Grieving Parents & Child Loss | Chins & Giggles Ep 17
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- Опубліковано 29 сер 2024
- If God brings you to it, He will carry you through it! On this week's episode, Mayra is joined by her husband, Bryan, as they share an emotional and heartfelt conversation on managing life as grieving parents and copping with the heartbreak of child loss. An inspirational conversation for anyone who has dealt with grief, loss and finding peace in the darkest moments.
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Let's take a moment and APPLAUD 👏 Bryan for being the MAN he is for Mayra and just letting his emotional side show, its very hard and some people will NEVER understand the pain but for him to come and join his wife on the podcast and be so vulnerable is such an amazing thing to watch we love you so much Mayra & Bryan Lord Please Hold This Couple In Your Hands And Protect Them ❤️
Yes!!! Also hearing a man’s perspective is helpful to women who are trying to understand their man with similar situations but just are there yet when it comes to sharing the emotional sides thanks Bryan for being so strong 💪🏼👏🏽
her getting shy in front of her husband is me asf when trying to be professional and serious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your son literally lived his purpose. Having his parents glorify God on such a big platform through their pain. Sharing their faith and in turn spreading faith is incredible.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥💥 yes!!!
THIS.
Love this I thought the same thing
This !
I miscarried my first baby. There were 5 in my family who were pregnant. My sister in law and 3 of my cousins. I was supposed to be the last to have ny family. I ended up giving birth to my little girl at home alone at 17 weeks. It was so hard to see everyone having their baby and I had to say goodbye to mine, with the postpartum symptoms. Leaking boobs, etc. I then got pregnant 3 months later with my rainbow babe. I was soooo nervous every appointment to hear the worst. I knew I should’ve just trusted in god but it was so hard for me. February 13th, my husband went out to do a bid for work, which was the same day I found out our first babe didn’t have a heartbeat A little gurl game up to him and gave a purple flower and a Valentine’s Day card with a unicorn on it. Our first daughters name was “Leilani” which means beautiful flower. I gave birth to her February 28th. February birth month flower is a violet, a purple flower. A month before we had gotten a 4D ultrasound of our rainbow baby and got a unicorn with her heartbeat in it. My husband got home, gave me the flower and Valentine’s Day card and I knew it was our baby letting us know her little sister was going to be okay 💓
I gave birth to our rainbow baby and we named her “Gia” which means “Gods gracious gift” & she is my whole heart 🥹
The way this just made me sob but feel such relief that lil ones are always with us even after they have left our Side 🥺 such a beautiful story 🥰
Omg I can relate to you so much there was about 4 girls in my family pregnant at the same time as me and I was the only one that had a miscarriage 😢
My daughters name is Jhovanna but we call her Jhia, I did not know “Gia” meant gods gracious gift. This baby is also our rainbow baby, I had a miscarriage at 12 wks then a couple months after a chemical pregnancy and then one month after got pregnant with our rainbow baby💜 It gives me comfort to hear everyone’s story and know we’re not alone and this happens a lot more than we know, I guess it’s just not something that’s talked about a lot. And I do believe our babies talk to us. After my first miscarriage we would always see a lot of white butterflies. I just knew in my heart that was our baby letting us know they were with us. Sending many blessings💜
I can relate to your story so much! 😢 our babies talk to us & God does as well! 🥹
I also have a rainbow baby girl name Gia ☺️
I am 5000% not in the headspace for this conversation today but I do love this episode. As much as I love your sister this was refreshing. Have the men on occasionally it’s nice to hear from them.
I’ve messaged you a couple times on IG. I went through a similar loss. I had my daughter at 24 weeks in 2017. She lived for 6 days.. I love hearing you talk about Bryancito. I’m glad I have an influencer I can relate to on this topic. Not many know what it’s like to go through all the trauma. It doesn’t get any better, but I will tell you it does get easier to talk about it. Un fuerte abrazo para los dos 💕
Im sorry for your lost 👼
She's your guardian Angel , sorry for your lost
God bless you and your baby, you both are so strong 🙏🏼🤍
Sorry for your loss😔
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I totally agree with Bryan. Growing up you think get married have kids like as how it should be. But nothing prepares us for loss and infertility. Growing up I watched a baby story on TLC and I always said I really hope I am not like the couples struggling to have a baby and look at me now 34 no kids been struggling for 8 years life is so unfair 😞 I have a 10 year old stepson but I still want one of my own 🙏🏻🙌🏻
Me coming from a Mexican family I always thought I was going to have lots of kids, but realistically 2 to 3 would be fine. I am 37 and still no babies not even one. I always get the question "when are you going to have a baby?" I hate when people ask me that like if I haven't already been trying for years.
