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  • @ILoveStemi
    @ILoveStemi 9 років тому +686

    I honestly think that this is her best makeup look. Her makeup+her hair+her off the shoulder sweater looks so natural and laidback and I love this look on her

  • @abigailfranklin8583
    @abigailfranklin8583 7 років тому +145

    you need to rewatch this video to remember how beautiful and strong you can be.

  • @princessjora1598
    @princessjora1598 7 років тому +192

    Wow. She looks so beautiful here.

    • @stsxlalala
      @stsxlalala 7 років тому +14

      Her hair, I'm obsessed

  • @saywink
    @saywink 7 років тому +83

    Aw I hope you get back to this headspace soon this is so insightful and confident.

  • @brennanjulee2758
    @brennanjulee2758 9 років тому +393

    anyone else think Trish looks DROP DEAD GORGEOUS in this video?

    • @kirtikasharad7126
      @kirtikasharad7126 9 років тому +2

      she was omg

    • @amberbrooke7571
      @amberbrooke7571 9 років тому +1

      YES!

    • @Foreveryoung542
      @Foreveryoung542 9 років тому +5

      Yes!! This makeup look is soo beautiful

    • @Darima2
      @Darima2 9 років тому +7

      Omg yes its such a classic beauty kind of look I love it!!

    • @Darima2
      @Darima2 9 років тому +2

      Omg yes its such a classic beauty kind of look I love it!!

  • @MaryMakingIt
    @MaryMakingIt 9 років тому +243

    Your makeup is flawless, love the message of this video.

    • @AnastasiaPiatniskaya
      @AnastasiaPiatniskaya 9 років тому +1

      I think this is beautiful when two of my woman crushes watch each other's videos

    • @Gracex
      @Gracex 9 років тому +5

      i love her make up so much in this!

    • @Enigma32174
      @Enigma32174 9 років тому +1

      Word

    • @camrynmcgill3739
      @camrynmcgill3739 9 років тому +1

      This is the first positive comment I've seen on these comments

    • @elizabethmarie6847
      @elizabethmarie6847 9 років тому +3

      I agree her face is so pretty!

  • @madilynnbaker3965
    @madilynnbaker3965 8 років тому +33

    I really needed this Trish. Some days I think I'm so beautiful and the next I'm downing myself. It's all in my head and I know it. I don't have anyone picking on me for my weight expect me. I have to learn to think positive

    • @merenemo97
      @merenemo97 8 років тому +2

      +Madilynn Baker I'm positive you are a gorgeous girl :) Stay positive!

  • @lovemomrios6925
    @lovemomrios6925 8 років тому +130

    Yes i also think she looks really nice her make up sweater nice trish

  • @Hannah-pj6jk
    @Hannah-pj6jk 9 років тому +671

    She looks so beautiful today!

    • @howlxs3676
      @howlxs3676 9 років тому +5

      She's always beautiful :D

    • @ingibjorgelisajonatansdott7725
      @ingibjorgelisajonatansdott7725 9 років тому +5

      Exactly what i thought!

    • @02livelife
      @02livelife 9 років тому +1

      They were my exact thought

    • @adorablepuppy100
      @adorablepuppy100 9 років тому

      She look pretty in this channel but in other channel is Omfg!! She is so fat, we'll some people said that.

    • @Hannah-pj6jk
      @Hannah-pj6jk 9 років тому +10

      Doesn't matter. Fat people can still look stunning. adorablepuppy100

  • @sofiaperez8840
    @sofiaperez8840 9 років тому +127

    I want to meet Trish and just talk about things like this over coffee or something

    • @sofiaperez8840
      @sofiaperez8840 9 років тому +13

      I just love her

    • @FabianaBommino
      @FabianaBommino 9 років тому +9

      Same! I feel like I could talk to her for hours about stuff like this!

  • @Cpndsny
    @Cpndsny 9 років тому +47

    "He's not saying it to get in my pants, cuz he's already been in my pants" OH MY GOD THAT IS GOLD

  • @madster.
    @madster. 9 років тому +33

    this really spoke to me, trisha.
    kinda got emotional, i'm embarassed to say. been with my prince charming for almost three years and i'm just now starting to believe him when he says that he loves all that I hate about myself. years of counselling, self hate, etc. i'm 21 and just now starting to accept who I am. size 8/10 and on the road to self acceptance. it's a tough road especially considering my past which i wont disclose.
    I just want to thank you, Trish. For putting this out there. Beautiful lady.

    • @madster.
      @madster. 7 років тому +6

      update: been with this same amazing man over 5 years now, and am feeling amazing on a fitness journey.

  • @Sammybrook31
    @Sammybrook31 9 років тому +171

    It's made me feel so so sooooo much better Trish... Thank you so much. I am always self conscious around my boyfriend because he's like fit and stuff, and I've had so many people make fun of me because I'm " fat" and I've starved myself and stuff but after watching you, and this, you've made me feel so much better. Thank you Trish.

    • @summerroseee
      @summerroseee 9 років тому +2

      They are crazy, You are no where near fat!

    • @Sammybrook31
      @Sammybrook31 9 років тому

      Trish?? I know she's not of course haha, or me?? summerroseee

    • @summerroseee
      @summerroseee 9 років тому +2

      Brook Lee Yes Trish is not fat either, but I was talking about you! Don't listen to them, they don't know what fat is.

