24 mins in was such a beautiful moment that choked me up, we’re all trying to put ourselves in boxes for the platforms instead of the platforms serving us right now…I’m in constant paralysis because I can’t just post what I want, I have to be overly analytical which spoils the process for me & my marketing has suffered. Thank you for your realness. Keep your head up girl I’ve watched literally every video regarding the industry❤ You help my confidence in just being present for fans as me, just speaking up about how I truly feel & not hiding behind all the bs glamour that some girls promote xx
Hi my beautiful bestie how are you doing today I hope you are doing i.started a new class this week I am taking a nutrition class hopefully I can pass it since I struggled with my family and marriage class since the exams were extremely difficult for me hopefully this class will be a lot better for me and less stressful but will see what happens. Hopefully I am still one of your best friends on here and off here still I consider you still my best friend my girlfriend and I are doing well just taking it day by hoping everything will get better for us soon her mom has been trying to break us up but it's not going to happen we love each other way to much. Anyhow hope you and Daisy are doing well Love you always your friend Khloe 💗💗💗💕❤
I just wanted you to know you are your biggest critic because from the outside looking in, you are the type of girl I would see in a line up of women and be like “yup, that’s the one!” You are soooo beautiful, don’t let what society says or anyone for that matter make you feel like you aren’t.
Heyyyy gurrrl….I love your content and honesty….we’re women and will always feel a sense of insecurity…..I’m learning to catch my comparison thoughts and intentionally remind myself that I’m hot and there’s so much proof in your progress….as a mentor and creator you have a lot on your plate and it’s easy to get distracted when the your audience includes the next generation….you’re an inspiration to me at 42 yrs and I know you’ll come back up and get your wisdom and confidence back….xoxo
Okay, I’m also a SW but this is all about the Guinea pig lol!! 1st of all he’s beautiful, secondly you’re doing fantastic with the space, care and attention you’re giving him. Finally you may want to look into how pigs are pack animals. Unfortunately they don’t do great when they’re alone 😢 if you have any questions please please hit me up. I adore you for giving your love to a lil pig! I’ve raised 9 total and I’m happy to share any knowledge ❤
I've always like these type of videos, you're always keeping it so real. I also struggle with comparing myself to others so much when I know I shouldn't. Alsooooo.. When you mentioned your natural curly hair, I related so much with that, I've also been straightening my hair since I could remember and now that I try to wear it natural it just doesn't feel like me🥲🥲
we all know we shouldn't but its sooo hard not to compare sometimes!! im glad you commented bc sometimes I feel so alone with the hair thing :/ sucks you are going through this too, but we are in this together!!
I feel you 100%- I have curly hair and it’s hard to feel like I have control over how it’s going to look- compared to when I straighten/style it. It’s prone to more dryness and fly-aways. I never know if it’s going to end up how I want it-especially as I get older
It blows my mind that you’re insecure about your appearance, you are genuinely so stunning. Embracing the curly hair is hard, I straightened mine for years and am just beginning to wear it natural. It’s a process, but it gets easier to embrace x
OMG I love that I came across your video because I also have grey hairs and I refuse to cover them. Not because I like them, but because I know they will represent my confidence and wisdom! We do not need to conform or fight against "aging". It can eventually become a part of your brand too babe. Funny I was watching your videos and feeling insecure and unsure if I can jump into this industry in my early 30s, greys etc. But I just learned that everyone has insecurities and you just need to KEEP GOING! Ur naturally gorgeous and that's your super power. You are one of ONE. Thanks for sharing. Keep up the great work!
I just want you to know how grateful I am for your authenticity. Your videos came into my energetic space at the exact time I needed.. thank you for being so real.
You should not worry, I think you’re fantastic and been following you long enough now to be convinced you always end up succeeding. Wish you the very best, stay fabulous 💖
I am SOOOOOOO grateful that you've been following me. I feel like we've chatted for a long time and its always so comforting to see your comments! Thanks for always supporting me!
Working with social media is a lot! Dont be hard on yourself, you’re smart and amazing at what you do. Beautiful and succesful too. Breath through it, happiness comes back❤
Thank you for being so real and transparent! You're beautiful, and I would have never known you felt like this ever! I feel like this often, especially being in this industry. You just made me realize some things about myself! But you are a force to be reckoned with!
