Getting dating advice from 20 somethings in NYC🌹 [Being 30 & Single]
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Thank you also to our wonderful interviewees for droppin wisdom.
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@@JasonKi0 No
How about a feminist discount?
Hey Jbro! Was wondering if you wanted to collab in k town sometime. I’m a streamer/social entertainer at twitch/Afreeca but considering to get into UA-cam a bit deeper in the social environment and I feel I could learn from you. Would like to hang out, interview a bit, improv and go from there. Let me know if you’d like to connect. Thanks man. Also very curious about recording gear!
bad boys always. Women want the forbidden. Women want men that all the other women are also after. A single boring gentleman nice guy is not sexy.
Ryan dropping gems!!
“If you’re good at something, you’ll tell people, but if you’re great at something people will tell you!!” 💯
Thank you Uduak!!
It was so great meeting y’all!!! I’ve had so much experience with “bad boys” and now it’s 100% a red flag. Nyc is def filled with them but there are also a lot of gentlemen out there, you just gotta look! So happy I was randomly strolling through Madison sq park with Ryan!
Greetings! And thanks for dropping so much KNOOWLLEDGE~ please come thru for more interviews:)
"Your kind gentle soul will shine through, you don't have to be exactly out there..." & "When u r great at something, people will tell u..." 💯 agree & ❤ these views! Thanks for the insightful Asian New Yorkers' perspectives out there 👍👏 & Dr. Yoo & Dr. Ki looking soooo good all dressed up! 😍😘💕 🙌 😄
Can attest they looked great in person HAHAHHA
@@SamElle Hey Sam! Wish I could see these two J Bro gentlemen in person too! 😊 😅✌ U r indeed one lucky gal! 🤩😜 Really ❤ both yours & Ryan's perspectives on this topic as they really resonated a lot with mine! Thanks for sharing both your fascinating views with all the J Bro fans❣ 👁👅👁
People who are subscribed to this channel will know what gentlemen look like 👏👏 but so nice meeting you two! Obviously there's a lot of people in media that enforce and encourage the bad boy troupe, but being a gentleman will be more successful longitudinally. Everyone had some great insights but I think a common theme is that games are exhausting lol we need more gentlemen like Jason and John out here 🙏
Haha you were the best player of the three guys in this video. Thank you for the epic lines, Ryan! So many people are resonating with what you said in this video.
I'm coppin that "if you're good at something you'll tell people. If you're great at something, people will tell you" --wise young man.
We are given the heart that is meant for us, and if someone else doesn’t see the beauty in it, it’s not meant for them
Very true Crystal....
John: no, no, no it's like just your opinion on stuff, it's super lighthearted
The girls: Watch us get cancelled
HAHAH it was a very entertaining interview💗
It would be cool if they also interacted with people of different racial and ethnic backgrounds. I do love hearing about viewpoints on certain situations from an Asian perspective. I just also feel like the cultural exchange/interaction would produce good learning experience and content for their channel.
Completely agree. The people that happen to stop this day were Asian Americans. Would love to share all cultural views!
also interesting to interview dif generations also - age and what gen immigrants fam they are - kudos to you for mentioning the diversity!
I do not think it would be that much different.
As I’m getting older, 28 😳, I feel like it’s hard to find the perfect match, which I’m pretty sure there’s none cause otherwise everyone will already had a partner. Falling in love it’s a process of knowing each other and accept the good and bad of that person, we all have standards or a type of person but overall for me the older I get I just feel that a person that respect you and prioritizes you it’s a good way to start, so in order words a gentleman!
It’s good to find comments with people same age as you and same situation. I’m 28 myself and been “single” for most of my 20s. Relationships takes good amount of your time physically and emotionally. But I’m thinking a relationship now at my age.
I think western women have more boxes to tick even though they are no upto the standards which they are asking the other person to be. Resulting in being single/unmarried more than ever in the history .
Not pointing any finger at you.
Time for the nice guy to finish last
Its about priorotizing what your willing to settle for. Because no one is perfect, so the list of things women want... You might only get 8 out of 10 things that you wanted. But are you getting the most important 8 out of that 10???
200 years ago people got married easily and more quickly because they found someone nearby who was good enough lol and I would say they are probably just as happy as people today.
We all think our tastes are so unique when we're younger but as I get older, I realise that actually everyone's experience of dating when you get down to it is actually very similar
Very wise. It's almost like we're the same species.
I appreciate you guys a lot! I already finished watching all your videos including the ones on your respective channels...all of 'em in 5 days! I made time to do it before the hectic Christmas season starts 😅 It's like watching a good k-drama, I just couldn't stop. Haha! Please keep them coming guys!
