5 Steps To Rebuild Trust In A Relationship
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- Опубліковано 20 січ 2023
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Once trust is destroyed, some men think it's impossible to regain it...
In this video, I am going to talk about...
- 5 Subconscious Ways We Destroy Trust
- 5 Reasons We Destroy Trust Unknowingly
- Why We Make The Same Mistakes Over And Over Again
- The 5 Crucial Steps To Rebuild Trust in a Relationship
Struggling to rebuild trust in your relationship? You're not alone. Many men have unintentionally destroyed all trust with their partner and think it's impossible to gain it back.
Through my years of being a relationship coach, I've guided my clients through every possible scenario and given them the tools they need to not only rebuild trust, but to take their relationship to heights it's never been before.
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My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago and she texted me last night saying she was very sad and she was crying thinking about us. I'm so glad you dropped this video, I think it is going to help me rebuild my relationship with the love of my life. Time to evolve!
Great! What were your key takeaways from this video?
@@GeoffreySetiawan I broke her trust by texting her best friend that our relationship is a nightmare. I did a lot of self analysis and realized that most of our issues were caused by my emotional dysregulation. Now, I'm trying work on the "how" part of rebuilding trust and to make sure that I don't repeat it even in the most stressful of times.
Don’t make my mistake. If she voices needs make sure not to ignore them. If she gives you an ultimatum take them serious.
@@Unxpekted my wife did not give an ultimatum, she just up and left. Got evidence she cheated a few days later, now she says we need to see other people.
@@tb87670I'm sorry that happened, now it's time for u to make the ultimatum in a stern yet gentle way, and admit u have some things to work on but at the end of the day its her choice .
I been watchin ur videos man and you really give me hope that me and my wife are going to rekindle things I pray we do 🙏🏾
Im so glad I stumbled upon this as I’m struggling with building trust with my boyfriend! It’s gave some good insightful things to shift the way we typically think trust needs to be built. I always wanted to dive deeper to the how’s and this totally explained it. Thanks for your video!
I’m done trying. I tried it all. I learned a lot and I’m a better man, father and person with everything I’ve learned with all the videos. I couldn’t afford the program but I learned a lot with the videos and I will forever be grateful and continue to better myself. I will be seeing a lawyer and continue with the divorce. I wish it wasn’t like this but I gave it my all. I can say I gave it my all. 2 years trying and I’ve come to terms with reality.
Your marriage isn't worth $3000 to you?
That's a dick thing to say bro. The average American lives paycheck to paycheck and can't even afford a $500 dollar emergency according to statistics. I would die a horrific death if only for my wife but that doesn't mean I have $4,000 lying around when I can barely pay rent.
Sometimes it just doesn’t work because it wasn’t meant to be. I feel for you. I watched his videos too. Helped me get my 6 year relationship back on track, here I am on year 7 and she left me again. I’m tired and not going to go through all the hard work again. I know I broke the trust, I promised a lot and didn’t deliver but she also was rigid, difficult, and bossy. Unrealistic expectations to have me move cross country on a whim while my family needs me, Dad in his elder age, sister having kids I’d like to be around, job becoming extremely intense with opportunity to make a lot of money.
@@Unxpekted I see why it didn’t work out with that attitude
@@bethestandardallday actually we are back together but way to judge someone you don't know. My attitude is take it or leave it, sometimes the best negotiating factor is being able to walk away and mean it. Other times fighting for the love is the right decision. Have a nice day.
Never clicked so fast. Dude is a legend
Thank buddy! Always appreciate kind words :) We aim to deliver!
I have been waiting to see this topic come out in a video from you, trust in my relationship has been broken on both ends and I want to learn how to rebuild it during this separation.
Great dude! What were you major takeaways from this video?
Thank you for this video. It’s extremely insightful.
This man is wise. I know because my husband is much like him in terms of relational intelligence
Any tips on how to become a better listener? My wife of 10 years feels unheard and unimportant. I'm sure it's because of my behavior and actions but I just can't seem to figure out how to REALLY hear her. I love her immensely and I don't want to lose her.
Ask clarifying questions about whatever she tells you.
So you're saying x y z? Have you considered vw?
