Told to LEAVE - My First Vanlife Conflict
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
- I was told to LEAVE by the end of the day at an establishment where there shouldn't have been any issues - but how clear were their rules to begin with? This was my first Vanlife Conflict, not too bad I guess for something that was bound to happen.
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My name is Matthew and I live in a van. I lost my job due to "cut backs" from the pandemic of 2020 and decided to seriously restructure my life. I am also a single dad who needed to find a solution that would allow me to remain in my daughter's life and plan for her future. After tons of research into #vanlife, I knew it was for me.
From March 2021 until October 2021 I spent my days building out my Chevrolet Express 2500, which came to be known as "Lucky" and as of October 18, 2021 I have been living in Lucky full time.
The build was done with almost no experience on my end and I used the one incredible tool I had at my disposal - the internet - to learn what I needed to build Lucky into a very comfortable tiny home.
I have always had a bit of a passion for being in front of the camera and really enjoy capturing the world around us. This really played into how I was feeling after almost a year of working from home when I "commuted" from the bedroom to the couch. I was starting to feel extremely unhealthy, unmotivated and despondent. I HATED that, and that's not a word I like to throw around. This new lifestyle gives me opportunities I just didn't have before and I am so excited to be able to share it all with you.
I truly believe we all have the capabilities to turn our lives around, should we choose to do so - and if I can inspire you to shoot for something better then I have done a decent job and that will keep me going.
There is more to life than the consume, consume, spend, spend lifestyle I feel we have all been conditioned to follow and I just want to do the best I can for myself first and foremost. Our time is limited and I do not want to waste another second on a lifestyle that doesn't bring me joy!
Be Happy, Be Creative, Be Yourself and BE POSITIVE!
I’ve been noticing more and more signs saying “no overnight parking” “no camping” and such. It seems that the upper crust wants to make life more and more difficult for hard working people just trying to survive. Humans evolved as nomads and there have always been gypsies and other traveling people. The thing I like about your channel compared to other van life channels is that you are painting a realistic picture. Very few people can afford $200,000 for a custom van with a recirculating shower, induction cooktop and electric Murphy bed.
Electric Murphy bed….imagine if that went haywire
@@VanlifePLUS 😂
If you watch some of the other van lifer channels you would understand further why this is happening. Unfortunately some of the van lifers are taking advantage of the spots and turning them into a camp site. And some being out right dicks to the businesses, owners, residents around them. To the point that businesses, municipalities or cities just toss up no overnight parking. So the only people to blame are the bad van lifers that caused conflict at these places.
As a example a local highway rest stop has turned into a van lifer permanent living. They have set up structures, tables, tarps and large propane cylinders just so obvious. And you know what is going to happen next? No overnight parking signs will be posted and who’s fault is that?
@@crankshaft007 yeah, that has always been a big concern - others ruining it for everyone else who is following the rules and trying to lead by example. Even more unfortunately are the reasons WHY so many more people are living out of their vehicles and I don’t think that is something that is going to get better any time soon
@@crankshaft007 The reststop management/owner should stop things from the beginning. I'm not saying it's their fault, just that it's a reststop for one night - as in "rest" "stop" - and Canada is just too big not to have somewhere to pull over and have a rest from driving. Now, the vanlifers, they deserve their butts kicked. I truly don't understand selfish, self-centered, entitled people - I'm really becoming fed-up with being denied the ability to do things, dragging out bags of their garbage, picking up their broken glass, people not having grey water tanks - the list goes on ... They're just yahoos. End of rant. Sorry 😔 Edit to say - I'm in a grand caravan so I'm not dissing all dwellers ✌
Had the same thing happen in London Ontario. We were in for dinner and got a note on our windshield. They lost a customer that day.
Yes, I agree. Best way to loose a customer. I have done the same.
Some people are so cruel. Karma 😻🌹😽
I don't think they care
30k subscribers. Let’s make it happen
Wow! That reminds me of the only time I had an issue parking anywhere in my van. I was working at Walmart and the security guards kept harassing me saying 8 hours is a little long to be parked there... And I kept telling them I worked there.