As for this topic, I feel like girls never like bad boys. Girls only like the IDEA OF TURNING A BAD BOY INTO A GOOD ONE. Some of them think they are too good that they expect men to change just for them. Surprise!!! It never happens, LOL! And changing someone to fit your taste or standards should never be the goal of any relationship. Instead, embracing them fully as they are could be a good starting point.
I believe that any man could be a gentleman---someone who can lead while still being considerate of the other. How women respect and value themselves and how they exude grace also play a big factor on how men treat them. As the saying goes, you teach others how to treat you. If they see that you value and respect yourself and others, then most likely they'll do the same.
PS: Women should learn how to be gentle to men too! We ought to serve them, respect their time and personal space, and be considerate of them being "not so considerate" at times 😂✌🏻
Haha you can never turn a bad boy into a good one. Or can you?
@Alhmaeizing 👏🏻👌🏻
💯 to bad alot of young women won't think this way till its to late. That's when they think back and say "the one that got away"
@@JBRODUCTIONReformed bad boys are a thing
Jason is so cute I cannot “ straight like our style” * cute smile and awkward pose
JOHN, can we take a moment and appreciate your amazing hair & that whole fit 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
At first, it will definitely from the appearance! From my personal experience, I get nervous easily especially talking to someone who is really good looking plus English is not my first language! sometimes I just say something I don't want to say! This is just my personal experience as an immigrant living in NYC! But I am in my late 20s now and try to focus on myself to have a better outcome and not looking for any relationship soon! Thank you guys for doing this video! For Jason, I like how the way you are so confident talking to someone when English is not your first language! I definitely learn a lot from you! Keep doing this guys! hopefully, you can bring more content of Asian Americans living in NYC and not limit to new FOB!
YOOO love this new format !! Also, everyone was so insightful - so fun to hear how other people think through these topics 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
yesss 100% . a fun discussion wit our new yorkers!! and thank u Nicole!! we tried something new :D
the guy and girl @ 3:12 gave such nice thoughts about this! "if u play stupid games, u win stupid prizes" "if u're good at something, you'll tell people, but if you're great at something, people will tell you"
ryan is so so profound and I love our friendship!!!
I think you guys should add 'Detectives of NY' to your resumes lol you guys did great & with style😎 It's really nice to listen to other's perspectives on the topic💕😁
In my early 20s I might have answered this differently but my answer now in my early 30s is to find you a man who can do both ahah. With hindsight, for me the things about a "bad boy" that are attractive are confidence, assertiveness, strength of character and a certain type of bravery (not being overly cautious, possibly even being reckless) and a devil-may-care attitude are all pretty sexy. Now I realise that a gentleman can be all of those things as well but they can also be humble, thoughtful and considerate in a way that a stereotypical "bad boy" might not be. So...both, a gentleman with throw-down ;)
Too bad you had to waste your best years to figure something that is extremely obvious
@@madallas_mons bruhhhh😂😂😂
“A gentleman is someone who does not what he wants to do, but what he should do.”
― Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood
I think movie/media/novel kinda contribute in 'romanticising' bad boy.. how they portrayed male lead as a 'bad boy' n taking care of female lead secretly or act cool etc.. this only works if u're like 12 (or never will)... for girls, find urself a man who'll respect u, accept u and love u, and also kind to others as well...
You two! Ya’ll - yes “ya’ll” - such darling guys. Nice to see you out there.
Most sad comment: woman who told Jason she’s never met a gentleman. Makes me feel bad for her.
I hope the good and “gentle” guys find that good and “gentle” woman. That would include Jason and John, of course. ❤️
What she meant is that she's not attracted to gentlemen so she's never dated them. I'm certain she has been approached by dozens and dozens of gentlemen and rejected every single one. She deserves whatever treatment she gets from the guys she chooses
To some extent I feel being in 20s has also its perks.. you take risks and give chances
absolutely.. live it up in 20's... and 30s and 40s.. FOREVER
I think something that's very attractive in a person in general is the capacity to be yourself, you know? And being yourself means work for the things you want in life, because that's the only you'll find out who you are what your strengths and weaknesses are. And keep yourself busy.. with 24 hours a day you can do a lot of things that you would never imagine.
Lovin this new corner!! It’s nice to hear advice from random people!🙌🏻 also lovin the costume!!!😂😍🥰
Big fan of you guys Jason and John! I hope I can run into u guys one day in NYC and participate in ur videos 😃
ayoo thanks Sam that means a lot to us. keep up the fire relatable content bro!!
you can make a video where you explain how to know what you want to do in life? as a career
More of this please! So cool to see other opinions of people around my age. Hopefully they all meet very kind hearted genuine people. Also not many people know of that park because it’s easy to drive right past it, but riverside park also doesn’t have a lot of tourists it’s just not convenient for you guys in midtown.
