Medical student when their first patient dies

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  • @KNYAMed
    @KNYAMed  Рік тому +1185

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    • @Hemnz
      @Hemnz Рік тому +10

      @____la🤍 That's just an act right?

    • @bandarsaud961
      @bandarsaud961 Рік тому +2

      Did anyone else notice at the end he said your twice?

    • @vlogin1minute19
      @vlogin1minute19 Рік тому

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    • @aaravjain9351
      @aaravjain9351 Рік тому +1

      Wf

    • @sireiramos8844
      @sireiramos8844 Рік тому +3

      😢 triste até para os médicos quando perdem um paciente

  • @eduvarangia
    @eduvarangia Рік тому +3170

    A good doctor always listens to his patient. Listening cures half the illness.

    • @izzlabel
      @izzlabel 10 місяців тому +17

      ​@@Rudra0141you are still young,one day you will understand ❤

    • @lanabandzy9102
      @lanabandzy9102 9 місяців тому +13

      Exactly! Mine didn’t listen to me and then years later I find out I might have an autoimmune disease… they told me it was all in my head but the signs were definitely there.

    • @siddeshsawardekar9709
      @siddeshsawardekar9709 6 місяців тому +2

      I personally feel that what are you saying that is absolutely right my friend

    • @Madscientist94
      @Madscientist94 6 місяців тому +6

      Totally agree, I'm a Vet. ✌️😁

    • @cyani8428
      @cyani8428 5 місяців тому +3

      I 100% agree with you😭🥹

  • @yashaskumar5943
    @yashaskumar5943 Рік тому +8046

    "The hardest part of this job is that you can't always save everyone"..

    • @dhruvsuccession7934
      @dhruvsuccession7934 Рік тому +82

      So sad 😢 we aren't God but we tries to save them

    • @thegreatbanger
      @thegreatbanger Рік тому +9

      Yes

    • @tiyabawan2759
      @tiyabawan2759 Рік тому +2

      😢😂😢🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @abcedefghijk
      @abcedefghijk Рік тому +15

      No...the hardest part is...wen u don't want to save someone unless u get money frm it.

    • @GAMEDESKY
      @GAMEDESKY Рік тому

      ​@@abcedefghijk shut up, u think doctors are joke to you

  • @doctorpead
    @doctorpead Рік тому +3914

    when i was doing internship i got one young boy with hemoptysis. he was a smoker. he was suffering with huge amount of hemoptysis i took care him like my brother. i fought with my seniors for his further management and special care and now he is completely normal now he stopped smoking also. oneday when i was walking in the road i heard a voice he call me as sister and he run towards me and thanked me for all🙂

  • @fazzaah
    @fazzaah Рік тому +667

    Working in ICU absolutely drains you. Seeing so many deaths from babies to newly weds every day. No matter how hard you try you fail sometimes. Totally changes your personality.

    • @300thNPC
      @300thNPC 4 місяці тому +7

      Change for better or worse?

    • @NCLEXPLUS
      @NCLEXPLUS 3 місяці тому +8

      @@fazzaah In simple terms we don’t need a higher being to let us know we are responsible for each other. This video is a silent remember of that, do not take anyone in your life for granted be good to each other treat everyone with respect, and dignity today may be your last or vice versa.

  • @jehanzebakram1818
    @jehanzebakram1818 Рік тому +241

    My first patient died post splenectomy, a 16 years old Thalassemia major kid, while giving him CPR, I begged God to let him live, a sweetest soul, a brave one.
    RIP

    • @ishagoyal981
      @ishagoyal981 11 місяців тому +12

      M bhi major thallesemia ki survivor hu..

    • @TheRaike24
      @TheRaike24 10 місяців тому +11

      I know this may sound as cold comfort but God truly takes those who have wonderful spirits (it doesn't mean they are perfect) but they either did all they could while alive or b) they had too much goodness in them to withstand what's coming.
      I'm not African but they do have a saying for the departed: they came, they saw, they did. (And that is how we can & should remember them)
      Please, don't think that God will abandon you, when you need to help in healing others, he will always be right there with you as you serve others through your profession. Thank you for your service 😊

    • @RahmonBaratov
      @RahmonBaratov 4 місяці тому +2

      Assalamu alaykum

  • @tintamanengu
    @tintamanengu Рік тому +12134

    I remember one of the first patients I clerked, he had a terrible liver laceration with 4 previous surgeries for it, I checked up on him almost every day sometimes more if i was passing anywhere near he's ward, everyone in my unit referred to him as my patient, one day I was talking to my colleagues and I mentioned I wanted to see him before I left to go home and my friend said "isn't he gone?" My heart dropped. Turns out he was asking isn't he gone home, because he had been in the hospital for months. I immediately went to check up on him after and he was still there, I think i was overly excited to see him, he must have noticed. One day I actually found him discharged a while after I was in another rotation. I hope he's fine where ever he is now.

  • @empath1969
    @empath1969 Рік тому +1341

    I still remember the first patient who died. It was during my internship. He was talking to me about how him and his wife had to care for their sick son till the previous year when he fell ill himself. Passed away during my night shift. Posting this here to remind myself that the people I treat are human beings with dreams and aspirations.

    • @MuddyPuttersDG
      @MuddyPuttersDG Рік тому +5

      No you’re posting this for attention.

    • @cherokejack
      @cherokejack Рік тому

      ​@@MuddyPuttersDG Do you have to be the asshole??

    • @MuddyPuttersDG
      @MuddyPuttersDG Рік тому +7

      @@cherokejack sometimes, yes. Sometimes when you tell the truth people will call you names.

    • @LaVanilla19
      @LaVanilla19 Рік тому +4

      Happy to know that you care doc! Stay happy❤

    • @tabeerarif7718
      @tabeerarif7718 Рік тому +6

      I wanted to ask is it worth being a doctor after all the hardwork of 7-8 years and specially a child specialist?? Just really wondering and scared as I am planning to do so in the future.

