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Never tell a women that you like her it’s not simping if you tell a women how you feel but it will boost her ego and she will use it against you if you tell her that you like her
True, got curved yesterday because of that. She told me that I was doing so well before, and that I shouldn’t have opened up. Never tell a female your intentions guys. Play the game.
@Nic777 It should be "ignoring your TEXT" not "texts". Single not plural. Being ignored just once should be enough for you to stop caring why let alone demanding an explanation lol.
I stopped saying good morning texts to females and good night I stopped giving females validation when I go jogging and a female is outside or walking on the sidewalk I don't look at her I just keep my face straight forward I don't look at females anymore no more complements no nothing I give all my validation and attention to my goals and dreams.
Update: I was doing my morning run this morning minding my own business and out of no where 2 females waving me down trying get my attention I just kept running then they came running after me the stuff fitx talks about really does work.
Ain’t gonna lie I was sending the good morning text and asked her to be my gf in my last relationship, I even told her she was the only one. At first I had another one on the side but I let her go once things between me and her stated getting serious. Now I understand the importance of an abundance mindset. Great content, I’m going to apply these rules to my dating life starting today.
If she says: Do you like me, do you love me? You: I'm with you because you invest in me, therefore you're useful and i love that you are showing me the respect i deserve.
Man I learned the hard way, just let her do 90% of the talking I'm the king of speaking my mind and kills me everytime especially on controversial topics.
Yeah, and that's why dating women is stressful. You have to actively try to become this person you're not, watch what you say cos if you say one wrong thing game over. Fitx makes it seem like every guy has their 1st option to begin with. Of course if a guy has options to begin with then his attitude changes but you have to get your first one or two to begin with. For each one you have to do this self restriction etc not to mess it up. Notice how when you're with your fellow guys you just flow naturally?
Sup guys, so I went on a date with this chick, she’s Korean born in Canada, but studying in UK which is where I was born. She’s 23 I’m 26 if that matters. we went to to the park had some ice cream and she didn’t 80% of the talking. We kissed multiple times, we pretty much clicked straight away. lots of touching on her legs and ass. Went great. Week later I messaged her to meet up, ended up going to her place, we fucked and spent some time together. Later that night when I got home I told her was nice being with you and she reacted the same back to me, I asked “are you free next weekend?” She said “Friday night”? I said “can’t Friday, but sat or sun night?” She said “yea I’ll get back to you!” This was Saturday night, now if she doesn’t get back to me, how should I play this? Should I contact her at all if she doesn’t get back to me or what? I’m really liking this girl and would love to spend more time with her, I’ve been with lots of different chicks but this one I’m struggling to compose myself because I’m actually liking her but obviously haven’t shown it too much
It’s wild how men have to do all this work, all this self improvement, then have knowledge on how to play games just to get LAID… While women are WORSHIPPED and coveted for their sexuality. Why aren’t we the ones making them work for us?
True. But Relax its only when when they are young. Women 30+ are mostly done for. Hit the wall and only have a chance on a beta male. Or a lazy alpha who will smash and leave. Show me the women 35 and more who are still getting attention etc… Very rare… 18-30 is womens era Men have forever Unless You don’t workout and look like shit. Im 34, Im shredded. 50% of my dates end up in sex. Why? Because they love a 30 year old Guy with exp and is in shape. Im dating 24-25 years olds 10 years younger then me. Why? Because they are way hotter and more fresh. The same 35 or older versions are done Nobody wants them unless a beta with no options or life
Things have changed now fam, and the dating game is rigged in their favor now. You have to adapt and evolve, or else you'll just fall by the wayside. Gotta keep pushing, it can be discouraging, but we've got to be courageous and keep going
@@johnosasi4710 bruh how are we supposed to do that? Not everyone can get a higher paying job, or even if becoming physically fit can still be unattractive face wise, or some dudes just don't like speaking too much, I mean I seen you tube videos with women breaking down the rules for what men should have on their damn tinder account, are they serious!?!? A dude can't hold the phone taking a pic, can't be shirtless, needs to show teeth when smiling, can't be next to a car it's a "douche" look, can't have too many friend pics, can't do this can't be that, needs to look natural with someone else taking the pics......what in the actual hell......women are so damn complicated and annoying
Because you guys worship vagina and literally cannot think straight when sex is on the table. And I'm not trying to insult men here, that's just your biology, but it puts you at a disadvantage because women understand this and know how to manipulate the situation in that way Of course, it may work this well in the short term but I've noticed my female counterparts are very short sighted and don't realize you can't live the life of a 304, and then find satisfaction in one man, love, and children. There's a trade off. Short term fun while simultaneously getting emotionally, sexually, and physically damaged. Or actually finding the love we all crave and fulfillment in life Sorry y'all have to deal with our society. History repeats itself. There have been societies where women have been sexually liberated and they have all collapsed under the weight of collapsed relationships. They all already realized that father's should choose their daughter's mates but hey, they opened pandoras box this time around because of social media. It's not localized anymore, it's spreading around the world and there's a permanent record. I can't even imagine things correcting themselves
Red flag if she doesn’t. It just means she’s entitled, and no guy wants to put up with a individual who’s all about receiving and never putting in any effort or reciprocating energies. Know your worth 👏
@@josep6939 - Yep. A guy sets the day/time/location and makes it happen/pays. She's literally just showing up. So the trade off to sending a text is pretty minimal.
