Ali Dawah & the Bitter Truth about Free Mixing
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2023
- Ali Dawah & the Bitter Truth about Free Mixing
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@HasaanKhanMusic Salam alaykum akhi. May Allah guide you to understanding of this religion.
@@AbuJamilah why did you say that to Hasan?
@@user-op8fg3ny3jBecause his comment infers that it's a personal issue with the brother, when it's not. They clearly speak in defense of the truth and clarifying it for the people, as the religion commands us to do.
@@AbuJamilah Oh, I thought you were taking issue that he had Music in his name
@@user-op8fg3ny3j Music and Musical instruments are definitely Haram. But no, I was not referring to that.
One side insults while the other brings the proofs from the Quran and Sunnah. Truly Allah guides who he wills. May Allah guide all of us and keep us firm upon the truth. aameen.
I like these brothers and the way they defend Islam. thank you guys.
I’m very grateful that a community of Muslims exist on social media that aren’t fuelled by dawah ‘drama’, memes, he said she said. But a community who minds their business, seeks to increase their eman and seeks ilm. بارك الله فيكم
Not seeking dawah money/youtube ad money and fame, this may be one of the most important
its sad because i completely stopped watching islamic yt videos for a long time because of that
@@manialand Avoid ali needs dawah and mohammad hijab. listen and follow scholars and students of knowledge
@@manialanddon’t stop , chose who to watch, it helps us learning, we cannot avoid internet bcz that is how it is , the word has changed, scholars are online , so it’s just to know who to learn from, who to listen to
@@HonestLady bruh in online video there nothing about knowledgeable for a student of knowledge. He should enroll in varius aqeeda courses if he knows arabic under masjid al haram or masjid un nabawi. They offers certificates also
As a new muslim living in the west I find matters like this extremely uncomfortable to see how people are making haram halal. The lifestyle I left behind me I sometimes feel like crying when I see how our deen is becoming, the fear that we go down that slippery slop just as we seen with Christianity now look where they are. May Allah guide each and every one of us and protect us from the finahs and keep us on the right path
That's what the prophet muhammad pbuh tell us that they will be people of his Ummah do that
Don’t worry at all, just know who to follow, who to learn from, in every society there are those kind of people, let’s just be wise
Man up
@@profs2981 "mAn uP" as if our prophet peace be upon him didn't shed tears out of fear and concern for his ummah. Do you have any gheera for your deen at all?
@@UmmFulaana not the same situation, shutup
I am glad this 'Free mixing' topic is being discussed. This topic is soo important for this generation. We have normalised free mixing soo much many muslims don't even know It's a sin.
I myself was born in a muslim family also in a muslim major country. And even i didn’t know that having boyfriend or even being friends with males is haram
I later found out about it in a islamic book written by an author of our country this book was solely targeted towards the youth regarding the common sins among youth.
So many young people will be guided by this conversation.
What is the name of the country?
@@randomlygeneratedname7171 Bangladesh
assalam aleykum 99% anime haram, includes music shirk haram
What's the name of the book about common sins of younger generations? I would like to read
@@TheMosayat It's name is 'Bela furabar aage' which means 'Before time runs out' it is from a Bangladeshi writer named Arif Ajad. I dunno if it has any English translation.
A must-watch. Seriously worth watching every second. May Allah bless brother Muhammad James and brother Saajid immensely for speaking out against this filth that’s been going on and for brother Muhammad James even writing a book about it. InshaAllah Ali-needs-Dawah actually reads the book with an open heart and finally comes to senses instead of ridiculing it like he does whenever brother Saajid gives absolutely based verbal naseehah. May Allah guide us all, ameen.
Also, the title that was chosen for the book is beyond accurate and couldn’t have been better.
I’m glad free mixing is going to be discussed more because a lot of people don’t really understand the rulings pertaining to free mixing. I myself wasn’t really aware of the danger of it since I was raised in the west. Most were taught that dating and zina were haram, but we weren’t aware of the fact that the things that may lead to these prohibitions like friendly chatting with the opposite gender for no beneficial reason is also haram even if you don’t desire to do evil like zina with that person. Growing up in the west it’s normalized to have friendly chats with people especially those from the opposite gender at school or work, but a lot of us aren’t aware that this is wrong even if you’re just trying to be nice and friendly.
exactly brother i couldnt agree with you more
Most people actually have never experienced the beauty and sweetness of segregation in Islam.