  • @parmitarani7146
    @parmitarani7146 Рік тому +5240

    Doctors do have emotions but their emotions die with their patients.

    • @sweetprincess8234
      @sweetprincess8234 Рік тому +215

      No they are heartless and money minded people... For them it's just a patient but for others it's their life and family I have lost my mother because of their craving for money like they didn't tried to save her bcoz were not able to clear dues quickly

    • @JiMiNyougOtnOjaMs-heYsToBiT
      @JiMiNyougOtnOjaMs-heYsToBiT Рік тому +183

      ​@@sweetprincess8234 sorry for ur loss deep condolence to ur family. Lakin har doctor aaisa nai hota hai!!! Corrupted log aapko pori duniya me milege!!

    • @sweetprincess8234
      @sweetprincess8234 Рік тому +44

      @@JiMiNyougOtnOjaMs-heYsToBiT Yes maybe but we had switched her in three different hospital... Same scenario everywhere just n number of tests other Dr will say the previous doctors test aren't valid we hv to re examine and all.. I have lost my faith in doctors and God as well they won't do anything.. I have lost my courage and everything I'm a shattered person now...

    • @rowdy4725
      @rowdy4725 Рік тому +70

      ​@@sweetprincess8234 sorry for your loss
      If it's true
      But plz understand that
      Every doctor is not the same as many lost their life in pandemic
      And
      Many give their best
      So plz be strong and fullfill her desire for what she had for her

    • @parmitarani7146
      @parmitarani7146 Рік тому +4

      @@sweetprincess8234 I am really sorry for your loss and I do agree that most of them are in the business just for money but still there are people who really care or used to care but you know in this field you come across lots of people, many of them cure but many die too, if they would make an emotional bond with everyone then there is no way that they are not going to get traumatized and depressed and in private hospitals specially doctors and so vulnerable to get kicked out if they don't follow the procedure even if they don't want to that they can't do anything but not take action before money.
      I am really sorry for your loss and no one can change it now and you surely have right to show your anger towards the people you consider could have but didn't save you mom but I hope you recollect yourself and I am saying this on my own experience of losing people one after another and then seeing my family going into crises both economically and emotionally and I am sure I am way younger than you and I know how much it hurt but you gotta get over it now or in the near future.
      Edit: I discussed about this with some elders and pointed some more points about private hospitals specially as I said they are so vulnerable to get kicked out that they must follow what they are said to follow by the owner or the team which is to earn from everyone stepping in the hospital so they just never let their patients know that they are cured or they don't need medication anymore just to earn from them, they even make up diseases like they would make you believe that you have many more problems and only they can cure you or you would die.

  • @tariqshamim5126
    @tariqshamim5126 Рік тому +39

    Respect for all doctors , they are real heroes ❤

  • @ClovertheUnburnt
    @ClovertheUnburnt Рік тому +110

    I'm a sitter and my first patient I sat with died a week later. He was so sweet and gentle just very confused. I hadnt realized how badly he was doing until it was too late. We'd talked, prayed together, and I'd been in the room when his wife called him. It broke my heart to fund out that he had passed. It's been over a year and I'm still not able to think of him without smiling and crying.

  • @yuyutown
    @yuyutown Рік тому +3549

    Nah bro this is sad. Doctors are some else! Y'all deserve all the love and respect.

  • @Nishant.N
    @Nishant.N Рік тому +74

    Doctors and Nurses are noble professionals 🙏❤️🇮🇳

    • @kasam77
      @kasam77 2 місяці тому

      @@Nishant.N yes we haven't forgotten kolkota.

    • @eternallaurum
      @eternallaurum Місяць тому

      An Indian doctor caused the opioid epidemic in the US, so no, they're not.

  • @anuraj42
    @anuraj42 Рік тому +561

    Absolutely true, i still remember the face of that cute 15 year old girl child who was admitted for anemia, and i was doing my house surgeoncy in 2004, who was later diagnosed to have acute lymphocytic leukemia. She came to our institution in her school uniform, hair braided on both sides, holding her mother's hands. She died after 2 days, I literally cried, terribly shocked to see her pale face. I thought time will change my perspective and emotions now I'm 43 today and I'm an Intensivist, I still can't control my tears when my patients die in spite of trying hard to save them, i often feel like I have selected the wrong job

    • @janhavisingh408
      @janhavisingh408 Рік тому +70

      I never knew doctors too feel attached with their patients.
      A salute to all the doctors like you out there. Hats off

    • @nationfirst2766
      @nationfirst2766 Рік тому +48

      Emotion is not weakness, Emotion is representation of heart ❤️

    • @sadiarahim2640
      @sadiarahim2640 Рік тому +15

      Huge Respect for u doctor

    • @ShyaKar
      @ShyaKar Рік тому +17

      I could understand your emotions. Doctors definitely needs some free time / vacation to keep their mind healthy. So hard to handle the stress.

    • @MA-co4wt
      @MA-co4wt Рік тому +2

      💚 🙌

  • @theresponsibleuser90
    @theresponsibleuser90 7 місяців тому +17

    A Good Doctor is the one who understands his/her patient's emotions and sentiments 😢😊

  • @tssudarsh6649
    @tssudarsh6649 Рік тому +29

    I lost my first patient to Terminal Pancreatic cancer.A vibrant grandma with loss of appetite. We thought we could save her with Surgery(Whipples procedure) But there was mets when we opened her in OT. My heart broke. We did a diversion procedure so that atleast she can feel hunger. The next day, I met her, she had the same vibrant smile and thanked me so much that she got her feeling of hunger again after so many years. She blessed me. I could do nothing but say yes grandma, eat well. I knew she was having only days left. She passed away the next week ! The hardest loss I could take. Her smile still comes on my mind after so many years.

