how to get unstuck in life and find yourself again :) (I MISSED YOU!!!)

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
  • I missed you all so much! Give me some life updates in the comments :)
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    timestamps:
    1:32 chapter 1: why do we feel stuck in life?
    2:42 chapter 2: getting excited for the future!
    6:04 chapter 3: reevaluate the relationships in your life
    7:42 chapter 4: trying different experiences!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 317

  • @RebeccaJayy
    @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +301

    I MISSED YOU GUYS SO MUCH!! bear with me as I get back into UA-cam, constructive criticism is always appreciated and give me some life updates!! Reading all comments

    • @radhashrestha2963
      @radhashrestha2963 3 роки тому +3

      Glad you are back

    • @esther-qh6fl
      @esther-qh6fl 3 роки тому +1

      We love you!! Take your time love💓

    • @FulufheloN
      @FulufheloN 3 роки тому

      We missed u too

    • @riakohee
      @riakohee 3 роки тому +1

      Hope you are doing well missed you glad your back and take care❤️

    • @sofeafsl
      @sofeafsl 3 роки тому

      I MISSED U SM 😭😭

  • @sunsetave5206
    @sunsetave5206 3 роки тому +389

    Yes I’m stuck in a loop too. With social media, not taking care of myself well, not setting a routine and I’m disappointed in myself every time. But today I’ve decided it’s time to seriously take action.

    • @minfires7572
      @minfires7572 3 роки тому +2

      @Kaylee edits ur on ur way to growing into a beautiful young girl proud of u :) enjoy ur childhood as it lasts

    • @kianamoore6850
      @kianamoore6850 2 роки тому

      Same I feel like life is this loop of work and home and so unworthy of doing nothing more than what I do now I feel so stuck…. Hopefully soon I can break out of this funk or whatever… and start to go after my actual goals in life…

    • @aprilbyyy1705
      @aprilbyyy1705 2 роки тому +3

      Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from sin and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal

    • @RIYA-lc3ff
      @RIYA-lc3ff Рік тому +1

      Same 😔😔

    • @mya.xoxo_
      @mya.xoxo_ Рік тому

      same with me! especially now that i’m on summer break and am free to sit in my bed all day. it makes me feel extremely worthless, laying in my bed all hours of day & night, rotting my brain away to youtube, tiktok or netflix.

  • @angelafaith87
    @angelafaith87 2 роки тому +65

    "I realized that since I'm the one creating these thoughts, I can be the one who creates new thoughts" - Tip of the day, thank you Rebecca for reminding me this ❤ I absolutely needed it.

  • @sarah_bk
    @sarah_bk 3 роки тому +146

    I cried when you started talking about relationships; I just blocked a person that I could literally die for ; I am feeling stuck and regretting blocking him ; but it was a one side relationship which took all my energy ; I love you Rebecca thank you for helping ❤️🥺

    • @tisha77
      @tisha77 3 роки тому +11

      Hope u are doing okay , you'll be more happier . Choose yourself everytime happy that u chose

    • @sarah_bk
      @sarah_bk 3 роки тому +6

      @@tisha77 I'm doing pretty good tysm for asking ❤️🥺 I wish you all the best in your life

    • @sarah_bk
      @sarah_bk 3 роки тому +4

      @Kaylee edits i don't even know you but u know what ; I love you so much have a great life my dear tysm for being kind ❤️🥺

    • @nadia-yx6re
      @nadia-yx6re 2 роки тому +1

      No matter what happens, I'm proud of you. I mean that. I'm proud of you.

    • @sarah_bk
      @sarah_bk 2 роки тому +1

      @@nadia-yx6re you deserve the world i love you ❣️❣️ Thankyouu for saying this it means a lot 🥺

  • @lillianmarilley3884
    @lillianmarilley3884 3 роки тому +101

    Omgggg I missed your positivity sooo much, you’re like my favorite UA-camr🤍

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +11

      So excited to be back ❤️

  • @lillianmarilley3884
    @lillianmarilley3884 3 роки тому +55

    I’ve been having some hard times and you uploading just helps me to keep going and work on myself🙈

  • @malozinha
    @malozinha 3 роки тому +70

    omg Rebecca I am literally crying rn, I missed you SO MUCH GIRL.
    Sending so much love and peace from Brazil 🇧🇷 we love you

