She can't control her spending, can't control her emotions, she can't take responsibility for her actions and she blames everyone else for her mistakes. Nothing to miss here?
If you’re woman disrespects you once, its up to you to put a stop to it and shut it down. Dont feel bad for making her feel bad, dont falter and stand your ground and trust me she will respect you more since you showed her you are willing to bite back
You disrespected him in front of others and I'm sure if you did it there you do it at home. There is a saying...." no matter how good looking a woman is, somewhere there's someone whos had enough of her bullshit" guess you found that line in the sand and decided it was ok to cross it.
Humiliating someone in front of others is "A line in the sand" for many. Obviously the OP in this story was used to getting her own way. Her lack of introspection and apparently lack of empathy speaks volumes about the level of intelligence.
women marry men they feel they can control and hate the fact that these men dont stand up for themselves and accept the abuse, then all of a sudden one day he brakes but at that point it's too late to fix the problem cause the problem can't, wont and will never be fixed.
It is not what she said. It is all the times that she spent too much where she didn't give a shit and he had to clean it up. Disrespect is the step too far in a relationship. The only way to get past that is to leave that person to fix themselves. I'm sorry is hollow. You don't appreciate him when you disrespect him. She is the problem.
You have been '' piling '' things on him and he did endure the weight of it all . Just like '' the last straw that broke the camel's back '' he could take it no more -- it broke him completely !
You have no obligation to accept any disrespect from your girl. Most of them never emotionally mature beyond 16. Think of it this way, would you be ok with your best guy friend treating you like crap? No, you might even give him a mouthful of teeth to remember not to do it again.
It really sounds like she have a habit of disrespecting him at home and now her disrespect have now reached in front of people. She's a screw up, and sometimes her screwups are intentional so he can fix it. The old saying that she is going to face. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Yeah paying the bills and making lunches for the kids while he was at work ,yeah you're a self proclaimed hero , but with who's earned sacrifices and money ???
The proper warning is "Do that again and my response will be even more humiliating than this time." There are some things for which it is reasonable to only give a warning the first time; this is not one of them.
This story sucks, "Man Up", because he was not talking? Normally someone would use that statement to get someone/man to concentrate, and deal with the problem at hand. Not when someone is being is not being sociable.
The only thing a man expects from a woman is respect and loyalty. We do not need to be loved. If you are a woman express your love in a form of respect and loyalty, not kisses, hugs and tears.
"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"....... .it's a book written by a psychologist who specialises in marriage relationships. This is something that EVERY person who is contemplating marriage both male and female should read before that final commitment........ Understanding RESPECT.!
@@LawrenceWilliamson-e4p That's incorrect. A Prenup that is reviewed and approved by Both parties lawyers AND is dutifully reviewed by both parties lawyers every two years is solid.
Wow this sounds like my exwife, blowing up the budget, losing to cover shit up. 18 years of a life sentence being married to her. Ugh 16 years of peaceful living after divorce. Thank God
Sometimes these moments produce crystal clarity for understanding the things that will never be fixed. And if I was him knowing you made a tube vid.....ssssshh
That has always stood up for you. You are the one person that he shouldn’t have to stand up to. By virtue of him being your husband, and the vows you took it together before God, he should never have to defend himself to you. You should always should had his back.
man up? She would not have liked that. how about, man up! I work extra shifts to pay for your shopping sprees, I keep the lights on when you hide the overdue notices like a child and they call me at work. I am the one who has to deal with the kids when you promise them something we can't afford! I am tired of being the only adult in the house! This man will look for an adult woman from now on and you are on your own. Nope, she wouldn't want that. Bet the friends didn't buy her " i keep it all together despite my stupid husband " act either.
Why would this guy enable this behavior.. I would have thrown her out well before marriage. She is a piece of crap. This guy was a doormat for years and let her get away with all this idiotic behavior. What an idiot.. he even had kids with her..😂
maybe the guy is a coward too, he too feared he'd lose it all and be alone. in the end he finds his courage? Well it's like you said: where was he all this time?
