This tour and film was THE blueprint for everything that followed. When it was released it had its premiere at the Cannes Film Festival and it caused an uproar. Ppl loved it and the media coverage it got was next level. It was the first movie released worldwide by Miramax Films and made them a ton of cash that funded many of the independent films they financed. It was released worldwide in cinemas and was a huge success making it the highest grossing documentary of all time until Michael Moore's 911 documentary dethroned it. Madonna does nothing half assed. Loved your reaction.j
Luv ❤ your open-mindedness, insight, maturity and humor in reacting to this groundbreaking docufilm. It’s so refreshing and uplifting in this day and age. Madonna here gave us a peek into, to use an analogy, of how sausage is made. We, fans, are so used to enjoying the finished product of these spectacular Madonna concert tours that it’s taken for granted the time, effort and cost it took to produce these. This film also humanized not only Madonna and other celebrity stars with their strengths and flaws but also showed gays, racial minorities as talented artists that mainstream culture started to appreciate and accept. You’re right on point that “artistic integrity” is non-negotiable with Madonna. No amount of intimidation, vilification, threat or adversity will make her compromise her freedom of artistic expression. Recall that Blonde Ambition Tour was originally titled The Like A Prayer World Tour that Pepsi was supposed to sponsor as part of the deal that included Madonna appearing in their Make A Wish soda commercial where she used her then brand new Like A Prayer song as the ad soundtrack. But the day after the global broadcast of the Pepsi commercial, Madonna released the music video of LAP that raised an uproar from religious bigots and racists who threatened to boycott Pepsi products unless Pepsi withdraw their ad from airing and from sponsoring Madonna’s concert. Madonna later revealed that Pepsi approached her and wanted her to delete the cross burning and her kissing a Black person in the LAP mv in order to appease the haters as a condition for Pepsi to continue airing the ad and their sponsorship of her concert. Madonna refused them. She strongly felt that the commercial and LAP mv were two separate artistic creations and she would not compromise her “artistic integrity” for Pepsi or to satisfy the critics. Glad you covered Truth or Dare. It revealed a better understanding and appreciation of Madonna’s drive, talent, honesty and artistry going forward in your fascinating Madonna journey.
Aww, thank you so much! ❤️❤️ And thank you for sharing those thoughts - After everything she went through, there's no doubt that artistic integrity is paramount in all of her endeavors. ❤️
@@OurAnxiousReactions. When you resume your Madonna journey by covering her music videos in chronological order, as you’ve done so far, the next ones are: Justify My Love (JML, has an official mv), Rescue Me (audio only originally), and a remix of JML called The Beast Within (I think audio only originally): all three are brand new tracks from her 1st compilation album The Immaculate Collection released in November 1990; the other 15 hits (from 1983-1990) in this album you’ve already covered including live versions in her 1st 3 concert tours. She’d release her Erotica album next in 1992 followed by her 1993 The Girlie Show World Tour where she’d perform live versions of JML, a video interlude with dancers of The Beast Within, hits from Erotica and prior years.
Thank you so much for including this movie in your Madonna journey. This movie, this movie - phew. I was a teenager when I first saw Truth or Dare (or In Bed With Madonna, as it is called here in Europe). I was literally blown away. I had never seen anything like that, and to witness my hero being this complex, joyous, anxious, hilarious, thoughtful, witty, humorous and accepting human being was so life changing. What she did with this movie is something I can’t quite even express. It was such an experience for me that I’ll always carry that with me. I’m embarassed to say how many times I’ve seen it 😅 So glad you watched Truth or Dare. Wow.
Can i just say how much i like and enjoy you two? Your relationship is soo beautiful! Emily, you are incredibly lucky to have such an amazing mom who you can share and experience things like that with. I wish my mom had more of the same interests and we could be best friends the way you two are. It's wonderful to see. I enjoy the docu so much for how real it is and not just a marketing tool, like docus often are these days. Madonna has scenes which show her annoyed, tired, slightly bitchy and not always just in a positive light. They show the whole picture, the good, the bad, the ugly...a human being, not perfect. Madonna apologized to Kevin Costner afterwards though. He came back to her years later but it did cost her the lead in The Bodyguard apparently. Your review is incredible and on point as always. I'm loving this channel so much. Much love from Germany.
Your review was really well-structured and I love the fact that you paid attention to every little detail, as always.This documentary saved lives & continues to be immensely influential in pop culture. Can’t wait for you to enter the Erotica era! ♥️🍷
This documentary is the carbon copy of reality tv that we see today right before “the real world”, and how backstage concerts are presented today. Madonna is a visionary and ahead of her time.
Girls is the first time I've heard such an in-depth analysis of the documentary. This analytical ability was not possible when it came out at the cinema. I was a very young spectator who in his chair was completely overwhelmed by what he saw. Today I think that Madonna has opened doors that were previously closed. Especially when it comes to communication, Madonna was a pioneer. She still is today and her challenge is even greater: what can a 65 year old woman do. I continually read shameful comments about the fact that a woman of her age should not present herself as she is doing on her Celebration Tour. But when I look at that ring full of boxers and Madonna starting to sing "Erotica" I understand that she is a woman with an extraordinary willpower that managed to resist. It's a huge message for everyone.
I absolutely enjoyed this video! You ladies brought such insight about the film and I’m loving the Madonna journey! Can’t wait to see more, and hopefully Strike A Pose documentary as a follow up at some point… thanks for all the content!!!