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +9

      sending you love from Canada 🥰🥰

  • @shd.7520
    @shd.7520 3 роки тому +32

    I was checking ur account today, I love how u have an era of inspiration, self-reliance and beauty.. stay safe ♡⁩⁦⁦⁦

  • @bluerryliness
    @bluerryliness 3 роки тому +66

    I'm so glad you're back!! I was literally thinking about you earlier today hoping you would come back soon

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +10

      The break was definitely refreshing ❤️ so glad to be back though

  • @izzymarkham5472
    @izzymarkham5472 3 роки тому +6

    YAAYAYAYAY I MISSED YOU TOO!!!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +2

      I MISSED U MORE

    • @izzymarkham5472
      @izzymarkham5472 3 роки тому

      @@RebeccaJayy you are so cool and have got getting unstuck! You’re amazing, remember that

  • @curiousduck5652
    @curiousduck5652 3 роки тому +14

    I started school three weeks ago and I'm already drowning in work. I was using your old videos to help myself get motivated, especially the ones where you spoke about a day not being ruined even if you're in bed until 2-3-4 pm on your phone! Wow, what a mindset change when I realized that the day wasn't wasted and I could still be productive! Thank you for the positivity and so happy you're back to posting :)

    • @taliw7736
      @taliw7736 2 роки тому

      Im in that boat too. So far quotes are helping and starting to plan and be in the habit of taking breaks and when to work hard

  • @taeefann
    @taeefann 3 роки тому +5

    I totally resonate with the re evaluate your relationships part. I feel like I'm holding on to things long gone, but I don't want to totally give up just in case someday something happens again 😣

  • @ysys9024
    @ysys9024 3 роки тому +7

    YAYYY SHE'S BACK !!

  • @margaux2871
    @margaux2871 3 роки тому +5

    thankyou for looking like a real person. you look very healthy. we can get though this together. sending lots of love

  • @lizziebrowne4592
    @lizziebrowne4592 3 роки тому +19

    I found you on UA-cam a few weeks ago and I watched every video within a few days and found your positivity so inspiring

  • @JustJulie
    @JustJulie 3 роки тому +14

    You don’t know how much we missed you😭✨❤️you are such an inspiration ✨😆

  • @dreamers_success
    @dreamers_success 3 роки тому +13

    Who else was refreshing the page cause you couldn't wait for her to post 😂

  • @beenmine
    @beenmine 3 роки тому +13

    omg I missed u sm, I checked so many times to see if ur back, I hope ur break was good, love uu

  • @ryrivera7337
    @ryrivera7337 3 роки тому +1

    wELCOME BACK REBECCA BESTIE, I MISSED YOU SO MUCH AND YOUR VIDS 😭😭😭😭😭😭💗💗💗💗💗

  • @xroshamariex
    @xroshamariex 3 роки тому +4

    i literally needed this so much ive gave so much energy to others that ive literally lost myself :(

  • @thisakyaabeykoon7294
    @thisakyaabeykoon7294 3 роки тому +3

    Thanx to you, I managed to get back on my feet from a huuuuuge slump. I'm still making progress but something is better than nothing and I'm already much better than I was for the past few years sooo...thank you so much.

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому

      progress is everything ❤️ proud of u

  • @jordynbjohnson
    @jordynbjohnson 3 роки тому +3

    you have inspired me so much! i cant imagine how many times i’ve found you at 12 pm, and just changed my whole day! we love you, and we believe in you 🤍

  • @piya5023
    @piya5023 3 роки тому +1

    the impact you've made in my life 🗣️🙇🙇

  • @sammm7762
    @sammm7762 3 роки тому +5

    I'm so demnnnnn happy you're back somehow the fact you weren't posting crossed my mind every week. How no other UA-camr is able to make me feel motivated!!!! ILYSMMMM

  • @shadn9396
    @shadn9396 3 роки тому +4

    MISSED YOU 💓💓

  • @Anna-jn5pn
    @Anna-jn5pn 3 роки тому +2

    omg! I missed you so much! love you girl

  • @elianemvuemba3586
    @elianemvuemba3586 3 роки тому +2

    OMGG YES I LOVE YOUR CONTENT SO MUCH , WELCOME BACK ILYSM

  • @lavishbby1682
    @lavishbby1682 3 роки тому +2

    I missed your video on those months ❤️

  • @zainabfatema7601
    @zainabfatema7601 3 роки тому +1

    Please i missed you so much..I was literally watching your previous videos and waiting for an update...Thank you so much for this..I missed you a lotttt ...

