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“School is often considered a positive place” Lmao, I only feel stressed at school and during the school term. Once the holidays hits, I’m a completely different person with almost 0 stress. When school starts again, it jumps back to 100. Can anyone relate?
I'm that person as well. I strangely I never found school to be stressful because I was always ready to learn, but with this pandemic and everything is remote and my classes all of a sudden got so stressful for me to follow along and I cringe everytime I go to class. I can't wait for this semester to be over
It doesn’t hurt to ask how. I don’t think you’re unintelligent if you’re self-aware enough to communicate your feelings and express humility. Allow yourself to learn without being discouraged, and you’ll give yourself the opportunity to improve. ☺️
In my school they're probably: -smart, always studying therefore they're fast -they're the type of "I get it done no matter bad or good. Just done the homework then I'll be fine" -they are just lazy to think and people ACTUALLY let them copy their answers
I hate how people just accept school as a 100% good thing, mostly parents, and when people complain about it they’re called stupid, lazy, or a dropout. It’s not perfect. Far from it.
@@aubriethegreat8175 I enjoy making money on a weekly basis a lot more than sitting in school listening to a guy talking to himself and answering questions on a sheet of paper all day long.
I personally find college a LOT more interesting and enjoyable than highschool was. But I also have the opportunity to choose a major of study that is both useful and highly interesting to me. I think the difference between highschool life (and younger) versus adult/ college life is that you have so much more control over the environment around you. Sure, college is stressful. It's expensive and you need good grades for your scholarships. But you chose to be there. Sure, working full time and paying rent, bills, etc. is stressful. But it's your own hard work and your own home now. I don't know, that's been my experience so far and it's been a lot better than highschool.
Exactly! There is so much to do. Going outside, taking walks with friends, learning new stuffs like dancing, doing sport activities, playing on musical instruments, being creative... BUT! Homeworks! Because of them I don't have time for something else! Hardly I can go two times a week on training! But I guess there is not much to do except talking with teachers about it...
My school gave me -all thing that you listed -broken nose -broken leg -almost broken skull -getting bullied for being girly girl,not beliving in god and for being aromantic
I gained: -anxiety (and depression?) -extremely low self esteel -deadly silence (I would literally not say a single word during the day) -bipolar disorder? -suicidal thoughts (from 2012 to 2018) -100% less trust (even to my brother and parents) -overall victum preset -high grades -useless knowledge (about 70% of what they taught me) -"making friends is impossible" script -"good doesn't exist" script -"hello me, it is me again" - the 2nd voice in my head -99.9999999999999% less interest in doing LITERALLY ANYTHING *and more* P. S. Question marks (?) means that I'm not sure of it.
I hate school It gave me low self esteem, bad relationships, and made my mental health horrible but I learned a lot so I'm happy I went through all that 😉
I studied for hours and hours and took “the easiest exam of the year” and I thought I did so good I’d blow my teacher away, He gave me a 28. I bawled my eyes out on the school bus infront of everyone and begged him to let me retake it. Grades are due tomorrow. It’s literally my 6th day in person as a freshman and I’ve cried IN SCHOOL twice, and failed every test. I’m an honors kid.
I honestly don't have the motivation for school anymore, I wanna drop out and take actual courses that will help me be who I want in the future. I had turned down two "great" opportunities for a good education, my friends got in and it's so stressful they don't even have a full summer to themselves. They only have 2 weeks of a summer with no learning, weekends not included, so they can retain information. I honestly want to just be happy when I grow up.
Update: it’s the last 6 weeks of the second semester lol. Broke down infront of my bio teacher Found out my parents lied to me about me having ADD Failing all my classes Dad refuses to get me ADD meds Two of my guinea pigs died Lost a friend My best friends rapist is now starting to get friends again I’m always tired Not fun.
Update Nearly halfway into Sophemore year :D Marching Band is fun Lowest grade over all is an 82 Still not add meds More friends now Gotta be at school at 3am to drive to Tennessee for a competition, get home at 6am the next day 🥲 I’ll miss my martial arts Halloween party to go to the Tennessee competition, which are both on the 30th
I feel like school is literally just 20% learning and 80% socializing- Well, me watching other people socialize while I pretend I'm not listening even though I'm sitting right next to them and can hear everything they say. I'm not much of a talker as an introvert, even when I'm sitting with a group of friends, I get anxious saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. I often just blow things off because the event is too social and chatty
Another reason is the nature of teachers. Some Teachers intentionally harrass and embarrass student in front of others. But more than it being a lesson, it affected has really effected my mental health
I can confirm that from experience and it makes it worse if nobody helps (students are too scared of teacher to tell, teachers back up the other teacher and headmaster is bff with the teacher) even more if you used to look up at teachers. I know they dont realize the damage they do but it really hurts
@@fluffywaffles6225 Right. I've had trouble socializing, and this has happen to me for like 8 years straight and the only thing it has done is break my trust in teachers and school, it destroyed my will to open up and rather prefer being left unnoticed.
@@kassiaactuallydraws9361 Yeah, exactly. Especially when you're young and too scared to take action against them, becoz it's possible no one will believe u and the teacher might then start to harrass you even worse. It's like a cell and you feel helpless
I have fear of being yelled at and being confronted by teachers . My heart always pound so fast whenever I felt like they are shouting. And this is just one of the reasons why I'm always anxious before going to school. And one of the reasons why I can't focus.
What school gave/made me: 1) social anxiety (i isolate myself and struggle alot to just go up to somebody and strike up a conversation-) 2) low self esteem 3) depression 4) stress 5) feel overwhelmingly pressured-
Trained therapist and physiological professionals: school has a negative affect on children Schools: NO we know everything and what they need is more homework!
What i learnt from school- 1. Its hard to make friends, nobody is nice 2. Fear of suspension for a trivial thing 3. Need to gel along with horrible people you dont like 4. Most teachers don't care about your health.
Number 1 and 3 i can totally Relate that as Victim of bullying heavily when i was in Middle school even sometimes in high school but Rarely, Really hate Myself for it when in classroom and even outside of class being uneasy and worrying towards Bullies whom dont like you saying something out loud and then Shaming you and Also Facing with Annoying Person and Dealing with their tantrum..Its Just Ruining My mood off..9 years had passed and i Still cant Recover Completely for what school did to me..I still have Social Anxiety and bit of Ptsd and Deep trust Issue
@@imanautistwhowantslebensra9742 Im so sorry for your situation, i hope you are doing good now and surprisingly in my final year of high school i made good friends and its going well Yup i have also faced bullying years ago and it still haunts me
@@fieryelf so it's a common thing to lose memories of your childhood because of bullying! I thought I was weird so I never talked about it with anyone cwc The only things I remember are the traumatic things that happened, and I remember them only if I see something or I'm in a situation that makes me feel in a similar way.
What teachers think school gives us : -A great job we like -Amazing skills -Important information And what school actually gives us... -Hate towards everyone -Feeling worthless and thinking of being a failure -Social Anxiety -Useless Facts that we will never use in our lives
I see how two of my classmates often bully one girl ON A LESSON, but most of teacher give no attention to it, even when this girl asks for help... But I see those two see a bullying as a joke, so it doesn't harm much (I hope), they take her bottle and then when she trys to find it they don't give her, pull her hair if they want something from her (they sit right behind her)
Yeah, when I had 8 out of 9 points i got C instead of B. And when I was missing one point to 100% on my test I still got a B, not an A. How am I supposed to get good grades when I can't make a single mistake on a test..
"most students enjoy school" *I have literally never met a single person that has replied "I really like it!" or "I love it!" to an adult asking "How are you liking school?"*
@@BlizzardFrost2021 I used to like school in 3rd grade and I went to a new school and all that changed in 4rth grade the teacher was literally my bully no joke she called me a cry baby and rubbish 😞 she also did worse things up until 6th grade now I’m in 7th grade
I remember seeing this: School makes me feel Depressed Stupid Sad Anxious Suicidal Cry So stressed So tired Sick And it goes on. The school system needs to be updated.
@@catdog4957 Idk if its just me but Summer through fall 2019 won't ever be the same because I can't remember it in color. I was just that low back then
Go out and vote for people who actually want to change it for the better instead of those who want to torture kids so they become bad like them when they are older. That is the only way to fix it. Sitting around and crying won't help.
@@user-mu1os7me8s yes I understand your comment and it does have truth to it. Right now I am not at an age that can vote, but I am willing to try and educate myself on alternative methods for schools to teach students. Hopefully I can use that knowledge when I’m older.
I think us children are just doomed to suffer in this terrible system until an actually good politician comes in to save us? Which surely is just a dream.
@@user-mu1os7me8s, that is a nice... Joke. Election means nothing. You choose between different face masks for the same bastard. But these masks do speak. And speak differently... Untill they get the authority to actually do something. After that they are all just the same. Only the faces look different a bit. As Sir Arthur Conan Doyle said: if election COULD change something, we WOULDN'T be allowed to participate.
“You can bring snacks, you can also try to sneak in naps during breaks” School which doesn’t allow snacks at all except at lunch and there are no breaks long enough for me to even sleep: *you dare pass*
We don't even have 5 minute breaks anymore. Last year it was barely enough to get my stuff and use the bathroom/get a drink. Now we're just screwed if we have to pee or something
My thoughts on school: 1. I feel like a robot there 2. It keeps me from doing the things i actually love and learning the things i actually want to learn and use because it sucks all my energy out 3. The system doesn't look like it is going to change anytime soon 4. It makes mental health problems much worse. 5. It rips away your inner child 6. It sets you into system that is seen as the only way to success, which is absolutely wrong 7. We are force fed crap that we will never use, and waste time way too often
@Jayah Anderson "forfeit life privilege" means wants to die. So the comment (literally) means he wants to kill the youtuber because of his words, which means he thinks nobody likes school. Btw it's the first time for me to explain a meme lol
The only reason tht I like school is bc of my electives(and sometimes English bc the topics are sometimes interesting)& I get to see my friends on a daily basis depending on what classes we have together and what lunch we have
"Despite the safe environment that schools provide for socializing" Wrong. Social environments in schools do not provide safety. And I'll provide an example. So take 7th grade me: in band, kind of quiet, more passive, just wanted to play trumpet. The other trumpet players were not nice to me. Bullied me consistently, to the point where I refused to go to school a few days. One instance, I decided to stick up for myself. I didn't know how to do this, so I went with what appeared to be a pretty solid option: refusing to share one of the books with another student. What was I met with? Infantilization and reprimand from the teacher herself. Who, may I add, never once addressed the issue of the other trumpet kids bullying me. Even into 8th grade. School does not care about you.
I swear the only thing schools do is pretend to care. My principal was like, weirdly into “be kind” to the point where we would joke about it once we left the school. But did he care? Nope. Also they started giving detentions at *3rd freaking grade*. like is that normal? One time i got detention in 3rd grade and i didn’t even know what was happening
@@notusingthisaccounttoomuch8486 i got detention in 4th grade for watching someone get bullied but i have social anxiety so how do they expect me to do anything
"5 Ways School Can Hurt Your Mental Health" summary with time stamps: 1. Bullying 0:56 2. Academic Results 2:15 3. Assignments 3:24 4. Socializing 4:24 5. Long Hours 5:34 I recommend watching the video for more info and details :) (also it would be nice if Psych2Go put these kinds of summaries along with time stamps in their description so that it would be easier to find what we are looking for if we don't have the time to rewatch the video).
