Valencia: "All my kids are grown." Yet has a 17 and 15 y/o. I notice women do this a lot on this show. To me, it looks like you're trying to lessen the blow of having kids to appeal to a man 😫
Omg, I've been thinking this too. When I hear "grown", I equate that to no longer needing your parent. Grown is completely independent and out of the house. Grown=Adult. Since when is a 15 y/o or a 17 y/o grown? Those are JUVENILES!
@@KWB466 my thoughts exactly, if they can't sign a legally binding contract they are juveniles. I was out the house and financially independent at 18 like most people from my generation.
Guest:Crunchy black Kendra:Ha,Ha country black G: No, crunchy black K: Oh, country black G: No, c-r-u-n-c-h-y black like the rapper😂 K: Oh , there’s a rapper named country black? G: Yes, no crunchy black Kendra: Got it! Country black😂😂😂
Your daughter going to prison for the car crash that killed your brother is crazy, I hope her daughter gets therapy. And hopefully Shanitha is putting the same type of time into getting therapy that she is trying to find a man.
It's not. I went to school with a girl who killed her sister during a DUI crash. She spent EIGHT YEARS in jail, it ran concurrently, which meant she served all eight. So sad ..
KENDRA, KENDRA, KENDRA. Pleeeease lay off of the ENERGY DRINKS. Please. That is what took out Kevin S. My sister was on the go like you and drank those all the time to boost her energy levels. She now has a bad heart after years of artificially stimulating it with energy drinks. Your future self will thank you. ❤
You're right about the energy drinks. People used to beg KS to lay of the Red Bull which he drank like water. I don't know why people won't listen when it comes to their health. Maybe it's one of nature's ways of culling the herd. They will not listen.
Dee mentioned she’s from Brooklyn that’s why she’s too blunt and direct, I get masculine if anything from those women. New York chicks got that masculine vibe not all but alot. Also I think she should date men without kids, instead of saying “fu** them kids” and possibly having an issue come about with a man with kids, just date a childless one.
Kendra spoke the truth here. alot of ppl keep dating or talking to ppl they dont even like. its weird. ppl need to stop wasting eachother's time. especially folks over 30. you know darn well you dont like someone within the first 3 dates.
i absolutely can't stand shanitha, she going all around the world just to answer questions. These people waste so much time giving up unnecessary information. Just get to the point.
It's a point of contention for her having to deal with the lose of a sibling, but knowing your own child is responsible for his death. She's dealing with the lesser of two evils here, not talking about it or talking about it, and spreading awareness and to deal with her own mental health issues . I went to high school with a girl who killed her twin in a DUI crash and went to prison for almost seven years. She still has a hard time giving her account of what happened that night almost twenty years after the fact. And, she's still coping with her demons drugs, mental health etc. t It's so sad...
This is true, but Kendra made the choice to follow through on that request from God. He speaks to us all, but we don't always listen. Give that woman her props.
@@mogetit5999 again, it's her choice to give. Without her taking the action, there would be no blessing. We should always give props to God, but should also acknowledge each other for doing the best with the free will he gave us. It's a powerful thing and encourages others to open up and follow suit.
Why in the world do people call when they can’t talk or aren’t ready? Calling while driving? Calling when they aren’t dressed? Or feel they look a mess? Or if they are in an environment where they can’t hear a word you’re saying? And then say things like “I didn’t expect you to call me”. Even though THEY called. Lol.
@@andreamoore7002 imo a flaw is something that is not ideal but someone could give grace for improvement. Who in the world would wants to date a controlling person while they work on it.. it's a no go.. but women are allowed to be as shifty as they want to be and men are supposed to tolerate it. 🤷🏾
@indianajones443 No one Wants To Be, but here we are with hundreds of people with controlling significant others/spouses, and a big majority is women with controlling men. Every day all day.
Just all women are special? What a horrible approach to life, no one is special, we’re all just people. You can pay but don’t promote that they are anything more than just a regular human bc they have kewchie, they come standard on every model
what i got from the story was that they just called off the wedding but stayed together. and then decided they didn't feel any need to get married. that isn't weird or crazy.
