Lilith in the 8th house - Shunned for being vulnerable
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- Опубліковано 20 січ 2022
- Black moon lilith in the 8th house - Shunned for being vulnerable
Black moon lilith is a point in the natal chart that represents what other people reject us for. Whenever we embody that primal, natural energy which is right for us, it triggers other people or makes them uncomfortable. Their innate response is to try to repress that energy which usually involves telling us we’re wrong and can even range to being treated like an outcast depending on how prominent your lilith is.
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The sexual piece has been a huge stumbling block for me. Feeling like I’m objectified without any effort on my part, by men and women. Sensing there is something shameful in just being myself due to this sexual aura. Feeling dangerous to others. Or like I’m being used. Kind of a burden but also feels powerful. Learning to not care about judgments of others. I know myself. I’m a caring person. I hope for the best for everyone.
Thanks for sharing. That's great you're learning to not care.
I think Lilith in the 8th makes us want things we can't have so I think other people just sorta feel like we have repressed energy but who knows. I feel like since my Mars is there it might have to do with the things I do that make people uncomfortable. I don't imagine people being intimidated by anything I do because I don't think I look intimidating.
I feel you. I can just be wearing regular baggy clothes and sitting in a coffee shop read a nerdy book and still be seen as a sexual object by by some people 🙄
agree strongly, ...since childhood - targeted, blamed and shamed simultaneously - i always assumed it was like that for all girls
Right and lets not forget the constant stares!!
My extremely Catholic, paternal, grandmother rejected me as a young child til my teens because I would not conform to her belief system. After my teens I broke ties with her. She thrived on making me feel shameful and sinful. She always carried a very heavy, negative energy. When she died I felt a sense of relief and refused to attend her funeral. I was shunned by my whole family for doing so. I refuse to conform to what others believe I should/should not do. I've always had a strong urge to stand strong in my own beliefs (proud Pagan) and I find complete contentment when I'm alone.
Same. I'm the black sheep of my fam. Being the oldest child and grandchild a lot was "expected" of me. But I've always marched to the beat of my own drum. (Which is basically the opposite of everything that was expected of me)
My father told once while we were fishing a few years back: "you've always been a free spirit, son. And I've learned to be ok with that. You still do things that I don't exactly approve of, but it doesn't matter if I approve or not, because you are still going to do what you want to do, regardless of what I think. You're my son and I'll always love you just the same."
Despite my father leaving my mom when I was only 12 years old and the anger I felt for him over the last 30 years....I think we made our peace that day.
Lilith in 8th House can also be intensely painful but I hope I can become stronger, wiser, and smarter after experiencing the pain.
My lilith is in Pisces in the 8th house. I have gotten shunned for everything in this video. I have very bad trust issues & early childhood trauma, including sexual. In addition, I am a constant target for sexual harassment. I don't dress provocatively, nor do I act overtly sexual, but I can't even walk down the street with out someone harassing me in a sexual manner. I get stared at alot which really creeps me out. Plus I have gotten shunned for spirituality.
As I, and it is so, so hard. Walking in pain that is just so deep, so shameful, so cursed and isolated. Love, believe in a higher power to lean on, trust the universe protects us, therefore you know that your vulnerability is a blessing, not a curse. Because then is where our trauma karma is *finally* released. God bless, and I understand ❤
@@amberd9984 thank you 😊 🙏🏻
i just realised the reason i don't want kids is because everyone can tell you love u they will be with you they'll marry you... but even if they promise it to you it doesn't mean they will keep it. People fall in love with other people, people fall out of love with you. people even die. I can't have kids and be left alone later on the road... it will probably destroy me having to take care of a family all by my own and it freakin scares me...because of that i decided i don't want kids. its a trust issue thing i guess, maybe a lilith in the 8th house issue tho 🤷🏻♀️
this was spot on for me.. im lilith in virgo 8H. abusive dad growing up, and putting up walls and learning to detach as a young child. trust has been a huge thing for me all my life. love what you said about trusting someone else.. and examining our own needs for trust.
Man this has been one of my biggest wounds. I just started looking deeper into astrology after giving up on it for awhile. People have found me triggering my whole life for no reason just me being there. I've had trust issues because of this and especially because I was raised by a single mom and got suppressed by her but then I was heavily sexualized by older men and was a victim of PDF files from an early age 😢 they would praise me for seeming mature so I felt cool but actually I was very naive and didn't even understand sexuality yet.... it made me even more shy because I won't even be trying to be sexy and people just have always heavily objectified me and been triggered by my energy wow. I've dimmed my life so much because of it ugh. My Natal chart is too accurate I wish I had taken astrology seriously before.
