MY WIFE QUIT SOCIAL MEDIA * This is what happened

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  • @lebomuchmoney7886
    @lebomuchmoney7886 2 роки тому +111

    Been off Facebook for 4yrs during the January prayer. Never went back. This year's Jan prayer, I said less of WhatsApp., no viewing and no posting. Finished prayer and can't even bring myself to view. And yep, don't have tiktok, don't even know how it's works and I'm cool with it. I don't feel like I'm losing anything

    • @bamekeatimilwe7925
      @bamekeatimilwe7925 2 роки тому +1

      i pray for this too.

    • @sunshinemotanyane6359
      @sunshinemotanyane6359 2 роки тому +3

      Soc is toxic

    • @mmtn9043
      @mmtn9043 2 роки тому +2

      Lebo,i agree with you,for me,am trying to discipline myself,no email,no linked in before 12 and sometime,no WhatsApp before daily devotion. Satan came to steal,kill and destroy

    • @kzeetha
      @kzeetha 2 роки тому +1

      My husband also hates it when I complain

  • @rotondwarambau8208
    @rotondwarambau8208 2 роки тому +4

    I once deleted all my apps except WhatsApp and I felt liberated, now I have Facebook again and yhoo it has me by my neck but I’m gonna work on this addiction. I hate how social media decreases our attention span.

  • @sihlezulu9200
    @sihlezulu9200 Рік тому +4

    You guys don’t paint a fairytale picture of marriage but all I see is the beauty of God’s grace when to people work together to grow in union and companionship. I love it, thank you and glory to God 🙌🏾

  • @bakangdibako4660
    @bakangdibako4660 2 роки тому +14

    Love love Lerato’s intepretation of the “delight yourself in The Lord…” scripture ❤ spot on

  • @masentleanidachauke937
    @masentleanidachauke937 2 роки тому +26

    This is such a confirmation for me❤️❤️ as a stay at home mom I find that my job is more stressful and overwhelming when I spend time scrolling online. My chores take longer and even the exhaustion is much more than it should.
    It's a fight I'm really trusting God to overcome

  • @reabetswe
    @reabetswe 2 роки тому +16

    🤣 🤣 Talking about social media my IG closed me out for some reason I couldn't log back in I was like cool 😎 I even uninstalled it I'm on a break I wish I could be for a year or more.. We are sinning that side envying others consciously and unconsciously something the word advices us against

  • @nontobekombatha7909
    @nontobekombatha7909 2 роки тому +12

    I got off social media months ago. It's the best decision I have ever made❤️

  • @Ms-lb7lb
    @Ms-lb7lb 2 роки тому +8

    I’ve always been anti-social media and every time I’d try be on it I’d almost instantly realize myself change, be irritable, anxious and sick. I’ve also realized how screen time also affects kids.

  • @KaraboM
    @KaraboM 2 роки тому +3

    OMG I'm only on 10min of this installment and already share the same sentiments as you Aus'P...I remember after Varsity I stayed at home for some time all I ever did was watch TV...cook and be on social media. I used to compare my life with sooo many of my peers and I felt STUCK like I'm not moving in life. I then randomly woke up and said nope, no more social media for me. I didn't know for how long I was going to go without it but long story short I did it for a good 4-5months. That period alone, I felt so WHOLE in a sense that I reverted back to God, I immersed myself with books( financial and spiritual) I've never felt so "clean and free" and liberated. I felt sooo empowered and that state of just being one with God and learning to trust and believe him is so fulfilling. So indeed taking those breaks from socials is IMPORTANT...some might have different "coping" mechanisms and some would say nooo just manage it like this or like that. NO! We all different like Abhuti Lerato said. I encourage people to try it and then let's have a conversation💯✝️❤

  • @lebogangphora806
    @lebogangphora806 2 роки тому +12

    Good Day The Makhs. Thank you for all the awesome installments. I honestly agree with Phetola, I've been off IG, Twitter and FB for now a good 3 years and I do not see myself back there anytime soon.
    Everytime I posted I was so doubtful,anxious and felt like I had a low self esteem. I then had to go back and ask myself, why am I posting, what does it do for me. I am more intentional in how I spend my time.

