Denouncing AKA: Faith in Action

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • Instagram: Desiree.Grace, Twitter: FireandDesire__
    I never thought this would be me. I loved my AKA, my line sisters, my pink and green, and my org as a whole. I originally looked deeper into this lifelong commitment that i had made, which was my membership in Alpha Kappa Alpha Inc during a time when my friend denounced. I was so angry and upset because she claimed that these organizations were not of God. Offended, i made it a point to challenge her on this, but in that process something happened. As i gathered my information to prove her wrong-- i myself, felt challenged. God was revealing things to me left and right that i had done, had said, and had oathed my whole life to. I was heartbroken. I didn’t want to lose my sisters and friends, my greek community, and everything that i was so invested in. BUT, God gave me the word to get out as this was not a good reflection of him and was wrong. A year later he gave me the word to be public about this (present day). I had to learn that i could not please both the world and God. I was scared, fearful, and concerned about what people would do and say about me but i have faith enough to trust GOD even when i can’t see the end goal/next steps...So boldly, i am denouncing and I have a video sharing just a little of what was revealed to me in that process which is above.

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  • @jocelynwatson1604
    @jocelynwatson1604 4 роки тому +1167

    “Just because God is attached to something or on it doesn’t mean it’s of Him.” YESSSS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you so much for being obedient

    • @Letsmakeupwithcarolj
      @Letsmakeupwithcarolj 4 роки тому +7

      Jocelyn Watson was that not a great line. #SoMUCHtruth

    • @yourstruly_777
      @yourstruly_777 4 роки тому +10

      The day y'all stop being judgmental and bothered that people don't worship the Lord the way you do will be a good day. 🙄

    • @mel3760
      @mel3760 4 роки тому +32

      BeautifulDiva1913 That demon in you obviously doesn’t allow you to read a bible- because there’s only one way to worship the Lord, and that’s in spirit and in truth. You cannot worship a false god and the true and living God at the same time. So the day you open a bible and get the truth in you is the day you won’t be offended by the truth. That will be a good day for you , because if YOU are in this foolishness and you die and go to hell, that won’t be a good day - FOR YOU

    • @Letsmakeupwithcarolj
      @Letsmakeupwithcarolj 4 роки тому +32

      BeautifulDiva1913 ~ I personally don’t think any of us Christians are being judgemental. We’re stating the facts biblically as we read them in the Bible, you know the Word Of God? Receiving Jesus in your life is a personal choice, and it yours alone. A good day is being blessed to see another! No one’s shoving God down your throat....We’re simply speaking our TRUTH as we know HIM. ♥️

    • @mel3760
      @mel3760 4 роки тому +9

      Carol's Daily Sauce Exactly! It’s them demon in her that’s angry, and the name alone- if she gets saved, she’ll change that name.

  • @honorfaulkner1257
    @honorfaulkner1257 2 роки тому +103

    Desire… I am a freshman in college. I was thinking about pledging to a sorority. You have opened my eyes so much . THANK YOU THANK YOU

    • @tabbylivvy
      @tabbylivvy Рік тому +3

      Beautiful!! Proud of you!!! Watching this video may have saved your life.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  Рік тому +4

      Girl I am so happy it could help! Praise God!!!

  • @skylers.221
    @skylers.221 5 років тому +2000

    Thank you for this! Fraternity world: The behavior, the rituals, the dark room, the shrines, the candles... I remember feeling so weird during them, but I ignored that gut feeling... especially the final ritual: everything in me said no, but I ignored it. Now as an adult I am completely out of it, DENOUNCED for years now! My life is not pledged to an organization... It's pledged to Jesus Christ! It is that deep!

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +91

      Skyler S. It is that deep !!! Yes sir ! Thanks for for watching and commenting. Praying it helps and inspires others like ourselves who have a desire to fully live for God. It’s interesting bc this video doesn’t even discuss hazing just the normal and general process. The whole thing is an issue and I’m glad people are starting to shed light on it.

    • @vanessadh3939
      @vanessadh3939 5 років тому +60

      I applaud all of you for denouncing. I've seen a few of these vids and it does seem that those who have denounced are not currently in school. I'm wondering if there have been any who denounce while still in school? Do you think the pressure is to great?

    • @djnaenae102490
      @djnaenae102490 4 роки тому +32

      Our freshman year another honors college student cried because I said I'm not a Christian by denomination but by Faith. This girl crossed DST senior year and everything in her life (her man, her experiences, friends, career) revolves around elephants and red.

    • @thezeeyez7151
      @thezeeyez7151 4 роки тому +3

      @@Itsdesireegrace Amen. And Praise God Skylar!

    • @teaelle7063
      @teaelle7063 4 роки тому +12

      @@djnaenae102490 why did she cry? What you said are facts. Christian is how you identify yourself under your religion (Christianity), just like Muslim is a follower of Islam. Religions are further broken down into cultures such as Protestant, Catholic, and Orthodox (Christianity). Followers of Islam are either Sunni or Shiite. Her crying speaks to her lack of knowledge of knowledge or her experience.
      As a Delta, I know elephants are nice to have but they are unofficial. Depending on her "why" she's probably happy to have made it. Her experience with religion may have changed since her Freshman year. Who knows. But that has nothing to do with her crossing Delta, definitely not four years later.

  • @kandice9727
    @kandice9727 4 роки тому +959

    I'm glad I didn't join a sorority in College. God had his hands on me and still does.

    • @cvrslp6170
      @cvrslp6170 4 роки тому +17

      ...and YOU did the right thing for YOU.

    • @tabithaespinoza1989
      @tabithaespinoza1989 4 роки тому +3

      Same . Now I have come to Jesus Face to Face
      joshuamediaministries.org/face-to-face/the-first-appearance/

    • @kaycee1500
      @kaycee1500 4 роки тому +5

      Say iiiittttt!!!

    • @Jeannie__
      @Jeannie__ 4 роки тому +7

      AMEN!!!

    • @JessJayEel
      @JessJayEel 4 роки тому +26

      I did my research. I was so obsessed with trying to become a Delta but I felt something in my spirit kept saying "No, that is not my plans for you". I didn't understand why so I searched for the answers and God gave it to me. I always sympathize with former greeks denouncing because I knew how hard it was for me to finally not persue Greek life I can only imagine how they feel joining it, falling in love with it, then denouncing it. Brave warriors. I am rooting for them!

  • @betheny7947
    @betheny7947 4 роки тому +100

    Thank you for this! I denounced my letters yesterday. Walking in obedience is key.

  • @EmotionsExpressed
    @EmotionsExpressed 4 роки тому +569

    Wow. I see the people of God getting bolder & bolder, bless you sis! I hope people understand that when the Father puts the pressure on you, you move no matter how challenging it may be if you love Him & are fully convicted & submitted. It’s not about us, it never was. This is so encouraging, even for me to keep pushing & doing what I’m doing! Although I’ve had no ties w a sorority, I get discouraged doing the things of the Lord because the fear of man! Fear of rejection, being misunderstood, doubt, etc even WITHIN the body of Christ. I love God. Praying for your strength !

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +21

      Dwa Lew Yes, I have felt this way and the enemy still tries to get me with RJ’s even now. So many people do not even want to understand respond so negatively (even believers). However, I’m up this morning reading the word in John 1 and God showed that even when Jesus was here physically walking this earth, the very people that believed in his message/law didn’t recognize or believe that he was who he said he was. This gives me perspective and lets me know there is nothing new under the sun. He went through all this x 1000 and I can withstand just a portion of that for his glory and honor. Amen

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +9

      A lot of typos but I hope you get the point lol

    • @lakevagrady9505
      @lakevagrady9505 4 роки тому +5

      I am crying reading your comments as we are the body of Christ it's getting stronger and stronger and I just thank God

    • @rayebaldwin9086
      @rayebaldwin9086 4 роки тому +7

      I believe that we are in the End times and the Lord wants us separate from things that are not of Him. He has given us all a free Will.

  • @AuthenticallyAmaris
    @AuthenticallyAmaris 5 років тому +1329

    The devil is MAD you did this.. You can tell by the demons he sent to your comments. That's just more confirmation that you did the right thing! Praise GOD!

    • @bigtttop
      @bigtttop 4 роки тому +11

      I’m with her all the way.

    • @MiSsEdWaRdCuLlEn102
      @MiSsEdWaRdCuLlEn102 4 роки тому +4

      EXACTLY

    • @cvrslp6170
      @cvrslp6170 4 роки тому

      She needs to 🛑 Bible thumping.

    • @J.C....
      @J.C.... 4 роки тому +23

      @Simply Outspoken And they be so quick to attack you. It's like sororities and fraternities have people big headed with pride and making them feel like they're all thee above.

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 4 роки тому +13

      Cvr SLP Since when do ninjas get mad at someone for sharing their truth and God’s word?
      Y’all are clearly shaken for some reason.
      Something in you is convicted.

