Your husband won't satisfy you (and he wasn't meant to)

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  • Hi friends, I hope this video encourages you that no matter where you are at in life: single, dating, married, widowed... that a spouse is not the answer. Your husband will never satisfy you (completely), and he wasn't meant to. I hope this shines some truth to your situation and leads you closer to Christ. He loves you. He'll never leave you nor forsake you. And He was and is the one who was always meant to satisfy your soul.
    "Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” - John 4
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    A hard truth about marriage that might change your life

КОМЕНТАРІ • 346

  • @WonderfulActs
    @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +108

    “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who says to you, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him, and He would have given you living water.” ~ Jesus [John chapter 4]

  • @nicolesenkatuka9016
    @nicolesenkatuka9016 9 місяців тому +43

    As a 19 year old girl this was everything I needed and more. Made me realise that all the satisfaction I desired in marriage is found in Jesus ❤️

    • @shachivm
      @shachivm 8 місяців тому +3

      Amén 🤍 I too am 19. & i’ve been thinking a lot about my future husband, painting this picture that doesn’t exist.. losing touch with reality & forgetting to remember that God is my everything, He is the only one that will fulfill all my desires. We are the bride of Christ 💍

    • @wlroggj
      @wlroggj 8 місяців тому +2

      AMEN! I'm 21 and single in y'alls same boat but LET ME TELL YOUUUU! Falling in love with Jesus is the most amazing thing, you will feel completely filled and satisfied in a way that no man can ever give you! That is my prayer for yall !

  • @Tanniab09
    @Tanniab09 9 місяців тому +56

    Amen. I'm a married woman and I'm convicted of idolizing my husband and being married. Maybthe Lord forgive me for this and deliver me in Jesus Christ's name.

    • @KrispyKrunchee
      @KrispyKrunchee 9 місяців тому

      The way you put it is perfect.. Thank you! 🙌🏾❤️

  • @lisamarieanthony8116
    @lisamarieanthony8116 9 місяців тому +21

    Thiss was on point! I idolized Love and my husband . It cost me my marriage. Yet God is so merciful. Once I put Him as #1 in my life, He restored my marriage and brought our family back together. To God be the glory. ❤ He is my joy and happiness.

  • @allthingsjesus0
    @allthingsjesus0 9 місяців тому +103

    Sis!! You teaching and it’s right on time. As someone who has been single for years and now dating, this revelation has already been brewing in my spirit. You brought it altogether and wrapped it in a bow. Wow, this is such a good word. There is a book called “Get Lost” and she breaks down the curse a lot. I recommend it for all women who are struggling with the idolatry of a man as a single woman.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +6

      Thank you, sis!!! I'll have to check out that book. Glory to God for the revelation. I was blown when He showed it to me. Praise God for the confirmation!

    • @Be.kodesh7
      @Be.kodesh7 9 місяців тому +2

      Whose the author please

    • @allthingsjesus0
      @allthingsjesus0 9 місяців тому

      @@Be.kodesh7 Dannah Gresh

    • @ivykageha782
      @ivykageha782 9 місяців тому +1

      Hi. What is the full title of the book and who is the author?

    • @allthingsjesus0
      @allthingsjesus0 9 місяців тому

      @@ivykageha782 Hey. Get Lost by Dannah Gresh

  • @treasurebijon9679
    @treasurebijon9679 9 місяців тому +9

    wait, I never thought of it that way that we are experiencing the fall when we desire a man outside of Christ.

  • @KFontLab
    @KFontLab 9 місяців тому +8

    This is why it is so important to have God as your all. Human beings will be human beings. We have faults and will fall short. Your all is ALWAYS found in God. He has to be the center. Unfortunately so many get into relationships expecting that person to fully complete them.

  • @vaniquehouser5395
    @vaniquehouser5395 9 місяців тому +16

    This was so liberating sis. I repented and am now looking forward to Jesus filling my bucket up

  • @st1tchlu3vr
    @st1tchlu3vr 6 місяців тому +3

    New subscriber , married 12 years .. have felt this same stirring and did not know how to practically walk this out.. I don’t know if this will make sense but I have been stuck or (sitting in fear) of dropping my bucket and trusting Jesus can satisfy me.. !! Thank you for articulating it that way .. and I’m thankful to the Holy Spirit for preparing my heart to hear this.. DROP YOUR BUCKET!!! God is the new trusted fountain ..

