The Moment You think "This THAI WOMAN is Different" You are Doomed 🇹🇭
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- The Moment You think "This THAI WOMAN is Different" You are Doomed 🇹🇭
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She just wanted someone to pay for art achool. The head games were just an added bonus. Saving face is always for free, but seems to cost the most.
Check list, 1, has her own money 2, has a job not working in a bar, 3, keeps where she lives nice and clean, 4, doesn't get jealous all the time, 5, takes care of you and you don't have to ask, 6, happy spending time with you. 7, doesn't have stupid friends that she takes advice from, 8, cares about her health and body, 9, doesn't play mind games 10, Respects you and knows your worth. if she ticks all these boxes she is most likely a Robot LOL.
If she ticks these boxes your not in Thailand , you’re in Fantasy Land 🤣🤣
😂😅
Mine ticks most of these boxes 📦 😳.. but I’m still wary. Been together 19 months 😅
@@jonhobson3592 do you have to put her on the charger at night? 🤖 👧
@@jonhobson3592Keep your guard up!
Bloody spot on DAN!!! Your assessment is accurate!!! ❤
" Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another. "
Henry Lewis Mencken (1920)
All relationships with few exceptions are transactional. We love people for something and they love us for something back. If you think a bar girl isnt different from a school teacher. You are out of your mind. Not all women are the same, Every car breaks down, is a kia the same as a Ferrari?
Willy : From 1920 ! it's a Pity , i thought , Maybe it was Due to the Pill !
Thanks for the Education !
One thing is for sure with them ,when they put themselves out for you and let you know that they are available to you and you don't give them what they want you are setting yourself up to be hurt, so don't think it's any different.
He sure does know how to pick them aye?
Handle with Care then eh Joe. Just more reinforcement of the merits of the Three-Day Rule. Like a car, just, 'Trade them in for a new model' as required in Dan's handbook of, Thai Bar Girls, for Dummies.
@@CRAIG5835😂😂😂😂😂
You just desperately wanted her to be, "different” because maybe there’s a void missing in your life? And that’s ok! Just don’t fill that void with alcohol, drugs, or psycho bar girl games and bullshit! All three can be equally destructive.
I did meet a lady who was different, but not different enough. She was highly intelligent and resented me for getting her to reveal that side. I realized that was she's way too smart to be in that lifestyle. She could have a hell of a conversation and would've made a good friend, but in the end she was about the money and tied to a contract. I didn't play the short game with her so she quit on the long game. I think she was a fallen star (ie. the hot girl aging out) and couldn't cope with having lost her farang meal ticket--which she admitted. She was a very cool lady (@30), but once she showed that she was an intellectual we couldn't go back to talking about the dumb stuff. That threw off her whole game.
Man that's sad
LOL that Batman slap pic had me laughing :D Good story! She was in it for that art school sponsorship for sure ;)
Thank you for your videos. Moved here to Thailand from America four months ago and I started doing my research early so I can protect myself. Shout out from Chiang Mai and stay safe out here gentlemen
Yeah Dan’s page is terrific. All the guys share a good amount of stories. You’ve a nice page too mate. You Texan or Midwestern?
@@Mranfunnee thank you sir I’m actually from Atlanta
@@MranfunneeMUFC 🇬🇧
Go back to America before it’s too late , you have been warned this is fools gold !!!!! 😂😂
Bang on with that analysis Dan !
I'm trying to figure out what his game was. The ladies are in the bar to make money. Never try to make a bargirl a "friend". They are not working in the bar to make friends. They do not give a flying "f" about customers. You will eventually see her with someone else. If he didn’t want her, why did he do what he did? Just a big waste of time of his holiday. Yes she's "different" but not in a good way. Probably psycho 😂 Bargirls don't invest their time with falangs unless there is a payout. In his case there wasn't going to be one. She just moved on to the next sukerpruk 😅 Money is king. Who goes to work and doesn't want to get paid?
Yep its all so simple, no money no time for you been going 24 yrs now.
Listen to Big Hoss!!
No money, no honey.
You summed it up well. Blindingly obvious.
My thai girlfriend keeps telling me because I earn more money than her i should pay for everything .Apparently it's a thai tradition 😂😂😂
Nice show Dan! As alway's stay cool,kind and generous!
Most famous lines ever heard from some of my mates: ' I know she's from a bar but she's different from all the others'! 'I have met many girls here and I know she's different'! 'She's not like the others'! 'I don't don't care what you say --I know she's not like the others'! Needless to say most of those guys are now back in their home countries --also penniless!
This man is playing a game in himself, these girls are only thinking of money, when she got bored of him it's likely because he wasn't spending enough at the bar, she is not gonna ask you to do so, but she probably saw you as cheap, so she ended up treating him as a brother out of pure pity. Stop playing these soap operas in your heads folks, it's all about money.