I sometimes park in a lot where my daughter used to work .....the spots with big yellow dots on them are employee parking...so over 3 hrs isn't unusual
I was parked in the employee parking, and I was NOT trying to sleep there.
That’s so ridiculously stupid of them
I had security at 2 PM waiting at my motorhome as I walked up with over $400 items! I took a short video. Posted it on my Google review. I promptly walked back in, asked for the manager and quietly returned everything. Told him he likely lost 10x that by the security doing that. Stores need to know reviewers have impact.
@@kathrynb4683 I would have returned everything also.
I am surprised the flying J doesn't allow overnight parking. When I traveled from BC to Arizona last year in my rav4 (set up for sleeping in) I often stayed at Flying J in the States. I would call when I arrived and asked if they allowed overnight. I phoned instead of walking as it felt safer being a solo woman. They all said yes but only had a designated number of spots. The showers are great.
You never know what led to them saying no.
In Vernon BC, where I live, the only place friendly to overnight parking was Superstore. This fall though it was shut down due to jerks who left a lot of garbage . Someone even built a "campfire" on the pavement! It's annoying when the few thoughtless entitled people ruin it for everyone else.
I think a lot had to do with the van being an older Chevy with mismatched panel colours, curtains separating the cab from the cargo, solar panels and a pet cat. If you look like you don't live in your vehicle or rather are affluent then they won't mind you staying the night but if they think you might live there indefinitely and are poor then they would want to chase you away.
36:22 psst! you didn’t hear this from me.. but there are a TON of parking stall power outlets in the Foothills Industrial Park. I work in the area, and most warehouses have them.. just in case you needed a backup.. plus! The area becomes a ghost town after 7pm I’d say….
Awwww I miss those Coop trips too. The best cheese is there. Nice to see the store again. And you too of course, son. 🥰
I love when Matthew tells the stories of his childhood about his homelife with mum, dad and Byron and time with grandparents watching TV shows and movies eating popcorn, time spent with grandad fixing things and on the boat. He's definitely a family man, it's really refreshing!😊
You are so funny. Thanks for sharing 😊
So glad you gave Amber a heater and you have a lovely new one. Bless you all and both stay warm.
Getting good with those angles !!! Love it
i hope that you have a better day tomorrow
Love when you reminisce about your grandad and stuff you did with mum!😊 When you told your tv you loved it, simple pleasures for a very uncomplicated guy!😊
I thought he was talking to Stella for a sec before I realized it was the TV 📺 😆 🤣
Man, your face before you said Stella who was the culprit 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m still laughing hard. I swear it doesn’t matter how shitty my day is you always makes me laugh 😆
What they charge for the showers the plug-in should be included!!
Damn it, you gave me anxiety when I didn’t see you put your spare key 🔑 away. Frick☮️
You too??? LOL
Yeppers, lol
Surprise!! I was too. From the US to Canada, Amazon had mixed delivery days, they were confused. So happy the heater came early. Hugs and Love
You handled that note on your windshield well. Because the two employees appeared clueless as to why the notice was issued, I would have spoken directly to the owner since he was the person leaving the notice. Hope no further issues arise. ETA: Love your turquoise and brown plaid jacket.
I just love how protective most of the watchers are with VanlifePLUS
Agree
You are not entitled to a conversation, get off their property.
Your are very funny love your video !!!! Thank you !!!
We’re getting that cold weather at night Feb 3 & 4. Supposed to be -13C. A bit cold for NJ. I’m in my jeep so no heater. My friend is letting me hunker down at his house for two nights. Going to be interesting if I can sleep on a normal bed since the last time was April 6,2022.
Just subbed, I like your personality and the kitties are adorable.💞
Welcome to the channel and thank you for the support.
ALWAYS better to do things in person if you can.
The best way to test that flying J is to go back repeat the same routine you did last time except this time do not plug in lucky or cover the windows and if they still leave a note on the windshield in that short amount of time then you can probably conclude that there simply profiling certain vehicle types at that point.