  • @OreoFanatic3
    @OreoFanatic3 9 місяців тому +55

    What an on time word! Thank you for being obedient to the Lord and sharing this message. I feel like I’ve put up unbiblical expectations in my heart for my future husband to satisfy them when the Lord was always the only One who will ever meet, let alone exceed my expectations.
    I’ve been subscribed for a minute and it’s absolutely beautiful to see how far the Lord has brought you.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +5

      Aw thank you, girl... Yes, he truly is the only one who will fully satisfy us. Our husbands get it right some of the time. But only God can sustain those deep places (and he was the one who was meant to). Our happiness and that of our spouses is truly found in that truth (and it will set us free!!) God bless you, sis! Thanks for being here. ❤️

  • @beautyforashes23
    @beautyforashes23 9 місяців тому +3

    Talk about “He who the son has set free is free indeed” Jesus is talking to us. We must go back to our first love!❤❤

  • @tananiareid
    @tananiareid 9 місяців тому +10

    “Only You can satisfy my heart! Jesus!” 🎶💗

  • @GjW5829
    @GjW5829 9 місяців тому +9

    I am new here, I am dutch so my english is not so good, but i want to say thank you for sharing this word! I have to listen to it maybe a few times so i can write it all down and let it sink in. I had to learn this too. That i have to put God first and not my husband. I have to worship God! The truth will set you free! It did for me and by this my husband also.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +1

      Hi and thanks for being here!! My mom is dutch so that's super cool. I hope the message made sense! definitely refer to the scriptures and ask God to speak to you. Let us all worship God together. Love you, sis!

  • @hiyori2846
    @hiyori2846 9 місяців тому +9

    I’m not even done watching the video yet but my God! This video is so so powerful and liberating! I am guilty of idolizing marriage time after time again and so the Lord has been bringing me out of that! I told Him how I wanted Him to teach me who I am as a woman of God outside of being a married woman. I definitely want to be a homemaker one day Lord willing but over the years of being on UA-cam I’ve seen many teachings of how a woman needs to stay in the house until her husband shows up, so in other words, don’t get a job, don’t do anything until the man shows up, it’s like I started to feel like my whole life was supposed to be centered around being married at a certain age and I battle so much with growing older and not have been married yet, I have this strong desire to just pursue God even if it means I give God all of my twenties and I’m still not married yet. I’m not trying to say this out of pride at all but it’s nice to know that I am the one who’s the blessing as the Bible says and I am the one who’s needed, not saying that I don’t need a man, but what I’m saying is that I know my worth isnt always centered around needing a man and keeping a man. The word says I am worth more than rubies and I am valuable and so I should take that seriously and hide myself until the right person comes along.

  • @jacquleenE607
    @jacquleenE607 9 місяців тому +17

    The way I fell out in my bed while doing laundry and taking laps around my room while listening. This is on time!! Just Earlier this week I was spending time with God and I realized that my boyfriend doesn’t satisfy me and for the first time I was okay with that. Then Holy Says “that’s how it’s supposed to be”. I am someone who use to idolize marriage and has actually never been in a committed relationship( only situation-ships) this is my first one and God reveals this to me( I believe this revelation was also Gods way of showing me I’m ready for one ) After I had that revelation I see this video further explaining why. This video has also confirmed my desire to just help with things. I’ve always valued togetherness and making things easier for people in my life through helping them with their loads. I see now that this is a healthy desire from the Lord and I’m so encouraged to keep living this out and for the Lord to continue giving me healthy, kingdom perspective. I thank God for your obedience in sharing.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому

      wow! Praise God for giving you such a helpful spirit! That is definitely a gift and something I'm still working on/praying for lol. I'm glad this video could encourage you!

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 9 місяців тому

      i hope you got rid of the boyfriend...

    • @1985tmc
      @1985tmc 9 місяців тому +1

      That’s great! Being helpful is loving. I think it helps to discern God’s will to help bring order and this way, you also can have rest time. I don’t think God use’s relationships to overburden us. There was a verse I once read on bear ye one another’s burdens and fulfill the law of Christ. This helps encourage equality in marriage.

    • @jacquleenE607
      @jacquleenE607 9 місяців тому

      @@r.walker7986 you misunderstood what I was saying here. I was making reference to the video. I have no need to get rid of him because he’s not supposed to be satisfy me fully. Only the Lord can do that.

    • @jacquleenE607
      @jacquleenE607 9 місяців тому

      @@1985tmc I agree all the way sis! Yay to rest. I never thought about it in a way of helping to bring order. Now I’m further encouraged to keep helping and resting when needed lol. Also the Lord has been highlighting this exact verse to me over the past few weeks. Thank you for your insight.

  • @aerialjohnson3279
    @aerialjohnson3279 9 місяців тому +11

    Yes, this was helpful to me❤ I see social media constantly idolize relationships where the women can be spoiled and useless and the man does everything. It makes things seem one sided on who benefits. Jesus is calling me to give up a man being my desire and letting my desire be HIM❤️ thank you Alyssa😊

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston 8 місяців тому +3

    Let's talk about it 👏🏾 God has given himself, community, family, mentors, and friends to meet the needs we try to find through a spouse. It's a recipe for disaster. Another great video ❤

  • @melissaleonard1168
    @melissaleonard1168 9 місяців тому +15

    First time watcher. Thank you for such a good word. A much needed message in a world obsessed with “romantic love” we’ve gotten it so twisted from what God intended.

  • @1NicolaPratt
    @1NicolaPratt 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you sweetheart May God bless you 🙏🏾💖🥰 yesterday I said goodbye to a man who I’ve been in love with for the last 3 years and I repented for making him an idol in my life ❤ I was feeling upset about but knew and got several confirmations from God and it was time to fully surrender 🙏🏾 I’m praying this morning and first video I see is this!!!! Hallelujah glory be to God, thank you for your obedience and sharing this message and the revelation 💖 ”Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment.“
    ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭22‬:‭37‬-‭38‬ ‭KJV‬‬

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +1

      wow. I know letting that man go was probably hard, but if it was God leading you and he was an idol then trust me, that is going. to be one of the best decisions you've ever made. we have to let go of counterfeits to receive what God has for us. May we love God with everything!!! thanks for sharing, hun. God bless you!

