This man is really spitting some facts. Now understand everything he says runs both ways men & women and what u grown up around. The toxicity majority of ppl have been raised around
You know the level of thinking and reflecting you have to do to understand this. I too let a good one get away because I have absolutely no clue what to do with a healthy woman. It was all me. I destroyed it. No arguing no real fights nothing…. Just straight up unequipped.
I relate to Tripp so much!!!! My upbringing. The toxic part, and now even the more calmer side of me, as I’ve aged. It all started at home. In a world full of suckers, tripp is one of the realest out here.
There are many people who never considered that you don't have to be dominant or dominated in a relationship. You can just be with someone. Not against someone.
He broke it down and built it back up in the most compassionate and efficient way you can’t help but be inspired to take his advice. What a man! Thank you God, there are really good intending & well meaning/ thoughtful men out there. ❤
You can tell ..all that truth he was spitting, it was pulling in her heart strings! I see she wanted to cry but held back, it's okay ..we have all been there, some are there right now And some will continue to go there! Wake up and stay woke 🩷💙
I was in this situation but with a woman (i am a man). She did not know how to be in a loving relationship. She hated men deep down, and i could tell because she had zero trust and thought fighting was normal.
Unfortunately that goes both ways.. I feel this soooo deeply in my soul, that a lot of people are so used to dysfunctional relationships that when someone who is loving comes along they don’t trust it
Since watching this a couple of days ago, I listened to her disrespect me well past the one-hour ride back from an event. Once we got back to the house, I thought she would take a chill, but she did not. I packed as though I was expected to immediately hit the road (I am an OTR truck driver). "Hey, can you lock the front door behind me?" She said, "If you walk out that door right now, DO NOT come back." I said, "Lock the door, please." Thinking I could walk to my truck in peace, get some sleep, find a load out at sunrise and roll, guess who decided to "make sure I got to my truck in one piece." She refused to go back to the house, refused to go anywhere else, refused to let me be done with her and the bullshit. Instead of having her cuffed for harassment, I decided to make a few things known, point out my reasons for ending things with her. It's so crazy how somebody will "apologize" while you are angrily calling them out in a quiet voice when you know they haven't heard a damn word. Anyway, she kept it up past sunrise, probably to make sure I wasn't rested because she knows I won't drive fatigued, but I got tf up outta there anyway. "If I left anything, it's just trash. Don't hold it for me. I won't be back." I am done, all the way done.
I am definitely that woman who overstayed her welcome. Finally walked away after twelve years of marriage and thirteen years together, sharing one child. Its been 2 yrs. Newly divorced and still healing. But I can breathe again. Yeah, I still feel bad for my ex husband coming from a toxic and still toxic upbringing. I thought me coming from a loving family who prayed together and always talked things out in a healthy way would finally rub off on him. I continued to pray and love my ex husband harder even when he was disrespectful. Even when he started allowing our son to disrespect me, by calling me fat. It was really degrading. But I thought by staying I was keeping the family together. But I realize staying is hurting more and more until I finally left. He tried his all kinds of manipulative tactics including belittling, gaslighting, blame shifting, and intimidation. When that failed he plain just begged and cried and made a whole public scene. I walked away letting people see how foolish he looked.
The folks who grow up in toxic environments often have no idea just how toxic it is, and they definitely don't know how to repair their mindset. This is why we must do better in general when teaching the generations that come next. It sucks that we have to fix all of the unhealthy habits we learned from the people who were supposed to be responsible for raising us, but these are the crappy cards we're dealt.
@@mca217 I tried so hard to point out the issue without blaming him. No matter how empathetic I was he was defensive. We even went to a male couples therapist who told my ex that he hasnt delt with his own mother wounds and takes them out on me. His mother chased off any good man, cheated several times on his step father who raised my ex, and neglected him as a child. That is how he sees me. The therapist told him to address his wounds so he can seperate his wife from his mother. My ex was so offended that we never went back for another session. The therapist was right and I knew there wasnt anything I could do. So, I did the hardest thing. I left a man who I knew had abandoment wounds from his own mother. But he was hurting me. I lost myself trying to be there for my husband who refused to acknowelge his own wounds, and is still resentful of me. We cant co parent properly. To him I ruined his life just like his mother. Its very painful still. Even my son believes his dad is hurting because of me and blames me for leaving.