"Be careful what you ask for: you might get it." When it isn't just bullying, deflection or gas lighting, "Man up" is a call to take decisive action. The person to whom you direct it may take decisive action that you will regret. She can't fix it until she fixes herself. That starts with taking responsibility instead of blame shifting an deflecting.
I thank God every day for my (2nd) wife.... she is the perfect partner. And she is RARE in todays world. That's the SAD part of it. My first one? Was just like this gal, " if there are still checks in the checkbook" kind of stupid money mismanagement... ...she LITERALLY bankrupted me, Federal court and all... and that was the final nail.... I did recover. and Remarried... she remarried to, and bankrupted THAT guy afterwards.. lost his home and everything.. some never learn.
This is what happens when fathers call there daughters princess constantly past lets say past age 9. They create monsters for daughters that no one really likes in the least. Chad good work you have arrived.
This woman is awful. Clearly this woman had a history of verbal and emotional abuse. But her lack of self reflection, deciding he should have to apologize because she felt bad for being crappy to him. That since he's a man, he should be able to take it. Then she tries to lure him into a verbal sparring match to make him say something terrible so she could play the victim. But when he didn't, it started her down the road of accountability.
Respect comes before love. You can't love someone you don't respect. If Chad slapped his wife in public, he would be in jail immediately. When Chad's wife said, "Man up", it was the female, non-physical way of slapping her husband .. in public .. in a humiliating way. What Chad's wife doesn't understand is that her words are simply a reflection of her inner heart attitude towards Chad. What her words show is the marriage is a 1 way street .. period .. full stop.
YES you are the one to blame her, you DO NOT embarrass your husband in front of other people. as his wife you should be there to protect him and guard him , not rip him down in front of other people
OP failed to say the right things after she knew their marriage was in real trouble. She might have saved her marriage if she had given her husband real hope she could change. Then she should have taken full responsibility and admitted she need professional help to change. She needed to show him she truly understands how she has kept hurting him and not done anything to really improve. Actions speak more than words. Maybe her husband would have given her some time with a professional therapist to change her behavior. Instead she became defensive and came up with the same empty words she was sorry without showing him how SHE could change for the better. Regardless of what happened she needs professional help so she can avoid the same mistakes in her next relationship
Even if this is a made up story this woman is a freaking horrible person, he cleans up all her screw ups and keeps soldiering on for his family and she never takes responsibility for her actions or words and she sees nothing wrong with it and still plays the victim
Another story about how a great guy lets a self centered narcissistic woman ruin him. Yes, Chad should have "manned up" a while ago. Set boundaries for her and not tolerated her selfishness and disrespect.
SLAVA HEROYI I forgot what I wanted to say. I am an idiot. I love your channel, but just know it may NOT have the result you are looking for, and I still love you for you doing it. 🙃 SLAVA UKRAINE
It sounds like you’ve got a big mouth and you’re very Prideful ,and you don’t care who you hurt that’s your problem lady and that’s why you lost your man. Women like you just don’t know when to shut up until its to late and you lose . And it’s not about being perfect ,it’s about you learning how to shut your mouth .
U go on and on any man will stress out . Yet u did not think any of it was ur fault. U find excuses like ur hubby not man enough, etc etc etc. remember the saying "a fish got caught cuz of its mouth !" Hope u tune down one level going forward. Oh, u can say or check ur hubby privately but never in public ! Its a no no, ur bad . Well anyhow let it rest . Even if u want to look correct or him to show he was hurt, the point u guys no longer are together? Just let time heal.
I’ll go ahead and sum up the 21 minutes here I’m the victim pity pour me. I insult him. I overspend I don’t respect how he feels. I have no idea why he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore. He should apologize. That’s basically her entire story.
Maybe your not the woman he thought you were let me tell you what you did wrong, men want two things respect and , and peace, you are full of yourself, any men with self respect would have walked away,
How would you feel if he was the one that humiliated you in front of all your friends? Did you tell him you are sorry in front of all your friends, I bet not.
Respect, Admiration, 'Lust'. The three parts of love are said to be. More or less in this order, in the 'conservative way of flirting'. Respect is the basics, and it seems it is always lacking...