I just LOVE “In Bed With Madonna” (sorry, I’m from the UK😂) Your review was absolutely perfect ❤ Loved how much you both took from it!! Again Madonna raised the fly-on-the-wall documentary bar and others followed! Artists like the Spice Girls often say before they go on stage to do the “Madonna Circle” before they go on. I used to really dislike Oli for his homophobia… but as I’ve grown older and since I’ve seen the “Strike A Pose” documentary (all the male dancers from the show), he’s grown and is regretful for how he treated the rest of the dancers. I now think he’s actually quite sweet!! The Oprah comment I never understood either as they both have a lot of love for each other now. 😮 One of the most awkwardly funny scenes for me was MOIRA😂😂😂 Madonna’s “childhood idol”!! So sad seeing Gabriel in this now since he died of AIDS in 1995 😢 Also I found out recently that “Slam” diagnosed with HIV 3 years before he got signed for the tour as had just graduated as a ballet dancer, had his first sexual experience and was diagnosed and given not very long to live. He kept it quiet up until recently. These dancers went through so much bless them!! So glad Madonna didn’t back down from the police in Toronto!! But hey, she wouldn’t be Madonna if she did!!⭐️ Amazing reaction! So much to say but don’t want to right an essay 😅 Btw… Anyone who says my show is neat, has to go 😂
Aww, thank you! ❤️❤️ And we love the In Bed With Madonna title too! ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing the info about Oliver - So glad he was able to grow and learn (and it's okay to write an essay 😉). And Gabriel... that's just heartbreaking.
I’ve lost count how many times I’ve watched this documentary. I just have so much love for this era. Ground breaking. Your reactions are priceless and so enjoyable. Thank you both ❤❤
Love this! So the Kevin Costner thing I’ve always thought was awkward because allegedly she was up for The Bodyguard around that time! He says to her “I don’t think we’re gonna be making that other deal” and she says “not neat enough for you?” Which I always took to mean she’d invited him to her show because they were in talks for that film….. don’t think anything was ever confirmed, but it makes sense! 🤷♂️
And i love the story how years later, he told how he took his daughters to see her Drowned World Tour..bought his own tickets. She spotted him in the crowd and dedicated her song "Secret" to him in front of 30,000 people and of course his daughters. He said he was really touched.
Oh wow, I have to admit I didn't expect to enjoy a review/discussion as much as I did here. That was fantastic. You two ladies were brilliant as always. By the way Truth or Dare is also credited as being the first mainstream movie to feature a kiss between two men (during the truth or dare scene). So it is a milestone in that sense as well. One of the most famous quotes from the movie: "Do something else. Do my eyebrows." I've even seen it on t-shirts
I really enjoyed your Review/Discussion. There were a few points that I forgot about in th film or didn't exactly realize was going on until you guys talked about it. For instance, I didn't get that in depth in Oliver's dilemma, even though I know he had some issues to work out. I haven't seen the film in a long while, so you guys reminded me or added more of a perspective than I came a way with which was very welcoming. The thing with Oprah, was just off the cuff. She had no beef. You also have to remember at the time, Oprah was doing more "shock value" shows, where people were airing out their dirty laundry on national TV. It wasn't until a few years after, she started to change her format in actually coming up with solutions to solve the problems for her guests. But again, she really didn't have a beef with her. It was just Oprah lived in Chicago at the time and Oprah was the biggest celebrity in the same town with Madonna who was the biggest world celebrity herself. It comes down to Madonna joking there wasn't enough room for two huge stars in the same town. A couple other few points, the whole Kevin Coster "neat" comment was definitely not his moment. Though, years later he spoke about it in an interview and he totally realize at the time (after he said it), it was a ridiculous think to say. I believe he even apologized to her sometime after. He since has seen her in concerts even more recently and always enjoyed her concerts. As for Warren Beatty, I agree he is so "old school" and didn't see the point of airing every little detail. In fact, when she first screened the film in his presence, he legally requested a number of scenes with him to be removed. I suspect; he really didn't care to be part of this. Other times when she prefer the camera not to be there, was during business meetings and specifically her adjustments. I think that came down to a moment where that her "me time", but as she said in the film, Alek, the director "disobeyed".
I was a teenager when Truth or Dare was released. I watched the documentary and at the time I thought: "yes, gays don't need to hide". I'm a gay man and I owe Madonna the freedom to be who I am. The first artist to put the spotlight on homosexuality in a welcoming and empowered way. Yes! She's the queen! She's a visionary! She's Madonna! Thank u again❤❤
Great reaction ladies!!! What Madonna said was she wouldn't live in Chicago because it's too conservative, other than Oprah lives there. So she was praising oprah as the only good thing in Chicago.
7:50 Oliver had talent but felt out of place (imposter syndrome) which explained his attitude towards the other dancers (they all reunited for a new doc, *Strike A Pose* (2016).
The film that ended up being made was actually very different than the original plan, which was for more of a "concert film" with a bit of behind the scenes look at the staging etc. Madonna and her director (a very young first-time filmmaker) decided the interactions between her and her troupe and their families was the far more interesting story. Poor Antonio Banderas! He was not yet famous in the US unless you had a liking for Spanish art-house films with subtitles. But he and Madonna do make a film together a few years after this...I'll let you discover more about that on your own journey in case you dont already know. And honestly, I kinda doubt she had any beef with Oprah at all. She was making an offhand catty dig because she probably thought OW was someone boring and middle American that she had no time for. They do actually have some really great interviews together down the road. Great review and discussion, ladies!
I think she apologized years later to Kevin Costner, and he attended another of her concerts (Drown World tour) with his kids. Thank you for this review!
