😭🤍 it’s so kind of you to pray for me! Thank you so so much sis!! Amen, all in the Lord’s timing. And may our Heavenly Father bless you abundantly also as you walk with him 🥰
Deborah!! I’m dealing with a crush that’s taking me longer than usual too and I’m praying to let go of this crush it’s been tough! 😩 love the video 💓💓💓
Girlll same!😭 In the beginning of the year I also developed this crush on this guy and girl please I am so tired of myself too😭😭😭Having a crush as a Christian girl shouldn’t be this hard we need a break!😭🤣🤣🤣
After you wash your hair your curls might become tighter, but when you put it up in a pineapple afterwards, it stretches the curls in the back. This might give the illusion of a mullet in the morning with it longer at the back. After a while, all your curls will even out which brings back the desired shape. So good call for not doing a little trimmy trim! It looks kinda trendy mullet stylz too 😊
Deborah I feel you girl, because I am also a hopeless romantic and have had 3 crushes over the past few years. I agree I don’t want to have a crush unless he’s gonna be my husband.
@@deborahbx_ Girl! Love this so much, can't wait to see one of your songs featured!! And, I can relate so much with the crush thing! Honestly we are so similar! What I did was listen to the gospel version of Nick Jonas's song Jealous! Lol, I know wild, but I saw it on my recommended some years ago, and I have only seen the gospel version. It's okay to feel certain ways and acknowledge them, and move forward. Also, the song also reminds me how God is so jealous for us! Love you girl!
Hi sis been blessed to watch you all the way from Africa... We all know that we don't like to be turned down or bypassed by someone we like because of outward looks but we do the exact samething to those who take interest in us i think we should put respect on those who notice us hear them out try and see if they have quality' s we may not notice right away most times your blessings can be right infront of us and we keep looking far... trust God be open minded i pray you find your person if a man does not notice you or has not said something to you forget they exist for your own good. We are made to be loved man are made to be respected so if he is not all over you does not notice your presence will he really love you the right way ?i doubt. Focus on the man sees you and want to talk to you.
Girl I think I'm not my type's type too😂Dealing with crushes can be a bit hard, I have resorted to not crushing at all, but it's harder haha. Don't worry it will all be well, God's got us!😍
Agreed, it’s hard but I definitely have had to tell myself that God wouldn’t want me to change certain things about myself just to get this person’s attention.
Girl, so good you talked about having a crush cause sometimes is like having a crush as a Christian woman is sinful, at least here in my bubble in Bahia/ Brazil. Love your hair! God bless you.
@debrasmith7540 I grew up in a very strict church when it comes to romantic life, it's a relief to know that I don't need to misjudge my feelings. Thank you 🌺❤️
Ohh sis, we’re absolutely in this together! And I don’t think it’s sinful to have a crush at all ☺️🤍 But like @debrasmith7540 said: it can awaken lustful thoughts if we’re not careful. So bringing a crush before the Lord is soooo important. He made us as women after all. He knows we have the tendency to romanticise things 🤭 Lord give us clarity to see clearly!
Running for your life re the christmas tree - I love it. That is why I love your blogs as you are so real. Also regarding the crush I agree only for our husbands to be otherwise it is such a distraction from the enemy. Have a blessed week sister Deb.
❤ pray against the spirit of fantasy when it comes to crushes. It’s so damaging. You may even have to fast against it if it’s a stronghold in your life. ❤
Hey sis. Dealing with crushes can be hard as a Christian. What I do is use the scripture in Corinthians that says take captive of every thought and bring it to obedience to Christ. That's for whenever I start thinking about the person cause he's probably not the one(in my case). Then I avoid the person and anything that concerns him 😂😂😂. Even social media. But generally, lean into prayer and God may move things around, including him(ever happened to me), or even expose the person if they've got anything shady or not for you. Hope this helps anyone else who is struggling with crushes ❤
Personally, I’ve grown into knowing that crushes are no good to have. It can easily lead to inordinate affection. Which is why the “obsessive”thinking about them occurs. This can get worse if you start to imagine things in your head about them. Even if they aren’t necessarily “bad things” making up scenarios about them can become idolatrous. For this reason I have learned its best not to have a crush. You can find a man attractive but always guard your heart with what the words says “better is the sight of thine eyes than the wondering of desire” start quoting scripture “ there are many devices in a man’s heart but it’s Gods word that shall stand” and lastly “ the heart is desperately wicked who can know it?” Your heart will tell you what you are doing is harmless and “everybody does it” but that’s just your flesh and the devil loves playing with the minds of Gods anointed. A lot of things we have normalized are not harmless but God gives grace. I have seen the end of it though and it’s not good. So guard y’all heart with the word of God :)
What is the music group you are always listening to when you make food? I pray the same prayer constantly to not have a crush or find anyone attractive unless it's my husband and you are not alone i feel the same way girl, I'm like maybe I'm not my types type then it gets me thinking and i go down a rabbit hole lol
Thank you for bringing us into your day Deborah. Omg Im that tenant too that is afraid to distaff because I would always be the one to get caught lol 😆 . And thank you for making me feel seen and safe to openly talk more about Jesus and my faith on UA-cam without feeling awkward or feel unsure. Great video my sister in Christ.
