Friendship Q&A | Long Distance, Love Langages, Support, Jealousy & Conflict Resolution

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  • Опубліковано 16 гру 2024

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  • @namhla_mabombo
    @namhla_mabombo Рік тому +85

    Love you so much ke my dhiye, what a wholesome video ❤😘

  • @karaboprisca1155
    @karaboprisca1155 Рік тому +101

    I absolutely agree with u Namhla when she says you are incredibly smart. Infact I prefer your sit down videos more than vlogs because I just enjoy hearing your opinion and your experiences on things. If you were to start a podcast sana, I'd be your biggest supporter❤️.

  • @mamojabengsephakwe885
    @mamojabengsephakwe885 Рік тому +67

    This was so beautiful to watch, they don't make them like you two anymore. The way Zizi described Namhla, is true...Namhla has this beauty about her that is undescribable. And Zizi, I agree with Namhla I absolutely think you are incredibly smart and absolute gorgeous. Also love how you two see and acknowledge the queens you are. Love this friendship for both of you and wish it for everyone including myself who hasn't experienced it.

  • @lee_kheswa
    @lee_kheswa Рік тому +17

    Namhla is so beautiful bethuna,she's giving black American Girly😍❤️

  • @itumelengmbane5922
    @itumelengmbane5922 Рік тому +37

    YAAAAS to healthy female friendship Sana 🤌🏽🔥🤗

  • @SimplyNoxoloSangweni
    @SimplyNoxoloSangweni Рік тому +23

    I think people become a bit insecure when they're friends start making friends with others out of fear that they'll share what they told them with their new friends. 🤔

  • @naturalhairtee
    @naturalhairtee Рік тому +6

    Namhla is beautiful, calm and ufanele uku accommodata any type of person.

  • @kabelo_m
    @kabelo_m Рік тому +18

    The "What is this hunny?" line kills me each time Namhla says it 😂 I laugh each time you guys say "chile" 🤣

  • @Nasiphii_M
    @Nasiphii_M Рік тому +7

    Love how zizi touched on friendships and communication esp during a changing season for either one. Owu and jealousy .

  • @lucianashwa5711
    @lucianashwa5711 Рік тому +4

    been staring at Namhlas eyes the whole time. what a beauty

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      Sana she is breathtakingly beautiful… and has been beautiful for as long as I’ve know her 🥹😍😍😍

  • @nomfundomathebula528
    @nomfundomathebula528 Рік тому +8

    Yes Namhla is soooo gorgeous ! 😍

  • @OyamaMgojo
    @OyamaMgojo Рік тому +25

    I love how Zizi addressed jealousy in this sit down, truly quite a sobering view on it❤️.
    I love the chemistry you both have, ingathi nizalwa kunye maarn🥰❤️such a godly and beautiful friendship.

  • @nm9285
    @nm9285 Рік тому +6

    Sabaweli a friend I can FaceTime daily, that's where I am in my life.

  • @thandekandlovu5135
    @thandekandlovu5135 Рік тому +4

    How gorgeous is Namhla though ❤️❤️❤️ She has this natural, timeless beauty, absolutely mesmerizing 😍😍😍

  • @mphojennytau4494
    @mphojennytau4494 Рік тому +5

    Honestly been so cool seeing the person on the other side of the "hello my dear" phone calls 😂❤️

  • @ELamy802
    @ELamy802 Рік тому +9

    First of all, you ladies are gorgeous 😍. I love to see healthy female relationships because female relationships are Needed between Women, especially as they relate to cultivating our Femininity.

  • @thinanonjezi
    @thinanonjezi Рік тому +9

    I love you ladies❤… it’s true that we need other people in our lives, one person can’t fulfil our every need.

  • @NanoM88
    @NanoM88 Рік тому +5

    Zizi, so beautiful and expressive. A girl who knows herself❤️.

  • @kealeboga4374
    @kealeboga4374 Рік тому +17

    I love you ladies and your friendship ❤️ I aspire to have a friendships like this.