  • @nishararanasinghe7373
    @nishararanasinghe7373 3 роки тому +2

    Welcome back Rebecca 💗 we miss you!!

  • @jermintania8853
    @jermintania8853 3 роки тому +2

    No gurl
    NO FUCKING WORDS CAN DESCRIBE HOW HAPPY I AM RN!!!!!!!!!!!
    missed you soooooo muchhhhh 😭💛

  • @aestheticluv3r697
    @aestheticluv3r697 3 роки тому +2

    i missed u so muchhh, im so happy ur back :)

  • @catemarquezz
    @catemarquezz 3 роки тому +2

    omg i missed you, so glad you posted❤️🥺

  • @z0creates
    @z0creates 3 роки тому +15

    OMG WHEN I SAW THE NOTIFICATION I WENT 😲😆🥰😌💗 WE ALL MISSED U REBECCA, hope ur break helped u re energize !!

  • @mehakkhosa9034
    @mehakkhosa9034 3 роки тому +2

    I missed you❤️ I was literally checking, like everyday if you posted something...

  • @blue_satin_sashes
    @blue_satin_sashes 3 роки тому +2

    i recently got into crocheting and i totally think you should try it!

  • @janarrthinek8809
    @janarrthinek8809 3 роки тому +2

    She posted, y'all. It made my dayyyyyyy~

  • @cici9096
    @cici9096 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so glad your posting again
    I’m stuck in life and having problems , especially with my friendship with people
    I feel tired and I just don’t wanna do anything ,I wanna lay down and let my problems disappear
    You make me try and think of getting up and being healthy
    I’m gonna start caring about my self more now thanks to you getting me up from my bed and couch

  • @selahcarper2159
    @selahcarper2159 3 роки тому +355

    IM SO SO GLAD I'm not the only one who's been feeling like this. It's such a complicated feeling and sometimes you don't even know how to feel. TYSM for showing us your struggles and how u can improve one step at a time! 🤍

  • @em-mv7le
    @em-mv7le 3 роки тому +2

    U CANT IMAGINE HOW HAPPY UR NOTIF MADE ME😭😭💖 im so glad ur back i love u and im glad u took this time for u u deserve it so much♡♡♡ so so so happy to be watching one of ur videos again omg

  • @krissing5228
    @krissing5228 2 роки тому

    you have a beautiful peaceful soul glad to be apart of this family your so peaceful love your whole vibe

  • @hannah-rf9tq
    @hannah-rf9tq 3 роки тому +3

    aaa i've been rewatching your videos in the 2 months and i'm so glad to watch a new video!! but ofc take a break whenever you need ! :) we are always still here for you no matter what

  • @niveditan6374
    @niveditan6374 3 роки тому +2

    Missed you so much, glad your back!!😍🥰

  • @amyamrin6173
    @amyamrin6173 3 роки тому +4

    Just wanted to come here and say that, dear Rebecca, you have a VERY big impact on my life! Thanks for being so real and making me realise that it's okay to not always be productive or hustle! A big hug to you! So glad that I discovered you on youtube! I was reaallyyy waiting for your video. Loads of love! ❤

  • @posey4993
    @posey4993 3 роки тому +1

    I'M SO HAPPY YOU'RE BACK I LOVE YOU SO MUCHHHH

  • @pebbun3283
    @pebbun3283 3 роки тому +4

    OMG YOU ARE BACKK SOOO HAPPY RN YOUR VIDEOS ARE ALWAYS THE BEST AND THE MOST RELETABLE😭😭❤

  • @evoradipasquale4394
    @evoradipasquale4394 3 роки тому +2

    I missed ur videos and I’m sooooo glad ur back 💜

  • @mabel5933
    @mabel5933 3 роки тому +1

    Finally , u r back
    I hope you r feeling better now , I honestly came every 2-3 days to check whether u uploaded something or not. Honestly ,I am very happy.
    I really missed you 💗

  • @thembimpemi2307
    @thembimpemi2307 3 роки тому +1

    My frown went upside down when I saw your video 🥺🥺 welcome back

  • @katherinelowell220
    @katherinelowell220 3 роки тому +1

    i completely understand taking time for yourself, take all the time you need, it’s hard to take your own advice when you can take the time you need. we’re here for you and i’m so glad to see you’re back :)

  • @Xo1keezy
    @Xo1keezy 3 роки тому +1

    oml i was worried about you im so glad ur okay!