Thanks for your insights & thoughts on the film. 👍🏻 Your discussion on Sharon's brutal sexual assault made me remember that Madonna wrote an article about being raped at knife point when she first moved to NYC. She was 19 years old, & it took place either in 1977 or 78. Agree with both of you about how the discussion around rape has changed considerably. Anyway, you're both doing great & it seems like you both have built a bit of a fanbase for your reactions. 😁
Madonna had also put in “Oh Father” of a man slapping her in the face…. Allegedly this was based on the abuse she received from ex husband Sean Penn… And she put that in the music video as also her life journey… Prince would be the first person she spoke to about it and he had been by her side all the time and often comforted her which later became a great friendship…
It's great that you made this documentary reaction, I went to see this film at the cinema in 1991 and I loved it. The Blond ambition tour is my favorite Madonna tour, I think it was her greatest artistic expression and Madonna was in her best form. The documentary reveals to us everything behind the making of a show of such magnitude and describes very well the brotherhood that existed with the dancers. I imagine Madonna included in the documentary what we wanted us to see of her, but it's pretty good to get an idea of what the tour was like. It is true that Sharon's sexual assault is taken with the mentality of 1990 and thank goodness that has changed, although it also depends on the countries. I love listening to your reactions and analysis, the truth is that you are quite accurate and I think you are very in tune with understanding Madonna's mind. Kisses 🥰🥰🥰
This was just the beginning of reality shows. The mother of the Kardashians and those MTV reality shows. Madonna is a trendsetter and a great visionary. Great artist, what else can i say? ❤❤❤
Hello, a few years ago the dancers of this tour made a similar documentary called Strike a Pose where they tell what they experienced during the tour and what they did afterwards and what they do now. Madonna then apologized to Ohpra and went on his show with a gift for her
I’m thinking the rape topic was presented in a way that it was just something that happened. Most of the dancers later had said that they were sexually abused as children and Madonna saying years later that she had been raped on a rooftop maybe at that point it was thought as something that was to make you stronger and that you survived it . And it was just something that happens. I might be off on that but it’s how I perceived it also from my own personal experience when I was 17. I certainly would have dealt with it differently if it happened in present day. But back then it was something that happened and it just made me stronger.
It was an awkward scene when she is informed about it and her reaction to the news, but I like to believe that it was a too sensitive subject to show more on it and that she went to the girl, off camera, to console and have a talk with her. I know years later, the dancers, backup singers, some crew have shared stories of unknown generius moments that they've had with Madonna. Moments of a side that I don't even think Madonna herself wants everyone to see. She was in her early 30's during this time, more self absorbed than ever and since, and so some of her behavior I forgive because who isn't into themselves or a jerk when you're that young. Leap forward to the next documentary concert film of hers in 2005, huge difference and mellowed out. But, by then, she was a mother of 2, married and you can see more of that generous, caring and sharing herself more, side to her. Her guard was up in Truth or Dare and not so much anymore in I'm Going To Tell You A Secret.
I always like to say, as a joke, that I was part of this film. I was in the audience when we sang happy birthday to her dad 😁. On another note, every time I see Madonna perform LAV, I always, always think about Nicki and Donna talking about Madonna performing LAV when shes old. It cracks me up.
Speaking of Oprah ( I think that comment may be to poke fun at not having room for two such powerful woman in the same place?) but, later in your journey, please, please react to her Oprah Interview in 96’ after Madonna had her daughter. I guarantee, you’ll never see a more honest and open Madonna, plus she was just stunning with that new mom glow. The next Oprah was in 98’, for the release of her Ray of Light album, and she gave a powerful performance and interview.❤❤
Another wonderful reaction❤ Thanks for watching and giving us a great synopsis of Truth or Dare/In Bed with Madonna... as you said, it really enables you to appreciate the tour even more. The Oprah thing i never really understood... but i think she says from memory "and that's another reason to not wanna live in Chicago, aside from the fact that Oprah Winfrey lives here" ... which could actually mean the opposite... but at best it's definitely very ambiguous! But Oprah has interviewed Madonna numerous times and there doesn't appear to be any issue between them. The Strike a Pose documentary with all the dancers is interesting as a follow up, as it takes place many years later and shows you how people evolved! Loved hearing your thoughts and looking forward to the rest of the Madonna journey... much love from UK ❤
Oh Yeah, I have watched this documentary over 100 times and I still learn something new. I went to theater 10 times with different people.❤️ #MegaMichiganMFan84
My favorite part. Madonna: Sean....Sean. Warren Beatty was a completely different generation. There's a fun fact about Beatty and the Dick Tracy movie. In the movie, Annette Bening played a love interest. While Madonna was dating him, he'd already met his future wife, see aforementioned love interest. They're still married today. They married in 1992.
There was a 2016 documentary called “Strike a Pose” which was the story of the dancers AFTER the tour and Truth or Dare and the fame it brought them. It’s quite good. Here is a quote from. Oliver who clearly has evolved from 1990 “I have to thank the gay community for not throwing me under the bus. When the movie came out, a lot of gay and lesbian people could have treated me like shit, because I was very homophobic, and I was very ignorant. Basically, the guys took me under their wing, and Kevin and Gabriel just took me so under their wing, and I learned so much about the guys. I learned about how they realised they were gay, and what they went through. And then I had a different perception of the community. Carlton was like a big brother, and he was like that with everyone. Even though in the movie you can see Jose, Slam and Lewis giving me a hard time, it was all out of love. And to be honest, I would not change anything.