    • @Sammybrook31
      @Sammybrook31 9 років тому

      Oh aha thanks💕 you're not either!!:)

    • @Sammybrook31
      @Sammybrook31 9 років тому

      summerroseee

  • @Jingleheartart
    @Jingleheartart 9 років тому +136

    You're glowing here! Man, I love youuuu sooo much gurrrl.

    • @imjustagemini4526
      @imjustagemini4526 9 років тому +20

      nice to know there's still nice people like you here commenting on her videos :)

  • @hannahkathryn304
    @hannahkathryn304 9 років тому +77

    Being underweight isn't healthy. Being overweight isn't healthy. Your physical health is important. But your mental health is even more important! I loved this video! Thank you so much for making it ❤️❤️❤️

    • @alyssaherron6986
      @alyssaherron6986 9 років тому +5

      Hannah Kathryn True. Society tells us we have to be perfect. But none of us are.

  • @rachelellen4620
    @rachelellen4620 9 років тому +31

    Honestly this video helped me SO much. I feel fat and ugly all the time and this video changed my perspective of myself. Thank you

  • @YassysBlog
    @YassysBlog 9 років тому +144

    Makeup is on point in this video! You loom stunning 😍

  • @marekK27
    @marekK27 9 років тому +123

    Trisha is not Obese! She is a beautiful human being! :)

    • @zoegowans6300
      @zoegowans6300 9 років тому +6

      Medically she may be

    • @itsme6185
      @itsme6185 9 років тому +2

      Zoe look up obese she isn't even medically

    • @itsme6185
      @itsme6185 9 років тому

      Lol agreed thanks Nicola

    • @kathyk.2051
      @kathyk.2051 9 років тому +1

      Nicola Young you do realise the bmi is inaccurate.. right

    • @whophantomlockfangirl8330
      @whophantomlockfangirl8330 9 років тому +7

      Obese is a medical term for having a large BMI, and not to be mean (I love Trisha, she's beautiful and I love watching her videos) but Trisha technically does qualify as that. But what she's talking about in this video, as Nicola pointed out, is loving who you are. Because no matter what your BMI is, whether you're 'obese' or 'skinnny' you should love your body and who you are because looking around in the world everybody is beautiful, whether it's inside or out

  • @ashleyperez899
    @ashleyperez899 9 років тому +21

    Wow. This video brought me to tears. She's so right and such an inspiration. I wish the whole world could see this..

  • @FiestyKiki
    @FiestyKiki 9 років тому +40

    You are lucky that no man has ever called you fat. I have been called fat many times, humiliated and dumped because of my weight. I have had gross guys hit on me and when I ignore them or polite decline them they tell me I am arrogant and too picky for a fatty. And I am a size 12. Guys do care about weight. Let's be real, OK. Stop deluding your viewers with false hope. Guys are willing to be all nice and sweet for the sake of hitting it and quitting it with a chubby chick. They dont bash a chubby girl after breaking up because they want to keep her on the backburner for future dry spells. But for long term, most guys want size 8 or below. Any woman who used to be obese and lost a lot of weight to a normal weight can tell you the difference in respect and interest she received from men (and the only difference was her weight) was shocking and disturbing.

    • @Habadacus405
      @Habadacus405 9 років тому +6

      Kirsten M that's horrible that you have had to go through such negativity from men. Men can be so cruel. The truth is that men AND women can be hurtful towards women no matter what size they are. There are woman who are a size 6 or 8 and they will get called fat regardless thus scarring their image on what is acceptable. There are women as well who lose weight and become smaller and sometimes they still get told they are not good enough, and even though they lose the weight they can still get bashed for their stretch marks or lose skin. It's society and its a fucked up one at that. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I think your beautiful!! There are times where Trish's messages aren't the clearest, but I think overall she just wants people to understand that no one will coddle you in life. No guy or girl wants to date the girl that always complains about her weight or thinks she fat (even if she is) You have to create that confidence in yourself no matter what size and usually that reflects how you are looked at. Not all the time, but it does matter. She is lucky she hasn't been called fat. :/ I was a size 16 and got called fat and got down to an 8 and still get called fat from dudes if I turn them down. There are some women that get favorable comments and advances and are lucky. But the ones that dont, we just have to stand together and lift each other up. Sorry to be long winded. It's just that self esteem is that one issue that we all our struggling with. I wish you the best love!

    • @Myferardromance12
      @Myferardromance12 9 років тому +4

      That's when you raise that middle finger high and say fuck you. Any women deserves better than that. End of story.

    • @kels777able
      @kels777able 9 років тому +3

      Right on. You spoke 100% truth there. I appreciate Trisha wanting her viewers to feel better about themselves but most of what she said about how men feel about women being overweight? Is completely wrong. They care tremendously about looks in regard to women. Men are very visual creatures. They fall in love with the way a woman looks. And unfortunately, no matter the age, they care what other people think. I know this is not all men across the board, but it's the majority of them. I have been skinny and I have been fat. When I was skinny I had way more respect and attention from men. When I'm fat I basically ignored. It's just the truth.

