Brutally Honest Valedictorian Regrets Being Top of the Class
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- Опубліковано 30 тра 2019
- On May 30th, 2019, Kyle Martin (Tre in TKA's The Wreck of Echo 10-4: • The Wreck of Echo 10-4... ) addressed The King's Academy's Class of 2019 as its valedictorian. His speech was entitled "The 16th Second." Kyle has attended The King’s Academy for 14 years and is graduating with a 4.64 GPA, earning him the top ranking in the class.
He is a senior superlative in the areas of Bible, English, musical theatre, social studies, and vocal music. Kyle is the President of the English and Social Studies National Honor Societies, Vice President of the Spanish National Honor Society, Treasurer of the Mathematics National Honor Society, and is a member of the National Honor Society and the Science and Tri-M Music National Honor Societies. He served as Class President for five years and is a member of Key Club. Kyle has been an important contributor to the TKA Theatre Company, appearing as a lead in 21 main stage and black box productions, most recently as Jack Kelly in Newsies.
Kyle will attend Palm Beach Atlantic University where he received the Farish Scholarship, a full four-year scholarship valued at $170,000-awarded to two incoming freshmen each year. Kyle plans to study political science and Spanish. (FAQ: Kyle can be contacted at KyleMartin16th@gmail.com.)
More information about The King's Academy is available at www.TKA.net.
Copyright, The King's Academy, Inc., 2019. All rights reserved.
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He is wise for a young guy...Ted Talks has a speaker about a research project that followed people from thier high school graduation to thier 80s...no matter what they accomplished or how much money they made, the one factor that most affected thier happiness was the quality of thier relationships.
@@petrcrawthwait9338 JEALOUS MUCH?
Petr Crawthwait why care my guy? Don’t rain down on him, if your so much better(not mean in a rude tone, more of a sympathetic and confused tone) compliment him, and be the bigger person.
He turned from a valedictorian to my pastor real quick
lol
Maybe it's what you needed. Never know.
Wolf Playz true
LMAOOO
@@WolfPlayz294 Nope
He kept having to catch his breath cause he’s carrying 80 pounds of cords and medals
He's probably a little nervous in front of that crowd
@@Claytonbeastboy his talk was passionate and wanted everyone to hear it you can even hear in his voice he has to catch breath because all the words he speaks at once so no he’s not nervous
@@usacycling5949 ok whatever you say
God loves you
Ikr I was thinking this guy would’ve gotten into an Ivy np but then I read the description and found out he’s going to a glorified community college in the same town…I mean was there really no better options offered? I guess it goes to show how selective the application process is nowadays
I remember our valedictorian at high school in 1970 who achieved full colours for academics in the 10th grade already, and in the final year ended with 8 distinctions when one need only do 6 subjects. She went on to university and committed suicide after two months on campus. To this day, no one could fathom the reason why. Maybe this young man had the answer she was looking for.
wow 😮
wow
That’s horrible. 😢
That took a turn
We can't know why she did it, but in general too much success untempered by the occasional failure makes one too fragile. She entered a much more competitive environment, when she started college.
As a 43 yr business owner of 17 yrs this young man spoke the truth. Isolation for sake of achievement or gain is a grave mistake.
Isolation for all reasons is always grave
I love isolation
That’s why he’s the top of class. He thinks differently.
That's why the top 1% is the 1%. They think differently.
@@JewEater1312 Wrong, there are a lot of elements involved besides thinking differently. I don't know inherited wealth for example a lot of rich people in general have inherited wealth. Place of birth, if your parents were smart opportunity etc etc etc all attribute to your success, the only thing I find there is a reason why people succeed is ability to take advantage of opportunities given to you. Everyone thinks differently that's why there are so many different professionals in the world. You can be a math genius but be a failure when it comes to poetry or changing your tires.
@@zodlord5669 i get your point. Of course you can't compare someone who was born in Africa in the middle of nowhere to someone who was born in europe or the US. What i mean by thinking differently is, investing money while others are spending and learning new skills while others are sleeping. I work with people who are spending money as soon as they get it. And i know people who will invest that same amount of money so they get more out of it.
@@JewEater1312 well my point refers to why people think the way they think. Social class, and a million of other things contribute to the success rates. A lot of times these constructs are almost seemly beyond an individual's own control.
@@zodlord5669
80% of the wealthy are self made
Our valevictorian didnt even show up to the graduation. 😂
Your valedictorian regrets being valedictorian too 😂😂
JJ Salcido what a god😂💯
He's too good for the graduation.
At least he or she didn’t go all Jesus crazy talking nonsense like this one here.
He had enough of all you plebs. On to bigger and better there is no need to wait around and reminisce.