  • @SS-lj9fu
    @SS-lj9fu Рік тому +354

    it's called a noble profession for a reason 😇

    • @brooksequine7621
      @brooksequine7621 Рік тому +3

      Most do their best but I've met some that were in it for $$ only .
      These doctors are easily recognized .

    • @dhruvsuccession7934
      @dhruvsuccession7934 Рік тому

      ​@@brooksequine7621talking about me 👀 I'm nit always be the same I'll change ine day I'm a 12 student know

    •  Рік тому +4

      @@brooksequine7621 no one works for free man. It does not matter if they work for “purpose” or money, if the outcome is the same and that is helping the patient

    • @Remy4556
      @Remy4556 Рік тому +7

      @@brooksequine7621 why do you expect doctors to treat patients for free.....Healthcare in India is much much cheaper than in US or UK.....matlab kuch bhi ?!?!?!

    • @dr.shadmbbsdphmasco
      @dr.shadmbbsdphmasco 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@brooksequine7621why the heck should we need to work freely? Can you work first of all?

  • @fatmaalkandari3381
    @fatmaalkandari3381 Рік тому +199

    I honestly feel bad for all doctors, they have to witness people dying and slime family members crying hard…
    It’s hard seeing someone dying even if you don’t known them, you just feel extremely bad
    I respect them doctors for being strong (And for everyone in the world)

  • @Hemnz
    @Hemnz Рік тому +736

    I know its hard for you guys to face every patients and to hear their sad stories....
    I'm only 17. And I had a lot of surgeries in this short time (in liver,salivary gland, Gallbladder, intestines,etc....)
    My liver surgery was before few months. When I was in ICU I was the youngest patient there. All nurses pampered me like a lil baby. They cared me alot. Now I miss them. I hope they are doing great. I dont know they remember me or not..but I won't forget them in my entire life....They are such a good souls.....🔥♥️

    • @aaliyaquiyum4801
      @aaliyaquiyum4801 Рік тому +39

      I hope u are fine now dear ...stay healthy!!

    • @Hemnz
      @Hemnz Рік тому +27

      @@aaliyaquiyum4801 Now I'm fine dear♥️

    • @Viralvlogvideos
      @Viralvlogvideos Рік тому +17

      God give you more strength 💪. God bless you

    • @Hemnz
      @Hemnz Рік тому +8

      @@Viralvlogvideos Thank youh🙏

    • @Sumit-lr1qj
      @Sumit-lr1qj Рік тому +5

      Why there's so much suffering in this world ? Why people just can't be happy?

  • @anupama123hansamali
    @anupama123hansamali Рік тому +11

    Yes medical personnel and all all other professionals respect you all. Specially medical personnel you all have the passion of treating patients well. Respect you all.

  • @dr.sayankundu1727
    @dr.sayankundu1727 Рік тому +8

    I still remember the first time I touched a patient as a doctor at the beginning of my internship in medicine posting....his hand was the coldest thing I had ever touched! I think I will never be able to forget that feeling.

  • @Dr.PriyaliSingh
    @Dr.PriyaliSingh Рік тому +811

    My first patient dies in surgery internship and he and his son both were such kind and humble people. I cried a lot. And everytime i moved by that bed I remember him.

    • @harpreetkaursidhu2287
      @harpreetkaursidhu2287 Рік тому +9

      Same story like me😢 still remembered that time

    • @sezbabe
      @sezbabe Рік тому +4

      Interns are allowed to do surgery ?

    • @adilraza0513
      @adilraza0513 Рік тому +3

      ​@@sezbabe mtlb wo pg kr rhi udhr. Thoda bht to krne detr

    • @user-lc8dc7bz2n
      @user-lc8dc7bz2n Рік тому

      🌼🌼🙏🙏

    • @khanyisilem9067
      @khanyisilem9067 Рік тому +2

      ​@@sezbabe Yes, they are doctors too but usually there will be senior doctor supervising them.

  • @aestheticescape7
    @aestheticescape7 Рік тому +860

    Being a doctor is one of those professions where a physician obeserves the death and rebirth on their daily basis. A good chunk of Medics do go through this , sometimes they can even feel the guilt of not being able to save the patient itself. Hope doctor's getting therapy will get more normalized with time.

  • @shutupanushkaa
    @shutupanushkaa Рік тому +749

    And then they say, DOCTORS DON'T HAVE EMOTIONS 🙂
    Edit: thanks for the likes ^-^
    This is the highest I've ever got!!

    • @nehagoyal716
      @nehagoyal716 Рік тому

      Who does?

    • @jisrashid3625
      @jisrashid3625 Рік тому +9

      I think doctors shouldn't, specially when they have to deal with thier own family.

    • @Sudhakarsen10
      @Sudhakarsen10 Рік тому +9

      Yes after 10-12 death it's normal for them

    • @rakhisarkar1672
      @rakhisarkar1672 Рік тому +20

      Most of their emotions die with their first patients.. Otherwise they can't continue in this challenging field

    • @riyasingh2729
      @riyasingh2729 Рік тому +3

      ​@@jisrashid3625 nah, they should have emotions

  • @SurendarYadav-pq4wz
    @SurendarYadav-pq4wz 9 місяців тому

    The patient was really good I really feel it😞😊

  • @thepeddler9226
    @thepeddler9226 Рік тому +25

    I went into a unresponsive coma for 3 days after giving birth followed by 7 blood transfusions. After my then husband signed the papers and left (long story), I remember hearing my doctor crying while sitting there unplugging all the machines one by one. The last thing he took off was my IV and it hurt me and I cried out and woke up. He looked at me in shock and started laughing. The first thing he said was: "You were really serious about not giving fake milk to your child!" And then we laughed together. He hugged me and left. At the time, my son was given milk from breastfeeding mothers from La Leche League and a volunteer came to rock him 3 times a day. I had discussed this with the league while I was pregnant and also in the contract at length with my birthing doctor, which was why he made that comment. I only realized after, when the nurse came in and I recognized her voice (she explained that she came every 5 minutes to check things over and was telling me everything she was doing), that I had heard my husband saying he didn't need me anymore and to call him when he could pick up his son. If I didn't know before, I knew then that I had married a monster and it didn't stop there.

