WHY did I cut my hair?
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- Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
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“A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life.”
- Coco Chanel
Love u Nia ❤️ keep shining bright love
@Mi Amor I LOVE IT!!!!
LaMesha Hale aww thanks beauty 🌺
Truth!!!!!,
When people only compliment your hair it makes you feel like that’s the only thing about you that they like
🤔You said all the words I was looking for to explain what I feel . Thank you girl ! 🤝🏼👏
Good for you girl.... like India Arie said “I am not my hair!” Your light shines even brighter than it did before. Life is about inner peace and happiness.
Thank you Queen! 💗
Wow the darker hair looks so much healthier and suits you so much better than your previous big blonde hair! Good on you
So proud of you 🙌🏽
Bri Hall love you girl❤😭
Omg, less then five minutes in and I relate so hard. I have very big red curly hair, and people tend to only compliment my hair. It hurts a lot. But I try to ignore my own negativity
You got this! 💗
People never compliment me at all...
Same lmao
Emily Haslinger girl I’m sure you’re beautiful. :)
Tutu Girl you are so gorgeous tho😩😍
I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but i think you were pretty with your big hair. However, now i think you are beautiful (without sounding cliche since we tend to throw that word so loosely nowadays). I can't explain it but there's something radiant about you now, like we can really see you. To be honest, I didn't watch your videos before you cut your hair (i did follow insta which is how i know you),but now i look forward to your videos postcut. Keep up the good work and inspiring content.
It's incredibly sad that you said you lost friends. I know they were probably never really a friend to begin with but it just seems so darn shallow! Your soul is shining
Love this! Recently I had to cut off my hair because of damage and I felt so upset. It wasn't until after the cut when I realized I put so much value and self-worth in my hair. If I had a bad hair day I'd have a bad day. When I first cut it I felt depressed and lost, it has only been until recently where I've grown to love it and seeing you cut your hair has inspired me too since it was around the same time. Now I value health over length. I'm so proud of you and your journey and send you good vibes! Thank you for your honest and openess! You truly are a light!
I’ve had depression for some years now because I have low self esteem but thank you so much for sharing I’m from the small island called Trinidad...
Hang in there ♡ you're beautiful no matter what
Jesus loves you, he put you on this earth for a PURPOSE❤ have a great day
You are beautiful. Nourish and love on yourself ❤ we love you
Greetings from US
You are beautiful in and out. Stay strong !
This is actually a beautiful story...and it’s so admirable that you can share this with us and it shows how you’ve grown as a person
Side note you look soo beautiful with your natural hair colour ..you’re just beautiful in general the first time I came across your channel was a video with your cut hair and something drew me in to start watching every single thing you posted ...you’ve honestly been an inspiration to me ❤️❤️
I love this video. I always had long hair. Was known for my long hair since a child. When I first went natural I transitioned. After transitioning I grew my hair back to waist almost bottom length. Recently I began to get frustrated and the thought of cutting my hair just kept coming to me in meditation. And I just brushed the idea aside. I discussed it w hubby who has always supported me along my journey. He honestly would always say even when I was transitioning “I bet if you cut it you would feel so free.” I mean having long hair does take a lot of time and energy. I did also hold a lot of my beauty standard in my hair. Idk if it has been what has happened in the world this 2020 or what but this idea of feeling more free just kept coming to me. So I cut a few inches off but I was still frustrated and couldn’t concentrate. The next day...I finally big chopped. It’s one of the most beautiful experiences for me. To finally see myself. 🙏🏽 peace to you sis.
I cut my hair down like that too (now I have a side shave) for healthy hair for a re start it is so much better!! I suggest doing it to whom ever is debating over it!!