  • @gab5775
    @gab5775 5 років тому +364

    Revelation 12:11 "They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony!" God bless your obedience girll

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +2

      Gab thank you for watching girl !!!

    • @nikkipowell4823
      @nikkipowell4823 4 роки тому

      God bless you and keep you. You are a watchman sounding the warning. And if God be for you, who then can be against you. I pray that some will hear and take heed and join you on the narrow road the leads to life and FEW enter end. Ultimately you are a part of the greatest house of all houses. Who’s house......God’s house.

    • @sanovianelson3389
      @sanovianelson3389 4 роки тому

      Gab Hallelujah!!!

    • @lemons2lemonade884
      @lemons2lemonade884 4 роки тому

      Gab YESSSSSSSSS!!! That scripture! Whew! Gave me chills! Cause God has Ben showing me this lately
      🙌🙌🙌

  • @julianthepastor
    @julianthepastor 5 років тому +927

    I'm tired of y'all saying that she "speaks well". How else is she supposed to speak? Like what did y'all expect from an educated person? That's not a compliment for us, it's insulting as hell esp when you know the historical connotation of that comment.

    • @princess287love
      @princess287love 4 роки тому +5

      The Pastor Jul true

    • @julianthepastor
      @julianthepastor 4 роки тому +24

      @Raven Young I prefer what you said to "you speak well". The latter makes it sound like people expected belligerence. You say that to children, not adults lol.

    • @SuperSasha1969
      @SuperSasha1969 4 роки тому +15

      So “insulting as hell” is not speaking well. She’s articulate. You are not

    • @julianthepastor
      @julianthepastor 4 роки тому +2

      @@SuperSasha1969 gracias

    • @thezeeyez7151
      @thezeeyez7151 4 роки тому +11

      @Michael Tucker yes, I do too, however, we know that not all educated individuals are articulate. Just an honest observation. Doesn't matter the race, ethnicity etc.

  • @evelynparhamreviews
    @evelynparhamreviews 4 роки тому +41

    I denounced AKA too. I pledged in 1991 and rarely speak about it. If I had to do it all over again, I would have never pledged. I was ignorant back then, but not anymore.
    My niece wanted to pledge AKA last year, I told her not to join and to focus on getting into medical school.
    Not sure if she pledged or not, but one thing she does know is that it is not of God! I did my part.
    Thanks for having the courage and the boldness to speak on this topic! Obedience is better than sacrifice. Blessings to you!

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for helping pave the way! It feels like a blessing to know that so many walked this out before me. Your obedience is admirable.

  • @thenursez4682
    @thenursez4682 5 років тому +856

    I wanted to pledge AKA soooo badly in college. But God literally would not let me. Now I see why. This was amazing. You’ve encouraged me to study and study some more ! Keep it up, sis 💕

    • @thenursez4682
      @thenursez4682 5 років тому +57

      When you have a certain type of relationship with Him, there are things that He will speak to you on if you ask, feelings that will disrupt your peace if you don’t seek him etc. So in short, He spoke to me and basically said no. I was kinda upset but I listened and never questioned why because I trust Him enough to know that if He told me no it was for a reason ♥️

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +7

      Nurse Z I’m glad it helped you queen !!!

    • @thenursez4682
      @thenursez4682 5 років тому +8

      Jessica Richardson lol okay . You seem bothered . Do what you wish sis. That’s you . Have a blessed day 🤗

    • @jogivens3965
      @jogivens3965 5 років тому +5

      @@jessicarichardson9359 she attended the interest meetings and never got a bid, so it must've been God 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @thenursez4682
      @thenursez4682 5 років тому +27

      Jo Givens it’s too early for y’all to be this mad about what my God told me. Y’all “sisterhood” is showing . Good day 😘

  • @tanafaithrenay1111
    @tanafaithrenay1111 4 роки тому +164

    The Akas we're suspended for years until after I graduated. I was so heartbroken that I didn't get a chance to join. Then I start watching videos like this and see that it was only for God's protection. It wasn't meant for me to join.

    • @chrissybrandnu2904
      @chrissybrandnu2904 4 роки тому +4

      facts. i was there with you girl. I'm so glad he shielded us at that school.

    • @tammysingleton6209
      @tammysingleton6209 4 роки тому +7

      They were? I’ll have to research why. I would ask my cousin who is an AKA, but I don’t want the possible drama.

    • @317Isha
      @317Isha 4 роки тому +5

      I wanted to be one as well, but they were suspended while I was in school. God’s protection!

    • @TheBlairWenchProject
      @TheBlairWenchProject 4 роки тому +2

      _lol
      Idk why but I find this hilarious._

    • @viktoriousextensions394
      @viktoriousextensions394 3 роки тому +1

      The same thing happened with my daughters school. She never pledged. Thank you Jesus.

  • @jewelmani
    @jewelmani 3 роки тому +80

    Man!!! When I tell you. I was looking up D9 grad chapters for a while now, but I’ve never been able to pledge. There was always something keeping me from pledging. Today, as I was searching for grad chapters near a grad school I wanna go to, videos started popping up with people denouncing. The Holy Spirit be working 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tameishamasontoofunny468
      @tameishamasontoofunny468 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for taking time out to explain. Especially going back and forth to compare. The word of God is everything. Just because it says God doesn't mean it's of God.I am not perfect but I am a Christian. Thanks again

    • @still-ga7570
      @still-ga7570 2 роки тому

      Hallelujah

  • @laurenmccowan2755
    @laurenmccowan2755 5 років тому +768

    I am a 13 year old girl and my step mother is an AKA . And I’m thankful u shared this video as a eye opener to me. It really did teach me more , and inspire me to be who I am in Christ Jesus.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +128

      Lauren McCowan Lauren, sweetie wow... only 13 years old and so so mature. This comment means so much to me. You’re going to be amazing woman of God. Keep being who God wants you to be and no one else. ❤️

    • @edensworld766
      @edensworld766 4 роки тому +29

      Be blessed and stay in your word.

    • @Letsmakeupwithcarolj
      @Letsmakeupwithcarolj 4 роки тому +14

      Lauren McCowan Yes babygirl (and I say that as a term of endearment) be careful with your choices and decisions ❤️. Continue to strive to be more in Christ, sweetie HE IS EVERYTHING 💕 #beblessed

    • @mel3760
      @mel3760 4 роки тому +15

      Lauren McCowan Amen! Just know a lot of people will come against you, especially because you are so young. They will try to snatch the truth out of your heart and they will put garbage in your ear to justify this demonic mess. You just gotta ignore it and know that you have a God to answer to and now that you know better via this video, God will hold you accountable if you let someone turn you away from the truth. A demon in the comment section is already trying . The Lord rebuke them. God bless

    • @wakeuppeople5815
      @wakeuppeople5815 4 роки тому +8

      So glad and proud of you 13 years old and you got it Girl ...you can think for yourself

  • @alishamichelle166
    @alishamichelle166 4 роки тому +53

    I wanted to join this organization in college. I remember going to a meeting my college required prospects to attend, and each of the organizations brought in member representation. I will never forget AKA’s came in singing “My Heart, My Mind, and My Strength belongs to AKA”. Naturally, I’m singing along in my head and I said ”soul” where they said, ”strength” (I believe due to a hymnal I grew up singing). I remember becoming instantly uncomfortable. I told my older sister about it and she said yeah someone at her church told her Greek organizations were not of God. She then told me but ”you decided how far you take it”. I thought to myself true and still pursued the organization. Even after knowing something wasn't right I contemplated for years on attempting to join again. Finally, I just prayed that God would grant me the desires I think this organization would bring me. It is by the grace of God that I came across this video.

  • @LaLaJenkins
    @LaLaJenkins 2 роки тому +50

    Girrrrl. This just blessed me! I denounced Delta a few months ago.. and I was SO confused when God told me denounce. I was so spiritually dead when I crossed.. nothing about Greek life was alarming to me! It wasn’t until after I decided to denounce (out of obedience to God).. He revealed all of the things in our rituals (and pledging process) that were NOT of him. The Delta rituals are similar to the AKAs.. it manipulates scripture, idolizes the organization and even has a bowing moment during the initiation ceremony. 😳
    It’s so crazy to see alll of the D9 organizations are participating in this.. and we were so blind to it! But I’m continuously thanking God for his grace and mercy! He removed the veil from my eyes and clearly He’s doing the same for others! 🙌🏽
    Thank you for making this vid. Praying God continues to bless you for your obedience! 🙏🏽💖

    • @nadian6760
      @nadian6760 2 роки тому +1

      I’m scared to join a sorority now 😭😭😭

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins 2 роки тому +10

      @@nadian6760 I’m going to give you advice that I wish someone told me: Do NOT join.