I just want to say, out of all the creators I've seen.. you are the most beautiful. I love that you don't look like a lot of the creators you see on here. Not that others aren't also pretty.. but you my dear, are thee most beautiful. So there. ❤
I just love your channel! It’s been so helpful with setting up all my pages. Slushy seems like a great platform but I can’t post yet, my account has been in the review process for about a month now. I’ve tried customer support but they don’t respond. I hope others are having more success than I am. If anyone has tips to get through the approval process it would be so appreciated!!
Hey Alanah! I just wanted to say you are ABSOLUTELY gorgeous ❤ a lot of what you said in this resonated with me so much. I also go through days where I feel down or just don't feel as confident. I always feel like such an awkward silly person 😅 being on social media always makes you have to put yourself out there in a way that is totally new to me and it has definitely been a learning experience. but I have been loving the journey so far!
I appreciate you @scarlettgoddess! You are an absolute angel! Sometimes I have my off days and I think numbers can get the best of us but you are right, you just have to put yourself out there and enjoy the journey!
hey Alanah! Ive been curious about if the fact that you also do mentorship and non sw stuff if its a little difficult to see what helps grow your sw business? I can imagine that now a lot more of your subs and fans can be other creators and not really there for the sw side of things and more the mentorship? sorry if this is worded weird 😂😂
hi!! I do have creators on my spicy pages as well, im guessing mostly to learn from watching. But my mentorship is on my website: musexmesh.com so most of the time that stuff is completely separate and I promote my spicy pages on other websites like X (twitter), Reddit, IG, TikTok, and Corn hub. I also have specific beacons and link trees for those sites so I can see where my following is coming from in the analytics! Hope this all makes sense!
@@AlanahCole ahhhh makes sense 💖💖 also (sorry to bug so much 😭) but i was looking for the slushy discord and i cant find it anywhere. do you have to finish your creator approval first or can you just have a basic account that you plan on creating on later? tysmm
Holy shit!! You're fucking gorgeous you are literally perfect 👌 the curls are beautiful I wish I had curly hair. Just be you honestly your so beautiful sad to hear that
@AlanaCole you are a successful creater it's very nice that you help people with your'e tips and tricks please can you tell me how i can be a successful creater like you i know that it can be difficult as a guy i hope you can help me
Heyyyy gurrrl….I love your content and honesty….we’re women and will always feel a sense of insecurity…..I’m learning to catch my comparison thoughts and intentionally remind myself that I’m hot and there’s so much proof in your progress….as a mentor and creator you have a lot on your plate and it’s easy to get distracted when the your audience includes the next generation….you’re an inspiration to me at 42 yrs and I know you’ll come back up and get your wisdom and confidence back….xoxo
Heyyyy gurrrl….I love your content and honesty….we’re women and will always feel a sense of insecurity…..I’m learning to catch my comparison thoughts and intentionally remind myself that I’m hot and there’s so much proof in your progress….as a mentor and creator you have a lot on your plate and it’s easy to get distracted when the your audience includes the next generation….you’re an inspiration to me at 42 yrs and I know you’ll come back up and get your wisdom and confidence back….xoxo
24 mins in was such a beautiful moment that choked me up, we’re all trying to put ourselves in boxes for the platforms instead of the platforms serving us right now…I’m in constant paralysis because I can’t just post what I want, I have to be overly analytical which spoils the process for me & my marketing has suffered. Thank you for your realness. Keep your head up girl I’ve watched literally every video regarding the industry❤ You help my confidence in just being present for fans as me, just speaking up about how I truly feel & not hiding behind all the bs glamour that some girls promote xx
Hi my beautiful bestie how are you doing today I hope you are doing i.started a new class this week I am taking a nutrition class hopefully I can pass it since I struggled with my family and marriage class since the exams were extremely difficult for me hopefully this class will be a lot better for me and less stressful but will see what happens. Hopefully I am still one of your best friends on here and off here still I consider you still my best friend my girlfriend and I are doing well just taking it day by hoping everything will get better for us soon her mom has been trying to break us up but it's not going to happen we love each other way to much. Anyhow hope you and Daisy are doing well
Love you always your friend Khloe 💗💗💗💕❤
I just wanted you to know you are your biggest critic because from the outside looking in, you are the type of girl I would see in a line up of women and be like “yup, that’s the one!” You are soooo beautiful, don’t let what society says or anyone for that matter make you feel like you aren’t.