  • @Tshego_LIVE
    @Tshego_LIVE Рік тому +6

    Zizi is so well spoken. I could listen to her speak all day everyday! Lol😂❤️
    On the topic at hand- I'm 28 and I'm struggling with friendships esp. with those that I had in my late high school years and throughout tertiary . For the most part, I feel like we have significantly grown apart while with some I feel like we lack effort.
    I really think effort is the key for every successful and lasting relationship. So I do try but with some I think it's ok to let them go.
    Thoroughly enjoying these sit-downs/collabos. You guys are a powerful Duo. Very relatable too. 💕

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому +3

      Thank you sissy… we really appreciate you watching…. 😘😘❤️
      I think it’s also okay to create brand new friendships in our 20s, 30s and beyond… so don’t feel bad about moving on from friendships that didn’t work out…. ❤️ it’s perfectly okay….
      But you’re right, investment is crucial to grow and/or sustain any type of friendship, including friendships 😘😘❤️

  • @lebohangntshiba7523
    @lebohangntshiba7523 Рік тому +7

    Zizi you are so expressive🥰🥰

  • @EverHopeful555
    @EverHopeful555 Рік тому +3

    Girly friendships are up ⬆️💕

  • @VoVo551
    @VoVo551 9 місяців тому

    Loved that response about "being jealous of each other's extra friendships"

  • @ntombizondi350
    @ntombizondi350 Рік тому +4

    This was so beautiful to watch,we don’t see a lot of such authentic friendships anymore. I love you ladies ❤️

  • @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa
    @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa Рік тому +6

    Hayke hayke I'm obsessed when Zizi said Doctor xa ebiza indoda ka Namhla...I was like 🥺🥺🥺 hayi kwakuhle kwenu...a lawyer husband for Zizi...no Doc for Namhla...love that ❤️

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 Рік тому +3

    I looove how namhla says "chile"😂😂gets me everytime

  • @Amahle361
    @Amahle361 Рік тому +1

    That jealous part you talked about Zizi, is very important cc. Many if not all of us have that but we need to find a way to deal with it.

  • @phumi4950
    @phumi4950 Рік тому +4

    This was refreshing. I haven't watched much friendship content. It's really nice to see and learn from.
    Siyabonga ladies.

  • @tsamaisomphaga4673
    @tsamaisomphaga4673 Рік тому +9

    Loved this chat ladies ❤ so imperative and encouraging. Makes me want to be a better friend.

  • @thembelihlevivian435
    @thembelihlevivian435 Рік тому +3

    Praying for a bestie this year 🙏🏾

  • @chwayitamgobo1386
    @chwayitamgobo1386 Рік тому +6

    The most beautiful girls, inside and out 😊❤ This video made me so happy 🥰

  • @matshidisomolete1906
    @matshidisomolete1906 Рік тому +4

    Love the friendship content! There's so much content on romantic relationships out there that we tend to forget that friendships are also relationships that need to be nurtured and that one needs to be intentional about it.

  • @RoseDinizDeMoura
    @RoseDinizDeMoura Рік тому +10

    Hey Darling,
    Yesss darling, I am so here for this Q&A…
    You and uNamhla reminds me of my bestie and I, it’s amazing..
    Love All The Way From Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @avympikeleli7575
    @avympikeleli7575 Рік тому +2

    Namhla is so emotionally intelligent, thanks ladies.

  • @khanyisa.makanya7023
    @khanyisa.makanya7023 Рік тому +2

    i love how you look at her your love for each other is soo genuine😍😍😍

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому +1

      Soulmates honestly🥹🥹🥹😍😍😍

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M Рік тому +13

    I feel like the only time I get to see Zizi true character is when she’s with Namhla, she’s the reason why I think I know her better than before

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M Рік тому +4

    I love them❤ seeing them in just one go is something else, I’m just smiling and looking at them, I don’t even know what to say