Looking forward to watching this video dated my ex for a year and lived with her for 6 months we had to go long distance to due to visa expiring and a month later my insecurities and other things led to her breaking up with me but a month later we are still in contact a little but atm she doesn’t know what she want’s
Couple minutes in and I can remember times where I would explain to her things that were logical to me. but i wasn’t able to make emotional trust with her…
Hello Geoffrey, I went to sign up for the master class but the only available times tomorrow (19 October) I cannot participate as I am travelling all day. Will there be more possibilities? Do you have programmes in addition to the videos and the master class?
hi Geoffrey, i have been studying all you videos to work on me and my relationship as my wife has told me she is not in love with me any more.. 1month on and improvements have been made thanks to your support, however she has been coming back from work really down and doesn't want to talk. she has now told me she has feelings and possibly in love with a woman... i cannot find any of your videos relating to this. she said shes never thought of a girl like this before and she now is really attracted to her.. is there hope for us. she has told me she wants to work on our relationship and cut this woman off.. in the back of my mind one day she will want to explore this new fantasy. wont she? i dont know what to do we have been together 10years have 2 kids together and my life is feeling so confusing right now that even if i trust her in tying to make things work, i will never be enough..
hang in there. He does have a video on Limerence. Might be helpful. Good luck.
Clenching lol I can relate 😢
I broke trust by what she says made her feel trapped that she couldn’t do anything how do I fix this she doesn’t know about us getting back together because of this what should I do?
Substance abuse, does or doesn’t qualify in this arena ? Trust being the disclosure of the use and honesty instead of the secrecy of the use.
How can I get you to coach me? My wife said she needs space and haven’t talked to me for a week but been apart for 2 weeks
Hello Geoffrey, firstly I must say most of what you say makes so much sense and I really appreciate these videos. I wish I found your channel earlier.
I have a question for you please. I have been taking your advice and asking many open ended questions from my partner and we spoke for hours and hours and hours over the last few weeks. It got to a stage where I currently understand my mistakes and my errors and I feel very regretful for my actions. I have expressed this to my partner and she knows I feel sorry and bad for what I did. I destroyed emotional safety and security in many ways.
The issue is now where my partner has told me everything she needed to tell me a to z and I understand it but I don't know what to do next. After all these conversations I assured her that I understand how she feels and why she feels this way and why she doesn't want to be with me and I'm trying to change and help myself become better and never repeat these mistakes and make a better relationship regardless of what happens.
She now has stopped talking to me as much and only speaks just to know how I am and I feel like I'm chasing and trying to start conversations instead of it being smooth and both sided. Even when we speak it's me speaking her replying short sentences or not paying attention etc.
How do I convince her at the moment that I understand her and my actions and how do i move forward now with improving things, creating emotional safety after our initial conversations about the issues etc. How do I show her the changes in my mind. She keeps stopping me from speaking to her nicely or when I don't react in the way like I used to she says something like I know you must have so much anger towards me right now or when I call her my love Or wifey she says this isn't a joke this is why I don't talk to you as much because I don't want to give you fake hope that everything will be ok.
That's my problem as well!
Keep going.. you sound attached.. you must detach.. I was there for 2-4 months.. then I snapped again.. but realize you didn’t do anything wrong at the time.. only in retrospect.. but we still have to have game fellas! Get a new girl!! See what happens!! Be UNATTACHED!! Tomorrow I’m going on a date.. yes I still love her more than anything else than myself!! I’m not gna be broke poor or horny cuz she’s mad at me!! I have always done my part including being loyal!! But we’re separated aren’t we? Women don’t hesitate to start something else during these times. Show her how much you have changed by accepting the breakup and move on!! In her face!! If she wants you back then she will have to do something. Otherwise you are “having hope!” So… dont! If she comes back then she comes back. Accepting your actions is just that. But maybe making yourself suffer isn’t attractive.. idk just spit balling
I also facing same problem with my partner I promised but I did it three time and now he wants to live apart.. I inspect his phone and did somethings that hurt him... but now he said he don't me anymore.. what can I do now??
On month number 7 living in an apartment separated from my wife and daughter who is still feeling things won’t be better despite all of my work and efforts that she is aware of. What do I do?