    • @SKVMs
      @SKVMs Рік тому +2

      I hope you are happy now wherever you are, wishing for your good health and a really damn happy life 🤍🤍

    • @thepeddler9226
      @thepeddler9226 Рік тому +3

      @@SKVMs I found the love of my life and we've been together 33+ years. Thank you for the wishes; we always need them.

    • @SKVMs
      @SKVMs Рік тому +2

      @@thepeddler9226 OMG I am so so happy for you, lots of love to you and your beautiful family 🤍🤍

  • @PoshG
    @PoshG Рік тому +1647

    The first patient I had lost was during my paediatrics posting during internship. She was very cheerful and the cutest 9month old I had ever seen but was suffering from undiagnosed seizures.She went through multiple tests but the cause couldn't be figured out. I used to check up on her everyday and played with her. Then one day I learnt that she had passed away after getting a fatal seizure. I was crushed for a whole week after that.

    • @riyasingh2729
      @riyasingh2729 Рік тому +47

      ooh tht hurts to hear😔and can you guide me how to ease kids panic when it comes to shots?

    • @PoshG
      @PoshG Рік тому +1

      @@riyasingh2729 youtube...esp baby shark works wonders to distract them ':). Sparkly watches and specs are your friends too👻

    • @ananyaabhinav6260
      @ananyaabhinav6260 Рік тому +5

      so sorry to hear this

    • @cemantingartbatikcraftecop6164
      @cemantingartbatikcraftecop6164 Рік тому +4

      Oh so sorry to hear that... I wish for the best for u and every your patient..

    • @struggle_story12
      @struggle_story12 Рік тому +2

      I use Valparin chrono 300 since my childhood, Today I am 28...still using this medicine , is seizure curable without medicine?. Should I go off my medicine .

  • @anupamak3971
    @anupamak3971 Рік тому +52

    I was hospitalised for appendicitis surgery and stayed there in hospital for a week, on the day of surgery a junior doctor who used to visit me came and hugged me and started crying and said she missed her mom. That made me sad and happy.

  • @rimamdas3905
    @rimamdas3905 Рік тому +325

    When I was first year nursing student, I felt the exact same way... I was dying inside.. I was in shock 💗💫 That's why if you're a medical personnel you should never get too attached to anyone 💗😭 It hurts more than anything

    • @vivekchauhan4085
      @vivekchauhan4085 Рік тому +11

      But if you don't get a little attached you would loose the human connect & treat ppl like computers. Most docs soon loose their touch & starting treating a life or emotional/ physical pain of patients as nothing. Only care about money their status in industry that's it.

    • @Animalworldandus
      @Animalworldandus Рік тому +10

      ​@@vivekchauhan4085 you're right but imagine yourself in that position.. You watch morr than 5 deaths on daily basis... So After certain period you'll feel them as object and that's common some doctors are just friendly becoz of diagnostic purpose but they also don't feel anything for that person

    • @NaveenTheIncredible
      @NaveenTheIncredible Рік тому

      😂😂😂

    • @jkv5332
      @jkv5332 Рік тому +4

      ​@@vivekchauhan4085 you can't blame them. why are doctors judged on higher moral compass than any other professionals? imagine seeing 5-10 people dying everyday and having a complete emotional breakdown and attachment for each of them. they'd go crazy and need a treatment themselves.

    • @vivekchauhan4085
      @vivekchauhan4085 Рік тому +1

      @@jkv5332 medical profession is the most crucial profession where they should be held to the highest standards of morality & accountability bcz it deals with people's life, one wrong treatment or mis diagnosis or mistake can lead to total disaster in someone's life.
      People should know this before getting into profession, no one is saying it's easy. Getting disconnected to humanity & treating people like object's/ machines is wrong. You should also think of the person who has come for treatment, they put the trust of their well being in hands of a doctor.

  • @flowertrue
    @flowertrue Рік тому +9

    I remember when I had pre eclampsia and when I visited my doctor my blood pressure was so high. The doctor knew I'd have a hard time getting to the hospital because I didn't drive, but he dropped his head in his hands for a minute and then said, "I really want you to go to the hospital." and I realized that he really cared about me. I would have walked through fire for that doctor.

  • @Sneha-fd3pt
    @Sneha-fd3pt 4 місяці тому +4

    I have always wanted to be a surgeon because I wanted to save the people and also help out the poor ones who couldn't afford a proper medical treatment due to poverty.... I want to change this world ❤

  • @exploringsmiles8458
    @exploringsmiles8458 Рік тому +351

    Its true.. After many years also i feel same whenever my pt dies

  • @loidforger8906
    @loidforger8906 Рік тому +325

    my internship started in covid
    and on the first day of duty 15 patient died within 6 hours
    my inner is dead since that day
    i don't feel anything anymore since than

  • @thatprettyfangirl8956
    @thatprettyfangirl8956 Рік тому +126

    My aunt is a nurse. When she was a student..a case came. A 2yr old kid with severe burns. The mother of the child was a teacher so they usually had a hurry morning routine..she used to boil water to prepare warm water for the child to bath. One day she poured the boiling water to a bucket but suddenly a call came so the mother went to attend it. The baby was standing in the bathroom..the baby tried to play with the water but bymistake the bucket fell on the child and the boiling water spilled on the kid's body. There was no one other than the mother and child..the father was working outside the country. The mom rushed the child to hospital so my aunt and her friends were nursing students so they took care of the case. The child had severe burns and blisters all over body..when the baby's father came he got mad and started yellin at the mom at hospital for being too careless with the small kid. The child but survived it..the child was very playful and cute. The burns started to heal but one morning when my aunt came to the hospital...the baby passed away. The baby got some kind of blood infection. When something happens to our skin then our body is vulnerable to diseases and infections especially it was a child too. My aunt still can't believe the child's death..she still remembers the image of the kid. The father of the child left the mother and she got mentally ill after the kid's death. This happened like 20 years ago. I want to be a surgeon in future but thinkin bout this all brings me lot of pain but ig bein a doctor or nurse means havin the mental capability to face it all and moving forward🦋🤍