I'm also very much into the occult AND my first love died at a very young age. I felt like I'd never find love again. Many themes of death and rebirth in my life so dramatic 🌚 I had that very superficial relationship with my mom she is my polar opposite. Definitely huge trust wound and actually as a kid I easily trusted anyone and got very hurt because no one that me the proper boundaries. Gosh it's taken forever as an adult to learn healthy boundaries.
This placement has shown up for me in every way you mentioned. I am finally learning to TRUST and discern-To have realistic expectations from myself and others, and accept that change is the only real constant. I have Blackmoon Lilith in the 8th house in Aries and my Mars rules this house from my 12th house in Leo. I had so much to learn about assertiveness, confrontation, protecting myself and others, facing my shadows, and understanding my potential. I am still learning!! I went from a zealot Christian to a New Age Astrologist. Still keeping in mind that I know I must remain open to all value systems because there is more than one way to love and see this world.
I have this placement. I got a relly really traumatic experience on my childhood where people sexualize me and what worst is one of our church members sexually abuse me. I repress that memories and it affects my life. I started to see s3x as traumatic and has a trust issues on my intimate partners. Eventhough I don't dress proactively, I still get the attentions of fucking perverts I also have Neptune and Chiron in my first so it makes me more vulnerable.
This is my placement an my mom was abusive an partners was abusive an sexuality was messed up early by being SA’d an death has been a theme in my life I literally lose the ones I love an I am too trusting but I’ve learned to use my discernment better this is spot on!!!!
i have her symbol tatted on me :) Lilith in Libra in the 8H. i learned to love and work with this placement. i resonate with being sexualized constantly unfortunately though even when i’m dressed completely covered. strangers think its okay to ask if i am a prostitute (has happened before) and even as much as asking if i want to go off with them somewhere for sexual pleasure. since i was about 12! i’m used to it now and rebel in the sense of talking back or threatening strangers when they think its okay to do that to me. love learning more about this placement
Same woman , I'm just 18! Discovering my natal chart has really helped me😢 it's scary to be around men for me
sun in 12th house. aries lilith in 8th house trine pluto
my sun and ascendant are also square pluto. the intense fear and discomfort that comes with showing myself exactly as i am is something i’ve been working on overcoming for years now. fear of rejection. struggles with identity and intimacy. i’ve built this whole other personality to protect myself. i feel like a walking cosmic space machine. as if i don’t belong here because i feel so unreal and as if no one will ever be able to see me as i am. it’s intense. but it’s beautiful. i’m able to connect with people in ways that most cannot. even if it doesn’t last, even if it’s a conversation in passing. i hope in the future i’m able to use it to my and others benefit
Lilith in Scorpio in the 8th house. It all makes soooooo much sense now. If only 16 year old me could have received this information - I wonder how it may have changed things.
I know that feeling.
Definitly resonated in the area of men sexulizing me when its not warranted. I have on work clothes and will get tread like im a hoe. I also notice that when im around men, i have to hear the worst stories (usually about sex) about women, their fantasies, their encounters...it can be uncomfortable but telling...then i think of how blessed i am that im single.
It has really showed me the foul side of men and not to trust them.
Yes, I somehow always get an ear-full of unsavory stories from men.
A lot of what you say is & has been actual for me in my life.
I think it's important to keep in mind that Lilith was a being far prior to Adam.
I've come to healing with the abuse & rejection (shunning) as best as possible, by realizing that I am someone who has been given life to live & living the good of life does not include those who will shun me or abuse me. Separating myself from them (Sagittarius Lilith) has done me a world of good!
I have developed my own understanding as to what really took place between Lilith & Adam, based on my life experiences in these ways. & because of that, I can go beyond the stigma & find & be the BEauty of Lilith.
Thank you for these videos! Love them!! You have a great understanding. :)
Thank you for sharing. And yes, sometimes we need to separate ourselves from certain people on the path to wholeness. 💜
Welp this explains all questions I’ve ever had about some traumatic experiences that I’ve had in my life. Very helpful!!!