He's absolutely correct. I graduated from college with a 4.0 GPA, and with all the accolades you could possibly receive. Yet at the end of it, I felt tremendously empty. The struggle is real for overachievers. I sacrificed so many relationships and life experiences to get there. I ended up completely changing the direction I intended as my future career, and instead focused on family and personal growth . I ended up getting married just three years later and having four wonderful children over a ten year span. I decided to always prioritize my family (which a lot of my extended family thought was completely nuts) and not run the rat race for $$ and prestige. I ultimately became a freelance writer and a missionary. I have never looked back, although my parents have always subtly reminded me that I am a disappointment.
Do you what is best for you. I am an excellent student too but just earlier in my carrer I realized that this is not what I want. Although earning not as much as others, I am happy and enjoying simple things in life. Carreer and scholastical achivements are great for our Ego but not for our soul. And wisdom is not taught in schools,it's a lesson from experiences the life itself has given you and made you . It's more personal and much more humane and from that it makes you the best person you could ever be. Now, I have two teens I told them just choose whatever they like to achieve and just be happy.
The ending is too real. Parents want you to do what makes you happy as long as they are happy 😊
Your parents probably believed the path of overachieving was the path for you. To be honest, I think you did the right thing. You should give yourself a pat on the back. Choices like these aren’t easy. But hey, you did it. So proud of ya.
you guys are doing great in life.
your parents might say u r a disappointment but deep down they know that you achieved what you wanted.
go on my brother, do what you're best at.... all my well wishes with you ❤️❤️
@@Ashley-cr4tf there's no such thing as over achieving they taught me hard work and success and wanted me to do well because they love me. I just took their teachings and put it to something other than studies. I'm still a high achiever and would never strive for anything less. They just don't understand what I do because they are from different times. I still put in my all
Getting valedictorian is like that feeling of 100-percenting a game, it feels great when you do it but after you feel empty cuz there's nothing left to do
great analogy. we’re all in pursuit of a fulfilling task.
Smoke weed
@@no_money_guilly588 if that's all you do, that's sad. A worthless and lost life.
@@Miller54K to you maybe. not to others though
@@turzilla maybe in moderation, but ultimately if you smoke yourself into 24/7 contentment then you'll never feel motivated to actually go and do valuable things with your life
Our valedictorian was just like "I'm as old as you guys are and I don't think I'm qualified to give you advice so I'm just going to read Dr. Seuss's Oh The Places You'll Go instead" and then his entire speech was just reading "Oh The Places You'll Go."
Lmao
i’d do the same lmfao
Why does this not have more likes!
Thats really clever!
Andy Kaufman would be proud
This is the meaning of “I’ve won, but at what cost”
Hasn’t the person who didn’t make it to the top, but struggled to the finish just as successful?
@Ergo Proxy success is more than a degree.
@Ergo Proxy lol
Yeeee
success is when you know you succeed.
I am so fortunate to be among the exclusive club of 22 million people who have had this wisdom imparted to them.
YES SAME!!!
Currently reached 23 million!!
There was... once a farmer who told me and alot of other people he once told us that "being number one isn't an achievment, its a prison which forces you into dedicating your life defending that temporary position"...
rest in peace our king.
this valedictorian passed away??
@@graceestrada6739 Technoblade is our king's name.
@@seikatsu. Dammit seikatsu, I haven't cried over that in months and here you are
@@RetroBlockade I'm sorry my friend...
You don't understand how much this comment means to me. This is EXACTLY what I needed to read. As soon as I get the highest grade, instead of celebrating, I immediately try to figure out how I can achieve it again. Being first truly is a prison. For me, I also struggle with the feeling that I am disappointing people when I don't do as great as I did before. I also hate feeling that I have achieved less than I did before. I have taken a screen shot of your comment and starred it so that I can remind myself to just not care so much. Thank you for sharing🤗
Grades are letters, GPA is a number, but your character is your life.
but life is always that cruel isn it, that number may perhaps pave a path for you or destroy whatever plans you had for the future
I don’t think ur gpa is just a number because it will tell your future bosses how hard you work which could result them in hiring or not hiring you
Anonymous Dalamatian bro sat score matters way more
@@bro-vf8oq sat score? u gotta be kidding right thats the most useless of them all
Words of wisdom. Thank you.
Anyone else randomly get this in their recommended?
Yup mine was cars, motorcycles, guns, this dude talking.... wtf lol
TANMAN fr 🤣
Jey He is saying if you don’t believe that Jesus lives, you can consider that He can really change a life. It happened to me.
🤣
All my videos are car videos then out of nowhere oop let’s watch a valedictorian speech
This young man is a leader. Few people can bring tears to my eyes. This young man knows the word!!!!!!!