As Geoffrey said on his many xvideos, focus on internal shifts first. Before you rebuild trust to other people, build enough trust on yourself first, trust the process. He has many videos on how to better yourself the right way. Example is build your bulletproof vest first.
Hi Geoffrey, If i overlook her flaws and love her despite them and she picks apart my every move is this person right for me? I truly love her with all my soul but I know in my heart she doesn’t love me. Do i give up and find someone who will actually love me despite my flaws or do i keep fighting in hopes that she can see my value? Im lost.
What do you mean by losing your emotions?
I think he means losing your temper.
My wife and I have been separated since Jan14.2023. Accusing me of cheating on her with several women. I have been trying to keep the communication after watching your videos Mr.Geoffrey , as you commented to not to ignore her when she asks for space. I give her the space and still communicate with her but now everytime she goes out for the weekend or where she goes with the kids and she completely ignores me. No text messages except “ I’ll call you back in a few” ; I mean she does checks the messages but she doesn’t respond to me, just me because she textes everyone else. This which turns into hours or days But when she comes home, she answers my calls whenever I call her, and she responds to my texts. I don’t know what to do in this situation . She tells me “I’m sorry I was distracted” I don’t want to steer her away from me.
Just do not give up boi :)
Your mindset needs to be stronger don't keep score don't expect just say what you want but you really need to understand what she saying this means you need to ask questions and stop making assumptions.
@@beelikehoney your rite thank you so much bless you and your family for taking your time respond
I ignored the need for space for 6 months now I keep pushing past resistance but she tells me more truths yet she still needs that space I don't know if i should move out
My wife separated from me after being married 10 years. She left 3 months ago despite saying she will make effort in mariage. She say i am too controlling, but i cannot speak with her. She does not allow me to communicate at all and just block me everywhere. I saw her briefly fews days ago when she came to pick up some letter as she changed job and did not inform me of it. She is not doing well mentally, she was really stressed and anxious and somehow see me as a problem when i do my best for her, and want to speak with her to see what she would like to change. But communication is almost impossible if i email her she get mad or if talk about our marriage too. I have no idea what to do. I leave her space several weeks few times but nothing. She was more willing to talk at the beginning but now since her new job she says she need to focus on it. It’s really challenging so i leave her space.
I’m sorry to hear that, stay strong
I was in the same situation. It took me 2years before my ex wife and I are speaking now and we are on good terms. She needs to go through the journey. She first feels relief, then she needs her space to enjoy explore single life and realize it's not that great. At the same time all hurt emotions were calm done and she will start remembering you good qualities. It's took years to get to the point of divorce. It will take years to get back. Don't stress time is on your side, she will not forget you, the same way you can't forget her. Take the time to become a better man by knowing what went wrong. When she sees you again she will see it. Women are amazing when it comes to seeing your differences
@@matthewbarrett176 hi man, thanks for your elaborate answer. It’s now been nearly a year and she says how she will never come back and that i need to understand that. I can tell that mentally she is not that well despite what she says, she had issues in the past and lately it seems she has been diagnosed with sone sort of ADHD / being on the spectrum. It’s hard when someone you care and love say you never care for her and use some random example. As it has been nearly a year it’s difficult to know what to say or do when she refuses any discussion and if we speak she straight away say she is never coming back even when i don’t mention it. She said she knows i care and that i have changed but she seems to enjoy her single life too much without thinking of the promise of mariage she made
@squallsquall25 Things can change man.. don't rush. When we were at the one year mark, we had zero contact she was dating someone new and we were fighting so bad we needed guardians to change kids because we could see each other. Had had 6 months no contact let the dust settle she broke up and reached out to me. Don't talk about the past or a future. Just speak to her like would a friend in a bar, no pressure. She has to regain your trust and feel it's her decision to engagwith you on her terms
I wish your program wasn't so expensive. Its not affordable for a lot of people. I will just continue to watch these free videos. I just hope you can considering lowering the program a bit.
So true. It's funny because he sent me this email with "do you hate me" in the subject line because I haven't signed up. That seemed weirdly passive aggressive. It seems disingenuous when he says he's only doing this to help people but the price tag makes it only accessible to wealthier folks or maybe someone who just happened to get their tax return as their relationship fell apart.