  • @aria98
    @aria98 3 роки тому +4

    Hey, do you know how inspiring and touching your videos are? Thank you so much💜

  • @rachelshawel2644
    @rachelshawel2644 3 роки тому +2

    Your the calmest person ik ❤

  • @ellastevenson1555
    @ellastevenson1555 3 роки тому +3

    AHHHH!!! SHES BACKKKK!!!

  • @leighs1nterlude
    @leighs1nterlude 3 роки тому +1

    AHH I AM LATE BUT I SWEAE THE PAST WEEK I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING YOU UP TO SEE FOR A NEW VID ITS FINALLY HERE TY FOR FEEDING US

  • @KaylaaShortaay
    @KaylaaShortaay 3 роки тому +1

    YAY UR BACKKKK I MISSED YOU

  • @constanzadavico1060
    @constanzadavico1060 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so glad you are back! We will always be here for you, accompanying you in this process

  • @Escalated401
    @Escalated401 3 роки тому +2

    I've been waiting for you to post. I missed your content so much

  • @thaysbarcelos9370
    @thaysbarcelos9370 3 роки тому +2

    So glad that you're back!!

  • @andrhea309
    @andrhea309 3 роки тому +2

    this video brought comfort to me as I watched it, I also felt safe with it. thank you and hope you're well and doing better🥺💖

  • @kaylamakomborero6468
    @kaylamakomborero6468 3 роки тому +2

    Girl we missed youuuuu!!! ❤️

  • @jubiemyrsilvio9467
    @jubiemyrsilvio9467 3 роки тому +2

    i missed you so much, my queen! you are my role model and i'm glad you're back ♥️✨

  • @noorjahanbasheer7399
    @noorjahanbasheer7399 3 роки тому +2

    Ohhh you're back... I really missed youu...... Love you so much 💖💖💖

  • @39vhhoaxjp
    @39vhhoaxjp 3 роки тому +1

    your videos are therapeutic girl

  • @ithil-maril9141
    @ithil-maril9141 3 роки тому +5

    REBECCAAAAA WE LOVE YOU SM this video def made my day😌🥺🥺

  • @sister-hood0910
    @sister-hood0910 3 роки тому +2

    I'm sooo glad your back your one of my fav youtubers

  • @ivanaskz2321
    @ivanaskz2321 3 роки тому +2

    I am kinda early, thank you I really needed this cuz I am feeling stuck right now and love you

  • @celinerdaweiner3760
    @celinerdaweiner3760 3 роки тому +2

    omg youre back i missed u sm

  • @yusranaeem8138
    @yusranaeem8138 3 роки тому +2

    Omg I wish I was half as positive as you!!

  • @andreahernandes9907
    @andreahernandes9907 3 роки тому +5

    I missed you so much I needed this video so THANKYOU. Latley so many things have happened and I have been feeling very down, but it is time to put a end to it.

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +3

      you got this! I appreciate u

  • @rainnghell3683
    @rainnghell3683 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for making this video. I've been feeling like this for a few months and have been gaining so much weight from the fog of feeling stuck. Thanks for being real ✌

  • @lucy9690
    @lucy9690 3 роки тому +3

    I shouted OMG YAYYY so loud my dad turned around like there was a fire. I MISSED YOU SO UNBELIEVABLY MUCH🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 so so soo excited

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +2

      I MISSED YOU TOOOOO

    • @lucy9690
      @lucy9690 3 роки тому +1

      @@RebeccaJayy I cant believe you replied!!! you truly are an amazing person and you have no idea how much your videos help me. it actually made me start my personal development journey. thank you for helping me help myself. lots of love, to the moon and back xxx

  • @bellaelise2640
    @bellaelise2640 3 роки тому +2

    hey !! welcome back queen hehe

  • @hotgirlz7242
    @hotgirlz7242 3 роки тому +2

    Yayyy ur back welcome back 🤧

  • @thegirl3328
    @thegirl3328 3 роки тому +1

    OMG I MISSED YOU, UR MOTIVATION, UR VIDEOS ALL!!
    also i thought i was the only one feeling like this. tysm for this video🤍 lysm

  • @feliaismyytnameyuh8482
    @feliaismyytnameyuh8482 3 роки тому +3

    YESSSSSS THE QUEEN HAS POSTED AGAIN❤ missed youuu

  • @haru-fy6dr
    @haru-fy6dr 3 роки тому +4

    Girl I really missed you so much
    Queen is back!🙇‍♀️❤

  • @alisharoseminj3443
    @alisharoseminj3443 3 роки тому +2

    We missed you to J ❤️✨

  • @lifewithcosmic
    @lifewithcosmic 3 роки тому +1

    Omg YOUR BACK !!! I misssed you !!