  • @odms09
    @odms09 5 років тому +677

    As a youth Pastor, I would like to let you know that your video will be what I show to my high school and college youth group. I’ve always taught on this subject however I think it carries additional weight coming from someone who has experienced it. Thank you.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +14

      odms09 i am truly honored.

    • @cvrslp6170
      @cvrslp6170 4 роки тому +12

      Do NOT taint the high schoolers. If they are about right, let them choose for themselves.

    • @odms09
      @odms09 4 роки тому +74

      Cvr SLP Tainting is not done by me. The world does that on its own. The knowledge of this topic is needed. Period. Be blessed.

    • @tawanaharris4600
      @tawanaharris4600 4 роки тому +18

      Odms09 - Thank you for posting this comment and for even having the idea to bring the subject up in church. I grew up in church and I never heard the subject talked about in church ... and I mean Never. "Maybe" a pastor mentioned how you shouldn't really join a sorority very very briefly but nothing in-depth or anything that would even leave you knowing what a sorority really was if church was your only source for that information. Personally, I never wanted to be in a sorority. I didn't get the big deal. But a lot of people could have been at least informed (from a Biblical perspective) about what they were about to be Target for an exposed to, and maybe they would have made a different decision, if they would have had just a little bit of knowledge from responsible and caring people like you. Thank you.

    • @cvrslp6170
      @cvrslp6170 4 роки тому

      @@odms09 for what...a sorority pr fraternity? How about these nasty and vicious sexual predators and child abusers, Trump, robbers, murderers, LIARS...? Fraternities and sororities...uh-uh...they give you a choice.

  • @teachthechildren2
    @teachthechildren2 Рік тому +11

    The crazy thing is that they don’t even realize how demonic their activity is. That’s how powerful the spirit of Satan is over these organizations.

  • @imsooshook3871
    @imsooshook3871 4 роки тому +314

    I honestly feel that God had you go through this experience because he knew you would be brave enough to stand up and come out of it, educating many in the process. I thank you for many sisters and brothers who are or were lost. May God continue to bless you.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +24

      I'mSoo Shook as I sought answers from God about this. This is actually what he revealed to me. When i went to him and asked “why did you even let me into the organization” It was laid on my heart “for a time like this”. I don’t believe he took that chance on me- he knew what I would so ultimately but I was never this courageous or brave. That was all him working in me. I appreciate your kind words and your beautiful insight. I have been amazed to see how he’s worked this thing out and how people have been so blessed In the process. Makes everything worth it. For his glory I’ll do anything 🙏🏽

    • @imsooshook3871
      @imsooshook3871 4 роки тому +1

      @@Itsdesireegrace yes it's all worth it!

    • @jillianmcleod6912
      @jillianmcleod6912 4 роки тому +4

      Yes I asked god the same question when I learned this same thing about delta and I came to the same revelation...... before the womb he knew us and knew when you found out you would tell it and not just expose aka but satan. You have no loyalty to Satan and his devices it’s not about being against the women of the sorority as many have accused most who denounce, it’s the foundation and principality that we are showing disloyalty to. For me i always found it funny that the word denounce was basically publicly declaring something evil! Which is the word that most of Greeks use if you decide to come out of it. Glad to see this video!

  • @briannacollie2742
    @briannacollie2742 4 роки тому +414

    "Offense is a fence that is blocking people from hearing the truth." You obeyed God, and now everyone operating in the spirit of offence is refusing to accept the truth.

    • @marik6545
      @marik6545 4 роки тому +6

      PREACH!!!

    • @the1lique182
      @the1lique182 4 роки тому

      Not agreeing doesn't mean offense

    • @jklpop4664
      @jklpop4664 3 роки тому +1

      That was good...Elegant Anne 🥰

  • @miskittt
    @miskittt 4 роки тому +121

    FYI. This is about ALL Greek organizations and not just AKAs.

  • @JadelwenRobinson
    @JadelwenRobinson 4 роки тому +57

    Our souls belong to God, and he paid for it, so we shouldn’t re sale it or exploit it to the openness of demonic activity.. I’m glad for your deliverance my sister

  • @jessicawashington1972
    @jessicawashington1972 2 роки тому +61

    I’ve started giving my AKA paraphanelia away, and secretly I no longer wear the letters or do any rituals or singing. It may be time for me to officially denounce.

    • @just_shaeee
      @just_shaeee 2 роки тому +6

      I can relate SO much. This is unreal.

    • @lisathomas3082
      @lisathomas3082 2 роки тому +17

      U should put that stuff in the trash, if it's not good for you, how is it good for someone else?😳

    • @ladiginna
      @ladiginna 2 роки тому +6

      @@lisathomas3082 Yes, I agree. It should be destroyed.

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP 2 роки тому +3

      You are still attached and KNOW IT.
      DECEIVE YOURSELF OK.

    • @hbchealthybychoice6616
      @hbchealthybychoice6616 2 роки тому +5

      I threw all mine away. Giving it away is like giving up drugs but giving extra drugs away to someone else it’s destroying.

  • @ALChandlers
    @ALChandlers 4 роки тому +108

    when I was in college I remember my friend was going to pledge. I was going to do it with her. I seen my mom every weekend and told my mom and my older sister I was. my mom and my sister was like are you sure you want to. I was like yes. my mom said just pray about it. I was like what in the H... I remember thinking in my head why are you making a big deal out of this. But I did talk to god about it because I always did a little of what my mom said do. So as the next week went by. I went to church and the message was about worshiping false idols and was saying how idols can came in may shapes and sizes. So i didnt pledge. This is the first time am hearing something about this since then.

    • @TriumphantTiff
      @TriumphantTiff 4 роки тому +12

      I love how we receive appropriate and timely signs when we genuinely seek God's will in our lives.

    • @tireongibson9795
      @tireongibson9795 4 роки тому

      Worship of the virgin mary. Idle worship? Not God. Not Jesus. Not even the Holy Spirit. Idle worship maybe? How did Mary get her place in religion? Who gave her this position? Another question. I think it says Jesus was a poor man. How? Three kings and some brought gifts,silver and gold to the barn. Where did it go? I am open for discussion. I tend to over think or not think at all.

    • @ALChandlers
      @ALChandlers 4 роки тому +2

      @@tireongibson9795 ​ Tireon Gibson Well first you would need to know what kinda christian I am. To know what I believe in.... As a Pentecostal christian I don't worship Mary.... Those are Catholic.... What I believe in, is having a relationship with god and using your bible as a spiritual weapon.... I understand if you don't get it.... but that is where you should seek an relationship with god before you read a bible... Just my opinion.... I had to seek for god myself.... I didn't believe what people told me so I pray for the truth... so I cant have discussion with you because my words will sound like a magic trick to you.... because of the lack of faith and not having a relationship with god for yourself... but GOODLUCK

    • @tireongibson9795
      @tireongibson9795 4 роки тому +1

      @@ALChandlers I am proof that the Spirit of the God is real. I have no issues with that. I have no reasons not to understand your walks of life. I understand. We always dont know the answers. Dont stop and I promise to do the same. Continue your blessed adventure.

  • @AsiaLoren
    @AsiaLoren 4 роки тому +434

    This is the best denouncing video I’ve seen, not judgmental at all, strictly factual. Thank you so much for sharing your story!

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +6

      A Love Letter to Asia thank you !!!!

    • @cvrslp6170
      @cvrslp6170 4 роки тому

      How do ypu know it's factual. I have seen a lot of BOLD and MEAN chalatans. Then, when you mention, GOD or JESUS, they become so meek and shout out HALLELUJAH. When they come down with no one looking, BOLDLY MEAN are they again. Can you say HIPPOCRITE! 😳

  • @MsMirageLove
    @MsMirageLove 5 років тому +101

    Stand firm in your belief sis! I denounced in April of this year! SOOOOOOO worth it! It has opened up so many doors for me being obedient! I just learned about you from being on Yola’s conference prayer call. God bless you! You did right!💛

  • @kiaraw1637
    @kiaraw1637 4 роки тому +60

    As a GDI, I truly appreciate you. I've been praying and asking God if the org of my preference is for me and you're the SECOND denouncing video i've come across. I guess I got my answer! You did this so beautifully and the ppl bashing you for it is showing how"of the world" they truly are. Thank you❤️

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +25

      Kiara W sis... i wouldn’t even refer to yourself as GDI. It’s actually pretty demeaning. Instead, you’re my sister in Christ and more importantly a CHILD of God. These labels much like these orgs aren’t something we should be identifying as, as believers. However,
      I’m so glad you watched, listened, and allowed God to answer your prayers sis. That’s so mature and big! For people being mean, they’re not mad at me... they’re hit lol. All I did was read the word of God on screen that makes it hard to refute if you say you believe in God, because they can’t do that, they have resulted to insults to me. Understandable... but the seed has been planted and for that I’m excited. God gonna do his thing regardless lol. So much love for you ♥️

  • @mnoble08
    @mnoble08 4 роки тому +43

    This was SO informative. I’m not in an organization but was always curious. And I’ve NEVER heard of anyone denouncing their membership. So interesting, thanks for sharing!!