  • @jenniferaugustin7544
    @jenniferaugustin7544 9 місяців тому +9

    Amen ❤️ I got a similar revelation this year and I absolutely LOVE doing life with Jesus. I am a different person. God has fulfilled all of my emotional needs and He continues to be a Faithful Husband.

  • @aaliyahlunan876
    @aaliyahlunan876 9 місяців тому +2

    nah this is such a good revelation fr. i've never really sat down and wondered why Jesus asked this lady about husbands after they were just talking about water but now that i think about it...wow. God is so intentional.

  • @AimeeBeeluvz
    @AimeeBeeluvz 7 місяців тому +1

    Alyssa , I wish I could give you a hug right now and boohoo cry on your shoulder!!
    This isn’t an easy message to put out in the world we live in, I’ve been married for just 4 months and oh my my my- Ive only just realised that came into this ‘finally wanting someone to take care of me because I’m tired of taking care of other people’. I’ve been convicted that while my husband has been called to love me- only God can satisfy that longing for healing I have. Disagreements hurt more because deep down I have thought he’s the one that’s meant to never let me down.
    I pray God continues to see my heart and hold my hand through this pruning process.
    It’s absolutely not easy, sending love to all women who can relate to what you’ve shared. May we surrender to God being the King of our hearts, teaching us how to be a godly lover and helpmeet ❤🙏🏾

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  7 місяців тому +1

      awww sis!!! sending a big virtual hug your way. I totally understand and can relate. Let God be your shoulder!!! The Lord is such a wonderful husband. But I know it still hurts and can be tough... praying you get the freedom and peace and hope you are longing for. much love, sis! 🤗❤️

  • @krystalscott2880
    @krystalscott2880 9 місяців тому +6

    This is a hard truth I needed to hear today (literally, this very day). Thank you for your obedience in sharing this Word!

    • @angeliu6840
      @angeliu6840 8 місяців тому

      Same for me and I saw this come up in my feed today 😮

  • @setapart4Hisglory
    @setapart4Hisglory 9 місяців тому +2

    I have never seen that part where the woman drops her bucket, well I have but not in that light. Thank you so much for sharing and for your obedience. ❤

  • @rachelmoore2608
    @rachelmoore2608 9 місяців тому +9

    This message was truly needed for me! Thanks for being obedient to God and speaking His Word!

  • @OHRDesign
    @OHRDesign 5 місяців тому

    I had someone teach me this awhile back, but using this scripture as an illustration is an amazing revelation and she’s so much more light and understanding than I had previously. Thank you! Keep teaching this, you are so right, no matter how hard it is, we are to be convicted and disciplined because He loves us. Glory to God for teaching you this, He is so good and faithful! And thank you for your boldness and obedience sister, keep it up always ❤️❤️ blessing and favour to you and your family!

  • @Naynaya11111
    @Naynaya11111 9 місяців тому +3

    Amazing message! Pointing out the direct contradiction between culture and Christ in this topic is powerful and eye opening for us women to be be resurrected in our marriages. ❤ great job on doing this page it just popped up in my algorithm. Great find!

  • @gemsxjourneyx196
    @gemsxjourneyx196 8 місяців тому +3

    I don’t have a husband but I would like a partner to live this life with and experience all the wonderful things the Lord has created here on earth. :( doing everything alone is tiring.
    God created eve for Adam …. He knew we shouldn’t be alone…

  • @2tim221
    @2tim221 8 місяців тому +1

    This is so true! I have been fantasizing over a man who does not EXIST!! Being a single girl can be a lot of emotions, but thank the Lord we are able to come to Him as the Living Water, the only one that satisfies!! You've inspired me, I want to make a video on this too! :)

  • @CharMeezy21
    @CharMeezy21 9 місяців тому +5

    You better preach! This was such a blessing to hear. What a revelation 🙌🏾

  • @NanaHoneyB
    @NanaHoneyB 4 місяці тому

    I’ve heard this many times, but your words really penetrated my heart. You used the woman at the well story so incredibly well. Thank you💗 I’ll journal about this so I never forget.

  • @lynni.788
    @lynni.788 9 місяців тому +4

    Can the part about a woman is made for a man but a man was not made for a woman be explained more in terms how that pertains to an actual relationship. What is the man’s purpose with the woman? I hope I’m making sense but I do get overall message.

    • @Somelikeitthrift
      @Somelikeitthrift 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah because I’m not understanding what is the purpose of a man to a woman if her desire for him is her curse.

  • @Jasmine.the.Blossom
    @Jasmine.the.Blossom 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow, the Lord truly ministered to me through this message. I had to rewind and re-listen multiple times as God built upon the revelation that you brought through scripture. Thank you soooo much for releasing this. I have been blessed by your videos since I started watching at least 5 years ago.