Yes and above all, he has God in his life! So great to see these young folks serving our one true King. Now you can’t tell me when these 16, 17, and 18 year olds commit these horrible acts of violence that they don’t realize what they’re doing because their frontal lobe hasn’t fully developed. I pray more of our youth will find what this young man has found. God bless us all ✝️
He ain't stfu
@@UltiMate12426yooo 😂😂
This kid is wise. He learned a lesson early. Many people don’t learn this until they’re in their 50s and 60s.
"Did you become valedictorian?"
". . Yes."
"What did it cost?"
"Everything."
16 likes for the 16th second lmao
I understood that reference 😂
💀💀💀💀
Perfect
I was looking for this comment
And here i am, 19 years old who's afraid to order in a fast food restaurant alone.
HAHAHAAHAHA count me in
hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahaha..........
You are a filipino. Aren't you?
@@sucuajebenryan6776 why filipino?
@@sucuajebenryan6776 Yes! Hahahaha
His parents crying proudly in the audience. You did your job Mom and Dad. You knew the assignment.
One of if not the best , most honest, encouraging, and hopeful speeches I have ever heard! God bless that young man!!!!
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
To the people complaining about him talking about God, Religion, etc.
The King's Academy is a Private Christian School. Have a nice day.
i had never heard of it, but after hearing it called the king's academy, and him referencing the bible, i was able to make an inference. i don't think im anything special, intellectually.. but i pay attention. more people should pay attention.
Idiots
well fuck wish i saw this comment before wasting my time with this vid lol
Then say that in the title derp derp derp
All should respect religion.
Unless it's based around violence....
“To the coffee that kept me up all night studying. We thank you”
“To all the girls that didn’t say yes to prom and made me stay at home. We thank you”
Poems Mobile underrated comment
@@ernestosanchez6799 facts 🤣
“And we love you”
To kidou who made this comment. We thank you.
mi74key aww that’s a fat mood 😂
You can just tell he’s truly a good person and is willing to admit what’s true rather than what looks best for him in the moment. Most people would’ve been talking about this title for there lives and gloating about it and getting trapped in their ego. This guy immediately threw it all away and stated how he truly feels about it even if the teachers and school faculty looked down on him.
I doubt any teachers or faculty frowned on his speech
He's got the experience and now a message to share - BRILLIANT!
Our valedictorian didn’t even realize he had to write a speech until the night before
bruh that's just sad... how did he not know?-
@@personone1382 cuz big bank tank lil bank
@@personone1382 How is that sad?
Well, he doesn't have to write a speech. He just has to deliver it ^^
Our school chose the speech giver like a month or 2 before the final grades were back, speech ended up being given by the second best student... Probably good for audience tho, my voice is really weird and awful.
This man have the hand gestures of a politician.
New President? I'd vote for him.
Yep, defo seems like the politician type.
The Clinton box
I knowwww bro next in lineb
Hull_K0gan And you have the judgement skills of a common Grammar Nazi.
No wonder this young man won this award. So bright and God loving. He will go far.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
EXCELLENT. Best speech I've have heard from a senior at graduation. Need more speeches like this.
someone at my graduation plagiarized this speech im dead
How'd it turn out for them?
@@NoNo-cz3un lol at graduation everyone clapped and cheered yet the next day everyone realized she took the speech from here and called her out on it
@@lovelyjustine4ever100 wow that is very funny but also sad in some ways
This is so sad lmao
She could have just said I have no idea what I'm supposed to say, all true creativity is an extraordinary gift of God
Lol
Thats sad
There are grown adults who've not yet realized these things.
Dk Adkins I know right
J C I guess you’re one of those grown ups 😆
@@laughingwizzy5885 can a have a moment of silence to say
*APPLY COLD WATER TO BURNT AREA*
Laughing Wizzy Rr
Ouch!
Literally the best and most encouraging speech I've ever heard❤️
What a Smart young man. This is probably the most rewarding speeches that I have ever listened to in my life. I will always remember the 16th second speech forever. I am a little older than 50 but not to old to learn. Thank you and I know you're parents are very proud of you. God bless you for putting God first!❤️
Somewhere in the audience two parents are comparing their kid to Kyle, and wondering where did they go wrong.
LMAO!
This is golden😂😂 cause there damn well is a pair thinking what they did wrong
Yea man they really let me hear it when we got home 😞
Epic!🤣🤣
their kid watches anime
I love how everyone upset that he talks about God and religion didn’t take the time to research the school. If they did they would see that it’s a Christian school.
Literally takes 2 clicks
Good to know that a useless person acknowledges the stupidity of the education system put in place which destroys personal relationships for the goal of getting a job and becoming a functioning member of society.
