A woman going to the club is equivalent to a woman who goes to the grocery store even though she has a stocked refrigerator and freezer. She never count out her chances of stumbling across a sale.
I'm at an age where I don't even put in the effort to assume if they're lying or not. Completely irrelevant to me. If she goes to clubs she's not for me... it's really that simple lol. I'm not doing all the back & forth with her saying "Well what if I'm just with my friends" and "If you go to the club with me then..." Nah. If she doesn't fit a certain criteria as to how she carries herself and the things she finds to be "fun" then I don't need her to try to convince me otherwise.
They Go and Get tipsy TO CHANGE THE RULES bro. Coz they wanted to , it is planned 98% of the time. That's why they fight tooth an nail for "Clubbing & Partying" which generally is a Hook-up Arena for attractive men.
I'll let you in on something. When a woman wants to be with you she'll wear a mask. Hide the demon inside, the moment you drop your guard she'll let it out and then she'll play with you. Facts
“Yeah the man that is right for me will let me run wild do whatever I want and keep my options open while he sticks to a strict list of behaviors I set for him” 😂 This generation is so cooked
Especially because TikTok and other people with podcasts are reacting to videos of women complaining about clubs being void of men. Why would you complain if you usually just dance with your friends anyway? It's because you are not getting the validation you go out for.
Women thinking they can’t be swept off their feet when they’re drinking at the club with her friends, who in many cases would encourage her to cheat, is a huge red flag.
I think the word missing here is the fact it's a *"preventative"* measure. They're talking about victim-blaming as if the issue isn't trying to *prevent* the victim situation from EVER happening. Put it that way. You ask them if it's a good thing that "the guy" is trying *to PREVENT* the victim situation from happening by _not_ being there in the first place.
Now ask these same women if they're okay with their man going to the Strip Club (or The Bunny Ranch) every week. Watch how their answers change real quick when they're in a position to potentially lose access to a mans financial resources.
Just don't even go to the clubs.That's something you do when you are real young and single. ] When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. [12] For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
Facts is..... before you move to the next level with anyone please be mature enough to naturally change maturely due to the facts of already knowing the importance of change for someone you love!!!!!... if you expect it you set the tone by taking the actions yourself as much as talking... love shows and not just talk... disrespect is disrespect point blank❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's called putting yourself in better positions than worse positions or precarious situations in order to protect yourself. Mind-body, heart soul and your significant other and more family or any one that you care about. Let alone yourself we can be our greatest enemy or we could be our greatest asset. So in terms he's telling people. And individual, ladies and he could be talking to men. Sometimes too about this. Make better choices by not putting yourself in those positions so that you can come home safe without the stresses of outside world and individuals in it because they don't have the wisdom that you have gained to be smarter than your choices. This is the pursuit of life you grow through these changes in order. To become better at the things you were not good at
It's not excepting you for you as the lady you are , it is him not wanting anything to disrupt the relationship between you both so it can last and hopefully forever and be preserved and you also can set an example in goodness for others to see 😊
Mom goes to the club, even after 27 yrs. of marriage. Why are we questioning the daughter's behavior? Plain & Simple. (Poor Dad... Unless Mom & Dad both have "side pieces". Ha ha ha.) LOVE YOUR CHANNEL! Thanks! Take Care!😻
This is dumb it has nothing to do with being insecure it’s the fact your going into a toxic single environment entertaining other men while being in a relationship and on top of that your making his job as a protector harder just so you can be a street walker
I want to come to one of these ! How is it insecure for a man to want his woman to have respect for him by staying in or doing other activities. Other then activities single ppl do! 🙄👀 Im not going out to no club like Im single when I get attention at the grocery store the gas station imagine a club!? Just respect your man and stop risking those situations!
Its like running out in traffic and then getting run over. They'll blame the driver for not paying attention and not stopping in time rather than themselves for doing the action. Its such bs.
Can’t stop laughing when Cooley says “very” or prefer or any word with an emphasis on the “R”. Fucking hilarious. No hate, you got a good podcast Cooley.