    • @tobyseraph9435
      @tobyseraph9435 9 років тому +1

      Well all I can say is that I myself prefer women who are more curvaceous. Every guy doesn't want model types. That's just me but I can't help thinking that I can't be alone on this. However I can understand if you are unwilling to believe me given the history with assholes who have treated you like shit. Just wanted to put that in there so you don't loose all hope for humanity :)

    • @Socialmediaoverload
      @Socialmediaoverload 9 років тому +1

      Toby my dad love more curvy women and so does my boyfriend so you aren't alone. It would take a lot of weight on a woman for my dad and boyfriend to consider them obese. I'm the same with men but it just seem smaller men are attracted to me but I'm more attracted to guys with weight on them. I don't care if he has a beer belly as long as he's no slouchy because that's when it's not attractive. I'm what society would call fat but I'm what a man who loves a nice set of real boobs, thick thighs, a fat ass and not so flat or huge tummy, THICK. I can dress sexy with the best of them I just do it to my weight. I walk around buck ass naked all the time around my boyfriend and not once does he make me feel like I'm not sexy. I have started working out but not because I want to be "skinny" but because I don't want to be thick and jiggly I want to be thick and tight. Ladies and gents you can be thick and healthy don't let society brainwash you.

  • @darcyscott2530
    @darcyscott2530 9 років тому +91

    your makeup in this is so gorgeous

    • @darcyscott2530
      @darcyscott2530 9 років тому

      what i wouldn't do to have a face like hers omfg

    • @dontstalkmedeltoro8816
      @dontstalkmedeltoro8816 9 років тому

      I was thinking the same thing,, her makeup is spot on today,

    • @darcyscott2530
      @darcyscott2530 9 років тому +6

      yes! i wish she would do a tutorial on this

  • @sophietaylor3825
    @sophietaylor3825 9 років тому +47

    My boyfriend called me fat today as a joke but it made me feel so shitty:( but this video made me feel so much better, love you Trish

    • @evaa.4576
      @evaa.4576 9 років тому +21

      Girl dump him ;)

    • @raneemalsedig9421
      @raneemalsedig9421 9 років тому +21

      You need to break up with him as soon as possible... no guy should call a girl fat wether if its a joke or not....if I was you ill be like it aint funny and im breaking up with u

    • @catmarie6792
      @catmarie6792 9 років тому +3

      Dont let anyone tell you that, even as a joke. Your beautiful just the way you are!!

    • @ainsleya3131
      @ainsleya3131 9 років тому +2

      Sheldon Cooper getting called fat is the worse! it could be he didnt think it would offend you bc he really doesnt think you are fat. if there is a pattern w/him putting you down then he is not a good person. if he is an amazing boyfriend otherwise and that was just a one time deal, dont take it personally im sure he didnt think it wld hurt you. he would not be proud to call you his girl if he didnt think you were beautiful and perfect as is.

  • @SmplyAdrkbl187
    @SmplyAdrkbl187 9 років тому +12

    This needs to go viral.
    On an unrelated note, please do a tutorial for this eye look lol.

  • @EveofPyrite
    @EveofPyrite 7 років тому +14

    I remember when a guy friend of mines told me that no guy would like a girl like myself because of my weight and I remember being so hurt because I felt like I had worth and that I was beautiful but yet here their was someone I trusted telling me that I was not worth it and that even hurt a strong person like myself so Trish you are blessed to have good friends because a lot of people are very shallow .

    • @EveofPyrite
      @EveofPyrite 7 років тому +2

      Ele 8 OMG THANKS FOR THIS SWEET COMMENT IT REALLY MADE MY DAY !

    • @skarpety1531
      @skarpety1531 7 років тому +1

      +Sultry Roses YAY! :D

  • @lanadelbae3280
    @lanadelbae3280 9 років тому +77

    I love getting here before people start with the hate comments...anyways... You look amazing Trish! Beautiful as always!

  • @trustisavirtue
    @trustisavirtue 9 років тому +108

    This makeup is stunning on you trish!!

  • @xoxoPinkVoltage
    @xoxoPinkVoltage 5 років тому +3

    I really needed this video right now... I’ve gained so much weight from a medicine I’m on and my parents DAILY tell me I’m fat and ugly and not worthy and won’t ever find someone to love me.. it really hurts.. and I’ve told them but they still do it every single day. So thank you so so SOOO much for this video and your amazing words!! You are EVERYTHING!! I just love your videos and you always make me smile and feel better about myself. So THANK YOU!!! 🙏🏼😘😘💕💕💕💕

  • @catsandcroissants
    @catsandcroissants 9 років тому +7

    Thank you so much for this, Trish. I am so glad I stumbled upon this video. I am currently recovering from an eating disorder, and I spend a lot of time afraid to give up my ED because I think if I let it go, I will never have a chance at being skinny. There is so much sincerity and truth in your words and it was just what I needed to hear tonight. Thank you. Adding this video to my favorites so I can watch it often. Love you

  • @Dorffen
    @Dorffen 9 років тому +20

    YOUR MAKE UP AND HAIR IT'S ON POINT TODAY, YAAAAS GIRL!

  • @brittneywrites
    @brittneywrites 9 років тому +26

    This video changed my life Trish.