Christian based education huh.......😂😂😂😂😂
Did they teach how the lord created us and everything in 6 days before the word or label or creation of the term "Days" even got thought of?
You silly religious people 😂😂😂
@@navimajora19 Dude you got a lot of hate and passive aggression in you, I really hope whatever situation you're in gets better. I don't understand why you have to look down on others.
@@stevec__ he just needs to get laid. That's all.
Best Genre Playlists same classes, same sats, same ib’s and ap’s. Just a school more focused on god’s rules
I must watch this video at least once a month for motivation and inspiration. This speech really moved me and this kid will go far in life. Thank you for your kind words and a well written speech.
Never in a million years could I achieve a tenth of what this guy has, but I can somewhat relate because I was someone who was expected to do very well by my family. After about a year and a half of community college with no goal whatsoever in mind, I decided to stop lying to myself and just stopped going, and instead pursued my dream of playing in a band. What followed was the greatest 7 years of my life. What was a huge disappointment to my family was the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. Those days are over now and I’m back to a meaningless, depressing existence. For any young people watching this video, don’t let ANYONE decide your future for you. Do what your gut is telling you, regardless of anyone else’s opinion. Whatever social or financial status you gain from pursuing the career you’re “supposed” to pursue will never, and I mean NEVER fill the gaping void of regret left by giving up on your dreams. It will eat away at your soul every time you close your eyes to go to sleep.
what happened to the band? why did you stop playing?
Hey man i hope youre doing better and found another goal to strive for i wish you the very best
You dont regret being Valedictorian. You regret making it your primary goal in life.
Thank you Mobamba Freeman
true
Because Valedictorian is a random title that you can achieve just by scraping by and not through pure dedication. This comment makes less sense the longer you process it.
@@rainbowstormgaming It makes perfect sense, I am one and very happy. I did my extracurriculars because I loved doing them, the title was just an icing to the cake. And yes, I am extremely close to my family, have a fiancé and have many friends! I don’t know why successful people like us are always labeled as secretly miserable when it is clearly not the case!
@@liamhenson3020 Your lack of understanding for a "valedictorian" is comical. The comment I replied to says you only regret making Valedictorian your primary goal in life, and yet look at the effort required to receive the title, your name isn't taken out of a hat, you do have to make it your primary goal. Valedictorian means you have reached the highest level of academic achievement out of all the students in your class, so either you are clueless about what the title you received actually means or more likely you are a liar and never were a valedictorian. That is why the comment doesn't make sense.
As for your rambling about happiness, that's completely irrelevant to what was said.
This guy's public speaking skills are so good, he could be president.
Tasty Health tf?
@@junesanders5017 if if if if if if if if if if if if if if if if okie doke
@@junesanders5017 well yeah, this year's candidates are equally garbage. The debate is good enough proof lmao
Here in America, that doesn't seem to be a necessary qualification
shan overqualified..
Thank you so much for your brilliant and honest thoughts. Just 4 days ago, I graduated being among the top 5 of my class and instead of celebrating, I was completely down because of the price I had to pay for this and the sacrifices I've made. It felt almost as if I betrayed my values and myself for this accomplishment and I'm having such a hard time to make my family and friends understand what I am feeling and that it is not a bad thing but rather a moment of clarity and sincerity I never felt before. So thank you again, your speech gave me hope!
Same here, had I heard this speech two years ago, I would not have committed the same mistake he is saying. Yet I would also not have experienced the lesson. The wise man is not the one who avoids every hurdle and challenge, but he who after falling down, reevaluates his situation, gets back up and learns from his mistakes.
When I felt that feeling of betrayal, I literally started sobbing in front of my friends. It happens to the best of us, stay strong L.
What an amazing speech. Well done young man. Your Parents did a great job raising you. 🎉 he is going to do great things. This right here is our future
This dude really got valedictorian to preach about Jesus.
ThePunchingpuddle it’s a Christian school....
I was abouta say like,,, Dude that Jesus stuff came outta nowhere LMAO
And I'm glad he did
it’s how it’s done
And that's great
Can you imagine coming in second to this guy and being all like bruh he didn’t even want this.
Manuel Romero totally lmao I’m sure that person sacrificed a lot of relationships too
That's why I don't even try for that crap. It's honestly pointless to sacrifice so much to be recognized for a day or so
@0bsidiann lol you don't have to be valedictorian for those schools. A valedictorian from some shitty public school will always get passed over for the yuppy fuckboy in a private school with a 2.5 avg just because his dad is a senator.
0bsidiann totally agree. You always sacrifice something
Elmo The Killer why do you even breath then lol
As an Christian Educator, THAT was good! Well done Kings Academy, well done mom & dad! This is something many people learn late in life! Well donw!