Sup guys, so I went on a date with this chick, she’s Korean born in Canada, but studying in UK which is where I was born. She’s 23 I’m 26 if that matters. we went to to the park had some ice cream and she didn’t 80% of the talking. We kissed multiple times, we pretty much clicked straight away. lots of touching on her legs and ass. Went great. Week later I messaged her to meet up, ended up going to her place, we fucked and spent some time together. Later that night when I got home I told her was nice being with you and she reacted the same back to me, I asked “are you free next weekend?” She said “Friday night”? I said “can’t Friday, but sat or sun night?” She said “yea I’ll get back to you!” This was Saturday night, now if she doesn’t get back to me, how should I play this? Should I contact her at all if she doesn’t get back to me or what? I’m really liking this girl and would love to spend more time with her, I’ve been with lots of different chicks but this one I’m struggling to compose myself because I’m actually liking her but obviously haven’t shown it too much
I used to think this but eventually realized it's a dumb "rule". Some women are just nervous or inexperienced. They'll respond instantly but you always have to initiate. You'll get this reaction when they notice you aren't needy and not a big texter, they don't want to come off as clingy and desperate. Stop following hard rules and learn how to read the room instead
The first point is something I realized that I was doing before watch this video. I’ve been actively trying to change this. There’s something attractive about being assertive
I disagree it's the dude saying it. If justin Bieber took a girl out then said whencan I see you again she would be batting them eyes and dropping those panties
Dude you are awesome I’ve been doing all the wrong things I’ve been watching your videos for days you are so right I’m 52 years old and my fiancé is 34 and she told me I was suffocating her the chain starts right now because of you you’re awesome man now I know what my problem is
It’s too late find another one and why on earth would you want to get married? You 52 years old and still don’t know or understand the realities of marriage? You deserve everything you get.
Been on my grind and eager to continue being on my grind. You do a lot for us FITX and Thank you for your videos. Continue being on your grind, u have our support FITX!
I hear ya - Alejandro! Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand! Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together. And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Great afternoon brothers: Appreciate the contribution bro. Fit x: Emotional indepedence is a mighty tool to develop and utilize as an individual to conserve a space that keeps you from being entangled or, entrapped with emotions of defeat or, rejection. When anyone can make you feel other than strong and confident in your belief in yourself because of your perception of yourself don't hold anyone accountable instead work on your belief in your idea of who you are as a (POWERFUL PRESENCE)!!💪👍😄
Message to my future self. 0:57 1. Would you like to go out with me? Resolution: How about we {insert date idea here}, I’ll send you the location and time? 5:24 2. Good morning text Resolution: You don’t do it. She does it. You look desperate if you send it. 8:43 3. When can I see you again? Resolution: The women should be telling you how good she felt after the date, and if she doesn’t, assume it’s bad and move on. Remember you want someone who wants to be around you more than you around her (do not severely misjudge this). 13:29 4. You are the only one I’m seeing right now. Resolution: Don’t tell her she has all your focus. Women WANT to compete for your attention, Until She makes it official and She wants to be your one and only girl DO NOT GIVE HER A REASON TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE ONLY ONE. 18:06 5. Will you be my girlfriend? Resolution: Let her come to you. Let her put a label on your relationship. If you make her your girlfriend as opposed to letting her do it herself, you not only take away the decision she made herself and now make it not her idea but instead your idea, you will also see her flip flop and second guess the decision altogether. Let her come to you, and let her stay by you. You don’t need to keep her, she is already working to keep you.
Excellent video...and 100% factual Be assertive when setting up dates, be mysterious/enigmatic, keep her guessing and you'll stay in the power position.
I've been watching you after my girl pulled away after 8 years together. My way isn't working, so I'm now listening and doing what you're saying. I've been down this road before in my player days and I didn't want that, but I'd rather be you then be me...position wise Thank you
yo this was so true. i was doing everything wrong lmaoo i asked a girl to be my girlfriend and she said she needed time to think and i told her id give her time but that was the moment i slipped up and she just ended up telling me she dont want nothing with me but now i have girls all over me because i have many options and they are always trying to fight over me. it honestly is crazy to me how girls think. i treat them like crap and they still all up on me... To all my fellow men out here.... LISTEN TO WHAT FITX HAS TO SAY
Getting some voice and assertiveness training help a lot. Nowadays a lot of people are horrible at basic communication. Some people go on and on about things without being concise.
I stopped sending good morning texts when I started receiving them. But yeah the texting is usually where any positive interaction I've had with a woman that I just met goes into a black hole. Unless she's texting me a lot first. And I just learned the hard lesson about "the when can I see you again" mistake
Great video, dude. I've been telling my friends this stuff for years and none would listen. I had to learn the hard way but being called a "jerk" is a good thing...this was good.