I thought that this was going to be a "she didn't ask me for anything" story. 😅
@@bighoss9705 Or start out with, “I’m a good looking guy, work out and speak Thai” 🙄
But you can always spot that moron from a mile away. He’s the one giving a wai 🙏🏽 to everyone and everything he sees. 7-11 workers, Bar girls, Homeless people, mailboxes, soi dogs and shopping carts 🛒🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@L-Nino😅😅😅😅
@@L-Nino yeah, a falang should NEVER do this 🙏 shit!
@@bighoss9705 So the unwritten rule is, it’s OK to return a 🙏🏽 if a 🙏🏽 is given to you first ONLY by someone of a higher social status. Or when meeting people in a formal setting, business, or respected elders. Not the Mama-San at a Bj bar or The girl giving you change at the subway sandwich shop. Even though she will give you a 🙏🏽 upon giving you your change. Just smile and leave. A 🙏🏽 by the stupid falang is not expected.
Everybody is different. I worked on banking support for over 10 years and talked to 25 people a day sometimes even over 100 a day and everybody was different... Sad thing is most people use the same strategies and many other people are falling for it.
There is a common thread within all of the ladies here
There are good and bad women everywhere in the world My Thai wife is completely calm and not a drama queen like western women .
@Ezio-ic5vc yes, he shouldn't say that all American women are bad even though it's true! 😆
You found 1 in a million very lucky so far !!!
@Ezio-ic5vc Yes I’m a clown sure ,but I come from the USA I can say that because all of the women I dated and my x wife are drama Queens and have no respect for me as a man, It was always there way selfish as hell reminds me of spoiled brats . I guess I should have worded it different .
Being a cashier or bar manager makes no difference...they are available.
Most cashiers I've met are sponsored by foreigners and use the job as cover to appease them. They still play around for the right guy and the right price...trust me on that one.
You can not have a relationship with a girl whose worked in a bar...fact It won't end well but it will end.
Highly variable. I once asked a cashier hypothetically what it would cost to bar fine her. She came back with an astronomical figure from her boss, based on having to close the whole bar down without her!
@@CaptainKremmenshe still had a price so David’s prior point withstands 😂
@@JD-vh5hj Exactly!!! If they are working in a bar in whatever capacity they are available..fact!
@@davidcrowley1985 I ran my own mini experiment on the “Thai Friendly” dating app: 1) profile description saying “Not interested in Bargirls, Sugar babies or Freelancers” - had a very small limited number of likes and connections 2) removed that profile description and kept the ambiguous“looking for meaningful connections” and got loads more of likes and private messages from the ladies 😂 Thailand will do what Thailand does it’s the American soldiers of 1940/50s that created the demand … all the woman want money one way or the other 😜
Yes exactly cashier means she doesn’t really need the money , you are absolutely correct 95% of Cashiers have at least 1 sponsor that’s why they act very nonchalant !!
GOOD TO SEE YOU BACK DAN KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK ALL THE BEST FROM SUNNY SOUTHAMPTON 🇬🇧 👍
Good Video Dan 😊. Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Her: “Buy some condoms and you can get’ jiggy’ with this cashier?”
Him: “Nah, I’m good thank you!” 🤦♂️
i was in club 808. i rejected a Thai girl because she was ugly..she flipped out and made a big fuss ...i had to call security
This story is an idiot tourist. If you are an expat don’t get a bargirl. Plenty of extremely good Thai woman.
College educated with good family values. They will find westerners attractive because we are typically kind and exotic. Just don’t be a creep.
If you’re looking for prostitutes I’m sure you’ll find them. If you want a good woman the last place I’d go is a bar. Same in the states - or most anywhere.
I took my fiancé to a decent restaurant and the table next to us had an avg woman with a farang and she was explaining to him how much it cost her to spend a few weeks together. I wanted to warn him… he was being charged rent.
What's wrong with "being charged rent"?
In the end it would be much cheaper than "having her for free".
At least he is not going to be taken to cleaners (losing his house, more than a half of his assets in total, and then paying her spousal support for years and years).
Comparing to what we have in Canada, it is a dream deal 😂🤣😂
@@dmitriikurilov3662 He was essentially renting a GF. I assume that he was at the end of his stay and she was attempting to get paid. Although he likely paid for everything to begin with….she was attempting to work him to pay for their time together.
@@ianz28 That's why I prefer transparency in situations like that: we agree on the money side of our "GF experience" beforehand and nobody feels taken advantage of when it ends.
I equally disapprove abuse of Thai girls and Farangs.
Everybody should be treated fairly as it was agreed in the beginning.