hahah I know the feeling sis 🤭🤍 And absolutely, it’s so needed to spread the gospel right now! The world needs it. May the Lord bless you as you share his message also 🥰
With all love sis, get your self-talk together! You’re a little hard on yourself (from the way your hair looks to not being your types “type.”) And I get it, we all do that a little bit (and your vulnerability is really endearing) but… tighten up sis - you’re awesome! Any man would be blessed to have you. God made you fearfully and wonderfully, but until you believe it, and speak that, no one else will. Again, all love 💕
14:56 yeahhh, that's why when i have a crush, i always tell myself "this is just a phase...this is just a phase." LOL 'coz it's quick for me to have a crush on someone and at the same time, it's quick for me to lose interest also idk if that makes sense. But yeah, I think nothing's wrong with having a crush unless it gets into the point when you kinda make that person an idol or fantasize about him because it can be the enemy's tool to distract your mind also.
I Also don’t think I’m ever my types type because the only people that ask me out…I’m not interested in!😭😭 ik looks aren’t everything but it does get annoying. But yes I FEEL YOU, I feel the EXACT same way lol.
Miss Deborah, I feel you about your type not wanting you. That's the reason why I have chosen to remain single than fake liking a person out of desperation or fear of being alone (cause its not fair on the other person) and with age I've also learnt to ignore people who want to convince me that I am unrealistic/ have high standards. 😅
I was in the same boat asking God to not let me crush because I am sensitive as well and I hate how my mind just goes off the wall. However unlike you I don’t see myself getting married. But if it makes you feel better, I’ve never been my type’s type. All I can say is just keep off of their socials or whatever to keep them off your mind and hopefully it go away faster lol.
God bless you sister! although i’m 20 and I’ve never had a boyfriend, I just want to say this: don’t speak about yourself like that. You’re beautiful, made in the image of God! First and foremost, the man God has for you will fall in love with you because of the beauty God has poured over you, His light will shine so bright onto you, that the man God has for you will know you’re his woman of God! Snap out of that mindset that you’re not your type’s, type because that’s not a limit for God lol, you’re not out of anyone’s league because you’re the daughter of a KING💗
For the hair try not to tie it up after washing because it stretches the back out making it look like a mullet ,instead tie it down so that the front stretches more or any other way you want your hair to fall , hope it helps.
Honestly I pray when I have a crush because I’m a hopeless romantic as well and I don’t want to do anything without God and I also prayed that prayer like God if he isn’t the one for me remove him😭and God didn’t remove him it definitely is hard
DEBORAH!!!!!!!!! You got me asking if this crush thing is a 2025 attack for believers because it’s gotten to a point I’ve asked the Lord “what is the lesson?” “What cost did I not count!?” Because I don’t like it…this has been thee most intense crush I’ve ever had and that man isn’t paying me no mind what so ever 🙃😭….I’ve asked the Lord to free me from the chokehold, free me from liking men in my city because to me it’s pointless….I just wanted to work out and mind my business…..and in walks through the door this guy 🙄…..y’all lift me up in prayer as I will do for those who are also being attacked by the “crush” spirit 😂
Sisss your comment is so real!! 😭 The questions, “what’s the point of this?” I’ve asked them too trust me! God sees us in our distress over this hahah so I know that he will be faithful to bring us out! Even if we don’t understand it now or see the point, there must be something in this process that the Lord is pruning out of us. Lord, please strengthen us as your daughters to keep our eyes fixed on you! Help us to take these thoughts captive and make them obedient under Christ. We’re struggling 🥲. I pray this in Jesus name, Amen!!
Ohhh here is the link to the audio book: open.spotify.com/show/6p76ZBVMzeJln24nYxrjK5?si=itfVyGuxR7iwrcO6tzHWtw And my Spotify playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/5nsJXeOn50egTdbgoMgIis?si=yu4U5eu2SHK8mkAKwe8WWA&pi=e-WHz6hTTtQHSK
Here is the Spotify playlist I usually listen to. I just keep adding to it so some songs are quite old haha open.spotify.com/playlist/5nsJXeOn50egTdbgoMgIis?si=yu4U5eu2SHK8mkAKwe8WWA&pi=e-WHz6hTTtQHSK
I don't understand why people try so hard to deny God being the one true God. All roads leads to Him, always. Also, from the screen your hair doesn't look like a Mullet at all, your hair looks so full and healthy👌🏾. Amen, we will be our Husband's type, so we don't need to stress all we have to do is wait for God to send him at the right time. Take care darling and have a blessed day🙏🏾💜🤗.