In the end it won't matter. If the owner wants to put notes on every van that comes by he can as it's private property. It's not nice but I'm sure he must have had problems before.. Not all van lifers are as considerate as Matt unfortunately and it only takes a few bad apples to ruin the whole bunch. We used to have a couple in a van park in our apartment lot, it was a four unit building and they'd be cooking smelly food all the time and letting their dog shit wherever it wanted and throwing cig butts around. A single lady living there was uncomfortable with two dirty looking ppl with dreadlocks hanging around her place all day so she had to call the cops. This was after over a month of them living there. They left, they may not have been hurting anyone but they were infringing on ppls peace of mind and taking a spot from visitors of ppl paying for that privilege
Surprised the solar panels don't shatter with the sudden temperature change with the hot water
Sorry about the Flying J incident. You were so polite and calm. Good job. My husband and and I thought that you had left one of your shades up and that is why they thought you were staying....Better luck next time. Love the cats..great companions. Happy trails, keep warm as à cold front is here. Montréal température is -22. We want to go winter camping in our Roadloft but not at - 22. Lol.
Especially at 76 and 79. Regards.❤️
Thanks for sharing your stories.
Just found your channel! Also in Calgary 😊
Welcome to the channel Shane!
You were actually nice I would have freak out 🤣lol specially in this weather!!! 🤔
Be careful about turning on wipers if they are frozen to the window. I did that once, and it didn't just blow a fuse, but burned out the motor that runs the wipers. I was NOT a happy camper over that one! I wish cars would do like years before and allow you to spray wiper fluid WITHOUT automatically turning the wipers on too. If you pour some rubbing alcohol just above the wiper blades and wait a bit, it will soften an ice that might have the blades frozen to the window. I also add extra rubbing alcohol and dish soap to my wiper fluid. My 20 yr old Viper remote start still works on my old minivan, so have the luxury of starting my minivan up 15 minutes before I go out to it. Also good if traveling and stop for a nap along interstate, if I need to run AC or heat while napping in back. If I ever get a newer vehicle, I WILL have a remote start system installed in it too! I paid $400 in 2004 for it, and that cost averaged across 19 years comes to about $20 per year now.
Great advice.
Ridiculous that establishments start leaving notes on vans patronizing the place.
You humor is great. Thanks.
Hope you remembered to put your spare key back.
Love your humour Matt, you make me laugh, love it 🥰 health and happiness for you my friend 🙏🤗
You actually made me LOL when you smelled the bottle! 😂😅😃
Can't go wrong with grilled cheese with turkey and swiss, or some other tasty cheese of your choosing!
I was just about to say "You need a hat" and you put it on 5:55 . 🎩
The owner of the flying J probably thought you were going to spend the night there because you were plugged in and had the window coverings on your windows. 🤔 you have alot more places to park overnight than here in BC. More and more no overnight/camping signs have been going up all over BC. Especially in Vancouver, but ppl kind of ruined it by staying in one place.
Yeah. You HAVE to constantly move, don’t become an eyesore or a burden
Sorry about the flyin j situation. Memberships only cost $1, and you get a rebate at the end of the year. If the straight-up melatonin doesn't work, try super sleep. It has melatonin and L-thamine and L-5-HTP. It will knock you right out. There is a fantastic hot pot place across the street from that parking lot that you stayed at, it's nice on a cold day. Thanks for another great video!
This vid has 61k views! Yey! You're moving up. Congratulations 👏🎉
MiFi is a mini router. Support up to 15 devices. If you have wifi cameras, thermometers, Alexa or Google devices, wifi controlled heater or etc. Phone wifi tethering only allows one device.
Best part of this video is when you told your TV you loved it. Had me rollin'. My TV is the one thing I know I'll miss. It's a 56' Samsung that was originally $650, but it was the floor model, on sale, and I got other discounts that brought the total down to $200 including tax. I've had it for over a year and although I've never told it this, I do love it. 📺
check the floor for rust... prevent a crome thing
👍🤩Just found your channel and you’re a hoot of a character. I’ll check out your other videos. Wishing you the absolute best.💝
Welcome to the channel and thank you for watching!