@@gracedandblessed99 what I got from this story is that women can't just say what the thing is. They would rather talk circles around the truth and just flat out say what the issue was. I get so tired of hearing all these riddles
Some women Kill me with the shady comments (I don’t believe in abortions) but I guess they don’t believe in condoms or having kids with their husbands either make that make sense four Kids with three different men that’s a good look 💯
You know what kills me is when some women have multiple abortions and think that coo. Neither one is okay. It’s about the choices we make. I wish I knew then what I know now. I’m proud to say my children have definitely made better decisions than I have in the past. Thank God ❤
@@RocSteady78 I personally I am pro-choice her body, her decision I never met anybody who bragged about having an abortion. But a lot of irresponsible women have multiple baby daddies always throw shade at women who decide to have children with their husband only or with one person only with that comment it’s totally offensive planned Parenthood is better for society an tax payers to each their own in my opinion only God has a heaven and hell to put people in, we have a right to respectfully disagree on this one you have a blessed day🙏🏽💯
I hate that "I'm from Brooklyn" stereotype.I was born there and lived there over 40 years.I never been in trouble or walk around with a chip on my shoulder.
The thing is men run thru women like water runs out of a faucet. Just because we call ourselves dating for two weeks or even two months, i dnt want to have sex. These relationships dont last long now and days and im not about to be out here having sex with men because we dating for a few months. And if you do have sex and yall break up, you get with someone else, yall have sex and then break up, you are considered a 304. Make it make sense.
That's a very understandable stance for a woman who has not had a bunch of kids for men who they were not married to. If a woman is a baby momma with multiple baby daddies, she can have that stance, but she should not expect to be taken seriously.
@@Coolsnacker these women arent going to the sperm banks but i sure dnt take men serious who have multiple baby mamas and/or dnt take care of their kids. Lets be real: most of these babies are unplanned. Men are just shooting up these wombs like gangstas do in a drive by. I dnt deal with men who are for everyone. I just know im not about to have sex with you because we call ourselves in a relationship but havent built a solid foundation to stand on. Men will say they are in a relationship with a woman so he can f. Once he get the p, he's out. Yea yall play the "long" game.
A Savant pronounced almost like croissant is someone who has extreme aptitude in a specific area. Like a musical genius, like a Prince in Music or LeBron in baske or Mozart in composition. I think the pronunciation threw her off.
Honesty is lacking in most relationships this days. They never match their actions with their words. A Lot of people lack, love to themselves credibility and protection, that is why they can't give what they don't have.
while I totally support people running their businesses I am not a fan of asking People they last name. That’s something people should be able to disclose when they are comfortable. ITS GIVING HELPING STALKERS FIND PEOPLE. Kendra please stick with the user name’s And let folks disclose their names at their own will. Still got love For you though
Kendra you are mostly right but please accept that you are in the entertainment field. Our culture puts more money into entertainment than we do life. We pay more as a culture to hear someone sing a song than we do someone who replaces a heart and saves a life.
12:39 We would all do well to read more. Reading improves speech, writing, develops critical thinking skills, and so much more. A word like "savant," its pronunciation and meaning will never escape you again.
Please help me understand women and gay men why do y'all expect every man to make $100k? Just bc he makes it does not mean he got $100k to spend on you. No we don't want someone with no money. Are you going to spend your $100k on him??
i think its just a sign that the person is ambitious, hardworking, and smart. most ppl want to date someone successful with their head on straight. many ppl over 30 make 100k. its not that uncommon. also its a turn off to date someone who is always complaining about money and gotta wait 2 weeks for their paycheck before they can do something fun.
I think Kendra is right on point, and she acknowledges it well like she should….don’t take credit for anything God has given you , no matter how hard you’ve worked for it , and someone sings your praise, these people should thank God for Kendra first
@@SimplyCurvee you misunderstood. You can get $50 dress shoes for men or women. But your avg women is walking right past those. Her standards are too high then to subject yourself to 50 dollar shoes
Valencia showed us the reality of a woman who has four kids and is dating. I think the first date situation is so tricky, but being single I always expected a first date to be paid for.
As a NC native, I see that B-More Tipsy chick ain't too bright. Yes, we in the South but we more East Coast (keeping in mind NC a Mid-Atlantic state) than she'd like to believe lol
When Valencia said she pull out her wallet to pay/split the bill on a date the chat went up in flames 🔥 😄😁😆, women hate hearing other women say they split bills. Kendra was so heated she couldn’t speak for a minute 🤣. They bout to flood Valencia DMs.
Kendra act like she be talking to Nana’s and PawPaw’s born in 40s & 50s describing how to download the app per thier phone device. Most her audience is phone savvy enough to know how to download apps.
Kendra forcing her OPINIONS on people like they're facts. How you gonna tell a man what he should want to do with his money Kendra? If a man doesn't want to pay for the woman on a first date that's his prerogative. I encourage it. Fellas stop paying for the first date or any date for that matter unless you want to and have determined that the woman is even worth it.