  • @jacquelinemay8101
    @jacquelinemay8101 9 місяців тому +1

    New here. Wow! I think this just changed my life. Amazing revelation in this video. Thank you sis. Praise Jesus ✝️

  • @Hope4Life26
    @Hope4Life26 9 місяців тому +3

    Question: If we were made for men and not the other way around…what’s the point in having a man if he won’t serve us? Shouldn’t it be a two way street and that a man is beyond his abilities to build? I don’t want a husband if I can’t even emotionally, and mentally connect to him and if he feels as though he’s only good for what he does with his hands? Where’s the bond?

    • @calmREACTS
      @calmREACTS 9 місяців тому +1

      You can connect emotionally and mentally but putting your burdens/traumas on a man won’t keep a man cause he can’t fix that or satisfy that it’s not his responsibility

  • @christinelong2407
    @christinelong2407 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you, Alyssa! I really needed to hear this due to idolatry in my heart for men and marriage.
    I am an OG subscriber thanks to Tawana sharing your UA-cam channel years ago when you first started 😊

  • @abidinginYAH
    @abidinginYAH 9 місяців тому +2

    I'm a new subscriber! This story has been near to my heart for a while, because I can relate to the Samaritan woman. Recently, I sensed Yahushua impressing this passage upon my heart. I now realize that it was no coincidence that I came across this video. Thank you for obeying His call. May you continue to follow His lead. Blessings to you in the Most High, Yahushua (the One who delivers, saves, and provides all things!)

  • @Angeloflight7
    @Angeloflight7 8 місяців тому +1

    Another note, it's interesting because for me, it's kinda the opposite in that I am one of those who rather desired to be a single mother (I know crazy. Praise God for delivering me from that) and so this message showed me how it can work in this sense too. It's in the way of rather blocking myself from helping men due to for a long time hating men because of how they had hurt me and just not trusting them. But God healed me from this and He gave me such a desire and heart to help men, back in 2021 through my work and now hoping for more opportunities to do that.
    So needless to say, a very powerful revelation I got through this message. Thank you for your obedience ❤

  • @pjphat19
    @pjphat19 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing. This has hit me in the chest, and I know this message was for me.

  • @DesmioneFisher
    @DesmioneFisher 9 місяців тому +3

    This was wayyyyyy too good! Definitely a timely Holy Spirit influenced message. 💚

  • @arylleyoung
    @arylleyoung 9 місяців тому +6

    Hey Elisa! We went to high school together! It was great coming across your page and seeing your transition. I'm new to the Wonder Fam and I've appreciated every video I've watched so far. This message was practical ministry and on point for so many of us! Thank you for sharing your message!

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +1

      Hey, girl! Wow, so cool. Praise God! Thanks for being here. Go Raiders! lol

  • @visceralmotion9486
    @visceralmotion9486 9 місяців тому +1

    As a man myself. This is still very important to hear. I have been feeling like I have been making my wife an idol by trying to please her over everything. Serving my wife is not a bad thing, but this reminder of God creating women to be a help mate makes sense to me. I always feel like its an uphill battle and i am never truly able to satisfy her.
    Thank you for sharing this. Anything can be made into and idol amd I need to be careful.

  • @debreannaa
    @debreannaa 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m so happy to have heard this message the way you explained. It has opened my eyes and heart. God Bless You! Thanks

  • @cee2random
    @cee2random 8 місяців тому +1

    As a married woman in a struggling marriage.. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @mathapelonyembe4702
    @mathapelonyembe4702 9 місяців тому +2

    Sis! You are truly gifted. The way you articulate and interpret scripture is truly divine! Thank you so much for sharing this Rhema Word! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AbbasDaughter777
    @AbbasDaughter777 4 місяці тому

    Wow!! That was a word. God bless you for sharing the Father's heart here. Beautiful confirmation. 🙏❤️

  • @t.quinoa1800
    @t.quinoa1800 9 місяців тому +4

    Sis, what you said reminds me of Rachel and Leah. God saw that Leah was not loved and so He blessed her with many children. Rather than rejoicing in the fact that the God of all creation looked upon her and loved her, she focused solely on her husband's affection. For every single child she got, she expected that Jacob would love her more than he loved Rachel, which we know never happened. Leah probably could have experienced so much joy in her life if she would have chosen to serve God with the blessings that He gave her -her children. Perhaps the tension that existed between the sons of Leah and the sons of Rachel (mainly Joseph) could have been lessened if the sons of Leah hadn't been constant witnesses of the contention and competition that existed between Leah and Rachel. Obviously Jacob's favoritism plays a huge part in this story, I'm not denying that. But perhaps Leah's sons would have had at least a slightly different attitude if they saw their mom lead in love, let go of the bitterness she had for not being the chosen one, forgive her sister, and raise her sons in the fear of the Lord.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому

      That’s so good! I thought about her too. I love what you said at the end about letting go of bitterness and leading in love.

    • @Youwish34
      @Youwish34 9 місяців тому

      Not all women will be loved. And that’s okay. As long as they pop out some kids all is well.

