Why Men Come Back After You Ignore Them - Black Swan Relationship Academy

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 104

  • @gyamagya19
    @gyamagya19 Рік тому +89

    When they have you and you love them, they treat you like shit. Once you let them go, they have a wake up call. From being ignored to being adored is just a step, its caled self respect. Once you treat them like they treat you, they realize it and the chase begin. People love to chase what they don't have, once thwy had it, they get bored. So keep distance and leave if you want them to come back crawling. Be bold and cold, this is the key for them to be starved and crave that validation again.

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 Рік тому +71

    "What's more problematic will get more of your attention". So true with everything in life

    • @jajarounette95
      @jajarounette95 11 місяців тому

      Could you explain please ?

    • @msve3730
      @msve3730 11 місяців тому +8

      @@jajarounette95 the good child will be invisible to the parents. But the bad child will get more attention from the parents. Just like a bad comment will get more attention than the good comments. People give more energy and attention to those things that are not good

  • @maryhannah9685
    @maryhannah9685 Рік тому +26

    You shouldn't have to leave to get what you want. If you have to leave to be appreciated, you'll keep leaving and they'll pick up on the fact that you don't value yourself.

    • @teemadarif8243
      @teemadarif8243 3 місяці тому +1

      Not leave but give a little draw back .

  • @seemu2927
    @seemu2927 Рік тому +28

    I’m not ignoring anyone. I’m done

  • @lindalim5901
    @lindalim5901 Рік тому +9

    Bro you doing Black Swan dirty like that by pausing @5:18 with her expression like that 😂

  • @lindalim5901
    @lindalim5901 Рік тому +26

    I love Black Swan! She's amazing

  • @marthalaplant9351
    @marthalaplant9351 Рік тому +3

    The dog ..looking like a dinasaur absolutely hilarious 🤣!!

  • @angelaaspire2b371
    @angelaaspire2b371 Рік тому +17

    You had me in stitches, when you were telling us about the dog. 😂😂

  • @NicoleDeanna
    @NicoleDeanna Рік тому +11

    Yo 😂😂😂😂 make them run away by saying 'I wanna peg you' 😂😂😂😭 Good one

  • @Quenna444
    @Quenna444 Рік тому +11

    When you laughed after saying “ that’s what keeps me employed” 😂😂😂😂

  • @angiep8217
    @angiep8217 Рік тому +15

    I like it when you insert your own thoughts & explain further

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire Рік тому +4

    the Jurassic dog 😂
    I really get you though, lived in a house with a huge German shepherd that loved to attack me and the owner did not see a reason to use a leash. I was rightfully scared!

  • @meleahstacy
    @meleahstacy Рік тому +5

    I laughed out loud at your dog impersonation 😂

  • @moniqueford9173
    @moniqueford9173 Рік тому +1

    Talking about the dog😂 I’m dying you sound like me “it’s a new species” 😂

  • @coletteharubella2434
    @coletteharubella2434 Рік тому +5

    Chengi from Black Swan is THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!! 💕 so much truth.

  • @Taytheman12
    @Taytheman12 Рік тому +2

    I am listening both if my ears are open to this goodmorning

  • @sweet2sourr
    @sweet2sourr Рік тому +4

    Good morning! I hope you have a great semester Alex

  • @sapphiroffon
    @sapphiroffon Рік тому +11

    And what about when the guy leaves you and he comes back begging cause he realised now I am "the one" 😅

  • @Sylviayt3
    @Sylviayt3 Рік тому +1

    Black Swan is spot on!

  • @Nawshanaila
    @Nawshanaila Рік тому +5

    Love Chengi and the Black Swan academy❤❤ Great video as always Delexis

  • @jujuthaguru
    @jujuthaguru Рік тому +3

    Chengi!!! 😍 I love her! Yes, two of my faves 🌻

  • @sagerobinson6340
    @sagerobinson6340 Рік тому +17

    It works with narcissists😮

    • @erinmccann114
      @erinmccann114 Місяць тому

      Obviously, it’s doing a then on them

  • @Kaycinee
    @Kaycinee 11 місяців тому

    The puppy part had me CRYING IM DONE 😂

  • @Mermaid03_03
    @Mermaid03_03 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for introducing me to new YTers. I like these!

  • @xw6475
    @xw6475 Рік тому +6

    I love your video analyse videos!! Please keep them coming 🙏

  • @DawnWilsonVideos
    @DawnWilsonVideos 8 місяців тому

    That part about the dog! Omg 😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @curiousone9944
    @curiousone9944 Рік тому +2

    Greetings from Florida

  • @pretty_d00med
    @pretty_d00med Рік тому +7

    What If you’ve given them the closure conversation and they keep coming back?

