SEX, MASTURBATION, PORN, CELIBACY & BUDDHISM

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  • @damodarvinayagam3552
    @damodarvinayagam3552 6 місяців тому +15

    Thanks a ton Ajahn.... Feel privileged that even after 2000+ years after Thahthagatha, we can still listen to Dhamma...
    Inspite of your priority to cross the shore, you've the compassion to guide us...
    Sadhu, Sadhu, Sadhu🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +3

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @marinatf-oy8rx
    @marinatf-oy8rx 6 місяців тому +10

    Venerable, your message of tolerance and the avoidance of harm as the core principles of sexual conduct in Buddhism has made quite an impact on me. Thank you. 🙏

    • @noonespecial4171
      @noonespecial4171 6 місяців тому +7

      I was under the impression that women in the porn videos were willing participants. It was a shock to discover these are trafficked women or drugged, tricked etc. It's the conditioning we learn about women that I discovered is very far from respectful to humanity and myself too. Best away from this kind of thing.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +3

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @thekaizer666
    @thekaizer666 Місяць тому +3

    folks have ZERO idea how fortunate they are to be able to speak with a bhante that has over 10 years as a bikkhu.
    thats like talking to a programming guru whos done it for 10 years, when youre asking questions about programming when youre just starting out.
    be kind, and be generous, everyone, cheers.

  • @InfinitusYT
    @InfinitusYT 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank You so much Phra Dan, You have no idea how much Your gentle voice soothes Me. I look forward to every video!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +1

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @dianeheffernan7664
    @dianeheffernan7664 19 днів тому +1

    Thankyou for your valuable talks, they are so informative and you have a way of explaining things so well.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  18 днів тому

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well.

  • @jens6754
    @jens6754 6 місяців тому +6

    The water on the roof was no problem at all.
    Thank you, Phra Dan ❤

  • @fingerprint5511
    @fingerprint5511 6 місяців тому +8

    No questions in my comments!
    If you were looking to go on Tudong soon, I understand Ajahn Martin is leaving his Monastery due to Western Monks being disrespectful, entitled and not practicing Dhammavinaya. All those years he trained and poured himself into building a good Monastery with no corruption only to have virtually no one to support the practice. He would treasure your dedication Bhante. His latest video in his UA-cam channel is worth listening to for everyone practicing Dhamma. Meanwhile this talk doesn't bother me as I'm celibate. Thank you and hope you are well and happy.

    • @fingerprint5511
      @fingerprint5511 6 місяців тому +1

      I think they are called Hijra, those born with 2 genders, they wear female clothing to honour the Goddess in Hinduism, and Eunuchs who are actually castrated males who dress as women. I saw a docco years ago and it is traced back in history to when males castrated themselves to serve the Royal family,the Enuchs, wereas Hijras are born with 2 genders. Also, this reminds me of Ajahn Brahm who asks why people keep asking him about sexual issues, marriage, romantic relationships, he says, I'm a Monk! Also people seem to be unaware that Buddhist Monastics can not and do not conduct marriage ceremonies - blessings yes, but not actual nuptials. And that the world also includes what is called the body so yes, to be celibate means you completely drop all interest and actions (life is easier if we do anyway) thank you for talking about the reality of Pornography. Its been proven that it rewires the brain much like those awful experiments on Rats where a buzzer that gave an electric shock was put in a cage along with food, the Rat ended up pressing the buzzer over eating. Porn rewires where humanity appears as objects to use and only for one's personal sense satisfaction, that cant be satisfied, much like the poor rat with the buzzer. It all comes back to understanding the 4 Noble Truths truly and yes, someone is always watching all we do - us 🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +4

      Sukhi Hontu

  • @noonespecial4171
    @noonespecial4171 6 місяців тому +6

    As unsavoury as those emailers were, at very least you were reminded of how carnal some humans are. The way you so tactfully described these too-much-information messages you had to read, I actually experienced the revulsion you must have experienced. Perhaps let people know that yiu are a Celibate Monastic and therefore have no association anymore with this topic. One has to ask whether these people are practising Buddhists or are just seeking someone to carry them. We either practice or we don't and that includes respect and extra respect for Monastics, being aware of the extra training rules you are practising.

  • @w2best
    @w2best Місяць тому +1

    Incredibly valuable talk. Thank you!