It’s an infernal hell for sure but I’m lucky enough to have people who support me and long term projects I’m invested in so I’m doing ok. Classes themselves are definitely hell tho
@@user-ld1lg4dz2o "strong work ethics" : 🤣🤦♂️ You mean you like governments enslaving you and putting tax payers money into their privet pockets or bailing out failing corporations 👌 It's work or die over there...
I honestly feel bad for them because they're always working, that shit is horrible for you. And that's exactly why they're one of the top countries with suicides
I think they're number two worldwide in highest suicide rates, or they were,, not sure. But in SK they bully a lot, have uniforms, teachers don't do shit, if u're late they beat ur ass with a ruler, make u hold ur hands above ur head for a long time (sometimes buckets of water and if u get tired u spill it on urself!?) They love public humiliation, peer pressure x100, abuse is common, police r all bought, social class is important, students r in school 6 days a week from 6-8 am to 8-9 pm and study LITERALLY ALL. DAY. LONG. There's a lot more but I feel so bad for all the kids there. Kdramas address some problems though, so that's good
in kindergarten, i kept getting called a "boy" because of my short hair, and that made my confidence go down the hill. i cried in 2nd grade in front of everyone because i got a bad score on my achieve activity, but everyone was comforting me
Crying because of school isn't okay, this stupid school system made it so that grades are more important than anything😕😡. I hope you are doing well right now. You have my support.
I wish we could all live like hobbits. Lemme explain. We would live in our little hobbit holes. Drink and eat delicious things. Have a beautiful garden. Know everyone and have a lot of friends. No school, cause it would be useless. An amazing and peaceful life. No greed. Cool birthday parties. That would be LIFE.
@@KalashDaCat I wish academics were a purely personal pursuit, because being forced on a 10-11 hour per day schedule with no pay is pretty exhausting sometimes.
What I Iearned in school: -my feelings don't matter. Even if they did nobody will understand them anyway -who cares if my head is overfilled with sensories and is unable to function, bad grades makes me a bad person -no one will help me in my meltdowns or sensory overloads, i'm just too sensitive - nobody will like me because of how weird I am - I can't be weak, even if my head, stomach and limbs hurt -I need to accept the bullying, because let's be honest, making loud sounds isn't something bad, right? -I have to like people, even if I'm uncomfortable and want to run away
The final one: Several years later, when you tell them about with your expert autism diagnosis (which they NEVER supected about, even if they had suposedly knew you for years and years), teachers say "That's not possible! She always had sooooooooooooo good marks!".
I'll add 3 more: Being treated differently because you're from another country (this happens to all foreign people even outside of school) the school and government don't do anything to help with bullying, bags that are too heavy, stress because of too much pressure They don't care about your mental and physical health they just say "ugh you're so sensitive", "you're lying" and "wdym you're doing fine" (again if you're from another country they don't care) "The 2030 vision" they said "its gonna be achieved" they said _also i learned english from the internet, school gave me nothing_
@@darkforge1013 school wants me to do around 2 hours of homework per class every day and over the weekend, and on top of that want me to study for weekly quizzes/tests. They wonder why I fall asleep in class and lash out at everyone. Pushing me to my fucking limit every damn day.
@@n0skillx0verkill61 once I had to spend 8 hours on this stupid homework and sleep only for 3 hours, when I came to school my friends were worried why I looked like a zombie
school is so stressful, lately its been nothing but learn chapter, test, learn chapter test, learn chapter, test, big end of school exams. There's no break and teachers just expect you to be able to do it as if you don't have a life outside of school. I'm exhausted constantly and burnt out but I can't take a break and recharge cause I'll be in trouble for not having the homework done or I won't do well in an exam.
I think the other part of that are the parents. They influence their kids and make them a bully or victim through that. Maybe a better Communication between parents and their kids could help. It may be better, if not only the shool tries to prevent mobbing. The parents shouöd work together with the shool and communicate. Just as we should talk more to another instead of talking about each other. I've got bullied in middle shool and it wasnt funny...
A lot of students where bullied in 6th grade (I was bullied too) and in 7th grade our School, put a poster against bulling. But the poster was a boy toughing a girl's ass and cross over it. I was so pissed of. Is this bulling for THEM. Most girls in my School are sluts and don't deserve those posters.
What I hate about school is the fact that. I’m expected to be a straight A student; of course because of my Dad’s ridiculously high expectations for me, which he claims aren’t that bad. Which isn’t really THAT simple, I can’t just flawlessly do all my assignments and be the epitome of perfection. It’s so stressful. Not too long ago I was told that my summer would be based on how well my grades are. And for math I have a 44, soon to be a 66, I KNOW how pissed my dad would be and it just hurts me knowing that my whole summer will go to waste because of A SINGULAR. DAMN. GRADE.
I understand what your going through As a high school senior my parents used to have high expectations but because of them I failed. Pushing a person like that only leads to failure and that's not your fault everyone has the right to fail we learn from failure not success. I wish you luck.
School was more about survival than learning. Most of the other kids didn't take education seriously and no-one cared. I didn't really start to sort my education out until I left school.
1. Well, telling a teacher about being bullied (at least in my school) is even worse than keeping it as a secret. Teachers only make it worse because they don’t know how to talk with students about this stuff and don’t want to learn how to. After the dumb „Don’t bully, it’s bad” talk bullies are even more cruel than before and make sure your school life is a hell. So, I don’t tell teachers about being bullied in school. 2. Teachers in my school expect good students to always get good grades no matter what. I was always quite good at maths but once I got D from a test because I misunderstood the subject. The teacher said something like: „Oh dear, you were such a good student, what happened? I expected more from you.” 3. In my case bullying is on a level where the new students are being turned against me for bullies make sure that I’ll always be alone. _AND YET OTHERS ARE SAYING „YOU’RE OVERREACTING!” WHEN I TRY TO EXPLAIN WHY I ABSOLUTELY HATE SCHOOL_
@@nyjalomari exactly, my teachers don't even fucking care. they also bully the students and just watch ppl get called names then laugh, but god forbid someone have a hoodie on or be eating chips in class.
@@meikaaa9042 Hell yeah. Once I had a problem with my group in a group project (basically the group tried to exclude me out of the project), so I wanted to ask my teacher if I could join other group or do my own project. She just laughed at me while I was talking and said something like „When you’ll be adult your boss won’t care if you like people in your group while doing a project. You will just have to finish it. Try to talk with your group instead of creating useless problems.”
What my parents think school gives me: - knowledge - Important information - Skills and abilities - Good friends - way to succees - confidence - humble teachers What school actually gives/gave me: - Depression - Anxiety - Tension - Stress - Fake friends - mean teachers - extreme panic attacks - waste information - unwanted knowledge - stressful subjects - A LOT OF crying - loss of confidence - sucidial thoughts - childhood trauma - hateful homeworks This is what school gave me/gives me everyday, and I have anxiety because of school i get extreme panicks attacks. and i even tried to tell my parents about this but they always take it in a wrong way, when i say them that I'm really tired and stressed because of school and homeworks they always reply saying "so you wanna be uneducated?" "You wanna leave studies?" "what will you become in the future?" "Shut up you're going to school tomorrow!" "Stop doing dramas" literally can i just call them the worst parents? cause they've never tried to understand my problems and fears, but instead judge and hurted me. ughh
I have a little tip for everyone stressed with school. Mostly, talk to your teachers about it. I know not every school is as well versed on mental health or helps students as much, but you might be surprised by what some teachers are willing to do for you. I was almost constantly stressed for 2 years. I still did well in school, but all enjoyment was gone. I had way too high expectations for myself and felt that if I didn’t get the best grade on every test, I had been lazy. At one point, I just kind of caved in. I ended up having a really difficult conversation with one of my teachers and with someone at school that was something of a counseler. They allowed me to drop out of a class (one I didn’t need to do, but was causing a lot of stress), not do two tests (as I was already doing well in those subjects) and I got a “time-out” card (something I could give my teachers if I felt stressed so I could just leave the classroom). I got way more help than I would have ever thought I could get. My teachers were helpful and understanding and things are a little better nowadays. So don’t be afraid to talk to your parents or teachers about stress. Don’t allow yourself to go through these things on your own. You deserve to go to school happily.
Tine Boes. Hi R.A.K. here. In the midst of a sea of anxious & frustrated comments, Calm Waters! Your well constructed & helpful comment! Which I hope is read & followed by the many rather than the few! Wise head on young shoulders! Nice to have met you! Regards R.A.K.
@@blank-6222 hi, thanks for your support for tine! I'm sure you will agree that there is not enough mental health support for pupils In schools, But Tine was resourceful enough to seek out what was available! Looks as though his likes are increasing, that's good news! Regards to you!
I would love to do that but i don't think our school would do that for a single student or any students actually cause literally some teachers motto is " your fun in school is gonna get lower and your studies are gonna rise. DEAL WITH IT!!! "
Things I learned from school: If you try really hard, you will still fail Everyone will hate you if you be yourself Most rules don't matter The system only changes when it becomes inconvenient for those who created it Grades matter more than your emotional and physical well-being If you don't work well with the people in your group, it is always your fault A majority of guys in my own age group are bullies Never trust those who are similar to the ones who were mean to you in the past Keep your pain to yourself because people will use it against you Being a good person means that you won't be able to have many friends Talking is a crime Your parents will hate you if you don't get the same good grades they did If you aren't good at every single subject, you are a bad student A majority of the things you learn in school don't actually matter when you are an adult Technology is terrible because it doesn't work right most of the time Sports are awful because everyone else is better at them than you and they will bully you for failing The teachers matter more than you because you are a child and they are not How to plan really well How to survive from bullying, overly strict teachers, and emotionally abusive parents at the same time How to motivate myself to keep living by focusing on goals such as college and moving across the country to save myself from the ptsd I got while living in the same horrible place my entire childhood
I felt every single thing you said, there's also the social ladder that you have to stick by or just never fitting in anywhere and so much more to deal with such as favouritism within the classroom and mistreatment from teachers and students constantly
"School is a positive place where students can learn play and make friendships" That's not just how it works, you don't just go there and get it on a silver plate. This is how painful it can be, and the older you get the worse it gets. And when you already have problems, school makes it much worse.
School gave me: Depression Anxiety Infiriority complexes Isolation Depersonalization Breakdowns Tiredness Stress Panic attacks Self consciousness So far, at least...
Damm in my elementary i felt does but i had friends that helped me out of it but now in high school well i guess i have does now especially getting myself isolated cuz i always make it look like i am perfectly fine but no i just can't tell people that it like something I can even word
High School is pretty much just a place for babysitting teens. Let's be honest here, most of the stuff you learn in high school will either be forgotten right away or never be used again.
@@fieryelf Exactly I took AP Human Geography a couple yrs ago and I already forgot most of the stuff I learned in tht class but it's a good thing tht I passed the AP Exam for tht class so I don't really have to worry anymore abt remembering tht stuff
True, highschool is a prision where they teach you that creativity, true intelligence (not only memorizing things and saying the exactly how they are) and even your own ideals and dreams are worth nothing if you don't get a good number and you know really good people or people who can treat you horrible for what you think or what you like.
@@Psych2go Sure! i easily get nervous when i have eye contact with everyone including in zoom. Do you guys have any tips to stop getting nervous and anxious?
@@senroillust4114 Don't turn on your video in zoom. When I was doing online class in zoom I didn't turn on my video . If you need to on then on, Be comfortable with your classmates or client. Every think is possible if you really want.
