Bail Bond Battle
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- Опубліковано 14 гру 2023
- The plaintiff says after her son was first arrested, she co-signed on a bail bond. The plaintiff was billed for another bond when her son was arrested for a second time, so she’s suing him. The defendant admits he has been in and out of trouble, but he’s trying to get back on his feet so he can pay back his mother.
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They said my son had ADHD AND ODD.. I did get him into therapy but I REFUSED to put him on MEDS.. I would pop up at his school and I realized that he was completing his work and became restless. I had the teacher to give him more work, I had his IQ tested as well, found out he was above his grade level and placed him in the appropriate classes. He's now a senior in college. I SAID ALL OF THIS TO MAKE PARENTS AWARE OF THE FACT THAT THEIR CHILD MAY BE PLACED IN A BOX THAT THEY SHOULD NOT BE IN ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE YOUNG BLACK BOYS.." DON'T COME FOR ME ABOUT BRINGING UP RACE.. DO THE RESEARCH IT'S A STATISTICAL FACT"
Come on in here, Sister Candy!! 👏🏽🙏🏽Fight for your child and bring that Word, my Sista!
@candynorman1409 they tried to say the same thing about my son when he was in 1st grade. I made the teacher give him more work, he said her class was boring. He was reading on a 4th grade level. He’s now in 8th grade in AIG classes and a star basketball player! 🤞🏼
Say it louder for the parents in the back!!! You have to be an active participant in your child’s education!!!
They love trying to say black kids have mental issues and you gotta remember that judge Mathis works for them
This is so true. I was always finished my work fast and had free time to clown around . My mom did the same had me tested . Put me in gifted classes and I excelled after that was able to test into the states number 1 high school in the state. But it was my mother not letting my conduct effect my grades
Judge Mathis will let you know he know the game every chance he get 😂😂😂😂
Case after case after case🙄
right 😂
The game has changed since he was in it
And he don't 🤷🏾♂️
Im sure the “game” has changed since he been in it 💀💀💀
One thing JM gon do is let people know about his 1902 "game" 😮💨🙄😂
👀🙄 we know all Jm autobiography by heart without reading it 😂😂
3000 cases i need a new hobby 😂😂😂😂
I’m waiting for someone to tell JM how the game goes with a story that surpasses his experiences😂😂😂. My boy gonna be lost in the sauce along with his case.😩😂
They will lose their case if they do. Lol
Me and Samir have alot of similarities. I'm 35, black , raised by a single mom in one of the worst neighborhoods in America. Was recently diagnosed with ADHD and PTSD due to some of the horrific things I've witnessed in my life. I stayed away from the street life because I saw too many of my friends be betrayed by it. It wasn't a viable way out. I spent alot of time doing nothing, just drinking, partying, scared of my own shadow. Scared to actually try anything out of fear of failure. Wasn't until recently I got my certification in IT and have really changed my life thanks to my wife and daughters (both who have ADHD, one with Autism). They forced me to grow into a more responsible person, but those demons still chase me. We're examples that the journey may take a different path but as long as you survive, you can succeed. Everything you ever wanted is right on the other side of fear.
I love this so much ❤❤❤
😭 I am so godly proud of you JH! May God continue to Bless you, your journey and your children. The more you run to God, those demons will flee! Meditate on James 4:7👏🏽
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I am SO proud of you, and I know your wife and children are. Sadly, many don't make it out after being exposed to the hood life as kids. Many are so far gone...This is why I judge NO ONE! If people never experience trauma in childhood, they should consider themselves blessed, not lucky. We all process trauma differently...some will turn to drugs, alcohol, anger, rage, depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd and the list continues..., many of the trauma triggers will last a lifetime. God heals and therapy gives us tools to manage it. I'm glad many people are starting to realize that their is absolutely nothing wrong with therapy. Therapy can't heal but it helps manages and also gives a SAFE place to express and vent. May God continue to cover, heal and bless you with all the desires of your heart! One day at a time....one day at a time... 🫂
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I agree with about 99% of what JM says but I will never agree with putting kids on man made drugs smdh 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
At times, medication is needed and can help. The problem is misdiagnosing, over-diagnosing, and neglecting other forms of treatment.
Judge just took up 13 minutes of the case being a peacock.