@@ivonned4849 I totally agree with you I always saw myself with 5 or 6 kids. I have my stepson which he has been living with us fully for 2 years now but it still doesn’t feel the same I know it sounds bad because he is mine but idk how to explain it 😞
Gods timing is perfect May God bless your womb 🙏🏼
I was told by drs I couldn't have baby's. Then one day it happened I was sooo happy only to almost 42weeks later give birth to my stillborn babygirl💔 after her we tried and couldn't went to drs and was diagnosed with unexplained un-fertility do to irregular periods and not ovulating all thr time i was put on birth control and clomid for 1 year without any luck . We gave up and left it to life I ended up pregnant. Please don't give up hopes. Do some research on clomid,
aspirin,
Mucinex.
Sending you lots of positive vibes💛✨️
Love the fact you encourage Bryan to be closer to his family. Appreciate the fact that you guys were able to be so vulnerable on something so private and painful. Bryancito continue too watch over mommy and daddy. 💙
The amount of love and respect that I feel in this ! Seeing Brian be so respectful of your words and watching him just stare at you and deeply listen to you. Goals !
this!!
This hurts my soul. As another parent who has last my child. When Bryan says” I’ll take showers & cry it out & even when he drives he’ll ball his eyes out”. Literally made me cry because I felt that so bad.
Before this unfortunate situation, I never really heard you guys speak about God, but now, look at you guys. A pesar de que falleció Bryancito, and my heart breaks for you guys, you guys are preachingggggg God now and that alone is a huge improvement. God is now using you guys to preach him and speak about him to all of us now! Xoxoxo❤️✝️
This was his plan.
I always say “ Relationship with god over a religion” is way better you guys are amazing parents and so strong 🙏🏼
I hope you both seek counseling if you are not already. It’s so difficult to get by and not grieve freely. You can hear the pain in your voices. I wish you both mental and emotional clarity and healing. 💙
Girl Another episode where you have me in tears🤧.While most influencers have god on the back burner 😞, Your belief and faith in him so inspiring. You and Bryan are so strong. I pray he continues to comfort you and heal your pain.🙏
You should come to nc I live in Winston Salem 😂
my mom and sister both was pregnant together
my sister had my nephew 3/28/99
my mom had my little brother 4/3/99
my lil brother was 1pound and 7 oz
he was breathing on his own for 9 days.the 9th day the nurse gave my brother blood thinners .he stop breathing & passed away.
it’s been 23 yrs and i still compare all the milestones.
stay strong, always remember you have a beautiful angel watching.
jessica cruz ,brooklyn ny.
Can I just say how much I love this episode. It’s so nice to see both of you so healthy and healed. I know a part of you will never be the same because you lost a part of you when your son passed, but I just love seeing how much growth you have made not only as individuals but as a couple. I just know Bryancito is so proud to have you as his parents and the strength that he carried earth side was from both of you.
Icons, ILY 🫶🏼 & just know that I am praying for your rainbow. 🤍
I appreciate you guys so much for sharing , I can’t imagine how you guys feel , I’m a mother of three and I can’t even imagine losing one of my kids , this past months crazy stuff had happened to my 5 year old , a whole ass tool box felt on top of him and he survived, just a small scratched on his chest , my son is a skinny boy and no one believes how he survived that heavy tool box full of tools didn’t do anything to him, that alone traumatized me and his dad if something worse would’ve happened idk what I would’ve done , you two are brave and I pray for you guys to feel better day by day , like you guys say it’s all in gods hands I’m sure soon you guys will have a brighter light in your life maybe having a new baby will do that for you two! Stay positive and never lose faith ! 💕
My heart goes to both to you. Losing a love one isn’t ever easy. losing my niece to cancer was the most heartbreaking moments of my life. I cherish this conversation so much thank you.
U can have full PEACE Mayra, only God could give you that.
I love that Bryan expressed himself. He needs to let it out!