Thank you so much I needed this video I did something really bad oh my girlfriend came over to hang out she had to leave and 😭😭 I just lost control I didn’t want her to leave and I hit her by accident and I know it was an accident I have been crying about that thank you for this video
That’s not good. You need to sort that out because she’s not going to feel safe anymore. Listen to this guy and become the change. Don’t just DO, be the change
Physical violence is a complete no no regardless of reason.
@@RossBayCult All right I will sort that out Physical violence is a thing that I don’t want to do I don’t even want to be angry I’ve stopped eating for the result of it
@@DevonReese2001 Not eating won’t help you. Self flagellating about what you did is useless. Feeling sorry for yourself is useless! Get some help and change your ways now! This program is the real deal and probably what will save your life. It is saving mine. It’s hard as hell and not cheap but it’s a small investment for your entire life in this world. Use your pain to actually do something meaningful and join this program. The longer you wait the more you will regret it. Trust me. The longer I waited to pull the trigger the more I messed up!
Of all the programs and counseling out there this program is the only one that will not just teach you how to get levels beyond what any other program can do for you, but also helps you understand what the good in other programs work and why they work temporarily or permanently. I am by no means perfect or even doing half as good as I should. But I know I’m on a path to break the cycle and crack the code for building and rebuilding relationships. Take my advice whatever way you want. Good luck with you.
@@TRYCLOPS1 thank you
I made so many mistakes
Geoffrey how do I get in contact with you I watched two videos which opened my eyes I need your help dude lol
My girlfriend said she needed a break but making out with her male friend going for party,l found out advice her to be herself this period she’s on break but she end up hurting me told me she can’t love me the way l love her
She was never for you bro. Fk her. Keep your head up king
Keep committing to better yourself each time. Till then you'll know what's good for you, you changes for the better and when you did, others will notices that too which also can make you more attractive to more people. Till then too, she probably noticed it. Your choice to make. Don't chase but attract. Don't rush. Do ur own timing.
Unfortunately my wife could never forgive, she always kept score, she was unwilling to let go of the past wrongs and I tried to rebuild trust with her and she rail roaded every attempt to the point that it was a no brainer to end the marriage. I feel way better off without her as my wife, we still have to co-parent but I have let go but she can't let go which is painful.
I don't understand???
Good for you man, keep in mind that what Geoffrey is saying is true but also no matter how perfect you are for a partner not everyone is MEANT for you.
Any update? I'm worried I'm on this path. My wife keeps repeating she doesn't want us to work even if problems were resolved.
Unfortunately if you add mental illness in the mix it makes it even harder.
exactly, i'm trying to rebuild trust with my ex (it's my fault she lost it) but she is bi polar so she acts out in anger and it's very hard to show change or rebuild that trust
Oh yeah… my wife seems to have paranoid personality disorder. She believes my family is sabotaging her. She holds grudges, unforgiving, trust issues, and it’s challenging. I didn’t communicate with her properly about it and was being very logical and didn’t communicate emotionally. I shut her down every time she brought it up. She didn’t feel safe with my family or me. So when I went on vacation with my family she packed her things and left me
No, this is false hope. Once she leaves you, it is done. If she comes back, you are second choice at best and simply a necesssity for stability. Do not try to recall a departed woman, heal and focus on yourself. If necessary, find a new one, otherwise forget about supporting a woman and enjoy loving and caring for yourself.
Imagine trying to argue with Usain Bolt and telling him that running the 100m dash in under 10 seconds is impossible.
That's a bit absurd.
It's already been done! Thousands of times!!
Same thing here - rebuiding trust has been done THOUSANDS OF TIMES at incredibly high success rates in my program.
Just because you can't do it, does not mean it is impossible.
Don't mistake anecdotal experience and make it a rule.
And don't argue about something that has already been done, thousands of times.
@@GeoffreySetiawan 😂😂😂
So this video for sure was not meant for you. Geoffrey's videos has helped me a lot and I'm now connecting on a much deeper level with my ex-wife. It also seems like we are getting back together.
@@GeoffreySetiawancan you please email me I need some advice from you desperately. Because I'm trying to rekindle thing with a woman I had a kid with but would like to explain the situation