Her mom going to the club vs her going to the club is a difference, ain’t nobody checking for her moms like they wold be checking for her. The threat is minimal for a man to take or pursue her mom
My girl goes out like 2 or 3 times a year 😂 we have a 7yr old I’m thankful that she doesn’t wanna go out every weekend like some of the girls I use to date.
“But we didn’t ask for that”.. yeah, we don’t ask to get robbed at knife point while walking home at night but guess what, bad people do bad things. So we take the necessary precautions. Life isn’t about what people SHOULD do.
Men pls stop trying to police these 304's if she wants to go out with other female friends ect. She is not gf damn sure not wife material save yourself the trouble
The obvious concern is that at any moment that drinking can and will lower a womens' inhibitions and make her more susepectible to men touching and approaching her. The potential for a bad outcome is multiplied and why do that to your man? Hes not even there to protect you.
Saying a man should accept you the way you are is like saying you should accept him for who he is when you agree to date him. Whether he is an alcoholic or functional drug addict or only fans addicted in his spare time, with random ticks of unprovoked outbursts...., Even though he ticks all the boxes of a masculine, confident, tall, swagged up and charming entrepreneur slash businessman.
Regardless of age or how long someone has been together a men will not take the chance his women he love go out to become a victim of a situation to put him in
So…you ask these girls a question and they disagree from their illogical POV. Let them talk in circles then they agree yet they want men to be honest smh
Ill talk down on her dad right now...if she's going to the club STILL in her 50s, she's been doing it since they've been together. Therefore she probably never respected him if he said no. So in turn that stands on Cooley point of a guy knows his ability to what he can tell her to do and what he cant. Her dad clearly knew he was the weaker one in the relationship and she did what she pleased.
Her man absolutely cares about her going out. He’s either too insecure to tell her it’s not ok or she’s recreational use only and will never get the 💍.
🤔This woman is saying that her man does put his foot down and she obeys the command. So if that's the case what is her argument because she wouldn't have one in that scenario.🤷 Either she's going to the club with or without conflict. It can't be both ways unless she's a liar.😳
@@ageesecliff7070 Facts and she strikes me as a woman who's combative. I can't envision any man being able to tell her what she can and cannot do if i'm being honest.🤔
If that lady‘s mom who is nearly 50 is going out clubbing with her female friends, I guarantee she wouldn’t pass a lie detector test she would’ve cheated on her husband several times.
Those ladies would just bring drama and chaos into your life. They’re not worth spending a night with never mind a full on relationship. You would have absolutely no peace and serenity in a relationship with women like this.
Y'all gotta fix that "YOUR" in the thumbnail. It's supposed to be "YOU ARE" which turns into YOU'RE. Seems petty, but it really is important when people are publicly reading something.
Eve represents every woman and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil represents the club. Eve was deceived; I guess that the lesson was not learned.
Eve wasn’t deceived. Women are less gullible than men, their lives depend on it. Eve got the pass she needed (“someone else to blame”) to do what she wanted to do anyway.
Women should only enhance your life. Like an occasional ghost pepper. They act right only when they’re a guest. Don’t let one move in and don’t marry one. Ever. “Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat, if you feel the heat around the corner.” - Neil McCauley
Although you hitting gem 💎 Folks in the black shirt 👕 have to allow the brother in the white shirt 👕 finish his points!! Even if the females cut him off you 🫵🏼 in the black allow him to have his finish say!!!!!
Brothers simple if ur girl LIKES to go out to the club and also calls u INSECURE for not allowing her, Just DONT and NEVER take her seriously- Recreational USE ONLY fellas😂😂😂I would never want that to be the mother of my kids😅
A woman going to the club is equivalent to a woman who goes to the grocery store even though she has a stocked refrigerator and freezer. She never count out her chances of stumbling across a sale.
[Woman] "Ohhh, salami is on sale this week... don't mind if I do!"
😂😂😂😂 That is a funny way to look at it!
Once a female tells me she goes to the club just to have a good time with her girl. I stop listening cause they're LYING.
I'm at an age where I don't even put in the effort to assume if they're lying or not. Completely irrelevant to me. If she goes to clubs she's not for me... it's really that simple lol.