    • @sanaah538
      @sanaah538 Рік тому +5

      Oh goddd😭salute to all doctor's and nurses✨️🤍

    • @saibalasaibala8762
      @saibalasaibala8762 Рік тому

      Sad incident

    • @laxmisepena1019
      @laxmisepena1019 Рік тому +2

      oh! meru kallaki kattinattu chepparu how sad totally family collapsed

    • @KrishnaSingh-vq2lb
      @KrishnaSingh-vq2lb Рік тому +8

      I know it was such sad incident
      But just they both of the couple were working person but the whole responsibility of the child was over the lady only and her father was working abroad but her mother was the one who is taking care of a job and a baby.But at the end whole blame git over to the mother and her husband even left her in a state of mental illness we are still living in a patriarchal society
      Although i am not some kind of saint i also do at that situation i also had reacted same like the men did ,but with pass of time i would had understood the situation and had started the life with my wife .

    • @mehbubameem8091
      @mehbubameem8091 Рік тому

      That's why i wanna be a radiologist NOW

  • @Kriixxhh
    @Kriixxhh 6 місяців тому +2

    My first patient was my friend you can't even imagine how i feel than and now he is no more 🛐 sorry brother i know you always with me ....

  • @sanchitaiimsdelhi6762
    @sanchitaiimsdelhi6762 23 дні тому

    The hardest moment to see somebody loosing their life
    And moreover it through docs in guilt too❤

  • @aji9803
    @aji9803 Рік тому +445

    My patient died of ovarian cancer crying nd holding my hands tightly due to pain.... I still remember her, her sister, her husband nd her 2 kids younger one ws jst 1 half yrs old... 😭😭

    • @afrinsultana6568
      @afrinsultana6568 Рік тому +16

      Ooh that hurts to hear 😔

    • @Typa_Gurll1222
      @Typa_Gurll1222 Рік тому +2

      Ohh Dr feel bad to hear

    • @a.m.videos3254
      @a.m.videos3254 Рік тому +5

      Om Shanti 🕉

    • @geethikagatha808
      @geethikagatha808 Рік тому +3

      It's okay you treat her good she really wants someone who comfort them in last their minutes you do a great job 🙏

    • @ananyaabhinav6260
      @ananyaabhinav6260 Рік тому +1

      may her soul rest in peace.... no words to console u dr

  • @kukubaby6352
    @kukubaby6352 Рік тому +165

    Never make an attachment with the patient is not good for your health emotional as well as mental... Stay strong..

    • @riyasingh2729
      @riyasingh2729 Рік тому +46

      staying strong doesn't mean being heartless,a good doctor always forms bonds,be strong enough to let it go if happened,it doesn't means to be completely heartless and not form bonds

    • @easowmathai7625
      @easowmathai7625 Рік тому +19

      It is easy to say, but a person who has a heart cannot do it. Only a compassionate person can be successful to being a doctor. Others are inhumans who think their patients are there to help them make money for themselves.

    • @kukubaby6352
      @kukubaby6352 Рік тому +9

      @@easowmathai7625 it's not just about the money thing dude ... In today's time everyone requires money inorder to survive here in such an economic crises... Doctor work as it yes for money but not only for money because money can be earned by other means too... But being a doctor gives you a purpose of life, a responsibility to ensure the well being of other's health... And i know it's not easy to say but that's what you call a "Doctor to Be___"...

    • @easowmathai7625
      @easowmathai7625 Рік тому

      @@kukubaby6352 Yes, you need money to survive and I do respect the medical professional for all their care and help given in the time of need. But was this the case in the past. Of course not. When people created a demand for something, people started asking for cash and there were people willing to give it as donations or bribe or whatever fancy name you want to refer to, so as to increase their status in the society. Are you telling me that all doctors are capable of treating their patients as they should be treated? It is a definite no, as some have no clue. We can understand it from the way they handle their patients. Then you will have to give an explanation as to why many patients are increasing despite the fact that there are the so called professional called doctors and huge number of hospitals as compared to the past with the latest technology availability. Doctors should be able to cure the illness. Instead, they are making their patients more addicted to drugs and making them patients for life. So what is the use of them in this world? In order to be a doctor, people who are ineligible but have money are studying that profession instead of allowing the ones that have the ability to be a doctor. So I am sorry, I can't agree with you that doctors are good. Of course, I know that not all are bad and I am not referring to them at all. But the majority is in the bad bracket. Look at the recent talk that B. Ganesh Kumar pointed out in the parliament. Then you will understand what I mean.

    • @bettymckay9764
      @bettymckay9764 Рік тому +2

      You need to feel for them as well as yourself.Feeling is caring.

  • @ninjafixie13
    @ninjafixie13 Рік тому +45

    Mine was a girl with a head trauma in Surgery posting during internship. I saw her get two surgeries, did all preop work and brokenly explained to her elder sister that the chances of her waking up were slim. She looked so warm and affectionate towards her sister, it broke me down for a good amount of time.

  • @Exe007.
    @Exe007. Місяць тому

    That's why it is said that patients are not your friend just treat them as a patient .otherwise it affect only you..its sad but its true

  • @ilikadas6179
    @ilikadas6179 Рік тому +85

    P0v - Everyone in the comment box is doctor

  • @Blackkeys007
    @Blackkeys007 Рік тому +39

    When my mother was at hospital due to neglect from nursing home. That night I got a chance to speak with her. And while there two you nurses were taking care of her. For those few days after 3day she was not talking any more. And I whispered to her. Please don’t leave me until I come back! They would hear me sing to her. And then. We got the call. She was gone. It’s like they had lost their mother swell two young girls tried to stay strong and when they saw us all crying they embarrassed us weeping. As I’m posting this. It’s been 18 yrs. And it’s like yesterday. Tears of sorrow running down my cheeks 😞 I miss my mother.