Congratulations and I am sure your positive affirmation will help someone. 💗
I can’t wait to cut mine off!! Just trying to find a stylist is HARD
Let me tell you something sis. Your beauty shines from the inside out. Your light is so bright and you are so inspiring. Your honesty is what these young woman need. My daughter looks up to you and so do I. This world puts women in boxes but you broke the stereotypes placed on you by society and showed them what real beauty is. Thank you Nia for being courageous enough to be yourself. Not only are you beautiful on the outside but you posses beauty far beyond that. A understanding of self esteem and self love at such a young age. You are simply awesome. And yes your hair is beautiful but it does not define you love you define you. Much love to you shine bright forever❤️❤️
Taren Guy talked about the same thing that she was being defined more by her hair than herself. Now she has freeform locs but she seems happier now than before.
She lost alot of followers in the process..
You are so beautiful nia with and without your hair 🌻
I cut my hair in January of this year too for similar reasons. I kept it off social media for two months. It truly is life changing. It felt like a burden was lifted off my shoulders. I experienced SOOO much loss in my life, most times out of my control, so I cut my hair to *reclaim* my time in a sense. I wanted to experience it grow (because I’ve always had big hair from childhood), and watch the journey & really get to enjoy the beauty of the different stages. I‘m learning to love myself and my big forehead that I can’t hide anymore under my big hair! 😂 love your story Nia - we’re the same age & you speak like you’ve lived 5 lifetimes! Love you so much girl 💗 thanks for sharing! 💖
I’m from Zimbabwe too 🎉🎉 ur hair is beautiful. I cut my hair in February too . I was too attached to my relaxed hair. It was time for a change
You inspired me to go on the journey with you. I cut my hair 6 months ago. And I'm love the journey. I just love you, you are inspiring, you are so beautiful Nia.
Thank you for helping me. Cus you really did. ❤
I always hated my hair... felt it made me ugly... so I used to flat iron it, and then everyone said I was beautiful... now i did the big chop and am embracing my curls... so far I don't get that many compliments, but that's ok, I love them and that's all that matters. I want to start a UA-cam channel, but here in the US there is definitly a dislike in the natural hair community for those of us that are white.... so I'm a little intimidated, as although I am white my hair grows out of my head into an afro... I'm afraid I will be attacked... any advice?
Hello, I read your sentence and you have to don't care about what people think
You want to do videos do it
Your skincolor is not important
The more important is the hair and inside, people will subscribe to you
Excuse me I'm not English sorry for the faults
Hello 😊💛, do whatever makes you happy. There's a white youtuber called Joy - el who has the same hair texture as me despite her race. ☺ As far as I know, she doesn't get any negative comments ❤, so I'm sure it'll be fine. 😁💖 Good luck X 😘
@@mrs.potatohead8471 I love that channel... but I'm pretty sure she said she's African American.... she's very pretty
Mrs.Potato Head she isnt white
As a black woman, do what makes you happy and brings you peace. I'm sure you can help lots of ppl that face the same obstacles as you 😊
when you said, “bruh”, that was cute ☺️✨
enjoyed listening to your
big chop story. it is freeing 😌
and a great start for a new beginning
much abundance to you on your journey Nia 💛💫
You are gorgeous. Your hair is simply an accessory, but your personality makes you beautiful. ❤️
Love this! I love the fact that you give back to your people and you seem to never forget where you came from! Love you 💕
Oh dear Nia, you are beautiful and your story is one to be heard by many. Sadly this world has changed and there are plenty of superficial people out there, but you are a gem. I loved hearing your honest and open thoughts. Love from Australia xx
Again,ur so very inspirational on issues that affect women all over the world, that positive energy is so badly needed.👍👍😍👏 you were great.