It's okay....you are human...u will always see someone you like...Just pray about it sis and yes I Know about that feeling when u really like the person and then no effort is being made via the other party
I am weaaaak 😂 - ths is my sign to TAKE DOWN my Christmas tree 😫 ; for ur beautifully healthy hair - pin or twist the top half til it grows out to ur liking. That healthy foundation is EVERYTHING ! I will be catching up on ur Eps - while I take it down 🙏🏼 bless u boníta 🩷
12 yrs ago, I prayed for a husband, and God answered my prayer by blessing me with a man that I THOUGHT initially wasn't my type. GOD knows Best. He knows what and who is best for us. I am so thankful that I trusted God, and I didn't lean on my own understanding. I gave my hubby a chance. Sometimes, we think we know what we like and are attracted to, but you really don't know until you experience something new. give it a try. Pray to God for your Kingdom husband. Ask him to prepare you for him. What you think is your type may not really be your type.
Unfortunatley, I am an "obsessive crusher". When it gets to that point, I have to pray it off. I literally had to cut off contact with the dude by deactivating my Instagram until it passes (we don't even talk which makes it even more ridiculous)
Deborah that was a perfect analogy that you used to describe the True God in comparison to other religions. I will actually refer to that analogy when speaking to unbelievers that think all religion is the same. Thank you!!!
You’re not a hopeless romantic, you’re a hopeFUL romantic! The love that you want exists because God exists. God is love, love is real. Remain hopeful!!!!! ❤
Hi lovely Deborah, thank you for allowing us to see how a girl of the most high can feel some vulnerability about the "crush" you are experiencing. I know our Heavenly Father will guide you in his peace. Proud of you kido. The LORD is my shepherd, I lack NOTHING
I love the point you made about there being only one truth, even when other answers might look similar. It’s such an important reminder, especially in a world that often says all religions are the same. What makes Christianity so unique is that in every other religion, people are striving to earn their way to salvation or favor with God. But in Christianity, we have a God who came to us, took it upon Himself to save us, and calls us His children. It’s not about what we can do, but about what He has already done for us through Christ. That’s the beauty of the gospel-it’s entirely by grace. And girl about the crush? Same, girl same, 😂
There’s a devotional called the book of mysteries and it’s so amazing. During my quiet time this week, my devotional was about “the sheperdless” and it had me read Ezekiel 34:5-16 and i just wanted to cry 😭😭. Our Father is so good to us.
Pls 😂 I prayed it offffffff and I'm waiting for it to LEAVE. I stopped trying to push the feelings away and just confessing it to God and even the people in my circle. I found that for me, when I accepted it, it's been shrinking. I'm waiting for it blow away like the wind. 🤺God help us lol
Will u Eva drop ur music also Deborah I have a question for you basically today I was doing insomnia prayers and then I just closed my eyes for a bit and then it was like I was awake but asleep (not sleep paralysis) and I felt a powerful entity where I literally couldn’t move usually when I get sleep paralysis I could snap out of it and I feel scared but this one here was different I was vibrating heavy and a strong came out of my ear it was weird 😂😂😂 but I feel kinda lighter compared to before it happened
That’s so true about how being a good person is not enough. It’s very difficult to tell people about Jesus when their response is always “I just believe that if you’re a good person and do good things you’ll go to heaven.” All we can do is pray for them. I found it funny though have the bin liners you picked up were called “refuse sacks” 😆 in Australia we just call them bin liners or rubbish bags haha are they all called that in England or was it just that brand?
I wasnt initially going to comment on this; but after seeing some comment I need to put my thoughts there as well About the mullet, I don't see it. Even after you mentioning it. You look normal. It' perhaps because you see yourself every day and every change / detail
Hi Deborah, do you have Ashley Hetherington's The Joy in Between devotional? It's sooo good☺... GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS❣️ Sending love from the Philippines🇵🇭
I don’t have it yet but I’ve been wanting to pick it up!! Definitely will get it 🥰❤️ Thanks for the recommendation sis! It’s such a blessing to have you here from the Philippines! Sending much love backkk 🫂
There are not enough words to describe what the gift of excellent things do to me/creation. God is amazing. I love life because of this. We are blessed, thank you Jesus.
Hello Deborah I love your work❤ I hope this is not too sensitive if it is then I am really sorry you don't have to answer but would you ever visit Ghana for maybe a holy girls trip???