I feel like teachers give us homework everyday so we it can be a practise for the exams but because we have to give it right the next day students actually stay up late to complete the homework rather than understanding what they reading actually are so i think homework is too stressful
School gave me a real down point in life, especially in third grade. I had so much stress build-up, being that I was the class president which I fully regret. I had to deal with attitudes, different personalities, misbehavior and just full-on stress overall. I had 3 crying sessions. It made me want to just switch schools or just be homeschooled all together. I lost my voice from trying to discipline them but never worked as usual. I'd go home with a frown on my face almost *everyday* . They called me 'bossy' and 'dramatic' but if they were in my place they would have understood. It was a hard weight to put on the shoulders of a 9 year old. I tried to emphasize with them but ended up being the weak one in that situation. I had expectations that I had to reach, like test scores or academic awards as well. If they knew what I was going through every single day, they would know how bad I feel. I wish I just stood aside and not run for class president but, expectations 😃. Apologies for the rant.
As a former topper, school still sucks. Or atleast the current system is. No one cares if i get another high grades. They only cared when my grade slipped. Eventually i just lost all my motivations to learn anything and just cram whatever i can read one day before the exams. I graduated now and is currently heading into college, and i sure hope no one would expect me to be the next Tesla again Also highschool really messed with my gfs mental health. Shes getting better now after graduation, which is good, but still makes me sure that education system worldwide needs a revamp.
Okay okay holy sh*t I relate so much to your story except that I'm still in highschool, it's messing with my mental health and stuff so bad, people expect so much from me, one grade slip results in people crowding all over me asking how I got a bad grade, I have even resonated to cheating on exams to keep my grades up this year- anyways, it's good to know I'm not the only one with "good" grades having a hard time ❤️ Thank you for the comment ❤️❤️
I’m not doing good in academics currently because I have short term memory. When we do academics it’s basically a memorization test. It’s kind of like what Anne said in Anne with an E. “You make me memorize, I forget. You teach me, I remember. You involve me, I learn.” If it took me 4 grades to memorize the multiplication table from 1-10, how do you expect me to learn about new things quickly? How come we spend years doing the multiplication table but we spend a week learning about a harder subject? It makes no sense. The school system is trash but we still rely on our memorization skills to determine how intelligent we are.
“a positive place” *yeah if youre a teachers pet* edit; okay, first ty for the likes and funny replies. note! this is a joke, please do not take this comment seriously and take the time to write a whole goddamn book. ‘kay thanks.
In my middle and elementary school (mostly middle school), the adults who were in charge of lunch didn't allow us to socialize during lunch. If we did, we weren't allowed to eat, we were forced to be quiet just to be allowed to eat (even though I'm a shy person, I still didn't like the idea). At the time, I thought it was normal, but I'm starting to think they were just abusing their power. Sometimes I feared that I wouldn't be able eat lunch at all. Even though most of the time I bring my own lunch, I always waited until everyone else got their food (because I was afraid they would make me bad for eating my food while they didn't have any). In middle school, I starting eating my lunch right away because I got tired of waiting for everyone else to get their food when I already had my own. One time, they did try to make me feel bad, but I decided to tell them off, I shouldn't have to restrict myself from eating just because they didn't have food. It's not fair to me, I had my own food so I should be allowed eat it whenever *I'm* hungry. But then mom made me have to eat school lunch, so now I had no choice (I don't think she knew what was going on, but even so she knew I didn't like the most of the school lunch there). They were shitty people for doing that and they had no right to restrict children from eating lunch just for socializing. Even if it was too loud, they should've always allowed us to eat.
middle school honestly is shit dude, its just an elementary school student toppled with mpre homework, confusion, and depression which can be harder than cinder blocks
I won't take homework with me at my home because home, is a place where your rest mental health care. Not work. That's why, Finland is still the #1 best school system. There secret is "No Homework". I get it, your suppose to learn; let's get reality here. "Schools aren't teaching in meaning of becoming adultery" worst of all, tests are, test can get you into mental health issues. "Too much knowledge all at once, will not be a output" only if you're putting in small investments of knowledge than you can use those useful tools you've learned from school.
Probably the best classes I ever had were Literature and AP Calc in high school. Both teachers never made us do homework and in Literature the tests were either open book or open ended essays. We still had exams for Calc but I can still remember 70% of what I learned from it. Despite having the AP test our teacher was very lax and gave us plenty of time to learn and understand the material ☺️
Homework needs to go, especially at college where you have multiple tasks that require you to write 5000+ words, all to be done within the span of a week or two. If your someone like me who has adhd, this is pretty much impossible. What do they think we are? Robots? This stuff should be for class and class ONLY
Things school gave me -Depression -anxiety -social anxiety -didn’t help my OCD -low self esteem -stress -and a shit tone of understanding that people will just be rude and you can’t change that!
Especially that last one. I've come to accept that most people will be complete assholes to me, especially my parents. I find solace in the fact I can just hide in a corner and imagine how things could've been...
@@generalgoose1290 There is agreement from other authoritative sources as well. So yes, I believe I am stupid, and the consensus of the world is that I am stupid. So, whatever. I don't really care anymore.
I'm in 8th grade and this is what school gave me so far: -suicidal thoughts -anxiety that literally never goes away and is bad enough that i don't know if the anxiety is the reason i can't think clearly or if it's an undiagnosed mental illness -trust issues -classmates that give death threats for doing literally anything (like getting a good grade, looking backwards during class, existing) -hate for humanity School should honestly come with free therapy.
just finished the worst school year of my life a few months ago, broke up terribly with my gf who threatened me, lost most of my friend because one of them said i was making their bf cheat on them even though we are just friends, and got really terrible grades in all classes I'm going to a new school this year so i can distance myself Right now im looking for more friends because i dont have many at the moment which sucks I still lay awake at night and cry over all thats happened because the words that were said still hurt But im trying my best to get better and because i blocked everyone out whos being harsh to me ive been getting along better and excelling in life I wanna let you whos reading this know that if you are struggling, trust me it does get better, we're all in this together, you dont have to worry alone
Something similar happened to me a few years ago. 5th grade was a bad year for me, but in 6th grade when I moved to a new school things got better. I hope your situation gets better.
I'm sorry you're feeling that way. It can be hard to navigate those early years (I'm assuming you're a teenager) when you feel as though you aren't being supported. No kid should feel that way. What helped me out was making online friends, fournaling, and art. Maybe you can build an online support system if you don't have one already?
i had a terrible year too (bullied, stress etc), i understand what you're feeling and i hope the next year will be better for you and most important, that you'll feel better about it
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As a person growing up seeing my sister always so happy with her friends in high school and seeing it now it’s awful. It’s not just school it’s mostly just the high school. It caused a lot of problems with my mental health and the way I look at myself and also I can see the same for everyone. It feels and has the toxic energy of something your can’t get out and your stuck for the rest of the school year type of thing. School made me develop anxiety, anti-social- social problems, thinking, the way I look, the way I learn, the way I see things and learn things now. It’s so many feelings at once and I can not explain. The feeling also of being judge what who or what your are wearing and always in my thoughts.
What school says it teaches: -basic life skills -advanced teachings in specific areas -common knowledge What school actually teaches: -how to be quiet -how to pretend everything is fine -how to fake it until you make it -how to defend yourself -how to not break down in the middle of class
Idk about ur school, but my school doesn't teach taxes/how to pay bills, how to fix mechanics, how TO ACTUALLY COOK. When I went to middle school, "home ec" was just where my teacher would sit on her computer all class. She didn't help us learn to cut cloth, sew, cook, bake (the closest we got to baking was where we had to make a 'cookie' with a microwave) we made one smoothie and didn't even choose what to put in. And cooking, we didn't even cook any real food, just poured syrup on bread and put in the microwave, we had to learn to sew badly by ourselves, she never gave us the fake baby we had to take care of for a week, etc 🤢🤦 this is America...
School is like a prison but with stress and anxiety and also depression There was one time that I entered a competition about chess and my classmate that is a prodigy of chess my teacher has great expectations of my classmate and when I battle with my classmate I heard my teacher talking to another teacher said " that girl doesn't know how to play chess she just move her pieces without thinking" at that time I feel down depressed and mostly hate entering contest or competition By the I love PsychToGo videos
@@meikaaa9042 r u kidding Prison sounds better Less mental stress You get bored Do you time Maybe get a job Then leave Maybe you'll get attacked But tis only a flesh wound
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Just started this week and i already regret giving myself a full schedule for my senior year, the works starting to pile up already and I have to worry about college applications.
Me: "Why do I not wanna do my homework? Am I lazy?" Mom: "No, you lack motivation." Me: "Oh... Was it really that simple?" School: "Actually, no. You're lazy and a bad kid and you have to do as we say otherwise you'll NEVER have a future and will be a failure for the rest of your life." Me: "Oh, so I AM lazy" Mom: "For the love of God... No, you're not!" Me: "I don't understand anymore..."
Ah yes, a fellow person whose parents are awesome and support you. Reading these comments has made me feel so grateful for my wonderful parents, even though they can often be powerless against the education system whether they know what’s best for me or not.
"School is often considered a positive place where students can learn play and build friendships in a positive environment" Me: "Haha what school you been going to?"
Yeeeeeessss, I tried to raise my self-esteem by trying to participate in stuff, but it only helped make it worse and eventually made me more anxious than before.
Ah yes, my school is probably one that gives bad effects to students like me. I'm the type who failed all the test, and even failed my retest, I don't know what's wrong with me, maybe I'm just not good enough with the subjects. I love art, and in my school sometimes would take the art class period and change it for science class, since art is not important for them. My school wants their students to be the best academically, they won lots of math and science competition and took pride in it. It's already so bad that I flunk every subject, but now they take away my one hobby. People gossips about me, because I suck at studying and also a nerd, they dislike my voice, and they constantly gossips about me and my nerdy group, they think that we're weird. It's also not rare for them to call me ugly, I guess all of those sleep deprivation from studying affects my face a lot. I always vomit every morning before school, and have migrane everytime I go home. I've graduated now, I studied art, and manage to built a fanbase through my art. I've overcomed my anxiety and low self esteem a little. I do have more confidence now, I can stand up for myself, and I have courage to try new things. People who met me now called me pretty and have the brightest face, I didn't do make-up nor any surgery, but I guess change in confidence also affects my overall looks and charisma. I do still have nightmares everynight where I'm still a high-schooler and have never ending bad grades, retests, and bullying. I woke up several times at midnight due to the bad dreams. When I do voice acting for my character, every now and then memories of my friends mocking my voice come and flash through my head and I would break into tears suddenly. But, now I've gotten better, and I'm proud to say that I've overcome my emotional break-downs from high school. You might be going through the same thing as me, well here's my advice, talk if you have problems, and don't stress things out too much, high school will come and go, y'all high schooler are real troopers 🥰
Creampuff Bun wow, I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. It sounds awful. I have never been bullied but am constantly anxious I’m going to be judged because almost everyone at school is so toxic. I’m glad you’re doing okay now and are doing things that you love and enjoy. Don’t let anyone bring you down. You’re beautiful, keep telling yourself that and try not to listen to anyone who tells you otherwise ❤️
Whoa, you're outcome is very inspiring :) I hope you'll get back at those bullies who mocked u >:( I hope ure raki g care of urself, not throwing up anymore, and r growing and feeling happy with urself and ur life, fighting! 💞
I used to feel like vomiting every morning before school too. Every single day from middle school through high school, all I could eat was water and saltine crackers cause I always felt so horribly nauseous on the way to school. Yet I would take that same bus home every day after school and I would feel fine. Once asked a doctor why I always felt sick in the mornings and she said it was all in my head. That doctor was no help at all...