I'm not doing all the back & forth with her saying "Well what if I'm just with my friends" and "If you go to the club with me then..."
Nah.
If she doesn't fit a certain criteria as to how she carries herself and the things she finds to be "fun" then I don't need her to try to convince me otherwise.
@justinp9170 I agree, but that one conversation saying both things.
They go for the attention!
Once they get a little tipsy, the rules change I have seen it hundreds of times
Super facts soon as them drinks 🍸 kick in they get super loose no cap
They Go and Get tipsy TO CHANGE THE RULES bro. Coz they wanted to , it is planned 98% of the time. That's why they fight tooth an nail for "Clubbing & Partying" which generally is a Hook-up Arena for attractive men.
and add molly, ox and tucci into the mix😂😂😂
@@Epsilon514 then it turns into a Diddy party 😂
This insecurity shit needs to stop. 50% of married men were secure until they got the divorce papers.
word
I'll let you in on something. When a woman wants to be with you she'll wear a mask. Hide the demon inside, the moment you drop your guard she'll let it out and then she'll play with you. Facts
So she just stays at home all the time ?
@@buki3009 Don't be in a relationship. If you don't want to put in the work, don't apply for the job.
@@buki3009Or she can be an intelligent human being and develop real interests.
Going out clubbing is for the dumb
“Yeah the man that is right for me will let me run wild do whatever I want and keep my options open while he sticks to a strict list of behaviors I set for him” 😂 This generation is so cooked
“The vibes” 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Can't stand that " we have to feel the vibes" then you ask them what it is they can't even explain it
Womans favorite line "if your insecure just say that" 🤣🤣
That girls dad who allows his wife to go to the club is a minority of men. Majority won't.
100% a beta ... and 50 y/o mom is a thot. point blank period
Every woman in the world says they don’t do anything at the club. It’s BS they’re lying
4 real
Especially because TikTok and other people with podcasts are reacting to videos of women complaining about clubs being void of men. Why would you complain if you usually just dance with your friends anyway? It's because you are not getting the validation you go out for.
@@mazengwe28 would they go to an all female club? Helnaw
@@ImThePrizeXYExactly.
All males are cheating b4 they even leave their wife at home to go to the clubs!!!!
She wearing red, she a red flag
Women thinking they can’t be swept off their feet when they’re drinking at the club with her friends, who in many cases would encourage her to cheat, is a huge red flag.
Calling a man insecure because he doesnt want his girl to go out is like calling a dog overly protective because of potential danger.
These girls are stressful 🤦🏽♀️
I think the word missing here is the fact it's a *"preventative"* measure.
They're talking about victim-blaming as if the issue isn't trying to *prevent* the victim situation from EVER happening.
Put it that way.
You ask them if it's a good thing that "the guy" is trying *to PREVENT* the victim situation from happening by _not_ being there in the first place.
Now ask these same women if they're okay with their man going to the Strip Club (or The Bunny Ranch) every week. Watch how their answers change real quick when they're in a position to potentially lose access to a mans financial resources.
This right here! ☝🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
"You're Insecure" not "Your"
If you have to tell them, it’s a wrap!
She works at a bar how much more social she need??
They always need to be out and around people
Just don't even go to the clubs.That's something you do when you are real young and single. ] When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. [12] For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
Facts is..... before you move to the next level with anyone please be mature enough to naturally change maturely due to the facts of already knowing the importance of change for someone you love!!!!!... if you expect it you set the tone by taking the actions yourself as much as talking... love shows and not just talk... disrespect is disrespect point blank❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's called putting yourself in better positions than worse positions or precarious situations in order to protect yourself. Mind-body, heart soul and your significant other and more family or any one that you care about. Let alone yourself we can be our greatest enemy or we could be our greatest asset. So in terms he's telling people. And individual, ladies and he could be talking to men. Sometimes too about this. Make better choices by not putting yourself in those positions so that you can come home safe without the stresses of outside world and individuals in it because they don't have the wisdom that you have gained to be smarter than your choices. This is the pursuit of life you grow through these changes in order. To become better at the things you were not good at
It's not excepting you for you as the lady you are , it is him not wanting anything to disrupt the relationship between you both so it can last and hopefully forever and be preserved and you also can set an example in goodness for others to see 😊
If a woman has a man but still wants to go to the club it’s because she wants to advertise herself to see if she can find a better fish in the sea.