Whew Listen Deborah I am right with you. I don’t think I’m not my types type either and the guys that approach are not my type 😅🤦🏾♀️ And it’s not just about outward appearance it’s about how they carry themselves etc but I digress.
I prayed to God to take away any counterfeits on my journey. Pray consistently against the Spirit of lust. I am not saying that's your situation. God really answers and helps us with our little confusing emotions. Pray for the Spirit of discernment so that your spirit man can identify your husband and reject the counterfeits.
Hi! I was redirected when I was considering Christian content after filling up on secular content. Thank You, Holy Spirit! ✝️ I can feel/enjoy His presence here, and I am fully satisfied. It’s as Jesus says, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness [those who actively seek right standing with God], for they will be [completely] satisfied.” - Matthew 5:6 AMP Cheers that I could turn back to your lovely channel! 🙌🌟 Best wishes, Deborah! 💜
sis, just want to say i've been praying for God to let you meet the love He planned for you! 🫶🏼thank You for your ministry, God bless you!!!! 💓
😭🤍 it’s so kind of you to pray for me! Thank you so so much sis!! Amen, all in the Lord’s timing. And may our Heavenly Father bless you abundantly also as you walk with him 🥰
Deborah!! I’m dealing with a crush that’s taking me longer than usual too and I’m praying to let go of this crush it’s been tough! 😩 love the video 💓💓💓
Ughhh you’re not alone in this sis!! 😂🤍 I’ll be praying the Lord’s protection out over you in this also, Lord please help us!
I am happy that I have a sister in Christ who lives in london and am in Rwanda. I love you Deborah.
It’s such a blessing to have you here from Rwanda sis!! Praise the Lord for connecting us in this way 🥹🤍🫂
oh sis the crush thing can be quite frustrating but God allows us to go through things we can handle for different reasons ❤
Sis…your hair is beautiful…always moisturized well. Can you share your hair care routine or the moisturizer/hair oil you use?
9:30 I love your hair so much!! 😊🫶🏾
Thank you sis 🥹🤍
Girlll same!😭
In the beginning of the year I also developed this crush on this guy and girl please I am so tired of myself too😭😭😭Having a crush as a Christian girl shouldn’t be this hard we need a break!😭🤣🤣🤣
After you wash your hair your curls might become tighter, but when you put it up in a pineapple afterwards, it stretches the curls in the back. This might give the illusion of a mullet in the morning with it longer at the back. After a while, all your curls will even out which brings back the desired shape. So good call for not doing a little trimmy trim! It looks kinda trendy mullet stylz too 😊
Deborah you need to release your songs 😭please
When I have a crush I use it as an opportunity to intercede for the person🤭
"I will be my husband's type"... I love that sis❤❤❤
Deborah I feel you girl, because I am also a hopeless romantic and have had 3 crushes over the past few years. I agree I don’t want to have a crush unless he’s gonna be my husband.
Girl your hair is beautiful! It def doesn’t look like a mullet lol. Loved the video 🫶🏽
hahah thanks sis 🤭🤍 much loveee!!
I’m so early! lol! Love you girl! Love the beginning soundtrack! ❤❤❤
Love you too sis!! 🥹🤍 and the song at the beginning is: Stability by AFTR! It’s so so good 😍
@@deborahbx_ Girl! Love this so much, can't wait to see one of your songs featured!! And, I can relate so much with the crush thing! Honestly we are so similar! What I did was listen to the gospel version of Nick Jonas's song Jealous! Lol, I know wild, but I saw it on my recommended some years ago, and I have only seen the gospel version. It's okay to feel certain ways and acknowledge them, and move forward. Also, the song also reminds me how God is so jealous for us! Love you girl!
Hi sis been blessed to watch you all the way from Africa... We all know that we don't like to be turned down or bypassed by someone we like because of outward looks but we do the exact samething to those who take interest in us i think we should put respect on those who notice us hear them out try and see if they have quality' s we may not notice right away most times your blessings can be right infront of us and we keep looking far... trust God be open minded i pray you find your person if a man does not notice you or has not said something to you forget they exist for your own good. We are made to be loved man are made to be respected so if he is not all over you does not notice your presence will he really love you the right way ?i doubt. Focus on the man sees you and want to talk to you.
Ahhh so excited to watch this during my slow afternoon. Also love that you left your tree up so long 🩵😆
God bless you sister in Christ, for coming on here and speaking the truth of the word of God.🙌🏽🙏🏼❤️💕
Girl I think I'm not my type's type too😂Dealing with crushes can be a bit hard, I have resorted to not crushing at all, but it's harder haha. Don't worry it will all be well, God's got us!😍
Amennn the Lord always has us as his daughters 🤭❤️ He knows we have our little moments sometimes hahah
Not being your type’s type is a different type of struggle 😮💨🥹but it could be the sign to let that go and let your person find you❤
Agreed, it’s hard but I definitely have had to tell myself that God wouldn’t want me to change certain things about myself just to get this person’s attention.