THIS MOVIE WAS EPIC… and the FIRST ever documentary film of a Artist Tour on the big screen… it was u heard of…. I really really highly suggest you watch the 2nd part of the movie called “Strike A Pose”… it’s the reunion of her dancers from the tour after 25 years to talk bout the tour from their eyes and the truth they all hid from the world and Madonna… it’s a tear jerker and a eye opener of how far we have come from homophobia since the 90’s… the movie you can watch on here or a streaming platform… YOU NEED TO WATCH IT… It’s a must watch !!!! 🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🙌🏽 view the trailer …
I wish I could have seen you both react to the Documentary, but get how much of a pain it would be to edit. You’ll now see Taylor Swift, Beyoncé Ect...putting out tour documentaries right after, or while the tour is still going on, due to this Documentary, it was trail blazing for sure. Also, Oliver has done a complete 180 and is no longer homophobic, he and the other male dancers, have their own documentary out, which is worth a watch, if not just catching interviews on UA-cam they have done since the tour. Lastly, I mentioned before, but please try to react to two interviews done for Truth or Dare, one is with Regis Philbin, it was a two parter ( and awesome) and the other is, Breakfast with Madonna, on MTV, done by Kurt Loder, one of her best interviews. Though, there are many great interviews. Lol
If you can find it, you really need to watch the parody of this by comedian Julie Brown called “Medusa: Dare to be Truthful”, it is a hilarious send up and you’ll get a kick out of it for sure.😅
Madonna would go on to do several amazing interviews with Oprah in the 90’s. (Evita and Ray of Light eras). She was also one of the few celebrities to be at Oprahs retirement from her show. I am not sure what the tea was back then, but I think in general Madonna was caught up in the fame bubble, somewhat narcissistic and immature at the time - she had some Iconic shady but petty moments early on. Her personal transformation occurs after the birth of her daughter and engrossment in Kabbalah. Oprah called her a kinder, gentler, Madonna. Every once in a while her shady side will come out to this day, but for the most part she is more supportive of other artists and females in general.
Madonna started off just wanting only the concert filmed with behind the scenes cutaways, but when she and the director saw early footage, she immediately wanted it reversed. Too bad there's not a full length film of just the concert itself as this tour is M.I.A. in any modern viewable format other than laser disc and VHS and now UA-cam. Still remains a mystery why she has not released this tour to dvd and bluray by now. The poking fun scene of Kevin Costner was more poking fun of his goody wholesome Jimmy Stewart-like image. Listen closely to their conversation where he tells her that they sadly won't be doing that "project" together. That project was the movie "The Bodyguard ". During her Drowned World Tour 2001, Kevin Costner was present for one of her shows and she alerted beforehand and dedicated the song "Secret" to him as gesture of bury the hatchet on that incident in meeting him in Truth or Dare. Lol.
I saw this when I was about 11 years old and I felt for the first time hope. I was so afraid all the time because I knew I was different then other boys and this film showed me I was not alone and that being gay was okay to Madonna my idol so I k we I was okay and that I would find my way.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. Madonna has changed so many lives by saying (and demonstrating) that it's okay to be who you are (and at a time when so many needed to hear that message). ❤️❤️
Loved your review! Oprah was not initially the respected talk show host that she would later become. The Oprah Winfrey Show in the first years was much more trashy (pre 1993) before it evolved into a more positive and classy version.
@@OurAnxiousReactions Years later Madonna was interviewed in the Oprah show and did get along very well, she even came to Oprah's farewell show as a big surprise to say nice things about her. Oprah admitted in a show that she wanted to ask her why she made that comment, but she never did. But it's all good between them and they respect each other very much.
You Must watch and review a documentary called StrikeAPose and it’s the male dancers talking about their experience with Madonna years later after blonde Ambition tour, you will cry for sure. It’s amazing!❤️ #MegaMichiganMFan84
Madonna has been on Oprah’s show at least twice after this haha. I heard it two ways…Oprah is the one reason living in Chicago is good, OR she was throwing shade at Oprah but I don’t think it was any kind of public feud 😂
Also I really think that the Warren thing was just a Hollywood Romance to just promote Dick Tracey. You never sense any real chemistry during the tour. The hype for the movie was huge and I believe after it premiered the romance was over.
In England, Truth or Dare is Called ,In Bed With Madonna, so i always say to mum & dad , im watching in bed with Madonna my dad would say what again, i watched it so many times as a kid and teenager
This tour and film was THE blueprint for everything that followed. When it was released it had its premiere at the Cannes Film Festival and it caused an uproar. Ppl loved it and the media coverage it got was next level. It was the first movie released worldwide by Miramax Films and made them a ton of cash that funded many of the independent films they financed. It was released worldwide in cinemas and was a huge success making it the highest grossing documentary of all time until Michael Moore's 911 documentary dethroned it. Madonna does nothing half assed. Loved your reaction.j
Thank you! ❤️❤️
And thank you for sharing that information about the documentary - So interesting that it was the first movie released by Miramax!
Ugh the only reason MJ made more money is because he died.
Luv ❤ your open-mindedness, insight, maturity and humor in reacting to this groundbreaking docufilm. It’s so refreshing and uplifting in this day and age. Madonna here gave us a peek into, to use an analogy, of how sausage is made. We, fans, are so used to enjoying the finished product of these spectacular Madonna concert tours that it’s taken for granted the time, effort and cost it took to produce these. This film also humanized not only Madonna and other celebrity stars with their strengths and flaws but also showed gays, racial minorities as talented artists that mainstream culture started to appreciate and accept.