  • @tech1960ps1
    @tech1960ps1 14 днів тому +1

    Thanks for the video.🙂

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  13 днів тому

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well.

  • @srmcfarling2315
    @srmcfarling2315 6 місяців тому +4

    YOGA SUTRAS By Patanjali Vyasas And Lord Buddha's Dharma Sangha Thera Vada suttas, Real Yoga practice and Meditation Are the Language of The Inner World that really Very few people really go, I'm Thrilled to get the Official SUTRAS By Buddha from your, Yea Finally found the Real Treasure from the Thera Vada Buddhism thanks to your Real Treasure tradition WOW thank you, YOGI Steven Mcfarling Ashland Oregon USA

  • @chrisrichardson8988
    @chrisrichardson8988 Місяць тому +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed hearing about the stages of ordination and precepts for lay followers.

  • @thekaizer666
    @thekaizer666 Місяць тому +2

    "WATCH IT WITH YOUR MOTHER" looooooooooooooooooooooooool PERFECT caption!

  • @user-yb1pl5ep6f
    @user-yb1pl5ep6f 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Bhante
    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @ValentinaPicchiLondon
    @ValentinaPicchiLondon 6 місяців тому +2

    Thanks
    Ajahn for this talk. How do I know your email? Or the chanting schedule? Or any other online/in-person events? With metta.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +1

      You can see the chanel description and subscribe

  • @drm54321
    @drm54321 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much Bhante!

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  5 місяців тому

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @lukemckean6155
    @lukemckean6155 6 місяців тому +2

    Much Mudita for your trip to Kandy and the Temple of the Tooth Bhante! How wonderful 🙏❤️💎

  • @Thisandthat284
    @Thisandthat284 6 місяців тому +3

    Hello I've been to Sri Lanka do you have an option on the elephant tourism industry it's absolutely disgusting how they are treated

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +3

      It is horrible to see animals in captivity anywhere I agree

  • @BohnDe95
    @BohnDe95 6 місяців тому +2

    Thankyou for your talks Bhante. One questions I have, what is the Buddhist method to deal with feeling tired? Ive heard of some monestaries holding all night sitting sessions, surely there is a perspective on fatigue that helps one overcome it?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      ua-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @andrejtomazic8495
    @andrejtomazic8495 3 місяці тому +1

    Sadhu, sasdhu, sadhu. Thak you so much.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  3 місяці тому

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @RiccMarin
    @RiccMarin 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, sadhu 🙏🙏🙏

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @lukemckean6155
    @lukemckean6155 6 місяців тому +2

    Wow! As a good Buddhist I’m not sure i should watch this video with a title like that Bhante! 😂😂😂

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +6

      Buddhists should understand the 3rd Precept. Sukhi Hontu

    • @lukemckean6155
      @lukemckean6155 6 місяців тому +1

      @@englishmonk hehe I know. I was being facetious 🙏

  • @thomasbarchen
    @thomasbarchen 2 місяці тому +1

    Wise answers...

  • @Zulay092
    @Zulay092 6 місяців тому +1

    Hello bhante, should my walking meditation advancement be equal to my sitting meditation for it to be effective? and does ambient sorroundings play a big role in walking meditation.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      ua-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @julie-vg4so
    @julie-vg4so 6 місяців тому +1

    "If we are really thirsty, water is sufficient". 25:39

  • @nahanng7791
    @nahanng7791 6 місяців тому +2

    How can I be ordained at the same vihara as you Bhante?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      ua-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @dhakkabaaz
    @dhakkabaaz 6 місяців тому +1

    Vandami bhantey

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +1

      Sukhi Hontu

    • @dhakkabaaz
      @dhakkabaaz 6 місяців тому

      @@englishmonk 😊😊😊 thanks bhantey

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk 6 місяців тому +2

    Greetings Phra Dan🧐

  • @the.trollgubbe2642
    @the.trollgubbe2642 6 місяців тому +1

    Sidenote: Isac Newton lived in celebacy, maybe just to busy to even think about women

  • @julie-vg4so
    @julie-vg4so 6 місяців тому +1

    Dear Venerable, many Buddhist monks have UA-cam channels that are ad-free. Due to the title of this subject, the ad was very sensual, and really not aligned with the dhamma.