That’s itttt! Entertaining the thought of a person in our heads only makes it worse 😪 Gotta let it gooo
@@deborahbx_its nice but you can do it because Daddy has it all for you. 🥳
As a man my type type never likes me either lol woman who like me I don’t like lol
Girl, so good you talked about having a crush cause sometimes is like having a crush as a Christian woman is sinful, at least here in my bubble in Bahia/ Brazil. Love your hair! God bless you.
No sweetheart 😂 you're human you have eyes feelings etc. Just do not lust precious belove. Love you with the love of Christ Jesus.❤
@debrasmith7540 I grew up in a very strict church when it comes to romantic life, it's a relief to know that I don't need to misjudge my feelings. Thank you 🌺❤️
Amo que os brasileiros estão em todo lugar kkkk❤
Ohh sis, we’re absolutely in this together! And I don’t think it’s sinful to have a crush at all ☺️🤍 But like @debrasmith7540 said: it can awaken lustful thoughts if we’re not careful. So bringing a crush before the Lord is soooo important. He made us as women after all. He knows we have the tendency to romanticise things 🤭 Lord give us clarity to see clearly!
girlll, I can"t believe you are from Bahia. I'm from Bahia too. I thought i was alone here. Let's be friends haha :)
Running for your life re the christmas tree - I love it. That is why I love your blogs as you are so real. Also regarding the crush I agree only for our husbands to be otherwise it is such a distraction from the enemy. Have a blessed week sister Deb.
❤ pray against the spirit of fantasy when it comes to crushes. It’s so damaging. You may even have to fast against it if it’s a stronghold in your life. ❤
“Good night from baker Deborah” 😂
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Hey sis. Dealing with crushes can be hard as a Christian. What I do is use the scripture in Corinthians that says take captive of every thought and bring it to obedience to Christ. That's for whenever I start thinking about the person cause he's probably not the one(in my case). Then I avoid the person and anything that concerns him 😂😂😂. Even social media. But generally, lean into prayer and God may move things around, including him(ever happened to me), or even expose the person if they've got anything shady or not for you. Hope this helps anyone else who is struggling with crushes ❤
Wow thats something I can journal about. I share the same feelings, I dont think im my type's type. :(
Personally, I’ve grown into knowing that crushes are no good to have. It can easily lead to inordinate affection. Which is why the “obsessive”thinking about them occurs. This can get worse if you start to imagine things in your head about them. Even if they aren’t necessarily “bad things” making up scenarios about them can become idolatrous. For this reason I have learned its best not to have a crush. You can find a man attractive but always guard your heart with what the words says “better is the sight of thine eyes than the wondering of desire” start quoting scripture “ there are many devices in a man’s heart but it’s Gods word that shall stand” and lastly “ the heart is desperately wicked who can know it?” Your heart will tell you what you are doing is harmless and “everybody does it” but that’s just your flesh and the devil loves playing with the minds of Gods anointed. A lot of things we have normalized are not harmless but God gives grace. I have seen the end of it though and it’s not good. So guard y’all heart with the word of God :)
thank you so much for the Scriptures!!!🩷🩷🩷
Thank youu…this has to be pinned📌📌📌
Excellent Advice ❤ TY.
What is the music group you are always listening to when you make food? I pray the same prayer constantly to not have a crush or find anyone attractive unless it's my husband and you are not alone i feel the same way girl, I'm like maybe I'm not my types type then it gets me thinking and i go down a rabbit hole lol
Your hair is perfect Debby !!
In South Africa we add sugar to our butternut , please try it and tell me how you feel about it (cinnamon is optional)
Yeah I think I'm not types type lol but you're so right God will have me and husband as each others type
That’s it!! Amennnn 🥹🤍
Thank you for bringing us into your day Deborah. Omg Im that tenant too that is afraid to distaff because I would always be the one to get caught lol 😆 . And thank you for making me feel seen and safe to openly talk more about Jesus and my faith on UA-cam without feeling awkward or feel unsure. Great video my sister in Christ.
hahah I know the feeling sis 🤭🤍 And absolutely, it’s so needed to spread the gospel right now! The world needs it. May the Lord bless you as you share his message also 🥰
@@deborahbx_ Thank you so much. And yes we need more people spreading and learning of our amazing Lord. God bless and cant wait for the next video 🫶❤
Who else is loving the intro music 🎶 😊
With all love sis, get your self-talk together! You’re a little hard on yourself (from the way your hair looks to not being your types “type.”) And I get it, we all do that a little bit (and your vulnerability is really endearing) but… tighten up sis - you’re awesome! Any man would be blessed to have you. God made you fearfully and wonderfully, but until you believe it, and speak that, no one else will. Again, all love 💕
14:56 yeahhh, that's why when i have a crush, i always tell myself "this is just a phase...this is just a phase." LOL 'coz it's quick for me to have a crush on someone and at the same time, it's quick for me to lose interest also idk if that makes sense. But yeah, I think nothing's wrong with having a crush unless it gets into the point when you kinda make that person an idol or fantasize about him because it can be the enemy's tool to distract your mind also.