So when a man just wants to be quiet and keep his thoughts to him self you find that irritating and tell him to man up. You are a disrespectful woman. Why should he have to act like your monkey and you are the organ grinder. He knows how you are but you do not know who he is do you ?
All of her faults there was no sign of her cheating. He should have given her another chance with heavy restrictions. Her behavior toward his feelings was wrong, and she finally realized it. ( Disappointed with the ending)
For better or worse. He should help her, show her what he needs instead of not saying a word. Be more demanding with certain issues, the respect will come. This guy is being a puss.
No one should have ASK for respect! That, at the very least, should be automatic. The moment your ‘partner’ dresses you down in public, they’ve overstepped. Should he have made it clear that disrespect will not be tolerated? Again, that shouldn’t be necessary. That should be understood.
Enough for the goddamn long-winded stories that you're pedaling. Gets to the point what does it do how much does it cost and if it's worth anything people will buy it like crazy. Women able to listen to a long-winded stuff, but men want you to get to the point enough of your crap! (Just a pinch of salt and our Johnson will become a giant). I hope somebody nails you for false advertising.
if you love you forgive everithing. this is not because the joke. they marrige was a joke. this guy hate his live and he go probably with a yunger one. its name selfish and 21 centuries its full
She can't control her spending, can't control her emotions, she can't take responsibility for her actions and she blames everyone else for her mistakes. Nothing to miss here?
Sadly, your description is now becoming the new normal when it comes to women, especially in the west. Spoiled, entitled, obnoxious princesses.
"You didn't mean to hurt me."???? What bullshit. She absolutely meant to disrespect and hurt him.
There's nothing worse that You can do in front of Your Man is to disrespect him !!!
You disrespected him, and you still are. To hell with you, your not worth it. You keep blowing his feelings off.
If you’re woman disrespects you once, its up to you to put a stop to it and shut it down. Dont feel bad for making her feel bad, dont falter and stand your ground and trust me she will respect you more since you showed her you are willing to bite back
Every man listening to this knows there was millions of things she could have done she didn't even try to fight for the relationship
You disrespected him in front of others and I'm sure if you did it there you do it at home. There is a saying...." no matter how good looking a woman is, somewhere there's someone whos had enough of her bullshit" guess you found that line in the sand and decided it was ok to cross it.
Humiliating someone in front of others is "A line in the sand" for many. Obviously the OP in this story was used to getting her own way. Her lack of introspection and apparently lack of empathy speaks volumes about the level of intelligence.
women marry men they feel they can control and hate the fact that these men dont stand up for themselves and accept the abuse, then all of a sudden one day he brakes but at that point it's too late to fix the problem cause the problem can't, wont and will never be fixed.
It is not what she said. It is all the times that she spent too much where she didn't give a shit and he had to clean it up.
Disrespect is the step too far in a relationship. The only way to get past that is to leave that person to fix themselves. I'm sorry is hollow.
You don't appreciate him when you disrespect him.
She is the problem.
You have been '' piling '' things on him and he did endure the weight of it all . Just like '' the last straw that broke the camel's back '' he could take it no more -- it broke him completely !
You have no obligation to accept any
disrespect from your girl.
Most of them never emotionally mature
beyond 16.
Think of it this way, would you be ok with your best guy friend treating you like crap? No, you might even give him a mouthful of teeth to remember not to do it again.
You never mock your S.O. in public. Would you like it if he had mocked you in public.
Things can be said within the private walls of one's own home, when they are done in a "public square" it is disrespectful!
Why should disrespect be acceptable "within private walls", though?
It really sounds like she have a habit of disrespecting him at home and now her disrespect have now reached in front of people.
She's a screw up, and sometimes her screwups are intentional so he can fix it.
The old saying that she is going to face.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
WRONG IT'S DISRESPECTFUL WHERE EVER YOU ARE
There are discussions within a family and sometimes the tone goes beyond that but they still remain within the family
Yeah paying the bills and making lunches for the kids while he was at work ,yeah you're a self proclaimed hero , but with who's earned sacrifices and money ???