  • @skippyjam93
    @skippyjam93 9 років тому +17

    To be completely honest I don't normally watch your videos because your channel is just not my cup of tea, but this has to be the realest video I have ever seen you post and I admire your honesty and your outlook on this particular subject. Hopefully in the future you post more down to earth honest to yourself trish videos like this I am sure a lot of people would love to see more of this side of you. And you look really great in this video very classy.

  • @TuttiFruttiMarmelade
    @TuttiFruttiMarmelade 8 років тому +86

    You look soooo good in this video. best look ever for you!

  • @prettychik101
    @prettychik101 9 років тому +27

    This makeup is soo flattering and looks amazing on you! 😍

  • @RelleLaron
    @RelleLaron 9 років тому +13

    I'm glad you figured this stuff out and posted this. It's one of your most genuine videos and you look beautiful.

  • @GniteJen0315
    @GniteJen0315 9 років тому

    Hey Trisha, I actually really needed this. It felt very sisterly and genuine :) I'm trying to move on from unhealthy thoughts and habits that came from that, and unfortunately my body doesn't trust me anymore and things like weight are going out of whack and I'll have to wait until I stabilize again. This was affecting me a lot and I was embarrassed to be as sociable and confident as I used to be, and this really lifted my spirits up. Sometimes it's not some 'wake the fuck up' or 'the world means nothing' kind of talks one needs, but something just fun and light but also warmhearted, like this video. You were so beautiful here! P.S. Good luck with your new healthy lifestyle! I actually found you through Freelee. I find that rawtill4 gives me enough energy to be emotionally equipped for every day stuff and even negativity- I'm handling everything differently and I'm loving it! I would love for you to feel great every day too!

  • @Nothingsmatter90
    @Nothingsmatter90 9 років тому +71

    You look fantastic in this video

  • @SingYourHeartOut018
    @SingYourHeartOut018 9 років тому +18

    I always think it's about having a pretty face. That's why there are people called "butterfaces". No, I've never called anyone that, but I feel like even if I was thin and healthy, I would still be unattractive because of my face.
    That's the struggle.

    • @SingYourHeartOut018
      @SingYourHeartOut018 9 років тому +1

      ***** but I don't wear a ton of makeup.
      That's besides the point, I think. What if our issues aren't with weight, but with our faces?

    • @RinTetsuki
      @RinTetsuki 9 років тому +3

      Beauty is subjective though. You may see yourself as one way while someone else sees the opposite. You just have to accept yourself for who and how you are. If people say mean things it's only because they hate themselves or something about themselves. Ignore them.

    • @paulcognito
      @paulcognito 9 років тому

      Well if your face is the issue, just apply the same principle as Trish's. you have a face, just love it for what it is. Change it, put makeup over it, improve your look from your outfits, don't even think about it. Just look at the mirror and appreciate your face for what it is. The last thing a man wants is a faceless chick.

  • @junepenny
    @junepenny 9 років тому +5

    Trish you have taught my daughters (both 19) to love the skin you are in... because of you..this summer was the first time they wore bathing suits to the beach!!! i love your confidence and sexiness. your body is amazing!!! LOVE YOU GIRL!!!!!!

  • @peypey7383
    @peypey7383 9 років тому +1

    Such an inspirational video Trish! I've struggled with my weight my entire life and this video hit so close to home. I've been looking for a sign to push me to get in shape and better myself, and this video was a godsend! Thank you so much! You have been such a role model to me since I've subscribed to your channel and I appreciate your honesty, realness and humor for brightening my dark days. Thanks Trish!
    Also, you look gorgeous in this video! Love the hair and makeup - and the off-the-shoulder top! So cute!

  • @raeanna451
    @raeanna451 8 років тому +2

    You just encouraged me so much. I do honestly feel like if you're comfortable in your own skin that's what matters. But I've just been getting so down lately, with what people tell me to be, what the media encourages you to be... that I feel like I'm lost. Thanks for bringing me back down to earth. I know this is kind of an old video but I just wanted to say thank you so much :)

  • @rowceo
    @rowceo 9 років тому +111

    Marilyn is that you??

    • @justanaveragething
      @justanaveragething 9 років тому +7

      Dont exaggerate

    • @rowceo
      @rowceo 9 років тому +27

      i can say whatever i want, thankyou

    • @oliviaramirez4202
      @oliviaramirez4202 9 років тому

      IKR!! She looks so beautiful !!

    • @415rye
      @415rye 9 років тому +1

      justanaveragething she looks better than marilyn monroe!!!! Marilyn was a brown bag special ;)

    • @justanaveragething
      @justanaveragething 9 років тому

      415rye I love trisha, but there's no way in hell she looks better than marilyn. at least in my opinion. well well, to each her own I guess

  • @BeautyGlamx
    @BeautyGlamx 9 років тому +58

    If a guy tells you, you are fat or to lose weight, smack him & go get a freaking pizza!

    • @KaraHarb19
      @KaraHarb19 9 років тому +16

      Next time a guy tells a woman their fat I agree, but it would better to smack him, buy a pizza, and eat it in front of him.

    • @sallyride1871
      @sallyride1871 9 років тому

      Hah ya

    • @1995kilo
      @1995kilo 9 років тому

      HahahahahahahahahasotrueOMGhahah Lol.