Facts don't ask. Just Teller what it is. And if it's a no, be respectful leave a good impression and move on to the next. It's that easy. You never know, if she sees you again she'll remember that you carried yourself like a true G. Or a solid guy for that matter. Don't try to force people to like you. It's not worth it.
I ask one simple question: When are you free? It either elicits detail of availability (high interest) Or a lack thereof (low interest). This one question saves you A LOT OF TIME. After interest has been gauged, I will then suggest a time and place. If she cannot answer a simple question of when she's free (especially if she has no kids), just imagine other things she will be apprehensive and reluctant to do 🤔💯
@@slecuyer21 I don't disagree as I have employed this approach as well. If she appears passive/submissive (good thing👍) then I tailor my pitch based more so around my availability, as she'll likely garner more compliance towards me. If she's less passive/submissive and more "alpha" for lack of a better term (bad thing👎) Such as a cop or a nurse or someone with wonky and demanding hours/shifts, then I allow them to basically indicate to me when they're available, and if there's any uncertainty or pushback from her with something this trivial, then you've immediately weeded this woman out without having invested hardly any more time and energy than you should.
Asking her when she is FREE gives her All that Power to decide Over you making you less of a Man... It tells her how DESPERATE you are just to go out with her...
@@moforelvis1942 I can see that being the case with some women. Good point. In the ever evolving dating landscape, it's important to always maintain a student mindset. Always learning 👍
Just met a young lady who’s willing do anything for me. I ask her if It’s ok to call her out to be at a luxurious hotel for a couple nights, and she was quick & exited to say yes she will. When women are into you they make it easy. Even if you’re saying the silliest things or by asking her out. Believe it or not they’re willing to hang with me whenever I asked if they can. Women makes themselves available for you if they are comfortable around you and trust you enough or even if they don’t want you that much but likes your company.
So true...games vs. games = bullshit games!! Once again... if she likes you... be yourself bro.... if it doesn't work, wasn't meant to be...on to the next one... damn them do this do that games....
I’m only 18 and have limited experience (only 5 months) with trying to date women. I’m starting to do better just by showing confidence and not acting like I’m lesser. Some of the texts he said not to send are what I be getting sent now 🤣.
Man, I say all these things that this guys say will scared girl away. But confident in your delivery works everything . Some have it than other I guess lol
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Everything you say is correct. The only problem is that these are girls and not women. Find yourself talking a lot in the metaphor of ''competition''. With the wife of my children there is no longer any competition, both for husband and wife. If you're looking for a woman who doesn't have a say in a marriage, you're childish and watched too much Johnny Bravo as a kid. Also good videos and for the nightlife and doing your thing here and there, you are 100% right.
Damn man😂! My man spitting faxx!! Stumbled upon your channel today and found this video hilarious at the same time, useful. Seems like I've been subconsciously following some of the stuff that you talk about in this video. Keep the good stuff coming
Same. It's more difficult the more you like them. Don't text so much. Don't be too available. Unfortunately it's like a game especially in the early stages of a hook up/relationship.
Great tips! Confidence is probably the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman… And have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her! Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@halfers83 Do you want this to be true for yourself or since your already at this channel your looking 👀 to how does Mr Michael Jackson put it uh oh yeah make a change?
My brotha.....everything you just said is actual-factual...because im living proof....what kills me is alot of lame wouldnt understand or been in this position...these clowns lead with money with simp- Ly ways...
10:50 I think that's a crucial point and a big difference to the people you are talking to. We all more or less follow our purpose but I would be straight up lying to myself if I would maintain that I am above everybody. The core problem is the lack of self respect (most likely from past experiences) to fully embody what you are saying (which is not to say that everyone here wants or needs to be like you). It makes no sense to put on a mask, people will notice that. I will follow your guidance and see if I can find my own way to more self-esteem. Thank you so much for your content, it really is motivating!
Check your chat when u do live. Guys in there real goofy. You right, some of them not listening to you or if they do they don't apply it so they forget.
Wonderful, How about those who hasn’t got laid in months to have that mentality of abundance like if they’re getting laid when they don’t ? A video about it would be helpful
That's why videos like this can be wack. Like telling a guy dying of thirst to just seem normal. Meanwhile you have guys like Will Smith, Johnny Depp who have put in the work to get where they are still have to deal with women's bs.
Yes I agree I told her almost confirmed one girl that she will not loose her spot and she knew I wouldn't leave her and her behaviour had changed completely.