  • @aliciamudumela1383
    @aliciamudumela1383 2 роки тому +28

    Thank you guys for sharing. I can relate so much to this and staying away from social media has helped appreciate the progress in my life instead of doing a comparison to those I follow.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 роки тому

      Our pleasure!♥️♥️♥️

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo 2 роки тому +10

    Yho Mrs Makhs my prayer for you right now is that you STAY on that phase, the phase of gratitude and contentment.. I cannot begin to imagine what it took for you to actually realize your flaws and taking action towards changing them.what you went through is one of the darkest places a person could ever find themselves in. I'm drowning in depression because of my social media obsession. Please handle yourself with care if it means quitting for GOOD than so be it... Your sanity is far more important
    Keep well family, you guys are amazing.

  • @zandilebhila3733
    @zandilebhila3733 2 роки тому +5

    I’m currently on a social media detox, I’ve never felt this lite and calm in a long time and being more present at home with the hubs and my daughter, definitely enjoying this phase 😊.

  • @Thatgirl_Gee
    @Thatgirl_Gee 2 роки тому +2

    Social media can be great,, but also toxic. I've deleted twitter and Instagram because I felt like it was robbing me of my peace. It's when I don't know what other people are up to that I'm at peace with myself. It didn't make sense to me to know what someone had for breakfast before I started my day. There are times when I miss it when I don't know what to do with myself.

  • @lengwebobo7418
    @lengwebobo7418 2 роки тому +4

    This conversation came at the absolute best time because I can totally relate especially to the anxiety. Being off social media definitely does allow me to see things and experience things so differently. Thank you for having this conversation 🙌🏽

  • @rumbidzaimukarakate9130
    @rumbidzaimukarakate9130 2 роки тому +15

    Thank you Mr Makhs for that perspective on delighting ourselves in the Lord! It's powerful.

  • @moitherikotsi5327
    @moitherikotsi5327 2 роки тому +3

    the voice that should influence what you want should be God's....Lerato I felt you when you said that dude😇

  • @lethabolekalakala6652
    @lethabolekalakala6652 2 роки тому +4

    I’ve been off social media from December and I thought to myself I’d come back today but guess want I’m so content with my life right now, I’m so productive and my relationship with God is even better that I even went back to church ( since 2020)🙈.
    Phetelo will always be ngwana kasi (sosha) 😂😂😂 spitori ke lingo yahao . Le English kya spitori😂😂😂 I Love you mam

  • @kgomotsimolepo6420
    @kgomotsimolepo6420 2 роки тому +5

    This is soo true! social media can really make you not to appreciate what you were once excited and proud of,a blessing God gave you. Thanks for sharing guys 💛

  • @tinyikomokale1872
    @tinyikomokale1872 2 роки тому +9

    I love this conversation so much 🥺🙌🏾 gratitude, reflection, peace, stillness and prayer 🙏🏾

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK 2 роки тому +5

    Bathong dream team, here we "like, comment and share", also... ra subscriber bathong. We Dont just watch. Hit that bell and never miss out on an episode.

  • @reshoketswemoalusi
    @reshoketswemoalusi Рік тому

    Shuuu do not let social media dictate who you are, love it🙌 so many nuggets taken from this. We need to understand that there are processes in our lives before we get the promises and social media makes us to rush the process of God in our lives.

  • @selulukhele
    @selulukhele 2 роки тому +5

    "The life that we have is God led..." loved that❤️

  • @zaneleluhabe8863
    @zaneleluhabe8863 2 роки тому +1

    The Makhs my favorite 🤗 😍Eish social media can be a trap hey.It can be so exhausting in many ways yhoo

  • @maphanganomcebo4584
    @maphanganomcebo4584 2 роки тому +1

    Yhooo social media neh .
    I think it has us by hands
    I stopped Instagram and Facebook for 2 years now .
    This thing affects us mentally and it wastes so much of our time shame .
    Anywho I feel this is a call for many to take a break
    Reconnect with self with nature with God with family
    So ❤❤
    Thank you Makhs 😊

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo Рік тому

    I love Lerato's perspective on delighting in the Lord and getting the desires of our hearts

  • @Keaaabetswe
    @Keaaabetswe Рік тому

    Wow What a perspective Mr Maketha about delighting myself in the Lord, i hear you sir. Spend more time with God! ❤

  • @LETSOALO_LIFE
    @LETSOALO_LIFE 2 роки тому +2

    This one is a confirmation for me...!
    I am a social media person but I need to learn to manage it. I would be scrolling information then easily get distracted by The Makhs 🔔 notification when it wasn't really my time to be on youtube for leisure 😂. Then I stop doing whatever I am supposed to. After the Makhs ke a whole lot of people I follow gosh...I am so guilty. After the time wasted I feel so bad cos I can't regain the time.
    I love the systems approach, I know I can do better for myself, i will do better. Best wishes with this Phetola. I hope you don't get too overwhelmed by this since you mentioned you need socials as it's part of your bread. May God amplify you on this!