You’re right on point that “artistic integrity” is non-negotiable with Madonna. No amount of intimidation, vilification, threat or adversity will make her compromise her freedom of artistic expression. Recall that Blonde Ambition Tour was originally titled The Like A Prayer World Tour that Pepsi was supposed to sponsor as part of the deal that included Madonna appearing in their Make A Wish soda commercial where she used her then brand new Like A Prayer song as the ad soundtrack. But the day after the global broadcast of the Pepsi commercial, Madonna released the music video of LAP that raised an uproar from religious bigots and racists who threatened to boycott Pepsi products unless Pepsi withdraw their ad from airing and from sponsoring Madonna’s concert. Madonna later revealed that Pepsi approached her and wanted her to delete the cross burning and her kissing a Black person in the LAP mv in order to appease the haters as a condition for Pepsi to continue airing the ad and their sponsorship of her concert. Madonna refused them. She strongly felt that the commercial and LAP mv were two separate artistic creations and she would not compromise her “artistic integrity” for Pepsi or to satisfy the critics.
Glad you covered Truth or Dare. It revealed a better understanding and appreciation of Madonna’s drive, talent, honesty and artistry going forward in your fascinating Madonna journey.
Aww, thank you so much! ❤️❤️
And thank you for sharing those thoughts - After everything she went through, there's no doubt that artistic integrity is paramount in all of her endeavors. ❤️
@@OurAnxiousReactions. When you resume your Madonna journey by covering her music videos in chronological order, as you’ve done so far, the next ones are: Justify My Love (JML, has an official mv), Rescue Me (audio only originally), and a remix of JML called The Beast Within (I think audio only originally): all three are brand new tracks from her 1st compilation album The Immaculate Collection released in November 1990; the other 15 hits (from 1983-1990) in this album you’ve already covered including live versions in her 1st 3 concert tours. She’d release her Erotica album next in 1992 followed by her 1993 The Girlie Show World Tour where she’d perform live versions of JML, a video interlude with dancers of The Beast Within, hits from Erotica and prior years.
Thank you so much for including this movie in your Madonna journey. This movie, this movie - phew. I was a teenager when I first saw Truth or Dare (or In Bed With Madonna, as it is called here in Europe). I was literally blown away. I had never seen anything like that, and to witness my hero being this complex, joyous, anxious, hilarious, thoughtful, witty, humorous and accepting human being was so life changing. What she did with this movie is something I can’t quite even express. It was such an experience for me that I’ll always carry that with me. I’m embarassed to say how many times I’ve seen it 😅 So glad you watched Truth or Dare. Wow.
Love this. ❤️❤️
Can i just say how much i like and enjoy you two?
Your relationship is soo beautiful!
Emily, you are incredibly lucky to have such an amazing mom who you can share and experience things like that with. I wish my mom had more of the same interests and we could be best friends the way you two are. It's wonderful to see.
I enjoy the docu so much for how real it is and not just a marketing tool, like docus often are these days. Madonna has scenes which show her annoyed, tired, slightly bitchy and not always just in a positive light. They show the whole picture, the good, the bad, the ugly...a human being, not perfect.
Madonna apologized to Kevin Costner afterwards though. He came back to her years later but it did cost her the lead in The Bodyguard apparently.
Your review is incredible and on point as always. I'm loving this channel so much. Much love from Germany.
Aww, you're so sweet - Thank you so much! ❤️❤️
Sending our love to you as well! ❤️
Please also react to her other documentary from 2005 "I am going to tell you a secret" . That one is my favorite ❤️
Your review was really well-structured and I love the fact that you paid attention to every little detail, as always.This documentary saved lives & continues to be immensely influential in pop culture. Can’t wait for you to enter the Erotica era! ♥️🍷
Aww, thank you so much! ❤️❤️
I agree, this documentary saved lives: mine actually! ❤ 😊 And I can’t wait to see them reacting to Erotica era!!
This documentary is the carbon copy of reality tv that we see today right before “the real world”, and how backstage concerts are presented today. Madonna is a visionary and ahead of her time.
So excited you guys are reviewing this documentary!
You guys are the best!
Aww, thank you! ❤️❤️
Girls is the first time I've heard such an in-depth analysis of the documentary. This analytical ability was not possible when it came out at the cinema. I was a very young spectator who in his chair was completely overwhelmed by what he saw. Today I think that Madonna has opened doors that were previously closed. Especially when it comes to communication, Madonna was a pioneer. She still is today and her challenge is even greater: what can a 65 year old woman do. I continually read shameful comments about the fact that a woman of her age should not present herself as she is doing on her Celebration Tour. But when I look at that ring full of boxers and Madonna starting to sing "Erotica" I understand that she is a woman with an extraordinary willpower that managed to resist. It's a huge message for everyone.
Thank you! ❤️❤️
Pioneer, door opener... So true! She has changed the landscape in so many ways. ❤️
I absolutely enjoyed this video! You ladies brought such insight about the film and I’m loving the Madonna journey! Can’t wait to see more, and hopefully Strike A Pose documentary as a follow up at some point… thanks for all the content!!!