  • @ntsoakimatlabe5611
    @ntsoakimatlabe5611 Рік тому +2

    What a wholesome chat. I absolutely love you ladies💜

  • @grannyditlhake2051
    @grannyditlhake2051 Рік тому +9

    Noo Zizi can talk 😂😂😂Haikhona🤣and uNamhla is the calm one 😊I love your relationship

    • @Poshkin24
      @Poshkin24 Рік тому

      Yho😂 ilove her❤️

  • @philisiwemthembu1980
    @philisiwemthembu1980 Рік тому +4

    I genuinely love me Zizi and Namhla's friendship,these ladies friendship in style,class and elegantly Yoh Sbwl 😍❤️

  • @Storm-ng4re
    @Storm-ng4re Рік тому +5

    I took your questions and asked my bestie too, our answers are really similar to yours.
    You guys remind me of what I have with my best friend

  • @zotandomtsana3994
    @zotandomtsana3994 Рік тому +3

    This made me evaluate my self, introspect my self as to what kind of a friend am i... i took this very personal...... Thank you ladies nibahle maarn n i know ninuka kamandi😍😘

  • @melanieginindza3985
    @melanieginindza3985 Рік тому +3

    This friendship is everything….angisa sabaweli ukuba ne friendship enje😂😂😂😂 “Don’t worry” in Namhlas voice😂😂😂
    I love how expressive Zizi is…
    And you both beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @fitbyfelz9271
    @fitbyfelz9271 Рік тому +4

    Lol Namhla is me, I am Namhla. Literally agreeing with her on all the points. ie checking out, being non confrontational, being the friend who goes mia. 😂🙈 but also love how Zizi wears her heart on her sleeve.❤️

  • @nokwandatongo9360
    @nokwandatongo9360 Рік тому +3

    My bestie referred me to this channel! I am definitely subscribing. I love your friendship and I'm taking some notes to apply on my friendship.

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      So glad your bestie shared this with you sissy… I hope you enjoy the content going forward 😘😘❤️

  • @Tebelelihle_Nxumalo
    @Tebelelihle_Nxumalo Рік тому +5

    I love the both of you so much❤I thank Namhla for introducing me to you ❤️

  • @kaybobie813
    @kaybobie813 Рік тому +15

    Namhla brings out such a different side to you and it’s so beautiful to watch🥺oh intle into yenu ♥️

  • @nonjabuloinnocentia2883
    @nonjabuloinnocentia2883 Рік тому +3

    This is therapeutic I won't lie I now y I have fallen out on a lot of friendships....I love your relationship guys. I also agree that as friends you need to have a similar sense of humor and want the best for eachother. I once had a beastie now we r jst friends and I dnt think we could ever get to that place again but we do have love eachother.I also believe me having a child had an impact on the relationship we couldn't relate to eachother anymore and she a child and I think she gets the whole thing

  • @NwaThemba
    @NwaThemba Рік тому +4

    Enjoyed this so much…..absolutely love you guys and so encouraged by your friendship ❤️

  • @givenmahlangu1266
    @givenmahlangu1266 Рік тому +2

    Ag man I loved this. Friendships are our other soulmates in this journey of life. It was beautiful to watch ❤

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Рік тому +2

    This was so beautiful to watch❤Girl friendships are where it's at

  • @simplykatm
    @simplykatm Рік тому +2

    Enjoyed every and each moment keh my dears. Yhooo kwaze kwa mnandi, seeing healthy friendships 😍

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      Thank you wethu dhiye 🥹😍😍😍 we really appreciate you watching

  • @portiamotileni7902
    @portiamotileni7902 Рік тому +3

    LOVED and ENJOYED this! ❤️

  • @nomvelobuswana
    @nomvelobuswana Рік тому +8

    Love you ladies♥️ Namhla unendawo that resembles Sarah Jakes Roberts 🥹

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo Рік тому +4

    The Lord is sovereign ❤️

  • @onkabetsetlhapi6407
    @onkabetsetlhapi6407 Рік тому +2

    Sooo wholesome 🥹 love you ladies together and individually 🤗🤗

  • @mbalihlatshwayo2969
    @mbalihlatshwayo2969 Рік тому +2

    You ladies are so wise 👏🏾👏🏾Thank you so much for the authenticity. I felt like my sentiments were echoed and what a beautiful friendship to witness🥺 thank you so much for this video. It was so empowering, I absolutely loved it❤️❤️❤️ can’t even highlight a single thing because the entire video was everything and more!!!