You were so gracious and skillful, respectful. Try to get a name from the person you are getting clarity from so that if you get a fine, you can say but x said...
FYI. Good call on the Telus update. I have found that Telus and Bell have way better coverage. And, I’m Rogers shy due to the “blip” last summer. I have unlimited data (as of tomorrow) with Bell for $55 per month - but it is slowed after a certain amount - which would be hard for a UA-camr.
Good evening Matthew. Doesn't every day life just keep you shaking your head, somewhat like a bobble head sun catcher?? I needed to see all of you tonight, 💗 Thank you all for being here. Smiling, because of you made my turmoil lessen. Pet Penny and Stella for me.
Interesting 2 days for me, January left with a complete 💥 explosion in my day. My trucks center yoke of the 2 piece driveshaft decided to let go, what an awfully loud noise that was, right under me. I was blessed by having a spot to put my truck on a side street, next to Murphy's Pub.....abit of Ireland. However 930 a.m a tad too early to be partaking of the spirits. I don't drink anyway. But trust me by the end of this day, it was tempting. So after 4 hours of sitting waiting for Sheba my cat to be out of surgery, finding a tow truck that would hook me up and take me to pick up my kitty. My 2005 F150 was on a flatbed, for a 55 minute ride.
After $300.00, we all were home. Me with a broken truck, and a new driveshaft required, a yoke cannot be replaced on this one. Either $967.00 and a wait until Feb 24th back order from dealer or after market $647. Both of these prices are either my whole months income or 2/3rds of it. I am beside myself. And to complete my 24 hr Riot period, at 1:25 a m my furnace in my camper stopped. Putting me abruptly awake & outside switching tanks. Not that easy. After literally taking down the empty tank & moving new tank & re hook up. It still said nope. But I had a propane smell in my camper home at 2 degrees Fahrenheit. At 3 pm I repeated tank process and furnace came to life. So she's temperamental. PERFECT ❤️. But she's working. Can't wait for the rest of this month.0 degrees Fahrenheit in morning and -2 Thursday nite ahead. Mathew you stay warm hun. Be Safe, Be Healthy and Always find Joy in your day 🐈⬛🐈🐾🍀🇨🇦❄️☃️🇺🇲
Great video Matthew! Much love and hugs
Sub title for you "Not Just Another Van Life Channel" this is the best/entertaining channel on youtube, and I have watched more than I care to admit to, had to sub and like.
Welcome to the channel and thank you for the support.
There was a van parked right beside where you parked, that is identical to yours, parked there for months. They probably thought he was back. Also a cube van with wood stove puffin away there, also for months. So I think they finally got sick of people staying there for long periods of time.
Hey Matt ! It is Meema and Jessi Beagle from Florida ! I have been working on my property that my Caretakers destroyed, so I am catching up.
If I could, I would put camping areas out here for those in need. Perhaps in the future. I had one bathroom in my mobile home replaced 🙃 YAY indoor plumbing ! The first good shower I have had in months. It was RIGHTEOUS ! AND a flushable loo, too. I feel like a Princess.
I have Faith that we will be strong enough to get through these Times.
⚔️🇺🇸🙏
What is overnight parking??? Is it you arrive before dark and leave after sunrise? What if you arrive after dark and leave before rise???? Things that make you go hmmmmm...
As usual, rules that are clear as mud. 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆
In trucking in the USA it means over the night. So they could give you a fine if you're there around dawn.
Ok yup mobile starlink is slooooow, BUT if you can get a home address to send your home base along with a mobile base set you will get priority regardless of which one you're on. We did it that way and have had no problem. Yes you're right the start up cost is stupid expensive but mobility is the game
I’m only 6 minutes in and the suspense is killing me bc you’re not talking 😂
Edit: so sorry you had to deal with that. They shouldn’t have put anything on your car unless you had stayed more than 24 hours. Better days are ahead my friend 🤗
I hear a lot of complaints about starlink.......