Something I learned is that God will push you so far and even if from the outside you appreciate everything and don't want to ask for anything but he knows what you need but he needs to hear you, he needs you to get on your knees and open your heart and let everything out and tell him your needs because he wants you to know that its ok, that you do need it and you are begging him and it's not a moment of selfishness but because sometimes God wants to hear you because at that moment you are releasing everything you are carrying ❤️ God works in mysterious ways and always listens 🙏
This was such a beautiful podcast, as I sit here holding my newborn listening to you two it just makes me so much more grateful, I've done things in my life that I often feel I don't deserve things but you're so right GOD knows our hearts. I do believe one day you guys will be blessed again with more babies and although it will never replace your babyboy it will bring you so much joy and happiness 😊
Heart warming . Sometimes the best moments are the saddest because you know they'll never happen again. I wish you all well. Luv Emily
Yes girl agreed, the middle name, Bryan, so your next son can feel like he is part of & honoring his brother. But as a 1st name that would be way to hard, even calling him that out loud. Sending you love! ❤️
It has been hard listening this podcast and caught myself stopping to watch. I had a dream about Bryancito passing and I saw both of you crying in a chair holding him. I woke up in tears try to find any news about what was going on & that is when I found out through my husbands IG that he had just passed away. I cried and I didn’t know how to feel. I asked how was it possible for me to dream such powerful dream. I even told my husband why me? And he said bc you are a mother and you cared for her and her son. To this day I feel some type of way. I tried to comment on another podcast episode I believe and vlog in hopes Myra and Bryan see this. I don’t have all the right words to say but I know there is a purpose to why I am typing this and why I had this dream.
I’ve dreamt something so similar too…A close family friend of my mom (her friend’s husband) fell ill to cancer. She has the upmost respect for these people and sees them as second parents. The husband was such an active person and was for the most part healthy. The news of his illness was such a shock and many people started praying for him.
I dreamt that he had passed already and his wife was completely heartbroken of course. I remember being in a room and seeing slideshow pics of him. I should also note I only met him once when I was younger. I remember asking the wife “He was your biggest true love wasn’t he?” She responded “Oh for sure”. It was basically a ceremony remembering him.
I woke up the next morning, my brother was on the phone with my mom and based on the conversation I knew it was news that he had passed. It completely blew my mind. Just like you I kept asking myself Why did I dream about this?? I didn’t have a close relationship with him like my mom did. To this day it shocks me.
@@kathym6229 I never expect anyone to read my comment let alone have someone have a similar experience. Thank you for sharing that w me🤍 I wouldn’t make this up let alone hurt someone from sharing what dreamt. That is why I felt so scared to share this bc I don’t know what Mayra would say or react. Im sure you might feel same way.
I’m still very shook and I have no words honestly…
@@KarlaOrozco-le7rt Thank you for sharing too! I know Mayra and Bryan wouldn’t have been upset. I’m almost sure they would take it as another sign that he passed to have such a magical life in heaven and forever look after them 👼
I also didn’t want to upset my mom by telling her I was still very much processing that I had dreamt that in the first place. And when I read your comment, I knew I had to share and let it out even if it’s just to someone online. I’m someone that does believe some dreams mean something and now I def believe we had these dreams for a reason. We may never know exactly why but can only hope for something good.
Thanks for helping me get that off my chest. Sending so much love to you and your family! 💖
I asked my hubby 3 days ago, have you talked to your mom? Then he realized it’s been about 2 weeks and called her the next day. Lol He puts her on speakerphone so we can both talk to her. I tell him, you don’t have to be on the phone with her for an hour just a small check in and we can plan a day to visit and spend time with them. His mind is on other things he forgets but he loves and cares for his family so much even if he doesn’t show it.
Again, sorry for your loss but thank you for sharing bryancito with us. I truly believe god chose you two to be his parents because he knew you would use this experience to help others heal as well. So many families grieve the loss of a child and don’t know how to process it or who to turn too. By being open to it, you are in one way or another help others heal and continue to honor themselves and their loved ones… one day at a time.
I saw a lady on tiktok saying her daughter told her she remembers trying to come to her 2 times before she was actually born. She had 2 miscarriages before her baby girl . 🤯
You guys need to have Bryan more often in your podcast. I’m always so intrigued with what he has to say.
Rest In Peace Bryancito, tan chulo que se miraba ❤️ I’m sure he smiles every day at how much his mommy and daddy love him 🥰❤️❤️❤️.