One of the best if not the best graduation speech ever. It's short, simple but direct and not self involved
This dude is the protagonist of every high-school teenage show.
*13 reasons why intensifies*
Disney: We can make a religion out of this
Not in this day and age, he'd be written as the villain
*Me, an average Anime enjoyer*: Actually...
@@deadlineuniverse3189 he later found a notebook on the floor that day
He’s 18 and so well spoken. Kid is going far in his life.
Brooke Lucas 1st reply
Planaid shut the fuck up
define what “far” is my dude. it’s different for everyone.
Oh my god, you guys are a bunch of idiots. Lmao stfu
Brooke Lucas- that’s why this country will fall in the future.
Such a heart-warming speech. Truly a brilliant mind.
I learned this lesson a few years ago when I was accomplishing so many goals but feeling empty.. I am 39 right now and know a lot of people who still don’t have this mindset. I am so proud of this dude, to have arrived at this place so early in his life. Now life will be meaningful and well balanced for him and others who he will inspire. He is truly blessed and wise beyond his years.
Wait so this guy is a high school graduate?? He looks and sounds like a college graduate...
I know right. I thought it was college. Till I started reading comments. Good for him.
My daughter went to King's in 5th grade she read & tested at a college freshman level, 2 hours of homework a day. Class won National Prize went to D.C. visited supreme Court with Barbara Bush
Robert awsome good for her
@JP Duffy
Don't worry about dedicated educated young people from the inner cities and most large public school systems. NYC has over 75% failure rate. I went to Catholic schools and your off base with religious zealots. If a person wants to believe in God and be well educated,your argument is what. I was amazed at the number of religious fanatics coming out of U.C. Berkley.
@JP Duffy I misunderstood your point. Very intellectual thought process.
I bet he's going to write a book called "The 16th Second"
error idk I gave the 16th like
Not sure about 'making' a book, but he might write one!
Or a movie that lasts 16 seconds
I’d buy it.
carson tanner you telling the answer to your joke makes it 10x worse. Not that it as good in the first please
This speech is not where I thought it would go! WOW!!! So proud of this young man for speaking about Jesus. He doesn't hold back to speak up for God where most lack! May the Lord bless him in his life to come.
This speech should be made available to all graduates. It’s filled with the essence of what is necessary to have not just great accomplishments, but a great life. Bravo.
No one on their death bed ever said "I wish I had spent more time at the office."
"I actually don't understand deathbeds. I mean, who would buy that?"- Michael Scott
Plenty of people on their deathbed has thought "I wish I had worked harder to achieve my goals and had made something of myself" though.
Alaron id like to think that they rather regret not being in gratitude for the little they had while they had it.
Michael Scott did
Interesting thought, one point of view, look into the life of Steve Jobs and how he approached death.
Imagine becoming famous overnight because of your valedictorian speech.. damn
did you listen to that speech?
@@najla3370 don't u understand it?
@@LVDMN-ub6kw relationships with whom you genuinely care about sibling, parents, grand parents, friends he doesnt just mean go find somebody to spend ur life if you trully take in what he has to say and u remove the jesus christ with what ever it is u object ur life to maybe itll stick in ur head all he wants is for you to humble ur self because so many people in this world are selfish bastards and if most people were to be Humbled they wouldnt treat so many people like shit mostly ignorant people that hide behind a screen because they dont know what else to do wit their lives. kindness spreads all that matter, the hardest part is starting it up between a community with so much hate involved.
@@LVDMN-ub6kw good luck with that life perspective there buddy.
Famous? Lololololololol
No man! You earned that five minute speech to share something will change somebody's life and now its worth it.
What a amazing young man . Everything he said is spot on . I’m 58 and I’ve lived it . No regrets
Now we understand why he is the Valedictorian.
Turns out his wisdom far exceeds his book learnings.
Exactly
"Reflections of my life" Oh how they fill my eyes ..
Lol
@@peterandreadakis3851 what is wrong with you?
In the future people will say, "A wise man once said ' have no regrets in the 16th second'".
Can you please tell me what 16th second is?
@@andifarrela.p323 he was saying that he had 15secs of happiness for what he's achieved,but after those seconds,"the 16th second" is when you realize what you've sacrificed and that is important to not have any regrets at this point.
I hope I made myself clear,lol.
Scribbles why not?
Andi Farrel A.P watch the speech lol
I’m writing that down to keep as a reminder, honestly. It was so good.
I'm totally mesmerised with his voice. The more I listen to this.. the more I want more. I've listened to it multiple times yet I'm still not satisfied. I wanted more and I still do..
They way he spoke was amazing.