AD thing is nothing but only a byproduct of what we are teaching and normalizing in "Islamic Institutes".
Group discussions, group works, coffee chats etc. these all are shaping and normalizing these phenomena we are talking about.
Mainly because of celebrities like Yasir Qadhi and Omar Suleiman
Get out of the West asap, problem solved.
Very true
The small book on free mixing is very comprehensive and convincing. Noone can deny the proofs contained therein. It is a must for every Muslim home.
Amazing episode! Brother Sajid Lipham and brother Muhammad James are among the students of knowledge that are in the REAL front lines, guiding the misguided in the west and teaching the fundamentals of Islam. May Allah reward your efforts, Allahumma barek wa jazakumAllahu kheyran.
Unbelievable. Random unqualified people running around calling people who studied for close to a decade unqualified.
Its crazy, really is😂
Purchased my copy to support the hustle for the sake of Our Creator. These brothers are our hardworking neighbors and are beneficial to our society beyond what’s visible to us. May Allah bless you brothers for sharing the knowledge with us.
My copy of the book arrived today
@@TheConservativeUmmi how was it?
@@Fortheshows I learned so much about proper etiquette for myself, a must buy if you want to grow and learn towards the truth.
One of the major issues with UA-cam personalities is pride. Simply pride... The notoriety and following goes to people's heads. Once humility and responsibility come second to pride, a person will not hear truth.
Ali dawah saying anyone is unqualified is ironic
That man and his crew needs Da'wah. May Allah keep us firm upon Qur'an and Sunnah as it was understood by salaf-as-salih. Ameen
This is something that is self evident. No one will feel comfortable in such a free mixed environment discussing such topics. They wonder why they are having all the problems they discuss on the show yet they don’t realize they’re part of the problem with their behavior. The commands of Allah azzawa jal and his messenger sallaahu alayhi wa salam are clearer than glass yet some Muslims choose to feign ignorance when even their own fitrah is telling them otherwise.
I am glad brother Muhammed brought up the front line topic . The real people on the front line are those who are seeking knowledge and teaching it.
To those repeatedly telling Saajid to ''make peace'' with Ali, what do you want from Saajid?
It seems like you want Saajid to just keep quiet about Ali's major blunders that he has made in PUBLIC -- how many miskeen and ignorant Muslims have now gotten the impression that free mixing is something that is permissible because of his baffling talk show? How many brothers and sisters will now think that it's permissible to talk to the opposite sex in such a manner?
Someone has to clarify the truth now because Ali has an influence on people -- many people will look up to him and see him as an example; hence when he makes blunders like this and makes no effort to retract, he must be refuted publically
I would recommend you to watch ali dawahs response to saajid lipham in sp files
so we can criticise other da'ee because they are public figures but the same cannot be applied for "Muslim" leaders?
@@likop8799 that is the must filthiest dawah channel
I've ever seen.
@@likop8799So, how many times did he call Saajid a backstabber on that video?
@@user-op8fg3ny3j Touché 😅.
Something that’s so interesting is that when I first started to take my deen seriously I was super over zealous and would enjoy this type drama. Sometimes I would tell my dad about it and he would always tell me that this brings no benefit to the person, and that my time would be well spent gaining real knowledge from the Quran, Sunnah, and the scholars of the past. So InshAllah I hope that the internet dawah culture can move from this negativity and start to teach the people knowledge that will truly benefit them and make the ummah better and stronger
Asalamualaikum the same happened to me too.
May Allah grant us the knowledge that would benefit us in this life and the life after.
Brother’s beard is no joke
Allahumma baarik!
Love how the other brother says it hurts to have to come out and address this situation, this is the type of character or love we need to have when calling others out, showing love and not beefing and holding bitterness and resentment for others.
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1) Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone. Each time one reads from it you gain.
2) Donate a wheelchair to a hospital. Each time a sick person uses it you gain.
3) Participate in building a masjid.
4) Place a watercooler in a public space.
5) Plant a tree. You gain whenever a person or an animal sits in it's shade or eat from it.
6) And the easiest of all, share this message with people.