I lost my brother and dad last year. 39 days apart. This past year has gone so fast that I didn’t even realize it. I fee like I’ve been living in a cloud surrounded by my pain and depression. Hearing Bryan break down hit me hard. I can see, feel, and hear his pain.
what you said is so true about intimacy after losing a baby and your personal experience with spirituality and how you process your grief.. thank you both for sharing your story. i pray you both get your rainbow baby
He needs his own podcast.
You gave me a sign to try and reach out more to my dad I’ve always been hurt the fact that my dad didn’t really reach out as much after I turned 18 and years passed and I feel like maybe it’s my turn to try ?? Thanks you girlie 🙏🏼💕💫
Okayyy but best one with Bryannnnn !!! Broke my heart when he cried 😭
Mayra and Bryan I loved this episode, you guys were so raw and made me cry so much lol. I pray for you guys daily, i know one day god will bless all of us grieving mommas with our rainbow babies 🫂❤️🌈
Bryan had me laughing throughout the video until the end, I cried with him. I felt his pain. You guys are very lucky to have each other.Also Myra talking about moving and Bryan looking shook had me dying. You can go stay in New York a week for Christmas that way you can experience Christmas with cold and snow ♥️
Bryan is like me I love my family and everything but I just don’t see myself being super close to them, I see other people being super close to there grandparents and aunt’s and stuff and im just like how do they do that 😂 whenever I get around my family I feel shy and uncomfortable.
I’m glad I’m not the only one 😬😀
Same 🙁
Thank you both for sharing the grief you experience from the loss of your child. Thank you Bryan for sharing your honest feelings and Myra for holding a safe space for Bryan to be vulnerable. Many men have a difficult time expressing themselves. It is a deep-rooted thing. It will take time, but I know more and more men will express how they truly feel.❤🙏
Im soo happy to hear God used this Guy to Minister and get the reassurance that it was Gods Plans .
So happy you both decided to Bring a Pastor to Baptize baby Brian in the hospital .
My Mom is also used by God tremendously and she is always desiring the holy spirit to move wherever she is preaching . It’s such a beautiful and unexplainable feeling🙏🙏🙏🙏
I absolutely loved this! I recently in May lost my twins at 9 weeks. It's so hard. It was my husband's and mine 1st together. He is staying strong for us and he shows his feelings here and there. But he really tries to stay strong for us. I relate so much to you guys. I'm really thankful for this podcast. Que dios los bendiga hoy y siempre ❤️
I had to watch this in parts. It was breaking my heart! I was crying, smiling and laughing. But, thank you for being honest about your grief. It’s very hard to be vulnerable. ❤️💕
After you do your research and narrow your dream-city list to maybe your top 3 places, maybe rent an Airbnb for a few weeks and go live life to get a small taste of what that would be like. Even during the different seasons. It's a big decision to move, so "trying it out" seems like a great option. Wishing you guys the best!! *Abrazos*
My best friend lost her first born son in February of 2006. He was only 2 months old. Exactly 2 years later, her second son was born on the Exact day her first son passed away. The pain of losing him never goes away, but she believes God sent her him to help heal her heart a bit. You guys are a beautiful couple, and I love hearing about Bryancito. Signs are real, and he's always with you both. Sending lots of love your way. ❤️ ❤️
Aww it’s hurt my heart to see Brian crying!!
Praying for you both!! Hope that you get your Rainbow Baby soon!!
🌈❤️💛Although I've always been super Christian, I had the urge to see a medium after my dad passed away. I didn't feel like God was mad at me about it. And honestly, i felt sooooooo Good afterwards! 🌈❤️🙏
Loved loved loved this episode. Don’t get me wrong we definitely missed Karina but hearing y’all talking about baby boy and how you guys grieve was amazing. You two are amazing parents 🤍
Mayra: I can’t fucking stand you right now
Brayan: You’re sitting down 😂
Love y’all ❤️
My husban is not close to his family at all! I always remind him to call them, visit them etc. And when we see them i always let them know its not me! Especially in latin culture they always assume its the wife🥺 i'm 10000x close to my family i see/talk to them every day
It's so sad i could just see the sadness in bryan eyes😔😔 PRAYING 4 U MAYRA AND BRYAN 🙏🙏
Babe we FORSURE need a giggle podcast next !!❤️
Chins and tears right lol
They’re always making me giggle 💁🏻♀️😭👌
frrr lmaooo
The fact that you guys don’t have to address this situation but you guys do just to spread awareness is so thoughtful of you guys ❤️much love 💕
Goosebumps from head to toe, only if you’ve been through this you will understand and relate 1000% 🥺💔😭 coming from the mother side and dad side this is real. The questioning never stops, you will never be at peace. 💔
Mayra & Brian, this podcast was amazing and thank you so much for speaking about your testimony with God ,especially in the times that we are in ,it’s important to share what God has done for us in our lives ,yes not all people are with it and they may not like you mentioning God but that is OK ,cause guess what the world hated God first.. this I truly believe is your purpose in life especially because of the platform that you have you can also lead other people to God so they can also witness and feel God‘s presence and how he truly has planned our life for every single one of us ,as long as we trust in him ,we find peace through it all ,yes life is not perfect but he never promised that ,as long as we trust in him he won’t let us down & will guide us in the path of righteousness, & Truly loving God is not a religion, Being a true Christian means to be “Christ Like” , God is Love ,
He’s peace , He’s Joy, He’s patience , He’s understanding, Forgiving, God IS GOOOD 🤍 , & he wants us to lead a life like that! this is your purpose in Life, Jesus is calling you! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 love you guys soooo much! 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Loved this podcast ❤️ I love Mayra and Bryan’s communication skills.