  • @Brooke.not.brook.
    @Brooke.not.brook. 9 років тому +1

    Thank you for this. I am SO self conscious about pretty much everything having to do with myself and my body. My arms are either to fat, my legs are too fat/cottage-cheesy, my boobs aren't perky and look nasty, etc, etc, etc. it sucks because I am most definitely not shallow like this (far from it) when it comes to anyone but myself! I know that things aren't really that bad and I have a lot to be thankful for. But like you said, I just can't quite get out of this prison that is my mind. It is so incredibly hard. I am getting there every day but then I will just have this one bad day that sets me back. I am trying to get healthier in body and mind and that is all I can really do. I noticed that a year ago when I was a lot bigger into my spirituality, I felt MUCH better. I know that I need to get closer to God again, and I feel that that is definitely a part of it.
    I'm glad that you have this confidence though Trish. You definitely should! You are GLOWING! Beautiful inside and out. :)

  • @AngieKiss02
    @AngieKiss02 9 років тому +36

    You look very elegant in this video Trisha :)

  • @ZaraBritBabe
    @ZaraBritBabe 9 років тому +43

    What bugs me the most is that Trish is going on about GUYS liking her body or yours, that's annoying! Your not here on this planet to give a shit what the male population thinks!

    • @ZaraBritBabe
      @ZaraBritBabe 9 років тому +1

      racingirl1595 Lol I know right! :)

    • @ZaraBritBabe
      @ZaraBritBabe 9 років тому +2

      ***** lol i've never been like that my whole life! I used to be a tomboy so i never gave a shit. It's so unhealthy thinking this way too! Just want to shake every girl and be like you don't need to care baby girls!

    • @ainsleya3131
      @ainsleya3131 9 років тому +2

      I understood what she meant bc I used to have that insecure mentality ab men. at my college there was this huge deal that the men on campus were "spreading awareness" about how us girls should bleach and wax our assholes and how grossed out they get seeing our asses. it seriously became "a thing" to the point where it made a website associated w/our school. makes me laugh my ass off now (literally) that I started feeling insecure like damn does mine gross men out I dont even know what it looks like. lmao they can kiss my unbleached ass if they dont like it. shameful that men put ideas in our heads sometimes to make us feel less worthy than we are when in reality like trisha says they dont give a flying fuck. there will be men who like us the way we are. I think her point could help ppl who were thinking such naive and stupid things like I was.

    • @ZaraBritBabe
      @ZaraBritBabe 9 років тому +1

      Ainsley A wtf? Really?! That's totes cray cray! Glad you see how absurd it is, man those guys need a big fat slap! Lol

    • @5551chichi
      @5551chichi 9 років тому +15

      She even said in the video that she knows that life isn't about validation from your significant other..., but she wanted to touch on that in her video. She loved her body before, but she was afraid men weren't going to like her. It's not like she lives to please men, but it is an aspect of life. A small one. And what she thought men thought of her (ugly fat piece of shit) always held her back from putting herself out there

  • @CameronBeautyXO
    @CameronBeautyXO 9 років тому +3

    Do you know how much you've helped me Trisha? A lot. I'm so happy now because of you. Now some people they you know, kinda make me happy. But you, you've LIFTED me up through some hard core hell I've been through. I don't have weight issues, but sometimes I have life issues. Don't we all? You have helped me though. More than my mother, as a matter of fact. Ok, well I don't want to be like oh no, I'm lonely or I have nobody because I do it's not the same without you. You're like the person that I need in life. It's like we know each other because we are so much alike and have been though a lot of the same things. Even when I'm not dealing with issues, when I watch your videos I get this bright vibe inside of me it's amazing! I can't imagine you ever stopping what you do because you are so fucking good at it! I don't care if you do trolling videos. Every single video that you do inspires me and I mean that will all of my heart. Some people may think just because I say all of these nice things that I'm too nice. I'm a really nice person, but I'll also give you the truth too! This is how I really feel about you from the bottom of my heart and I'd just like to say THANK YOU! THANK YOU for helping me and continuing to help. MEANS A LOT.

  • @andr3aBRUTAl
    @andr3aBRUTAl 9 років тому

    I went looking for this today because I needed this. You're so inspiring because this is how i feel about myself constantly and listening to you helps me so much because a lot of curvier girls don't talk about their bodies the way you do. I love this and you

  • @saucypuffincrafts
    @saucypuffincrafts 9 років тому +9

    Girllll your makeup is on POINT in this video! You look beautiful!

  • @miggsbryers3740
    @miggsbryers3740 9 років тому +38

    You look great today, Trish. Not saying you look bad other days, but today's look was very professional looking and you look very nice. :)

  • @margaretreckers1103
    @margaretreckers1103 8 років тому +53

    we need more girls like you most girls say the opposite thank you

  • @rachelpapaya
    @rachelpapaya 9 років тому +1

    solid message. i'm seeing lots of comments contradicting trish, people saying "weight does matter, men do care". well yeah, to an extent (everyone has a type- i have a type, you have a type, it's okay to have physical preferences), but she's trying to say A) it should be YOU who cares and cherishes your body, and B) men don't care as much as magazines, movies, and other media/society claims. make your main focus your character. beauty is multi-faceted and you will never measure up to your own expectations or the expectations of others if you place all your self-worth on your external appearance. so just do you! we criticize ourselves very harshly when we could be spending that time celebrating life or meeting someone new. this was a healthy, positive reminder. thanks trisha!