Not for relationship. The pool is 1000% smaller. Men that age are more likely to be married or taken a vow to singledom, the men available tend to be much older. Also if you're in the city that you're born and raised its extremely difficult. The mindset of the black community when it comes to dating and marriage is the reason why we have a 25% marriage rate. Its a good case study. So many women think stats dont apply to them. Lol. So many factors in finding your person but hey what do i know. Lol
Dee was the only good pick. But she only named 1 flaw aggressively. Being a planner is not a flaw. But being adventurous is not a flaw. Controlling in the way she put it is not a flaw. The only flaw is the aggressive. But the bad weather, high population, and expensive cost of living will bring out the masculine in anybody. lol.
Kendra is so sweet, does she really not know? Woman are not going for Applebees dates apparently. But yes I agree, a first date should always be by the man and it definitely doesn’t have to be 200 plus or at least it shouldn’t.
@@shialovern475 Yeah I know she mentioned that at the end with regards to last guest. I made my point with regard to first or second guest. Not knowing it will come up again. I am in agreement with her. But as someone who’s been out of the dating game for well over 10 years, and if we believe the internet. Most woman in general are shunning Applebees and it’s equivalent, which is crazy to me. The goal shouldn’t be high end, it should be where you can be yourself and enjoy each other’s company. High end is supposed to be special for the one you love or the company you care about, (girlfriends/family) not a random chick or dude who may piss you off by the end of the night.
Kendra misunderstands that question about paying untill intimacy. It's not about the first date it's about all the dates it's going to take to get from the first date to the physical. If the first date is a couple hundred dollars and she's on that 90 day rule for example it may cost upwards of 5k based 2 dates a week. So is she willing to pay for all of those dates until we get to the physical? It's not about the first date. The $50 first date doesn't exist in reality anymore
$50 dates do exist…and like Kendra said, a guy who’s really into you would LOVE to date and court you….no ifs and buts about that. MEN KNOW WHO AND WHAT THEY WANT! PERIDOT……!!!!!!!
kendra g audience could benefit from learning more about global cultures and experiences that are not their own. valencia's story of calling a wedding off because of stress or family dynamics and drama isn't weird at all. Happens all of the time, but i suppose some modern U.S. unions don't care about family dynamics or culture (also may be why U.S. leads in divorces) it seems in her case they agreed to call off the wedding but did not call off their relationship . and then decided that they didn't want marriage at all and stayed together in a committed relationship and had and raised their children until they broke up for whatever reason. and that is their choice as they are the ones in the relationship. it's weird that folks in the comments throw their experiences on others. one size doesn't fit all.
She doesn't value herself, only women with low self esteem would do such thing. Being independant has absolutely nothing to do with you paying for a date. As a woman, my time is valuable, my energy is valuable so why would I be a man escort for and paying on top of it. I can pay for my own shit, I go to a restaurant on my own, I traveled on my own and I pay for them, but if a man wants a escort to go around with then he should pay for it.
The concept of a provider is based on a man getting with a young woman and starting a family after geriatric pregnancy age ladies 35 stop asking for a provider you cooked
My man & I first date was a little over $100 & we had a TIMEEEE!! We did dinner & a movie. We got snacks from family dollar & a bottle too. I snuck it in my purse lol. We’ve been inseparable ever since & it’s NOTHING that man won’t do for me. Big daddy make it happen for big mama. 💜🫶🏽❤️
He doesn’t have to be but it would less burden on a woman so she could focus on cooking, cleaning, being the primary caregiver for the kids and being a wife which is inclusive of staying in shape and being there for your husband.
@@ItsMeYourfavorite7 I subscribe to this ideology, for the most part. If we need extra help in difficult times; however, the woman should not have a problem contributing financially.
Coffee, breakfast, & lunch can be purchased for $50 regardless of where you live. However, you won’t be able to afford alcoholic beverages/bottomless mimosas on that date but her point is dinner dates are not the only options. Get creative and show a woman that you can provide for her even if you don’t make $100K. It’s all about what you can do with the resources you have currently available. If your conversation game is strong, you are talking and not focused on the food/drinks anyway.
Valencia: "All my kids are grown." Yet has a 17 and 15 y/o. I notice women do this a lot on this show. To me, it looks like you're trying to lessen the blow of having kids to appeal to a man 😫
Omg, I've been thinking this too. When I hear "grown", I equate that to no longer needing your parent. Grown is completely independent and out of the house. Grown=Adult. Since when is a 15 y/o or a 17 y/o grown? Those are JUVENILES!
That's exactly what it is. Because everyone knows its harder to get a good man if you have kids.
Exactly luv!!