Never disrespect your man !
That‘s all to say about this story.
This person is an idiot who is in a one sided marriage. She spends the money and he pays for everything. It’s time to woman up
I would warn her once. Then never see her again. Abandon her.
The proper warning is "Do that again and my response will be even more humiliating than this time." There are some things for which it is reasonable to only give a warning the first time; this is not one of them.
This story sucks, "Man Up", because he was not talking? Normally someone would use that statement to get someone/man to concentrate, and deal with the problem at hand. Not when someone is being is not being sociable.
You started out speaking of yourself like a big hero. You end as a big jerk.
The only thing a man expects from a woman is respect and loyalty. We do not need to be loved. If you are a woman express your love in a form of respect and loyalty, not kisses, hugs and tears.
Pride pushed into arrogance to the point of self-destruction...
Way to go Chad !👍
"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".......
.it's a book written by a psychologist who specialises in marriage relationships.
This is something that EVERY person who is contemplating marriage both male and female should read before that final commitment........
Understanding RESPECT.!
I have a book for any man thinking about marrying, it's called "Are You F*cking Stupid or What?"
She expected HIM to apologize... !?! Sooo typical.. !!
Another Cautionary Tale about not having a Prenup...
Prenup is not an absolute solution.
PRE-NUPS FOR ALL GUYS THE LAWS AS CURRENTLY CONSTRUCTED DOESN'T GIVE US A CHOICE REGARDLESS OF WHAT KIND OF WOMAN YOU'RE INVOLVED WITH.
@@LawrenceWilliamson-e4p why you are yelling?
@@F4AltplusF4 I'M NOT I DO THAT WITH TEXTING ALSO TO AVOID HITTING THE CAP BUTTON TRUST ME NOT YELLING.
@@LawrenceWilliamson-e4p That's incorrect. A Prenup that is reviewed and approved by Both parties lawyers AND is dutifully reviewed by both parties lawyers every two years is solid.
Wow this sounds like my exwife, blowing up the budget, losing to cover shit up. 18 years of a life sentence being married to her. Ugh 16 years of peaceful living after divorce. Thank God
Are these really real instances, or pure fabricated fictional stories?
I know many married couples. This woman is the typical American wife these days. Men who have been married 20 or 30 years are empty husks.
In my opinion, they're guided AI written stories... they all sound similar in writing style but different subjects
There's a lesson here, respect the person you're with and don't take them for granted, two simple rules in a relationship.
Sometimes it pays to think before you speak🤘
Yes but if under the influence of alcohol your
Yes but if you're under the influence of alcohol your likely to be more bold unaware of what you say.
Also, to look before you leap into a relation.
"to think" implies that there's a brain to begin with 😂
She wanted him to stand up for himself, and GIRL, DID YOU SUCCEED!!!!
Sometimes these moments produce crystal clarity for understanding the things that will never be fixed. And if I was him knowing you made a tube vid.....ssssshh
Sometimes it's better to walk away from a one-sided relationship where one spouse no longer respects the other spouse.
I have concluded that no Western wife under age 70 respects her husband.
@@elwoodblues9613 I agree 100 percent. No doubt about it.
This is one of the few instances that a woman accepts her responsibilities for ending her marriage.
You might be the man of the house but no insults please...leave if you've had enough but no insults please...how would you feel if it happened yo you?
That has always stood up for you. You are the one person that he shouldn’t have to stand up to. By virtue of him being your husband, and the vows you took it together before God, he should never have to defend himself to you. You should always should had his back.
He’s not saying you are all bad he just doesn’t want to deal with it anymore
man up? She would not have liked that. how about, man up! I work extra shifts to pay for your shopping sprees, I keep the lights on when you hide the overdue notices like a child and they call me at work. I am the one who has to deal with the kids when you promise them something we can't afford! I am tired of being the only adult in the house! This man will look for an adult woman from now on and you are on your own. Nope, she wouldn't want that. Bet the friends didn't buy her " i keep it all together despite my stupid husband " act either.