The more you listen to these shows & panels, the more ABUNDANTLY clear it should be to you all that "hurt people" need therapy. And this ain't it, for this is empathy brought on from self-accountability...after self-reflection.
"People come into your life for four reasons; to add, subtract, multiply, or divide. You have to choose wisely." - Jalen Rose "You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, and know when to run." - Kenny Rogers
Trip❤thank you. I left silently .. thank you for breaking it down. Hopefully my ex sees this and is great for his next partner as he has the potential to be.
It's really really sad that millions of folks in gen-x and Millenial generations have to learn these things at our ages now rather than being taught them by mentors and parents who have high EQ.
That woman has to be told to leave a toxic man? She ain't leaving. She's too invested. These folks are too old to be dealing in these immature and teen like dating dilemmas. How are we supposed to provide wisdom, guidance, and a good example to the younger generations if we are still silly and unlearned.😮
Anyone else addicted to listening to this Angel of a man? .... He speaks from his heart.
He’s got his own UA-cam now if you didn’t know. 😅
@@645MF
Will definitely check it out
This man is really spitting some facts. Now understand everything he says runs both ways men & women and what u grown up around. The toxicity majority of ppl have been raised around
Thank you for understanding and applying it evenly.
PROTECT TRIP at ALL COSTS!!❤❤
@@jamiecrowell2984 agree
Facts!
How can I find this brother UA-cam channel this the first I’m ever watching or hearing of him
You know the level of thinking and reflecting you have to do to understand this. I too let a good one get away because I have absolutely no clue what to do with a healthy woman. It was all me. I destroyed it. No arguing no real fights nothing…. Just straight up unequipped.
A man just fumbled me in the same way he was rude and didn't even try. He just disrespected me and shut me out.
Bro me to, I'm going through the healing right now, I regret loosing a good women, I gotta get better
This man hits and never misses he's always on point❤❤
Tripp never misses. I love how brutally honest and raw he is.
I relate to Tripp so much!!!! My upbringing. The toxic part, and now even the more calmer side of me, as I’ve aged. It all started at home. In a world full of suckers, tripp is one of the realest out here.
There are many people who never considered that you don't have to be dominant or dominated in a relationship. You can just be with someone. Not against someone.
He broke it down and built it back up in the most compassionate and efficient way you can’t help but be inspired to take his advice. What a man! Thank you God, there are really good intending & well meaning/ thoughtful men out there. ❤
He is my biggest crush! I have a crush on his perspective and his heart! It's so beautiful and safe!
He’s an absolute amazing man ❤❤
You can tell ..all that truth he was spitting, it was pulling in her heart strings! I see she wanted to cry but held back, it's okay ..we have all been there, some are there right now And some will continue to go there! Wake up and stay woke 🩷💙
I was in this situation but with a woman (i am a man). She did not know how to be in a loving relationship. She hated men deep down, and i could tell because she had zero trust and thought fighting was normal.
Unfortunately that goes both ways.. I feel this soooo deeply in my soul, that a lot of people are so used to dysfunctional relationships that when someone who is loving comes along they don’t trust it
@@tamikataylor6862 agreed. And as they say on this channel a lot, people need to do some serious healing before getting in a relationship.
This was me years ago, thank god i made that change 🙏🏾
Trip and Trill are my favorites
GOTDAMN. 😳
This hit me so damn hard.
Since watching this a couple of days ago, I listened to her disrespect me well past the one-hour ride back from an event. Once we got back to the house, I thought she would take a chill, but she did not. I packed as though I was expected to immediately hit the road (I am an OTR truck driver). "Hey, can you lock the front door behind me?" She said, "If you walk out that door right now, DO NOT come back." I said, "Lock the door, please." Thinking I could walk to my truck in peace, get some sleep, find a load out at sunrise and roll, guess who decided to "make sure I got to my truck in one piece." She refused to go back to the house, refused to go anywhere else, refused to let me be done with her and the bullshit. Instead of having her cuffed for harassment, I decided to make a few things known, point out my reasons for ending things with her. It's so crazy how somebody will "apologize" while you are angrily calling them out in a quiet voice when you know they haven't heard a damn word. Anyway, she kept it up past sunrise, probably to make sure I wasn't rested because she knows I won't drive fatigued, but I got tf up outta there anyway. "If I left anything, it's just trash. Don't hold it for me. I won't be back." I am done, all the way done.