Heyyyy gurrrl….I love your content and honesty….we’re women and will always feel a sense of insecurity…..I’m learning to catch my comparison thoughts and intentionally remind myself that I’m hot and there’s so much proof in your progress….as a mentor and creator you have a lot on your plate and it’s easy to get distracted when the your audience includes the next generation….you’re an inspiration to me at 42 yrs and I know you’ll come back up and get your wisdom and confidence back….xoxo
42 here and I’m in the top 50 creators on SextPanther thanks to women like Alanah ❤🎉
Okay, I’m also a SW but this is all about the Guinea pig lol!! 1st of all he’s beautiful, secondly you’re doing fantastic with the space, care and attention you’re giving him. Finally you may want to look into how pigs are pack animals. Unfortunately they don’t do great when they’re alone 😢 if you have any questions please please hit me up. I adore you for giving your love to a lil pig! I’ve raised 9 total and I’m happy to share any knowledge ❤
I've always like these type of videos, you're always keeping it so real. I also struggle with comparing myself to others so much when I know I shouldn't. Alsooooo.. When you mentioned your natural curly hair, I related so much with that, I've also been straightening my hair since I could remember and now that I try to wear it natural it just doesn't feel like me🥲🥲
we all know we shouldn't but its sooo hard not to compare sometimes!! im glad you commented bc sometimes I feel so alone with the hair thing :/ sucks you are going through this too, but we are in this together!!
I feel you 100%- I have curly hair and it’s hard to feel like I have control over how it’s going to look- compared to when I straighten/style it. It’s prone to more dryness and fly-aways. I never know if it’s going to end up how I want it-especially as I get older
It blows my mind that you’re insecure about your appearance, you are genuinely so stunning. Embracing the curly hair is hard, I straightened mine for years and am just beginning to wear it natural. It’s a process, but it gets easier to embrace x
OMG I love that I came across your video because I also have grey hairs and I refuse to cover them. Not because I like them, but because I know they will represent my confidence and wisdom! We do not need to conform or fight against "aging". It can eventually become a part of your brand too babe. Funny I was watching your videos and feeling insecure and unsure if I can jump into this industry in my early 30s, greys etc. But I just learned that everyone has insecurities and you just need to KEEP GOING! Ur naturally gorgeous and that's your super power. You are one of ONE. Thanks for sharing. Keep up the great work!
I just want you to know how grateful I am for your authenticity. Your videos came into my energetic space at the exact time I needed.. thank you for being so real.
You should not worry, I think you’re fantastic and been following you long enough now to be convinced you always end up succeeding. Wish you the very best, stay fabulous 💖
I am SOOOOOOO grateful that you've been following me. I feel like we've chatted for a long time and its always so comforting to see your comments! Thanks for always supporting me!
Working with social media is a lot! Dont be hard on yourself, you’re smart and amazing at what you do. Beautiful and succesful too. Breath through it, happiness comes back❤
thank you, appreciate you!!
Thankyou for sharing your raw pieces of insecurities with us
Thank you for being so real and transparent! You're beautiful, and I would have never known you felt like this ever! I feel like this often, especially being in this industry. You just made me realize some things about myself! But you are a force to be reckoned with!
I just want to say, out of all the creators I've seen.. you are the most beautiful. I love that you don't look like a lot of the creators you see on here. Not that others aren't also pretty.. but you my dear, are thee most beautiful. So there. ❤
Wow, thank you! I appreciate that ❤️🥹
Couldnt imagine washing my hair everyday!
Aw my Aunt had a hairless guinea pig, his name was Fluffy. ❤
So cute!!
One of my cats is name d Rufus and it warms my heart you have a Rufus too.
Awe 2 Rufus’!!!!!
Hi Alanah! Love your content! I feel like I've watched A LOT of your content in the last few weeks!
I recently got approved at Slushy and would love to join the Discord group!❤
Yay 🥰🥰 so glad you like the vids!!
I need to get on the Discord. I’m going all in on Slushy in 2024.