Pay your Mother man.
I dont think children that young should be put on this type of medication so soon their brains are still developing. I have twin sons and I remember they were in 4th grade and the school nurse told me they needed to be put on Ritalin because of their behavior. I did not accept this I paid more attention to my sons with more love and tender loving care and come to find out they were just being boys they were growing up.
i can understand your story, i have a son they say he has adhd. hes very hyperrrrrrr and is always moving in class and in line etc. working with him with homework is a huge challenge for me and him for that matter. i dont want him on meds i give him hugs and love and he has a very caring teacher as well i have to say. but its hard and yes i do believe boys are completely wired differently than little girls so the energy they have is very high and intense. sports is what i feel may help my son, and most kids that have adhd are extremely smart! i love your comment!
@@blessedwomanof1447 Yass sis get him busy and just watch him and continue to do what you do. Children have certain anxieties that they may not be old enough to express just yet so it comes out in their behavior. My son's are doing fine they are 31 years old and they served in the United States Marines. They went on to become productive law abiding citizens. They are not perfect.
You know when I used to teach the childrens Bible study one of the children had behavioral issues he broke a cup on the floor. I pulled him aside and asked why did you do that, I'm going to tell your father. He folded his arms huffing and puffing and said, "I dont have no father" The Holy Spirit spoke to my heart and said, "That's his issue" As children begin to trust us more and we open up the lines of communication we will see. I wished I had of talked to mines more. I'm praying for you but someone how I feel as though its already been worked out for you, you're just going through the motions.
And often, children are misdiagnosed (not all the time, of course). However, often children are labeled because the teacher (or their parents) can't handle them.
My dad was told to medicate me when I was in elementary school and he refused. I'm glad he was right❤
JM always thinks he knows it all. Mental health is based upon a persons environment and/or chemical imbalances. Sometimes it could be both!!!
Isn't that kind of what he said?
@@sereneamani1713no he didn’t, he only agreed when the boy brought his father up when mom tried to he shut it down..
When my son was diagnosed with ADHD, med didnt make him feel active and like a zombie. I took matter into my own hands with family quality time and extra efforts to be more active and involved in his life helped.
I did transportation for a mental health hospital. This one kid mom refused to make him take the meds, well one day I picked him up and he wasn’t himself. He had no energy, he didn’t wanna talk to anyone and usually he’s the life of the party. They snuck the pills into his food, I didn’t see him anymore after that. Hopefully, he was able to go back to school as the program he was in he had to complete in order to. Sometimes all kids need is positive reinforcement! I hope your son is thriving, many blessings to you and your family ❤
Glad this man is investing in a community park that the no good city abandoned 😅
JM Just Need To Write A Book On The Streets At This Point 😂😂😂😂
There are very few people out there who can be called a saint, my brother being one of them, but me: my parents were good, but uneducated, so I tried to overcome the lack of counseling by joining the military, in 1974 in the marines, then the navy in 1981, wasn't easy, but having served my country opened a lot of opportunities for me, landing a job in the postal service was my main achievement, from which I retired, living with my first love for 46 years, it'll be 47 in January 15, 2024. Proving, like Mathis says, with hard work, you can make a turn around and reach the top of your dreams...
Awwww bless your heart! Love to hear stories like this may you continue to be blessed!!
so who's your second love?
@@rondaallen7211 God, my country, son, grand kids and whole family...
He definitely didn't get the right treatment and medicine is not the cure.
Having a positive Father Figure is crucial and Judge Mathis shpuld know that after preaching it for 20+years. Now all of a sudden a Father's presence doesn’t have an affect on young boys? Get outta here...
Yeah JM was wrong from dismissing the impact of not having a father figure. Statistics even show that lack of a father significantly increases the chances of a man ending up in a life of cry. JM needs to heal from not having his father and stop projecting it on others
Perhaps I heard JM wrong. I understood him to say that having a positive father does not prevent certain mental illnesses. Yes, of course, I agree that having a positive father or father figure is crucial in the development of children and definitely has positive effect on young boys (and girls). However, when did JM say that a father's presence didn't have an effect? People in intact families and no lack of financial or other resources can have mental or emotional illness. Wealthy and emotionally stable get cancer, COVID, ADHD, bipolar, depressions, anxieties, etc.