Ridge even the 19 year old is still a child
@@KWB466 my thoughts exactly, if they can't sign a legally binding contract they are juveniles. I was out the house and financially independent at 18 like most people from my generation.
Guest:Crunchy black
Kendra:Ha,Ha country black
G: No, crunchy black
K: Oh, country black
G: No, c-r-u-n-c-h-y black like the rapper😂
K: Oh , there’s a rapper named country black?
G: Yes, no crunchy black
Kendra: Got it! Country black😂😂😂
I was yelling at the phone
C R U N C H Y black😂😂😂
And I see what you did there KG KG KG KG 😊
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Leave Kendra alone, it’s French. 😂
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Your daughter going to prison for the car crash that killed your brother is crazy, I hope her daughter gets therapy. And hopefully Shanitha is putting the same type of time into getting therapy that she is trying to find a man.
It's not. I went to school with a girl who killed her sister during a DUI crash. She spent EIGHT YEARS in jail, it ran concurrently, which meant she served all eight. So sad ..
You must be crazy. It's nothing wrong with her having a man in her life.
@@andreamoore7002 I never said it was 😆
KENDRA, KENDRA, KENDRA. Pleeeease lay off of the ENERGY DRINKS. Please. That is what took out Kevin S. My sister was on the go like you and drank those all the time to boost her energy levels. She now has a bad heart after years of artificially stimulating it with energy drinks. Your future self will thank you. ❤
I’m concerned too, you’re right.
You're right about the energy drinks. People used to beg KS to lay of the Red Bull which he drank like water. I don't know why people won't listen when it comes to their health. Maybe it's one of nature's ways of culling the herd. They will not listen.
I hope she stops before it's too late. 🫶🏽
We tried to tell KS the same thing. He didn't listen.
Someone else told her that before, yet she's still consuming them. She needs to be careful drinking those 😢
Dee mentioned she’s from Brooklyn that’s why she’s too blunt and direct, I get masculine if anything from those women. New York chicks got that masculine vibe not all but alot. Also I think she should date men without kids, instead of saying “fu** them kids” and possibly having an issue come about with a man with kids, just date a childless one.
All of the them
agreed other than that she was cool, best outta all of them tonight thats for sure
@@TruthFLA 😂😂🤣
I’m from Brooklyn and I’m here to tell to you… I’m very aggressive 😂
You must be really feminine to think a woman like that is masculine. She’s all woman
Kendra was not playing today lol yall are adults! Yall call! Be ready!! I’m not feeling good and my patience is thin!😂
Every last one of the guests were looking for a man, even the one man that came on the show. These are truly the end of times
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What makes these the end times?
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Kendra spoke the truth here. alot of ppl keep dating or talking to ppl they dont even like. its weird. ppl need to stop wasting eachother's time. especially folks over 30. you know darn well you dont like someone within the first 3 dates.
i absolutely can't stand shanitha, she going all around the world just to answer questions. These people waste so much time giving up unnecessary information. Just get to the point.
It's a point of contention for her having to deal with the lose of a sibling, but knowing your own child is responsible for his death. She's dealing with the lesser of two evils here, not talking about it or talking about it, and spreading awareness and to deal with her own mental health issues . I went to high school with a girl who killed her twin in a DUI crash and went to prison for almost seven years. She still has a hard time giving her account of what happened that night almost twenty years after the fact. And, she's still coping with her demons drugs, mental health etc. t
It's so sad...
Agreed!
Bullseye 🎯 😂😂😂😂😂
I want you to shut up! NEXT!
Facts.
Serita look every bit of 10yrs older than she is, those hookah lounges and henny shots gave her the business.
Fake eyelashes, hair and nails ain't helping either. But forget about what BM want.
@@6time686I can’t
I’m screaming!!! I haven’t even look at the video yet… just checking the comments to see if it had any one worth watching…you’re a mess😂😂😂
I concur!
She’s giving old lady face too with the upturnt nose definitely looks about 55-60
Kendra didn’t save you, God did that! He works through people
This is true, but Kendra made the choice to follow through on that request from God. He speaks to us all, but we don't always listen. Give that woman her props.
@@MosesJD86 I give all the props and praise to the Most High! He blessed Kendra so she could give tf
@@mogetit5999 again, it's her choice to give. Without her taking the action, there would be no blessing. We should always give props to God, but should also acknowledge each other for doing the best with the free will he gave us. It's a powerful thing and encourages others to open up and follow suit.
@@MosesJD86 I agree with you bro! But God deserves all the glory, not man. A simple thank you will suffice. Remember God is a jealous God💯
It's ok for her to thank Kendra.