I Also don’t think I’m ever my types type because the only people that ask me out…I’m not interested in!😭😭 ik looks aren’t everything but it does get annoying. But yes I FEEL YOU, I feel the EXACT same way lol.
Miss Deborah, I feel you about your type not wanting you. That's the reason why I have chosen to remain single than fake liking a person out of desperation or fear of being alone (cause its not fair on the other person) and with age I've also learnt to ignore people who want to convince me that I am unrealistic/ have high standards. 😅
I was in the same boat asking God to not let me crush because I am sensitive as well and I hate how my mind just goes off the wall. However unlike you I don’t see myself getting married. But if it makes you feel better, I’ve never been my type’s type. All I can say is just keep off of their socials or whatever to keep them off your mind and hopefully it go away faster lol.
Thank you for the audiobook recommendation 🙏 🐑🤍
I’m sure it’ll bless you sis! It’s blessed me so so much 🥹🤍
Came late but it's better than never.
Beautiful video debby!❤
A moral person is different from a born again person.
The answers analogy was really good! ❤🙏🏾
OMDSSS sis I love you so so much I’m literally going through the same
Thing I’ve had enough I hate Crushes 💕😂🥲
God bless you sister! although i’m 20 and I’ve never had a boyfriend, I just want to say this: don’t speak about yourself like that. You’re beautiful, made in the image of God! First and foremost, the man God has for you will fall in love with you because of the beauty God has poured over you, His light will shine so bright onto you, that the man God has for you will know you’re his woman of God! Snap out of that mindset that you’re not your type’s, type because that’s not a limit for God lol, you’re not out of anyone’s league because you’re the daughter of a KING💗
For the hair try not to tie it up after washing because it stretches the back out making it look like a mullet ,instead tie it down so that the front stretches more or any other way you want your hair to fall , hope it helps.
Honestly I pray when I have a crush because I’m a hopeless romantic as well and I don’t want to do anything without God and I also prayed that prayer like God if he isn’t the one for me remove him😭and God didn’t remove him it definitely is hard
13:33 one of the songs I have on repeat ❤
What's the name of the song pls 💗
@Scarlett-yk2ke 'what a God' by SEU Worship
DEBORAH!!!!!!!!! You got me asking if this crush thing is a 2025 attack for believers because it’s gotten to a point I’ve asked the Lord “what is the lesson?” “What cost did I not count!?” Because I don’t like it…this has been thee most intense crush I’ve ever had and that man isn’t paying me no mind what so ever 🙃😭….I’ve asked the Lord to free me from the chokehold, free me from liking men in my city because to me it’s pointless….I just wanted to work out and mind my business…..and in walks through the door this guy 🙄…..y’all lift me up in prayer as I will do for those who are also being attacked by the “crush” spirit 😂
Try to workout at home until your forget about him. Avoid the temptation at all cost sis
I feel you girlĺlllll😢🫂
Sisss your comment is so real!! 😭 The questions, “what’s the point of this?” I’ve asked them too trust me!
God sees us in our distress over this hahah so I know that he will be faithful to bring us out! Even if we don’t understand it now or see the point, there must be something in this process that the Lord is pruning out of us. Lord, please strengthen us as your daughters to keep our eyes fixed on you! Help us to take these thoughts captive and make them obedient under Christ. We’re struggling 🥲. I pray this in Jesus name, Amen!!
AMEN 🙏 🕊 🔥
@@deborahbx_ AMEN!
CRAZY how time flies!! Why do I agree?! HOW do I EVEN remember that this time 6:09 IS less messy?! 👀
That’s so crazyyyy 😭😭😭
Please share your spotify playlist. Thank you
also, the podcast you recommend does not exist (not available)? is it region lock?
Ohhh here is the link to the audio book: open.spotify.com/show/6p76ZBVMzeJln24nYxrjK5?si=itfVyGuxR7iwrcO6tzHWtw
And my Spotify playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/5nsJXeOn50egTdbgoMgIis?si=yu4U5eu2SHK8mkAKwe8WWA&pi=e-WHz6hTTtQHSK
@@deborahbx_ Thank you
Girl you are not alone with the part about you not being your types type.😂 same here girl.
I love the blue on you!!