What school gave me: -loss of feelings (i still have them, but they barley work) -less free time -more sadness then happiness -sooooooooooo much homework -strees -broken bones -grounded -bad grades -uslees information *and soooooooooooooooo much more*
Imagine if we didn't have school. chill with your friends, play video games, spend more time with your family, chill at a store with friends. but we just cry and do homework and get stressed.
For me, it's really just the repetitive loop of school. I was feeling great mentally before school but 3 weeks in I'm losing my feeling of being whole. I feel emptier each day going to school, doing the same exact shit over and over again that it ruins the way I think
@@leya3333 same and i couldnt help to just curse at them even though its a bad thing to do but i didnt they are such bs and i actually reported it to the principal the principat on my school is very nice to the students and never higher his tone its always super calm and i didnt get an isolation . But it happened when there was no pandemic.
I’m 14 and I’m realizing that when I was younger I was so happy and energetic and had time. Now, I’m caught in a loop of waking up too early, back hurting and stress, baggy eyes, falling asleep in the shower, slouching while walking and barely being able to stand(no exaggeration), too sleepy all day, and how school turns people into sleep deprived zombies basically. I’m always tired now and hate spending my childhood like this so badly. I just want to make memories but all I can think about is how school is making me feel. I literally cant remember the last time I felt like how I was younger.
@@pompomkitty306 awww I love your profile pic My mom said she might get me a miniature poodle named Honey❤and honestly I feel so happy Crap I got off topic ._.
I can agree, on that. It’s not like the school system has changed much since the industrial age; it still encourages a toxic mindset between your socioeconomic status and your self-worth. :/ School’s to create workers, not thinkers. You have to educate yourself and not rely on what the government wants you to know.
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I am going into grade 10! I am so scared
6th grade!
6th, and by the way, your videos are so informative and make me feel better, knowing what's wrong with me and what I can to do help, your videos are wonderful to me. :)
@@Calcie_ YOU GOT THIS CALCIE! What are you worried about? :(
“School is often considered a positive place”
Lmao, I only feel stressed at school and during the school term. Once the holidays hits, I’m a completely different person with almost 0 stress. When school starts again, it jumps back to 100. Can anyone relate?
Lemme tell ya, I can R E L A T E to that
I'm that person as well. I strangely I never found school to be stressful because I was always ready to learn, but with this pandemic and everything is remote and my classes all of a sudden got so
stressful for me to follow along and I cringe everytime I go to class. I can't wait for this semester to be over
Yeah, so sick of it..
@@Xanderex98 same here I’m sick and tired of online school ugh
I relate to this so much ;-;
School is overwhelming. It’s always the feeling of ‘How come she finishes her work in an hour, and I usually take four? Am I stupid?’.
Or rather, "How am I supposed to write an essay in a test in one hour when even professionals take their time?"
Lars's Wig Just make it extra detailed, or try to write(or make the text) bigger. That’s what I do, 😂
@@larsswig912 Exactly that makes no sense
It doesn’t hurt to ask how. I don’t think you’re unintelligent if you’re self-aware enough to communicate your feelings and express humility. Allow yourself to learn without being discouraged, and you’ll give yourself the opportunity to improve. ☺️
In my school they're probably:
-smart, always studying therefore they're fast
-they're the type of "I get it done no matter bad or good. Just done the homework then I'll be fine"
-they are just lazy to think and people ACTUALLY let them copy their answers
I hate how people just accept school as a 100% good thing, mostly parents, and when people complain about it they’re called stupid, lazy, or a dropout. It’s not perfect. Far from it.
THANK YOU
True.
albert Einstein hated the school system...
and got expelled for that
big surprised
*THEY DISMISS A BRIGHT WISE MAN BECAUSE OF HIS ATTITUDE*
School made me fear failure 🤦🏻♀️
APOPHISCA yeah, I literally saw a video where a graduate started criticizing the school to a crowd and they turned off his mic.
Fun Fact:
Homework was originally made to be a punishment for students not paying attention
Me with diagnosed ADHD: looks like I'm screwed
Oh wow..
Looks like it was a punishement for me to not be grateful
@@vincem3748 well there are medications for that
@@jayasmrmore3687 yeah but... ...side effects
The fact that they 'prepare' you for the hardest years of your life by making the best ones worse is so messed up.
At this point I don't even feel like these ARE the best years of my life, I think I will enjoy my adult years more for many reasons.
@@aubriethegreat8175 I enjoy making money on a weekly basis a lot more than sitting in school listening to a guy talking to himself and answering questions on a sheet of paper all day long.
I personally find college a LOT more interesting and enjoyable than highschool was. But I also have the opportunity to choose a major of study that is both useful and highly interesting to me. I think the difference between highschool life (and younger) versus adult/ college life is that you have so much more control over the environment around you. Sure, college is stressful. It's expensive and you need good grades for your scholarships. But you chose to be there. Sure, working full time and paying rent, bills, etc. is stressful. But it's your own hard work and your own home now. I don't know, that's been my experience so far and it's been a lot better than highschool.
Soooo trueeeee
Exactly! There is so much to do. Going outside, taking walks with friends, learning new stuffs like dancing, doing sport activities, playing on musical instruments, being creative...
BUT! Homeworks!
Because of them I don't have time for something else! Hardly I can go two times a week on training!
But I guess there is not much to do except talking with teachers about it...
What school has gave me
-sucidal thoughts
-low grades
-low self esteem
-anxiety
-losing friends
-trust issues
-excluded
and a *WHOLE* lot more.
My school gave me
-all thing that you listed
-broken nose
-broken leg
-almost broken skull
-getting bullied for being girly girl,not beliving in god and for being aromantic
What school gave me :-
-thinking im useless because i get bad grades
-im not good enough
-anxiety of teachers
I gained:
-anxiety (and depression?)
-extremely low self esteel
-deadly silence (I would literally not say a single word during the day)
-bipolar disorder?
-suicidal thoughts (from 2012 to 2018)
-100% less trust (even to my brother and parents)
-overall victum preset
-high grades
-useless knowledge (about 70% of what they taught me)
-"making friends is impossible" script
-"good doesn't exist" script
-"hello me, it is me again" - the 2nd voice in my head
-99.9999999999999% less interest in doing LITERALLY ANYTHING
*and more*
P. S. Question marks (?) means that I'm not sure of it.
@@Fedor_Shtykov woah, that's a lot
@@realhorrorreeltime, yeah. But the good part is that half of it is already gone, now that I'm in university.
School gave me
-anxiety
-stress
-drama
-and it showed me how greedy people are.
I hate school It gave me low self esteem, bad relationships, and made my mental health horrible but I learned a lot so I'm happy I went through all that 😉
School gave me *more* of those things.
Same same, it made my life 📉📉📉📉
It showed me how many fakies are there....
You aren't alone, and our community is here to support you! What's something you enjoyed about school? Are there any positive aspects?
I studied for hours and hours and took “the easiest exam of the year” and I thought I did so good I’d blow my teacher away,
He gave me a 28.
I bawled my eyes out on the school bus infront of everyone and begged him to let me retake it.
Grades are due tomorrow.
It’s literally my 6th day in person as a freshman and I’ve cried IN SCHOOL twice, and failed every test. I’m an honors kid.
Welp dude I feel you I turned in 6 assignments in the last day for math and got 2 points so I'm probably gonna lose my phone 😔
I honestly don't have the motivation for school anymore, I wanna drop out and take actual courses that will help me be who I want in the future. I had turned down two "great" opportunities for a good education, my friends got in and it's so stressful they don't even have a full summer to themselves. They only have 2 weeks of a summer with no learning, weekends not included, so they can retain information. I honestly want to just be happy when I grow up.
Update: it’s the last 6 weeks of the second semester lol.
Broke down infront of my bio teacher
Found out my parents lied to me about me having ADD
Failing all my classes
Dad refuses to get me ADD meds
Two of my guinea pigs died
Lost a friend
My best friends rapist is now starting to get friends again
I’m always tired
Not fun.
@@charliecharlie4605 I hope you feel better ♡. It's not fun when bad things keep stacking up on eachother when you already have a lot of stress.
Update
Nearly halfway into Sophemore year :D
Marching Band is fun
Lowest grade over all is an 82
Still not add meds
More friends now
Gotta be at school at 3am to drive to Tennessee for a competition, get home at 6am the next day 🥲
I’ll miss my martial arts Halloween party to go to the Tennessee competition, which are both on the 30th
"Go to school", they said,
"It'll be fun", they said.
we were lied to!
Yeah and they say that the teachers are nice
And they say it’s fun these adults always put you in traps
@@_mad_dog_9797 well it wouldve been nice if school learned us how to make proper youtube names..
Edit: also, f*ck the school "education" system
But they were wrong!!
Who is they What if I’m a they? Oh gosh
I feel like school is literally just 20% learning and 80% socializing- Well, me watching other people socialize while I pretend I'm not listening even though I'm sitting right next to them and can hear everything they say. I'm not much of a talker as an introvert, even when I'm sitting with a group of friends, I get anxious saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. I often just blow things off because the event is too social and chatty
Same!
Same
Me too
Same thing, man
Relatable
Another reason is the nature of teachers. Some Teachers intentionally harrass and embarrass student in front of others. But more than it being a lesson, it affected has really effected my mental health
Priyanshi Karan they actually think we will overcome it but it was their fault in the first place
I can confirm that from experience and it makes it worse if nobody helps (students are too scared of teacher to tell, teachers back up the other teacher and headmaster is bff with the teacher) even more if you used to look up at teachers. I know they dont realize the damage they do but it really hurts
@@fluffywaffles6225 Right. I've had trouble socializing, and this has happen to me for like 8 years straight and the only thing it has done is break my trust in teachers and school, it destroyed my will to open up and rather prefer being left unnoticed.
@@kassiaactuallydraws9361 Yeah, exactly. Especially when you're young and too scared to take action against them, becoz it's possible no one will believe u and the teacher might then start to harrass you even worse. It's like a cell and you feel helpless
@@pixiepres7730 exactly!
I have fear of being yelled at and being confronted by teachers . My heart always pound so fast whenever I felt like they are shouting. And this is just one of the reasons why I'm always anxious before going to school. And one of the reasons why I can't focus.
tell a counsler to fire their asses, were supposed to be protected by adults as us minors not mentally abused
I cried for 4 Hours
Same
Me too, I don’t even raise my hand to answer questions because of this.
Same I don't have a reason to live
"Anything that can be looked up is not worth memorizing"
-Albert Einstein
noa garson that makes school useless
SmittyYT that’s the point
Bro, so you're telling me you haven't memorized the whole bee movie script just because you could look it up??
Great quote! Do you have any others?
@@Psych2go "Knowledge isn't something a learner absorbs. It's something a learner creates"
- George Couros
What school gave/made me:
1) social anxiety (i isolate myself and struggle alot to just go up to somebody and strike up a conversation-)
2) low self esteem
3) depression
4) stress
5) feel overwhelmingly pressured-
I was born with 1 and 2, but school definitely gave me 3, 4, and 5. Not necessarily in that order, though.
When I go to most social places its hard to say hi to people I don’t know
@@justanormalperson2761 hhh same though- ive been told i give dirty/cold looks but i never really know i'm doing it-
just me?
My mom says it kinda rude but it’s still hard to say hi to Radom people
@@justanormalperson2761 i can relate :")
Trained therapist and physiological professionals: school has a negative affect on children
Schools: NO we know everything and what they need is more homework!