Why in the world do people call when they can’t talk or aren’t ready? Calling while driving? Calling when they aren’t dressed? Or feel they look a mess? Or if they are in an environment where they can’t hear a word you’re saying? And then say things like “I didn’t expect you to call me”. Even though THEY called. Lol.
because they don't have a brain, they're just empty vessels 😅
being unprepared as a grown ass adult is a major turn-off
@@KeepWatchin5.56definitely!
Because they can't wait and do nothing until Kendra calls them.
It’s because they think “click the link to be a guest” means click to watch. 😆
Being controlling isn't a flaw. it's a 🚩
It's definitely both but
most people are not self aware
@@andreamoore7002 imo a flaw is something that is not ideal but someone could give grace for improvement. Who in the world would wants to date a controlling person while they work on it.. it's a no go.. but women are allowed to be as shifty as they want to be and men are supposed to tolerate it. 🤷🏾
@@indianajones443 so its a flaw but one that you personally would not accept. Everyone’s flaws 🚩 to someone.
@indianajones443 No one Wants To Be, but here we are with hundreds of people with controlling significant others/spouses, and a big majority is women with controlling men. Every day all day.
Shanitha just needs some shapewear, makeup, and energy!
Where I come from we take care of women because they’re special
Please take care of me ❤
Just all women are special? What a horrible approach to life, no one is special, we’re all just people. You can pay but don’t promote that they are anything more than just a regular human bc they have kewchie, they come standard on every model
Special as in not quite all there mentally?
I'm so happy for the ppl who find real love. I patiently waiting for my love story, wish I would not have missed Kendra live in Chicago
To call off a wedding by a man you had 4 kids by ! Because of family drama is a big red flag
So she had a baby in the oven and called off the wedding. And then she proceeded to have three more with the dude.
Thats Crazy!
Like huh?
Very. They could have done courthouse no fuss… her stress response was odd
what i got from the story was that they just called off the wedding but stayed together. and then decided they didn't feel any need to get married. that isn't weird or crazy.
@@gracedandblessed99 what I got from this story is that women can't just say what the thing is. They would rather talk circles around the truth and just flat out say what the issue was. I get so tired of hearing all these riddles
The first girl is pretty
And she seems intelligent too
That’s your opinion
VERRYYYY
If you like overweight women I guess
What's the name of the dating app she on
Some women Kill me with the shady comments (I don’t believe in abortions) but I guess they don’t believe in condoms or having kids with their husbands either make that make sense four Kids with three different men that’s a good look 💯
THIS!!! 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 #PraiseBreak!! 💃🏾💃🏾
You know what kills me is when some women have multiple abortions and think that coo. Neither one is okay. It’s about the choices we make. I wish I knew then what I know now. I’m proud to say my children have definitely made better decisions than I have in the past. Thank God ❤
@@RocSteady78 I personally I am pro-choice her body, her decision I never met anybody who bragged about having an abortion. But a lot of irresponsible women have multiple baby daddies always throw shade at women who decide to have children with their husband only or with one person only with that comment it’s totally offensive planned Parenthood is better for society an tax payers to each their own in my opinion only God has a heaven and hell to put people in, we have a right to respectfully disagree on this one you have a blessed day🙏🏽💯
I hate that "I'm from Brooklyn" stereotype.I was born there and lived there over 40 years.I never been in trouble or walk around with a chip on my shoulder.
I dont think she said either lol
Warning ⚠️ do not do drugs while having a cold. You have got to be out your mind to believe that would help 😂
I'm so tired of the misuse of the word celibate. Abstaining from sex and celibacy are different.
That’s right Kendra. To God be the Glory. You will continue to be blessed for how You allow Him to use you. CONGRATS on your magazine cover.
Wow! That’s sad Valencia ☹️ that you’ve never experienced a man paying for a date😮
That’s unfortunate.
The thing is men run thru women like water runs out of a faucet. Just because we call ourselves dating for two weeks or even two months, i dnt want to have sex. These relationships dont last long now and days and im not about to be out here having sex with men because we dating for a few months. And if you do have sex and yall break up, you get with someone else, yall have sex and then break up, you are considered a 304. Make it make sense.
Yes that part
That's a very understandable stance for a woman who has not had a bunch of kids for men who they were not married to. If a woman is a baby momma with multiple baby daddies, she can have that stance, but she should not expect to be taken seriously.