I came here to comment the same thought! Amazing!
the amount of gems you dropped in this video is incredible. i took so many notes. thank you so much for sharing. you shared so much of what i’ve been experiencing my whole life and day to day. much love!
You're so welcome!
Incredible video by the way!
I have Lilith in the 8th house Gemini. When I was 6 -14 I was always humiliated and mocked when I was around with girls from my mother. When I was 10 I told my best mate that I liked a girl and he told her at a school party the next day she told everyone in class and I was mocked and humiliated. When I was 13-14 I had kids coming up to me to say a girl likes you and asked me out. I didn't believe them but they insisted. So I said yes, then it turned out they were lying and yet again I was mocked and humiliated. There were been numerous similar situations and therefore I never had a girlfriend because I never knew if they really liked me. I also remember when I was 18 I was working in a call centre and I was sat next to a woman who was two years older than me at the time. She was like 10/10 after getting to know each other more, she literally became obsessed with me, she would touch my leg and play that nervous game. This made me confused because she had a boyfriend at the time. Because of this, I could never get women's motives, and there have been similar situations I have encountered when this happened. I am 28 now, and I have resorted to seeing escorts to satisfy my sexual needs and found it a struggle because I have realised am not physically attracted to strangers. I need to observe and connect with women on an emotional level.
Thank you so much !!! Your So helpful ❤I’m grateful
Thank you! This was very accurate for me.
Thank you so much for this. New subscriber here. This was incredibly helpful. I appreciate you!!!❤
Lilith in 8th house here and this resonated too well. We attract terrible people perverts/pedos sometimes even people with a criminal history. Also prone to stalking. I have had numerous stalkers as far as i can remember the earliest one being as a 11 year old girl. Scary as heck. Other people would tell me someone was stalking me too when i never noticed. Lots of trust issues with people because our trust has either been abused severely by those closest to us or we learned the hard way by trusting the wrong people. Anyways i wish i learned about having this placement earlier because it explains a lot of the terrible things ive experienced at the hands of others. AND YA BEING DEEMED AS A PROSTITUTE…i dress how i want and its more so on the baggy side but i still get deemed as a v sexual person
Also lots of UNWANTED sexual advances made towards you :)
FROM ALL SEXES
Also, ive been illegally investigated. People hired private investigators to look into me and my family. It just keeps getting weirder and weirder. Oh and doing freakin witchcraft on me.
AND THE WORST, my identity has been stolen. There are several clones walking around its a mess
SO MANY CLONES I LITERALLY DONT WATCH A LOT OF FORM OF MEDIA ANYMORE
This is so incredibly accurate. Thanks!
Glad to hear it 🤍
Thank you for this video. In placidus I have Lilith in Leo in the 8H and I resonate with this placement with the way you explained it. The Advanced Astrology website explained Leo Lilith so well I cried. In WSH I have it in the 9H but I do not relate to that much, but I’m going to watch your video about it because the title did capture my attention because I have a deeply religious family and I have been shunned for my spiritual/occult beliefs. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 💕
I also have Lilith in 8h Leo
It's currently our Lilith return, while I know I've made progress I'm still very confused. I've always been shunned for my natural good qualities and gifts. Just recently at 35 have been putting the pieces together throughout my life. Starting to wonder if this is like a "witch" placement, except in the past was burned now it's more internet battles ...hmm lol
Thank you 🤍
My lilth is in Taurus and I resonate so much with what you said and mine is conjuncts my 8th house xx
Brilliant ❤
This is really interesting. I’ve got my natal Moon conjunct black moon Lilith in cancer in the 8th House, with a grand water trine to my ascendant in Scorpio in the 12th and north node in Pisces in the fourth.
Thank you
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My Lilith is in Cancer and in the 8th or 9th house depending on the type of birth chart.
My parents reject my emotions by interrupting what I really want to say. I don't know why I even bother to be emotionally vulnerable with them if I feel they don't care.
This was so great. Never heard it this way but from childhood I couldn't trust my mom or my dad. And had an uncle who made me feel sexually weird throughout my teen years who said I was like their daughter which was very confusing at the time. And I have trust issues for sure lol
having my sun and mars in my 5th house with my moon in my 8th with my lilith....i think i want to be alone because I can feel all of this.
I have Lilith in the 8th and Chiron in the 12th. This hits home.