"A lesson learned should be a lesson shared." He knew he rocked it. Bravo fine young man.
This is the only valedictorian speech we’ve ever listened to. None of us even listened to our own.
Tj Butler mines was pretty good
Mines sure you were a valedictorian
Kasey Vogl lmaooo Im talking about my school valedictorian
shit some folks didnt even graduate lmao but our valedictorian was fine af
Mines was quite amazing too, but it was only more of their self message
He needs to trademark that phrase....”no regrets in the 16th second”
Seriously
I think he just did
@@anon0268 No. Your last name is Lee
@@anon0268 you have no way of proving that, tota LEE
Tota Lee one of my best friends the same last name, and his first name is the same as a character from Mario (I don’t wanna say it cause I don’t wanna blast his name on UA-cam)
@@anon0268 I know so many people with that last name you must live in nowhere
I'm 59 years old and i really needed to listen to this. God bless you young man 🙏🙏🙏
That wisdom came from God's heart and is a signpost for all that hear him. Humble and courageous young man ! His parents must be thoroughly blessed. Well done !!
It is exactly what I needed to hear, right at this moment. I prayed for guidance on a job choice decision, no contest now, although almost double the money was very inticing-clouded my vision for sure. Thank you father, In Jesus name. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
“have no regrets in the 16th second” that’s amazing.
Mak3up Lov3r dude right when I read the comment he said this exact same line
See y’all in the battle let me know the valedictorian girl side to be his partner kill
I agreed, you worked for your future, youngsters always Remember"never apologize for your honest HARD WORK" you Did it&Congratulations. Stay on your Path and I'm very proud of you.
Mak3up Lov3r right as he said that i saw this😂
Eli Zepeda yeah this is weird
This guy has wisdom beyond his years, he didn’t hate on anyone in this speech so idk why u would dislike
Sometimes it’s not about them disliking him,
It’s about their dislike of themselves and they’re decisions.
Maybe I just like the thumbs down symbol because of Gladiator?
because the pushing of his religion
Ricky Bobby12 lol yea ALL religion teaches to be better...
@@WxddlesHimself I don’t know what your experience with religion is. I don’t know if you happened to met someone who claimed to be religious but was just a terrible person or if you simply base your opinion off of random stuff you see on the internet. But let me tell you that in general religious people (or at least Christians and people who follow religions similar to Christianity since I can’t speak for all religions) are people who strive to a good person and help make the wold around them and the lives of others better. Of course there are bad ones but that should hardly be generalized to all of us. With a clear head and open mind you will likely find that most of the bad things about religious people aren’t even true
Absolutely top notch. Your speech was excellent young man and I hope you feel very proud. Sending much love and respect to you across the pond 🙌👨🎓❤ x.
What a great speech, regardless of your age, education, and life experience....this was amazing.
Why are people bashing him for talking about Jesus in a Christian School lol
They salty that they ain’t get valedictorian
@@patrick05Morgan dude even the valedictorian dosent care about it
@@user-ue2lx6py9j before he had it he cared cause he worked hard to get it but then when he got it he realized it was nothing special
some people were recommended this and have no idea that it has a Christian basis and they are not Christians or don't believe in religion or God.
@@user-ue2lx6py9j he cared when he was putting in all those hours everyday to get it
This dude is natural born leader, so comfortable and in his element up on that stage !
maybe you are a natural-born follower?
Don’t let our current politicians get to him.
Your comment is what is destroying our country. The Constitution and the Bill of Rights never used the word leader. Free people don't need leaders. Free people need representation.
Imagine for a moment how differently things would be. instead of the government telling you oh, you have to do this and you can't that. You tell the government it can't this and it won't that and it has to do the other thing. you do realize they work for us right?
Jim Da please calm down,, it’s just a UA-cam comment💀
@@pl4n3t0id so now you want to be my leader.
Great speech! Thank you for being so grateful😇🙏
Amazing Speech!❤️ I'm blessed to hear this. 🙏🙌
“A lesson learned should be a lesson shared.” Says it all.
Yup
Facts
Say it loud, say it hard🔥
Well put.
Never heard anyone say that before. No wonder he's graduating with such prestige! 👍
In a nutshell: the most important thing ever is the friends and relationships we made along the way
Or more accurately: love jesus
@@MyDarKnightMareAnims ?
@@MyDarKnightMareAnims nvm he said that in the vid mb
Get of tether use golden gun like a giga chad
Good joke but in comparison to the work hard and anything is possible meme it’s like the pot calling the kettle black
Fantastic speech! And very meaningful. I totally need to practice this. It's not an accident that this video popped up. You're awesome buddy!
This brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing this.