  • @LeeMatsiliso
    @LeeMatsiliso 2 роки тому +2

    I needed this so much and also can we recognize Moruti Lerato's wisdom. Thank you family

  • @temprancemashiane6411
    @temprancemashiane6411 2 роки тому +3

    I bumped into this on Instagram even though I follow you guys and wanted to listen to it after being off Instagram for over a week ( which was quite long for me) and I'm grateful as a child of God, born again n spirit led for thus particular content because I couldn't differentiate between pressure and being inspired... Thank you🙏🙏

  • @Remza-Luv
    @Remza-Luv 2 роки тому +8

    Ohhhh Mr Makhs that scripture, that explanation, you just changed my life.
    Thank you for this one 💗 weird enough my friend and i were having a similar conversation just before i watched this...

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 роки тому +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @leratoranamane9529
    @leratoranamane9529 2 роки тому +13

    This 22-year old loves you guys 🥺❤️ The honesty in your reflections is incredible 💯

  • @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093
    @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you Phetola for this. I felt the same recently.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  2 роки тому +2

      You are so welcome♥️

  • @rasakanyalebogang46
    @rasakanyalebogang46 2 роки тому +2

    I have learned alot from this i can relate. Your wife is very wise. Accountability is the key. I struggle with the same problem i made a decision to not follow certain people i feel my lifestyle was changing. Thank you. Mature and Christian family i appreciate

  • @nthabisengmphulomasila5731
    @nthabisengmphulomasila5731 2 роки тому +5

    First one here...yassssssss hello boys and girls

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo 2 роки тому

    And those pearls af wisdom dropped by Mr Makhs about delighting ourselves in the Lord? Omg that landed at the core of my heart. Listen Man, you guys are annointed and the world was never ready for yall, never!!!

  • @nwabisasophazi
    @nwabisasophazi 2 роки тому

    Oh Stephanie Ike is the BEST!! Thank you so much for this discussion, speaks directly to my decision to go off social media as well, I literally have created a ghost page where I follow people and pages that speak to the things I need to work on and that which I have interest in like spiritual, motivational, fitness, mental health. It is soo soothing to not only have this page but have no one DMing me or sharing memes with me

  • @MervallyGakerobale
    @MervallyGakerobale 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this conversation, it is relatable to what i am going through right now. But with God, i will overcome.

  • @matharisdiary
    @matharisdiary 2 роки тому +2

    It's so cool actually watching something that makes u look for the like button!
    Love your conversations. I do my chores listening to u so please keep it coming ❤️

  • @authenticnoise9885
    @authenticnoise9885 Рік тому

    Really powerful installment 🔥🔥🔥

  • @kutlopogiso9675
    @kutlopogiso9675 Рік тому

    I watched this installment some time ago and I loved it. But I just continued with my social media use. I didn’t realize the depth to which it was affecting me. Mara recently I have realised that. I complain more and am generally just ungrateful. and now I’m coming back to this installment again before I finally get off SM, something I should have done much earlier. Thank you Mr & Mrs Makhs for this installment and the work that you do altogether- you’re impacting lives. Much love from Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Рік тому

    Hallo, YOU TEACH -- OF COURSE YOU TEACH WHAT YOU KNOW --- of course you teach, you teach what you know --- THE BEST THING there is....--- mmmhhhh, that was great teachings...................

  • @aphiwemncube1550
    @aphiwemncube1550 2 роки тому +1

    Love this family so much❤️😍such an inspiration.

  • @euginia_mathapelo
    @euginia_mathapelo 2 роки тому +2

    Eeeei social media honestly...I'm so glad that I've been off Facebook for 10years, off Twitter for 3 years and eeei my biggest struggle Instagram but have been off it for 1 month by God’s grace

  • @nqobilesithole9003
    @nqobilesithole9003 2 роки тому

    This is the 1st installment I'm watching this year but hey the Makhs you guys has made my day....this was mouthful

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 2 роки тому

    Oh wow with you i just love the honesty dream team,thank you so much family i love you so much 💝💝

  • @ciciliaflanagan6390
    @ciciliaflanagan6390 2 роки тому

    Welcome back beautiful people.
    Oh yeah Stephanie Ike is awesome love to much. Great video

  • @KeabetsweMahoro24
    @KeabetsweMahoro24 2 роки тому +1

    Ausi Phetola those braids Sis😍you look so beautiful 🔥.