One need to realise that they can not pour from an empty cup & their cup can not be filled by someone else unless they have it themselves filled. Gentlemen can only be made by himself and the realisation must come from within. You definitely should never go around breaking other people just because you’re broken and hurting. Loved this Q/A and insightful information from the interviewees. ♥️👏
LOL. Gentleman or Bad Boy is all through the lens of the observer. Hence the question is like asking, do you prefer "guys you like", or "guys you don't like". That is all.
These guys look like gentlemen by day and baddies by night.
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Best of BOTH worlds? 😂😂😂
can we appreciate the bros dressing like the main lead actors in kdrama lol
Another great and interesting video, thanks for sharing John and Jason! Most people you interviewed were Asians, just wonder and curious if non-Asians will offer different dating advice due to things like culture, family/peer influence, value, etc.
definitely a good point! we gotta scale this up to more backgrounds and different age groups as well
@@JBRODUCTION Thx! BTW, did Burberry sponsor this video? For the trench coats ;) If not, should try next time LOL
Awesome Vid!
being 30 and single,..AAAAAhh that 's me LOL 🤣
한글 자막까지 친절하게 매번 올려주셔서 감사합니다.
1:56 CMON THAT'S ATEAST AVERAGE😭😭😭😭
amazing interview! I think this video is one of top videos in J bro! i've never wanted bad guy in my whole 21 years life. I think right partner should be just right human being in a whole aspect.
the fits were immaaaaculate!
In my opinion, I feel that women want a gentleman deep down. We do want to feel appreciated, loved, and respected as the person in their life. But I think that the bad boy attitude comes out, because the guy feels doubtful of who they really are. It's a mask or defense.
I definitely agree! I think the bad boy attitude comes from an insecurity!!!
Yoooo can I be friends with the girl at 5:13? Very well said! I wanted to win the game too but turns out it was all bad LOL
I laughed so hard at 7:35!!! Jason was the captions LOL
HAHAHHA LETS BE FRIENDDS!!!! I have learned my lesson hahahaha
something bout jbro's vid that makes it so ..."vibe" you know. KEEP POSTING!!!!
The added captions lol I m ded
Omg, the comments crack me up!! Definitely shaded Jason big time!! hahaha should have heard my laugh... I couldn't even hear it myself sometimes... lmao!!! 😅
Just be yourself with a hint of attitude
Good to see you guys go further than your usual video sitting and discussing to one another. Love to hear strangers different stance with this matter ❤️ more of this vidsss please ❣️
this is wholesome... def shared this to a friend because he really really needs these advices.
Such a fun interactive episode! Love the questions asked and the answers given. I’m definitely more attracted to gentlemen :)
Love you both. Thank you for being a ray of sunshine at a time like what we are facing now.
Love from Manila, PH
I just wanna say, You look extra great as always guys. 😍 Last question felt like in a pageant. 😜✌🏻 That made me think of my own answer too. lol This is awesome. 👏🏻 Kudos, till next video. 💚💚👍🏻👍🏻
yess we were also so impressed by the responses in real time. lucked out with great interviewees !
I loved all the definitions of a gentlemen. Thanks for sharing everyone
Ya...nm....exam in 3 days but ain't missing jbro vid 😅😍 wish me luck oppas
Hahahaa these people you found on the street are so wise.
100000% agree with super high EQ, respectful/ feminist, and having a kind soul. I would say for myself, I'm happily single, but if I did want to date someone, I would want them to be a gentleman. I'd be lying if I said I've never been attracted to bad boys though lol. Like I wouldn't date one, but back when I used to use dating apps, if I matched with one I would chat with them over text for a bit because I found it entertaining 😅 A part of me just likes trouble I guess 🙃
I think the media just romanticizes bad boys so we subconsciously accept that as what we should go for until we (hopefully) unlearn that behavior.
LOL I would entertain convos with these bad boys too even though I KNEW they wouldn’t be a good fit for me 😅
@@SamElle Omg ikr?? We know better, but just can't help it 😂😂😂
Good one!! needed something to relax after a hectic day! perfect timing!! Need non Asian interviews too I think...
You guys look more like private detectives than interviewers. Haha. 🕵🏻♂️
Gentlemen over bad boys. Better for your overall health. 😆
Agree with Jason. I think what makes a gentleman a gentleman is his ability to be gentle to other people. Manners maketh man. 👌🏻
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wow Ryan is such a catch. I need to find a man like him
don't listen what they say , watch what they do !