Thank you! We're so grateful that you're on the journey with us! ❤️❤️
I just LOVE “In Bed With Madonna” (sorry, I’m from the UK😂) Your review was absolutely perfect ❤ Loved how much you both took from it!! Again Madonna raised the fly-on-the-wall documentary bar and others followed! Artists like the Spice Girls often say before they go on stage to do the “Madonna Circle” before they go on. I used to really dislike Oli for his homophobia… but as I’ve grown older and since I’ve seen the “Strike A Pose” documentary (all the male dancers from the show), he’s grown and is regretful for how he treated the rest of the dancers. I now think he’s actually quite sweet!! The Oprah comment I never understood either as they both have a lot of love for each other now. 😮 One of the most awkwardly funny scenes for me was MOIRA😂😂😂 Madonna’s “childhood idol”!! So sad seeing Gabriel in this now since he died of AIDS in 1995 😢 Also I found out recently that “Slam” diagnosed with HIV 3 years before he got signed for the tour as had just graduated as a ballet dancer, had his first sexual experience and was diagnosed and given not very long to live. He kept it quiet up until recently. These dancers went through so much bless them!! So glad Madonna didn’t back down from the police in Toronto!! But hey, she wouldn’t be Madonna if she did!!⭐️ Amazing reaction! So much to say but don’t want to right an essay 😅 Btw… Anyone who says my show is neat, has to go 😂
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And we love the In Bed With Madonna title too! ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing the info about Oliver - So glad he was able to grow and learn (and it's okay to write an essay 😉).
And Gabriel... that's just heartbreaking.
I’ve lost count how many times I’ve watched this documentary. I just have so much love for this era. Ground breaking.
Your reactions are priceless and so enjoyable. Thank you both ❤❤
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Love this! So the Kevin Costner thing I’ve always thought was awkward because allegedly she was up for The Bodyguard around that time! He says to her “I don’t think we’re gonna be making that other deal” and she says “not neat enough for you?” Which I always took to mean she’d invited him to her show because they were in talks for that film….. don’t think anything was ever confirmed, but it makes sense! 🤷♂️
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Interesting about The Bodyguard - That does make sense with the comment he made.
And i love the story how years later, he told how he took his daughters to see her Drowned World Tour..bought his own tickets. She spotted him in the crowd and dedicated her song "Secret" to him in front of 30,000 people and of course his daughters. He said he was really touched.
Oh wow, I have to admit I didn't expect to enjoy a review/discussion as much as I did here. That was fantastic. You two ladies were brilliant as always.
By the way Truth or Dare is also credited as being the first mainstream movie to feature a kiss between two men (during the truth or dare scene). So it is a milestone in that sense as well.
One of the most famous quotes from the movie: "Do something else. Do my eyebrows." I've even seen it on t-shirts
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And we loved that quote too!
I really enjoyed your Review/Discussion. There were a few points that I forgot about in th film or didn't exactly realize was going on until you guys talked about it. For instance, I didn't get that in depth in Oliver's dilemma, even though I know he had some issues to work out. I haven't seen the film in a long while, so you guys reminded me or added more of a perspective than I came a way with which was very welcoming.
The thing with Oprah, was just off the cuff. She had no beef. You also have to remember at the time, Oprah was doing more "shock value" shows, where people were airing out their dirty laundry on national TV. It wasn't until a few years after, she started to change her format in actually coming up with solutions to solve the problems for her guests. But again, she really didn't have a beef with her. It was just Oprah lived in Chicago at the time and Oprah was the biggest celebrity in the same town with Madonna who was the biggest world celebrity herself. It comes down to Madonna joking there wasn't enough room for two huge stars in the same town.
A couple other few points, the whole Kevin Coster "neat" comment was definitely not his moment. Though, years later he spoke about it in an interview and he totally realize at the time (after he said it), it was a ridiculous think to say. I believe he even apologized to her sometime after. He since has seen her in concerts even more recently and always enjoyed her concerts.
As for Warren Beatty, I agree he is so "old school" and didn't see the point of airing every little detail. In fact, when she first screened the film in his presence, he legally requested a number of scenes with him to be removed. I suspect; he really didn't care to be part of this. Other times when she prefer the camera not to be there, was during business meetings and specifically her adjustments. I think that came down to a moment where that her "me time", but as she said in the film, Alek, the director "disobeyed".
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Loved reading your thoughts about those points as well! ❤️
And glad to hear that Madonna and Kevin worked it out!
I was a teenager when Truth or Dare was released. I watched the documentary and at the time I thought: "yes, gays don't need to hide". I'm a gay man and I owe Madonna the freedom to be who I am. The first artist to put the spotlight on homosexuality in a welcoming and empowered way. Yes! She's the queen! She's a visionary! She's Madonna! Thank u again❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing this - Beautiful! ❤️❤️
Great reaction ladies!!! What Madonna said was she wouldn't live in Chicago because it's too conservative, other than Oprah lives there. So she was praising oprah as the only good thing in Chicago.
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Madonna apologized to Kevin Costner on stage in 2004 at her Re-Invention tour while he was in the audience.
Glad they worked it out! ❤️
7:50 Oliver had talent but felt out of place (imposter syndrome) which explained his attitude towards the other dancers (they all reunited for a new doc, *Strike A Pose* (2016).
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The film that ended up being made was actually very different than the original plan, which was for more of a "concert film" with a bit of behind the scenes look at the staging etc.
Madonna and her director (a very young first-time filmmaker) decided the interactions between her and her troupe and their families was the far more interesting story.
Poor Antonio Banderas! He was not yet famous in the US unless you had a liking for Spanish art-house films with subtitles. But he and Madonna do make a film together a few years after this...I'll let you discover more about that on your own journey in case you dont already know.
And honestly, I kinda doubt she had any beef with Oprah at all. She was making an offhand catty dig because she probably thought OW was someone boring and middle American that she had no time for.
They do actually have some really great interviews together down the road.
Great review and discussion, ladies!
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And we'll definitely have to check out her interviews with Oprah!
I loved this! What a great reaction. Thank you ladies X
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Love watching your videos. The doc Strike a pose is interesting too its about the Blond Ambition dancers 25 years later.
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I think she apologized years later to Kevin Costner, and he attended another of her concerts (Drown World tour) with his kids. Thank you for this review!