  • @KatesBeautyStation
    @KatesBeautyStation 9 років тому +4

    I literally agree with everything you said in this video, you talk so much sense. Btw you're beautiful and always have been, I'm happy for you that you're feeling good in yourself Trish! :) xx

  • @sean9672
    @sean9672 9 років тому +45

    I'm confused.
    Why is Trisha saying about how you should like your body, But she's curvy, and she cried in her video's about her weight, and she goes to the gym to lose weight, why is she saying that she loves her "sexy thighs" when she clearly wants to lose weight? It's just confusing me... does anyone else feel like she's lying to herself?

    • @mariebog1994
      @mariebog1994 9 років тому +33

      She always says you should love yourself for how you look right now, because change takes time. But she has never said that you shouldn't change if you want to. But you should want it for yourself, not because someone else tells you to :) She probably works out because she's gained some weight this year, and wants to be more healthy.

    • @dejahmeyer5070
      @dejahmeyer5070 9 років тому

      Some of these are prerecorded

    • @imnotmakingvideosrry
      @imnotmakingvideosrry 9 років тому +4

      she's trying to get healthy, not to lose weight

    • @johnbean9591
      @johnbean9591 9 років тому +2

      If you haven't noticed by now Trisha is very contradictory in most of the things she does and says. In one video she talks about god and praying and then she's talking about sucking dick. I love her but she's all over the place.

    • @dejahmeyer5070
      @dejahmeyer5070 9 років тому +1

      John Bean sometimes you just have to live in the moment before your moments over

  • @Valkyriechick98
    @Valkyriechick98 9 років тому +15

    Trish is soooo stunning in this video! The makeup, the hair, the jumper it looks so amazing! 😍❤️

  • @torifletcher474
    @torifletcher474 8 років тому +1

    This... I needed this... I needed this a long time ago... I'm literally crying right now.

  • @ClarissaMay
    @ClarissaMay 9 років тому +6

    please do a tutorial on this look! you look absolutely stunning!

  • @laurensabino182
    @laurensabino182 9 років тому +9

    To all the people being rude to you: "Judging me won't define who I am but it will define who you are"

  • @danielladipol4229
    @danielladipol4229 7 років тому +4

    bringing me to tears towards the end, nice reminders. Thank you.

  • @loveagian258
    @loveagian258 9 років тому

    Honestly Thank You!! I have had a long history of hating my body and calling/ thinking those exact words about myself and to hear you say such inspiring things about loving who you are has made me feel so much better about myself! People can say whatever they want about you but that doesn't make it true so thank you so much!!!!!!

  • @thecolorfulginger
    @thecolorfulginger 9 років тому +10

    makeup on fleeeeek!! please make a tutorial on your eye makeup its gorgeous.

  • @MissFashionGirlzz
    @MissFashionGirlzz 9 років тому +6

    PLEASE DO A HAIR AND MAKEUP TUTORIAL ON THIS!!! 😭😍

  • @Pinkybellesplans
    @Pinkybellesplans 9 років тому

    OMG!! I love this video already, I only watched 22 secs so far, but the fact that u started off with "when you feel grounded and confident you want to share it with us" thats like so sweet and thoughtful and thats exactly why I love you and your channel, THX girlie!

  • @karesure9353
    @karesure9353 9 років тому

    Trisha, literally this video made me feel better about myself because hearing your advice always helps me! And I love you so much! Watching this really made me relies that I really need to stop over thinking myself, and I over think my weight a lot like I'm not skinny! I'm not, but I'm not obese either and I always look down at myself and think "oh no guy will ever like you" or "you're not pretty enough!" But you just helped me to see that who cares? You should love yourself and care about you and only you, and if a guy thinks you're not good enough, hah! Well he's not good enough, thanks Trisha I really felt like I was having a deep conversation with you because i connect with you in so many different ways, thank you trish always stay your beautiful and girly way love ya!☺️

  • @MUSiiCRoxxMySoxx
    @MUSiiCRoxxMySoxx 9 років тому +6

    can I just say that the whole pinky brown makeup look with the over the shoulder sweater and up-hairdo looks incredible. what a babe.

  • @krystalbennett7627
    @krystalbennett7627 9 років тому +33

    Trish you are beautiful and amazing. I love your confidence. Yes you may have bad and down days but who doesn't. You help me so much!! Thank you thank you thank you!!!