God talks to us in so many different ways, he used your friend to talk to you through him and that is amazing, it’s such a blessing
In the Bible it says,
Leviticus 19:31
“Do not turn to mediums or necromancers; do not seek them out, and so make yourselves unclean by them: I am the Lord your God.
Leviticus 20:6
“If a person turns to mediums and necromancers, whoring after them, I will set my face against that person and will cut him off from among his people.
Isaiah 8:19
And when they say to you, “Inquire of the mediums and the necromancers who chirp and mutter,” should not a people inquire of their God? Should they inquire of the dead on behalf of the living? I’m
This is 100% correct!!!
Yup!
Yeah it's just her grief seeking relief, who can blame her, the bible also says people perish for lack of knowledge. We must pray that the Lord strengthens her heart and sharpens her discernment. Looking at the comments you got people encouraging her to read tarot and consult mediums and take psychedelic drugs.. (which is just laughable bc mayra says even just weed makes her anxiety tailspin), theres a lot of voices and opinions coming their way, we must pray for the Lord to keep them
@@chelllllssss this is absolutely true as well. It’s a very tough situation, but the beautiful thing is that our God is amazing and perfect and I know her little bundle of joy is coming soon. Dios nunca se equivoca. As terrible as it might sound, this situation has brought her closer to God, and although no one can see the bigger picture I am positive this will be a tremendous testimony for her life one day.
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
😭😭😭😭 I'm literally over here crying with you Brian. I pray that God heals both your heart's 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Yes! I live with my husband and his parents but I try and see my parents at least once a week, but talk to my mom daily. My husband wasn’t one to like hang out with his parents, or show emotions and I constantly encourage him to do things with his parents even without me sometimes. So now he’ll go eat lunch, or dinner or take his mom to the movies just them 2 and I know that means so much to my MIL. I would hate for my kids in the future to just stop being around because of their SO.
God is not a religion, God wants us to have a relationship, so what you said 💯 true. We may not understand God’s plan, but he is in control. When my brother was dying, God told my pastor that my brother was going to be ok. I had faith he would pull through. But God meant he will be fine, that he will be going to heaven. I carry that at the front of my mind to keep going. Loosing a loved one will one of the headrest things, but we have to have faith in God’s plan.
I’m with you 100%. When I found out I was pregnant my husband’s sister was pregnant with a baby girl & his brother was expecting with a baby boy. So we were all pregnant together but months apart. Unfortunately I had a miscarriage and was completely devastated. When my niece was born it was soooo difficult holding her and seeing her and when my nephew was born it was even harder since it was almost the time when I was due. They are both 2 years old already & I love them sooo much, but I’m soooo attached to my nephew. Idk what it is but we have such a special connection, my husband, him & I. 💙
Watching this after crystal exposed her man so its crazy!
As someone who has has 4 miscarriages and 4 live births (first born premature at 34 weeks and stopped breathing for 21 seconds and 1 pregnancywas twins only 1 made it) this will hurt for a long time but u will love your future babies more than u ever imagined because you've gone thru loss of a child. I know you will have children. I see it in your future and I think you both will be amazing parents to them and Bryancito will always be guiding them and you. You speaking about it is a huge inspiration.