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Thanks for your insights & thoughts on the film. 👍🏻 Your discussion on Sharon's brutal sexual assault made me remember that Madonna wrote an article about being raped at knife point when she first moved to NYC. She was 19 years old, & it took place either in 1977 or 78. Agree with both of you about how the discussion around rape has changed considerably.
Anyway, you're both doing great & it seems like you both have built a bit of a fanbase for your reactions. 😁
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We really love the wonderful group of people who have joined us on this journey. ❤️
Madonna had also put in “Oh Father” of a man slapping her in the face…. Allegedly this was based on the abuse she received from ex husband Sean Penn… And she put that in the music video as also her life journey… Prince would be the first person she spoke to about it and he had been by her side all the time and often comforted her which later became a great friendship…
It's great that you made this documentary reaction, I went to see this film at the cinema in 1991 and I loved it. The Blond ambition tour is my favorite Madonna tour, I think it was her greatest artistic expression and Madonna was in her best form. The documentary reveals to us everything behind the making of a show of such magnitude and describes very well the brotherhood that existed with the dancers. I imagine Madonna included in the documentary what we wanted us to see of her, but it's pretty good to get an idea of what the tour was like. It is true that Sharon's sexual assault is taken with the mentality of 1990 and thank goodness that has changed, although it also depends on the countries. I love listening to your reactions and analysis, the truth is that you are quite accurate and I think you are very in tune with understanding Madonna's mind. Kisses 🥰🥰🥰
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It's so great that you were able to see this at the cinema!
This was just the beginning of reality shows. The mother of the Kardashians and those MTV reality shows. Madonna is a trendsetter and a great visionary. Great artist, what else can i say? ❤❤❤
Hello, a few years ago the dancers of this tour made a similar documentary called Strike a Pose where they tell what they experienced during the tour and what they did afterwards and what they do now. Madonna then apologized to Ohpra and went on his show with a gift for her
Yea!! So insightful ladies -as always.
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Hello, in this little video there are all the provocations made at the Toronto concert - Blond Ambition Tour the full Toronto incident with Police
I really enjoy your Madonna journey. Thank you.
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I’m thinking the rape topic was presented in a way that it was just something that happened. Most of the dancers later had said that they were sexually abused as children and Madonna saying years later that she had been raped on a rooftop maybe at that point it was thought as something that was to make you stronger and that you survived it . And it was just something that happens. I might be off on that but it’s how I perceived it also from my own personal experience when I was 17. I certainly would have dealt with it differently if it happened in present day. But back then it was something that happened and it just made me stronger.
It was an awkward scene when she is informed about it and her reaction to the news, but I like to believe that it was a too sensitive subject to show more on it and that she went to the girl, off camera, to console and have a talk with her. I know years later, the dancers, backup singers, some crew have shared stories of unknown generius moments that they've had with Madonna. Moments of a side that I don't even think Madonna herself wants everyone to see. She was in her early 30's during this time, more self absorbed than ever and since, and so some of her behavior I forgive because who isn't into themselves or a jerk when you're that young. Leap forward to the next documentary concert film of hers in 2005, huge difference and mellowed out. But, by then, she was a mother of 2, married and you can see more of that generous, caring and sharing herself more, side to her. Her guard was up in Truth or Dare and not so much anymore in I'm Going To Tell You A Secret.
I always like to say, as a joke, that I was part of this film. I was in the audience when we sang happy birthday to her dad 😁. On another note, every time I see Madonna perform LAV, I always, always think about Nicki and Donna talking about Madonna performing LAV when shes old. It cracks me up.
That's such a great story. And it must feel amazing to see a show in this that you actually attended - So cool!! ❤️❤️
Speaking of Oprah ( I think that comment may be to poke fun at not having room for two such powerful woman in the same place?) but, later in your journey, please, please react to her Oprah Interview in 96’ after Madonna had her daughter. I guarantee, you’ll never see a more honest and open Madonna, plus she was just stunning with that new mom glow. The next Oprah was in 98’, for the release of her Ray of Light album, and she gave a powerful performance and interview.❤❤
Yes, a must see '96 interview after becoming a mother and after her masterpiece of an album 'Ray of Light."
Both sound like great interviews! ❤️
Another wonderful reaction❤ Thanks for watching and giving us a great synopsis of Truth or Dare/In Bed with Madonna... as you said, it really enables you to appreciate the tour even more.
The Oprah thing i never really understood... but i think she says from memory "and that's another reason to not wanna live in Chicago, aside from the fact that Oprah Winfrey lives here" ... which could actually mean the opposite... but at best it's definitely very ambiguous! But Oprah has interviewed Madonna numerous times and there doesn't appear to be any issue between them.
The Strike a Pose documentary with all the dancers is interesting as a follow up, as it takes place many years later and shows you how people evolved!
Loved hearing your thoughts and looking forward to the rest of the Madonna journey...
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Oh Yeah, I have watched this documentary over 100 times and I still learn something new. I went to theater 10 times with different people.❤️
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My favorite part. Madonna: Sean....Sean. Warren Beatty was a completely different generation. There's a fun fact about Beatty and the Dick Tracy movie. In the movie, Annette Bening played a love interest. While Madonna was dating him, he'd already met his future wife, see aforementioned love interest. They're still married today. They married in 1992.