Why would this guy enable this behavior.. I would have thrown her out well before marriage. She is a piece of crap. This guy was a doormat for years and let her get away with all this idiotic behavior. What an idiot.. he even had kids with her..😂
maybe the guy is a coward too, he too feared he'd lose it all and be alone.
in the end he finds his courage? Well it's like you said: where was he all this time?
"Be careful what you ask for: you might get it."
When it isn't just bullying, deflection or gas lighting, "Man up" is a call to take decisive action. The person to whom you direct it may take decisive action that you will regret.
She can't fix it until she fixes herself. That starts with taking responsibility instead of blame shifting an deflecting.
I thank God every day for my (2nd) wife.... she is the perfect partner. And she is RARE in todays world. That's the SAD part of it. My first one? Was just like this gal, " if there are still checks in the checkbook" kind of stupid money mismanagement... ...she LITERALLY bankrupted me, Federal court and all... and that was the final nail.... I did recover. and Remarried... she remarried to, and bankrupted THAT guy afterwards.. lost his home and everything.. some never learn.
This is what happens when fathers call there daughters princess constantly past lets say past age 9. They create monsters for daughters that no one really likes in the least. Chad good work you have arrived.
This woman is awful. Clearly this woman had a history of verbal and emotional abuse. But her lack of self reflection, deciding he should have to apologize because she felt bad for being crappy to him. That since he's a man, he should be able to take it. Then she tries to lure him into a verbal sparring match to make him say something terrible so she could play the victim. But when he didn't, it started her down the road of accountability.
I can't believe SHE wanted him to apologize, really?! Bill Fisher
a SMART person learns from mistakes, so they do not repeat them.. an pure idiot, is oblivious.. and keeps doing it over and over..
@@gilroylibbs2947 right!
Respect comes before love. You can't love someone you don't respect.
If Chad slapped his wife in public, he would be in jail immediately.
When Chad's wife said, "Man up", it was the female, non-physical way of slapping her husband .. in public .. in a humiliating way.
What Chad's wife doesn't understand is that her words are simply a reflection of her inner heart attitude towards Chad.
What her words show is the marriage is a 1 way street .. period .. full stop.
YES you are the one to blame her, you DO NOT embarrass your husband in front of other people. as his wife you should be there to protect him and guard him , not rip him down in front of other people
She only wanted him to stand up for himself....... He did.
You say "You try" There is no try. Only do.
Keep these stories coming
You support him no matter what. Now you are single
Respect is Earn than again you must respect other before other would respect you're the issue woman
The right answer was i don't want you to change, i wanted you to be the woman you were...
OP failed to say the right things after she knew their marriage was in real trouble. She might have saved her marriage if she had given her husband real hope she could change.
Then she should have taken full responsibility and admitted she need professional help to change. She needed to show him she truly understands how she has kept hurting him and not done anything to really improve. Actions speak more than words. Maybe her husband would have given her some time with a professional therapist to change her behavior.
Instead she became defensive and came up with the same empty words she was sorry without showing him how SHE could change for the better.
Regardless of what happened she needs professional help so she can avoid the same mistakes in her next relationship
Even if this is a made up story this woman is a freaking horrible person, he cleans up all her screw ups and keeps soldiering on for his family and she never takes responsibility for her actions or words and she sees nothing wrong with it and still plays the victim
Woman up, do your duties
So, she told a Chad to man up ? the audacity ! 😂😂
Another story about how a great guy lets a self centered narcissistic woman ruin him.
Yes, Chad should have "manned up" a while ago. Set boundaries for her and not tolerated her selfishness and disrespect.
SLAVA HEROYI I forgot what I wanted to say. I am an idiot. I love your channel, but just know it may NOT have the result you are looking for, and I still love you for you doing it. 🙃 SLAVA UKRAINE
She knew what she had done
This is a difficult women to live with and be around. So glad my marriage is not like this. 😊
A woman has no right to say that
Silence and indifference works better with disloyal and disrespectful women than words and emotional outbursts.
Another women trying to change their Husbands, bad Idea. She is the one who need to Change.