I felt every part of this, I cut off all my hair last year then a brush cut 6 months ago because I damaged my hair. I depended on my hair to make me feel beautiful but since then this journey has given me so much more confidence. I’m all face lol and I’ve learned & STILL learning to love it 💜💜 thanks for sharing your story
Youre beautiful! I did the same. ;)
I’m 40 years old and I’m still on the journey of finding myself. I can’t tell you have much of an inspiration you been to me. Your light shines so bright. So proud of you ❤️
I love this so much. I use to have long curly hair and people use to comment how beautiful it was and only talk to me about my hair. My hair became a burden with me trying to make it look good everyday and feeling like poop when it didn’t. I hated every bit of it. So I shaved it all off. It’s been 3months now. I no longer look for validation on my appearance from other people. It comes from myself. Girl watching this made me so happy. I loved every part and can’t wait to see you smash all your goals and over some any obstacles you may face ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you xx
I love that you know what you want and you do it. Its a new chapter! We still love you Nia!❤✨✨
being authentic is what is lovable. Good for you looking at yourself, becoming aware of yourself. Support the old hair, and especially the new hair. And beyond that, YOU
It was so nice of you to make this video. I was pretty excited to see you had cut your hair cause right before I saw your new short do videos I had cut mine too. I had damaged mine from bleaching it blonde and it was so dry and I had to use so much product just to keep it semi- hydrated. When I saw you cut yours I was like, omg! I wasn't the only one who was tired of my hair! Now you can use just a dollop of product instead of a gallon! You go girl!
Very inspiring journey of finding yourself! Our beauty isn’t defined by our outward appearance solely but true beauty come from within! It’s beautiful that you found yourself because many young women on social media lost their identity with indulging so much in trend and fashion. Love it! ❤️ Keep being you and embrace your perfect imperfections!
Glad you are back, Nia. Such a beautiful soul.
Funny, I love it when you put your hair up. You look amazing no matter what. 😊
WoW this was a really different type of episode...Nia you are a strong individual despite whatever you faced on the path to where you are ATM and where your headed please continue with your blessings and don’t let anyone or anything deter you from your perfect masterpiece🙏💯🌸beautiful,love your energy and insight on a lot of things you put out and it’s true when they say “what you project is what you receive” stay true to yourself.
Yeah, love the fresh, moisturized hair and glad you have grown into such a beautiful young woman!! Also glad you learned who your true friends are (sooner rather than later).
ahhhhh! girl I love you when your hair was dark brown, blonde, gone lol This video meant so much more to me than a youtube comment can explain. I felt this on a spiritual level. All the angels in life have always been Geminis..I tend to attract them quite a lot (I'm an Aquarius) You cut your hair on my birthday!! that just really stood out to me lol. You truly are the light Nia and I hope I can someday shine as bright.
When is your birthday?
I've watched your videos before you cut your hair and you're still really pretty. It's not about how pretty you are but it's about your confidence and you're still soooooo dope!
🤩 BEAUTIFUL story, Nia 💫 you are beautiful to me with & without your hair! A major key I loved that you said was “cutting your hair won’t make you not be depressed” ✨🔑✨ That is SO TRUE with anything in this life, drastic changes don’t necessarily make all of our problems go away, we still have to deal with the insides, but I’m so happy for you that it was & has been a beautiful fresh start & a positive new journey! Happiness is a journey more so than a final destination. Enjoy the ride! & thank you sooo much for sharing! This video blessed me 🤗✨
You are such a beautiful sensitive soul (my rising is also Cancer, btw.) Most people do not have this kind of self awareness. You have wisdom that goes beyond your years!
Beautiful...so proud and happy that you went on this journey at this age. I believe there are lessons that each us experience throughout our lives and this was one for you. There will be many more, but I can feel you are ready for those lessons, they will only help you grow into the person you are meant to be and help you find out your purpose in this thing called life. You are shining bright, keep that light going. And opening up about your depression will only help another going through it. So many ppl especially in the black community won't talk about it due to a stigma placed on it. But your opening up ppl will say ok, she is talking about it, maybe I need to put a face on mine.