Definitely alot to heal
Didn’t watch yet but liking this video just because the caption
Accurate, my Lilith is in Pisces but it is in a grand water trine with my Moon (Cancer 11H) and Mars (Scorpio 4H) which should be positive I hope 😊.
Thanks! I have lilith on the 8 conjunct venus
This is resonating with me because lilith has transited in 8th house I am constantly struggling with my identity and started having imense fear of rejection to the extent that i keep getting anxiety it's fucking my life honestly I cannot concentrate anywhere . It's going on since last year
I'm sorry to hear about those struggles.
My placement I love it it's pretty much Lilith house
It's other way around , as I start getting closer to a person , I pick on few dark things about them and distance myself
soooo accurate in my experience - i can't even list how great this is! ...also She's in Scorpio for me - is this the exalted placement? Also I have heard that exalted is not always a good thing eg. Venus in Pisces - may be the super-addict etc.
I’m trying to understand my chart better and I have Chiron/Lilith/Pluto (sag) all in 8th house. Please feel free to give me some insight 😊
WOAH! so, WOAH. 😮
I have a Scorpio stellium (Pluto, Jupiter, Venus )in the second house. I am a Sagittarius sun, a Aquarius moon, and a libra rising, and my north node is in Scorpio as well and then my Lilith is in Taurus and I am having the hardest time figuring out career. Mc cancer & mercury sag
Lilith in Aquarius 8th house at 29 degrees with Saturn retrograde 16th degree in the same house.
Kendrum yoga with moon 8th house with lilith. Loaner but speaking the truth
During my Saturn return lilith will be in my 8th in Capricorn, square my sun and Saturn conj each other.
The guy I like has Lilith in Virgo and in the 8th house.
Anyone knows how to interpret this?
He indeed has a problem with being vulnerable and hiding himself and his emotions, also with rejection.
It might be a good idea for you to surprise him by taking charge in the bedroom. Be a little mean, even (with a naughty smile as you do so, for added effect).
All the Best to both of you.
@@tenorly thanks for your answer I really apreciate it!
But well😂 its not possible for me at all to " take charge in the bedroom" because we are not involved romanticaly.
We are just like best friends I am not sure he likes me romantically.
He sometimes makes comments about how much he loves me and about us being the perfect couple but I am not sure if he is just kidding.
Maybe its not possible to bring our friendship to a romantic place thou, I just wonder if that could happen.
If not its ok bcs I love him a lot as a friend too.
Anyway taking charge in the bedroom would be quite impossible for me even if we were involved, as I am not very experienced 😅 I would literaly not know what to do😅🙈
But thanks a lot for your good wishes!
@@YFL.111 You're very welcome.
I've been there, as I myself am very shy when it comes to love (Saturn/Uranus/Moon/Chiron grand cross).
I came *this* close to making it with someone I was absolutely bonkers over - but my shyness killed it (plus a lot of bad luck). To this day, I regret it - that was 23 years ago.
So, if, God willing, you get 'the chance' with the apple of your eye - TAKE IT! (a kiss is all it takes!)
So may it happen, may you two have a GRRREAT time - and even if it doesn't last, may the memory always warm you.
All the Best.
Wow
What if this placement is in a man's chart? And its involved in a t-square with mars, pluto, and conjunct the sun
Lilith in Capricorn in the 8th house i relate more to the dark side of life …
My lover's Lilith is in the 8th house of Leo, what's his trauma need to be faced ?
Does it matter if it's retrograde? Mine is and also pretty close to saturn. Does saturn just restrict it more or something?
Lilith is a point in space, not a planet or an asteroid. In my view, these points (including the nodes) don't make a difference if they're retrograde or not.
Lillith in cancer in the 8th house 😬😬
What's your experience of your Lilith 8th
I have same as that placement
@@ivorymaebatino6386same
Lilith in Pisces 8h
This is soo so so interesting how much this resonated for me!!!!
I started s3x work young and it was so natural to me…. Shunned by my mom my whole life especially for being sensitive etc
Definitely parents.
I could never dress the way I wanted was accused of being sexy
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I was born in August 18, 1977. Lilith is in my 8th house. House of death. You are right I died 15 years ago, in 2007 .Actually I was murdered by poisoning. And now my soul is wandering to get revenge.
Whatt could you please explain yourself
Sighs..
*insert a sad Spotify song ngl.*