That's genius
Alhamdullilah Rabbil Al Amin, may Allah Subhanalllah wa Ta'Ala, make you both and your families from those who enter Jannatul Firdous....Aameen.....I love you brothers for the sake of Allah, and as always if there is anything I can do to help reach out. Looking forward to next week's khutbah akhi.... BarakAllah fikum JazakAllah Khiyrn
4:35 May Allah bless your son and make all other children have that Fitrah and save us from the Fitna of freemixing. Aameen
MH and Ali Dawa are emotional people. If you try to correct them, for them, it becomes personal. May Allah guide them.
I listen to Ali and I listen to you guys a huge difference between a ignorant it and knowledgeable This is a great book comes at the right time. Thank you for it.
I watch Ali Dawah's videos often, but I always felt like something was wrong about the Bitter show deep down inside, so I only watched the first one and never after that. Old voice-only online discussions were great when it came to hearing out the sister's perspective on issues pertaining to them, but once the mixing started, it just never felt right.
it is replica maron and fit and similar shows
I love when these two come together and spit the truth!
The bitter truth
Pun intended?
Brother and Sheikh Ibn James Sutton Masha Allah destroyed Ali needs Daawah. I hope this discussion will be a big wake up call for our brother Ali needs Daawah. and Jazak Allah Khayr brother Sajid and Sheikh Ibn James for enlightening Muslims on the menace of free mixing
Alhamdulillah, only just earlier today I bought brother Muhammed Sutton's Ramadan book in the U.K.
May Allah bless both these brothers in this life and the next.
how would they feel if their sisters are sitting in a room with bunch of other men?
Look at Brother Saajids face.... He's like "tell them brother, please tell them".
Mash' Allah, well said brothers. I stopped watching Ali Dawah show because it made me feel so angry and uncomfortable. They would only undermine the sisters and make them look ridiculous. I believe that's the main objective of the show. To wipe-out feminism and put Muslim women in their place.
Subhana'Allah Me too
Same here. I remember a reaction video he made to FnF & Sneako a while back in which he claimed religiously zina is the same for both men and women, but socially it's not. I was like wow. Someone seems to be ok with jahilah all of a sudden. It just made me sick hearing him say that. I thought as Muslims we're supposed to be following deen, NOT whats socially acceptable. So to even mention that is disgusting.
This explains how he's so comfortable with such provocative behaviors because he thinks it's socially acceptable for him since he's a man. Also, I do not see him the same way I see reverts who come from a non-Muslim family. It's one thing for someone to stumble across Islam by the will of Allah or to be guided back to the deen, but it's another thing when someone had their fun and they want to feel "safe". You can tell by his behaviors that he still has a long way to go in turns of haya. May Allah guide him.
Totally agree but he is not from a muslim family. His father was actually agnostic and hated Islam @@-glitch-8195 . But I agree, may Allah purify him from jahiliyya
@@-glitch-8195your literally saying one thing and then arguing another.
He didnt even say we should follow what is socially exceptable or imply that but zina socially being worse for women than men is the truth.
Unlike men women get pregnant which is gonna be much worse socially than what would happen to a men.
@@mehmet20003 Zina is not socially acceptable for men. The men who claim its socially acceptable have made it acceptable themselves. The only other people who think that way are others who are like them. His page is filled with the same arguments you made solely coming from brothers…who are like him. He doesn't need to say anything for verbatim. His actions are very telling. Any practicing brother who knows the severity of Zina, its impact on society, the shame and pain it causes would never ever make such arguments, or even entertain the idea of it being “acceptable” for him. That is the issue with one dimensional “logical” thinking.
The other point you made with regards to men and women being “different” is also silly. Obviously we’re different, but not when it comes to sin or its effects on society. Women today have access to birth control, so there goes your “women can get pregnant though” argument. Lastly, there are plenty of people calling out Ali and those like him with regards to provocative behaviors, but he is choosing to ignore those people. So no, its not socially acceptable for anyone to behave like a degenerate. Those who accept it socially are misguided and their metrics are not the only ones in society.
JazakAllah Khair brothers. May Allah bless you abundantly, preserve you, and multiply your good deeds.