So about the good morning text I always find it funny early in the dating process there all about you and saying good morning which I admit I fall for it but what do you do if they do it ignore her or how do you respond cause I’ve always been told to treat others how they treat me just mad confusing thanks and great content keep up the success
9:42 … yo that’s crazy because I had a female co worker that hooked up wit a dude ik. She said the next morning he was steady texting her and she was like “damn your homeboy don’t have no other hoes”. 😂
You are right with the abundance and stuff you say. I even see I lost my last girl because I did some of the stuff you said never to do. However, there is a difference between a guy looking for smash and a guy (like me) who found the dream girl, smashed a couple of times, turned into a guy who always has time for his girl and now simply cant get over the fact she is forever gone. There are smash girls and then there is the on that you feel like you wasted the life opportunity and yes, you are definitely right with the donts, found out the hard way, wish I watched this half a year ago. Anyway, where do you draw the line, if you wanna get married have kids, guess it cant be NBA, NFL or can it
I was almost falling for a guy like this, I could not figured him out, he has done everything this guy talks, now I know why he was doing all those things! And this really turned me off now! I don’t want to be toy for someone! I am relieved that I now know why he is done all these things, it is really discusting when you find out why he is done all that mind games! The first thing in the morning will tell him goodbye or better just will ghost him 🤞😊
Phenomenal content bro. You just made me have an epiphany. When I asked my ex”Will you be my girlifriend”? She literally looked disappointed in me, even went as far as to describe her perfect man to me that didn’t match my description. I should’ve known then. Thank you for opening my eyes.
Thanks a lot for the tips! I wrote these down so I don't forget :P I always laugh at my buddy who used to send good morning texts xD That's such a no brainer / ovdious thing not to do, yet he doesn't understand why it's bad.
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You should do a simping on purpose prank
I think you surpassed ams in terms of keeping it crimson pilled my guy!
She might actually say yes if someone asked her the way you did🤣
That's our pet name so to say she's my angel and I'm her Demon
Never tell a women that you like her it’s not simping if you tell a women how you feel but it will boost her ego and she will use it against you if you tell her that you like her
Huge facts
Even after sex, no compliments I’m hard core like that .
True, got curved yesterday because of that. She told me that I was doing so well before, and that I shouldn’t have opened up. Never tell a female your intentions guys. Play the game.
Too late
@@starsmural facts but we all make mistakes with women
Never argue with a woman, mens have options, a woman worst enemy is time.
Fact
Time is my worst enemy, for me.
@Nic777 It should be "ignoring your TEXT" not "texts". Single not plural. Being ignored just once should be enough for you to stop caring why let alone demanding an explanation lol.
@@sparkzmentalz2 ok teacher
@@2jjulian Yeah, but he's right though...Sooo, what are you on about?
Best advice I ever got from a player was "Let the game come to you", and "Never give a fuck".
I stopped saying good morning texts to females and good night I stopped giving females validation when I go jogging and a female is outside or walking on the sidewalk I don't look at her I just keep my face straight forward I don't look at females anymore no more complements no nothing I give all my validation and attention to my goals and dreams.
Pretty sad how we have to do that now huh? Don't blame u bro.
U can still talk and sleep with women lol. If u see a pretty girl and ignore her thats missing out on 🐱
Update: I was doing my morning run this morning minding my own business and out of no where 2 females waving me down trying get my attention I just kept running then they came running after me the stuff fitx talks about really does work.
Chill
so how u get girls then ?
Ain’t gonna lie I was sending the good morning text and asked her to be my gf in my last relationship, I even told her she was the only one. At first I had another one on the side but I let her go once things between me and her stated getting serious. Now I understand the importance of an abundance mindset. Great content, I’m going to apply these rules to my dating life starting today.
If she says: Do you like me, do you love me?
You: I'm with you because you invest in me, therefore you're useful and i love that you are showing me the respect i deserve.
damn this a good one
hey, thats a good one 👍
just say idk
Good point
Man I learned the hard way, just let her do 90% of the talking I'm the king of speaking my mind and kills me everytime especially on controversial topics.
Same here I can’t lie
I do that with everybody now , and they think something wrong .....I gottem yal (Katt Williams voice)
Yeah, and that's why dating women is stressful. You have to actively try to become this person you're not, watch what you say cos if you say one wrong thing game over.
Fitx makes it seem like every guy has their 1st option to begin with. Of course if a guy has options to begin with then his attitude changes but you have to get your first one or two to begin with. For each one you have to do this self restriction etc not to mess it up. Notice how when you're with your fellow guys you just flow naturally?
Sup guys, so I went on a date with this chick, she’s Korean born in Canada, but studying in UK which is where I was born. She’s 23 I’m 26 if that matters.
we went to to the park had some ice cream and she didn’t 80% of the talking. We kissed multiple times, we pretty much clicked straight away. lots of touching on her legs and ass. Went great.
Week later I messaged her to meet up, ended up going to her place, we fucked and spent some time together.
Later that night when I got home I told her was nice being with you and she reacted the same back to me, I asked “are you free next weekend?”
She said “Friday night”?
I said “can’t Friday, but sat or sun night?”
She said “yea I’ll get back to you!”
This was Saturday night, now if she doesn’t get back to me, how should I play this? Should I contact her at all if she doesn’t get back to me or what? I’m really liking this girl and would love to spend more time with her, I’ve been with lots of different chicks but this one I’m struggling to compose myself because I’m actually liking her but obviously haven’t shown it too much
Prepare to be alone if you have the balls to stay alone ok do it
It’s wild how men have to do all this work, all this self improvement, then have knowledge on how to play games just to get LAID… While women are WORSHIPPED and coveted for their sexuality. Why aren’t we the ones making them work for us?
True. But Relax its only when when they are young.