I saw you on the train the other day and I thought- what a beautiful hair cut and girl! It wasn't till I got off that I thought it could have been you. This video confirmed it was you! I love your cut and your vibe x
You look beautiful with HUGE, fluffy hair and absolutely stunning with your hair cut short (and dark). It brings your features out more. 😍👑
What a beautiful, and vulnerable journey you are on and the fact that you are sharing this experience with all of us is so bold! I commend you for learning such a valuable lesson at a young age and with this new discovery you're helping a lot of women. Continue to let your beautiful light shine as you continue to grow, learn, and be the best you. God bless💛 btw so happy I found your channel #inspirationhasnoage
Thank you for sharing. I'm from Zimbabwe and been following for a long time. I speak it into existence that one day I'll work with you Nia. I'm not a big brand that could entice you but I know that together we can make magic as we are both Geminis and love to travel and spread love💚💛🖤
You ARE Powerful! Your AURA is Powerful! Your SPIRIT is Powerful! Thank you Nia...XO
This video resonates with me on so many levels. I love your spirit. I love your content, it's all very authenticly bold. Continue to spread your powerful energy the world needs more of it. #NewSubscriber
Beautiful. Your curls are gorgeous and you hair have grown so fast. :)
The behind the scenes of being famous.
I love your honesty
I love your truthfulness
I love your experience
It was a story that needed to be told and I appreciate your growth to come on here and tell us.
💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
You look gorgeous with your hair short and natural colour. Well done.
Thank you !!! So inspirational! You are truly beautiful inside and out 💜
Firstly, thanks so much for opening up in this way. I used to come across your IG posts, videos, etc. but never really felt connected to you because I felt there was a bit of a facade about everything I saw coming from you (no judgement!) this was just the way I received the messages you were sending. Today, for the first time I see you, I hear you, I understand you. I want to wish you all the best on your journey. As a gemini myself, finding balance is one of my biggest struggles, I can only imagine how enlarged any struggle is when you are a person in the public eye. Remember though, you are a GEM, you ARE the light, and you are NOT your hair. You are an individual, with feelings, with emotions, with creative energy, and a full spirit. Good luck to you, and blessed love on your journey ;)
I'm glad you released this
Wow what an amazing life story!!! You are very smart and very much in touch with your inner spirit💗 your hair is amazing short as when it was long but for me it's the whole package, your smile is infectious! and your light comes through and it's beautiful i mean you are beautiful with hair or without💕
I think you are such a beautiful person. Your mentality is something I am really wishing to achieve this year. I have curly hair too, and as I watched your video, I realized a part of me does depend on my hair as beauty and as approval of others around me. I would appreciate if you could really spread and share your journey mentally of becoming who you are as you start uploading more content, because Im sure I can gain a lot from you. 💜
What’s the song you used in the beginning of the video? It’s so beautiful, I’ve been needing more uplifting songs like that 💕💕 loved this video so much!
Girl yes I came to the comments to see if I could find it too
She has a friend Masego he has done allot of her songs. I dont know if that 1 in the beginning is 1 of his but hey just check it out..
You are so inspiring omg I love it ! Thank you for sharing your story love 💕 you young beautiful and i cant wait to see you grow even more spiritually, emotionally. Love you so much .
Nia, this is the most beautiful thing I've ever watched. I did the same thing couple moths ago and it was the most amazing decision of my life, when you cut your hair it felt like we were on the journey together , even though we're miles apart , so thank you so much for that
You are beautiful and so inspiring THANK YOU
Humble and amazing soul you’re more than hair
What an awesome and relatable story! You're beautiful and so brave my love! When you can step back and be honest with yourself and love yourself anyway you grow to all new levels of love and light!
My favourite video! so much i can relate to, thank you for your transparency. Very authentic.
And you still poppin!! Love love love it girly!! Still oh so very beautiful!!
You're so encouraging to me. You're beautiful inside and out. You are a bright light.