  • @erahansrk1392
    @erahansrk1392 Рік тому +238

    I remember my first patient , he had a kidney disease n was long time suffering n on dialysis but was always cheerful, I was very junior doc then , he is to always greet us n I used to call him Pedro uncle.... he passed suddenly, I was on my leave , I still remember him n pray for his soul , he was all alone no one with him.
    There r few incidents n patients u remember more than others

    • @shreyar4706
      @shreyar4706 Рік тому +4

      That's so heart breaking 💔

  • @DavidMiller.93
    @DavidMiller.93 Рік тому +6

    I'm an ED (Emergency Department, aka, ER) Nurse in one of the UKs biggest and best hospitals and dealing with death is a big part of my job. I treat my deceased pts like they're my family or friend, they deserve our respect. Doctors, Nurses and clinical staff are only human after all, when our pts die, so do we 😢❤

  • @claudiaramirez5675
    @claudiaramirez5675 Рік тому +1

    Me acordé de los pacientes 😢 que he atendido 😢😢😢😢😢 y ahora no se si estarán en este mundo todavía 😭

  • @Drhoor111
    @Drhoor111 Рік тому +195

    My first patient who died was in internship in pediatric ICU,who was a 12year old girl with severe anemia and by the time blood transfusion was started,She was already dealing with complications.I was heart broken to see her fight for her life in front of my eyes and despite all the effort of us and senior doctors,she died.My mind went numb to the point that i was physically unable to move for minutes.My senior doctor advised me to take a few minutes time to calm myself down and cope with it.I went to my dorm after my duty and cried like a baby becoz i wasn’t able to do that in the hospital.

    • @user-lc8dc7bz2n
      @user-lc8dc7bz2n Рік тому

      🌼🌼🙏🙏🌻

    • @misswhiteblack4575
      @misswhiteblack4575 Рік тому +1

      Can anemia kill you?… coz I have it, I’m 13 and now I’m scared

    • @thatguy720
      @thatguy720 Рік тому +5

      @@misswhiteblack4575 Her case was severe and she may have had other complications. Anemia is so common and almost never causes death on its own. Don’t be scared, you’re good.

    • @Drhoor111
      @Drhoor111 Рік тому

      @@misswhiteblack4575 May i know what is your haemoglobin value?

    • @misswhiteblack4575
      @misswhiteblack4575 Рік тому

      @@Drhoor111 mine is at 8

  • @anjalivijayan2294
    @anjalivijayan2294 Рік тому +63

    Not only the first patient.. whenever our patient die they go with some life of ours.. i always felt so.. as a Doctor when an unexpected death or painful death occurs even if after we tried our best knowledge, when we have to declare death to their relatives, with emotionless faces(even though dying inside).. i always felt my some part of life also dies...

    • @happygolucky4136
      @happygolucky4136 Рік тому +3

      Oh really didn't know dr aise bhi hote hai wao.

    • @Noone-uj4tg
      @Noone-uj4tg Рік тому +7

      Me being NEET aspirate being the most emotional personality.🙂💔

    • @passion5980
      @passion5980 Рік тому +2

      ​@@Noone-uj4tgsame 🙂💔

    • @happygolucky4136
      @happygolucky4136 Рік тому +1

      @@Noone-uj4tg masha allah masha allah

  • @anishpillai2440
    @anishpillai2440 Рік тому +8

    All doctors are very kind hearted ❤️....it's just the Involvement of Hospital management and Target's that make "some" of them on the other way!!!

    • @gugapriyajagadeesan7670
      @gugapriyajagadeesan7670 Рік тому

      Yes.. many of them become hard hearted due to Targets and does mishandling and negligence... i lost my mother for their targets and mishandling and negligence... i feel nowadays health care is only business.. very very few goods are there due to hospital targets..😭

    • @MY_FRIEND_SARAVANA_KUMAR
      @MY_FRIEND_SARAVANA_KUMAR Рік тому

      No

    • @MY_FRIEND_SARAVANA_KUMAR
      @MY_FRIEND_SARAVANA_KUMAR Рік тому

      Super NO

  • @RAHULSHARMA-sf2wt
    @RAHULSHARMA-sf2wt 4 місяці тому

    ❤️ Honest and good Doctor's 👌

  • @ogundunmadeebunoluwa7192
    @ogundunmadeebunoluwa7192 Рік тому +2

    Had a patient with cancer
    He was only four years old
    His file was the heaviest I'd ever seen
    Little man was so strong, he was used to the much amount of medications....he could take all in one gulp
    He never flinched during a cannula insertion
    Was already going for chemo
    We bonded over the few weeks I spent in that ward
    Later told by a colleague that he was no more
    Tears dropped😢 I couldn't hold it
    He was so young and full of life

  • @ishwariholgare9577
    @ishwariholgare9577 Рік тому +139

    That gonna give worst feeling for first time in medical life 😥

  • @sangeetatripathy3622
    @sangeetatripathy3622 Рік тому +53

    I remember the day when my little patient does in my arms saying didi pls save me... 😢..i still get tears when i remember that moment...i tried my best i could...but unfortunately he couldn't be saved ...RIP the little soul... 😢😢😢

    • @infinitykpop453
      @infinitykpop453 Рік тому +4

      Respect to yall!! Still you tried ur best! We're proud of uu

  • @sophiawitkowski1082
    @sophiawitkowski1082 Рік тому +9

    I am a health care assistant I have been one for 19 years and too this day I still remember my first patient I lost bless him it will always stay with me x