  • @annakulish2007
    @annakulish2007 2 роки тому +2

    I cannot tell you how much you help me and motivate me daily❤️ I look forward to your videos so much. Thank you❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  2 роки тому +1

      thank you for your support❤️❤️

  • @dilmisandeepani.m
    @dilmisandeepani.m 3 роки тому +1

    Sooo glad to see you again 😘 . Missed you so much . 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @piya5023
    @piya5023 3 роки тому +2

    the queen is finally back 😭😭😭😭 misssseddd youuu, yourr videoss wayyy tooo muchhh. sending you lots of loveee , positivity and hugsss

  • @user-rf8lj6nl3j
    @user-rf8lj6nl3j 3 роки тому +1

    omg soooo happy !! miss u girl ):

  • @lm9419
    @lm9419 3 роки тому +1

    I literally needed this THANK YOU 😭💘

  • @madison4225
    @madison4225 3 роки тому +3

    I’m glad ur back! I missed u too! Ur are one of my favorite UA-camrs. I love how to you engage in all the comments on ur videos! ❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому

      I love reading your comments ❤️

    • @madison4225
      @madison4225 3 роки тому

      @@RebeccaJayy Awww thxs!

  • @ali-zy9rv
    @ali-zy9rv 3 роки тому +2

    I MISSED YOU TOO!!£!

  • @erikahernandez8463
    @erikahernandez8463 3 роки тому +1

    omg so happy you’re back!! ❤️❤️

  • @hajinot
    @hajinot 2 роки тому

    I have been watching your videos in the past week because I haven't been feeling well at all. I always search this kind of videos in hard times, but I had never seen yours. I love them. I feel like u are very realistic and that helps me get back to reality and realize it will be okay. its been a struggle to motivate myself, but I am trying, and your videos are a boost. thank u

  • @tigerlily5416
    @tigerlily5416 3 роки тому +1

    I was so happy when I received the notification that you were back. I usually check your page to check if you posted and now it came as a suprise. Welcome back🥰🥰🥰

  • @athenaprincipe4389
    @athenaprincipe4389 3 роки тому +1

    OMG I MISSED YOU I'VE BEEN CHECKING YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA SO I CAN SEE IF U UPDATED ALRDY!!

  • @yupitsme3790
    @yupitsme3790 3 роки тому +2

    I missed you too bestie 🥺🥰

  • @graciegoose
    @graciegoose 3 роки тому +1

    Omg you're back! This just made my weekend!

  • @Catherine872
    @Catherine872 3 роки тому +2

    ahhhhhh we missed uuuuuuu

  • @leonoutstanding
    @leonoutstanding 3 роки тому +1

    Welcome back!! I missed you! ❤️❤️

  • @khushidhiman8658
    @khushidhiman8658 3 роки тому +1

    You are my favorite UA-camr... I missed you soo much

  • @Andyyy.7
    @Andyyy.7 3 роки тому +4

    Omg!!!! You returned!!! I missed you so muchh, I really love your channel. Looking forward for this amazing new video, lovee youuu🥺🤩🤩💜💜

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому +2

      I missed you ahhh

    • @Andyyy.7
      @Andyyy.7 3 роки тому

      @@RebeccaJayy The video was incredible, I feel like we’re connected or something haha, I’ve been feeling like that too, so it gives me a lot of motivation.
      Thanks and have a nice day☺️💜

  • @itsevelinakp
    @itsevelinakp 3 роки тому +2

    I was wondering where you have been, love that you are back♥️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  3 роки тому

      I’m so glad to be back ❤️

  • @amruthaanand9339
    @amruthaanand9339 3 роки тому +1

    This is like the right time to watch this video for me... I've been stuck because I want to accomplish a lot at the same time not wanting to lose the momentum or perfection...
    I really loved this video!!!
    Thank you for being back😘😘😘
    You are my online therapist!!!
    MISSED YOU SOOOOOO MUCH

  • @Spyframes
    @Spyframes 3 роки тому +3

    I really missed you so much dear!! Lots of love from India💙💙

  • @sarang8610
    @sarang8610 3 роки тому +4

    so early! ❤️ just remember you're amazing 💖