YASSS I saw you in there 👀
I loved this video! :)
I just love your channel! It’s been so helpful with setting up all my pages.
Slushy seems like a great platform but I can’t post yet, my account has been in the review process for about a month now. I’ve tried customer support but they don’t respond. I hope others are having more success than I am. If anyone has tips to get through the approval process it would be so appreciated!!
Hey Alanah! I just wanted to say you are ABSOLUTELY gorgeous ❤ a lot of what you said in this resonated with me so much. I also go through days where I feel down or just don't feel as confident. I always feel like such an awkward silly person 😅 being on social media always makes you have to put yourself out there in a way that is totally new to me and it has definitely been a learning experience. but I have been loving the journey so far!
Also Rufus is so dang cute!
I appreciate you @scarlettgoddess! You are an absolute angel! Sometimes I have my off days and I think numbers can get the best of us but you are right, you just have to put yourself out there and enjoy the journey!
Girl you are gorgeous any which way you do your hair, & especially cuz it can be either
🙈🥹❤️ thanks💖💖
You're such a lovely girl, and I love your content. You're crushing it, and are such a role model.
thank you for watching!! i'm glad the videos have been helpful!! 💞
I have been waiting for verification for Sulushy for 3 months, like wtf?
Contacted them twice already.
You are strong & amazing
🥹 appreciate you
hey Alanah! Ive been curious about if the fact that you also do mentorship and non sw stuff if its a little difficult to see what helps grow your sw business? I can imagine that now a lot more of your subs and fans can be other creators and not really there for the sw side of things and more the mentorship? sorry if this is worded weird 😂😂
hi!! I do have creators on my spicy pages as well, im guessing mostly to learn from watching. But my mentorship is on my website: musexmesh.com so most of the time that stuff is completely separate and I promote my spicy pages on other websites like X (twitter), Reddit, IG, TikTok, and Corn hub. I also have specific beacons and link trees for those sites so I can see where my following is coming from in the analytics! Hope this all makes sense!
@@AlanahCole ahhhh makes sense 💖💖 also (sorry to bug so much 😭) but i was looking for the slushy discord and i cant find it anywhere. do you have to finish your creator approval first or can you just have a basic account that you plan on creating on later? tysmm
How long does it take to verify on slushy?
NOPE: I have naturally curly hair and live in the freaking DESERT. I wash 1-2/week
New Year 👍🎉
Holy shit!! You're fucking gorgeous you are literally perfect 👌 the curls are beautiful I wish I had curly hair. Just be you honestly your so beautiful sad to hear that
Keep doing your thing mamactia
🥹❤️
@@AlanahCole forever
Nope I CANNOT wash my hair everyday…OMG my hair would dry out and fall off…😂😂😂
Good morning baby I love you baby
Ke bonita tu coballa sin pelitos
Is that tattoo makeup 💄 because it's horrible bad for you to sleep with
I love it honey so I will see you here.
🌹❤🌹💋💋💋
These feelings are so normal in this industry I can completely relate. It’s a really hard feeling. ❤️🩹
thank you for the bandaid emoji lol!! 🥹💞💞💞
@AlanaCole you are a successful creater it's very nice that you help people with your'e tips and tricks please can you tell me how i can be a successful creater like you i know that it can be difficult as a guy i hope you can help me
Wait what animal was that 😂I’m in Aus n idk what that is lol
its a hairless guinea pig!! lol!!
Heyyyy gurrrl….I love your content and honesty….we’re women and will always feel a sense of insecurity…..I’m learning to catch my comparison thoughts and intentionally remind myself that I’m hot and there’s so much proof in your progress….as a mentor and creator you have a lot on your plate and it’s easy to get distracted when the your audience includes the next generation….you’re an inspiration to me at 42 yrs and I know you’ll come back up and get your wisdom and confidence back….xoxo
Heyyyy gurrrl….I love your content and honesty….we’re women and will always feel a sense of insecurity…..I’m learning to catch my comparison thoughts and intentionally remind myself that I’m hot and there’s so much proof in your progress….as a mentor and creator you have a lot on your plate and it’s easy to get distracted when the your audience includes the next generation….you’re an inspiration to me at 42 yrs and I know you’ll come back up and get your wisdom and confidence back….xoxo