Spot on
Well it’s good to hear someone who knows how to play the game and did so. Well done John
Lost me after .... 'I'm in a bar"
She walks him to the pharmacy and asks if he wants to go inside to buy something, he comes out with a bottle of water....great way to let her know you're calling the shots.
You must give them that, they remember things very very well. Also the bad things, especially those experiences with that man.
I might be up for an interview next time I'm there. I could even bring the missus.. funny know how I'll get there though, i go to chisngrai. My old girl doesn't like issan or the people there.. Lol
Women always compare themselves to other women. If a strategy is successful for one woman, it will be adopted by the others. Although, any woman may personalize that strategy to her own individual modifications.
I think he wasn't really attracted to her. Just found her interesting. Putting her in the friend zone. But he must have low libido. Most men would've just did her for the fun of it. Especially if he's spending that much time with her.
The author of the story lost me with the first sentence: "I am in a bar...."😅
He should’ve asked her if she could give him a hand pinning some new artwork to his bed …nudge nudge Wink Wink say no more eh eh…😂🎉
He didn't. That's the problem 😅
I'm a 27 year old dude who's never been to Thailand, so I'm way out of my depth here; but I'm assuming if you really want a meaningful relationship with a Thai girl, you should learn the language and meet her through some kind of interesting hobby or occupation...
I'd assume the same goes for most if not every country...
Not saying you can't hit the jackpot at a bar...
But notice what happens to most guys who try to get said jackpot...
It's as rare as winning the lottery (literally lol).
If you think you've hit it, you're probably wrong.
Just my 2 cents...
When you speak Thai, they will lie to you in Thai. Speaking Thai makes no difference
Forget it they dont care if you speak thai or interested in her culture...its money...dont think something else
There appears a ton of burnt farang.
I came with my backpack, as a Buddhist, went countryside, met ladies that owned land and homes, they followed the Buddha way, all in all never any long game short game money game
... this appears more in say Dan style approach. So in the end know who you are and what you seek and there are fabulous thai ladies. The farang I met have been in relationships over 20 years and love it.
We've got captain obvious in the house lol
@UCv9rWm4fY42sft7mLHJCtsQ yes they are more carefull if they see you understand a bit thai..but you are wright. Its not nice whst they say about us with a smile on their face.. and we think they are so nice . ..
Many play the long long game .. soften you up for the ‘kill’ lol 😊
The sheep willingly walk blindly into the slaughter-house 😅
Dan, do you ever get stories from guys who ended up with bar girls and somehow it DID work out? ....as in, years later they're still hanging in there, perhaps even happy?
U are spot on Dan but he spent his whole holiday going to her bar constantly and staying when she finished work,, like a stalker... he was into her full stop and all the girls knew it,, but no money no honey lad and I doubt it if he found it hilarious when on his next holiday he saw her with a 60 Yr old falang as he put it... he is a falang too so what is he looking for ,,a full blown relationship with a thai girl..just enjoy your holidays lad spend a bit of money, stick to the 3 day rule and stop going to same bar every night stalking a bar girl/cashier thinking she is into u without your money.
She had a long game and he was too cautious to play. She found someone who would.
"I still wanted to know her game"... 😂 "I was still trying to work her out".... 😂 how cute... dude.. YOU are her game!
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don't go to an international sex tourism destination & look for love.
Almost every country has sex tourism though. I hate this stereotype. When my fiancé comes to the states everyone assumes green card. It’s annoying.
Very good advice 👍
Not sure what this guy expected, after all he rejected her. Maybe she just wanted what most people want, a meaningful relationship and the help and support of a good partner. She was interested and he was "trying to figure her out".
Just ask them straight up. Most of the time they will tell you. You can't beat around the bush
I think it's a bit of a fallacy that fat overweight men are going to meet some amazing smart educated Thai woman who works in a bank and has a thing for older fat men. Lets say it how it is. If you want an average Thai girl who works and never asks for money, you'll more than likely be dating a girl who works 6 days a week just to keep herself afloat, same as a lot of people do in the west. If your travelling to Thailand and want your gf with you 24/7, then she's gonna have to give up work and your gonna have to make up the shortfall. Imagine your Thai gf comes to the west. Can you just afford to give up work and holiday for a month or two?
All human beings are different. However, the underlying motivations for hooking up with a foreigner are not different. This is what I call the template for ladies from a poor socio-economic background across South-east Asia. Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, it's the same template.
1. The girls normally come from the poorest areas of the country. In Thailand, it's Isarn. In Vietnam, it's the Mekong area. In the Philippines, it's Leyte.
2. They normally come from a poor background, a rice farm, and are hoping to snare a foreigner for an economic uplift in life.