*homework is boring, stressful, and stupid*
@@Mynamedoesntstandfornothin i agree myself
ikr
Why homework even exists? And then they except us to do everething and rest and that is how you forget what rest and playing is
What i learnt from school-
1. Its hard to make friends, nobody is nice
2. Fear of suspension for a trivial thing
3. Need to gel along with horrible people you dont like
4. Most teachers don't care about your health.
Number 1 and 3 i can totally Relate that as Victim of bullying heavily when i was in Middle school even sometimes in high school but Rarely, Really hate Myself for it when in classroom and even outside of class being uneasy and worrying towards Bullies whom dont like you saying something out loud and then Shaming you and Also Facing with Annoying Person and Dealing with their tantrum..Its Just Ruining My mood off..9 years had passed and i Still cant Recover Completely for what school did to me..I still have Social Anxiety and bit of Ptsd and Deep trust Issue
@@imanautistwhowantslebensra9742
Im so sorry for your situation, i hope you are doing good now and surprisingly in my final year of high school i made good friends and its going well
Yup i have also faced bullying years ago and it still haunts me
I was bullied for 15 years of my life and or gave me:
-memory lose of my chilhood
-schizophrenia
-anxiety
-depression
Thanks school
Did you mean "Bullied" instead of "Bullying"?
@@fieryelf bullied sorry
Gosh I’m so sorry to hear that. School gave me a lot of anxiety and depression..
@@fieryelf so it's a common thing to lose memories of your childhood because of bullying! I thought I was weird so I never talked about it with anyone cwc
The only things I remember are the traumatic things that happened, and I remember them only if I see something or I'm in a situation that makes me feel in a similar way.
I was need builled because I usually just pretend to be a clueless bubbly person and everyone leaves me alone...and I love it
What teachers think school gives us :
-A great job we like
-Amazing skills
-Important information
And what school actually gives us...
-Hate towards everyone
-Feeling worthless and thinking of being a failure
-Social Anxiety
-Useless Facts that we will never use in our lives
I couldn't agree more...
And a bad future
School is so hard 😔
I swear this is Too true🙃
@@flamsparksbiggestfan2931me too...
Schools being like:
I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that
Yup
“That video won’t stop me, because I can’t read”
the school system should really start watching some of these videos
@@System-ru5yt yeah I agree with that😉
I see how two of my classmates often bully one girl ON A LESSON, but most of teacher give no attention to it, even when this girl asks for help... But I see those two see a bullying as a joke, so it doesn't harm much (I hope), they take her bottle and then when she trys to find it they don't give her, pull her hair if they want something from her (they sit right behind her)
At school you can't be yourself,you just always gotta be perfect😔
It is sadly
Yeah, when I had 8 out of 9 points i got C instead of B. And when I was missing one point to 100% on my test I still got a B, not an A. How am I supposed to get good grades when I can't make a single mistake on a test..
You have to fit into society or otherwise you will be called weird and cringe 😔
Stages of homework:
Open book
Look at mountain of work
Cry
Pull hair
Throw book (mentally (or sometimes physically))
Go to bed
Homework: won't be done
Repeat the next day.
😭
I'm so sick of all of it
Yes I always get stressed 😫
And stress over the possibility of teachers noticing
"most students enjoy school"
*I have literally never met a single person that has replied "I really like it!" or "I love it!" to an adult asking "How are you liking school?"*
*I l i e*
@@BlizzardFrost2021 it’s only going to get worse I’m in 10th
i loved school for adges but this year has just been to stressfull
@@BlizzardFrost2021 doesnt stop in 8th sadly
@@BlizzardFrost2021 I used to like school in 3rd grade and I went to a new school and all that changed in 4rth grade the teacher was literally my bully no joke she called me a cry baby and rubbish 😞 she also did worse things up until 6th grade now I’m in 7th grade
I remember seeing this:
School makes me feel
Depressed
Stupid
Sad
Anxious
Suicidal
Cry
So stressed
So tired
Sick
And it goes on. The school system needs to be updated.
agreed.
I agree
Happens to me all the time bro
Yep..
Can relate to everything you said
Me before school: *ACTUALLY FEELING HAPPY*
Me after school: *what is wrong with me*
Bro because of a school I have had depression for 3 years may be even 4 and I was NINE THEN
School: starts
Depression: casually approach child
POV: You turn 10
@@55._reasonzz u mean 11?
@@55._reasonzz cause i did and im already suffering from depression and stress.
@@catdog4957 Idk if its just me but Summer through fall 2019 won't ever be the same because I can't remember it in color. I was just that low back then
I turned 11 that year btw
I don’t get how if everyone involved with this system is unhappy, why do we need to continue suffering in a broken system?
Go out and vote for people who actually want to change it for the better instead of those who want to torture kids so they become bad like them when they are older. That is the only way to fix it. Sitting around and crying won't help.
@@user-mu1os7me8s yes I understand your comment and it does have truth to it. Right now I am not at an age that can vote, but I am willing to try and educate myself on alternative methods for schools to teach students. Hopefully I can use that knowledge when I’m older.
I think us children are just doomed to suffer in this terrible system until an actually good politician comes in to save us? Which surely is just a dream.
Because no one will let you break free.
@@user-mu1os7me8s, that is a nice... Joke. Election means nothing. You choose between different face masks for the same bastard. But these masks do speak. And speak differently... Untill they get the authority to actually do something. After that they are all just the same. Only the faces look different a bit. As Sir Arthur Conan Doyle said: if election COULD change something, we WOULDN'T be allowed to participate.
“You can bring snacks, you can also try to sneak in naps during breaks”
School which doesn’t allow snacks at all except at lunch and there are no breaks long enough for me to even sleep: *you dare pass*
There is only a five minute break between classes at my school
We don't even have 5 minute breaks anymore. Last year it was barely enough to get my stuff and use the bathroom/get a drink. Now we're just screwed if we have to pee or something
My thoughts on school:
1. I feel like a robot there
2. It keeps me from doing the things i actually love and learning the things i actually want to learn and use because it sucks all my energy out
3. The system doesn't look like it is going to change anytime soon
4. It makes mental health problems much worse.
5. It rips away your inner child
6. It sets you into system that is seen as the only way to success, which is absolutely wrong
7. We are force fed crap that we will never use, and waste time way too often
“Most students like school”
Me: you have forfeited your life privileges
@Jayah Anderson "forfeit life privilege" means wants to die. So the comment (literally) means he wants to kill the youtuber because of his words, which means he thinks nobody likes school.
Btw it's the first time for me to explain a meme lol
I like the experience not the system itself
I'd say its true for toddlers to 6 yo children, they mostly paint or play with friends🤷♂️
The only reason tht I like school is bc of my electives(and sometimes English bc the topics are sometimes interesting)& I get to see my friends on a daily basis depending on what classes we have together and what lunch we have
Tivona Thomas exactly what I mean by the experience
"Despite the safe environment that schools provide for socializing"
Wrong. Social environments in schools do not provide safety. And I'll provide an example.
So take 7th grade me: in band, kind of quiet, more passive, just wanted to play trumpet. The other trumpet players were not nice to me. Bullied me consistently, to the point where I refused to go to school a few days. One instance, I decided to stick up for myself. I didn't know how to do this, so I went with what appeared to be a pretty solid option: refusing to share one of the books with another student. What was I met with? Infantilization and reprimand from the teacher herself. Who, may I add, never once addressed the issue of the other trumpet kids bullying me. Even into 8th grade.
School does not care about you.
Very truly said
I swear the only thing schools do is pretend to care. My principal was like, weirdly into “be kind” to the point where we would joke about it once we left the school. But did he care? Nope.
Also they started giving detentions at *3rd freaking grade*. like is that normal? One time i got detention in 3rd grade and i didn’t even know what was happening
Cookies and Crème I-
*3RD GRADE?!*
All it cares about is money and how to destroy you from the inside.
@@notusingthisaccounttoomuch8486 i got detention in 4th grade for watching someone get bullied but i have social anxiety so how do they expect me to do anything
"5 Ways School Can Hurt Your Mental Health" summary with time stamps:
1. Bullying 0:56
2. Academic Results 2:15
3. Assignments 3:24
4. Socializing 4:24
5. Long Hours 5:34
I recommend watching the video for more info and details :)
(also it would be nice if Psych2Go put these kinds of summaries along with time stamps in their description so that it would be easier to find what we are looking for if we don't have the time to rewatch the video).
Thanks
Thanks man!!
Thanks! Which point did you find the most relatable? -M
Psych2Go most of it but mostly academic stress
How.... Is this 2 weeks ago?
Whaaaa..
“Most students enjoy school”
Lmao sure.
It’s an infernal hell of suffering.
Ask. Anyone. In. School.
It’s an infernal hell for sure but I’m lucky enough to have people who support me and long term projects I’m invested in so I’m doing ok. Classes themselves are definitely hell tho
I literally fell out of my bed cackling when they said that 🤣💀
Take note of the case of South Korea, where academic excellence is extremely emphasized. The result: suicides.
True. I love their strong work ethic over there however I think that it might be pressuring the students a little too much.
@@user-ld1lg4dz2o "strong work ethics" : 🤣🤦♂️
You mean you like governments enslaving you and putting tax payers money into their privet pockets or bailing out failing corporations 👌
It's work or die over there...
I honestly feel bad for them because they're always working, that shit is horrible for you. And that's exactly why they're one of the top countries with suicides
I think they're number two worldwide in highest suicide rates, or they were,, not sure. But in SK they bully a lot, have uniforms, teachers don't do shit, if u're late they beat ur ass with a ruler, make u hold ur hands above ur head for a long time (sometimes buckets of water and if u get tired u spill it on urself!?) They love public humiliation, peer pressure x100, abuse is common, police r all bought, social class is important, students r in school 6 days a week from 6-8 am to 8-9 pm and study LITERALLY ALL. DAY. LONG. There's a lot more but I feel so bad for all the kids there. Kdramas address some problems though, so that's good
ت hearteu yeah lmao they're the 2nd in the world, Japan is the country with the highest suicides
School gave me:
Bullies
Toxic friends
Depression
Anxiety
Tiredness
Sorry that happen to you I feel you there.:(
That's why i'am watching this Channel, to spot out the fakers and keep my mental health up. It's interesting to watch as well,
For me it's the
lack of sleep
Toxic people
Stress
Racist people
Being humiliated
The lowest self love and confidence ever
Same
🌹🌹🌹🌹
*School in three words: useless, stressful, hell.*
facts
Especially that 3rd one.
Fact
*S* everal
*C* rappy
*H* ours
*O* f
*O* ur
*L* ives
But its much worse than hell
in kindergarten, i kept getting called a "boy" because of my short hair, and that made my confidence go down the hill. i cried in 2nd grade in front of everyone because i got a bad score on my achieve activity, but everyone was comforting me
Crying because of school isn't okay, this stupid school system made it so that grades are more important than anything😕😡. I hope you are doing well right now. You have my support.
I wish we could all live like hobbits. Lemme explain. We would live in our little hobbit holes. Drink and eat delicious things. Have a beautiful garden. Know everyone and have a lot of friends. No school, cause it would be useless. An amazing and peaceful life. No greed. Cool birthday parties. That would be LIFE.
@@KalashDaCat I wish academics were a purely personal pursuit, because being forced on a 10-11 hour per day schedule with no pay is pretty exhausting sometimes.
I cried in kindergarten too and couldn’t make this star ornament and I have had the same transformation :/
i kept getting called a boy too, everytime, for my hair my face and voice.