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      🥺🥺😘 I’m so so happy you found it valuable sissy….
      And we really appreciate you watching 😘❤️

  • @lebogangpheko893
    @lebogangpheko893 Рік тому +5

    So so happy, been waiting for dis @Mrs Moloko💕💐💯🤗😘❤️

  • @boitumeloramosa1456
    @boitumeloramosa1456 Рік тому +2

    This was a beautiful video guys, really enjoyed watching you ladies plus your both so gorgeous.
    Namhla is right, it was therapeutic and i healed and learned a lot about love and friendships.

  • @akhonaqokolwana5201
    @akhonaqokolwana5201 Рік тому +2

    You guys are so genuine ❤️. "SI COMMUNICATE NTOMBI" Loved that line.🤗

  • @preciousmedupe4564
    @preciousmedupe4564 Рік тому +2

    This friendship is so beautiful. I love you two so much

  • @luludamba2153
    @luludamba2153 Рік тому +1

    Love this ....ndim no zikhona ....healthy friendships God centered haibo sifuna ntoni enye

  • @ZolaN_24
    @ZolaN_24 Рік тому +2

    What a beautiful and refreshing friendship 💕

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 Рік тому +2

    May God continue to bless and protect this friendship❤🥺

  • @thapelotolamo2487
    @thapelotolamo2487 Рік тому +3

    Zizi's sense of humor 🤣 😂 love the friendship

  • @mslettiemathibe71
    @mslettiemathibe71 Рік тому +3

    Love your friendship so so much and wish yall all the best

  • @nontuthukosanelisiwe8355
    @nontuthukosanelisiwe8355 Рік тому

    Zizii is more lound koda beautiful to watch, I love your friends

  • @zenandepali9419
    @zenandepali9419 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful friendship you guys!! Love this❤️

  • @luyandagazu9619
    @luyandagazu9619 Рік тому +3

    Her smile🤗🤗🤗♥️I love it

  • @maseramemolumo1440
    @maseramemolumo1440 Рік тому +3

    Goooosh I don’t know why I delayed watching this one
    Personally I took so much from it especially on how I can be a better friend ♥️

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      So glad you found it useful sissy…. 🥹🥹😘❤️
      Thank you for watching

  • @gomotsangmanja5354
    @gomotsangmanja5354 Рік тому +9

    Praying for this kind of friendship 🥺❤️

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      🥺🥺🥺❤️ Amen to that prayer sissy…. ❤️

  • @babsiesankobe182
    @babsiesankobe182 Рік тому +4

    Really enjoyed watching this video, it reminded me of my friendship with my bestie.

  • @noloyisogcilitshana3612
    @noloyisogcilitshana3612 Рік тому +1

    Wish I could like this one a billion times...therapeutic indeed👌

  • @olunjengudle3199
    @olunjengudle3199 Рік тому +3

    Thank God I was dying already, ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😂😂😂

  • @lebogangpheko893
    @lebogangpheko893 Рік тому +1

    We are in, compliments my Diye 💯😘💕💐🤗

  • @angayozi4212
    @angayozi4212 Рік тому +1

    The prettiest girls in the whole of mzansi ke sana

  • @ayandamtyebi6825
    @ayandamtyebi6825 Рік тому +1

    Love this friendship ❤. The friendship is genuine and love based.

  • @Lizmhlamnyane2604
    @Lizmhlamnyane2604 Рік тому

    Thank you Mrs Moloko, I love you ❤

  • @kellyjoseph7448
    @kellyjoseph7448 10 місяців тому

    batho i so love Zizi. You ladies are out of this world...