  • @c.a.7289
    @c.a.7289 4 роки тому +34

    Im 16 and my some of my family members are apart of delta sigma theta. I never understood the whole "not of god concept" until now. A dark room, candles, and a ritual book sounds like a new religion all just to stroll and shout aloud and hold a pyramid. I appreciate an actual member speaking on this and making a broader understanding.

  • @faye8694
    @faye8694 4 роки тому +112

    I wanted to join in college so badly. That particular organization ( DST) was just coming off suspension and i wanted to be on the first line. My GPA was great, i had great recommendations and i was really active in different organizations so i was bound to get in. Made it past the first interview, i was invited to the second round and my car broke down. The exact amount of joining the organization (which ive saved for so long) is the amount the fix my car. I had to fix my car and years later, I realized God orchestrated it b/c he didn’t want me in there.

    • @Lastdayone
      @Lastdayone 4 роки тому

      Faye 🙌🏾

    • @jasminevault9412
      @jasminevault9412 4 роки тому +13

      Omg! Same! I had everything lined up for me to join but I didn’t make it. I didn’t understand this until now! Man’s rejection is God’s protection!

    • @justinabenson7229
      @justinabenson7229 4 роки тому

      👌🏿👌🏿

  • @gloriashaw1153
    @gloriashaw1153 4 роки тому +112

    I am almost in tears as I watch this video. As a Pastor, I am so GODLY proud of you, your boldness and conviction. To put God's Heart above the opinions of men is commenable. I have seen one or two more videos, but THIS ONE...WOW!!! The way you broke this down and backed it up with scripture to expose the enemy and reveal truth is what sets you apart; and I believe places HIS seal of approval on this video! The enemy is BIG MAD at you young lady lol!! This is going to help so many people. I wanted to pledge so badly in college. Even thought about pledging grad chapter after school, but didn't. I understand now that God had His hands on me the entire time! My daughter is in college now (2nd semester) and I have already had this conversation with her, so she knows. I pray GOD opens doors and blesses you to embrace many platforms to bring mass deliverance to those who are held captive. Go In Jesus' Name!!! Your Heavenly Father is with you and is certainly SMILING upon you!

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +14

      This comment almost brought me to tears. I know that we aren’t to look to man for validation but if I can be honest seeing some of the terrible comments get me down. I felt God as I read your kind words. I felt love as i read it and I am so thankful you took the time to watch and to share this with me. When making this video I fought God hard because I was scared of how it would position me in the world but I asked him to speak through me if it had to be done. I love that you can see this and that it’s been a blessing to you! Praying for your daughter and her overall college experience. I am so happy that this is being talked about and more young people are being made aware! He worked it all out for good ♥️

    • @gloriashaw1153
      @gloriashaw1153 4 роки тому +7

      @@Itsdesireegrace I felt God all over this video! I felt led to allow God to use me as He has many others to remind you that if God be for you, WHO can stand against you, that He will SHUT the mouth of the enemy and that there are way more people rooting for you than who are against you! God bless you all the way from Florida! Be encouraged! I don't even know you, but I KNOW we serve the same God, therefore, I love you with the Love of Christ!

  • @joycewatt800
    @joycewatt800 2 роки тому +15

    You said it, “spiritual doesn’t always mean something is of God.”
    💯!! The spiritual realm includes the demonic. Spiritual warfare is real.

  • @brenasia5541
    @brenasia5541 5 років тому +511

    “SPIRITUAL DOESN’T EQUATE TO GOOD.” so good.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +6

      Brenasia thank you for watching !!!!

    • @ShesAbsurd
      @ShesAbsurd 4 роки тому +1

      so true 👏🏽

    • @2010Savannahgurl
      @2010Savannahgurl 4 роки тому +1

      True!

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 4 роки тому +5

      There is a lot of different spirits, not just the Holy Spirit.

  • @yolamarj7210
    @yolamarj7210 5 років тому +201

    I hope every believer in Christ sees this video and covers our sister in prayer! God bless you sis! Overcome by those words in your testimony💛💛💛

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +3

      YOLA MARJ thank you so much sis! The enemy is angry because Gods people are using their testimonies and speaking out. Thank you for the prayers. Lighting you up as well. Thanks for the support ♥️

    • @yolamarj7210
      @yolamarj7210 5 років тому

      Corporate and Cultured yes I see it in the spirit!!!!
      Dm me if you ever need prayer sis!
      @iamyola.marj on IG

  • @Latriise
    @Latriise 4 роки тому +42

    Thank you for sharing this. I'm praying that God uses this to help bring a lot of people out of darkness. I almost pledged in college. I was away at a school where I didn't know anyone and had a family member that had already gone Greek at a different school. So I thought it was a way into sisterhood and community. But God had saved me the year before and I got plugged into a church. So when I got the "Are you alone? Meet us here," phone call, I told them I had changed my mind. And I've always been grateful to God for steering me away.

  • @jhenf.9987
    @jhenf.9987 4 роки тому +40

    It’s likely that the founders had good intentions but they devil decided to twist it and use it for evil. But you are absolutely right. We need to be able discern what is of God and what is not. I would have been out the minute they asked me to kneel before a shrine.

  • @LaurinaRochelle
    @LaurinaRochelle 5 років тому +52

    Skylar so much grace and class in this video. My little sister Kaniesha told me about you awhile ago. Don’t let the jabs of the enemy deter you from being obedient to God.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +12

      Brazen Reverence Whew.... your video set it off for me. I watched and teared up as I fought every word you said but my spirit knew. Thank you for obedience and turning the culture on its head with your boldness!!!!

    • @TheRealStellaNoWine
      @TheRealStellaNoWine 4 роки тому +1

      I really feel like your talking about my old friend! I don’t know why but something connected there 💪🏽✨

  • @f.i.t.momchallenge8885
    @f.i.t.momchallenge8885 2 роки тому +9

    I denounced Delta a few years ago. God had been dealing with me about it even doing the last few weeks before crossing. One of my former line sisters reached out who had been “owt” and the most dedicated to DST. She told
    me she rededicated her life to God and felt like God was dealing with her on that idol worship that being in a sorority or fraternity brings. I knew it was a sign as well for me because I felt God dealing with me. She showed me how to file official paperwork because I had already renounced but never filed paperwork. We learned at the time that multiple people from that campus were feeling led to leave the greek organizations after realizing the deception and covenants we made in ignorance. Rituals we did that needed repentance. At that time one of my former neo's called me because she said she needed someone to talk to and knew I was a Christ follower. she had no idea that I was denouncing DELTA, she started telling me how she has been feeling uneasy about being in the organization and was scared and didn’t know what to do. I went ahead and let her know that I was in the middle of denouncing and I was so glad that she reached out to me and she felt such a sense of relief. All of us went through the process of filing paperwork together and getting released from the organization back to back. There was a mass exodus of people leaving those organizations (all divine 9) over the next two years now to the point where they are writing special stipulations in your withdrawal forms. People are exposing secrets of how much darkness is associated with these orgs. If you want excerpts from the ritual books and the process of leaving or need additional support because it’s thousands of us who have obeyed God and left, the website is outfromamongthem.com God bless you for sharing your story to help others

  • @shaylaandlloydbrown2742
    @shaylaandlloydbrown2742 4 роки тому +36

    I am so moved by your bravery. I went to the founding university and attended a Greek rush. Never turned in the application because after pre-pledging for almost 2 years, my spirit couldn’t stomach the hypocrisy anymore. That was over 15 years ago. Since then, I’ve grown in my walk with God and become aware of the demonic roots of all these types of organizations. So often we only hear about masonry, but indeed all of these organizations leave generational curses that are nothing to play with. After watching your video, I wept. Maybe because of what God spared me from but also in intercession for the mass exodus that must take place for our brothers and sisters. I pray covering over you and your message and ask God to use this to bring more into the light. Thanks for sharing!

  • @praises5139
    @praises5139 4 роки тому +119

    Such clear and concise teaching for all who desire a biblical-based walk with Jesus Christ.

    • @galenmuhammad6910
      @galenmuhammad6910 4 роки тому

      IF you have the same interpretation as those here. Most DON'T have that interpretation, so....

    • @praises5139
      @praises5139 4 роки тому

      @@galenmuhammad6910 I am not sure as to what you are trying to express. Who are ''those here''? Who are ''most''? What data are you using to determine ''most''? Does the data, for ''most'', come from a valid sample group? Interpetation would need to be based on supporting scriptures, and looking at those scriptures in the original language including individual word study inclusive of the number of occurances. The scriptures used were taken from the Tanakh directly, and the New Testament scriptures used were quotations based on Tanakh. I don't use oral traditions or man-made traditions to interpet scripture. I am a follower of Yeoshua Ha'Mashiach. And you are...?