This book is so needed in our time, you are doing a fantastic job, may Allah reward you both in jannah al firdous
The scholars used to welcome critics, because they would show them their faults, and when this happened they would have a chance to elevate and become better, they used to thank thier enimies/critics for their insight, mistakes would humble them... the difference between them and people now. Subanallah. This reminds me of the "100 lines of poetry on manners" which was taught by my ustadh Abu Taymiyyah, may Allah preserve the author and my teacher, furthermore, you too brother sajid
jazakAlalh khairan brothers! May Allah bless and reward you and your loved ones, supporters and teachers! please keep sharing your projects and works because they are very beneficial and I share them with my students! My students LOVE your "Name that Prophet" series, I use it as candy to reward them at the end of Islamic studies classes!!! I didn't even know about these books you mentioned. May Allah give you continued barakah in your time and efforts and success and rewards!
It shows the current condition of most muslims, we are more interested in drama and entertainment rather than good beneficial knowledge and improve our Iman. May Allah protect and guide us all.
Subhan Allah im really impressed with brothers like yourselves who not only grew up in the West but were not muslim to begin with. Zinah would have been easy for you. It would have been encouraged even. And now you speak in a manner that would make anyone think you've been muslim all your lives and grew up in a household of ilm. May Allah grant you both success in this life and in the next.
Jazakallahu Khayran for the reminder. It was very benificial
It's very easy to notice a scholarly response compared to an ignorant response. Jazaakallaah khayr.
Very important reminder, jazakumu Allahu khayran both of you. It's easy for free mixing to become normalised and we lose track of how far we've got led into very dangerous situations.
BarakAllah feekum I've just ordered this book as gifts
May Allah bless you both !
58:11 brother Saajid. You almost went the whole hour without laughing at any of the funny comments made. 😂😂😂. Allah bless you bro.
Not only that, let's not forget the online virtual podcasts between non-mahram men and women under the guise of talks on "Islamic Journey" and what not. Unnecessary "Islamic" talks like this have somewhat become a justification for non-mahram brothers and sisters to free-mix (intermingle) with no lowering of gazes or haya at all.
So many of those podcasts were free mixing is happening. It happens step by step till the believers follow the unbelievers even to lizard 🦎 hole. Imagine this.
@@shankaroont4959Exactly!
Buying the book right now!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Brother ali , why send brother sajid to madinah uni , why not go to it yourself my dear brother, no joke .
Perhaps you dawah could do even more better after studying there
Jazakallah khair
May Allah reward you brothers for speaking on something which is so basic yet violated by so many today.
JazakaAllah khair definitely I'll get this book soon may Allah accept your all efforts for Deen Ameen
Thank you brothers. May Allah give you the highest reward!
Allah humma baarik bros, I was in need of this good reminder.
Wallahi many of our western brothers were killed in Dammaj with the war against the houthies in yemen. While Ali needs Da'wah and his like sit comfortably in their homes trying to figure out what his next clickbait would be
This is something those individuals that haven't left the comfort of their homes in the West will never understand.
So true :( May Allah have mercy upon their souls
May Allah reward you, my brothers Saajid and Muhammad.
I respect you two brothers for addressing this issue. I myself had an ill feeling when I first came across scenes of free-mixing in the brother’s videos. Like you described, it goes against the fitra. Jazakum Allah Khair.
جزاك الله خيرا
May Allah bless you for your speaking the haqq, and for your patience. Important reminder and warning for the masses who are deceived by celebrity bloggers whose main fuel appears to be emotion
I will definitely buy the book for my children who are English speaking kids just to be ahead of the curve Inshaa’ Allaah.