  • @portiamathapelop8574
    @portiamathapelop8574 2 роки тому +2

    I could relate with you gal the pressure that i didn't appreciate anything i have a very loving husband but didn't appreciate that since I deactivated my social media am really at peace i pray more i laugh am happy no longer depressed anymore

  • @vuyokaziadelaidetshitshiba1123
    @vuyokaziadelaidetshitshiba1123 2 роки тому +1

    Love love abuti Lerato take on the scripture delight yourself in the Lord, something to introspect

  • @kdaughters
    @kdaughters 2 роки тому +2

    I've been having the same conviction. When does inspiration become coveting? And where do we draw the line to check our hearts.

  • @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605
    @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605 2 роки тому +1

    Stephanie Ike , Sarah Jakes , those are my people.
    Today I was watching Stephanie Ike preaching about Walk Worthy .

  • @tintswalomabasa565
    @tintswalomabasa565 2 роки тому +3

    Let's not put ourselves under so much pressure. Isaiah 60:22 (b) At the right time, I, the Lord, will make it happen. Social media can make a person feel like her life is not progressing. One thing I learned is that ppl will always post the best things that happened to them, but it doesn't mean all things go well every day. They just don't post it on social media.

  • @Hairjournal
    @Hairjournal 2 роки тому

    My fav installment ever🔥🔥🔥
    Thank you for the content.

  • @lebogangledwaba9754
    @lebogangledwaba9754 2 роки тому

    Wow, this is very profound and one can easily miss it. Thank you for highlighting the importance of fasting social media for, I think, your mental health's sake...WOW, thank you guys, beautiful!!❤

  • @tshepomoikanyane4210
    @tshepomoikanyane4210 Рік тому

    Absolutely enjoyed this episode. Thank you for sharing your journey and being honest about it.

  • @smangelevukeya
    @smangelevukeya 2 роки тому

    That's not just your perceptive but revelation @ Lerato..When you delight in the Lord, you eyes are open to God's reality for your life, and begin to
    want what he wants for you life.. powerful

  • @thatokraal4742
    @thatokraal4742 2 роки тому

    Preach Lerato😭🙌🏽 okay Nna I'm such a cry baby bathong 😭😭😭😭 here's to spending more intimate time with God.

  • @mahlogonolothobane7298
    @mahlogonolothobane7298 2 роки тому

    Beautiful instalment bocuzzy. Oh Pheto I love Stephanie too 😍😍😍

  • @nonhlanhlahadebe3259
    @nonhlanhlahadebe3259 2 роки тому +1

    You're such an amazing couple may God bless you more and keep on taking care each other

  • @keolebilemmoke60
    @keolebilemmoke60 10 місяців тому

    " His desire becomes your desire " 💣🙌🏾💣

  • @temogocoaching
    @temogocoaching 2 роки тому +1

    Yes to Stephanie Ike.✊️ I enjoy her on the 'Better together' show on TBN. 💃

  • @millzmaz8155
    @millzmaz8155 Рік тому

    Haha its a very British thing to do complaining. Thanks for sharing Makhs. Your content always I repeat always enriches me. God bless you 😊

  • @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639
    @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639 2 роки тому +1

    I also decided January that I am leaving Facebook. I would scroll for almost hours without noticing then when I have to do something I am tired. Too much of everything is a problem 😢

  • @sharonthemba8764
    @sharonthemba8764 2 роки тому +7

    Since I get off social media, I've lost appetite for it. It's easy to inherit someone's ideas, systems, habits and we forget who we are.
    I got same conviction in December.
    Thank you guys for sharing your wonderful insights.🤍

  • @blessjoy
    @blessjoy 2 роки тому

    Wooooh!!!this is a message to me🙏🙂 it's good to follow fellow Christians because wow!!!God speaks through them to you.

  • @shuliehasiciimbwe7540
    @shuliehasiciimbwe7540 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this guys. 💕

  • @WholesomeLu
    @WholesomeLu 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this 😢reality check !