I bet the job isn't the problem 😂😂
You aren’t worth the trouble and you blaming him
Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah ,nah, hey hey hey good bye.., 🤭
What a dumb video and waste of time. You never said what was said to up set him.
It sounds like you’ve got a big mouth and you’re very Prideful ,and you don’t care who you hurt that’s your problem lady and that’s why you lost your man. Women like you just don’t know when to shut up until its to late and you lose . And it’s not about being perfect ,it’s about you learning how to shut your mouth .
U go on and on any man will stress out . Yet u did not think any of it was ur fault. U find excuses like ur hubby not man enough, etc etc etc. remember the saying "a fish got caught cuz of its mouth !" Hope u tune down one level going forward.
Oh, u can say or check ur hubby privately but never in public ! Its a no no, ur bad . Well anyhow let it rest . Even if u want to look correct or him to show he was hurt, the point u guys no longer are together? Just let time heal.
I’ll go ahead and sum up the 21 minutes here I’m the victim pity pour me. I insult him. I overspend I don’t respect how he feels. I have no idea why he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore. He should apologize. That’s basically her entire story.
Maybe your not the woman he thought you were let me tell you what you did wrong, men want two things respect and , and peace, you are full of yourself, any men with self respect would have walked away,
Women...you embarrassed him at a venerable moment......you ever hear of be sensitive to your husband .... probably nay
I dont understand you told him to man jp for what?, its not a stupid comment you really thought little of him that was disrespectfjl
I saw your profile photo Zoe and you are gorgeous.❤
Why don't u tell him what your saying here. From your heart
Not rite in a way he is rite. Respect your man or leave
How would you feel if he was the one that humiliated you in front of all your friends? Did you tell him you are sorry in front of all your friends, I bet not.
Still after all of this you just sit there and give a poor me.
He was your husband, friend and daddy
I'M HEARING A LOT OF MAYBES
Respect, Admiration, 'Lust'. The three parts of love are said to be. More or less in this order, in the 'conservative way of flirting'. Respect is the basics, and it seems it is always lacking...
Why didn't either of you suggest marriage counselling?
I can't listen to this this woman is too stupid
So when a man just wants to be quiet and keep his thoughts to him self you find that irritating and tell him to man up. You are a disrespectful woman. Why should he have to act like your monkey and you are the organ grinder. He knows how you are but you do not know who he is do you ?
I don't know if she truly sorry or just mentally ill
Just skip to 20:00
The only Chad who is no Chad
Chad?
All of her faults there was no sign of her cheating. He should have given her another chance with heavy restrictions. Her behavior toward his feelings was wrong, and she finally realized it. ( Disappointed with the ending)
This is an ai story i heard another version
It’s a fake story but it does happen and you are replaceable
Maybe you should stop making dumb comments through the other way around and he was making dumb comments about you the crap we get the fan
Disrespect m3ans divorce.
Muslims are right about fefailes and booze 🤷
Was it a joke to you should try doing something in bed
For better or worse. He should help her, show her what he needs instead of not saying a word. Be more demanding with certain issues, the respect will come. This guy is being a puss.
No one should have ASK for respect! That, at the very least, should be automatic. The moment your ‘partner’ dresses you down in public, they’ve overstepped. Should he have made it clear that disrespect will not be tolerated? Again, that shouldn’t be necessary. That should be understood.
I agree overall. In the cases though it's probably best to cut your losses and walk away.
My wife knew better than to disrespect me in front of anybody.
Enough for the goddamn long-winded stories that you're pedaling. Gets to the point what does it do how much does it cost and if it's worth anything people will buy it like crazy. Women able to listen to a long-winded stuff, but men want you to get to the point enough of your crap! (Just a pinch of salt and our Johnson will become a giant). I hope somebody nails you for false advertising.
Yeah you are right enjoy single motherhood 😂😂
if you love you forgive everithing. this is not because the joke. they marrige was a joke. this guy hate his live and he go probably with a yunger one. its name selfish and 21 centuries its full
You talk too much
bad husband