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 Рік тому +16

    Why when you want something, it dosen't want you ?

    • @Myperspectiveonthat
      @Myperspectiveonthat Рік тому +6

      Well first of all look at your mindset and what you just told yourself you just told yourself when you want something it doesn’t want you & your life is going to confirm that belief that you have. Also everything’s connected on a energetic level so people can literally feel how YOU feel about YOU and if your life becomes centred around that person or thing because you’re too attached I believe the world naturally takes it away from you because you lose connection with yourself and deep down you don’t feel worthy of it so why should you receive it. This is just my opinion. So don’t focus on that and don’t tell yourself that. Ask yourself why you would still want something that doesn’t want you!

    • @Myperspectiveonthat
      @Myperspectiveonthat Рік тому +3

      When we “want” something we’re practically telling ourselves we don’t have it. & life will confirm that belief. Simple.

    • @JB-bm1to
      @JB-bm1to 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@selenedior9906 I needed to read this. Thanks sis. ❤

    • @Myperspectiveonthat
      @Myperspectiveonthat 11 місяців тому

      @@JB-bm1to nooo thank you beautiful bc the fact you actually understand what I’m saying already tells me you got this ❤️

  • @sdura8447
    @sdura8447 Рік тому +1

    Good morning ! You can come and stay in AZ i do have a jealous toxic 10 lb Maltese 🤣 love this videos-you are busy with school and life so really Muchas Gracias!!!

  • @deet340
    @deet340 Рік тому +4

    I enjoy the reaction videos and the calmer father alex

  • @imaginethat222
    @imaginethat222 Рік тому +5

    Something about her was putting me to sleeping,lol ,father alex i like when u do your own single videos.

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому

    I love the fact u give details

  • @ThePammy1008
    @ThePammy1008 Рік тому +3

    Great video and information 😊

  • @christyraeemfinger5740
    @christyraeemfinger5740 Рік тому +6

    This is narcissistic though and people who have been through that see this as giant red flags. Not attractive at all.

    • @jajarounette95
      @jajarounette95 11 місяців тому +5

      Why is it narcissitic ? If he ignores you you have to do the same …

  • @tanasia1553
    @tanasia1553 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂 not the dog from the Jurassic era

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun 8 місяців тому +4

    That whole thing about the bad child vs good child was genius. You are really freaking smart. Honestly, write a book or something and make a passive income, and then do something that pays more. You dip into uncommon intelligence. I'm not just saying this.

  • @psalms1977
    @psalms1977 Рік тому

    😅T-Rex.. you deserve a rent discount! 😂

  • @cutiepiehole
    @cutiepiehole Рік тому +3

    I dont skip over your self plugging for your courses i just use that time to read the comments 😁

  • @SS-cd6ie
    @SS-cd6ie 6 місяців тому

    Doing this back and forth is bad for your peace and MH. Just learn to be happy alone. If the right person comes along, it wont be hard.

  • @TheLeopardGirl
    @TheLeopardGirl Рік тому +2

    Alexis do you attend NKT meditation courses?

  • @m.c3766
    @m.c3766 Рік тому +1

    The good child, bad child theory is bs. I’m what you’d consider the “bad” child and though I get more attention, it’s negative attention. I’m constantly being compared to the “good” child. So that naturally creates distance between me and parent so if they do find themselves loving the bad child it’s often out of ego because they feel rejected by them verses them actually seeing their value. I hope that makes sense.

  • @ladyfxllc
    @ladyfxllc Рік тому +3

    @13:04 Make sure it doesn't peg you at night. 🤣😅 Sorry, I had to.

  • @ambermartinique
    @ambermartinique Рік тому

    Right about karma. I’m living it and it’s awful 😞

  • @septemberjai5216
    @septemberjai5216 8 місяців тому +1

    1:21, 2:26 👀, 4:46 😐😶, 12:30 😂, 18:03 lol

  • @etam1616
    @etam1616 Рік тому

    Lol at the puppy.