Women 30+ are mostly done for. Hit the wall and only have a chance on a beta male. Or a lazy alpha who will smash and leave.
Show me the women 35 and more who are still getting attention etc…
Very rare…
18-30 is womens era
Men have forever
Unless You don’t workout and look like shit.
Im 34, Im shredded. 50% of my dates end up in sex.
Why? Because they love a 30 year old Guy with exp and is in shape.
Im dating 24-25 years olds 10 years younger then me.
Why?
Because they are way hotter and more fresh.
The same 35 or older versions are done
Nobody wants them unless a beta with no options or life
we have been for millennia
Things have changed now fam, and the dating game is rigged in their favor now. You have to adapt and evolve, or else you'll just fall by the wayside. Gotta keep pushing, it can be discouraging, but we've got to be courageous and keep going
@@johnosasi4710 bruh how are we supposed to do that? Not everyone can get a higher paying job, or even if becoming physically fit can still be unattractive face wise, or some dudes just don't like speaking too much, I mean I seen you tube videos with women breaking down the rules for what men should have on their damn tinder account, are they serious!?!? A dude can't hold the phone taking a pic, can't be shirtless, needs to show teeth when smiling, can't be next to a car it's a "douche" look, can't have too many friend pics, can't do this can't be that, needs to look natural with someone else taking the pics......what in the actual hell......women are so damn complicated and annoying
Because you guys worship vagina and literally cannot think straight when sex is on the table. And I'm not trying to insult men here, that's just your biology, but it puts you at a disadvantage because women understand this and know how to manipulate the situation in that way
Of course, it may work this well in the short term but I've noticed my female counterparts are very short sighted and don't realize you can't live the life of a 304, and then find satisfaction in one man, love, and children. There's a trade off. Short term fun while simultaneously getting emotionally, sexually, and physically damaged. Or actually finding the love we all crave and fulfillment in life
Sorry y'all have to deal with our society. History repeats itself. There have been societies where women have been sexually liberated and they have all collapsed under the weight of collapsed relationships. They all already realized that father's should choose their daughter's mates but hey, they opened pandoras box this time around because of social media. It's not localized anymore, it's spreading around the world and there's a permanent record. I can't even imagine things correcting themselves
I've always had that mindset as well that a girl should send a post date text showing appreciation. If she doesn't, I don't reach out again.
Red flag if she doesn’t. It just means she’s entitled, and no guy wants to put up with a individual who’s all about receiving and never putting in any effort or reciprocating energies. Know your worth 👏
@@josep6939 - Yep. A guy sets the day/time/location and makes it happen/pays. She's literally just showing up. So the trade off to sending a text is pretty minimal.
If she doesn't say thank you for dinner at the dinner table.... she's trash.
Sup guys, so I went on a date with this chick, she’s Korean born in Canada, but studying in UK which is where I was born. She’s 23 I’m 26 if that matters.
we went to to the park had some ice cream and she didn’t 80% of the talking. We kissed multiple times, we pretty much clicked straight away. lots of touching on her legs and ass. Went great.
Week later I messaged her to meet up, ended up going to her place, we fucked and spent some time together.
Later that night when I got home I told her was nice being with you and she reacted the same back to me, I asked “are you free next weekend?”
She said “Friday night”?
I said “can’t Friday, but sat or sun night?”
She said “yea I’ll get back to you!”
This was Saturday night, now if she doesn’t get back to me, how should I play this? Should I contact her at all if she doesn’t get back to me or what? I’m really liking this girl and would love to spend more time with her, I’ve been with lots of different chicks but this one I’m struggling to compose myself because I’m actually liking her but obviously haven’t shown it too much
I used to think this but eventually realized it's a dumb "rule".
Some women are just nervous or inexperienced. They'll respond instantly but you always have to initiate. You'll get this reaction when they notice you aren't needy and not a big texter, they don't want to come off as clingy and desperate.
Stop following hard rules and learn how to read the room instead
The Simp voice kills Mee
"WhenCanISeeYouAgain"
😩🤣😭😂🥴
Damm that was Hilarious lmao 🤣
The first point is something I realized that I was doing before watch this video. I’ve been actively trying to change this. There’s something attractive about being assertive
same bro
"when can i see you again, YOU SOUND PATHETIC. "
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"music drops"
🎵It's been along timeeee without you my friend 🎵
I disagree it's the dude saying it. If justin Bieber took a girl out then said whencan I see you again she would be batting them eyes and dropping those panties
Preach my guy!! NEVER give away FREE validation to ANY woman at all!
Stumbled across your channel, you really out here giving free gems to these simps
Dude you are awesome I’ve been doing all the wrong things I’ve been watching your videos for days you are so right I’m 52 years old and my fiancé is 34 and she told me I was suffocating her the chain starts right now because of you you’re awesome man now I know what my problem is
It’s too late find another one and why on earth would you want to get married? You 52 years old and still don’t know or understand the realities of marriage? You deserve everything you get.
They say women are like cats you chase them? They run. Sit and wait when they come stay calm and pet them IF they let you
Ur fiance was barely born and u were 18 already 😂
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Goku black you won't see heaven for this one 😂😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
You are 2,000% correct in everything you've said here.