I really enjoy listening to this man.
I am definitely that woman who overstayed her welcome. Finally walked away after twelve years of marriage and thirteen years together, sharing one child. Its been 2 yrs. Newly divorced and still healing. But I can breathe again. Yeah, I still feel bad for my ex husband coming from a toxic and still toxic upbringing. I thought me coming from a loving family who prayed together and always talked things out in a healthy way would finally rub off on him.
I continued to pray and love my ex husband harder even when he was disrespectful. Even when he started allowing our son to disrespect me, by calling me fat. It was really degrading. But I thought by staying I was keeping the family together. But I realize staying is hurting more and more until I finally left.
He tried his all kinds of manipulative tactics including belittling, gaslighting, blame shifting, and intimidation. When that failed he plain just begged and cried and made a whole public scene. I walked away letting people see how foolish he looked.
You did the right thing. Otherwise you'll be walking the same road, on another day thinking it will be different weather. Same ol road. Stay up.
❤️
The folks who grow up in toxic environments often have no idea just how toxic it is, and they definitely don't know how to repair their mindset. This is why we must do better in general when teaching the generations that come next. It sucks that we have to fix all of the unhealthy habits we learned from the people who were supposed to be responsible for raising us, but these are the crappy cards we're dealt.
@@mca217 I tried so hard to point out the issue without blaming him. No matter how empathetic I was he was defensive. We even went to a male couples therapist who told my ex that he hasnt delt with his own mother wounds and takes them out on me. His mother chased off any good man, cheated several times on his step father who raised my ex, and neglected him as a child. That is how he sees me. The therapist told him to address his wounds so he can seperate his wife from his mother. My ex was so offended that we never went back for another session. The therapist was right and I knew there wasnt anything I could do. So, I did the hardest thing. I left a man who I knew had abandoment wounds from his own mother. But he was hurting me. I lost myself trying to be there for my husband who refused to acknowelge his own wounds, and is still resentful of me. We cant co parent properly. To him I ruined his life just like his mother. Its very painful still. Even my son believes his dad is hurting because of me and blames me for leaving.
The more you listen to these shows & panels, the more ABUNDANTLY clear it should be to you all that "hurt people" need therapy.
And this ain't it, for this is empathy brought on from self-accountability...after self-reflection.
Damn bruh! That was fire and I felt it in my soul. Salute 🫡
Love. TRIP!❤
"People come into your life for four reasons; to add, subtract, multiply, or divide. You have to choose wisely." - Jalen Rose
"You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, and know when to run." - Kenny Rogers
Elated to have come across this.
You tap in on his UA-cam yet?
Does anyone know her actual question?
I just love man, he real
This is me I'm working on myself.
At the end you can see she felt what he said
Hell, I felt what he was saying. TRUTH. Made me take a look at my situation. Amazing talk.
When Tripp talks I listen! ❤💯💯💯
Damn trip speaks some real truth..
Wow❤
Trip❤thank you. I left silently .. thank you for breaking it down. Hopefully my ex sees this and is great for his next partner as he has the potential to be.
Very few claps because toxic takes up the sitting room, think about it and listen
This hit home!!!🎯
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It's really really sad that millions of folks in gen-x and Millenial generations have to learn these things at our ages now rather than being taught them by mentors and parents who have high EQ.
Trip the goat
Trip is the goat of goats!
Accountability at its finest ❤
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What's is the tune please
That woman has to be told to leave a toxic man? She ain't leaving. She's too invested. These folks are too old to be dealing in these immature and teen like dating dilemmas. How are we supposed to provide wisdom, guidance, and a good example to the younger generations if we are still silly and unlearned.😮
I had to learn how my past relationship affected me I never knew it untl now that I'm trying to date someone new
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Ooo that's you that asked the question..? Did you leave?
GHGTFO. gonna put it on a t shirt
Real Talk Plain Simple Facts 💯 Respect The Code: Amen Facts 🚨😱🫨😲🤔🫡😍💯🥷
Realest $hit I’ve heard in a long time 💯🦾💯🦾💯
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