@@Coolsnacker these women arent going to the sperm banks but i sure dnt take men serious who have multiple baby mamas and/or dnt take care of their kids. Lets be real: most of these babies are unplanned. Men are just shooting up these wombs like gangstas do in a drive by. I dnt deal with men who are for everyone. I just know im not about to have sex with you because we call ourselves in a relationship but havent built a solid foundation to stand on. Men will say they are in a relationship with a woman so he can f. Once he get the p, he's out. Yea yall play the "long" game.
A Savant pronounced almost like croissant is someone who has extreme aptitude in a specific area. Like a musical genius, like a Prince in Music or LeBron in baske or Mozart in composition. I think the pronunciation threw her off.
*basketball
Am watching you all the way from Hong Kong my black queen
Hello 🤩, greetings
I guess these people don’t know that we’re listening…How must all your kids are grown but one is 17 and one is 15???🤔
Honesty is lacking in most relationships this days. They never match their actions with their words.
A Lot of people lack, love to themselves credibility and protection, that is why they can't give what they don't have.
while I totally support people running their businesses I am not a fan of asking
People they last name. That’s something people should be able to disclose when they are comfortable. ITS GIVING HELPING STALKERS FIND PEOPLE. Kendra please stick with the user name’s And let folks disclose their names at their own will. Still got love
For you though
You can always lie
@@TheCasou true and they can also leave it at usernames and move on
I gotta agree on that one... yeah asking ppl last name on a public platform is a bit much unless they already a public figure
Valencia very desperate and masculine that’s why the men allow her to pay 💯
Kendra you are mostly right but please accept that you are in the entertainment field. Our culture puts more money into entertainment than we do life. We pay more as a culture to hear someone sing a song than we do someone who replaces a heart and saves a life.
Great Show Today Kendra !!!
Love The Long Shows !!!
Technically, a sapiosexual is truly attracted to a person’s mind and intellect first. This means they can find attraction to either men or women.
ooh!😮
12:39 We would all do well to read more. Reading improves speech, writing, develops critical thinking skills, and so much more. A word like "savant," its pronunciation and meaning will never escape you again.
I figured that's what they meant and KG and the Book lover weren't familiar with the word .Or maybe the OP spelled it wrong and that threw them off
Dee is me!!! 😂😂 We share so many needs & qualities!
Good conversation at the end!
It's funny. i was just wondering to myself not to long ago where Zach is. Thanks for reminding us, kendra.
Please help me understand women and gay men why do y'all expect every man to make $100k? Just bc he makes it does not mean he got $100k to spend on you. No we don't want someone with no money. Are you going to spend your $100k on him??
i think its just a sign that the person is ambitious, hardworking, and smart. most ppl want to date someone successful with their head on straight. many ppl over 30 make 100k. its not that uncommon. also its a turn off to date someone who is always complaining about money and gotta wait 2 weeks for their paycheck before they can do something fun.
I think Kendra is right on point, and she acknowledges it well like she should….don’t take credit for anything God has given you , no matter how hard you’ve worked for it , and someone sings your praise, these people should thank God for Kendra first
right kendra; it's your get your life together season.
Kendra is the shit get better mama feel better
Shanitha with that soft spoken voice she wants her bills paid
Too many liars on here.
Deal breakers: NO LIARS 💀
The $50 first date doesn't exist in reality anymore. Kendra needs to stop
I didn't spend a dime on my first date with my wife. All we did was talk and sightsee.
@@demetriusjames9535right everything doesn’t come with a price tag
Beach date, museum, picnic, and ice cream dates are all under $50
@@SimplyCurvee you misunderstood. You can get $50 dress shoes for men or women. But your avg women is walking right past those. Her standards are too high then to subject yourself to 50 dollar shoes
@@SimplyCurvee there is a whole genre of tik Tok videos dedicated to train women to not accept a coffee date.
Valencia showed us the reality of a woman who has four kids and is dating. I think the first date situation is so tricky, but being single I always expected a first date to be paid for.
Finally a Kendra G Contestant that's likable.
I hope not to get block for trolling.
Sarita is not 42 I’m sorry. You 50 something quit playing gurl
The Tipsy name says it all. What a disaster.
I’m crying ‼️‼️‼️😭😭😭😭
As a NC native, I see that B-More Tipsy chick ain't too bright. Yes, we in the South but we more East Coast (keeping in mind NC a Mid-Atlantic state) than she'd like to believe lol
When Valencia said she pull out her wallet to pay/split the bill on a date the chat went up in flames 🔥 😄😁😆, women hate hearing other women say they split bills. Kendra was so heated she couldn’t speak for a minute 🤣. They bout to flood Valencia DMs.
Unfortunately, she's extremely masculine and that's probably going to keep her where she's at...