What I Iearned in school:
-my feelings don't matter. Even if they did nobody will understand them anyway
-who cares if my head is overfilled with sensories and is unable to function, bad grades makes me a bad person
-no one will help me in my meltdowns or sensory overloads, i'm just too sensitive
- nobody will like me because of how weird I am
- I can't be weak, even if my head, stomach and limbs hurt
-I need to accept the bullying, because let's be honest, making loud sounds isn't something bad, right?
-I have to like people, even if I'm uncomfortable and want to run away
Another:
-nobody cares about you or your mental health, just get your work done.
The final one: Several years later, when you tell them about with your expert autism diagnosis (which they NEVER supected about, even if they had suposedly knew you for years and years), teachers say "That's not possible! She always had sooooooooooooo good marks!".
I'll add 3 more:
Being treated differently because you're from another country (this happens to all foreign people even outside of school)
the school and government don't do anything to help with bullying, bags that are too heavy, stress because of too much pressure
They don't care about your mental and physical health they just say "ugh you're so sensitive", "you're lying" and "wdym you're doing fine"
(again if you're from another country they don't care)
"The 2030 vision" they said
"its gonna be achieved" they said
_also i learned english from the internet, school gave me nothing_
@@user-pz3fc8yc9m and when we get scoliosis because of how many books we have to carry, the system or principle pretends as if nothing happened!
@@user-pz3fc8yc9m the first one is just plain Racism
~Here’s the list~
1.Bullying
2. Academic Results
3.Assignments
4.Socializing
5.Long hours
6. Not enough sleep
@@darkforge1013 school wants me to do around 2 hours of homework per class every day and over the weekend, and on top of that want me to study for weekly quizzes/tests.
They wonder why I fall asleep in class and lash out at everyone. Pushing me to my fucking limit every damn day.
@@darkforge1013 and i bet you sleep at 10
@@n0skillx0verkill61 once I had to spend 8 hours on this stupid homework and sleep only for 3 hours, when I came to school my friends were worried why I looked like a zombie
School is the ultimate depression/pressure zone for kids
Bullying
"The situation can be better when parents and teachers get involved"
Parents and teachers :
" *ITS BECAUSE OF THE PHONE* "
They always say "Ignore them" when they're emotionally hurting you,but when they do it physically they're like,"ok"
"It's BeCaUsE oF vIdEo GaMeSsssssSss!!!!!!¡¡¡¡¡¡"
And then you say ok time to punch that bully till he regret or suicide
I SWEAR TO GOD THATS SO TRUE LIKE OML!!!
True XD My phone is literally my only happiness XP
school is so stressful, lately its been nothing but learn chapter, test, learn chapter test, learn chapter, test, big end of school exams. There's no break and teachers just expect you to be able to do it as if you don't have a life outside of school. I'm exhausted constantly and burnt out but I can't take a break and recharge cause I'll be in trouble for not having the homework done or I won't do well in an exam.
Schools true meaning
S- Several
C- Cruel
H- Hours
O- Of
O- Our
L- Lives
Several is very correct T^T
#HurtslikeHell T^T
Finally the truth...
Homework stands for:
H-alf
O-f
M-My
E-Energy
W-Wasted
O-On
R-Random
K-Knowledge
Or Several crappy hours of our lives
School: is about to start
Pcych2Go: let us give you 5 reasons not to go back there
'1. Bullying'
Schools: *Wait, our anti-bullying posters didn't work? BUT HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE?!*
I think the other part of that are the parents. They influence their kids and make them a bully or victim through that. Maybe a better Communication between parents and their kids could help.
It may be better, if not only the shool tries to prevent mobbing. The parents shouöd work together with the shool and communicate. Just as we should talk more to another instead of talking about each other.
I've got bullied in middle shool and it wasnt funny...
A lot of students where bullied in 6th grade (I was bullied too) and in 7th grade our School, put a poster against bulling. But the poster was a boy toughing a girl's ass and cross over it. I was so pissed of. Is this bulling for THEM. Most girls in my School are sluts and don't deserve those posters.
Jane XD sexual harassment isn’t okay no matter how people dress or behave. It’s not okay to call girls that. It’s very demeaning.
@jane xd just give them the stink eye
Jane XD that sounds horrible but it is still not okay to call people that
What I hate about school is the fact that.
I’m expected to be a straight A student; of course because of my Dad’s ridiculously high expectations for me, which he claims aren’t that bad. Which isn’t really THAT simple, I can’t just flawlessly do all my assignments and be the epitome of perfection. It’s so stressful. Not too long ago I was told that my summer would be based on how well my grades are.
And for math I have a 44, soon to be a 66, I KNOW how pissed my dad would be and it just hurts me knowing that my whole summer will go to waste because of A SINGULAR. DAMN. GRADE.
I understand what your going through As a high school senior my parents used to have high expectations but because of them I failed. Pushing a person like that only leads to failure and that's not your fault everyone has the right to fail we learn from failure not success. I wish you luck.
Well how old are you
School was more about survival than learning. Most of the other kids didn't take education seriously and no-one cared. I didn't really start to sort my education out until I left school.
so what is that u do
Why need school when Psych2Go can teach me everything!
You still need to learn some other subjects.
@@AkumaDiablo-lr3sc Yeah
What other topics would you like us to cover?
@@Psych2go being LGBT+ in homophobic country 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@Iconik nova Maybe that's your opinion, people have different interests!
1. Well, telling a teacher about being bullied (at least in my school) is even worse than keeping it as a secret. Teachers only make it worse because they don’t know how to talk with students about this stuff and don’t want to learn how to. After the dumb „Don’t bully, it’s bad” talk bullies are even more cruel than before and make sure your school life is a hell. So, I don’t tell teachers about being bullied in school.
2. Teachers in my school expect good students to always get good grades no matter what. I was always quite good at maths but once I got D from a test because I misunderstood the subject. The teacher said something like: „Oh dear, you were such a good student, what happened? I expected more from you.”
3. In my case bullying is on a level where the new students are being turned against me for bullies make sure that I’ll always be alone.
_AND YET OTHERS ARE SAYING „YOU’RE OVERREACTING!” WHEN I TRY TO EXPLAIN WHY I ABSOLUTELY HATE SCHOOL_
Exactly then they’ll just call you a snitch and nobody will want to be around you
@@nyjalomari exactly, my teachers don't even fucking care. they also bully the students and just watch ppl get called names then laugh, but god forbid someone have a hoodie on or be eating chips in class.
Yh I agree with you. Teachers never fix the problem or show they are willing to help make things better, just create another problem
@@meikaaa9042 Hell yeah. Once I had a problem with my group in a group project (basically the group tried to exclude me out of the project), so I wanted to ask my teacher if I could join other group or do my own project. She just laughed at me while I was talking and said something like „When you’ll be adult your boss won’t care if you like people in your group while doing a project. You will just have to finish it. Try to talk with your group instead of creating useless problems.”
@@3vangelist_art471 Trust me, it’s not worth it. You’ll only get into useless trouble.
What my parents think school gives me:
- knowledge
- Important information
- Skills and abilities
- Good friends
- way to succees
- confidence
- humble teachers
What school actually gives/gave me:
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Tension
- Stress
- Fake friends
- mean teachers
- extreme panic attacks
- waste information
- unwanted knowledge
- stressful subjects
- A LOT OF crying
- loss of confidence
- sucidial thoughts
- childhood trauma
- hateful homeworks
This is what school gave me/gives me everyday, and I have anxiety because of school i get extreme panicks attacks. and i even tried to tell my parents about this but they always take it in a wrong way, when i say them that I'm really tired and stressed because of school and homeworks they always reply saying
"so you wanna be uneducated?"
"You wanna leave studies?"
"what will you become in the future?" "Shut up you're going to school tomorrow!"
"Stop doing dramas"
literally can i just call them the worst parents? cause they've never tried to understand my problems and fears, but instead judge and hurted me. ughh
I’m in that situation too.
I have a little tip for everyone stressed with school. Mostly, talk to your teachers about it. I know not every school is as well versed on mental health or helps students as much, but you might be surprised by what some teachers are willing to do for you.
I was almost constantly stressed for 2 years. I still did well in school, but all enjoyment was gone. I had way too high expectations for myself and felt that if I didn’t get the best grade on every test, I had been lazy. At one point, I just kind of caved in. I ended up having a really difficult conversation with one of my teachers and with someone at school that was something of a counseler. They allowed me to drop out of a class (one I didn’t need to do, but was causing a lot of stress), not do two tests (as I was already doing well in those subjects) and I got a “time-out” card (something I could give my teachers if I felt stressed so I could just leave the classroom). I got way more help than I would have ever thought I could get. My teachers were helpful and understanding and things are a little better nowadays.
So don’t be afraid to talk to your parents or teachers about stress. Don’t allow yourself to go through these things on your own. You deserve to go to school happily.
Tine Boes. Hi R.A.K. here.
In the midst of a sea of anxious & frustrated comments,
Calm Waters! Your well constructed & helpful comment!
Which I hope is read & followed by the many rather than the few!
Wise head on young shoulders! Nice to have met you!
Regards R.A.K.
The Beachman sadly this comment got a few likes.. hope he gets more so this comment will get noticed.
HELLO Your rigth :O
@@blank-6222 hi, thanks for your support for tine! I'm sure you will agree that there is not enough mental health support for pupils In schools,
But Tine was resourceful enough to seek out what was available!
Looks as though his likes are increasing, that's good news!
Regards to you!
I would love to do that but i don't think our school would do that for a single student or any students actually cause literally some teachers motto is " your fun in school is gonna get lower and your studies are gonna rise. DEAL WITH IT!!! "
Me: *Watching Netflix*
‘remembers Homework’
Also me: *Watching Netflix Stressfully*
Ugh I feel you it stresses the heck out of me!
meeee 😭
Oh nooo! Have you tried using an extension blocker? It helps me out!
@@Psych2go *you cant delete*
*s c h o o l memories*
@@Psych2go I've tried but
You know my puppy honey makes my stress go away so yea
Things I learned from school:
If you try really hard, you will still fail
Everyone will hate you if you be yourself
Most rules don't matter
The system only changes when it becomes inconvenient for those who created it
Grades matter more than your emotional and physical well-being
If you don't work well with the people in your group, it is always your fault
A majority of guys in my own age group are bullies
Never trust those who are similar to the ones who were mean to you in the past
Keep your pain to yourself because people will use it against you
Being a good person means that you won't be able to have many friends
Talking is a crime
Your parents will hate you if you don't get the same good grades they did
If you aren't good at every single subject, you are a bad student
A majority of the things you learn in school don't actually matter when you are an adult
Technology is terrible because it doesn't work right most of the time
Sports are awful because everyone else is better at them than you and they will bully you for failing
The teachers matter more than you because you are a child and they are not
How to plan really well
How to survive from bullying, overly strict teachers, and emotionally abusive parents at the same time
How to motivate myself to keep living by focusing on goals such as college and moving across the country to save myself from the ptsd I got while living in the same horrible place my entire childhood
I felt every single thing you said, there's also the social ladder that you have to stick by or just never fitting in anywhere and so much more to deal with such as favouritism within the classroom and mistreatment from teachers and students constantly
Man here's your 👑
I hope you make it across the country my guy we support you :)
Everything is so true, and what you said at the end is what I'm actually living in
U deserve an Oscar Award 🤍❤️
"School is a positive place where students can learn play and make friendships"
That's not just how it works, you don't just go there and get it on a silver plate. This is how painful it can be, and the older you get the worse it gets. And when you already have problems, school makes it much worse.