    • @galenmuhammad6910
      @galenmuhammad6910 4 роки тому

      @@praises5139 Am I to assume that you are not reading the responses? MOST of the replies agree with the video whereas I seem to be in the minority that do not.
      If a person want to leave an organization, I can respect them using the door and leaving. But to make claims about the organization based of their personal interpretation of the Bible is taking it to another level.
      I've been asking for the specific verse wherein God tells the believers to not join college-based organizations. So far, no one's even attempted to provide said verse(s).
      I'm a former Christian, now a Muslim, if the last name doesn't make it evident.

    • @inpursuitofexcellence750
      @inpursuitofexcellence750 4 роки тому +1

      Galen Muhammad I think looking for an exact “do not join blgo’s” in the scripture is not realistic. The Bible also does not explicitly say “don’t download pornography from the internet” but we can gather from the character of God in scripture that this is wrong.

  • @Sheenahairston455
    @Sheenahairston455 4 роки тому +25

    I always wondered why I never desired to be part of a sorority. Crazy because I chose to attend four different colleges, and neither of them offered greek life. After listening to this, the answer that arose within my spirit was: "because WE were not having any of that"! Thank you for sharing this.

  • @wintermoto12
    @wintermoto12 4 роки тому +18

    I went through a ritual as part of invitation for a Masonic Order...I was blindfolded and it was supernaturally hot in there. I can't even explain it because it was not a thermostat issue. It's actually what made me decline the invitation. I don't know anything about the Bible but I am learning more about the Word and I am so glad that God covers us.

  • @mariemika8929
    @mariemika8929 4 роки тому +264

    We are more sisters now than when we were in the name of AKA. God is pleased 🙏

  • @MsDueces01
    @MsDueces01 4 роки тому +35

    This popped up in my recommendation, as someone who has relatives in positions in these organisations and to currently be in college, choosing not to be in them was literally like going against my family. I consider myself to be a very spiritual person so I was really conflicted. So I really appreciate this video

  • @sharonwashington9114
    @sharonwashington9114 4 роки тому +58

    This is the BEST revelation I’ve seen yet. Each instance of conflict was backed by the word of God rather than personal experience alone. It reminds me of the film “The Book of Eli” you should watch it if you haven’t seen it yet. the devil tried his hardest to get his hands on the Bible so that he could use it to manipulate the people left after the second coming. My hat goes off to you woman of God.

  • @Dr.Cherokie
    @Dr.Cherokie 5 років тому +239

    Thank you Love. This video empowered my best friend to follow her conviction and denounce her letters for another org.
    For me, my mother has been wanting me to be an AKA and continue the legacy. Something had always gotten in the way, and now that I'm 'available' something still didnt seem right. Her rebuttals to my inquiries about their super secret pledge process and their founding principles is always 'we pray over everything' . But this video has helped me see what Holy spirit was tryna tell me. "Just because God is in it, doesnt mean he's Of it". Joining this org is not the only way to better the world through community service and sisterhood.T hank you for your transparency and your obedience. I appreciate you. God bless 💕

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +20

      Dr. Cherokie Hey sis, wow the testimony in this. From your friend to you - I’m continuously reminded of the bigger picture and now that I’ve stepped out on FAITH I’m looking back at all the fear I had. While i was worrying God was working - and he had his mind on people like you and your friend... and so many others that would hear his voice through this video. I am so pleased that I could’ve helped in anyway. Thank you for sharing with me- means the world!

    • @marik6545
      @marik6545 4 роки тому +5

      @Dr.Cherokie. After reading your testimony, the Lord reminded me of the perfect scripture that aligns with your situation; Matthew 10 34-39. I was thinking wow Lord, I see why you said that in that scripture... Makes a lot of sense.

  • @CherissePlair
    @CherissePlair 4 роки тому +89

    I denounce my membership to AKA around 2007 for the same reasons. Great video

  • @simonegibbs3622
    @simonegibbs3622 4 роки тому +65

    I wanted to join a sorority in college. I didn't like the fact that I was told I had to speak to the members in a manner of submission--head bowed and not looking them in the eye. I only now to God. Then I was told that I had to be broken down to be lifted up. Again, that's God's job.
    When I entered seminary and I learned about Greek organizations and their purpose in the time of Paul, I knew I had made the right decision.

    • @KingLeno
      @KingLeno 4 роки тому +1

      what do Greek organizations in the time of Paul have to do with college groups that started in the early 1900s?

    • @simonegibbs3622
      @simonegibbs3622 4 роки тому +13

      @@KingLeno Black Greek Organizations may have started in the 1900's but that's not the start of Greek organizations as a whole.
      Within the Greco Roman World slaves, mainly, were pressured to join organizations and secret societies that focused on the pagan worship at the time; many of which also promoted sexual immoral acts.
      Black Greeks have taken their model from predominantly White Greek organizations... I don't think we have to think to hard to imagine where their rituals were adopted.

    • @NuKarriuss
      @NuKarriuss 4 роки тому

      Wow. You were really told to talk to the members with your head bowed and no eye contact? Sounds like they were very egotistical.

  • @drp1864
    @drp1864 5 років тому +47

    Your defense of this is very well stated. Feels like nobody understands the point of applying scripture within its proper CONTEXT nowadays. I'm an alum of an IFC frat at Memphis and I'll say that I had plenty of moments where I questioned certain things I noticed going on around me when considering my faith. I decided to stay in part due to a conviction I felt to be a positive influence as an ambassador of Christ to my brothers, but I always say that if I had the chance to go through college again, I wouldn't have joined a frat again because it's just not worth all the struggle that comes with Greek life as a Christian. Now that I work as a campus missionary, it's crazy how much my perspective on stuff like this has shifted.
    There are many solid Christians in Greek life that I respect so all the more power to the ones that stay and are able to handle it with strong faiths but also respect to people like you who have the courage to walk away and stand true to pleasing God instead of the people around you. Stay blessed and bold with your faith. It'll always take you further than anything or anyone of this world can.

  • @feilatan
    @feilatan 4 роки тому +67

    This has just helped me...to reignite my relationship with Christ...thanks ❤️

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +2

      Natalie Praise God !!!! I love you sister in Christ!

    • @feilatan
      @feilatan 4 роки тому

      Corporate and Cultured love you too ❤️

  • @tcwalker4able
    @tcwalker4able 4 роки тому +58

    You also pay dues; that’s almost like paying tithes in a way. I’m so happy I saw this video. I refuse to bow, or worship anyone other than God.

  • @seattlegyal5104
    @seattlegyal5104 4 роки тому +57

    I decided to not join a sorority in college because God told me NO. I realize more and more why He said that thanks to videos like this. You are so bold and I know God is smiling down on you. I thank you so much for this video. God bless you.

  • @kh9993
    @kh9993 4 роки тому +54

    When you stand before your Savior, He will say, "Well DONE my good and faithful servant!" You have served SO MANY people with this CHAIN-BREAKING testimony. You are the living embodiment of Jude 1:22-24 Be merciful to those who doubt; save others by snatching them from the fire; to others show mercy, mixed with fear-hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +1

      Keleigh Hadley thank you so much!!!! ♥️♥️♥️ thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • @Carolina-xj3dq
    @Carolina-xj3dq 5 років тому +38

    This is between her and the Lord. I think it’s beautiful ♥️ thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @RareTruthLifestyle
    @RareTruthLifestyle 4 роки тому +78

    My people perish for lack of knowledge Hosea 4:6... Amen sis I pray we all gain wisdom knowledge and understanding ...we desperately need discernment for EVERYTHING

    • @galenmuhammad6910
      @galenmuhammad6910 4 роки тому

      I'm SURE you realize that could apply to those denouncing as well....

  • @joyj7790
    @joyj7790 4 роки тому +23

    Thank you for your courage and truth. I am an AKA. When I attended the Joint Founders Day celebration this year I couldn’t recite the sorority hymns. I felt very strange. God bless you and keep you!

    • @Yepyep341
      @Yepyep341 Рік тому

      So u stayed a member after watching this?

  • @thesoutheastprincess
    @thesoutheastprincess 4 роки тому +35

    I always wanted to be a aka in college but I was really curious and found the pdf file of the aka ritual book back when I was in college in 2010 as I was reading my spiritual beliefs wouldn’t let me agree with was I was reading. I also had male and females in the divine 9 who wished they hadn’t joined. I took it as a sign from God that it wasn’t meant for me

  • @Dearest_Kenyetta
    @Dearest_Kenyetta 4 роки тому +34

    God is so good. He will lead us into ALL truth. And when what He requires, seems hard to obey....He gives us grace every step of the way. God bless you.

    • @wyeshawren
      @wyeshawren 4 роки тому +1

      Nikki Bobbi yes I felt a way about it too growing up most ppl do it to fit in anyway.