Yes they will flood her DMs but idk why anyone would be mad lol😅
@@Nitanota facts! They’re not logical that’s what it is lol
The crazy part is alot of MN wouldn't let her pay even if she tried to. But she would earn some points for at least making the offer to do so.
Why would women be mad about that? They don’t want to follow gender norms so why should men ?
Celibate until a relationship. Why allow a man to stay with you for a month, if you aren't in a relationship?
First guest said FTK 😭😭💀💀😂😂‼️‼️
"F#$k them kids what about me" is the craziest quote. 😂😂😂😂😂
Kendra act like she be talking to Nana’s and PawPaw’s born in 40s & 50s describing how to download the app per thier phone device. Most her audience is phone savvy enough to know how to download apps.
That's true; the person who doesn't want you take you through hoops.
People be on here Praising Kendra Like she God.. It’s weird
No kid policy, if you do not have kids SMART, INTELLIGENCE, AND BEAUTIFUL. I made that BIG MISTAKE of marriage with kids.
Kendra you can’t tell men what to do! I’m dating the way want to date! Kendra tf? 😂😂😂
Shanitha took too much time.Damn
Lol yes!
1st lady seems nice. Her profile pics look very different from what she really looks like
I thought so until she said F them kids. Like Ma'am, really?
Back for the 2nd time kills me.....
Kendra forcing her OPINIONS on people like they're facts. How you gonna tell a man what he should want to do with his money Kendra? If a man doesn't want to pay for the woman on a first date that's his prerogative. I encourage it. Fellas stop paying for the first date or any date for that matter unless you want to and have determined that the woman is even worth it.
orange juice is good for a cold too kuz ken fresh oranges tho
B-more says she is street and book smart. However, her outcomes are 3 BDs with zero marriage.
Yes! The results for her life decisions have been strictly for the street.
@@faythecombest7978 😅🤣
Men don’t care about level headedness! We want beauty period!
Men should pay for the first date period!! It can be a meet and greet for ice cream but he needs to pay..🙂
Equality is a bitc…
Drizzle Drizzle
I like Valencia.That Australian accent ❤.
Women that are in the 40s club are still young women.
Not for relationship. The pool is 1000% smaller. Men that age are more likely to be married or taken a vow to singledom, the men available tend to be much older.
Also if you're in the city that you're born and raised its extremely difficult. The mindset of the black community when it comes to dating and marriage is the reason why we have a 25% marriage rate. Its a good case study. So many women think stats dont apply to them. Lol. So many factors in finding your person but hey what do i know. Lol
1:00:24 The pain, hurt, insecurities and lack of self-esteem are breaking through the screen. 😢
this B more woman give me 304 vibes I think she just for fun nothing more she for the streets
Dee was the only good pick. But she only named 1 flaw aggressively. Being a planner is not a flaw. But being adventurous is not a flaw. Controlling in the way she put it is not a flaw. The only flaw is the aggressive. But the bad weather, high population, and expensive cost of living will bring out the masculine in anybody. lol.
That’s your opinion
@@Tag187 That's a fact. Who else was a good pick? Let me guess nobody? lol.
@@Rashaadthegr8I think he’s a bot
@@blackingingerpurrin ok
Kendra is so sweet, does she really not know? Woman are not going for Applebees dates apparently. But yes I agree, a first date should always be by the man and it definitely doesn’t have to be 200 plus or at least it shouldn’t.
Yall missed her point which is date within your means,don’t go broke trying to splurge on date to please someone, thats not the person for you.
@@shialovern475 Yeah I know she mentioned that at the end with regards to last guest. I made my point with regard to first or second guest. Not knowing it will come up again. I am in agreement with her. But as someone who’s been out of the dating game for well over 10 years, and if we believe the internet. Most woman in general are shunning Applebees and it’s equivalent, which is crazy to me. The goal shouldn’t be high end, it should be where you can be yourself and enjoy each other’s company. High end is supposed to be special for the one you love or the company you care about, (girlfriends/family) not a random chick or dude who may piss you off by the end of the night.
the woman from Michigan I wish YAHAWAHSL bless you an ur family
this show is getting ridiculous every show mo coming on saying they looking for a man YAHAWAHSL can't come soon enough this world need cleansing 🔥🔥🔥
Kendra doesn’t read my superchats anymore, I’m pissed!
This is not the complaint department, the last time I checked. Please call 1-800-Who-Cares 😅😅😅😅😅
@@Geneviev285that was kinda harsh😢
@@aaliyah6366 ; I’m in a good mood, hence the laughing emojis. I don’t take life seriously , most of the time.🫶🏽🫶🏽
Oh my goodness Baltimore ppl pleaseeeee let’s represent better!!! Damnnn
also maryland is technically in the south. and plenty of men in baltimore are providers and kind.