Side note: I love your kitties 😸 🐱🐈⬛💖💖
In Scandinavian countries, you have to have two sets of tyres, Summer and Winter and on certain set days you have to change from one set to the other.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand mandating winter tires in winter, but if I want to run my winters in summer it’s my own prerogative. In fact, being that winter tires are softer rubber, they also perform superior in summer at the cost of faster wear and tear
@@LibertyOrD___h I was told by a Oregon state police officer the reason for the tire change mandate is because studs tear up the asphalt...I actually had to sit on the side of the road and "de-stud" my tires with a leatherman 🤬 I also had to sit on the side of the road in Utah and remove my tint 😡 Both times I had plates from a different state where my vehicle was road legal in my state of residence...but who am I to argue in the middle of nowhere with an officer...
We’re about to get another cold snap . Not like your but in the teens. Stay warm love to Stella & Penny
Your videos always brighten my day! Carry on...!🤗
Great to hear your back-up heater is working well for Amber 🙂👍
Love your kitties! Thank you for giving them a good life.
thanks.. i enjoyed ur video..
Mobile version of Starlink is $2500 for equipment. This version is for vehicles and boats that want connection while moving. The version Chrome has is $500 for equipment and $110 per month.
At flying j Hope bc I asked if it was OK to park overnight. They said no sorry. Apparently somewhere a van caught fire and burned a truck parked nearby . ???
That's too bad that happened. You should be able to park were you want and also to feel safe . Hope your appointment with the surgeon goes well and your feeling better soon . I too suffer from same thing not fun . I love your positive outlook on life even on hard days to find joy in the little things . You have really inspired me so thank you . ❤❤
There's a good reason to have 2 wifi spots, they're both on different networks, Telus and Rogers are different networks so if you get a bad signal on one, the other may be better.
Lol I love your personality! Your a lot like me. Humor for everything! Just found you and subscribed. Thanks for being original and such a fun funny sarcastic person. Refreshing
OH, and you know how the Algo creeps us? When you opened the Spray can trigger handle. I went to Amazon to check it out, I put spray ca....and the first recommended ad was the trigger handle
Canadians are too nice😆you were a paying customer, they should zip it until midnight at least.
Nothing wrong with being nice
First time watching. I like your jim Carrie humor type flair. God bless and stay safe.
Thank you! Welcome to the channel
My first time seeing your channel. I am not a Vanlifer yet. I wanted to say I saw your your 2 cats and couldn't help but notice the tortie. I had 2 and miss them so much. I am an animal rescuer mostly cats.
Welcome to the channel!
Feels like the Flying J just made an assumption about you without doing their due diligence to wait a bit after noticing Lucky for the first time. Hopefully you don't receive anymore trouble from them in the future!
Right. It wasn't even night time 🙄.
Glad that you documented...I am!
Exactly! That was ridiculous! 😊
Stupid of flying j even if you spend one night you spent money there!
I am in SouthEast Wisconsin and I have been staying mostly at Park N Rides, and Walmart and Planet Fitness . Been -15C lately.. brr... stay warm
Karcher makes quality/ long lasting products. ( and yes, they are expensive, but well worth it)
Van City and you are so similar!
Yup, we both have big personalities
Better then Foresty Forest! He sounds so mopey and awkward!
Just starting to watch the video. Two minutes into it. Sure looks cold and windy in that part of Canada. ❄❄❄❄❄❄😾😾
👋 Hi from New Mexico🌶️🌵...Have a good day Matt.
Hey maybe check out 57 St N.E. by Cabellas there are quite a few Vans like yours parked there. I see them everyday going to and from work and they have been there for a long time. One down side at this street is that there is lot of Truck traffic and the Airport is near by. Maybe talk to them and see what they say about parking there.