    • @sofiabravo1994
      @sofiabravo1994 6 місяців тому

      yes women can be loved by God@@Youwish34

  • @penny4161
    @penny4161 9 місяців тому +2

    Awesome video Sis. This is sobering because I definitely identify witht he discontentment in my heart towards my husband. And just like you my husband Is great and does what he needs to do for us, priest of our home, elder in the church etc but sometimes it's hard lol. Your are right and I need to give him some grace and focus on Jesus! The author and perfector of our faith❤

  • @Price8903
    @Price8903 9 місяців тому +3

    I hated my husband (jk) until I heard this word. I’m joking 🙃 but thanks. This is a great reminder to put God at the forefront and for us to desire him and his will for our lives.

  • @SuperSupremeShany
    @SuperSupremeShany 8 місяців тому +1

    Wow this video is so good! 🤗 Everything you mentioned and the scriptures you highlighted hit it right on the nail. I am so glad the Lord shed light to you on this topic and to share it with us women. This helps to shed light, truth, and bring a wholistic well rounded view on what marriage really is.
    The only way this could be best understood and received in one’s own heart is to humbly and fully surrender your heart onto the Lord, letting go of your own ways and thoughts, and being open to hearing and learning what God thinks. His word is truth it’s here to prune us and He knows what we ultimately need even if we don’t always understand or want to accept it. In the midst of it all He is so patient and kind with our process to getting to where we need to be in our mindset and heart. ❤
    I do think it is best this way that God wants all of our attention and heart for Him solely because otherwise we would make marriage and having a husband an idol and we would also use what we have to feel more superior then others. For example: Peninnah had children but Hannah had none. Hannah was mistreated by Peninnah because she could not bare children which is found in 1 Samuel 1:2-20.
    Also what a burden to carry onto one’s self to idolize a man because once he is no longer meeting your needs you will be left unfulfilled and upset, meanwhile, with God He has grace and mercy for His children which are attributes we have to learn and understand to do for another human being through reading His word, understanding His ways, His thoughts, His attributes, His selfless nature, and accept it for ourselves. This helps us to better understand God, our selves and then be able to exhibit the attributes of God’s love onto another person. Otherwise it would be hard to innately do on our own because we often war between the flesh and the Spirit. When we operate from the space of the flesh we tend to be selfish and focus on meeting our own desires versus when operating in the Spirit we are selfless. This also shows we need to believe and depend on something bigger and greater than ourselves which is our Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord truly is wonderful and mysterious. 🙌
    May the Lord bless you abundantly and continue to guide your footsteps! Wishing you and your family a wonderful 2024 to come full of His joy, peace, and love! 🎆🙏❤

  • @truh_von_tay
    @truh_von_tay 8 місяців тому +1

    You amazing & I pray to God overflow of blessings. Stuff not just for woman.

  • @KishUnleashed
    @KishUnleashed 9 місяців тому +3

    HalleluYah! This was such a powerful and convicting message. I have been married for 8 years and love my husband dearly, but he will never take the place as my Savior. All praises to The Most High for this revelation and thank you so much for sharing.🤎

  • @Angelinesekle
    @Angelinesekle 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you! Like literally I needed this TODAY! You don’t even understand sis. ❤glory to God for your obedience

  • @crystalgarry2507
    @crystalgarry2507 8 місяців тому

    This is one of the best messages I've heard on this subject, and has convinced me to subscribe to your channel as I feel like you're the friend/sister I've been looking for. The Holy Spirit recently convicted me of idolizing my husband and marriage. I'll say this: The Word says that He is a jealous God, and I can say from experience that God will eventually remove anything and ANYONE that removes you from Him. I am currently experiencing a much-needed wilderness season to prepare me for what God has prepared for me. God has been downloading in my spirit exactly what you shared in this message, so it is just a wonderful confirmation. Thank you so much for allowing the Lord to use you in this message.

  • @jessicazantal7265
    @jessicazantal7265 6 місяців тому

    Wow! I'm a new subscriber. Definitely not easy to hear but it is oh so good.
    God has not been in his rightful place. I have been putting my husband before him, thinking he will meet my needs and he will fail time and time again.
    God never will!!!!!!

  • @mwilburn81
    @mwilburn81 8 місяців тому

    Girl! That is one my favorite word in the bible but your message 🔥🔥. God is speaking through you! Thank you for being used.

  • @Godsflowergirl89
    @Godsflowergirl89 8 місяців тому

    Love❤ this! I've been noticing this in my own Bible study and my own relationship. The ezer kenegdo thing is REAL & GODLY. That's why it seems women have been given "more wisdom,more intuition ,more organizational skills and just more common sense!" 😅
    2 years ago this was driving my hypergamous mind crazy, but it took really finding truth about my role as a woman to accept the other side of the fairytale. Of course men are useful; providers, priests, and doting lovers, but us women got a deep call with being "ezer"/helper. That's why most times it's natural for the woman to be more "spiritual"/spiritual leader (in thr sense of knowing God's will, praying, meditating on the Word, catching if vibes ain't right) too. Hahaha this knowledge literally set me free. Let's do what we were made to do ladies.! Thank you for this video, I have subscribed!🎉❤😊

  • @hotliketee
    @hotliketee 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this wonderful word of God! Praise the Lord!