This needed to be done and it needs to be done more … brothers are hijacking our religion
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته أحبكم في الله يا إخوتاه بارك الله فيكم و وفقكم و سدد خطاكم
masha'allah tabark Allah! A very praiseworthy video than many people can get benefit from. I really hope that this gets to the followers of brother Ali D so they can see for themselves that there is nothing personal between him and Brother Saajid, and that the truth is right in front of us, so we shouldn't look the other way and go after our desires. I would like to thank brother Saajid and brother (uncle) Mohammad James for giving the time and effort to publish the book of bitter truth. May Allah make its message reach as many of our brothers and sisters, Ameen. Honestly, I was so annoyed and frustrated with my job as a physical therapist and tried many times to leave it for another profession, but watching this video and hearing your words about the sacrifices and hardships which a muslim must endure as he/she remembers the afterlife and the reward of Allah made me think about my profession as a Jihad that I have to accept and embrace with gratitude . And it is true! I used to watch many videos about the so called '' Dawah Entertainment '' before, but after coming across the channels of good and authentic Duaat like you brother Saajid, I just left those channels for good because I really didn't feel any need to watch their videos anymore. Jazakum Allah Khairan May Allah reward you in abundance, Ameen
The fact that you have to write a book explaining the "hurma" of freemixing demonstrates the extent of غربة and fitna in our time و الله المستعان و عليه التكلان و هو حسبنا و نعم الوكيل
Wallahi brothers i love u for the sake of allah swt, i have been ranting for a few years that our brothers upon salafiyah need to discuss this topic and mashallah both of u brothers have may allah swt keep our intentions sincere
Lol in the from lines. What general put mr dawah on the front lines..if Ali is on the front lines we're in trouble 😂
What hurts the most is Mohammed Hijab is not stopping him.
you think he would ever do that these ppl love fame
@@PatientSalafihe is all words and fists .... Allahul musta'an
The fact that some extremist attack abu taymiyah and ali dawah use that incident to slander against saajid is unbelievable. How can a muslim do that?
Allahumma baarik. Ustadh Muhammad is raising a righteous son.
Alhamdulillah I will get the book 📖 ❤❤❤insha Allah ❤❤❤the truth must be told
Great video brother. May Allah reward you!
Masha Allah, I look forward to reading this book. A part of me felt what the bitter truth podcast was not halal. The topics are not relevant to modern day issues. It sheds a negative light on our ummah. Thank you for this video.
Somebody should openly ask Ali... what his qualifications are; where did he study Islam formally?
I’m late to the game with the drama and fitnah that’s been going on, but just based on Ali and Sajid’s demeanor and the way they speak, I know whose side I take.
asalamu alaykum sister, i mean well, but i believe the ulema advise against sisters from having a picture up, even in niqab. May Allah bless you for wearing it.
You guys are way too nice, may Allah be pleased with you , a person that calls something that is haram , halal , falls out of the religion once it has been clearly explained to them. This is the reality.
A person said "(Allahuakbar)" later he said "(Subhanallah)" and after that he said "(Alhamdulillah)" he again said "(Allahummagfirli)" he also said (la ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin) in this way those individuals who truly intended to praise Allah swt and meant the words then, he earned many many good deeds and that person is you...
Wrong. A person must intend to praise Allah for it to count as a praise.
Just reading a comment to know what the comment is saying, the reader is not praising Allah (the Exalted) themselves but is reading what someone else is saying. If they say it after that with the intention of praising, that will count.
If i write, "Someone said I love you".
When you read that, you are not saying that you love me, you are reading what I just wrote.
More importantly, understanding terms and their explanations is more meaningful. For example learning about the attributes of Allah (the Majestic).
Shaykh bilal Philips has a playlist for this if anyone wants to learn.
I didn't read what you wrote in your previous comments, that means If I don't you lied. Please delete this
Jajakallah fi kum for your concerns and if I am in the wrong thanks for correcting me.. Allah swt knows the best..
May Allah the almighty accept from me and you..
@@mirazsultan5994if you can fix the previous ones, even if its tedious(intend it for Allah subhanahu wa taala). may Allah guide you
It boils my blood that someone can talk about brothers who have studied in Madinah in such a filthy way while they have not themselves went, then say that those brothers are the "uneducated" ones and "backstabbers". Brother Saajid I wish I could have the patience you do to have never lost your cool on video while facing such nasty slander, may Allah accept from you. May Allah make apparent who is right and who is wrong, and dear muslims, just by the character of these brothers you can see who is right and who is a fool.
بارك الله فيكم ونفع الله بكم الأمة
Appreciate this
بارك الله فيكم جميعا
جزاك الله خيرا ❤
وفقك الله يا أخانا محمد جيمس وبارك فيك وفي علمك ونفع بك الإسلام والمسلمين.