If school is were you get Friends why did i never got any friends
Come join us in our discord server - link is in the description!
ok
Its easy to have friends tho
@@gwynethjaco7193 no it not, I feel unwanted and ignored 😩
@@heyyou3525 you "FEEL" but is it real?
School: can hurt mental health
Parents: impossible
I encourage you to show them this video and have a productive conversation about this. What do you think?
If I were to do that they would get angry at me and tell me that I'm not sad and I don't study enough
@@Psych2go I tried to, but my parents said that kids can't be stressed 😅
@@puggernaut6840 😂
@@qai6753 Boomers , Kids Also Have Brains -_-
School gave me:
Depression
Anxiety
Infiriority complexes
Isolation
Depersonalization
Breakdowns
Tiredness
Stress
Panic attacks
Self consciousness
So far, at least...
This summarizes my feelings as well, you're not the only one.
Edit : Depression
It gives me none of that however I get increasingly tired every day
School gave me:
Love life.
My true friends.
Enjoyment.
Best years of my life.
So much memories whom i make with my friends.
I’m missing it. 🥺
Damm in my elementary i felt does but i had friends that helped me out of it but now in high school well i guess i have does now especially getting myself isolated cuz i always make it look like i am perfectly fine but no i just can't tell people that it like something I can even word
"most students enjoy school" imma stop you right there
school is basically prison with added stress from to many test, class presentations,peer pressure,etc
High School is pretty much just a place for babysitting teens. Let's be honest here, most of the stuff you learn in high school will either be forgotten right away or never be used again.
@@fieryelf Exactly I took AP Human Geography a couple yrs ago and I already forgot most of the stuff I learned in tht class but it's a good thing tht I passed the AP Exam for tht class so I don't really have to worry anymore abt remembering tht stuff
True, highschool is a prision where they teach you that creativity, true intelligence (not only memorizing things and saying the exactly how they are) and even your own ideals and dreams are worth nothing if you don't get a good number and you know really good people or people who can treat you horrible for what you think or what you like.
@Ashanty Ortega I'm in Canada, we don't get middle school, just 5 years of high school.
@@fieryelf how many years of elementary school do you have?
*School Presentation*
Me: So this is how school affe-
School: Let's pretend we don't see that
Ahhh I totally understand this :( Wanna hear some presentation tips?
@@Psych2go sureee
@@Psych2go Sure! i easily get nervous when i have eye contact with everyone including in zoom. Do you guys have any tips to stop getting nervous and anxious?
School: Y’all here somethin’?
@@senroillust4114 Don't turn on your video in zoom. When I was doing online class in zoom I didn't turn on my video . If you need to on then on,
Be comfortable with your classmates or client. Every think is possible if you really want.
I feel like teachers give us homework everyday so we it can be a practise for the exams but because we have to give it right the next day students actually stay up late to complete the homework rather than understanding what they reading actually are so i think homework is too stressful
School gave me a real down point in life, especially in third grade. I had so much stress build-up, being that I was the class president which I fully regret. I had to deal with attitudes, different personalities, misbehavior and just full-on stress overall. I had 3 crying sessions. It made me want to just switch schools or just be homeschooled all together. I lost my voice from trying to discipline them but never worked as usual. I'd go home with a frown on my face almost *everyday* . They called me 'bossy' and 'dramatic' but if they were in my place they would have understood. It was a hard weight to put on the shoulders of a 9 year old. I tried to emphasize with them but ended up being the weak one in that situation. I had expectations that I had to reach, like test scores or academic awards as well. If they knew what I was going through every single day, they would know how bad I feel. I wish I just stood aside and not run for class president but, expectations 😃. Apologies for the rant.
As a former topper, school still sucks. Or atleast the current system is.
No one cares if i get another high grades. They only cared when my grade slipped. Eventually i just lost all my motivations to learn anything and just cram whatever i can read one day before the exams. I graduated now and is currently heading into college, and i sure hope no one would expect me to be the next Tesla again
Also highschool really messed with my gfs mental health. Shes getting better now after graduation, which is good, but still makes me sure that education system worldwide needs a revamp.
Okay okay holy sh*t I relate so much to your story except that I'm still in highschool, it's messing with my mental health and stuff so bad, people expect so much from me, one grade slip results in people crowding all over me asking how I got a bad grade, I have even resonated to cheating on exams to keep my grades up this year- anyways, it's good to know I'm not the only one with "good" grades having a hard time ❤️
Thank you for the comment ❤️❤️
College is same like school , in fact it can even be worse than school
Yep, I was an overachiever in school but had a largely negative opinion of it all throughout K-12. Go figure
I’m not doing good in academics currently because I have short term memory. When we do academics it’s basically a memorization test. It’s kind of like what Anne said in Anne with an E. “You make me memorize, I forget. You teach me, I remember. You involve me, I learn.” If it took me 4 grades to memorize the multiplication table from 1-10, how do you expect me to learn about new things quickly? How come we spend years doing the multiplication table but we spend a week learning about a harder subject? It makes no sense. The school system is trash but we still rely on our memorization skills to determine how intelligent we are.
*I missed out on a day of school and I don't know how to divide decimals*
“a positive place”
*yeah if youre a teachers pet*
edit; okay, first ty for the likes and funny replies. note! this is a joke, please do not take this comment seriously and take the time to write a whole goddamn book. ‘kay thanks.
mc kotaya Or that one kid who reminds the teacher about the homework from yesterday 🙄
Bro even the smart kids at my school hate it, because of the same reasons even!
@@iimoonytoony7879 bro if i spent hours doing homework im not letting others get out of it just for the sake of people like you
What abt the people who get bullied for just doing their work?
DoodlesSkaboodles i strongly agree with this
In my middle and elementary school (mostly middle school), the adults who were in charge of lunch didn't allow us to socialize during lunch. If we did, we weren't allowed to eat, we were forced to be quiet just to be allowed to eat (even though I'm a shy person, I still didn't like the idea). At the time, I thought it was normal, but I'm starting to think they were just abusing their power. Sometimes I feared that I wouldn't be able eat lunch at all. Even though most of the time I bring my own lunch, I always waited until everyone else got their food (because I was afraid they would make me bad for eating my food while they didn't have any).
In middle school, I starting eating my lunch right away because I got tired of waiting for everyone else to get their food when I already had my own. One time, they did try to make me feel bad, but I decided to tell them off, I shouldn't have to restrict myself from eating just because they didn't have food. It's not fair to me, I had my own food so I should be allowed eat it whenever *I'm* hungry. But then mom made me have to eat school lunch, so now I had no choice (I don't think she knew what was going on, but even so she knew I didn't like the most of the school lunch there). They were shitty people for doing that and they had no right to restrict children from eating lunch just for socializing. Even if it was too loud, they should've always allowed us to eat.
middle school honestly is shit dude, its just an elementary school student toppled with mpre homework, confusion, and depression which can be harder than cinder blocks
I also has the exact same damn teachers who did that.
Wait so you can't socialise during lunch and lessons yet people wonder why other people have social problems
I won't take homework with me at my home because home, is a place where your rest mental health care. Not work. That's why, Finland is still the #1 best school system. There secret is "No Homework". I get it, your suppose to learn; let's get reality here. "Schools aren't teaching in meaning of becoming adultery" worst of all, tests are, test can get you into mental health issues. "Too much knowledge all at once, will not be a output" only if you're putting in small investments of knowledge than you can use those useful tools you've learned from school.
Probably the best classes I ever had were Literature and AP Calc in high school. Both teachers never made us do homework and in Literature the tests were either open book or open ended essays. We still had exams for Calc but I can still remember 70% of what I learned from it. Despite having the AP test our teacher was very lax and gave us plenty of time to learn and understand the material ☺️
my parents are confused about having no homework for a #1 school system, wtf
Couldn't agree more
Homework needs to go, especially at college where you have multiple tasks that require you to write 5000+ words, all to be done within the span of a week or two. If your someone like me who has adhd, this is pretty much impossible. What do they think we are? Robots?
This stuff should be for class and class ONLY
Bad spelling but I can see you have a very smart mind
I wish a person's future can be determined by their Creativity and Intelligence, not letters on a piece of paper, or filling out bubbles on a test.
Have you heard of the different theories of intelligence? What's what you're describing :)
@@Psych2go (if this is what you were asking) i think they are describing that grades should'nt be a thing
When I show this to the school:
School: imma pretend I didn’t see that
Breadpiece
Yep, that’s what I tried to say :D
I encourage you to share this with members of your school to bring awareness to the challenges students may experience! What do you think?
Psych2Go
Yes, definitely!! I shared it with my parents as well
@@Psych2go always replies fast thx! 😁😁😁👏👏
school is quite stressful. especially the online version. lots of problems came and my happiness drops to 60% than usual :'(
mine has dropped by 10000%
You are still happy??
60? Those are rookie numbers…
@@randomasian5049 ♾%*
Bully: *bullying
School: ...
Victim *self defense
School: *communist detected on American soil. Lethal force engaged*
Fact :
Yep
True
Unfortunately it's truth, I don't even think the school even cares about the victims of being bullied, it's disgusting of them
Try to defend yourself and they make you out to be the troublemaker. But the actual bully is seen as an angel 😑
Things school gave me
-Depression
-anxiety
-social anxiety
-didn’t help my OCD
-low self esteem
-stress
-and a shit tone of understanding that people will just be rude and you can’t change that!
Especially that last one. I've come to accept that most people will be complete assholes to me, especially my parents. I find solace in the fact I can just hide in a corner and imagine how things could've been...
100% hit rate. To quote Einstein, "I failed school, and the school failed me." Guess I've always been worthless.
"if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid."
@@generalgoose1290 There is agreement from other authoritative sources as well. So yes, I believe I am stupid, and the consensus of the world is that I am stupid. So, whatever. I don't really care anymore.
@@2LaneTraveler I think Einstein didnt fail school. I heard he had good grades.
@@KalashDaCat
I heard that he hated it; and its cookie-cutter approach to education.
@@generalgoose1290 fs!!!
I'm in 8th grade and this is what school gave me so far:
-suicidal thoughts
-anxiety that literally never goes away and is bad enough that i don't know if the anxiety is the reason i can't think clearly or if it's an undiagnosed mental illness
-trust issues
-classmates that give death threats for doing literally anything (like getting a good grade, looking backwards during class, existing)
-hate for humanity
School should honestly come with free therapy.
just finished the worst school year of my life a few months ago, broke up terribly with my gf who threatened me, lost most of my friend because one of them said i was making their bf cheat on them even though we are just friends, and got really terrible grades in all classes
I'm going to a new school this year so i can distance myself
Right now im looking for more friends because i dont have many at the moment which sucks
I still lay awake at night and cry over all thats happened because the words that were said still hurt
But im trying my best to get better and because i blocked everyone out whos being harsh to me ive been getting along better and excelling in life
I wanna let you whos reading this know that if you are struggling, trust me it does get better, we're all in this together, you dont have to worry alone
Hey, the past is the past. Please stop looking behind and go on. I believe you can do better.
Something similar happened to me a few years ago. 5th grade was a bad year for me, but in 6th grade when I moved to a new school things got better.
I hope your situation gets better.
I can feel your pain
If u need friends, we are all right here 😊
I wish I could give you a hug!
I really just don’t want to go to school. My friends abandoned me, my parents push me too hard, I get bullied, and I can’t catch a fricking break...
I'm sorry you're feeling that way. It can be hard to navigate those early years (I'm assuming you're a teenager) when you feel as though you aren't being supported. No kid should feel that way. What helped me out was making online friends, fournaling, and art. Maybe you can build an online support system if you don't have one already?