  • @Nellebell46
    @Nellebell46 9 місяців тому

    New subscriber here! I had always heard getting a man won't satisfy you and as a young woman desiring marriage this video really broke down that saying. I watched a lot of romantic movies growing up and have this fantasized idea of how life will be when I get married.
    While I know some people enjoy their marriages, I want to grow deeper in my relationship with God and not wait for a man to come satisfy me.
    The Lord has given me an understanding through watching this video. Thank God and thank you!!

  • @Angeloflight7
    @Angeloflight7 8 місяців тому

    Yo yo yo I have never heard this story preached like this! Praise God🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Thank you Jesus and His redemptive power❤

  • @kreativekyland
    @kreativekyland 9 місяців тому +4

    Part of the long time crew and I love and needed this message! It is such a powerful reminder for women and I am about to send it to all of my friends! Thank you Alyssa!

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому

      yay! Thanks for sharing and thanks for being here

  • @mizz2ts86
    @mizz2ts86 9 місяців тому +3

    What an on time word! Thank you Jesus❤

  • @brookebellamy9864
    @brookebellamy9864 8 місяців тому

    this is so beautiful to hear as a newlywed who is also newly pregnant. This has been heavy in my spirit & something ive prayed to not idolize my husband or our child or any person. Worship belongs to God alone. And yes I'm an OG Subscriber ❤

  • @Danialove_
    @Danialove_ 9 місяців тому

    Whoa!!!! i have been searching and praying for an answer for years. This good.

  • @andream.4144
    @andream.4144 9 місяців тому

    This video appeared in my feed today and I know that I was suppose to hear this word exactly today. It truly blessed me and convicted me. I repented and I feel like a weight has lifted. I know my personal relationship with Jesus and my marriage will be impacted for the better now that I have the right biblical perspective. New subscriber here. God bless you. ❤

  • @Tamisvideodiary
    @Tamisvideodiary 9 місяців тому +1

    This message!!!!! Lord JESUS Thank You!!!! This story is one of my fav, top 5 but this Revelation is from the Lord. I don’t even have the words but thank you Jesus! I will be rewatching so amazing!!

  • @mrs.latoyamelvin652
    @mrs.latoyamelvin652 9 місяців тому +1

    This hit differently that I needed, glory be to God…..
    I have been questioning God if like IF I can help men….. I knew women CAN bring men to God BUT people been rejecting believing God would use a woman to open hearts of men to the cross, but hearing this message went from me focusing on repenting of desiring strongly about my husband to realizing this message has much deeper understandings I needed to hear! Glory glory glory….. I’m humble & going to pray now! Thank you sister in Christ, I can not convey in words how powerful this message is to me, Ive always looked at my life situations as the woman at the well & been asking for so long to God MAKE IT MAKE SENSE, this set the wonders FREE….. glory glory glory, im dropping my bucket & running to repent & pray Amen 🙏🏾 (I pray all who hears Hear & be blessed, love you all 🙏🏾

  • @CamirrasKitchen
    @CamirrasKitchen 9 місяців тому

    Imma have to let this simmer in my spirit. I been here for a looong time( just undr a differnt account) this is a good message. this bring confirmation to how God told me he would satisfty me while in a rough area of my marriage.

  • @tehilagrace
    @tehilagrace 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this. This is a revelation God gave me recently and you are just confirming it so clearly. God bless you for your ministry.

  • @KelahCash
    @KelahCash 9 місяців тому +1

    Uh oh!! 😍 🗣🗣 HHHUUU! HEY BISOOONNN!!!! 💙❤️💙❤️
    What a blessing to see my fellow alum in Christ.
    The Lord's grace, peace, covering, power, intimacy & continued wisdom upon you, your household, extended family, & friends, sister!
    I'm in the beginning of the video, so I'll be back at the end. 😊
    *Wait. I just realized you & your husband were the leaders that chaperoned us for the ENC Conference during the Spring of 2016! That was my very first worship conference & the very first one after I had been saved Dec. 31, 2015. I got baptized during that weekend 💕 So glad to see you & come upon your channel again. I came across it YEARS ago & here you are again. God sure is funny. 🥰
    *Okay I'm back at the end of the video! WHHHEEEEEWWWWWEEEEEE!!!! CHIIIILLDDD! The Holy Spirit BROKE THIS DOOOWWNNNN through you, sis! WOW!!!
    I actually disagree with you- this is not a hard, crazy word. This is empowering & freeing! I do understand that having specific hopes/expectations for marriage "debunked" can be a disappointment & hurt that needs to be processed. But speaking for myself personally from where I am at in life, this was soooo beautiful. Nothing about it disappointed me. There are no expectations I'm now grieving. Instead, this was so enlightening & revelatory. And again, FREEING!
    From 14:20 to the end the Holy Ghost REALLY kicked it into high gear! Girl you were FLOWING! How she was half Jew & half Gentile, representing the redeeming of ALL women. And how Eve led man away from God but the Lord redeemed us through her in placing us into our RIGHTFUL purpose & identity- coming alongside men as an ezer where we empower, aid, & pour out what we get FROM God INTO the men.
    GIIIIRRRLLL!!! This was SOOOO so good! I'm grateful to have come upon it. As soon as I saw the title & that HU gear, I knew I was tuning in. So bless you for your CONTINUED obedience. You've been stewarding this channel for years & it is a joy to come upon it once again to see you going strong in the Lord!
    BLESS! 🙌🏽💙❤️