  • @WhatsUpWhatsHappening
    @WhatsUpWhatsHappening 2 роки тому

    Wow! Thank you so much for this. I tried social media fast, I think 2years ago, and failed dismally. I will try it again this year. Im so inspired by this installment 🙏 ❤️ Also 2 very important pointers I took away. Difference between motivation and pressure. To be careful not to eat the seed. Danko 🙌🏽

  • @thatokraal4742
    @thatokraal4742 2 роки тому

    Yhuuuuuu Nkosi yam🙌🏽🔥😭I can definitely relate to so much that you guys have spoken about, you've mentioned quiet important things, I'm definitely happy for this lesson, I'm super greatful. May God continue to bless you with wisdom and use you for His Kingdom. Keya leboga Bana ba ko gae🙌🏽

  • @jolindaaraes4399
    @jolindaaraes4399 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this…I have been off socials for 4 months…Started again but don’t know the purpose for rejoining again

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. Рік тому

    I really learnt a lot from this video and I was blessed. Thank you

  • @kwenasebola9809
    @kwenasebola9809 3 місяці тому

    Preach Lerato!!!!

  • @athimapapu4367
    @athimapapu4367 2 роки тому +1

    You were missed. I so loved this episode.

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 2 роки тому

    God bless you Fam. This conversation will really help me. Ngiyabonga.
    The Great I AM loves you

  • @zetzeeful
    @zetzeeful 2 роки тому +3

    Been off FB since 2010. Not any social media platform....best thing ever

  • @phelokazimbazo9078
    @phelokazimbazo9078 2 роки тому

    Needed to hear this.thank you so much guys

  • @simbulele.mdleleni
    @simbulele.mdleleni 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you ❤️💐

  • @karabomalefane
    @karabomalefane 2 роки тому

    Absolutely incredible 🥺❤️🔥

  • @dorothymotsepe
    @dorothymotsepe 2 роки тому

    Powerful, thank you 🙌

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK 2 роки тому

    Right on time, first one. Hello dream team . 😊

  • @precioussibo4709
    @precioussibo4709 2 роки тому

    This was so me last so happy i decided to log off for some time went back last week but honestly i thnk im gonna go off again it is such a breath of fresh air being away from social media when it becomes toxic for you❤

  • @yvonnemagampa5232
    @yvonnemagampa5232 2 роки тому

    You guys are such an inspiration hle bathong ,i like how both of you are so real ,i can actually relate to most parts of what was said in the installment.

  • @just_tshimo
    @just_tshimo 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this fam.

  • @andilemvubu3014
    @andilemvubu3014 2 роки тому

    Enjoyed the conversation ❤️❤️

  • @themouthpiecenetwork
    @themouthpiecenetwork 2 роки тому

    This is very helpful. Thank you🙏

  • @Kelentshole07
    @Kelentshole07 2 роки тому

    Dream team lovers we are back with a bang ☺️...thank you for this eye opening topic quit a mouth full ❤️❤️💯The best content ever

  • @nakihlomayi4997
    @nakihlomayi4997 2 роки тому

    Very relatable topic!!! Loved it

  • @sthabile_xulu
    @sthabile_xulu 2 роки тому

    I loved this, thank you guys for sharing 🥺♥️

  • @yolandezuki5628
    @yolandezuki5628 Рік тому

    🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺Thanks dream team

  • @sokhanatayi9304
    @sokhanatayi9304 2 роки тому

    I love your conversation guys❤️

  • @thandilelucas4538
    @thandilelucas4538 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing

  • @sometimesshecooks1717
    @sometimesshecooks1717 Рік тому

    I’ve been off WhatsApp and Instagram since end of November. I wanna download the apps again but my anxiety 🥺😅🤦🏽‍♀️ especially over WhatsApp I don’t know why😩

  • @ncediwemdlulwa1526
    @ncediwemdlulwa1526 2 роки тому

    Your content is always the best for me

  • @VhugalaHaweM
    @VhugalaHaweM 2 роки тому

    the gems in this vid!

  • @sandilenkabinde4580
    @sandilenkabinde4580 Рік тому

    Plug me with that hairpiece Mme Makhs 🔥

  • @chantelm186
    @chantelm186 2 роки тому +1

    Dream Team we here with love

  • @mpasobvulani519
    @mpasobvulani519 2 роки тому

    Yesssss.. iv been waiting 😁😁❤❤finally 😊😁😁

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs 2 роки тому

    Also I take social breaks as and when I need them. Usually I am offline over the weekend

  • @nompumelelochirwa
    @nompumelelochirwa 2 роки тому

    Sooo good👏🏽