for over a decade and I'm continuously learning from him. May Allah (swt) grant him success in this life and hereafter... ameen.
Subhan Allah! I agree with Naima. She's 110% right. Being on the outside is so bloody hard, it's not as glamorous as people make it. I would rather be married than being a single mum, rather have someone to share my struggles with than to carry them on my own.
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❤️I love this video..I’m 24 and I really want to get married but things are not working..Sometimes we want the blessing of the people who are married but they don’t appreciate it. They take it for granted. I ask Allah to assist them so that they will know the huge blessing the most merciful have given them. One of the big problem we have nowadays people are not greatful. They don’t appreciate the blessing of the most merciful. ❤️Allah is Great ❤️
💯. Not everyone is blessed with marriage. And those who are married sometimes don't realise this blessing.
@@majidkhan89 yeah 👍
Well marriage is not a bed of Roses lol...needs alot of patience
Yes I agree but I think unmarried people should also be grateful too because Alhamdulillah for the blessings Allah swt has given us
@@shannons6188 I’m greatful brother/Sister , but marriage is one of the biggest blessings from the most merciful. Just look at the rewards you will get from the most merciful when you get married and whatever you do for you spouse you will get more rewards. I really want to be part of that. ❤️Allah is Great❤️
1:10:05 definitely! For those divorce men/women who don't reflect back at their marriage and contemplate what may have gone wrong or how they could have avoided a divorce, they will continue to have the same issues in the next marriage.
Can u avoid divorce from a narcistic husband who takes money from his wife , doesn't help her with anything, puts her down in front of people and undermines her with her kids ?
@@user-ux8pj3rf4w I'm not sure. You may want to speak with your husband or their relatives and get him to see the error of his ways. Also best to speak to an imam to understand what criteria allows a women to divorce her husband.
Love you bro. Love you sis.
May Allah bless you both.
Shaitaan has us all. His objective is to destroy the family unit. Reverse the roles cause confusion in the household. Use social media glorify divorce.
Many of us have been misguided even the knowledgeable amongst us.
You both are on the straight path.
Keep the family strong!!
Please do more of this collaborative work. It’s very very beneficial.
Masha'Allah, love hearing about our Beloved Prophet 💚
Jazak Allah Khairun Naima for inviting this guest. Please invite Gabriel Al Romaani again.
Wow Masha'Allah really excited fir THIS one!! ....then again I say that about all the guests sis 🙈🙈😂
Ya Allah, put yakeen, sabr, shukr, hikmah and afiyah in all marriages. Ya Allah, do not allow shaytan to come between spouses, take away hassad, enmity and regret away from the hearts of the believers, Ameen
Ustadh Gabriel al Romani with some solid points ماشاءالله. Having interacted with him for my podcast and other bits of content, he truly is a humble, helpful and inspiring brother I'm happy to consider a teacher.
@51:00 this is something that all Muslims living in the west should listen to. Everything has a price... well said sister! Clip that and make it into a youtube short, it would go viral.
I heard Sister Naima saying the women should not expect their husband to please them because he is out there working to provide. which was shocking for me. Brother Al Romani understand the women needs but also he always explain both roles in the marriage, which are responsibilities, love and respect.
Sister keep up the great work. May Allāh ﷻ bless your project and endeavours. Ameen
Applauding for sheikh, we should ultimately worship Allah & not our spouses. 👏🏻
Subxaana Laah who said you / wehave to worship to our spouse? Cuz he is Human been. Respect ✊ to each other how can two diver drove one car one stearin? One must lead
A very interesting conversation with a very wise man.
Time stamps would be nice. Great video thank you
assalam aleykum my two favorite persons online. may allah subhannahu wa taala bless you both for the work you are doing
Thank you for tuning in!
Assalam alaykoum.. i am from Lebaron and though we are having bad time but i try to highlight some light to some sisters i teach in order to spread this light .. i loved your video and the way you discussed it.. and i will try to share the information with them .. good bless you 😊
Waw! so significant, may Allah bless you both.
My dear Sister in Islam I love you for the sake of Allah
So so true sis. I'm going through a divorce. Sisters take this advice.
Excellent! Ma Sha Allah. Wise words!
Jazakullahu khair Naimah I am so happy you did this one. May Allaah S WT reward you.
I agree with the opinion that women have been pushed to have career because it's men in some countries who do not appreciate the role of a housewife and they think it's so easy to have 5 or 6 kids and stay home.
Came from Al Roomani❤️
Will be tuning in
Interesting...May Allah bless both of you.
Great topic and many good points. I would only argue that I know many sisters who's husband have left them and it's not always the case where you can just depend on the welfare system to support you and by no means will it be enough to support a entire family. As a result, the family will not live a good quality of life. Most women are left to look after and provide for oneself and their young children, without any help from others. If a woman has always depended on her husband, financially, etc and he decides to leave her, it'll have a devastating effect on her and a complete shock to the system. I know many sisters who are in this situation and are struggling on a day-to-day basis. Women should get an education and have some work ethics, as working is also a survival mechanism and it helps them to thrive and it much healthier for them in a long run, then sitting at home and getting depressed.
Love the open honest discussions.Maarsha Allah
Great talk may Allah reward you both
Very, very interesting subject
Thanks 🙏🙏🙏
Masha allah for your knowledge
1hour 5min. Point should be preserved in gold ma sha Allah gabriel
Bro Jibril is just so good looking handsome mashallah
You can be good looking too if you start worshipping Allah properly and doing the right thing, it is called noor
@@user-ux8pj3rf4w who says I'm not lol Alhamdulillah I'm blessed too
That was a joke btw.
I can’t seem to find his other video where he takes Q&A. Was it taken down?
The 55th minute of this video strikes my attention. In my country Malaysia (surely this happens in other countries as well), there are muslim women who obey their husbands when the husbands told them not to work and take care of the household and the children instead and They DID. Even when they were highly educated themselves. Unfortunately after having kids and no working experience, the husband left them and the kids for other women. Now she's left with the kids, kicked out of the house,having to start over again. This happens many times when husbands are the sole breadwinner the women are less respected because the husbands know the whole household depends on him financially. They tend to find another woman and the wife cannot do anything about it. There's even a case of a father raping his daughter but no report being lodged on him neither by the mother nor the daughter because the father is the breadwinner of the family and the mother is merely a homemaker.
So how are women expected to give full obedience and expected to stay at home when they're facing this kind of risk? I myself am a homemaker. Alhamdulillah my husband is treating me well so far. But I am also gradually working on running my own business for mine and my kids security.
Thank you for speaking the truth 🙌
If that happen to my sister she would be living with me and our family after divorce
@@noobieexplorer4697 that's so noble of you. Sadly not every family acts the same way
In a fully Islamic system, women would always have a guardian to provide for them. If not their husbands or a designated male relative, then the government would responsible for their provision. The problem is that we live in a secular world, where even countries that claim to be Islamic pick and choose which laws to implement. Then women get blamed for worrying about real possibilities, as if being pragmatic and tying your camel to a reasonable degree isn't part of the deen. If even if these dreaded scenarios don't happen to us, on a societal level, they will likely occur to multiple women. We can't just think of ourselves, and Islam is meant to account for all levels and areas of societal well-being, for all individuals. InshaAllah things will change, but for now we're working with what we have.
excellent conversation
ماشاءاللہ آپ کو پردہ میں دیکھ کر
مجھے بھت خوشی ہوئی
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