Been on my grind and eager to continue being on my grind. You do a lot for us FITX and Thank you for your videos. Continue being on your grind, u have our support FITX!
I hear ya - Alejandro!
Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand!
Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together.
And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Great afternoon brothers: Appreciate the contribution bro. Fit x: Emotional indepedence is a mighty tool to develop and utilize as an individual to conserve a space that keeps you from being entangled or, entrapped with emotions of defeat or, rejection. When anyone can make you feel other than strong and confident in your belief in yourself because of your perception of yourself don't hold anyone accountable instead work on your belief in your idea of who you are as a (POWERFUL PRESENCE)!!💪👍😄
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Bro said “when can I see you again” 🤣. Shit had me rollin! I don’t know how I came across this channel but I stick around for the comedy
What was funny?
@@shakaj1525 "when can I see you again" from a dude that's Damn funny wtf😂😂
The lil voice😅
perfect simp impersonation!
Message to my future self.
0:57
1. Would you like to go out with me?
Resolution: How about we {insert date idea here}, I’ll send you the location and time?
5:24
2. Good morning text
Resolution: You don’t do it. She does it. You look desperate if you send it.
8:43
3. When can I see you again?
Resolution: The women should be telling you how good she felt after the date, and if she doesn’t, assume it’s bad and move on. Remember you want someone who wants to be around you more than you around her (do not severely misjudge this).
13:29
4. You are the only one I’m seeing right now.
Resolution: Don’t tell her she has all your focus. Women WANT to compete for your attention, Until She makes it official and She wants to be your one and only girl DO NOT GIVE HER A REASON TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE ONLY ONE.
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5. Will you be my girlfriend?
Resolution: Let her come to you. Let her put a label on your relationship. If you make her your girlfriend as opposed to letting her do it herself, you not only take away the decision she made herself and now make it not her idea but instead your idea, you will also see her flip flop and second guess the decision altogether. Let her come to you, and let her stay by you. You don’t need to keep her, she is already working to keep you.
Excellent video...and 100% factual Be assertive when setting up dates, be mysterious/enigmatic, keep her guessing and you'll stay in the power position.
Bro this mentality is fucking amazing, wish I thought this way before my last girl ghosted me. Could’ve saved me a lot of heart ache. Great video.
I've been watching you after my girl pulled away after 8 years together. My way isn't working, so I'm now listening and doing what you're saying. I've been down this road before in my player days and I didn't want that, but I'd rather be you then be me...position wise
Thank you
Sure enough, cheating
@@gammtrix7244damn man… sorry you had to go through that. How are you now?
one bodybuilder to a another you are so right teach those young man's the ropes
Thanks
yo this was so true. i was doing everything wrong lmaoo i asked a girl to be my girlfriend and she said she needed time to think and i told her id give her time but that was the moment i slipped up and she just ended up telling me she dont want nothing with me but now i have girls all over me because i have many options and they are always trying to fight over me. it honestly is crazy to me how girls think. i treat them like crap and they still all up on me... To all my fellow men out here.... LISTEN TO WHAT FITX HAS TO SAY
Your videos are so much better now as you seem way less angry at girls nature and just accept it. You even make humor about the way they are.
this dude swallowed the blue pill and spit it out, and now he is teaching others on how to do the same. Some great advice, keep it up
Getting some voice and assertiveness training help a lot. Nowadays a lot of people are horrible at basic communication. Some people go on and on about things without being concise.
I stopped sending good morning texts when I started receiving them. But yeah the texting is usually where any positive interaction I've had with a woman that I just met goes into a black hole. Unless she's texting me a lot first. And I just learned the hard lesson about "the when can I see you again" mistake
Great video, dude. I've been telling my friends this stuff for years and none would listen. I had to learn the hard way but being called a "jerk" is a good thing...this was good.
It the same with asshole or is that different lol
Facts don't ask. Just Teller what it is. And if it's a no, be respectful leave a good impression and move on to the next. It's that easy. You never know, if she sees you again she'll remember that you carried yourself like a true G. Or a solid guy for that matter. Don't try to force people to like you. It's not worth it.
I watch you all the time, this vid hits!! 😂 glad your letting us know what we’re doing WRONG
Thanks bro I’m not going to lie I did the morning text and she’s disrespected me never again keep up the good work
Only time I tell her she's the only one is when she knows she's not and that I'm lying when I say it. It's always worked for me.
Bro your entrance is the maddest G 👏🏽💯
I ask one simple question:
When are you free?
It either elicits detail of availability (high interest)
Or a lack thereof (low interest).
This one question saves you A LOT OF TIME.
After interest has been gauged, I will then suggest a time and place.
If she cannot answer a simple question of when she's free (especially if she has no kids), just imagine other things she will be apprehensive and reluctant to do 🤔💯
Wrong, don’t ask them when they’re free, you tell them when you’re free. Give them 2 options, make them choose.
@@slecuyer21 I don't disagree as I have employed this approach as well.
If she appears passive/submissive (good thing👍) then I tailor my pitch based more so around my availability, as she'll likely garner more compliance towards me.