@@geminlove24 Jm did not dismiss the impact of not having a father figure. You mention life of cry (crime), crime and mental illness can be related, but they are definitely two different situations. Your last sentence is a personal thought or conclusion and has nothing to do with the situation at hand.
The guy in the background on the right, of the woman in the intoduction is completely zoned out😳😳😳🤣🤣
Now judge Mathis can turn from judge too a counselor when it's the time.
I love JM it doesn't matter if he made it out it matters thatbhe lived it , yes things change times get harder but the fact remains the traumatic experience is there so yes he can and does relate
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It's 7 pm for 😂😂😂 but good afternoon 🎉
damn judge wrong again.. trauma can be the cause of mental illness, a FATHER or lack of can cause trauma therefore initiating a range of mental health issues. There are many issues that fall under the umbrella
😂 Lawd, I was looking for the comment!!
@@thhhh5641 That's what their books say! All "so-called" mental illness can be contributed to an imbalance in the brain/mind. The problem is the World is out of balance!
The point that JM was making, is that many underlying causative factors of mental illness are not always or necessarily due to environmental factors. What concisely is your point?
Now the drunk judge is a dr.
You should not let your negative opinion of JM override your cognitive abilities.
That was a hit below the belt.
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Dude. When I was locked up in Juvy, I took the GED test. I passed it the first time with flying colors and all I got was an early release! Maybe if I had stayed for the remainder of my sentence I would've taken the SATs and gotten a scholarship! Lol! Probably not but, whoa! The Defendant has an amazing story!❤😊
What did man do without Esau’s medication?
Depended on Yah’s herbs
I love JM but he literally said what the mom (the plantiff) tried to say about the defendant's father being a factor in his life choices but was telling her she was wrong....he should have just listened to her.
That's false. Having a father figure impacts brain chemistry. Environment makes a profound difference.
👀 NO are you a psychiatrist? We read book about that and father mean nothing,!
Exactly. Every personality is a combination of biology AND environment. Mathis thinks he knows everything.
@@sarahrean7174you’re not one either. Doping kids up doesn’t fix their issues. You sound ignorant saying a father means nothing. You wouldn’t say that about mothers
@@bryanjohnson8982 She probably would, actually.
@@wadilotus But did JM contradict that? Mental and emotional conditions or disorders can have biological and/OR environmental factors. I may be wrong, but I perceived that he was simply saying that a child could have a diagnosable disorder whether there was a father or not in the home.
I love me some judge Mathis and maybe I just watch him too much but sometimes I just want him to let people talk instead of jumping in with his own analysis and knowledge. But it's ok, on to the next rerun🤷🏽♀️😆😂
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The narrator just finished as im typing and im guessing Judge gonna babble bout his past or some bs lol
Got him on the medicine is INSANE it's alot that can be done without medicine to help a child with ADD
Judge seem a little off today. Judge Med-less.
if he was actually a "bright kid", he would've made better choices
She favors Traci Braxton (RIP)!
This kid went to prison for breaking the law.
That part there.
I dont like the idea of trying different medications to see what's best
As someone who had the same issues growing up very smart but a crazed busy body always had to be doing something. I’ve tried atleast 7 different meds and it never was good made me feel high like a zombie & some made me vomit a lot so eventually i started pretending to take it and throwing it. I would never put my kids on medication. Therapy of course though. And i don’t agree that nothing else played a part as he said with his dad. I went through a lot losing people who raised me so that contributed to it. Judge has to stop thinking he knows everything it’s irritating.
He does know a lot and he has a lot of experience (street and school). However, I understand that he can be annoying.
It does have to do with no father in the house..what is jm talking about..
Bail blonde battle 😮😵💫😂
The defendant will be alright. He needs to grow up, stay away from the street; he's got some type of sense, he just needs to tighten up and master a skill or go back to school.
ADHD needs more than medication. Therapy for caregiver and child is needed. And if the child complains about how it makes him feel then a trip to the psychiatrist for a different script is needed. At times I see parents just trust the meds to be a cure all but just like any health condition that needs regular continuity of treatment to maintain good health that's what's needed
The ADHD diagnosis is too broad as well. Many kids get misdiagnosed. So kids that are Manic Depressive or have Asperger's get lumped in...