My valedictorian literally explained that everyone in high school made them feel isolated and called the high school out for having horrible faculty/student relationships. I think honestly they exposed more truth to me than any teacher could ever now.
That should be an interesting speech
@@noblehazards9713 I did not say anything about raising them, I'm talking about being good mentors. My school was filled with controversies. Read my message fully and thoroughly.
noblehazards problem is with your statement is that yes they aren’t meant to raise these kids but they kind of treat them that way. These people command you around telling you it’s for your own good when really looking back , that grade mattered so they got payed. It goes two ways , they faculty is rarely well supported and leads to teacher treating it like a desk job rather than nurturing a future generation. The students are filled with bullshit they will never use and that same construct for about 12 years will lead to you kids who feel like they were wronged by these systems
@@noblehazards9713 no offense but u sound like an edge lord
@@noblehazards9713 they are those kids who like wear all black and say something like "my life is useless"
And...another one.
Something something about relationships being essential, most meaningful, etc. And I'm here, VERY CONTENT about having a restricted number of relationships. I'm JUST fine with my 5 friends, 1 long term partner and many beloved pets and animals. Lol.
Google Andrew Yang
first off, introverts always slay it, bitch.
@@RiAS___ cringe... And I'm an introvert...
@@kuif234 iT'S a rEfeReNcE tO rIck AnD mOrtY, QuEeN
Wow! This young man is amazing. He had the best speech I have ever heard. GOD FIRST.
He made me cry. Thank you for sharing Jesus with your entire class. I'm so very proud of you as if you were my son. God bless you young man. Your parents raised an incredible human being. 💙
I've seen this video several times. I just can't help watching it over and over again. I just admire how great a speaker he is.
don't ever forget the maintenance staff, they the real OGs.
Kev shout out to every janitor who gave me a dollar when I wanted a snack from the vending machine
The security guards too
@@lalacy_101 where you from? We didnt have security
@@lalacy_101 an American I see
@@apen8440 im from america also lol but no security guardes anywhere near my school
He’s public speaking is excellent. He’s wise. I’m marrying this boy.
He's mine!
MINE!!!!!!!
woahhey 😂❤️😂
Can you imagine him writing you a letter “dear my wife, today I’m writing this letter to let you know you are appreciated it😁! Thank you for cleaning the house, feeding me everyday, doing Laundry, and being my strength. Know that you are loved.....” oh boy!
y’all too much 😂
Boy..?
He just said exactly my thoughts before I entered High School. I strived in my last year of my Elementary Year and ranked 4th honor (only) in my batch after I tried so hard to be the first...I could have tried more and set my mind on the goal to be the top of the class in High School but I realized right away what I am trading for. I exactly feel every word that he is saying on the graduation. It is a regret. Relationships is way precious than a high grade in school. One will sure suffer for the other. Always pick the one that give you a lifetime of precious memories.
Congratulations to all the graduates. I wish you all the best of luck on the journey that awaits!!! 🥳🎊🎉
Vote this guy for president in 17 years when he’s 35
He said "No regrets" lol
@@Mouthwashh if you spend your entire life turning right , you'll be driving in a circle.
@@oscaralonso4699
If you spend your life driving left, you'll be driving in a circle
KaiserKrieger so do you have to swerve because you’d be driving in a squiggle and depending on the direction you might be driving a circle
if you drive straight you'll still be driving in a circle... technically
Me watching this:
Valedictorian guy: I’ve won, but at what cost.
I WAS one of these and he is SO right. Felt EXACTLY the same thing. SO much sacrifice to get there compared to the prize. He just put it into words. 🙏🏻
This comment hits differently
DJ Khaled, suffering from success
Stress
Oikawa Tooru it’s way more than just stress. It’s enormous amount of time of your life. Sacrificing the “fun“ things other people get to do for years. Yeah you might occasionally do stuff but you’re gonna have to tell people no more than yes. It impacts relationships it impacts marriages it impacts life. When everybody else goes out and socializes your working your butt off.
This is so inspiring, especially now when I’m still a student. Thank you for your wise words
Thank you for teaching a 65 year old who is only just gaining spiritual maturity. May God bless you.
He doesn’t regret being valedictorian, he’s saying there’s a lot more important things then just book knowledge, grades and being the smartest. Go do things you love, spend time with friends, family, don’t stress about things that really don’t matter in the grand scheme of things, etc. Don’t waste your time overly obsessed with just 1/2 things. Do it all
If u want to be at the top , then forget about family time and other things that u like to spend, ur statement is contradictory, u can't have both
@@Accidental26 true you can’t be the best if you don’t dedicate everything because there is someone out there who will dedicate everything
@@Accidental26In certain cases It’s still possible to spend *time* with the people you love and care for. Dropping the things you like to spend time on could very well lead to a mental burnout depending on the person.