    • @blndsundoll4mj
      @blndsundoll4mj  9 років тому +29

      Krystal Bennett you're very welcome girl. and in turn, i thank YOU for being here and showing your love and support, it makes my bad days better! so it's a mutually beneficial love we have. so happy we connected through here. I hope I can continue to build you up and at the very least, provide entertainment or distraction from any troubles in the real world for at least a few minutes :)

    • @Shannon_A113
      @Shannon_A113 9 років тому +2

      Wow Trisha's reply was the cutest thing ever!!! I'm so happy she's replying to comments now it makes me smile reading them!! Love ye Trish xxx

    • @calynnmlawrence
      @calynnmlawrence 9 років тому

      ***** trish, u luk absolutely beautiful in tis video, luv it!

    • @calynnmlawrence
      @calynnmlawrence 9 років тому

      ***** trish, u luk absolutely beautiful in tis video, luv it!

    • @krystalbennett7627
      @krystalbennett7627 9 років тому

      Omg thank you so much for responding to me. You totally made my day!! And you def do build me up. I have always been a bigger girl and was teased so much. I had no confidence but I have been getting better thanks to you. Idk how to repay you. Keep up the awesome work on your videos. I will always be a supporter. And you are truly welcome for that. :)

  • @carolinekelly9034
    @carolinekelly9034 8 років тому +47

    trisha you look so beautiful in this video

    • @LilJadeBear
      @LilJadeBear 8 років тому +4

      She's always beautiful but ya I agree;)

  • @dreamlessrecords272
    @dreamlessrecords272 9 років тому

    this is one of the most inspirational video I've ever seen... I recently started talking with this one guy and those same exact thoughts were going through my head.. thanks Trish for helping me get those ugly negative thoughts out of my mind! you're beautiful girl

  • @gracebella100
    @gracebella100 9 років тому +4

    Trish gives me so much self confidence I honestly love her so much. She is so gorgeous and she is like my guide book she has helped me grow so much from a few months ago. Being a middle school student life is hard but Trish helps me get through out. Thank you so much keep posting everyday Trish (=

  • @chubichichi
    @chubichichi 9 років тому +11

    Trish your looks are always on point, and you are definitely naturally beautiful. Weight shouldn't mean a thing c:

  • @hmt0899
    @hmt0899 7 років тому +1

    5:28 when you said that youre enough it gave me chills. you said it like you truly believe it and that makes me so happy. that just hit me man. i hope one day i can say it and believe it also. ily trish

  • @Celestegeee
    @Celestegeee 9 років тому

    i cannot explain how happy i am that i found Your channel & watched this video. i needed to hear this so badly, You literally made me cry watching this. im so self cautious about everything, ive only watched maybe 3 of Your videos & this one made me love You. i REALLY needed this, thank You so much!

  • @LUNAdorma
    @LUNAdorma 9 років тому +25

    Trish, not even the hottest female athletes like MMA fighter Ronda Rousey has a thigh gap, and she's as hot as they come. When I was in HS i had a thigh gap and some guys made fun of me cause' they said I looked like I was mounting a horse. So, I'd say that women are obsessed with thigh gaps, not men. You, Trish, are a gorgeous woman! xoxo :D

    • @nashretty
      @nashretty 9 років тому +1

      am i the only guy here who doesnt know what a thigh gap is?

    • @Amanda-kw2uq
      @Amanda-kw2uq 9 років тому +1

      I loved this comment

  • @mychanassef9717
    @mychanassef9717 9 років тому +14

    You should put up your hair more often!! You look great !

  • @Mad_Madalyn
    @Mad_Madalyn 9 років тому +6

    I adore your makeup and outfit in this video, you just look absolutely flawless.

  • @psychedelic777
    @psychedelic777 9 років тому +19

    She is so beautiful in this video. I really feel like this is one of the best looks she ever had on. I love it!

  • @nadidee5388
    @nadidee5388 9 років тому +12

    It's really sad to see a beautiful independent woman like yourself be uncomfortable with your weight. These people in the comments are not specialized doctors so don't just go around putting labels such as obese and fat when you don't know anything about it. Just because some people aren't as skinny as others doesn't mean their fat and unhealthy.

  • @SelenaClaudia
    @SelenaClaudia 9 років тому +31

    why are there even dislikes in this video it made me more less self concious bout my weight x although i've been called fat and short by guys and only guys :(

  • @alyssaforth818
    @alyssaforth818 8 років тому +5

    this is absolutely one of my favorite videos Trisha's made. I have so many issues involving my appearance and everything she said has made me really think about how much the things said are said by me in my own head and now I realize how much I need to change. so I just want to say thank you so much to Trisha, even though she probably won't even see this comment.

  • @sunnavana
    @sunnavana 8 років тому

    I needed this right now. Thank you for making this video Trish.

  • @markreed9157
    @markreed9157 9 років тому +3

    Girl your makeup is on point!!! Love your videos! This video helped me as well! xo

    • @markreed9157
      @markreed9157 9 років тому

      PS. now that I look.. I love your hair like that as well!! You ARE NOT FAT BTW

  • @electralux007
    @electralux007 9 років тому +4

    Channeling Marylyn Monroe in this and I love it ❤️

  • @angie675
    @angie675 7 років тому +11

    Trish looks so fucking pretty here!

  • @victoriiadarby8279
    @victoriiadarby8279 9 років тому

    Your positive vibes and words are truly amazing.❤ I desperately needed to hear this. I came on UA-cam tonight for the millionth time, looking for ways to lose weight fast because the one thing holding me back from being happy is my weight and I'm tired of it and then and ended up watching like 5-10 of your videos. I ALWAYS enjoy your videos. You are so beautiful and loving and positive. To meet you would be truly amazing. ❤❤❤

  • @shamimfareghzadeh3848
    @shamimfareghzadeh3848 9 років тому +11

    Thank you so muchh for helping me overcome deppression and begin to love my body, I really appreciate it, I was your 8th subscriber🙊 thank you for this journey

    • @shamimfareghzadeh3848
      @shamimfareghzadeh3848 9 років тому

      Could you possibly follow me on instagram? @shamim_xoxo that would be the best birthday gift ever

  • @pencilheart5568
    @pencilheart5568 9 років тому +5

    Your makeup is flawless! So pretty

  • @kaylablake9506
    @kaylablake9506 9 років тому

    Trish this vid is exactly what I needed to hear thank you

  • @LuizaMalendowska
    @LuizaMalendowska 9 років тому +11

    I love every single word she said in this video, this is SO true... Trish, you're a smart amazing woman!