  • @lindelanibuhlenkeiiykhunou9719

    yu are such a 'my husband ' type of wife. i love to see it❤❤

  • @phiwokuhlegumbi5716
    @phiwokuhlegumbi5716 Рік тому +2

    This was so fun. I love your friendship 💐🔥😍

  • @thashmfiki161
    @thashmfiki161 Рік тому +4

    If we were to play a game of "Drink every time either the one of the girls says "Ja"" 🤣🤣🤣 we would not make it through the video

  • @Zintle
    @Zintle Рік тому +2

    Your unison laughs make me so happy 😂😂❤

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 Рік тому +1

    I love what Namhla said about sometimes u just check out of the conversation,u know agree to disagree,because it be like that gore in as much as we friends we can have different opinions and thats ok...we respect each other and move on ot doesn't have to ne a train smash..it's not always about being right

  • @nthabisengbrown
    @nthabisengbrown Рік тому +4

    I genuinely enjoyed this video, I honestly learned a lot thanks for your honesty 🥰

  • @veehlwatika3082
    @veehlwatika3082 Рік тому +2

    I loved this video! Friendship is so precious🥰❤

  • @germinahtlhoaele5634
    @germinahtlhoaele5634 8 місяців тому

    Your frienship made me cry its genuine I wish I had that but people like me for my helps only😢

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 Рік тому +1

    Wow I enjoyed this thank you ladies and nibahle 💚💓I've learn something too I don't talk a lot with my friend and I think it's really affect our closeness so per say🤔so yah I'm going to share this video to them

  • @nontobekotau9773
    @nontobekotau9773 Рік тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video so much and I feel like I got to know more about you.

  • @nellynelly4577
    @nellynelly4577 Рік тому +2

    Your friendship is so cute and very encouraging guy and I learn something new every time I watch ivlogs zenu ❤

  • @kwenam796
    @kwenam796 4 місяці тому

    This is my favorite video 😂😂❤❤I keep on coming back

  • @minnydinga1074
    @minnydinga1074 Рік тому +1

    Throughly enjoyed this video. It made me miss my bestie who recently relocated to another province after 10 years of leaving 5mins away from each other😮‍💨

  • @Somia_Mhlophe
    @Somia_Mhlophe Рік тому +3

    best video I've watched all day, this is lovely ladies❤❤you two remind me of my best friends🤣

  • @busishauntelle
    @busishauntelle Рік тому +1

    Healthy friendships ❤❤ This was beautiful to watch

  • @isabellasekgabi6111
    @isabellasekgabi6111 Рік тому +2

    Yoh this is soo beautiful 😭❤️..... I definitely Sbwl such a friendship

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому

      ❤️❤️🙏🏾 it’s possible sissy… as long as you’re willing to invest and you find women who are also willing to invest 😘❤️

  • @fikiledhlame9550
    @fikiledhlame9550 Рік тому +1

    I enjoyed this conversation. 😊 Thank you ladies ❤

  • @preciouschauke3109
    @preciouschauke3109 Рік тому +4

    I enjoyed watching this video so much 🥺🥰 you guys have such a beautiful friendship. I pray that God will keep you both and your beautiful friendship 😊❤️❤️

  • @kawentandokazi
    @kawentandokazi Рік тому +2

    Sana, what a beautiful friendship 🥰🥰 they way you guys laugh, it feels so genuine isuka kumazantsi entliziyo zenu. Truly enjoyed watching this video, andisanithandi ke sanas ❤️❤️❤️

  • @naledilillygqibela3652
    @naledilillygqibela3652 Рік тому +1

    My absolute favs bethuna ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sessyphiri3321
    @sessyphiri3321 Рік тому +1

    I resonate much with Namhla’s point of view so much while learning a lot from Zizi..❤️☺️

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  Рік тому +1

      So glad you were able to find valuable in both of us sissy…. 😘😘🌸
      Be sure to also subscribe to Namhla’s channel, maybe you’ll relate to her a lot 😘❤️

    • @sessyphiri3321
      @sessyphiri3321 Рік тому

      @@zizi_moloko subscribed..