Psychiatrist is the best
too many people are going to psychologist they can't do the diagnostic properly they are not doctors
They trust too many quack doctors who only want to push pills for profit. They don't do enough research or try alternative methods. These doctors don't know these kids. They lump them all together.
@@sarahrean7174 Psychologists, psychiatrists, advanced practice nurses ,and other licensed healthcare providers can diagnose properly). Psychiatrists are medical doctors, and the other occupations are not. In your opinion, what prevents psychologists from being able to properly diagnose mental health conditions/disorders? Your comment, "not a doctor", is quite broad and vague. Psychologists have doctorate degrees and are legally and professionally referred to as Dr.
The main difference is that psychiatrists can prescribe medications (and often, that is all they do, or that is their first recourse), Psychologist often do not provide psychotherapy. They often spend 20 minutes or less with clients (once a month or quarter) only to review and renew prescriptions. It is other mental health practitioners that actually provide psychotherapy (psychologists, licensed counselors, therapists, clinical social workers- LPCC. LMFT, LCSW). Also, advanced practice nurses (nurse practitioners) can prescribe medications.
They never like how that medicine makes them feel. I agree with the judge!
I Agree
I feel for black men like the defendant because society is swallowing them up, particularly young black men. He's been in trouble, arrested, prison, shot 5 times. Lives going nowhere. It's either in prison, the hospital or casket.
Dear @adrianknight1406-resident misogynist: And the "society" that has the power to make changes is made up of men.
AND HE DOES NOT😂😂😂😂😂 BUT I LOVE HIM😊
Mathis is definitely high
Seem like every single recent episode is a marketing ploy for the characters on the show! So annoying!!! Where are the real cases lol
100 kilo a month is 3.6 million.
I strongly doubt he had a scholarship to an "Ivy League" school 😂 community College maybe
He is handsome !
ADHD is not the problem they wanted me on them same drugs never been arrested never been in trouble it was issues happening home & in the neighborhood I was stressed not a attention deficit & Obviously it has ALOT TO DO WITH NO DAD DONT LET THIS MAN FOOL YALL
I think some children need IQ tests! They need to be challenged! Medication is not a cure! You still must instill behavior modification. Which comes from counseling. So glad the defendant is doing better!
Having a father/and or father figure, mother and spirituality in a child's life is better than any ADHD medication, in fact, there'd be no ADHD! Love is the Key!
I agree with everything except your next to last sentence. We are imperfect human beings, and we get sick, no matter how Christian, spiritual, nice, loving, and kind we are.
@@sereneamani1713 Amen Sister Serene. Yes, we are fleshly beings. You know, many diseases and sicknesses are due to the sinful conditions of people. If we could truly grasp hold of what the scriptures say when it says walk in the spirit and you will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh we'd experience a much better quality of life. Respectfully, and with Love, grace and peace. Thank you for the exchange.
He'll be back in prison
. ( ECCLESIASTICUS ) 3 : 9.. "For the blessing of the 'FATHER' establisheth the house of children ; but the curse of the Mother rooteth out foundations". 10.. Glory not in the dishonour of thy 'FATHER': For thy Father's dishonour is no glory unto thee... [ J M ] ! ( KAL HALAL YAHAWAH BAHASHAM YAHAWASHI ).
Sadly, many don't make it out after being exposed to the hood life as kids. Many are so far gone...This is why I judge NO ONE! If people never experience trauma in childhood, they should consider themselves blessed, not lucky. We all process trauma differently...some will turn to drugs, alcohol, anger, rage, depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd and the list continues..., many of the trauma triggers will last a lifetime. God heals and therapy gives us tools to manage it. I'm glad many people are starting to realize that their is absolutely nothing wrong with therapy. Therapy can't heal but it helps manages and also gives a SAFE place to express and vent. May God continue to cover, heal, and bless us all! One day at a time....one day at a time... 🫂
Living in the so-called hood is traumatic; but evidently so is living in the world in general. Criminal behavior and mental illness affect everyone from every ethnicity and socioeconomic class.
@sereneamani1713 I don't disagree, but I said "as kids" for a reason. It's because it's the formative years. Ptsd in children vs. traumatic events as adults can be very different