  • @keelynicole483
    @keelynicole483 9 років тому +23

    Somebody has to know where her sweater is from. HELP A LADY OUT.

    • @Shannon_A113
      @Shannon_A113 9 років тому +2

      Same!!!! I need this!!!!!!! Haha xx

    • @DesTay95
      @DesTay95 9 років тому

      It's a really nice sweater! Forever 21 has something similar to this, but it's black and hooded. :P

    • @keelynicole483
      @keelynicole483 9 років тому

      UGH! she posted a pic of her in this sweater weeks ago on her instagram and I STILL haven't be able to find it. IM GOING INSANE!

    • @ag33058
      @ag33058 9 років тому +1

      Try the hunt

    • @martindeniz
      @martindeniz 9 років тому +1

      Try using The Hunt. It's helped me find alot of things.

  • @KaterinaDanielle
    @KaterinaDanielle 9 років тому +13

    I'm always wondering where you're getting the clothes you wear in your videos. Would you start putting links or descriptions with the other links you put below the videos? LOVE YOU!

    • @averyweller6886
      @averyweller6886 9 років тому +7

      omg I know her sweater is to die for! 💀

    • @alexk3177
      @alexk3177 9 років тому +1

      I'm not sure, but I think it's from wildfox. She mentioned that in a previous video and she said they are extremely soft too, but a bit expensive. :)

    • @KaterinaDanielle
      @KaterinaDanielle 9 років тому

      Oh yeah! I remember that.Thanks for reminding me! Wildfox is pretty expensive though. It'd just be nice to know what she's wearing in her videos in general.

  • @lindsayskye4244
    @lindsayskye4244 8 років тому

    you made me cry. you're so amazing. you've made my day. thank you for being an inspiration. love you trish

  • @xxxlovehimxxx000
    @xxxlovehimxxx000 9 років тому

    Okay this video has brought up my self esteem so goddamn much and i have been in a slump for a very long time and watching this has brought me up so much and made me happy and makes me want to stop hating myself

  • @Kuromichi08
    @Kuromichi08 9 років тому +4

    your makeup and hair is on point!

  • @krishnamurali859
    @krishnamurali859 8 років тому +3

    You are such an inspirational person and you make me feel like I am worth it. Thank you so much Trish.

  • @connect18101
    @connect18101 9 років тому +1

    Nails, makeup and hair are all on point! :) Glad at this time (in this video) you are feeling content.

  • @ameyafutnani4569
    @ameyafutnani4569 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for this video Trisha, it was so inspirational! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @apagetten
    @apagetten 9 років тому +7

    Again. you shared it well, I almost blubbered (cried) twice, just because of your honesty!

    • @catofthewild7811
      @catofthewild7811 9 років тому +1

      This video made me so happy. I literally almost cried. For all the times Trisha has felt bad about herself, I wish she would watch this and remember a time when she was in such a good place. And for me personally, I feel empowered

  • @siffleanimaux1
    @siffleanimaux1 9 років тому +30

    how she's only really posting happy videos like these since she got into a relationship that it makes me think the only reason why she's happy is because she has a boyfriend. Dangerous way to live imo. I don't think it's a good idea to make your happiness dependent on someone else because I feel like Trish will just spiral back down to where she was if they ever do break up.

    • @kayladenita6507
      @kayladenita6507 9 років тому +7

      Yeah, when they break up she going to start posting those crazy videos about how she hates boys and stuff. But I can't wait for when she finds the one and they get married.

    • @bulletsxdame
      @bulletsxdame 9 років тому +1

      She needs to be happy by herself first. You can never depend on someone else. She had NO INTENTION off going to the gym or eating healthy before this guy...

    • @jeaniebean8719
      @jeaniebean8719 9 років тому +3

      I think this was filmed before she actually had a boyfriend. She mentioned earlier in the video that a guy she's currently interested in complimented her about her body, so likely this video was made before she was in a relationship, she was just interested in a guy but doesn't have a boyfriend at the time this was filmed. At least that's how it appears to me.

    • @bulletsxdame
      @bulletsxdame 9 років тому

      She mentioned that now that she startef working out, she no longer is on her meds...

    • @diosali7799
      @diosali7799 9 років тому +1

      Actually this is from before that even happened sooooo, think again. Stoo being so ignorant.

  • @celinepesch9419
    @celinepesch9419 8 років тому +1

    Love the message you're putting out! You're beautiful

  • @leahlenz831
    @leahlenz831 8 років тому

    Thank you for helping me just feeling good in my own skin!

  • @Jasminaflowyoga7
    @Jasminaflowyoga7 9 років тому +3

    Makeup on point and eyebrows on fleek.