I can see your face more clearly, this is a very savvy descision for someone quite young to step away from a career of creating instagram artifice
thank you so so much for being so vulnerable with us!!! We love you
I watch you because I like you and your personality. Yes your hair is beautiful now and before but I like you for you!
your journey is very inspiring, im from mauritius and i do follow you for years and i really understand the reason you took this decision. its very inspiring and it teaches us how to love ourself and how to be loved for who we are and not for how we look . We need more woman like you in this world to embrace our feminity. thanks Nia for sharing your story with us. kissess from mauritius
Amazing Nia, so proud of you! You're true inspiration
Yes girl! You are not your hair, you are you! You're so awesome and sweet. Continue to empower others! God bless❤❤❤
Inspiring! I can't wait to see your growth and most importantly see u be truly happy with yourself
I'm really enjoying this video Nia. You are definitely more than your hair love❤
This was beautiful Nia! I feel so lucky to have been one of the few to have experienced your documentary in person. Although I knew of your reasons for cutting your hair when I attended the event, I feel like this video covered aspects that I was unaware of. It's a shame you've lost 'friends' on this journey but I'm sure you've gained better ones since!! Love ya girl! xx
You’re such a strong woman. You are inspiration Nia. I love you ❤️💪💯
You are so Gorgeous and so insightful to be so young! I’m wishing you love and continued blessings on your journey! Your light definitely shines so bright and I know you have beautiful things to come in your life. Thanks for sharing ❤️!!
New subbie! The journey within is always the most rewarding! Congratulations!
Amazing video, it's so interesting to hear about all the process! You really are an inspiration, thank you ❤
Wow I just read your interview on the website of Aerie. So inspirational. You have a beautiful mind. You are your own rolemodel!
Thank you for being true to yourself and encouraging others to do the same
Wow! What an amazing story! Thank you for sharing that!
Gorgeous!!!!!! Luv it to pieces and you're as cute as a button!!!!
I love your message so much it takes a lot of internal growth to do something like this ❤️
That's why I subscrided
Thank you for this. Young people NEED to hear from people of their own age about the dark side of social media, and how toxic and destructive it can be. I would tell you that you're still beautiful without your big blonde afro, because you are, but I think it would be more useful to you to know that ultimately, your value as a person doesn't depend of your appearance. It's good to remind ourselves of that every so often.
Noooooo your hair is beautiful 😍
Wow. So interesting that this video popped up on my feed when I had just scheduled a blog post for my blog featuring @NiatheLight. The universe works in mysterious ways. I've always wanted to work with Nia, and now, watching this video, I understand why that hasn't happened yet because we had some communication back and forth from October last year and then things went quiet and I always wondered what had happened. So all of this had been going on even then!? I get it now.
Good for you,blessed thy on thou journey, continue to shine bright @NiaTheLight
I've been waiting for this video for so long 😍 #earlysquad
Thank you for being patient with me! More videos coming soon. I am totally motivated to be posting two videos a week so keep suggestions coming. 💗
Your content is so inspiring! Can't wait to see more... Thanks to your videos i started loving and embracing my curly hair! I'm following the curly girl method and it gets better and better after years of heat and chemical damage! I finaly understood that every hair texture is beautiful and that every woman should love and embrace her natural hair! Kisses from France 😘❤
Keep shinning. You continue to touch so many with your beauty.
You look absolutely beautiful.
Girl your hair is growing fast already!!!😀👍❤️💕
thanks for being so raw and real
You and your hair (long or short ) are both beautiful! Keep pushing forward.
Getting ready to do the same thing! Thanks for the inspiration
You look beautiful anyway, in and out... and this is a beautiful story and very well told, congratulations
This video will help more people than you will ever realize. You're Beautiful!!
Oh gosh! Great video...I feel this way as well..abt my hair..now on a loc journey
Thank youuuu . I’m trying to find the right moment to cut my hair 😭😭
KourtStyle TV Now is the time!!! Do it!!!! ✨✨✨💫
I just clipped the
color out of my hair and It looks so much healthier and defined!@@ninamosley3259
Whether your hair is short or long your still beautiful. At the end of the day be the person God created you to be
You’re beautiful regardless of what your hair looks like 😍. I experience something similar with my hair, I feel Iike only get compliments when my hair is out and curly. Never when it’s in a high bun. Thinking about big chop at your current hair length, it’s a great health length.
I love this! You are indeed the light 🌟
Ok you made burst into tears when they told you, why are you sorry, you dont need to be sorry.