  • @manormagulati4602
    @manormagulati4602 2 місяці тому +1

    Its not just furst patient. Its actually all the patients.😢

  • @sudiptomondal1736
    @sudiptomondal1736 2 місяці тому +1

    You all deserve respect ❤

  • @bangtanarmy3690
    @bangtanarmy3690 Рік тому +9

    Hats of to each and every doctor, nurse and ward boy 😊🥺

  • @tans6207
    @tans6207 Рік тому +170

    Putting a human being into a body bag isn’t easy , especially after Having them on your ward for weeks or months . It’s always a hard part of A Dr and Nurses job . Even the Physio’s
    admin and domestic staff are affected 🦘🇦🇺 Take care Drs

  • @tejashreemogalathurthi9073
    @tejashreemogalathurthi9073 Рік тому +4

    Yes 😭 that was in covid hike times, a female 68 years patient was recovering day by day, a day before she blessed and praised me she liked that care i took her. But next day it got severe and no more RIP

  • @shroudfire8218
    @shroudfire8218 Рік тому

    emotions make us human
    Feeling it is so natural
    I feel empathy Makes u a better doctor

  • @skg2918
    @skg2918 Рік тому +27

    I still remember my 1st patient who passsed away unexpectedly. I am a nurse and his name was Mathew above 70 year old patient with stroke, craniotomy and with other co- morbidities. In my duty shift he was allocated to me continuously he was just like my grandfather and i became emotionally attached to his family also. Unfortunately one day during my shift he developed arrythmias. At 1st i was shocked and i was like semi conscious. But after a moment i realized the situation and acted but all our efforts are unsuccessful.. Still i remember him.

  • @NamJinIsTheReasonOfMySmile
    @NamJinIsTheReasonOfMySmile Рік тому +33

    few days ago I had my operation. in O.T. all doctors comforted me😭 they are great. it was like I am dreaming. they talked much about my BANGTAN boys also. cause I loved to talk about this. after operation when they came to visit me they asks about BTS😁

  • @offbeatpradnya9272
    @offbeatpradnya9272 Рік тому +13

    It got tears in my eyes, more power to you

  • @Arun-hg6cf
    @Arun-hg6cf Рік тому

    Doctors Are The visible God's Of Earth❤

  • @BandariKrishna-d5g
    @BandariKrishna-d5g 8 місяців тому

    Doctor is a another god, they done a great job please give respect them👍

  • @Rakeshsahu-neet
    @Rakeshsahu-neet Рік тому +88

    We are souls not this body & soul never dies
    Body is just a covering like a cloth ~ Bhagvad Gita As it is 😌

    • @VKP-i5i
      @VKP-i5i Рік тому +3

      Mythology

    • @followdreams4749
      @followdreams4749 Рік тому +3

      ❤️❤️😌

    • @abhishekjha8932
      @abhishekjha8932 Рік тому

      ​@@VKP-i5i that's enlightenment jackass

    • @goodluck_0007
      @goodluck_0007 Рік тому +19

      @@VKP-i5i it's not mythology it's science

    • @Lalit_4166
      @Lalit_4166 Рік тому

      ​@@VKP-i5i teri maa baap bhi myth hai bhai chod de unko or kud ja Nadi me unko chod ke

  • @kimiholisumi8686
    @kimiholisumi8686 Рік тому +9

    During my student nursing period I lost my first patient who jz got admitted n died within 30 mins after admission!!! It was heart breaking and I stil remember that patient….

  • @studywithramprasathrp3093
    @studywithramprasathrp3093 Рік тому +13

    My first pt died due to cardiopulmonary failure and pulmonary edema, we did all we could and while intubating, he passed away. And then after that, every patient death has always been pushing me forward to become a even better doctor, who can absolutely save everyone from death. But that is not the case, sometimes something are inevitable and death is also sometimes inevitable.
    But patient care is the only one that ever matters...

  • @FitnessKnowledge_hacks
    @FitnessKnowledge_hacks Рік тому +1

    best video 😢

  • @GalaxyStars34769
    @GalaxyStars34769 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel this even though I'm not a doctor myself. It's like losing someone very close to you that you love.
    Trust me, I've been there...

  • @tejaapollo
    @tejaapollo Рік тому +54

    My first patient died when i was doing internship coz of massive heart attack.
    I still remember the happy couple who walked to our OPD and complained about chest discomfort for him.
    It's too emotional even now to think those moments 🥺

    • @AshishSingh-be9ex
      @AshishSingh-be9ex Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/jo2RsQadhQ4/v-deo.html

    • @Bhunesh27
      @Bhunesh27 Рік тому +2

      Doc why couldn't be he saved? Even if they reached for help in time.. sad

    • @sanabria04
      @sanabria04 Рік тому +2

      ​@@Bhunesh27Because we are not God. He alone is sovereign over life and death, including yours. Do you know Him? Have you heard of the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

    • @Bhunesh27
      @Bhunesh27 Рік тому +2

      @@sanabria04 I am a Hindu

    • @allaboutindia8312
      @allaboutindia8312 Рік тому

      ​@@Bhunesh27mtlb jiska jab likha h vo tb jaega

  • @shailjadwivedi7241
    @shailjadwivedi7241 Рік тому +11

    This is me everytime .I am clinical dietitian and its heartbreaking to see this.I still remember when in the diet sheet for the patient to whom we talked so much advised them particular food everything passes away next day yes a part of us dies.

  • @namratasharma3253
    @namratasharma3253 Рік тому +4

    This is the worst experience one has to go through in the medical college. We are attached with our patients and seeing them succumb to their injuries or disease disheartens us badly.
    I recently lost one of my patient.

  • @DevKoDec
    @DevKoDec Рік тому +1

    If your patient dies, you shouldn't use chatgpt in school

  • @Gtu2119
    @Gtu2119 10 місяців тому

    This is over. After the things we been through this only happens if the patient dies because of us.