  • @Courtso_lovely
    @Courtso_lovely 9 місяців тому +1

    Honestly as a single mother of two 4yr old boys I remember when I first came to Christ I kept desiring a man but ever since I had my boys I realized who been taking care of us and Jesus literally been walking and providing for my family every step of the way it’s crazy bc I’ve had so many men of God tell me I need a man and I became content with having God.. it’s funny bc I just read about the Samaritan woman like a month ago an now I’m in genesis I just read about the fall yesterday an I seen your vid on my timeline but I didn’t click it bc I thought u would be talking about marriage and sure enough u spoke about God being the center thanks this Blessed me and I truly believe I needed to see this ! Btw I been watching your channel for years since u marched around the apartment you wanted and God Blessed you ! 😊

  • @childofchrist6749
    @childofchrist6749 9 місяців тому

    You are wow, the way those scriptures were interpreted allowed God to really speak to me

  • @MKE87
    @MKE87 8 місяців тому

    From one HU girly to another, thank God for bringing this message today. My hubby and I started dating in our sophomore year at HU. We have been together since 2007. Married for a decade with two lovely little girls. Amen to your message b/c I needed it today.

  • @chimwemwekombe6638
    @chimwemwekombe6638 9 місяців тому +1

    This is so powerful 🤩 thanks for your obedience to share indeed our identity, satisfaction and completion is only found in Christ 💖💖

  • @saltandlight24.7
    @saltandlight24.7 9 місяців тому

    OMGSH! I need to hear this TODAY. God truly answers prayers. This was definitely Holy Spirit led. 🙌🏽
    Thank you!!

  • @JhaNaySmith
    @JhaNaySmith 9 місяців тому

    Wow!! This was a blessing!! I never looked at that part of the story about Eve being a curse. It put a lot in perspective for me. I’m going to drop my bucket!🙌 Hallelujah God! Thanks for your obedience sis! 💜🙏

  • @gowithhisflow5853
    @gowithhisflow5853 9 місяців тому

    Girl the anointing on this word! Jesus Christ glory to God!

  • @azucar.morena
    @azucar.morena 9 місяців тому

    I’m in tears. Thank you for allowing God to use you. 💜

  • @samsprott
    @samsprott 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow wow amen🙏🏽👏🏽 You literally broke down this concept/truth so perfectly. You are so wise! Good things are always going to happen God’s way. No ifs, ands, buts, or maybes. Keep being a vessel!😇

  • @colossianawilson9003
    @colossianawilson9003 8 місяців тому

    I normally don't comment on videos . But I definitely felt like I needed too. I am a married wife, and mother of four children and I needed to hear this message. Thank you for your willingness and transparency to share. Iam currently working on my relationship with Christ. Also will subscribe🙂

  • @danielle538
    @danielle538 9 місяців тому

    Wow! This was so ON TIME! My sister and I were talking about this. And you came in and backed it up with scripture. God is truly moving and working! Love to hear God speaking through and using His people. Thank you for sharing His word!❤️❤️❤️

  • @gaellejean-louis6873
    @gaellejean-louis6873 5 місяців тому

    I never understood it like that. Thank you for this! God bless you!!!

  • @kevonharris1006
    @kevonharris1006 9 місяців тому

    This is wisdom! I got excited with just reading the title! Sis, you dropped bombs on us! Praise God for your obedience ♥️.

  • @deedeeb9112
    @deedeeb9112 9 місяців тому

    Onnnnnnn timmmmmmmeeeee! Praise God for using you as a vessel to deliver this delicate word!

  • @JonelleElise
    @JonelleElise 9 місяців тому

    Wow this is amazing! This is such a blessing to hear the TRUTH…

  • @tshegofatsomalane9391
    @tshegofatsomalane9391 8 місяців тому

    May God keep edifying in you so you can enlighten us. I’m so enlightened as a single woman who was obsessed with getting a man. I drop my bucket 🙌🏽

  • @adrienneknight3695
    @adrienneknight3695 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this video. I had to be honest with myself and repent months ago. I was trusting my husband for everything and not God. I had made him an idol but not intentionally. It made me see my relationship with Christ differently and go to Him first in prayer. I’m learning to put my trust and rely on Him,, no matter what.

  • @OliviaAlreadyKnows
    @OliviaAlreadyKnows 9 місяців тому

    Dropping the bucket! You had me scrambling through scripture lol what a revelation. Thank you sis! I believe I subscribed earlier this year.