  • @sharnetteraye-brown9523
    @sharnetteraye-brown9523 3 роки тому +10

    To God be the glory for your obedience. I denounced my membership in Delta Sigma Theta in Dec. 2018, after God's leading, which included searching the scriptures, re-reading the ritual (in it's entirety), and learning the origins of Greek letter organizations and secret societies as a whole. Continue to let your light shine, for many souls will be saved by the word of your testimony. God bless you sis.

  • @darlineb426
    @darlineb426 4 роки тому +44

    I never had a desire to join a sorority in my college years and I'm thankful that I never did 🙌🏽

  • @Maxwellfresh11
    @Maxwellfresh11 5 років тому +191

    C’mon and rightly divide The Word of God! The Father is so proud of you!!!

  • @Christian80806
    @Christian80806 4 роки тому +118

    Crossed AKA in spring 11. Denounced in summer 13. It wasn’t for me. I never fit in and it always plagued my spirit and conflicted with my faith. Praise God!!!!

    • @mellowseller9762
      @mellowseller9762 4 роки тому

      Do you know that devil spelled backwards is lived? Think. The verb used is spelled. None of this is what you think. Dogma of manmade beliefs causes our internal conflict. We are a people of spirit and not dogma.

    • @lalajones5887
      @lalajones5887 4 роки тому

      Oh wow....

    • @crhesq
      @crhesq 4 роки тому

      Sk did you send I. Your paperwork to officially renounce or di you just renounce in your heart and yet you're still in the books?

    • @Christian80806
      @Christian80806 4 роки тому +7

      crhesq literally wrote a letter to headquarters denouncing my letters. Got a letter back requesting their pin & book but I had already threw them in the dumpster

    • @BrianWilliams1911
      @BrianWilliams1911 4 роки тому

      You just ugly and lame.

  • @je39981
    @je39981 5 років тому +45

    Matthew 10:33-40 New International Version (NIV)
    "But whoever disowns me before others, I will disown before my Father in heaven."
    God is watching and I am sure he is proud of you. Keep close to God and give your life to Christ and he will not lead you astray. When walking with Christ you will lose people and many may not agree but you will not lose Him. Stand firm and pray to God because it only gets harder from here.

  • @happyteacher7294
    @happyteacher7294 4 роки тому +15

    I always wondered about this in college and i am 48 now. I realized my cousin stop hanging out with me in college because of a sorority. I couldnt figure out why she did this. Now I know why. You have done an excellent job of explaining this to me. People need to and see. Their attitudes are not great because they look down on people. Keep up the truth!!

  • @Syrah143
    @Syrah143 5 років тому +24

    Gurllllllll I have nothing to do with nothing I just saw your video on twitter but when you compared Psalm 141 to The AKA ritual i was literally toooo shook!!!!! So happy For you Child of God❤️❤️

  • @LivingBoldlyWithUyi
    @LivingBoldlyWithUyi 4 роки тому +148

    I know this took a lot of courage, but we thank God for your obedience

    • @lahc2007
      @lahc2007 2 роки тому

      Denouncing an organization, but showing ads to get paid. Spend your time teaching other things. Your message is very good. The platform and being paid is not.

  • @Habeshamorena8
    @Habeshamorena8 4 роки тому +61

    I did the same thing with DST I began to be so convicted. I actually knew before pledging that God was convicting me but I did it anywa. Finally I began to detach myself from it, and the final thing was taking the plate off my car I went to put on my DST ball cap to run out and the Holy spirit said I told you to get rid of everything. And honestly I am still holding on to my line sweatshirt but Glory to God After this video I am lettingbit go. The soul ties are strong in these organizations

    • @PP-mz4hv
      @PP-mz4hv 4 роки тому +3

      Burn it in your fire pit.

    • @PP-mz4hv
      @PP-mz4hv 4 роки тому

      Hello Black Gatekeepers - "Boule"
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    • @janicewashington4318
      @janicewashington4318 3 роки тому +1

      U can do it lil sis 😊

    • @msconcreterose93
      @msconcreterose93 3 роки тому +1

      Do you have an update?

  • @kingdomtrends711
    @kingdomtrends711 3 роки тому +15

    SIS! You broke this all the way down. I have to say that in 2018 I had considered rejoining and I came upon a video from a DST member who denounced after I attended a "founder's day" event. that was God's sign to me that you need not rejoin. I got rid of whatever shirts & para I had and God had me denounce on Facebook the following year in 2019. Though it was tough, I knew that obeying God was better than sacrifice. Out From Among Them is a group that travels around and talks about all of this.

  • @hbchealthybychoice6616
    @hbchealthybychoice6616 2 роки тому +5

    Never understood the dark spooky room. One of my line sisters was literally having a seizure during the process and was taken for medical attention afterwards😞

  • @tammychristian4210
    @tammychristian4210 4 роки тому +69

    I dissociated myself from my sorority my senior year. I tried again later in life through a graduate chapter. I was only really interested in community service and I had hoped that at 40 years old (the general age of the chapter) that people would be more mature. I was wrong. It was still very catty and strife filled spirit. That attitude permeates through the organizations. It’s a major turn off. Kind of cult like. I watched good people become very nasty. All just trying to find validation. ...Even as very grown women.

    • @swiftkarma4436
      @swiftkarma4436 4 роки тому +2

      People who never left college

    • @lisaadams780
      @lisaadams780 2 роки тому +1

      I sit among many people with bad vibes in church every Sunday because people are dealing with so much. I still go to church because no one is holy. Pray for the organizations to cut the oaths and what is called pagan rituals. I do believe when God says go, go. I also believe people who are having problems with orgs can bring it to the org about getting rid of it. So many are feeling this. They would have to listen and begin to make changes.
      My relative wanted to be an AKA but she said she was in no way going to hold her hands out at the side, tilt her head back and shake her hair. For her she felt that was vain. So people feel things before joining and don’t do it. Some still join wanting to be a part of a group. I wonder how much better these orgs can be without all the rituals and oaths Christians don’t like? These organizations were started 100 years ago and changes can be made without judging all members to be sinners because they still in the organization. Change it!

  • @KaylaPrintup
    @KaylaPrintup 4 роки тому +45

    What a powerful video. I always wanted to pledge AKA in undergrad but God kept saying no. I was never presented the opportunity. I was upset and wish I had the opportunity to do it and even considered it for graduate chapter, but God hasn’t opened that door for me. I always wondered why? I’m currently in the process of transforming and my relationship with God is getting stronger and stronger! I’m learning to trust him with my life and when he says no, it’s for a reason! I randomly saw this video on my TL and I had to watch it. This touches me because 3-4 years ago I didn’t understand why I never had the opportunity to join the sorority but it just didn’t feel right or 100% genuine for me. The “sisters” didn’t feel like people I wanted relationships with either. It just didn’t sit 100% well with me but I wanted to do it anyway. I also had family members that are Greek. Fast forward to today, I’m finally realizing that it wasn’t for me! God has other plans for me and he knows that this was not in his plans for me.

    • @shesheknowss3272
      @shesheknowss3272 4 роки тому +1

      Kayla Printup I have a similar story to u. I had the opportunity to do so in undergrad but I knew who would be my potential line sisters and I didn’t like the sister hood of the line that was going to pledge the next. Like you said it just didn’t sit right we me. I way always around Greek life even after undergrad because I dated one. For years I thought about why didn’t I and this vlog reassured me that I made the right choice. I didn’t like the motto I’m going to break u down, degrade u and build u back up.

    • @KaylaPrintup
      @KaylaPrintup 4 роки тому

      shesheknowss I’m so happy you followed your gut! I feel like I made the right decision.

  • @ForeverBrittanyNicole
    @ForeverBrittanyNicole 5 років тому +177

    It’s crazy how people read the title and instantly hit the, “Dont blame the organization just because you couldn’t keep God a priority in your life.” Or “just denounce in private, you’re doing this for clout” When clearly your eyes were opened to the truth based off of SCRIPTURE & the HOLY SPIRIT. Everyone won’t understand and that’s just that. But this video is touching those that it’s meant for. Whether they speak up and say that, or happen to be convicted in private. You made this video because God led you and I commend you sis.
    They will defend these MAN-MADE organizations harder than they defend God or themselves. IDOLATRY. They put their identity into a secret society and they get mad when you shake the table on what they believe. I am praying for you sis! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @B.laguerre
      @B.laguerre 5 років тому +8

      Wow sis! You definitely said it best!

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +16

      Brittany Gibbs whew Brittany - we need to connect bc you just said everything ive been feeling for the past couple of days. Thank you for the breakdown and encouragement!!! You just spilled all the tea lol.

    • @ForeverBrittanyNicole
      @ForeverBrittanyNicole 5 років тому +14

      Corporate and Cultured I follow you on twitter lol! I’ll DM you!! I had to. I’m not apart of an organization but I know how it feels to stand for God while others bash you. ❤️

    • @MsMirageLove
      @MsMirageLove 4 роки тому +7

      Brittany Gibbs 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾You hit the nail on the head with this comment!!