Losing a Child Really is Like Losing A Limb. Yes Life Continues but you are NEVER the Same. Its like losing a Leg you can still walk but no where near the same. Praying for Y'all Constantly. My Mom Lost My Brother the Night of his 20th Birthday 5 years ago. Although we Will Always Miss him and yearn for the Day we see him again we are now at peace in our Greiving journey knowing he is at peace with Our Creator. God Truly stays near the Broken Hearted 💛 Animo.
Good job Brian for being against witchcraft. People need to be careful bc all that just opens portals and not good ones.
Ohhh this episode is so validating. I lost my wife and I’s first, a boy, in January. Her coworkers wife was due two days before me, we lost Fin at 37 weeks. So being around them after their daughter came has been nearly impossible, even after three months. The pain of counting the months WITHOUT a child to compare mine to is enough, so I totally feel you Mayra.
Coming to the end of the episode- I hear you Brian. I relate so much. One bump in the road after another in my childhood, wanting only to be a parent of my own child- and losing our first and only. I’ve been the strong one in my family keeping it all together for.. all of my life. Raised my sisters with parents in the picture. Some days ya just gotta lose it for a little while, even in private. I always tell my wife when I’ve been having a bad day, even if I cried already, just to be sure I’m keeping that open communication so she knows where my mindset is.
Ahh perfect timing!! I was bored and ready to take a nap 🤭
Hey Mayra my heart goes out for you and Bryan but it's really important to stay away from mediums because God and mediums don't mix just hold on tight to God.
Please remember that God is enough 🤍 and he can do more for you than any medium could ever .
My estimated due date was sometime this week. It’s hard but this is my second miscarriage so it’s not as hard as my first one was. But it’s still sad that my daughter doesn’t get to be a big sister quite yet. She’s so ready for her forever friend. Love your podcast, and I pray for you guys to be able to grieve in a healthy way, much love 💕 💕
When I worked as a therapist at a religious counseling office, I had a patient who lost her son. Counseling helped her a lot to open up and speak about her experience, however, she never could fully be at peace. We started really thinking about what would help her and she told me she wanted to see a medium. It was something that was very controversial in her family because of her Christian religion, but I encouraged her to do if it would bring closure. She debated it for a while because she felt guilty and like she was betraying her religion. But she ended up doing it and she came back and told me it was an amazing experience and she didn't regret it at all. She finally was able to feel fully at peace. When I told my supervisor what helped her, I was judged as a therapist for encouraging it because again it was a religious counseling office. But I don't regret it one bit because the outcome was exactly what she needed. I say to just trust your gut and don't listen to anyone else.
Also I love how you corrected yourself & said OUR son 🫶🏻
God works in mysterious ways, but everything He does is absolutely perfect in His plan. Though we may not like it, or understand why, but that purpose is for a reason. Keep that relationship strong with God, keep seeking His Holy presence and you will see that precious baby boy one day in our Fathers paradise. ❣️
Mayra & Brian I have so much respect for you guys . You are so strong and you have so much ahead of you .
When Mayra used the analogy calling Bryancito a coke I just kept thinking no he is a DR PEPPER! 😇🫅🏻
I heard the podcast, but this one I wanted too watch on UA-cam forsure!!! This was a GREAT episode 🤍
This podcast has given me chills. 🥰
May god keep blessing you both
Mayra you would love New England! The states are definitely the vibes you’re looking for! Maine is gorgeous and so is Connecticut! However it does get really cold up that way. I live in Pennsylvania and we have the best of all seasons! Also A few towns in Jersey are cute too!
As you talk about Bryancito it just goes into my head as it was all a dream and I can’t imagine the torture and how crazy you can actually go. I’m so happy that you are constantly being sent beautiful reminders and signs that Bryancito is ok and was all meant to happen this way. God gives you battles you can put up with.
i literally love Bryan, he is a great husband for Myra!
Please don't entertain mediums or psychic this is not from God
I totally can relate to you both, I lost my son when he was six months when he passed away. I admire how you both are talking about it, especially Brian, my husband shut down and never really talked about it. It almost ended our marriage. Please keep communicating and supporting each other. ❤️
i had my baby May 2nd 2019 at 18 weeks 5 days i had him two weeks before my aunty had her son and i became so attached to her baby he helped me with my grief and her son was going to be 4 months older than my baby i was due in September but unfortunately i had him in May and my little cousin who’s now my godson he is so attached to me like i am to him and we have a special connection because of my lose and thanks to him i didn’t go to a dark place and get consumed in my sadness
Babies are magical and healing in this way
My heart breaks for you two. So much! Bryancito has so much love for you two. I wish you guys would tell all the signs he’s given but I also understand y’all want to cherish them between you two. Also, It’s very hard to get my husband to open up. Sometimes it’s so frustrating so from Bryan’s perspective about men holding things in, I do understand a bit. I wish you two nothing but the best for your future!