Video’s great
The title of these [30 and single] videos are makes it sound like (as an ex facebook, ex software engineer, ex millionaire] videos
Iykyk
you mean Tech Lead 😁
IMO there are multiple aspects that affect this question for example like age and location. age for obvious reason whether you're in your low 20s or high 20s. low 20s, mindset, goals and maturity are way different than when you're in your high 20s or close to 30. Also location, I live in Socal (LA) area and the crowd/vibe is waaay different than NYC. In NYC I feel as if the vibe is a lot more gentlemen like but guaranteed if you come to LA and ask the people down here the bad boy image will be more dominant.
Anyways, keep up the great work! keep on representing the community :)
Dating is easy when you set a "preference" . People don't vaule their individual time meaning they neglect their "set personal preference" so that is why they end up experiencing these "relationships" because they don't follow what they set out for.
7:40 Did Jason create a new definition for a feminist fiofsidfjsd
Nice video. I'm commenting to help with your stats. Maybe trying too hard to be one or the other isn't authentic but my favourite funny moment of this video was her commenting on the size of your mic 🤣🤣🤣
When she said she never met a gentleman.
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Jason be rethinking his whole life.
Yess! We are finally getting romantic park tours from our bros! I hope what's next is the kdrama that we were promised :D
Wahhh so happy to see both of you took this Q&A format ! *why so dandy brooooo hahahahahaaha 🤣🤣🤣
Y’all just earned a sub, miss my home in NYC, TOP NOTCH🙏🏿
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Hi John and Jason ^_^ It's my 27th Birthday. Glad to see a vid up. Shout out to being 27 and single (My mom says that's not a good hype 🤣🤣🤣)
Every gentleman should have a bad boy in himself, otherwise it will be boring.
Guys, this was a really great interview and interview idea. Thanks for this.
I really enjoy this kind of street interview videos🙂
The content was great, but these outfits, fabulous✨!
Such a fan!!
Thumbs up for dressed up oppa 😍😍😍
❤️ thank u from john oppa and jason ajusshi
Your interior monologue is hilarious lmfao!
Goes without saying that you Should be a gentleman. Should not even be a question. You can be a bad boy and still be a gentleman. The guy is the hunter. If you like me show me. Not playing cat and mouse.
Wait!🙄😬 U guys uploaded a vedio on my phy exam !🤡 But i cant find it !😵 Lol! Today is my chem exam 🙂
Before listening I was just watching all the people an view it was pleasing to the eye🥰😇...
AND Idk Why do ppl meet ME outside when m looking trash and Not when I'm all dolled up😡🥺
Another interesting and insightful video.. Yes you both are definitely dressed really nicely 😊
Interview video It's a lot of fun😆
Both bad boys and gentlemen have some fascinating parts😘
I thought it was important to have the experience of trying life adventures and failing✨
But after all, the feeling of caring for and cherishing the other person is the most important thing❤️
It would be very nice to be able to do that😆❤️❤️❤️
JBro need to make a video of The Difference between a MAN and a GENTLEMAN?
Wow I have a greater respect for Asians men who take great care of their beloved women and the meaning of a gentleman he hit on target this has been the best video jbros has done 😍 💕🥰🤣🎉😎🎉😆
Gentleman for sure. I don't bother with men who don't put in the effort, who is hot and cold and give mixed messages., I used to do that in my 20s and now I realize I deserve better and won't put time into someone who does not put time on me, simple as thar.
Oh wow another concept of JBro’s content 🔥 always love when you guys try something new ♥️
Next content Mukbang (?) 🙈🤭
The boy and girl were amazing people. Wish I could meet people like them in real life. Would’ve been long life friends😄😄
RYAN IS AN AMAZING FRIEND!!!!
Every guy will treat you the some way then slowly show their true self. Sometimes you find out before its too late and that's how feelings get hurt
"Gentleman upfront, doing shady stuff on the side." Typical. Lol.
"You can't win." True.
Gentleman = Gentle soul 👌
It's the reporter jackets for me 🤣🤣
Ryan dropping truth bombs
Women like the bad boys throughout time. The guys that get them hot and heavy. They just have to settle with the gentlemen as they age...
The 22 year old said it herself: there more more gentlemen then bad boys. It's all about supply and demand. Women want what is rare and few
I like your outfits. You guys look like detectives 🕵️🏻♂️
I am 21yr and I like mature gentlemen then bad guys☺☺🌷🌷🍀🍀❤❤❤💖
Good vid you guys. Keep them coming. 👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Ayeeee new subscriber here 🦉 so far so good 👌
lol wholesome gentlemen
Been looking forward ro your video...
Thank u for lightening up my day with new vlog! Love these duo..hope i get to meet u someday...
Nice fit Jbro 🔥
ayeee ryan chang i watch his vids 💯
0:14 I petition that jbros sport that rooster hairstyle for a couple videos.
Loool
Lol the segways to your sponsor parts😄