Maynard's Spaceship thank you. I’ll try to follow your advice :)
i had a terrible year too (bullied, stress etc), i understand what you're feeling and i hope the next year will be better for you and most important, that you'll feel better about it
dxrk_ilomilo thank you, I hope you have a better year too
@@sage_owo5182 thanks, you're strong don't forget that, nobody deserves being treated this way, don't give up
how do i send this to my school without sending it to my school
Tell your friends to watch this video while you're at school ;)
Hack into your schools UA-cam account and watch other videos like this so UA-cam will reccomend this kinda stuff to the account. And the. Log off and see the results.
(Don't actually)
@@virtual2288 Take risk
I knowwww...
That’s what I want to dooo
As a person growing up seeing my sister always so happy with her friends in high school and seeing it now it’s awful. It’s not just school it’s mostly just the high school. It caused a lot of problems with my mental health and the way I look at myself and also I can see the same for everyone. It feels and has the toxic energy of something your can’t get out and your stuck for the rest of the school year type of thing. School made me develop anxiety, anti-social- social problems, thinking, the way I look, the way I learn, the way I see things and learn things now. It’s so many feelings at once and I can not explain. The feeling also of being judge what who or what your are wearing and always in my thoughts.
“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.”
― Plato
You always give very inspiring comments, thank you for that.
@@Psych2go You always give very inspiring and calming video, thank you for that. Your voice alone is enough to calm anyone's anxiety.
@@QuestionEverythingButWHY This is so sweet of you to say! Thank you for your continuous support.
What school says it teaches:
-basic life skills
-advanced teachings in specific areas
-common knowledge
What school actually teaches:
-how to be quiet
-how to pretend everything is fine
-how to fake it until you make it
-how to defend yourself
-how to not break down in the middle of class
Pretty much...
Idk about ur school, but my school doesn't teach taxes/how to pay bills, how to fix mechanics, how TO ACTUALLY COOK. When I went to middle school, "home ec" was just where my teacher would sit on her computer all class. She didn't help us learn to cut cloth, sew, cook, bake (the closest we got to baking was where we had to make a 'cookie' with a microwave) we made one smoothie and didn't even choose what to put in. And cooking, we didn't even cook any real food, just poured syrup on bread and put in the microwave, we had to learn to sew badly by ourselves, she never gave us the fake baby we had to take care of for a week, etc 🤢🤦 this is America...
School is like a prison but with stress and anxiety and also depression
There was one time that I entered a competition about chess and my classmate that is a prodigy of chess my teacher has great expectations of my classmate and when I battle with my classmate I heard my teacher talking to another teacher said " that girl doesn't know how to play chess she just move her pieces without thinking" at that time I feel down depressed and mostly hate entering contest or competition
By the I love PsychToGo videos
Regular prison also has stress, anxiety, and depression. School is more like a prison branded as a paradise.
@@meikaaa9042 r u kidding
Prison sounds better
Less mental stress
You get bored
Do you time
Maybe get a job
Then leave
Maybe you'll get attacked
But tis only a flesh wound
School logic :-
If the student is not performing well we should separate them from their friends and give them even more homework.
*If you're reading this, you'll have an amazing school year ahead.* I believe in you!
I'm sending you all lots of love and support - from a content creator who aims to inspire students to pursue education and mental wellness. 🍊
ps. I'm a team member at Psych2Go! :) How are you all feeling about going back to school in 2020?
I am so excited :)
I’m taking online school, so I hope I could get used to a schoolstyle like this 😅
I hate that we have to do online especially since it's my first year in high school but I know it's important because corona 😩
Just started this week and i already regret giving myself a full schedule for my senior year, the works starting to pile up already and I have to worry about college applications.
Thanks♡I'm excidet :)It will be difficult because Corona...But I'll get this☆
Me: "Why do I not wanna do my homework? Am I lazy?"
Mom: "No, you lack motivation."
Me: "Oh... Was it really that simple?"
School: "Actually, no. You're lazy and a bad kid and you have to do as we say otherwise you'll NEVER have a future and will be a failure for the rest of your life."
Me: "Oh, so I AM lazy"
Mom: "For the love of God... No, you're not!"
Me: "I don't understand anymore..."
Ah yes, a fellow person whose parents are awesome and support you. Reading these comments has made me feel so grateful for my wonderful parents, even though they can often be powerless against the education system whether they know what’s best for me or not.
My parents are the same except they *DON'T* accept the idea of "lacking motivation" :,D
@@ihopeicanchangethisnamelat7108 I tried fighting the system but
Unless parents say that I am lazy
And blames the phone for everything
UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION
Doctors: sitting down for more than three hours a day can hurt your health.
School: I’m gonna pretend I didn’t hear that.
Lol correct xD
And here I am sitting for around 5-6 hours a day. The rest of the time, I'll be walking up thousands of stairs to my next class.
Well you do get up for passing periods
@@jayasmrmore3687 for... like two minutes?
@@flicknotesruinmylife 7
"School is often considered a positive place where students can learn play and build friendships in a positive environment"
Me: "Haha what school you been going to?"
Probably a school in Finland
Students: The homework and tests are so hard and stressful
School: *Videogames*
Schools are retarded
@@psychic-friend-toy-freddy facts
Dont forget internet.
When school makes your anxiety worse 😖
We recognize and acknowledge this and wanted to let you know that we have resources to help you deal with this. Check out our college playlist!
Yeeeeeessss, I tried to raise my self-esteem by trying to participate in stuff, but it only helped make it worse and eventually made me more anxious than before.
@@emmiegamer1016 yep, same
Ah yes, my school is probably one that gives bad effects to students like me.
I'm the type who failed all the test, and even failed my retest, I don't know what's wrong with me, maybe I'm just not good enough with the subjects.
I love art, and in my school sometimes would take the art class period and change it for science class, since art is not important for them. My school wants their students to be the best academically, they won lots of math and science competition and took pride in it.
It's already so bad that I flunk every subject, but now they take away my one hobby.
People gossips about me, because I suck at studying and also a nerd, they dislike my voice, and they constantly gossips about me and my nerdy group, they think that we're weird. It's also not rare for them to call me ugly, I guess all of those sleep deprivation from studying affects my face a lot.
I always vomit every morning before school, and have migrane everytime I go home.
I've graduated now, I studied art, and manage to built a fanbase through my art. I've overcomed my anxiety and low self esteem a little. I do have more confidence now, I can stand up for myself, and I have courage to try new things.
People who met me now called me pretty and have the brightest face, I didn't do make-up nor any surgery, but I guess change in confidence also affects my overall looks and charisma.
I do still have nightmares everynight where I'm still a high-schooler and have never ending bad grades, retests, and bullying. I woke up several times at midnight due to the bad dreams.
When I do voice acting for my character, every now and then memories of my friends mocking my voice come and flash through my head and I would break into tears suddenly.
But, now I've gotten better, and I'm proud to say that I've overcome my emotional break-downs from high school. You might be going through the same thing as me, well here's my advice, talk if you have problems, and don't stress things out too much, high school will come and go, y'all high schooler are real troopers 🥰
Creampuff Bun wow, I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. It sounds awful. I have never been bullied but am constantly anxious I’m going to be judged because almost everyone at school is so toxic. I’m glad you’re doing okay now and are doing things that you love and enjoy. Don’t let anyone bring you down. You’re beautiful, keep telling yourself that and try not to listen to anyone who tells you otherwise ❤️
Whoa, you're outcome is very inspiring :) I hope you'll get back at those bullies who mocked u >:( I hope ure raki g care of urself, not throwing up anymore, and r growing and feeling happy with urself and ur life, fighting! 💞
I used to feel like vomiting every morning before school too. Every single day from middle school through high school, all I could eat was water and saltine crackers cause I always felt so horribly nauseous on the way to school. Yet I would take that same bus home every day after school and I would feel fine. Once asked a doctor why I always felt sick in the mornings and she said it was all in my head. That doctor was no help at all...
What school gave me:
-loss of feelings (i still have them, but they barley work)
-less free time
-more sadness then happiness
-sooooooooooo much homework
-strees
-broken bones
-grounded
-bad grades
-uslees information
*and soooooooooooooooo much more*
Now that is back to school..
I could describe it in three words *stress and anxiety*
"tHe BeLl DoEsN'T dIsMiSs YoU i dO"
Omfg, so annoying
I didnt burn down the school, the flamethrower did
Then why should I go there's a bell to start school-
throw the whole bell away then
LOL sounds like my middle school teachers...
Imagine if we didn't have school. chill with your friends, play video games, spend more time with your family, chill at a store with friends. but we just cry and do homework and get stressed.
I say anything beyond 8th grade is absolutely useless
@@janfgfdx5165 i already did.
@@janfgfdx5165 lol yes and what about job? A good one!
@@magnagamer8256 no. Anything beyond 5th grade is useless
@@janfgfdx5165 yeah at HOME
For me, it's really just the repetitive loop of school. I was feeling great mentally before school but 3 weeks in I'm losing my feeling of being whole. I feel emptier each day going to school, doing the same exact shit over and over again that it ruins the way I think
School: bullying, drugs, cheating, alchohol
Also school: gives kid detention for wearing a hat
I had a whole isolation for not turning up to a detention they didn't tell me about. like wtf
@@leya3333 same and i couldnt help to just curse at them even though its a bad thing to do but i didnt they are such bs and i actually reported it to the principal the principat on my school is very nice to the students and never higher his tone its always super calm and i didnt get an isolation . But it happened when there was no pandemic.
Lol i remember when my teacher give detention to my crush because he wears a hat. 😂
I think I have learn more from the internet than in school
What are your favourite resources to learn on the internet?
UA-cam
@@Psych2go *wikiHow*
Psych2Go you
“Putting on a smile will make you more approachable and friendly”
Bullies at my school towards their victims: 😃
I’m 14 and I’m realizing that when I was younger I was so happy and energetic and had time. Now, I’m caught in a loop of waking up too early, back hurting and stress, baggy eyes, falling asleep in the shower, slouching while walking and barely being able to stand(no exaggeration), too sleepy all day, and how school turns people into sleep deprived zombies basically. I’m always tired now and hate spending my childhood like this so badly. I just want to make memories but all I can think about is how school is making me feel. I literally cant remember the last time I felt like how I was younger.
"I hated going to school... It was torture."
~Elon Musk
Underrated comment like yours needs to be pinned for top comment of the video.
@@XRoyalStampedeX thanks man!
@@pompomkitty306 awww I love your profile pic
My mom said she might get me a miniature poodle named
Honey❤and honestly I feel so happy
Crap I got off topic ._.
@@cloudieskye5130 Thank you so much!! And that's amazing!!🤗🤗 So happy for you!!
I can agree, on that. It’s not like the school system has changed much since the industrial age; it still encourages a toxic mindset between your socioeconomic status and your self-worth. :/ School’s to create workers, not thinkers. You have to educate yourself and not rely on what the government wants you to know.
"School. One word but a different meaning for every person"
School: the camp of HELL
@@aquacancergames ha same for meh Lol
School: the place where half the time you get enough peace to read, and the other half reading rather than listening is punishable by *DeAtH.*
Me: *Walking into school* "I'm so excited! This year's gonna be great!"
Also me: *At the end of the first day* . . .
*"I hate everything!"*
And that's me the rest of the year :')
Nooo it will be great! Try to stay optimistic. When does school start for you?
That described 6 year old me.
Psych2Go mine starts aug 17
Every time I get excited for a new school year it suddenly becomes the worse year
Lol same here