3. They usually have a child or two from a dead beat local guy whose run off.
4. The family, back on the rice farm, are constantly applying pressure for money.
5. The two key characteristics of these ladies is laziness and greed.
Safe travels,
Mega.
Stop messing with low value women out there or anywhere for that matter. There is women in thailand that have it together that arent messed up. Remember women are women everywhere. Thailand isnt special or a bad place to meet someone. Be smart and take your time and stop missing the red flags bc of your insecurities. They are there and if you decide to not see them, that is on you, realize when its time to move on. Plus. There is levels to wormen. If you meet them in the bars/clubs/massage shops or hanging out in the streets chilling. What do you expect. It aint rocket science.
Sounds like a hard and expensive way to work someone out. I like getting into the heads of Thai girls but I think I what a waste of time and money.
I got into one their heads once. There wasn't anything in there! 😅
run Forest RUN 😲
How old is dan? 🙂
This story was all in this guys head. For someone he wasn't interested in, he sure spent a lot of time stalking her.
First mistake anything breed in a bar keep it strictly business that's the best way .
I have dated ladies in Thailand that just want company stimulation from outside the box normal routine in Thai life some I have jiggy jiggy some not and still friends to this day a party friends circle if you like works for me .
Basically I keep things separate and it works .
I hope she can find her face soon . Can't imagine losing my face . Maybe we can get a team of people together to look for it 😂
😂
It's a very narrative way of thinking lads come on
No more money, no more honey 😢😢
Testing testing one two😂😂
Seems to be a pattern here. If the girl is from Isaan, it's probably best to move on.
So much dancing around the jiggy jiggy...
Hey Dan, Different hey lol
that is sad and depressing!
Just a older bar guy
Hive minded types of cultures usually all acting from the same script thinking outside the program is very rare
Why would anybody think that a bar girl in a bar area be anything other than a prostitute just after money why would anybody have to be told that on a UA-cam channel
They are all the same, just a different technique
I am different. I never fall into the trap of a Thai woman 😂.. over and over again
Bar girls are very different 😂
Losing face is an excuse for bad behavior.
Dear Dan,
🇹🇭 🕳️ 🏃♂️ 💨…👴🏻( Jiggy Jiggy)
But mine is seriously different. Maybe
Famous last words 😮
Are there any genuine bar girls? I am starting not to think so based on this channel. Also is it normal for a bar girl not to charge you for a night you spend with her? Also she keeps messaging me saying she misses me and will stop seeing customers ( I don't believe this though). I informed her I do like her but I am not wealthy and I can't change her life. She continues to message me though. What kind of game is this. I thought that if you did not offer money they would ghost you.
No, no & no. Don't fall for her lies mate.
Asking this questions tells me you sir, are one sick buffalo😆
@@bighoss9705 I will not I am just confused I thought if you told them up front that you were not going to pay them money they'd leave you alone
@@bluefox9019 she will in time if you keep in contact with her.
@@balicrimechannel8143 I had to laugh when she said she will quit the bar for him. That's a big red flag. So, who's going to support her if she quits? 😆 Don't forget the 10k bht bar exit fee! Giving him a freebee was a nice touch.
One thing that always stands out in these stories.
The guy is always different than any other mongers.
He always looks younger than his age, always more handsome than others, always keeps himself in good body nick compared to other fat tourists......in other words......he is different......LOL
To the guy talking and laughing about the 60 year old guy. Just remember that one day you will be old, ugly and possibly fat. I'm happy she found the 60 year old guy. Oh, by the way, I'm 60, maybe ugly but not fat, and could probably still handle you !
I think you’re right mate, I’ve seen this kinda play many times over the years, she just wanted to add his name to her sponsors list, she thought it wasn’t going to work and moved on, the fat frang he saw her with was probably just one of many fat frang sponsors already on her list..
Hey Dan,
Did you receive my email?
When you've gone out with her for a year and she's not asked you for money, then she might be different. That's the situation with my gf. Is she different? Looks so, but I guess we'll see. Lol!
Yes Different BUT ONE THING IS THE SAME SAME £££..🙏❤️
Same same, but different. 55555555
Sounds like the guy bad. Playing games.
This guy is more complicated than a woman
This guys thought process sounds exactly like a woman.... dude just relax and do whatever. It feels very phoney.
I honeslty feel like "simps" getting squeezed by some hot young thing are at least in more honest relationships.
"Oh I met this QUIRKY girl and she is different...." Sure.....
ALL women of any culture share similar patterns of behaiviour, wether people want to admit it or not. I've seen mates get totally wrecked by western women after years of relationship. Just live a little but keep some wits about you and have some pride.
Why spend so much time for nothing.
Thailand is the worst place to look for a virtuous wife.