This man is really spitting some facts. Now understand everything he says runs both ways men & women and what u grown up around. The toxicity majority of ppl have been raised around
You know the level of thinking and reflecting you have to do to understand this. I too let a good one get away because I have absolutely no clue what to do with a healthy woman. It was all me. I destroyed it. No arguing no real fights nothing…. Just straight up unequipped.
I was in this situation but with a woman (i am a man). She did not know how to be in a loving relationship. She hated men deep down, and i could tell because she had zero trust and thought fighting was normal.
There are many people who never considered that you don't have to be dominant or dominated in a relationship. You can just be with someone. Not against someone.
I am definitely that woman who overstayed her welcome. Finally walked away after twelve years of marriage and thirteen years together, sharing one child. Its been 2 yrs. Newly divorced and still healing. But I can breathe again. Yeah, I still feel bad for my ex husband coming from a toxic and still toxic upbringing. I thought me coming from a loving family who prayed together and always talked things out in a healthy way would finally rub off on him. I continued to pray and love my ex husband harder even when he was disrespectful. Even when he started allowing our son to disrespect me, by calling me fat. It was really degrading. But I thought by staying I was keeping the family together. But I realize staying is hurting more and more until I finally left. He tried his all kinds of manipulative tactics including belittling, gaslighting, blame shifting, and intimidation. When that failed he plain just begged and cried and made a whole public scene. I walked away letting people see how foolish he looked.
You can tell ..all that truth he was spitting, it was pulling in her heart strings! I see she wanted to cry but held back, it's okay ..we have all been there, some are there right now And some will continue to go there! Wake up and stay woke 🩷💙
This man is really spitting some facts. Now understand everything he says runs both ways men & women and what u grown up around. The toxicity majority of ppl have been raised around
Thank you for understanding and applying it evenly.
This is me I'm working on myself.
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You know the level of thinking and reflecting you have to do to understand this. I too let a good one get away because I have absolutely no clue what to do with a healthy woman. It was all me. I destroyed it. No arguing no real fights nothing…. Just straight up unequipped.
I was in this situation but with a woman (i am a man). She did not know how to be in a loving relationship. She hated men deep down, and i could tell because she had zero trust and thought fighting was normal.
There are many people who never considered that you don't have to be dominant or dominated in a relationship. You can just be with someone. Not against someone.
I am definitely that woman who overstayed her welcome. Finally walked away after twelve years of marriage and thirteen years together, sharing one child. Its been 2 yrs. Newly divorced and still healing. But I can breathe again. Yeah, I still feel bad for my ex husband coming from a toxic and still toxic upbringing. I thought me coming from a loving family who prayed together and always talked things out in a healthy way would finally rub off on him.
I continued to pray and love my ex husband harder even when he was disrespectful. Even when he started allowing our son to disrespect me, by calling me fat. It was really degrading. But I thought by staying I was keeping the family together. But I realize staying is hurting more and more until I finally left.
He tried his all kinds of manipulative tactics including belittling, gaslighting, blame shifting, and intimidation. When that failed he plain just begged and cried and made a whole public scene. I walked away letting people see how foolish he looked.
You did the right thing. Otherwise you'll be walking the same road, on another day thinking it will be different weather. Same ol road. Stay up.
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You can tell ..all that truth he was spitting, it was pulling in her heart strings! I see she wanted to cry but held back, it's okay ..we have all been there, some are there right now And some will continue to go there! Wake up and stay woke 🩷💙
This was me years ago, thank god i made that change 🙏🏾
Does anyone know her actual question?
At the end you can see she felt what he said
Very few claps because toxic takes up the sitting room, think about it and listen
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Realest $hit I’ve heard in a long time 💯🦾💯🦾💯