  • @manswi2502
    @manswi2502 Рік тому +134

    That's my worst nightmare

  • @mishirjii
    @mishirjii Рік тому +59

    My sister just recently became a nurse. She worked in ICU for 2 months in a private hospital and was horrified that soon after one of her patients died, doctors casually went on to eat their lunch. She was in charge of him and was optimistic about his recovery but she went on a short break while other nurse took the charge and when she came back she saw him fighting death and doctors trying to save him. She was very sad for many days afterwards.

    • @sreejamukherjee687
      @sreejamukherjee687 Рік тому +7

      So what do u expect the doctors to do after every patient dies ? Starve for a day ? In this field life and death are a regular thing and u NEED to learn to harden ur heart if u don't want to be an emotional wreck every time. Unlike the nurses, the doctors hav to do the real grind work.

  • @unicekiranvemuri8844
    @unicekiranvemuri8844 Рік тому +15

    Till now i feel that pain.it's too emotional.we never forget that incident in our entire professional life.

  • @aroundwaysc
    @aroundwaysc Рік тому

    This was emotional 😢

  • @brainfreshtoday
    @brainfreshtoday Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing real emotions, it is important!

  • @rojaranik2722
    @rojaranik2722 Рік тому +69

    True...not only first patient but also with long staying patients with chronic and recurrent admissions... unknowingly connection happenes...it will hurt so much ... specially for nurses...since they spent more time.. comparison to other health team members

  • @keziyarosylanka8420
    @keziyarosylanka8420 Рік тому +10

    Doctors are amazing creations by God

  • @btsarmyamritha5995
    @btsarmyamritha5995 Рік тому +32

    This made me broke into tears..Doctors are the Gods who is in our visions Respect to all the Doctors..I also wish to be a doctor when I grow up now I'm only 13 Please pray for me..🙏🙏❤❤

  • @SonuKumar-fp1wn
    @SonuKumar-fp1wn Рік тому +1

    “Very tough job is to be a doctor because if any patient dies, the doctor also dies in their heart ”😢😢😭😭

  • @caterinamartino8229
    @caterinamartino8229 Рік тому

    Plain and simple nurses are our HEROES ❤❤❤❤

  • @Tasha-ph3ex
    @Tasha-ph3ex 8 місяців тому +1

    I feel so bad when my puppy died I was crying to death. I didn’t even go to school for about five days because I was so sad.🥹😭😭

  • @mohamedhazwan
    @mohamedhazwan Рік тому +9

    When i was student nurse , my ward have one foreigner patient grandma .. we was so close to her . Around 2 weeks she was admitted in my wards . One day Aft pm shift end , i said good bye to her .. the next morning when I'm coming to my ward to work . Her room full of nurses and her family . The patient daughter told me that her mom passed away early morning . I was devastated. The daughter told me it's must been hard for me to accept it coz she know we was so closed . 🥺😣.. a good soul .

  • @hardikpatel6230
    @hardikpatel6230 Рік тому +34

    Being a part of medical fraternity... I sometimes wonder... we PPL trying to save our patients lives, won't be able to save our's... How ironic .. we too would be gone one day... This indeed masks me deeply think and reflect what actually is our existence as an individual on the face of this planet .. just 3 questions...WHO AM I???? Where did I come from? Where will I go?

    • @honeysharma9121
      @honeysharma9121 Рік тому +3

      Very deep questions.... I usually conclude it : we are part of this universe with or without body. Just Do good karma.

    • @Sumit-lr1qj
      @Sumit-lr1qj Рік тому

      Jiddu Krishnamurthy is answer

    • @krishjay3132
      @krishjay3132 3 місяці тому

      ​@@honeysharma9121 I fully concur with you 🙏🏻

  • @For_watching_yt
    @For_watching_yt Рік тому +10

    This is the reason I didn't choose medical
    I can't see anyone dead if I had a chance to save them

  • @Jdhsbbshbhsjdbdj
    @Jdhsbbshbhsjdbdj 3 місяці тому

    It’s OK 👌 Don’t be bored! You was make all for that patient ! ❤

  • @Elizabeth-jo8ft
    @Elizabeth-jo8ft Рік тому

    Thank you for saving lives every day 💕 you are a true hero

  • @toshiomar5138
    @toshiomar5138 Рік тому +6

    My father's friend son was doctor. When he's first patient died, he cried and sad that he couldn't save him. After a week he died from heart attack some people said he committed suicide. He's friends said he was depressed after his patient death.

  • @coolman4547
    @coolman4547 Рік тому +5

    Did anybody notice that the patient was wearing shoes in his death bed 😂😂😂

  • @ANURAGIITG202
    @ANURAGIITG202 Рік тому +36

    It Hits me very deeply 😔

  • @AdityaY.j
    @AdityaY.j Рік тому

    All the doctors save patients and save yourself when ever you feel low just remember ..You are angel of gods ❤

  • @starawolf7090
    @starawolf7090 Рік тому

    This made me cry

  • @kaduskadewet608
    @kaduskadewet608 Рік тому +30

    Was a Caregiver and the staff at the frail care where I did my practical assigned me to a patient with stage 4 cancer since my first day he has been my patient it was a elderly man. Had to convince him to eat he wouldn't listen to anyone else. And one afternoon just before my shift ended he was ruched to the hospital and the next morning when I came I his children were waiting for me at his room. They thanked me for everything I did for him and I couldn't cry because I had other patients to tend to. My heart goes out to you guys

  • @azmi_.23
    @azmi_.23 Рік тому +17

    😣worst feeling ever for doctors

  • @jeevitha_08
    @jeevitha_08 Рік тому +4

    When I saw the memories, my heart wrenched.

  • @sabhyata7599
    @sabhyata7599 Рік тому

    I remember that how sad I felt at this crucial time of my life 😢😢😢.... But I managed myself and left all my negative thoughts back and made a strong come back. May all the new doctor also do the same. My blessings are with u all 2023 fekus

  • @sapnakakde3036
    @sapnakakde3036 Місяць тому

    Thats emotional ...as a medical student i can feel 🤧🥲😭