We’re not fallen for those catfish pic!
Kendra misunderstands that question about paying untill intimacy. It's not about the first date it's about all the dates it's going to take to get from the first date to the physical. If the first date is a couple hundred dollars and she's on that 90 day rule for example it may cost upwards of 5k based 2 dates a week. So is she willing to pay for all of those dates until we get to the physical? It's not about the first date.
The $50 first date doesn't exist in reality anymore
Yall need to just be with escorts
$50 dates do exist…and like Kendra said, a guy who’s really into you would LOVE to date and court you….no ifs and buts about that.
MEN KNOW WHO AND WHAT THEY WANT! PERIDOT……!!!!!!!
@@Geneviev285 there is no question that men want to go on low-cost dates. The issue is most women don't
@@TruthFLA ; yeah, you’re right..
kendra g audience could benefit from learning more about global cultures and experiences that are not their own.
valencia's story of calling a wedding off because of stress or family dynamics and drama isn't weird at all. Happens all of the time, but i suppose some modern U.S. unions don't care about family dynamics or culture (also may be why U.S. leads in divorces)
it seems in her case they agreed to call off the wedding but did not call off their relationship . and then decided that they didn't want marriage at all and stayed together in a committed relationship and had and raised their children until they broke up for whatever reason. and that is their choice as they are the ones in the relationship.
it's weird that folks in the comments throw their experiences on others. one size doesn't fit all.
No men looking for women tonight... let that sink in....
She said ‘FVCK Them Kids’
Ohhhh Chiiillleee…!!!
Why was the daughter in jail? I missed it. Was the daughter driving drunk or something?
Yes, she was drunk driving and kill3d her uncle. That was her Mom’s brother, the lady looking to date. She only got 3 yrs.
B-More Tipsey respectfully looks 60 sumthing
I agree. She looks much older than 42.
Cut it out okay? Well can we drinking? It's all the same smoke weed. It's the same shit. Praise the Lord!😂😅😊😊
She doesn't value herself, only women with low self esteem would do such thing. Being independant has absolutely nothing to do with you paying for a date. As a woman, my time is valuable, my energy is valuable so why would I be a man escort for and paying on top of it. I can pay for my own shit, I go to a restaurant on my own, I traveled on my own and I pay for them, but if a man wants a escort to go around with then he should pay for it.
The concept of a provider is based on a man getting with a young woman and starting a family after geriatric pregnancy age ladies 35 stop asking for a provider you cooked
My man & I first date was a little over $100 & we had a TIMEEEE!! We did dinner & a movie. We got snacks from family dollar & a bottle too. I snuck it in my purse lol. We’ve been inseparable ever since & it’s NOTHING that man won’t do for me. Big daddy make it happen for big mama. 💜🫶🏽❤️
Sharitha looks like fun.The type that can roll a blunt,and sip E and J with.No shade.Nice fun size."God"has no problem with weed.
Why should the man be the sole financial provider?
He doesn’t have to be but it would less burden on a woman so she could focus on cooking, cleaning, being the primary caregiver for the kids and being a wife which is inclusive of staying in shape and being there for your husband.
@@ItsMeYourfavorite7 I subscribe to this ideology, for the most part. If we need extra help in difficult times; however, the woman should not have a problem contributing financially.
@@demetriusjames9535 sure I think both parties must work together with house chores m, kids and with finances
Because many want to freeload off of MN. That simple. Only few will admit it though.
Gender roles should cease to exist if that's the case. Both parties should take care of the children, cook & clean and contribute financially.
Dee Thomas from What's Happening
$50 hell to tha no no no.
Ya Kendra out her mind
Coffee, breakfast, & lunch can be purchased for $50 regardless of where you live. However, you won’t be able to afford alcoholic beverages/bottomless mimosas on that date but her point is dinner dates are not the only options. Get creative and show a woman that you can provide for her even if you don’t make $100K. It’s all about what you can do with the resources you have currently available.
If your conversation game is strong, you are talking and not focused on the food/drinks anyway.
First girl Bad AF. Blacker the berry sweeter the juice.
My name is Irene I'm from Zambia 🇿🇲
Dorcas
Justin Simmons
Brooklyn, NYC
Kendra also Justin Simmons College Park Ga Greatest Guests on the KENDRA G SHOW!!!
How can you claim to be "Sapiosexual" but not know the meaning of Savant?.......I'm waiting.
Sweet Lady, but ummmmm she can talk🙄