I completely understand. I was pregnant and I was so excited and I unfortunately lost it. My brother announced to me that him and his wife were expecting. It was hard because that baby was born and is the best little girl. But like is a reminder that my baby would have been the same age. So sometimes it gets me sad but I would never show it.
You guys are amazing and beautiful souls. Also, y’all need to move to Utah we get the best of all seasons fall is just amazing to see all the leaves change on out mountains. Wish you both the best on this journey ❤️
I feel y’all. I was pregnant with my sister and our babies had the same due date. So I want my nephew as he grows and it reminds me of how my baby would be. I had a miscarriage and loss my baby
I love this episode ♥️ Brayancito lives in all of your followers hearts thanks to you sharing your story and your piece of heaven with us so openly 👼
New subscriber. Got this video on recommendation and did not regret it a single bit. My husband and I can relate to you both 100%. Sending you hugs 🤍
Texas has all the seasons 🥺 I appreciate you guys for opening up. I can still tell this is still a very sensitive topic. But i admire your strength, remember god is always with you guys.
Absolutely!! There’s a little girl that is the same age my baby would have been if she lived and whenever I ask about her daughter, her eyes tear up because she knows I’m wondering what milestones my Baby would have accomplished. I love that little girl so much and I can’t help but to picture my baby when I see her.
Thank you for sharing. Love the podcast.
This video really made me wonder. First of all, I always had you both, you three, in my prayers and heart. My aunt passed away on Mother’s Day, a month later my dad had a stroke and on Saturday a week ago, another aunt passed away. My mom is devastated. Life is so difficult right now and I wait to get some validation myself. Thank you both for sharing. Your baby will always be proud of you both.
Absolutely loved this episode! You guys are two amazing individuals! Briancito is super proud of you both!
I wasn’t pregnant with anyone else but I remember a year after having a Still birth at 5 1/2 months with Twin boys my sister in law got pregnant with a boy and when i found out i was DEVASTATED i cried i screamed at god. Because we had tried for that whole year and nothiiinnggg. But i love my Nephew hes so cute. I feel like the hardest was holidays for us and people asking at my job how the babys was doing it was hard. Now almost 3 years later it isn’t as hard but some days are harder than most even with my miracle/Rainbow baby i see what i could have experienced with 2 boys and i had my son at 36 weeks so everything was all traumatic for us . I am loving each day , i love talking about my little boys all 3 of them and explaining what a still birth is! Much love guys
I absolutely love your podcast. And this was definitely a great episode. Good mix up 💕 but we miss you Karina 💜
8:53 not him saying cut the cameras 😂😂💀
Thank you two for opening up about the loss of your baby boy just yesterday me & my husband went for our second appointment where they were gonna do a pap on me but we were so anxious to finally get to hear our baby’s heartbeat for the first time that we asked my doctor if they could do it before they released me and she said of course. She came in with a machine set it up and had a hard time finding a heartbeat she said that machine was sometimes hard to find a heartbeat so she took us in a different room with a bigger fancier machine and got to it real quick the whole time I was getting a bad feeling since she wasn’t saying anything. She later tells us the bad news that our baby had no heartbeat & it just tore me apart.😢 planning everything around your baby to find out it’s gone was so hard for me to take in. Now I’m just trying to take it day by day it’s been a mix of so many emotions but watching you guys talk about your experience made it easier to know how many people go through this.
You guys are amazing parents!! I think you both would LOVE Colorado. All 4 seasons 🏔🏔🏔
Everyone has the gift of speaking with God you just have to have complete faith and actually want to hear what he’s saying I forgot how my pastor worded it once it was beautiful!! You guys might benefit from going to a Christian church the way Mayra speaks I think you both would get a much better understanding of what our relationships with God can be and how truly powerful we are because of the Holy Spirit with in us!
Yes 🙌 💯
Illinois Definitely!! I’m from LA born and raised been living here for 3 years now and of course I miss LA but I experience every season my kids are being raised in a good neighborhood. We can actually afford a house. We are very much happy♥️
Bryan is like let's step into reality lol