Club, girls trip 🚩
Club and Girls trip.. Biggest red flags
Simply disrespectful. Don't go places like clubs & related places without your Man.
“Clearly i dont have a father” bruh😂 start listening then
Run Jamal Run!!!!😂
For a girl to like going out says single vibes not relationship. & I say girl because a Woman wouldn't dare😂😂😂
Great show Cooley 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Love this episode
They dont even believe what theyre saying...
Mom goes to the club, even after 27 yrs. of marriage.
Why are we questioning the daughter's behavior?
Plain & Simple.
(Poor Dad... Unless Mom & Dad both have "side pieces". Ha ha ha.)
LOVE YOUR CHANNEL! Thanks! Take Care!😻
He has a point
Why be in a relationship if you want to go to a club?
The Cruela hairstyle is killing me. Shes serious. 😂
Why every advertisement telling me im struggling with debts yet all im trying to do is watch a dam video 😂
This is dumb it has nothing to do with being insecure it’s the fact your going into a toxic single environment entertaining other men while being in a relationship and on top of that your making his job as a protector harder just so you can be a street walker
The black and white hair is really bothering me for some reason.
You got my like when you said perspicacious
I want to come to one of these ! How is it insecure for a man to want his woman to have respect for him by staying in or doing other activities. Other then activities single ppl do! 🙄👀 Im not going out to no club like Im single when I get attention at the grocery store the gas station imagine a club!? Just respect your man and stop risking those situations!
Man dropped the word "perspicacious". These women don't know the definition of that word.
If you thought I was the right b**ch, pushing me in those fatherly directions type shit? This is genuine discussion…
Its like running out in traffic and then getting run over. They'll blame the driver for not paying attention and not stopping in time rather than themselves for doing the action. Its such bs.
Insecurity is not based on your behavior boo.
Girl in red top is allowed to go out bc she is not all that good looking. She on boy's rotation
i feel sorry for dudes... yall tolerating this lol
I can’t wait
They like to go clubbing 'cause they ever, ever have in mind they could meet somebody better then her boyfriend.
😂😂 yoooo misspelling you’re is wild! Giving all this life advice but can’t spell properly
All them 304s lying,
Can’t stop laughing when Cooley says “very” or prefer or any word with an emphasis on the “R”. Fucking hilarious. No hate, you got a good podcast Cooley.
In addition, them doing what they want (clubs, girls trips, etc), and dressing how they want... Is NOT love. It's selfish.
Her mom going to the club vs her going to the club is a difference, ain’t nobody checking for her moms like they wold be checking for her. The threat is minimal for a man to take or pursue her mom
Very true, but mom's still a thot for trying
They do this intentionally 🤦🏾♂️.
My girl goes out like 2 or 3 times a year 😂 we have a 7yr old I’m thankful that she doesn’t wanna go out every weekend like some of the girls I use to date.
If your woman likes going out having a good time means she doesn't work and have time to cheat
Our fathers need to step it up, these kids are lost
They think it's a guy being insecure, when women need to understand it's a security stand point that the man is coming from
GODDAMN y’all letting these girls cap too much en talk too much saying nothing wtf❗️
Misspelled title captions? Come on….
“But we didn’t ask for that”.. yeah, we don’t ask to get robbed at knife point while walking home at night but guess what, bad people do bad things. So we take the necessary precautions. Life isn’t about what people SHOULD do.
Dam ya lady's are getting it now
We are protectors of our girls
Men pls stop trying to police these 304's if she wants to go out with other female friends ect. She is not gf damn sure not wife material save yourself the trouble
The obvious concern is that at any moment that drinking can and will lower a womens' inhibitions and make her more susepectible to men touching and approaching her. The potential for a bad outcome is multiplied and why do that to your man? Hes not even there to protect you.