Barakallahu feekum Aameen ❤
من أفضل المقاطع لك الصراحة
JazakALLAH Khairan Katheera success Aameen YARABB
Akhi sajeed. I have critized some of your videos before of lacking a deep ilem content on recent conversational topics. This video was amazing a knowledge based approach by a worthy scholar and a very good podcast overall.
جزاكم الله خيرا و اسال الله ان يهدينا و إياكم
Thank you 🌹
Subhanallah May Allah save us
I used to think previously that Saajid was exaggerating cause i rarely listened to Ali. But I just clicked on Ali's channel and was met with an in-video explicit ad for sex performance drug for males and females. I mean c'mon... Ali needs to check himself. It's not personal -- as even i used to think before. Swallow the pride and own up to the wrong.
But I would prefer to see less videos about him and more about actual beneficial content though please. Most of your recent videos are about this subject.
I agree with the second paragraph absolutely. No need to give AD more attention. Just spread the correct knowledge and truth will be clear from falsehood.
Barakallahu feekum.
Random but does anyone remember the Saajacast podcasts. I used to love listening to them. Really enjoy your content
I'm glad you made this video can't believe his saying its not free mixing unbelievable
All praise belong to Allah.
We donot overpraise anyone above allah
But I'm so happy wallahi that our muslim english brothers are teaching us the laym Muslim the truth and it's not from a pakistani or arab
Mashallah brother sajid
Machallah, The American brothers are on the rise insjallah !!
I'll give you guys a bit of naseeha. One thing people who speak out against zina always do is jumping onto the most extreme consequence of bastard children. The thing that they miss is the fact that romantic relationships stay with you mentally. If you did zina with multiple partners and then settled down. The person you settled down with will always be judged to the standard of previous people.
There will always be other people in your mind when doing things with your spouse (the most important being romantic and affectionate things) and a precedent set which shouldn't be.
Mentally whether you literally think of the person there are already multiple people in your relationship when you have these elicit relationships or friendships. I already suffer from a little bit of this after meeting some women for matrimony purposes: in a halal way with mahram before people knee jerk 🙄. They didn't work out but the disappointment of that is still in my mind every day and I always work hard to try and approach each discussion with a fresh mindset. With zina this would be infinitely more pronounced
"they haven't accepted Islam in the way the were supposed to accept Islam in the first place". this statement explains the whole of Islamic reformation in our Ummah sadly happening due to western influence, may Allah ta'Ala protect us from it and put us on the deen that was revealed to our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Ameen.
About time someone addresses this issue ! Barak Allahu fikum!
It's sickening ! May Allah protect us. Free mixing has been trivialized , normalized, it's not a big deal for most muslims yet it is a HUGE thing in the deen of Islam!
His show is very cringe and I pray Allah guides him and his associates
جزاكم الله خيرا
Allhumdulilah!!❤
I don't understand who listen to ali dawah who didn't study islam yet may Almighty Allah guide us and protect us. Ameen
اللهم احفظ من اتبع الكتاب و السنة و اهل الحديث
This is very true.
I learnt a lot from this conversation and kudos to the brother for completing this book on so important a topic.
However, I have to add that while I can not fault Brother Saajid's attempt to correct Ali Daawa's method of hosting free mixing panel discussions, I believe it might have yielded a different reaction and result altogether if Brother Saajid had first tried to contact Ali Daawa privately first, especially as the latter did not publicly try to defend free mixing publicly before Brother Saajid's intervention.
Of course, I'm not saying Ali Daawa's defence of free mixing is in any way defensible, but considering that our egos can sometimes get the better of us, I believe trying to resolve some of these issues might have a different and positive result with someone who might have been doing a wrongful act out of ignorance or mistake...
Doing dawah stalls and speakers corner isn't front lines, especially speakers corner which pollute you with bad etiquettes and manners. And for Ali to call Sajid a backstabber, it would require ali to bring evidence that there was a mutual understanding or agreement that if Ali ever made a mistake then Sajid would advise him privately. If Ali can't provide such evidence then better for him is to be silent and not fall into qawl al-zuur. Other than this, Ali doesn't possess a special priveledge that his public mistakes must only be addressed privately, This isn't some ikhwani fraternity. If you err then you will be corrected, take the haqq from the advise and leave the rest. But if you want call people backstabber then you might be from those whom Allah said 'and when he is told to fear Allah, he is arrogant in sin'.