If she's less passive/submissive and more "alpha" for lack of a better term (bad thing👎)
Such as a cop or a nurse or someone with wonky and demanding hours/shifts, then I allow them to basically indicate to me when they're available, and if there's any uncertainty or pushback from her with something this trivial, then you've immediately weeded this woman out without having invested hardly any more time and energy than you should.
@@dinok.3809 fair enough there is no one size fits all
Asking her when she is FREE gives her All that Power to decide Over you making you less of a Man... It tells her how DESPERATE you are just to go out with her...
@@moforelvis1942 I can see that being the case with some women. Good point. In the ever evolving dating landscape, it's important to always maintain a student mindset. Always learning 👍
Just met a young lady who’s willing do anything for me. I ask her if It’s ok to call her out to be at a luxurious hotel for a couple nights, and she was quick & exited to say yes she will. When women are into you they make it easy. Even if you’re saying the silliest things or by asking her out. Believe it or not they’re willing to hang with me whenever I asked if they can. Women makes themselves available for you if they are comfortable around you and trust you enough or even if they don’t want you that much but likes your company.
So true...games vs. games = bullshit games!! Once again... if she likes you... be yourself bro.... if it doesn't work, wasn't meant to be...on to the next one... damn them do this do that games....
The moment yu said good morning test, Lord have mercy; I was on kneels laughing out loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fit is the realest guy out there for this sort of advice; much appreciated sir.
You are the BEST relationship expert I have ever listened to. And your advice have changed my life. Thank you my brother.
Been with 50+ women , he is.
The antics 😂🤣🤣 spilling facts but the would you like to go out with me voice 😆😆
First day of the week and this man FITX is producin HEAT
I’m only 18 and have limited experience (only 5 months) with trying to date women. I’m starting to do better just by showing confidence and not acting like I’m lesser. Some of the texts he said not to send are what I be getting sent now 🤣.
He stays dropping heat! 🔥 Let’s go!
If you look good enough it doesn’t matter how you say it as long as it’s confident I swear that’s all the advice you need.
exactly, just be yourself. if she don’t find you attractive in some kind of way you just working hard for no reason
Man, I say all these things that this guys say will scared girl away. But confident in your delivery works everything . Some have it than other I guess lol
We're here for the lecture as usual"This is NBA"....gat me 😂😂😂😂
This video hit, thank you for what you're doing. You real af and it's appreciated.
I cannot help but comment today heven been watching your stuffs for a couple of months🤣! You are so passionate, enthusiastic and best at what you do. You are already a guru in this domain and beyond within a very short time✅️ cos your contents are applicable to many areas of life. Keep it up bro❤️ Sky is not your limit ❗️
After a few months?? Why??
Then you know what you need to do. Go to the gym, workout until failure. Instant endorphine rush and confidence boost.
@@Goblin_Hands why should you be so curious about After a few months??
Everything you say is correct. The only problem is that these are girls and not women. Find yourself talking a lot in the metaphor of ''competition''. With the wife of my children there is no longer any competition, both for husband and wife. If you're looking for a woman who doesn't have a say in a marriage, you're childish and watched too much Johnny Bravo as a kid. Also good videos and for the nightlife and doing your thing here and there, you are 100% right.
I got my cook for me girl , I got a that’s go somewhere an do whatever girl that’s enough for me 💪🏿💯 thanks 🙏🏿 fit x for keeping it a stack bro
Bro literally commanding a mandatory “like and subscribe ". Can’t break it down no simpler. 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥🐐🐐
Yo, this shit connected all the dots In my head and made much sense. This should be taught early on in a man's life
That’s what fathers are for..too bad the community never sees them anymore
A mandatory course definitely.
Been adding that abundant mindset to my life more. It works
You speaking the truth family 💯
This my 1st time seeing a FitX video and I gotta say my manz is dropping knowledge. I been implementing these techniques for years...
Talk to the people 💯💯💯
I like how you compare these women to draft picks . That’s how we gotta treat them . Good info fearless .
Damn man😂! My man spitting faxx!! Stumbled upon your channel today and found this video hilarious at the same time, useful. Seems like I've been subconsciously following some of the stuff that you talk about in this video. Keep the good stuff coming
Thank you for being honest bro. It's only fair that we play to the strength of our value.
Dude where have you been all this time, this video perfectly fits my current situation, not just mine but thousands of Males out there !!
That "Ohhh Lord have mercy on your children" ..has me rolling😂😂😂😂🤞🏼💔
His simp voice is surreal!!! 😅😅😅
I’m over here cracking tf up cause I’ve been guilty of doing all these I can’t even front🤣😂
we're all here to improve. no worries.
Same. It's more difficult the more you like them. Don't text so much. Don't be too available. Unfortunately it's like a game especially in the early stages of a hook up/relationship.
Everyone has done this, how u learn from mistakes Dw bro
yeah man tired; it's when I'm tired and most disinterested and Jaded that they most want me!
Never thought the the “good morning” text was a turn off ugh 😩 no way 😅😅😅. So glad I watched this.
Great tips! Confidence is probably the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman…
And have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol
But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her!
Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@johnsysays O.o get em.
I will continue to remain single until I'm very old and die. Going to be 39 and have been single and no intimacy for closed to 12 yrs now.
@@halfers83 Bruh, is this bragging or complaining? Why not just live it and let people notice it?
@@halfers83 Do you want this to be true for yourself or since your already at this channel your looking 👀 to how does Mr Michael Jackson put it uh oh yeah make a change?
@@bmoresweetz7023 I don't know what stupid comment is this. Explain? Why are you attacking me?
Yuhzt. Ur right g. Mek dem gyal a know the minute them disrespect man them cut off.
Facts brotha 💪🏽
Let it be KNOWN!🔥💯 Great work brother!💪
My brotha.....everything you just said is actual-factual...because im living proof....what kills me is alot of lame wouldnt understand or been in this position...these clowns lead with money with simp- Ly ways...
UA-cam is totally stalking me
10:50 I think that's a crucial point and a big difference to the people you are talking to. We all more or less follow our purpose but I would be straight up lying to myself if I would maintain that I am above everybody. The core problem is the lack of self respect (most likely from past experiences) to fully embody what you are saying (which is not to say that everyone here wants or needs to be like you). It makes no sense to put on a mask, people will notice that. I will follow your guidance and see if I can find my own way to more self-esteem. Thank you so much for your content, it really is motivating!
Appreciate the motivation champ!!
Check your chat when u do live. Guys in there real goofy. You right, some of them not listening to you or if they do they don't apply it so they forget.
Wonderful, How about those who hasn’t got laid in months to have that mentality of abundance like if they’re getting laid when they don’t ? A video about it would be helpful
That's why videos like this can be wack. Like telling a guy dying of thirst to just seem normal. Meanwhile you have guys like Will Smith, Johnny Depp who have put in the work to get where they are still have to deal with women's bs.
Yes I agree I told her almost confirmed one girl that she will not loose her spot and she knew I wouldn't leave her and her behaviour had changed completely.
This is factual and hilarious at the same time!
So about the good morning text I always find it funny early in the dating process there all about you and saying good morning which I admit I fall for it but what do you do if they do it ignore her or how do you respond cause I’ve always been told to treat others how they treat me just mad confusing thanks and great content keep up the success
9:42 … yo that’s crazy because I had a female co worker that hooked up wit a dude ik. She said the next morning he was steady texting her and she was like “damn your homeboy don’t have no other hoes”. 😂
🤣😂
Lol
This is very helpful for the the guys who nevered had a Man tell them about Women. I appreciate your vids
Went against the blueprint now I’m down bad right now 🤦🏾♂️😭
Real talk it literally doesn’t matter what she thinks or says. Literally stay steady
Lord have mercy 😄 ,,,, great work fitx,,,, videos getting more entertaining
This man really know the game all the advice he gives has help me a lot
Bruh I fucking digg your mindset
You are right with the abundance and stuff you say. I even see I lost my last girl because I did some of the stuff you said never to do. However, there is a difference between a guy looking for smash and a guy (like me) who found the dream girl, smashed a couple of times, turned into a guy who always has time for his girl and now simply cant get over the fact she is forever gone. There are smash girls and then there is the on that you feel like you wasted the life opportunity and yes, you are definitely right with the donts, found out the hard way, wish I watched this half a year ago. Anyway, where do you draw the line, if you wanna get married have kids, guess it cant be NBA, NFL or can it
Here to hear that scream 10 times😂..."wooooooooooooo... let's go boyz.. let's go... let's go...."
Yo bro you teach me a lot for being a man on how to talk to woman. This make me have a value of myself.
1. Will you go out with me
2. Good morning text
3. When can I see you again
I was almost falling for a guy like this, I could not figured him out, he has done everything this guy talks, now I know why he was doing all those things! And this really turned me off now! I don’t want to be toy for someone! I am relieved that I now know why he is done all these things, it is really discusting when you find out why he is done all that mind games! The first thing in the morning will tell him goodbye or better just will ghost him 🤞😊
Thanks for bringing our world to order 👊
ALL Facts again My Brother! You're Spot on...
I've never texted a woman good morning first even in my simping days lol .. lord save morden men !!
On point and easy to comprehend . Thank u bro
My dude is speaking ALL facts
He's a helper
Pure wisdom bro
I have bad memories with good morning texts now I cringe at the mere thought of it
Modern women ain’t even worth it. You can’t even be real with a chick anymore.
Yup, never again…makes my skin crawl just thinking back at that
Phenomenal content bro. You just made me have an epiphany. When I asked my ex”Will you be my girlifriend”? She literally looked disappointed in me, even went as far as to describe her perfect man to me that didn’t match my description. I should’ve known then. Thank you for opening my eyes.
FACTS MY GUY 😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I LOVE THIS GUY 🔥👌🏽
Good shit bro keep up the great work
Thanks a lot for the tips! I wrote these down so I don't forget :P
I always laugh at my buddy who used to send good morning texts xD That's such a no brainer / ovdious thing not to do, yet he doesn't understand why it's bad.
I'm convinced, convince me! Dope bro!