I'm loving this song jam love it😊❤❤❤❤😊
Thank you so much for this, Deborah! I’ve been meaning to ask, what are your christian playlists? ❤
Here is the Spotify playlist I usually listen to. I just keep adding to it so some songs are quite old haha open.spotify.com/playlist/5nsJXeOn50egTdbgoMgIis?si=yu4U5eu2SHK8mkAKwe8WWA&pi=e-WHz6hTTtQHSK
Love it here📍❤
🤍🫂 it’s such a blessing to have youuu
I don't understand why people try so hard to deny God being the one true God. All roads leads to Him, always.
Also, from the screen your hair doesn't look like a Mullet at all, your hair looks so full and healthy👌🏾.
Amen, we will be our Husband's type, so we don't need to stress all we have to do is wait for God to send him at the right time. Take care darling and have a blessed day🙏🏾💜🤗.
That blue top is sooo cute. It looks so good on you.
Thanks sis 🥹🤍
Sis Deborah what song did you use ❤🥹...it's so beautiful
It’s called Stability by AFTR! 🥰 I love itttt!!
@@deborahbx_oh I thought it was one of your songs 🤣💞
Liked how u talked abt the true answer earlier in the video. By the way, love ur hair
It's okay....you are human...u will always see someone you like...Just pray about it sis and yes I Know about that feeling when u really like the person and then no effort is being made via the other party
I am weaaaak 😂 - ths is my sign to TAKE DOWN my Christmas tree 😫 ; for ur beautifully healthy hair - pin or twist the top half til it grows out to ur liking. That healthy foundation is EVERYTHING ! I will be catching up on ur Eps - while I take it down 🙏🏼 bless u boníta 🩷
12 yrs ago, I prayed for a husband, and God answered my prayer by blessing me with a man that I THOUGHT initially wasn't my type. GOD knows Best. He knows what and who is best for us. I am so thankful that I trusted God, and I didn't lean on my own understanding. I gave my hubby a chance. Sometimes, we think we know what we like and are attracted to, but you really don't know until you experience something new. give it a try. Pray to God for your Kingdom husband. Ask him to prepare you for him. What you think is your type may not really be your type.
Dont throw the suitcase try pouring melted butter on the stuck button it might help ❤
Unfortunatley, I am an "obsessive crusher". When it gets to that point, I have to pray it off. I literally had to cut off contact with the dude by deactivating my Instagram until it passes (we don't even talk which makes it even more ridiculous)
Lol okay Cook, Deborah!! 😂
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the music along with this video is firee! Who is the artist?
The song at 3:03 is stability by AFTR
Debs stop playing games and drop the songs, I know it’s your voice 😂❤
loool it’s actually not my music!! 😂😂 the song is Stability by AFTR
Deborah that was a perfect analogy that you used to describe the True God in comparison to other religions. I will actually refer to that analogy when speaking to unbelievers that think all religion is the same. Thank you!!!
You’re not a hopeless romantic, you’re a hopeFUL romantic! The love that you want exists because God exists. God is love, love is real. Remain hopeful!!!!! ❤
Thank You for sharing @Deborah ❤❤❤❤❤
i love this 😊
Hi lovely Deborah, thank you for allowing us to see how a girl of the most high can feel some vulnerability about the "crush" you are experiencing. I know our Heavenly Father will guide you in his peace. Proud of you kido. The LORD is my shepherd, I lack NOTHING
I love the point you made about there being only one truth, even when other answers might look similar. It’s such an important reminder, especially in a world that often says all religions are the same. What makes Christianity so unique is that in every other religion, people are striving to earn their way to salvation or favor with God. But in Christianity, we have a God who came to us, took it upon Himself to save us, and calls us His children. It’s not about what we can do, but about what He has already done for us through Christ. That’s the beauty of the gospel-it’s entirely by grace. And girl about the crush? Same, girl same, 😂
Your hair loooooks lovely dearest.....and it suits u well👈🏿💗💗💗
There’s a devotional called the book of mysteries and it’s so amazing. During my quiet time this week, my devotional was about “the sheperdless” and it had me read Ezekiel 34:5-16 and i just wanted to cry 😭😭. Our Father is so good to us.
Pls 😂 I prayed it offffffff and I'm waiting for it to LEAVE. I stopped trying to push the feelings away and just confessing it to God and even the people in my circle. I found that for me, when I accepted it, it's been shrinking. I'm waiting for it blow away like the wind. 🤺God help us lol
May the Lord Jesus give you the victory !🔥🕊🌞🌈
Will u Eva drop ur music also Deborah I have a question for you basically today I was doing insomnia prayers and then I just closed my eyes for a bit and then it was like I was awake but asleep (not sleep paralysis) and I felt a powerful entity where I literally couldn’t move
usually when I get sleep paralysis
I could snap out of it and I feel scared but this one here was different I was vibrating heavy and a strong came out of my ear it was weird 😂😂😂 but I feel kinda lighter compared to before it happened
That’s so true about how being a good person is not enough. It’s very difficult to tell people about Jesus when their response is always “I just believe that if you’re a good person and do good things you’ll go to heaven.” All we can do is pray for them.