There was a 2016 documentary called “Strike a Pose” which was the story of the dancers AFTER the tour and Truth or Dare and the fame it brought them. It’s quite good. Here is a quote from. Oliver who clearly has evolved from 1990 “I have to thank the gay community for not throwing me under the bus. When the movie came out, a lot of gay and lesbian people could have treated me like shit, because I was very homophobic, and I was very ignorant. Basically, the guys took me under their wing, and Kevin and Gabriel just took me so under their wing, and I learned so much about the guys. I learned about how they realised they were gay, and what they went through. And then I had a different perception of the community. Carlton was like a big brother, and he was like that with everyone. Even though in the movie you can see Jose, Slam and Lewis giving me a hard time, it was all out of love. And to be honest, I would not change anything.
Thank you so much for sharing that quote with us - Actually teary-eyed to see Oliver's growth and transformation. Beautiful.❤️❤️
THIS MOVIE WAS EPIC… and the FIRST ever documentary film of a Artist Tour on the big screen… it was u heard of…. I really really highly suggest you watch the 2nd part of the movie called “Strike A Pose”… it’s the reunion of her dancers from the tour after 25 years to talk bout the tour from their eyes and the truth they all hid from the world and Madonna… it’s a tear jerker and a eye opener of how far we have come from homophobia since the 90’s… the movie you can watch on here or a streaming platform… YOU NEED TO WATCH IT… It’s a must watch !!!! 🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🙌🏽 view the trailer …
We haven't watched it yet, but we definitely plan to. ❤️❤️
I don’t blame Warren I mean he was famous for so long and had his own relationship with the press
I wish I could have seen you both react to the Documentary, but get how much of a pain it would be to edit. You’ll now see Taylor Swift, Beyoncé Ect...putting out tour documentaries right after, or while the tour is still going on, due to this Documentary, it was trail blazing for sure. Also, Oliver has done a complete 180 and is no longer homophobic, he and the other male dancers, have their own documentary out, which is worth a watch, if not just catching interviews on UA-cam they have done since the tour. Lastly, I mentioned before, but please try to react to two interviews done for Truth or Dare, one is with Regis Philbin, it was a two parter ( and awesome) and the other is, Breakfast with Madonna, on MTV, done by Kurt Loder, one of her best interviews. Though, there are many great interviews. Lol
Thank you so much for the info (especially the update on Oliver - That's great to hear! )! ❤️❤️
If you can find it, you really need to watch the parody of this by comedian Julie Brown called “Medusa: Dare to be Truthful”, it is a hilarious send up and you’ll get a kick out of it for sure.😅
We'll look for it - Thank you for the suggestion! ❤️❤️
Madonna would go on to do several amazing interviews with Oprah in the 90’s. (Evita and Ray of Light eras). She was also one of the few celebrities to be at Oprahs retirement from her show. I am not sure what the tea was back then, but I think in general Madonna was caught up in the fame bubble, somewhat narcissistic and immature at the time - she had some Iconic shady but petty moments early on. Her personal transformation occurs after the birth of her daughter and engrossment in Kabbalah. Oprah called her a kinder, gentler, Madonna. Every once in a while her shady side will come out to this day, but for the most part she is more supportive of other artists and females in general.
Madonna started off just wanting only the concert filmed with behind the scenes cutaways, but when she and the director saw early footage, she immediately wanted it reversed. Too bad there's not a full length film of just the concert itself as this tour is M.I.A. in any modern viewable format other than laser disc and VHS and now UA-cam. Still remains a mystery why she has not released this tour to dvd and bluray by now. The poking fun scene of Kevin Costner was more poking fun of his goody wholesome Jimmy Stewart-like image. Listen closely to their conversation where he tells her that they sadly won't be doing that "project" together. That project was the movie "The Bodyguard ". During her Drowned World Tour 2001, Kevin Costner was present for one of her shows and she alerted beforehand and dedicated the song "Secret" to him as gesture of bury the hatchet on that incident in meeting him in Truth or Dare. Lol.
Thank you for sharing that info with us (great that she and Kevin worked it out! 😊)! ❤️❤️
I saw this when I was about 11 years old and I felt for the first time hope. I was so afraid all the time because I knew I was different then other boys and this film showed me I was not alone and that being gay was okay to Madonna my idol so I k we I was okay and that I would find my way.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. Madonna has changed so many lives by saying (and demonstrating) that it's okay to be who you are (and at a time when so many needed to hear that message). ❤️❤️
Loved your review! Oprah was not initially the respected talk show host that she would later become. The Oprah Winfrey Show in the first years was much more trashy (pre 1993) before it evolved into a more positive and classy version.
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@@OurAnxiousReactions Years later Madonna was interviewed in the Oprah show and did get along very well, she even came to Oprah's farewell show as a big surprise to say nice things about her. Oprah admitted in a show that she wanted to ask her why she made that comment, but she never did. But it's all good between them and they respect each other very much.
You Must watch and review a documentary called StrikeAPose and it’s the male dancers talking about their experience with Madonna years later after blonde Ambition tour, you will cry for sure. It’s amazing!❤️
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Madonna has been on Oprah’s show at least twice after this haha. I heard it two ways…Oprah is the one reason living in Chicago is good, OR she was throwing shade at Oprah but I don’t think it was any kind of public feud 😂
Good to know! The comment just seemed so random in the documentary. 😂
Also I really think that the Warren thing was just a Hollywood Romance to just promote Dick Tracey. You never sense any real chemistry during the tour. The hype for the movie was huge and I believe after it premiered the romance was over.
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Eras tour - Renaissance tour… pffft.
This was the real deal.
In England, Truth or Dare is Called ,In Bed With Madonna, so i always say to mum & dad , im watching in bed with Madonna my dad would say what again, i watched it so many times as a kid and teenager
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Her friend Keith was Keith Haring, the famous artist. His stuff is ICONIC. one Google and you’ll recognize his work.
Haring. 😊
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