    • @lilmama9t6
      @lilmama9t6 4 роки тому +5

      Girl you broke it down..love it..keep doing the will of God

  • @JasmineJeane
    @JasmineJeane 4 роки тому +14

    I really like how thorough and clear you are. Almost more than that that in this day and age where we have so many critics you put this out boldly. Truly raised the standard so grateful for the video.

  • @abidingeast
    @abidingeast 4 роки тому +21

    Thank you for your obedience. Your video and many of the scriptures you found were very similar to what God showed me as I read through the rituals for myself. I denounced AKA in August of 2018 and got my official papers from the org in February. God bless you sis.

  • @ericaharris4728
    @ericaharris4728 5 років тому +31

    Praise the Lord for your obedience to Him, the light of His truth about the wickedness of these organizations is clear for those who truly want to obey and love God.

  • @crystaltharrell
    @crystaltharrell 4 роки тому +11

    Thank you for putting this information out there for others to take and do what they will. Knowledge and wisdom comes from above but we choose what to do with it. I have been going back and forth between being an AKA for years. I keep meeting AKA’s and at times people would assume I was one. One night, I had a dream that I was about to cross and I was sent in this dark room. There were people standing around like they were in a trance or something. I remember having to do sexual favors for a leader and I remember being confused when I awoke. It was like I received my confirmation that night. My dad was always against Greek life because he said that the only God we should worship is our Father in Heaven. Years later, THIS video has confirmed what I’ve always known. The spirit world is REAL, and she’s right, not all spirits are good.

  • @daniemich2785
    @daniemich2785 4 роки тому +11

    This is beautiful. What a witness. Although I am not apart of Greek, I always struggled in college with the battle of the conviction and knowledge from the Holy Spirit, which led me to always turn away when presented with the opportunity. This video is more than that and you shared so many principles that we can use in everyday life

  • @pblalock68
    @pblalock68 4 роки тому +11

    I denounced and repented from my vows to DST. Once I understood what I was going through the initiation process, it was trauma bonding done to confuse and weaken the spirit to manipulate you. TMH doesn’t require us to belong to anything for salvation.
    Great video...

  • @MonYonnaBraxton
    @MonYonnaBraxton 4 роки тому +75

    Thank you for sharing this video with others . I was doing research and wanted to join AKA but God told me no and His words were, “I’m your only source; I’m able to open / close doors that no man can do.” Because of your obedience, God is getting ready to release His blessings to you . Now, you may have some people mad but just continue to trust God and be attentive to His words ! 💕 #FellowSisterInChrist

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +7

      Annis Tomorrow thank you Annis. I’ll keep doing what he tells me to! I appreciate this encouragement so much ♥️

    • @MonYonnaBraxton
      @MonYonnaBraxton 4 роки тому +3

      No problem , God is always around to fix the crown of His children !

  • @itsmetyler__
    @itsmetyler__ 4 роки тому +18

    I love your boldness and obedience to God when he spoke to you 🙌🏾 and you backed it all up with scripture !

  • @lump37njames
    @lump37njames 3 роки тому +8

    That's why I denounced the...
    Wait for it...
    THE EASTERN STAR😳

  • @moomoopo
    @moomoopo 3 роки тому +12

    I knew there was a reason why sororities and fraternities never sat well with me. This is a good reminder because sometimes dangerous things like this aren’t 100% clear.

  • @artbynieceykinz
    @artbynieceykinz 5 років тому +132

    Lmaooo you got people UPSET in these lil comments at the end of the day your decision is made and this your platform to put whatever you want on 😂

  • @opennant
    @opennant 4 роки тому +121

    Praise God please pray for my husband he is battling with leaving his fraternity it runs heavy in his family my sister in law just got into a sorority . Pray for my family and anyone who is struggling

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  4 роки тому +4

      o pennant praying heavily tonight for you and forever.

    • @hustlehardermommy9675
      @hustlehardermommy9675 4 роки тому +17

      I would advise him to NOT tell his family ahead of time. Sometimes you have to walk through a situation with God and let everyone else deal with it afterwards

    • @smc112
      @smc112 4 роки тому

      The men don’t worship or take the rituals as serious as the women do, so he will probably be okay staying in the fraternity.

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP 2 роки тому +1

      @@smc112 no he need to RENOUNCE IT AND GET OUT

  • @alexusmarshall2574
    @alexusmarshall2574 4 роки тому +13

    Tried to join an organization twice and didn’t get in. I had a recommendation from an active member, another great recommendation letter, a very high gpa, good community service, good interview, but didn’t get in. I was hurt because this is what I wanted to do since I was little. But they chose people who didn’t even have as much community service or as high of a gpa as I did. They just chose their friends and people who were popular as well as legacies. It really hurt me. But I guess God didn’t want me to do it 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @messiahboss3188
    @messiahboss3188 5 років тому +62

    Study to show thyself approved. The holy spirit had its arm around you & reveal revelation to you. Same thing with gangs as well.💯🙏

    • @4marcey
      @4marcey 4 роки тому

      "his"* arms ...The Holy spirit is a he not an "it" John 16:13.....❤

  • @rikeshafoster
    @rikeshafoster 4 роки тому +77

    As a former member of DST, I took this position several years ago after going through a similar experience. As you move closer to God, He will indeed reveal things to you that are not of Him. I have, over time, discarded all paraphernalia, and burned my certificate. I have asked God for forgiveness. I applaud you, my sister in Christ, and pray for your continued strength. It’s not always easy picking God over something you care deeply about, but it’s going to well worth it. He’s Alpha and Omega, and everything else is secondary anyway. Love and happiness to you and thank you for sharing your story.

  • @missyjayjay1
    @missyjayjay1 4 роки тому +11

    Who wrote this book??!?!? That’s the most important question. Why isn’t anyone putting this on blast like we do other things. I heard a very good quote from a movie that hit me hard and should everyone else ..”it’s real in there (church) but not out here (outside the church)...”

  • @queenroyaltyrules55
    @queenroyaltyrules55 4 роки тому +79

    Wow!! God meant for me to see this. I'm 47 yrs old (48 in January) & I'm about to graduate with my Bachelors in Elementary Education. And will be starting an accelerated program to obtain my Masters & Doctrine.
    I've always, always said I would pledge Delta however the closer I get to it the more my spirit is saying "NO!". I have prayed & prayed about it & today your video came up in my recommends.
    I just really can't believe this!!! 🤷🏾‍♀️😟😳

    • @Marpessa28
      @Marpessa28 4 роки тому +5

      THE REAL QUEEN ROYALTY LIVES! Congratulations on graduating👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓

    • @ValarieCole
      @ValarieCole 4 роки тому +6

      Girl!!! I’m screaming hallelujah because I just saw your comment that you wrote a week ago!! However- my comment that I just wrote about 45 minutes ago portrays yours...... it’s crazy... I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ if you would be able to view it via the other comments on here...
      Whew, Nonetheless- God be glorified and 💪 yes! listen to the Holy Spirit “within you”.... 💕🙏👈

    • @Carameldoll
      @Carameldoll 4 роки тому +4

      OMG this exactly what happened to me too! I’m in school for my undergrad in Marketing and had every intention to becoming a Delta. Ironically, this video came up as a suggestion and I skipped it for the last 2 days but it kept popping up. The Lord has a way of getting his message across 🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @lge1910
      @lge1910 4 роки тому +1

      Not to knock anyone but pledging at 40 or even 30 something WHY??????

    • @seliahh9451
      @seliahh9451 4 роки тому +4

      @@lge1910, it's to be a part of something popular. It's to feel validated. Some folks couldn't afford it during undergrad or wasn't accepted during that time. Or perhaps the undergrad chapter was suspended at the time. These organizations have a positive image & our flesh tends to desire to be a part of it. We don't realize our desire is really to have that void filled by the Lord.
      The word "panhellenic" has always felt demonic to me. I wanted to be a Delta & my packet was accepted for an interview but I thank God I didn't know enough of the history (it wasn't easy to come across this info in the mid 90 w o the internet) to pass the interview. I've tried to justify things when I wanted to try again but the Spirit always quickened me that it was not of God.

  • @kristinajones9512
    @kristinajones9512 3 роки тому +15

    I renounced DST 7 years ago. I applaud your boldness!

  • @theresajenkins3065
    @theresajenkins3065 Рік тому +3

    These organizations are rooted in paganism and idolatry. I thank my Father that He opened my eyes over 19 years ago. Praying for all who are involved in them. Open their eyes Father!! Open their hearts to Your will and way.

  • @teresasjackson2233
    @teresasjackson2233 4 роки тому +30

    When we know better Sis we do better.
    Good move and trust in Him alone

  • @ShenayUnique
    @ShenayUnique 3 роки тому +8

    Wow! I feel so proud of you and I don’t even know you. How brave and strong you are to stand in your faith and truth. Wishing you continued strength in your walk with God. Thank you for this video.