I found it funny though have the bin liners you picked up were called “refuse sacks” 😆 in Australia we just call them bin liners or rubbish bags haha are they all called that in England or was it just that brand?
I love Madison Ryan Ward!
I wasnt initially going to comment on this; but after seeing some comment I need to put my thoughts there as well
About the mullet, I don't see it. Even after you mentioning it. You look normal.
It' perhaps because you see yourself every day and every change / detail
Hi Deborah, do you have Ashley Hetherington's The Joy in Between devotional? It's sooo good☺...
GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS❣️
Sending love from the Philippines🇵🇭
I don’t have it yet but I’ve been wanting to pick it up!! Definitely will get it 🥰❤️ Thanks for the recommendation sis! It’s such a blessing to have you here from the Philippines! Sending much love backkk 🫂
Hi D, please can you be kind enough to drop the psalm Spotify link. Thank you
Here it is 🥰 open.spotify.com/show/6p76ZBVMzeJln24nYxrjK5?si=OEVhqxIvRtKc9N9_4kUJcg
@deborahbx_ thank you, but it's not opening. Perhaps it's region base
heyy Deborah! Just wondering if you still upload music? Would love to listen xx
I’m working on it 🤭🤍
Could someone link the audiobook on Spotify please 🙏🏼 couldn’t find it for the life of me
Here is the link! 🥰 open.spotify.com/show/6p76ZBVMzeJln24nYxrjK5?si=ITF7gmjMRAKE-89sO3Z9ww
@ tysm sis 🤎
what is that song in the beginning?
Sounds like Deborah singing and playing the guitar ❤
It’s called: Stability by AFTR 🤍
@@deborahbx_ thanks sis ❤️
@@Juliana_A_HThought it was her ❤😂
@TheAshleyDiaries-xoxo me too...a girl can dream, right? Deborah sings so good and I'm sure she could make beautiful music
Give details about your breakfast
It’s: coconut yoghurt, honey, granola, pomegranate, blueberries and peanut butter! :)
With the crush thing, i usually pray for God to take it away and if it doesn't go, which has been the case with me lately, then i just ignore it.
What’s your camera model?? God Bless! 🙏
Is this you singing!? So beautiful
Right! Im like she needs to go ahead and drop the song
It’s actually not me but I’m flattered you think it is 😂😭 The song is called: Stability by AFTR
When it comes to romance/crushes the same and I preyed the same thing 😅
There are not enough words to describe what the gift of excellent things do to me/creation. God is amazing. I love life because of this.
We are blessed, thank you Jesus.
This is after hearing the beautiful song arranged in this vlog
*This is about
A crush is just the devil trying to tempt you away from Jesus, he knows your weakness. Once you realise what it is, you can just bat it away ❤
i wonder, how much you rent apt?
Sis, what's the name of the song around 2:54? It's so beautiful! I'm grateful to God that you're well.
Stability by AFTR
Yesss such good advice sis, thank you so much 🙏🏽🤍🤍 and the song is Stability by AFTR ☺️
Hello Deborah I love your work❤ I hope this is not too sensitive if it is then I am really sorry you don't have to answer but would you ever visit Ghana for maybe a holy girls trip???
pleaseplease create a playlist for us in Spotify or YT
Your hair is not a mullet it’s a lion’s mane 🦁
Whew Listen Deborah I am right with you. I don’t think I’m not my types type either and the guys that approach are not my type 😅🤦🏾♀️
And it’s not just about outward appearance it’s about how they carry themselves etc but I digress.
Yess this 😭🙏🏽 We just have to stay patient. Trust our heavenly father’s timing. He has a plan even when we can’t see it 🤭
I prayed to God to take away any counterfeits on my journey. Pray consistently against the Spirit of lust. I am not saying that's your situation. God really answers and helps us with our little confusing emotions. Pray for the Spirit of discernment so that your spirit man can identify your husband and reject the counterfeits.
Hi! I was redirected when I was considering Christian content after filling up on secular content. Thank You, Holy Spirit! ✝️ I can feel/enjoy His presence here, and I am fully satisfied. It’s as Jesus says, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness [those who actively seek right standing with God], for they will be [completely] satisfied.” - Matthew 5:6 AMP
Cheers that I could turn back to your lovely channel! 🙌🌟 Best wishes, Deborah! 💜
First to be here 🥳
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