  • @TheBrozz77
    @TheBrozz77 9 місяців тому

    This word came just in time. Seriously was just crying a few minutes ago and I was expecting for my husband to go and pick me up and encourage me. Kind of like some UA-cam videos I’ve seen, anyways he obviously didn’t, he was snoring..which made me get even more sad. It makes me feel alone sometimes and empty, but only God can satisfy thank you seriously for this reminder 🙏

  • @Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii
    @Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii 9 місяців тому +10

    So what about where God commands husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church? His love to you should be sacrificial, unconditional, and very satisfying..I do agree that we should not idolize our husbands or marriage but we should definitely have high standards for them to reach as women of God we should expect more from Godly men. Also, God does not want us to be lonely, we need a community whether that’s through family or not.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs  9 місяців тому +8

      I totally agree that husbands are called to love us and lay their lives down like Christ loves the church!!! This is more about our heart posture towards men in thinking that they are meant to meet all of our needs

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 9 місяців тому +3

      A lot of women will take the message and turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to the facts they are simply involved with or married to a man that they have no business being with and rather than go find a better, more suitable partner, just write off all of the ways the person disappoints them or falls short and tries to get Jesus to fill the voids which might be ok in certain areas but there are just some ways your partner should be satisfying you if they are then right person for you. There are earthly needs that are meant to be satisfied on earth like food, drink, air, sleep, etc and some of them require actual living breathing people. No, a man or a woman cannot fulfil the needs that only God can fill, no more than going to sleep can quench thirst or satiate hunger but they can give you a hug when you need it. It just has to be established that a romantic partner has a purpose and needs they need to work towards fulfilling and there comes a point in somke relationships where you might be running to Jesus more than you should and its an indignation of the situation you are in.

  • @victorioustoday6691
    @victorioustoday6691 9 місяців тому +1

    Love this message! Praise God. It was such a blessing and right on time!🥰😄

  • @jessicad8345
    @jessicad8345 9 місяців тому

    I had to watch this 3 times. The first time, I suddenly fell asleep. I woke up to catching the end and feeling angry, I didn’t know where it came from, so I knew I had to rewatch it. I paused it after the second time and stalled for time. I could hear God saying “just say it, tell me” even tho I never want to admit it. I’ve been a sweet and giving and helpful person my entire life, I’ve been through many ugly things, especially verbal abuse. I was angry inside for years, but I couldn’t stop helping ppl. To this day, I cannot ignore someone in need really. I resent it. Having a pure heart, pure love for strangers and family alike, hurts terribly. As you could imagine, many ppl, especially men have taken advantage of me for it. My dad even molded me into people pleasing, it was how I received love from him. Then my brothers, to friends to boyfriends and now I want a husband, lol. I was waiting for my current bf to text me back, I felt lame how often I yearn for him, I hide it but inside I act so sprung. When im alone im always content and happy but when relationships w men come I lose parts of myself every time. So, this video made me angry. I felt like “God I’ve always served! I’ve always helped! All they ever did was walk on me and appreciate me when im broken or gone from them! I have helped men and women all my life, I’m even a caregiver rn! Did you make me to be a slave? Are we really second class citizens?” Even now, I cry typing that. But I must’ve needed to see this Bc once I told God how I really felt, even tho im struggling understanding it a bit (idk if this means I should be happy when men treat me like “the help” even tho I’m naturally a genuine helper) I don’t feel angry the 3rd time around. Logically, I understand the point; my heart however, doesn’t feel satisfied with the possibility of never having a husband who I’d be happy to help. So that’s what I prayed, if he isn’t supposed to help me, let him be a man I’d be happy and honored to help. Lots more I digged up but then it’d be a book. Lol. Ik, what the word says, I just have to believe it. Revere the Lord and be delivered from idolizing men based from a father wound. This helped in that deliverance, so thank you ❤

  • @annamakoto1201
    @annamakoto1201 8 місяців тому

    I needed this! As a single woman who has just experienced Christmas, seeing all the couples and families, this word was what I needed. It led me back to God and how quickly I was to leave Him and neglect just how much He loves me and all He has done for me. Jesus is enough for me 💯 and by His love, I am satisfied and lack nothing. Hallelujah, Amen ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @parlinsashincontractor8117
    @parlinsashincontractor8117 7 місяців тому

    Timely message from Christ through you dear sis in Christ.

  • @bernicecherfrere7736
    @bernicecherfrere7736 9 місяців тому

    I receive it. Father God is awesome! He has our best interest and is speaking thru you. Thanks

  • @ChristinaGomez-y6y
    @ChristinaGomez-y6y 9 місяців тому

    Wow this was NEEDED. The Holy Spirit Himself is speaking thru you thank you God 💕 🙏🏼

  • @LitfortheLord
    @LitfortheLord 9 місяців тому +1

    This was SUCH a good word!!🔥thank you sister🙏🏽

  • @angelayhyland
    @angelayhyland 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this video (from an OG subscriber). This was so well explained. I had to share it with some friends. May God continue to bless your life and ministry. 🙏🏾💛

  • @InspiredUno
    @InspiredUno 9 місяців тому

    Single woman and here this is gold!!! The more we seek God and ourselves (wholeness) the less we will look to a man to be our void filler.

  • @Vivalabridge
    @Vivalabridge 9 місяців тому +1

    I love this and I also love that this is coming from a married woman 🎉