  • @everythingyouwantsol7436
    @everythingyouwantsol7436 Рік тому +4

    Jurassic dog 😂

  • @farswrites5633
    @farswrites5633 Рік тому +6

    3:03 man dont point her nose like that

  • @AussieGirl235
    @AussieGirl235 Рік тому +1

    This is the best vid you’ve reviewed

  • @LisaMaraisMusic
    @LisaMaraisMusic Рік тому

    I closed the dayum door and he won’t leave me the heck alone 😒

  • @QueenShirmeez
    @QueenShirmeez Рік тому

    Totally unrelated... I need to see the dog! LOL

  • @andrewramirez4924
    @andrewramirez4924 11 місяців тому

    what course would you recommend for me to purchase for a gay man? For my Situationship with my partner who’s the “dominant” one in the relationship

  • @sparklyunicorn5431
    @sparklyunicorn5431 Рік тому +5

    Jurassic dog 🐕 🦕 😂

  • @lolaxoxo5836
    @lolaxoxo5836 Рік тому +7

    I don’t understand. I ignore them because i don’t want anything to do with them. Am i being weird?
    If someone would do that to me i would try to keep my distance or try to apologize/solve the problem without trying to get back with the other person.

    • @eveheart2876
      @eveheart2876 Рік тому

      I will ignore and not entertain such random check on text or random communication

  • @nightmareappliance
    @nightmareappliance Рік тому +1

    I did skip forward for your jokes 💀

  • @EvaElyse
    @EvaElyse Рік тому +2

    No Alex, you are not the only one lol

  • @cafeconlechegrl
    @cafeconlechegrl Рік тому +1

    Miami 📍🏝️👸🏻📲💕🚗🫦I love your videos! Please do marriage videos

    • @Meep-yx8dy
      @Meep-yx8dy Рік тому +3

      How can he do marriage videos if he’s not married and has no experience with that? That’s like asking a blind person to lead you through darkness 💀

  • @curiousone9944
    @curiousone9944 Рік тому +2

    Good morning

  • @chupah93
    @chupah93 Рік тому +1

    The dogo is a skinwalker good luck

  • @curiousone9944
    @curiousone9944 Рік тому +4

    People are Fickle

  • @curiousone9944
    @curiousone9944 Рік тому +2

    Fantasy

  • @magwambui8251
    @magwambui8251 Рік тому +2

    Dalexisp 💕

  • @thespencerfamily8486
    @thespencerfamily8486 Рік тому +1

    A dinosaur of that size lol

  • @malcolmdoyle5385
    @malcolmdoyle5385 Рік тому +1

    I have been having difficulties in my marriage. A marriage of 10 years is about to end and I don’t want her to leave because I love her so much and she is the mother of my kids.

    • @malcolmdoyle5385
      @malcolmdoyle5385 Рік тому

      Wow, that’s nice. I can do anything right now to keep my family and I’m really serious about it.

    • @malcolmdoyle5385
      @malcolmdoyle5385 Рік тому

      Thank you very much for this, you are a lifesaver. I will get in touch with her very soon.

    • @jajarounette95
      @jajarounette95 11 місяців тому

      I hope everything will be ok for you 2. Take care

  • @septemberjai5216
    @septemberjai5216 8 місяців тому +1

    What’s a “bad child” 🤨

  • @heavenly894
    @heavenly894 Рік тому +5

    😩😩😩Why did the nasty puppy have to be from Africa though????

  • @HollywoodBrown1111Tarot
    @HollywoodBrown1111Tarot Рік тому +2

    Is peg gay?

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  Рік тому +16

      Very gay. No matter how the dudes tried to justify it lol

    • @keilahlondon2014
      @keilahlondon2014 Рік тому

      @@MindfulAttraction2.0y’all have the most powerful orgasms in y’all Anus .. gay is having sex or attracted to the same sex

  • @MoncaAhwen
    @MoncaAhwen Рік тому

    show us a pic of the dog XD

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 11 місяців тому

    8:40 key. Do nothing.

  • @giselleaguilar4497
    @giselleaguilar4497 Рік тому +2

    My bf doesn't want me to work can someone here give me sum advice we have a big age gap and he works but he doesn't want me to work although most times we cant hang out we text 247... Desperate for someone else's opinion I can't really talk to my fam about

    • @MzBrOdUs18
      @MzBrOdUs18 Рік тому

      Do you want to work?

    • @cansulua
      @cansulua Рік тому +1

      Just go for it, work if you want. He must deal with that!

    • @trinityp8575
      @trinityp8575 Рік тому +3

      He is a provider and that’s nice!
      But work only what you like and wish. That’s the best arrangement ever. You will bloom this way as a woman ❤

  • @thashift
    @thashift Рік тому

    Did Tyrone punch your tooth in?

  • @makeishainniss2440
    @makeishainniss2440 Рік тому +1

    She is quite monotonous

  • @DivinelyBellzTarot
    @DivinelyBellzTarot Рік тому +2

    Not the prehistoric 🐶🤣🤣🤣