I like your content it's like having a friend when there few friends left
I frigging love ❤️ u Matt I’m Renee Paradiso Rix lol love the double names lol
Welcome to Patreon! 👊
I love these car washes you have. That paint job on Lucky is amazing.
happy February Matt ❤
Sir, you are a star. I love your sense of humor and contact me if you ever decide to travel to Beverly Hills CA. 😊😊😊
That is weird that there is no overnight parking at a Flying J. Most truck stops in the U.S. you can stay at over night night. That is a lot for a shower too. I think it is sweet that you are sentimental about places you were with your family and made memories. You are a content creator and may have thought or done this already, but I suggest you take pictures of all the places you have pleasant memories. Why? Because the next time you go back there it may not be there any longer. I have experienced that a few times over the years. A favorite restaurant my grandmother took me burned down during a horrible forest fire. Our barn that my grandpa built for us collapsed this year from the weight of a heavy snow fall. My grandma and grandpa have been gone several years now so losing places that remind me of them really stinks. Take care Matthew.
Another excellent video, Matthew. Always polite and kind, especially with, um, less then intelligent staff.
You are wise to go back to Flying J. And if they are rude towards you, let US know and we'll take it from there. I mean, I know I live province away, but I can put my smiting beams on high.
Sorry you had to deal with that. Hope your days get better
Your a kind soul .. I love seeing that !!
Love watching your days here in YT. Thank you for sharing them with us and thank you for your amazing positivity ❤
It's freezeing here inToronto. So I know how you feel. Have a good night.
Rules are meant to be broken
Amen brother lol
New subscriber here....
You are hilarious 😂
Welcome to the channel! I’m glad you enjoyed the video and am happy I could make you laugh!
Welcome to the channel and thank you for the support.
I am surprised that you didn’t let the defroster melt your windshield ice before you run your wipers, and tear the rubber lol, cheers from Vancouver Island 🇨🇦
Put tuube socks on the wipers to keep them free of ice.
Pool noodles keep the ice off them too
Bread sausage cheese tomato's..In the waffle maker yum yum
MAN... I wish I could say what I am thinking... Those who are thinking the same thing know what I am thinking....
I totally 2nd that thought...and I would add a few choice words and some sign language as well!
I really dig that knapsack 🔥🔥👍👍
FYI Matthew, when you call Rogers to cancel, ask if they have a "Retention Dept." If so, ask to speak to them and tell them your issues. If a company has such a department, the reps there have the authority to customize services and see what they may offer you to stay. It's a good rule of practice when cancelling any service.
Secondly, I don't get the FlyingJ thing. You're a paying customer inside the place! If they have an issue with squatters, then when you pay for a shower they should give you a time-stamped pass to put in your windshield while you're inside. Also, next time I was there and paying, I'd tell the cashier what happened here so she/he will be aware and tell "the boss" in case he/she decides to scout out the parking lot again. Just a thought.
Love your channel. ❤️ Your kitties are so beautiful.
Hi you did a wonderful job man u were all cool keep that up it's what the world needs though misunderstandings happen your daughter would be proud ....Respect to you stay warm I would be crying if I lived there...
You have a lovely voice😊 stay warm😊
It's hard work making entertaining videos and you do them so well. 👍😆
I NEED one of those squeegee vaccuums! That’s my biggest problem in my van if I cook at night before going to bed. I got a couple of those little dehymidifiers with the little pellets in them but I’m always afraid of them tipping over.
Those little dehumidifiers are a waste of money! I use crystal silica cat litter instead as you get a whole load more for your money. I put the crystals into the foot of an old clean sock (make sure there's no holes in it though!) then twist the filled foot at the ankle several times and put the 'leg' part of the sock back over the foot part ... voila done! I call them sock spuds!! I leave them on the dash by the windscreen & any other place I can in the van . Depending how much humidity you get (it's usually always damp here in UK!) you can change over the sock spud for a spare dry one if you keep spares in a ziploc baggie....or just leave on the dash by the windscreen & the heater vents will dry them out while you drive.
I know this is very off topic, but I absolutely love your shirt😊
I'm ur neighbor up north , it's cold in Ak too .
That Karcher showed up on Amazon Canada at a $98 price. It was called "Karcher The WV1 Plus Surface Cleaner". A bit higher dollar than I expected but clearly useful for van living.
I was eating cottage cheese and you started talking about the milky condensation in that bottle 🤢🤮😂🤣