    • @lukemckean6155
      @lukemckean6155 6 місяців тому +2

      Bhante has no control over the advertising. If you don’t want ads you should sign up to YT Premium

    • @julie-vg4so
      @julie-vg4so 6 місяців тому

      I've heard from other monks that they do have a say over ads@@lukemckean6155 . My comment was for informative purposes, it wasn't a complaint and is not based on my preferences.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +3

      There are no adds during the videos, this is my choice. Before and after I can't control.

    • @julie-vg4so
      @julie-vg4so 6 місяців тому +1

      @@englishmonk Sadhu 🙏

  • @Mevlinous
    @Mevlinous 2 місяці тому +1

    31:24 thank you, very helpful

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  2 місяці тому +1

      You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well

  • @thekaizer666
    @thekaizer666 Місяць тому +1

    loool youre WAY too worried about us laiety being distracted by such simple mechanical sounds, hahahha, metta

  • @Jess-hm7ft
    @Jess-hm7ft 6 місяців тому +1

    🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏

  • @dennnn13
    @dennnn13 6 місяців тому +1

    ,Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu! Bhante, would you advise to lay people to practice asubha practice in order for them to restraint their sensuality? Thank you.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      ua-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @HNIW
    @HNIW 6 місяців тому

    Have you Bhante watched the movies "The Matrix" and the "Star Wars" series? Ignoring the action scenes, for me as a teen in Europe they were the first glimpse into Eastern Spirituality. Do you have any personal observations about elements of Dharma that can be introduced to teens by this way? How is Buddhist path different from "unplugging from the Matrix"? Except for the light saber, how are you different from a Jedi 🙂 ?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +3

      No but I have heard of them. The word of the Buddha in the Suttas is the best way to introduce Dhamma.

  • @clayclayton9819
    @clayclayton9819 6 місяців тому +1

    Venerable Sir, what is acceptable to sleep on ?

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon.
      ua-cam.com/play/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck.html&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj
      Be happy and stay well.

  • @rjclue2630
    @rjclue2630 Місяць тому

    Monk. I learn how to use Sperm into vajra.
    When you leave the body. You can walk on top of the books earth. Below earth js yellow flame. And warm. Like a warm bed. 😊 is she my mother 🤔
    Am still looking for my mother 😡

  • @dimopetrov4982
    @dimopetrov4982 3 місяці тому +3

    Not to be rude, but 40 min.of talking and you said almost nothing. It's the same with all the scriptures,they use one word "sila" ok..that doesn't explain much ether. Let me say it with one sentence,...If you don't preserve your sexual energy it's impossible to open your energy channels and chakras, that means you never gonna achieve Razor sharp Mindfulness (Knowingness). You have to see clearly every single thought popping in your head to be able to stop lust( craving for sex) Even then ,you have to investigate how single thought triggers feelings, emotions and actions. Without that never gonna reach any awakening. Unfortunately most of the people doing sex and then meditate, this like a hamster wheel, spinning in circle in vain. Thank you for your videos!

  • @barbararew5203
    @barbararew5203 6 місяців тому

    I am a Catholic and wanted to make you aware of Catholic teachings. You stated that masturbation was ok with other Religions.
    Catholic Church teaches that is a sin against purity.
    The body wages war upon the spirit. One must subdue the passions if we want the spirit to reign.

    • @fingerprint5511
      @fingerprint5511 6 місяців тому

      Just because the Catholic Church says something does not mean it is factual or a belief everyone should adopt. The Catholic Church also says that sexual relations should only be performed when one is going to attempt conception, never any other time. So if you are not abiding by that rule, you are 'sinning.' Every time you have had intercourse without the intention to create a human being, you have sinned. Of all people to judge, right in front of you a man who lives by 227 Precepts which is subduing sensual pleasures in ways you could not cope with in your luxurious religion of Popery. Buddhism is about purifying the Citta, unlike your Monastics living in luxury, drinking alcohol, I won't even go into the breaking of celibacy and the long, long list of corruption hidden behind a face of 'love.' Have respect when you speak to a living human actually practicing purity. Perhaps you are so accustomed to the corruption you can not recognise what is wholesome. Ex catholic here, a big one too.

    • @englishmonk
      @englishmonk  6 місяців тому +3

      Peace be with you.