  • @cookingcraftculture9594
    @cookingcraftculture9594 4 роки тому +12

    Thank you for sharing the truth! I Denounced AKA back in 2010ish. After doing a biblical leadership class. Most looked at me like a weird alien greek and non-greek. I forgot about the exact actual words to the rituals, but it did bother me about vows and oaths. The Holy Spirit reveals to me the titles of the officers "Supreme Basileus" and the fact that one of the founders was a linguist. So she understood the meaning and implications of certain words.

  • @kiasky1
    @kiasky1 4 роки тому +88

    I am an AkA. My experience was wonderful. As years progressed, I grew out of the sorority. I am a Christian now and I was a Christian when I pledged. Life takes you on a journey you either grow or you don’t. There was nothing evil about pledging for me. Just my opinion.

    • @hellojenny24
      @hellojenny24 4 роки тому +22

      I am also Greek and my experience was wonderful as well. All BGLOs are founded on Christian principles. She really shouldn't be sharing specific details about the process. GOD was my lord and savior when i crossed and he is now ! that will never change.

    • @kimk391
      @kimk391 4 роки тому +32

      @@hellojenny24 but why shouldn't she share it? Everyone knows knowledge is power. Also what's done in the dark will come to the light. I have friends who are in sororities ago im not judging anyone but the mere fact that you don't see that something may be off if it's supposed to be secrets

    • @hellojenny24
      @hellojenny24 4 роки тому +11

      @@kimk391she shouldn't share it. They are sacred! Had she done her research properly before joining she would have known. These sororities have been around for over 100 years. Of course the intake process has things in it that many wouldn't call modern. She is not sharing knowledge shes sharing her "opinion". There's nothing to come to the light 🤷🏾‍♀️. Your not Greek and you'll never understand. She never mentioned all the things that we do for our black communities. I am wise enough to know how to seperate my personal life and my letters. Just so you know in the D9 chat they are tearing this
      Video apart in the comments. Crazy that i didn't search for this video and i didn't search in the D9 chat and they have a ton of valid information. If this is her choice and opinion then do so in private. She took a oath rather you want to go back on your words or not and you should show that org the same respect you were given. Why didn't u walk out of that ritualistic ceremony if you didn't think it was right. 🤷🏾‍♀️ why take up a line # that you didn't want. They really need to vet the prospects better. It's not a easy process, and everyone does not just get selected. I've never heard of anyone denoucing my org. I just don't understand your purpose for the video. You say your just sharing but your video influences against soroities 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kimk391
      @kimk391 4 роки тому +12

      @@hellojenny24 i completely get where youre coming from. My ex best friend pledged delta. She is such a strong personality. But afterwards, she was different and she explained it as saying she wasnt sure who she was after she endured what she did while she pledged. She did tell me some if the things they had to do loke not perming their hair and waking up in the middle of the night and going to a house and running silly errands. You're right i don't understand and it i made it a point not to try to understand it. We all wanted to pledge growing up but i decided it wasnt for me before i even tried. I hold strong to my now bowong down or kissing no ones butt (and i meam that in the most respectful way). I dont kiss up to anyone to get something. Ive been that way since i had a voice as a child so i knew I couldn't be in a sorority because I could never make myself do the things needed to get in. I experienced it a little when i was in band amd we shut it down entering as the freshman class because I didn't see the necessity. We all knew about the hazing, we all jnew they break you down to rebuild you back up in the sisterhood, we knew people who crossed before we got to college, some of tje common things sororities do are wide known knowledge in the black community so I'm not completely in the dark and most african americans are not in the complete dark about what you need to do to cross. Its the stuff done in the dark that people dont know about. And its done that way bu design i guess idk. Ive seen videos of people denouncing many frats and sororities and went down a rabbit hole clocking on videos. It started with an aka denouncement video, then two delta denouncement videos, and an omega denouncement (not on Facebook but in the comments there were so many people who said they denounced) . I llve what sororities and fraternities do for the community no one os taking that away from any of them, i think it's just not for everybody. Some will struggle with the changing if bible versus and bowing and kneeling and some wont. To each his own. I also saw in a lot of the people who felt uncomfortable about what they did, it was the part that is "secret." The pledging and kneeling and bowing which they say conflicts with words in the bible. This is their journey. You asked why talk about something you took an oath on, i cant answer that because I'm not Greek. I dont even say the pledge of allegiance because i dont like the way the words are. I DONT plesge allegiance to anything, period. If my country is wrong, I'm going to speak on it and not "back them up no matter what" whatis also interesting to me is that the poloce take a fraternal order and a light bulb went iff for me one day. People say, why when a cop sees another cops doing wrong or overstepping what's right, they don't say anything...? Well its for the same reason you think no one speak of the process for pledging greek. It's a shut up mentality. But people want to get uoset at police for not speaking up whwn they kill black people and are racist but they understand the same oath mentaility when it comes to greeks??? Like i said have no judgement on greek societies but it's not for me. If it's for you (in general) then it's for you. But there are many people who are still under greek oaths who tell what happens. It's not as secret as you think

    • @kimk391
      @kimk391 4 роки тому +29

      @@hellojenny24 also how can she do thorough research beforehand if the point is to keep it secret? I'm not trying to argue, just really asking questions I'm curious about. I love a good dialogue

  • @marie1hummingbird
    @marie1hummingbird 5 років тому +96

    Be blessed. God is so pleased. from a denounced AKA. I am set free. 2 years and a half now.

    • @MsMirageLove
      @MsMirageLove 5 років тому +11

      Mimi God bless you, sis! I denounced AKA in April of this year!💛

    • @ATurnergirl
      @ATurnergirl 4 роки тому +3

      Praise God!!!

  • @growinginfaith1670
    @growinginfaith1670 4 роки тому +18

    Never been in a sorority but enjoyed this video...God Bless you sis for bringing light to this matter!🙌🏾

  • @dommieciarra
    @dommieciarra 5 років тому +105

    I just wanna lift God up and praise him right now, thank you Jesus for speaking through this young lady a sister in Christ. This video was perfectly articulated without any biases just plain fact. This video applies to so many different things. As i am trying to break away and tear down idols in my life, although i have never been a part of a Greek organization. This can apply to so many areas of our lives. You truly brought Glory to his name by doing this and you took yourself out of it except for the parts he called you to do. Thank you for sharing this. I pray for your protection and guidance and continued obedience to serve him. In Jesus name i pray Amen.

    • @Itsdesireegrace
      @Itsdesireegrace  5 років тому +8

      Dommie Ciarra Wow what a comment! This literally almost brought tears to my eyes. I appreciate you viewing it but i also appreciate your kind sentiments. I was so scared to do this- there were many nights of tears and fear and finally followed by some peace. I now know I had nothing to fear but everything to be looking forward to. Messages like these remind me of how great God is. Thank you for sharing this with me.. so very special ♥️

    • @dommieciarra
      @dommieciarra 5 років тому +2

      Corporate and Cultured Girl yes and I hope that gives you encouragement and deepens your faith. Because this act of obedience is another testimony in itself. I know our heavenly Father is proud of you.

  • @lexxmonaye
    @lexxmonaye 5 років тому +179

    I’m not in any organization, but this was very eye opening and a beautiful message! Thanks for being strong

    • @Letsmakeupwithcarolj
      @Letsmakeupwithcarolj 4 роки тому +13

      Lex Monaye I’m not in any organization either but! This video clearly makes you think about EVERYTHING you may be ‘attached’ to!

    • @christinajames6115
      @christinajames6115 4 роки тому +3

      @@Letsmakeupwithcarolj Amen. I was telling my sister about pagan roots in common things today and how you can be on the satanic side of things unknowingly. Also how ppl will try to make excuses when they do come into some sort of knowledge and through the excuses they try to reason their desires with what is required of us by The Most High. I'm going to send her a link to this video

    • @Letsmakeupwithcarolj
      @Letsmakeupwithcarolj 4 роки тому +2

      Christina James heyyy Christina!!! That’s the issue!!! The enemy is very cunting!!! but also very wise “having us to reason our desires most of the time is ungodly”. The bottom line is if we can’t back it up with scripture; more than likely it’s not something we should be partaking in. Excuses are just that, excuses. Yes! Definitely share this video with your sister. This young lady opened the door no, literally tore the roof off this organization. And as you can see they’ve come out the wood works with excuses. God said that, that is done in the dark will he revealed in the light....

  • @Maddygurl12304996
    @Maddygurl12304996 4 роки тому +55

    Of course people have different experiences while pledging but I always felt like many people denounced their letters from putting too much of themselves into the organization(which is a serious problem). You reading and giving examples of the ritual gives a very different perspective.....its actually sick and disturbing. Great video!