Saying a man should accept you the way you are is like saying you should accept him for who he is when you agree to date him. Whether he is an alcoholic or functional drug addict or only fans addicted in his spare time, with random ticks of unprovoked outbursts...., Even though he ticks all the boxes of a masculine, confident, tall, swagged up and charming entrepreneur slash businessman.
Regardless of age or how long someone has been together a men will not take the chance his women he love go out to become a victim of a situation to put him in
Red shirt capping
So…you ask these girls a question and they disagree from their illogical POV. Let them talk in circles then they agree yet they want men to be honest smh
It's you're not your
Haaa Cooley always cut his man off.
1:01 And I was told that I'm negative and insecure for thinking men go to clubs just to hook up with women. Thank you for confirming that Cooley
Ill talk down on her dad right now...if she's going to the club STILL in her 50s, she's been doing it since they've been together. Therefore she probably never respected him if he said no. So in turn that stands on Cooley point of a guy knows his ability to what he can tell her to do and what he cant. Her dad clearly knew he was the weaker one in the relationship and she did what she pleased.
Her man absolutely cares about her going out. He’s either too insecure to tell her it’s not ok or she’s recreational use only and will never get the 💍.
I wish women could understand that. Their man knows other men
just be single
*You're .. fix the thumbnail, it's embarrassing.
Mr host let the cohost speak as well. You keep cutting him all the time on every show.
Jamal!!
That girl momma been stepping out on her daddy for years😂😂😂 Ik too many women who club like that at that age range 😂😂😂
I 2nd that
The lady in red laughs 2:15, she knows she’s there to get hit on. Asks is it a red flag if a girls likes to go out. She’s for the streets
🤔This woman is saying that her man does put his foot down and she obeys the command. So if that's the case what is her argument because she wouldn't have one in that scenario.🤷 Either she's going to the club with or without conflict. It can't be both ways unless she's a liar.😳
she's def a liar
@@ageesecliff7070 Facts and she strikes me as a woman who's combative. I can't envision any man being able to tell her what she can and cannot do if i'm being honest.🤔
@17:10 the 304 real said "lead me, but don't lead me when I don't want to be led"...
I'd allow it as long as my money isn't paying for it
If that lady‘s mom who is nearly 50 is going out clubbing with her female friends, I guarantee she wouldn’t pass a lie detector test she would’ve cheated on her husband several times.
Those ladies would just bring drama and chaos into your life. They’re not worth spending a night with never mind a full on relationship. You would have absolutely no peace and serenity in a relationship with women like this.
Bish go! 😂😂😂
Y'all gotta fix that "YOUR" in the thumbnail. It's supposed to be "YOU ARE" which turns into YOU'RE. Seems petty, but it really is important when people are publicly reading something.
Loool imagine begging to be 304
Eve represents every woman and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil represents the club. Eve was deceived; I guess that the lesson was not learned.
Eve wasn’t deceived. Women are less gullible than men, their lives depend on it. Eve got the pass she needed (“someone else to blame”) to do what she wanted to do anyway.
Women should only enhance your life. Like an occasional ghost pepper. They act right only when they’re a guest.
Don’t let one move in and don’t marry one.
Ever.
“Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat, if you feel the heat around the corner.”
- Neil McCauley
Although you hitting gem 💎
Folks in the black shirt 👕 have to allow the brother in the white shirt 👕 finish his points!! Even if the females cut him off you 🫵🏼 in the black allow him to have his finish say!!!!!
Me me me me me..., move the goal post
Brothers simple if ur girl LIKES to go out to the club and also calls u INSECURE for not allowing her,
Just DONT and NEVER take her seriously- Recreational USE ONLY fellas😂😂😂I would never want that to be the mother of my kids😅
It's not about insecurity it's about respect duh !!
Every time I listen to these women I lose a little bit of hope. It's sad..
don't lose hope brotha there's still good ones out there just harder to find
If your woman goes to clubs without you she's looking for the attention of other men, full stop.
Can’t hear shit over everyone talking at once. It’s crazy
they doing a whiole lotta yapping
I feel like my Dalmatian got loose
Feel?