It’s more about finding what can properly work for you and adjust that accordingly to aid in reaching goal.
@@Accidental26 thats why the goal is to do something that makes you happy and comfortable, not to "be the best". Unless being the best, dropping family ect is the only thing thats going to make you happy.
"Say Anything"
"A lesson learned should be a lesson shared"
I literally read this comment as he said that
HoneyLuv same🤯😂
HoneyLuv ME TOO
I read it as he said it wtf
9 or none #ThankyouWoojin same!!!
Honestly, this is what happened during my elementary school. As a valedictorian in my elementary school, I felt... empty. It felt great. I was ecstatic when they called my name. I was shaking. I was nervous. But after I got to the stage, everything went away. Life didn't have any "happily ever after," and that experience of nothingness reminded me that. I woke up the next day with no goal in mind. I was having school breaks. I was playing video games. But I felt like something was missing. I spent the next 6 years with little to no accomplishments, I feel like I've been circling around aimlessly. Another goal's done, then what? Have another goal, but what comes after? It all just proves my endless sacrifices for obsession with grades and academic achievements. I've lost my identity. My mental health has at many times hit the lowest points in my life.
Hey man,
Sorry to hear how you feel.
I truly hope you find a direction, my friend. I'm sure in all the nothingness, the pieces are falling together for you. I suffer from a deep sense of loneliness, but I believe for you and I that we'll feel that sense of purpose/comfort someday. I hope you enjoy the rest of your life, my friend.
The concept of the 'rat race' is what plagues this world. But I would suggest to look inwards, think what makes you feel excited, and if you can't, try new things and find what fills you with life, not caring for societal norms, because until what point is success worth it? Don't live life wandering aimlessly, try to find what it is that excites you.
The motto at my sons previous school was ‘joy if rigor’, very Christian value. It’s not about achieving a goal, it’s about working the best you can at something for the sake of working hard at something.
You are exactly the person this young man is speaking to. The meaning you are looking for can only be found in God. Look to him and you will find what is missing in your life.
Oh my god! I totally feel the same, it's just that i have spent 6 months with little to no goals, like.... i'm just taking school breaks.
What a great job
The best speech I’ve ever heard for a graduating class
Imagine being a 50 year old in that audience attending a graduation and walking away with an existential crises
*crisis
@@evqalol Well you're not wrong. Plural nouns came for me that day
Holy shit, I'm dead! 😂😂😂 And also deeply shaken by this guy's words.
Walter White
If you're 50 and have heard a rightful calling, then consider yourself blessed - coz if you're still alive, then you still have time to turn things to righteousness.
I thought he was graduating from college but this is high school? XD
Xd I didnt even say 1 word for graduating high school
I just looked it up. Tuition for 9-12 is $21,725. Kindergarten through 5 alone is $16,115.
Louis Ruonavar wait you have to pay for high school?
@@sevikath87 lol sooo college just when you're younger.
Its a private school. I had to pay for my High School too :(
Thank you so much young man. God Bless you and class
Amazing speech, amazing man! He is one of the best speaker I’ve ever heard! Congratulations and good luck young man! God bless.
That’s one of the best valedictorian speeches I’ve heard. Wasn’t negative or depressing at all, was real talk and I’m sure everyone in the room appreciated it.
It's really nothing new. It may be new to him and those who aren't out of school yet. But, all adults know this lesson well.
@@junodonatus4906 nah there are plenty of media personas and others that don’t know this lesson and need to learn it.
@@pacomorales6114
Sacrifice of family time and quality of life for standard of living is timeless and well known, just not to kids still living at home.
Hi.
@@junodonatus4906 That's right all the *adults* learn this lesson.
But what about the children, teenagers that sacrifice their time to make friends who are clueless about society, have no idea how to interact with others just because for the better grades in hopes that they can get scholarship. Only to realise in later life that their time sacrificed during those days never mattered. Only to realise that the scholarship could be achieved even if they hadn't sacrificed their social life, just through the general steady progression and a bit of time investment near the end. Only to realise that the sacrifice he made was rather weighing him down.
Worse when you don't get scholarship, you have no social life, no idea how to deal with society, awkward nerd sitting lonely.
That's why, just because everyone learn in later life doesn't mean you have to keep it hidden. Isn't it better to break the cycle so that people are aware and the general life can be better?
Half the parents at my graduation would’ve been like “Que?”
Lol
yeah for my graduation they put a kid who spoke terrible English to show "diversity"
Why do you say that?
@@bayannirivera If it was his valedictorian speech, didn't he earn it?
Michael Henry it was for middle school
Very thought-provoking speech. Thank you.